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    Any Advice? - So here is my situation. I am recently divorced as is my friend. We have acutally been friends for several years, and he was actually friends with my ex first. We...
    adoty61299 adoty61299 31-35 3 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    Am I Missing Out...i Want To Know. - Other half has had "friends with benefits" for almost 20 of 22 yrs of marriage. So I want to experience the same rush or whatever happens. Its...
    outmymind outmymind 41-45, M 9 Responses Oct 27, 2011

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    We Were Friends With Benefits For A While - Back in the day, before the expression "Friends with Benefits" became common or popular, we developed a bit of a thing between us. It...
    studfinder studfinder 56-60, M Apr 15, 2012

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    Its Too Complicated - Well, for starters we’re human, so that means we naturally tend to develop closer binds with people that we feel intimate with. Eventhough we have the power...
    jazzME jazzME 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    He Said "its Only For Fun" I Said "no Strings Attached" - I met this guy in the pub..i was drunk and so he was. i guess i was too flirty that night coz i haven't really been out...
    perfectlysingle perfectlysingle 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2012

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    Friend In The Navy - She was about 23, I 21. We live in the same housing unit and, on occasion, were delpoyed on the same ship or found one another in ports-of-call around the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 19, 2012

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    Is This All Wrong?! - I have a friend named Sean. He's my friend with benefits and we've been benefitting from each other for about 4 months now. Read my blog for more infor...
    Danyush Danyush 22-25 1 Response Jun 22, 2009

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    Looking For One... - Looking for other who are making this work... while I try to find a FWB for myself...
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 29, 2010

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    Lost My Friend With Benefit And Don’t Know What To Do? - I guess I should be happy for my friend. He and his girlfriend are finally in a good place. But it leaves me out in the...
    someday59 someday59 51-55, F 6 Responses Jul 7, 2010

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    Friends Flashing Boobs - About 5 years ago i went to a music festival with about 8 mates. All of us male. after arriving and setting up our tents and getting the beers out a...
    mfe2007mfe mfe2007mfe 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 1, 2010

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    Friends W/Benefits Relationship Not Consummated Yet And He Is Already Ignoring Me!! - OK, well I guess I messed up big time by playing a little game, but before I start let me tell...
    blueicephoenix77 blueicephoenix77 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2013

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    We meet for coffee this morning, it's great to see him. His smile is contagious as he walks up to me. We chat for a long time and he asks me if I want to go for a ride. Someplace...
    Erotic2 Erotic2 36-40 2 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Looking For Fwb In Norcal - anyone from Northern California looking for a FWB relationshsip? I'm unhappily married but not willing to change that at the moment but do miss the...
    CalMan09 CalMan09 36-40, M Jun 10, 2010

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    Were Are Your Friends With Benefits? - We talk about having friends with benefits and some do have them. What about those people who want such friends and don't have any? Are you...
    Nitehowl Nitehowl 56-60, M 7 Responses Mar 2, 2011

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    First Time - Throbbing, slithering, my **** inside her I felt her warm wetness.
    crocaw crocaw 70+, M Aug 3, 2012

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    Dislike Being Friends With Benefits And I Am Still In Love With Ex - I have been seeing a guy for about 2 months. We haven't decided on being together but have talked about. The...
    singulargirl singulargirl 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 9, 2013

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    Looking In Lewisville Texas - I am looking for a friend with benefits in the North Dallas, Lewisville area. If anyone is interested drop me a note.
    jeff9542000 jeff9542000 46-50, M Feb 15, 2010

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    **** Me Hard - Need someone in the north east of England who can **** me hard and if your good enough u might get something back. Needs to be a boy and a teenager kik me at...
    Ollyfuzzlexx1234567890 Ollyfuzzlexx1234567890 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8, 2013

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    Perfectly Imperfect. - I had gotten out of a pretty horrible relationship last year... I was with a man named Jay... who I thought loved me. But in all actuality didn't at all...
    phoenixlight phoenixlight 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2012

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    I have a very good friend and he is my lover with benefits here. We have been living together with lots of benefits for over 25 years. It is called marriage.
    sexywhitefemale sexywhitefemale 46-50, F 5 Responses Jan 24

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    Wanna Play? - So I had just got done folding my laundry and was rewarding myself with an ice cream cone, when as I was eating my ice cream cone the doorbell rang. I went to see who...
    angelidevil angelidevil 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    The Fwb That Wasn't...or Was She? - It all started in the final months of my Freshman Year in high school. I suddenly went from "Girls are Scum" to "Girls Are Awesome" seemingly...
    DigguhPhelpz DigguhPhelpz 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 19, 2010

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    Doesn't Everybody?,g - I guess my best friends have always been women--well, girls when I was a kid--and I've also been attracted to most of them. Sometimes the attraction comes...
    BuckFuddy BuckFuddy 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 26, 2009

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    Married And Want A Friend With Benefits - I have been married for 20 yrs and love my wife a great deal. About 8 years ago she shut down in the bedroom completely. I am a very...
    guido73 guido73 36-40, M Sep 17, 2013

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    In Pain - I've been in a fwb for almost 2yrs now. We met at work & had been great friends for over 5yrs now. We have really good chemistry from the beginning but are not ready to...
    ConfusedLilOne ConfusedLilOne 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2012

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    Is There More To This Or Am I Just Imaging? - At a point in my life where I wasn't really wanting the demands of a serious relationship, I met this guy online for a Friends With...
    Silver4905 Silver4905 36-40 1 Response May 7, 2012

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    Me And Helena - 2 years ago I was with this girl named Helena. We didn't really date but it seemed like we did. It was like an opened relationship. She was dating another guy...
    DeeJayKelvin DeeJayKelvin 18-21, M Feb 17, 2010

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    Love FWB - The best sex of my life I had with a friend.  I'm sure sex with someone you love is great, but all I can say is if I waited to fall in love I'd be very sexually...
    sallysimpson sallysimpson 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    She's Out There - Touch. The essence of life. The non-verbal communication that imparts more information to the brain than nearly anything else. The touch of a hand in mine makes...
    ThreeDecadesAlone ThreeDecadesAlone 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 23, 2012

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    No Strings This Time - Back to the days when i was still in highschool i had a gf that lasted about a year, it was my longest so far. We been through alot and etc. And time came...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 17, 2013

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    Sounds Great, But... - ...isn't this just another way of saying "sleeping around"?  Perhaps a bit more upscale version of the "free love" mantra of the hippies back in the '60s?
    emce emce 66-70, M Feb 24, 2012

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    We'll See What The Future Brings - Well, i'm 16 years old and i've been friends with a guy for 2 years now, well not just friends but really bestfriends.. When we first met we fell...
    Sweetteen16 Sweetteen16 16-17 Nov 5, 2010

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    Party Chemistry - During college there was a time when my girlfriend lived in a place upstairs from a restaurant near campus, where there were 20 or so rooms rented to different...
    ninecats ninecats 56-60 Jul 8, 2013

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    It Is Not Wrong. - I have had three friends with benefits. These are men I did not want a longterm thing with at all. I was horny and did not want to date. I was younger and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 7, 2010

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    I Enjoy My Fwbs - I have had a FWB for awhile now but it isn't working out. He lives to far away for us to get together more than once a month or so and then it iw very rushed...
    DiscreetlyPlaying DiscreetlyPlaying 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 22, 2009

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    A Friend Who Might Want More.. What Do You Think? - A few months ago, I was introduced to this guy by a mutual friend. We connected on FaceBook and I really needed some friend...
    Danyush Danyush 22-25 6 Responses Jun 8, 2009

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    Lonely - i am in a marriage where i am been sexually starved. Our libidos are different thus am the one suffering. I am really interested in friends with benefits.
    ray2000 ray2000 41-45, M 2 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    Friend With Benefits Or More? - i have been involved with this guy "jorge"since 2006...we had worked together back then, were friends and used to only flirt (i was...
    knu122 knu122 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 4, 2009

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    Same Sex Friends With Benefits - Id like to meet another female that has wondered about being with another woman. I love watching women on women movies and want a friend with...
    soccermom1983 soccermom1983 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 25, 2012

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    Friends With Benefits Gone Wrong - I met this woman awhile ago as I rolled through Starbucks for my morning caffeine kick. She was a barista there. I finally got the nerve up to...
    lotusdrop lotusdrop 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 28, 2011

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    At least once in my life, I want a friends with benefits. It could be fun, who knows.
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 12 Responses Mar 25

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    Ihave a good friend with benefits. We are both enjoying despite having this relationship as an affair since we both have official lovers. We see each other in sneaking and escaping...
    feebiechichi feebiechichi 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    We started a week ago and it's been quite the experience. He's too rough and is always trying to go further than I want. Ugh he's cute but I don't want to do this anymore with him...
    unthinkablesoul unthinkablesoul 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I was first friends with my boyfriend and we were fooling around before we started dating seriously and we tried but it didn't work. It has been 3 years now and after breaking up...
    Lovelifee22 Lovelifee22 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I love the benefits that my friend gives me & I give her wish there was more fun people
    tom1851 tom1851 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    I'm looking fir a lady friend in NC. I'd like to have someone to talk to, and just have fun as well as mutually satisfy each other as our needs arise. I want full disclosure...
    largemuscledmale largemuscledmale 36-40, M Mar 18

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    Female friends wanted if interested add and message
    oneperson93 oneperson93 18-21, M Mar 23

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    I live in the uk and I am lookin for female friends, I am bisexual I have met some lovely people on here all American tho would love to meet people with the possibility of meeting...
    Nicby Nicby 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    My FWB want to try having fun with a bi girl she really likes the idea & I'm cool but were to find someone & someone discreet ?
    tom1851 tom1851 46-50, M Mar 18

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    We met when we was a sophomore at High School, and now we're both a junior. We've been doing this for months. He was my first kiss. We didn't have sex, both of us decided that we...
    kidrauhl101 kidrauhl101 13-15, M Mar 18

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