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I Friends With Benefits

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 372 People

    Dislike Being Friends With Benefits And I Am Still In Love With Ex

    I have been seeing a guy for about 2 months. We haven't decided on being together but have talked about. The decision for us to have casual sex just happened it wasn't planned out. I am honestly feeling like I have made a horrible decision ever sleeping with this man after a year...
    singulargirl singulargirl
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 9, 2013

    Friends With Benefits Gone Wrong

    I met this woman awhile ago as I rolled through Starbucks for my morning caffeine kick. She was a barista there. I finally got the nerve up to give her my number. Well turned out she had a girlfriend at the time. So I behaved and never hit on her or any stupid ****. They were...
    lotusdrop lotusdrop
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jun 28, 2011

    I have a very good friend

    and he is my lover with benefits here. We have been living together with lots of benefits for over 25 years. It is called marriage.
    sexywhitefemale sexywhitefemale
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Jan 24, 2014

    Perfectly Imperfect.

    I had gotten out of a pretty horrible relationship last year... I was with a man named Jay... who I thought loved me. But in all actuality didn't at all. With that being said it took be a while to let him go. I went about my life... moved on and even dated around.I live in New...
    phoenixlight phoenixlight
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 28, 2012

    Am I Missing Out...i Want To Know.

    Other half has had "friends with benefits" for almost 20 of 22 yrs of marriage. So I want to experience the same rush or whatever happens. Its not a payback or a way to punish. Everyones doing it right politicians, lawyers , doctors, wives. So what have I been missing out on for...
    outmymind outmymind
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Oct 27, 2011

    First Time

    Throbbing, slithering, my **** inside her I felt her warm wetness.
    crocaw crocaw
    70+, M
    Aug 3, 2012

    The Fwb That Wasn't...or Was She?

    It all started in the final months of my Freshman Year in high school. I suddenly went from "Girls are Scum" to "Girls Are Awesome" seemingly overnight. By the time my sophomore year ended, I noticed that as soon as my attitude about females changed, the more female friends I...
    DigguhPhelpz DigguhPhelpz
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 19, 2010

    Same Sex Friends With Benefits

    Id like to meet another female that has wondered about being with another woman. I love watching women on women movies and want a friend with benefits to gang out with and explore with. Why is it so hard?
    soccermom1983 soccermom1983
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 25, 2012

    Looking For Fwb In Norcal

    anyone from Northern California looking for a FWB relationshsip? I'm unhappily married but not willing to change that at the moment but do miss the companionship and sex.
    CalMan09 CalMan09
    36-40, M
    Jun 10, 2010

    Is There More To This Or Am I Just Imaging?

    At a point in my life where I wasn't really wanting the demands of a serious relationship, I met this guy online for a Friends With Benefits kind of arrangement. I asked if we could meet first and there was an instant attraction for both of us. Sex with him was AMAZING from the...
    Silver4905 Silver4905
    1 Response May 7, 2012

    In Pain

    I've been in a fwb for almost 2yrs now. We met at work & had been great friends for over 5yrs now. We have really good chemistry from the beginning but are not ready to be commited. I had just got out of a 12yr relationship & he had problems with his "baby mamas." I've always...
    ConfusedLilOne ConfusedLilOne
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 29, 2012

    Friends W/Benefits Relationship Not Consummated Yet And He Is Already Ignoring Me!!

    OK, well I guess I messed up big time by playing a little game, but before I start let me tell you that I am someone who got out of a really bad marriage (he almost killed me) so I am not looking to have a committed relationship in a very long time, but I am open to a fwb...
    blueicephoenix77 blueicephoenix77
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 6, 2013

    **** Me Hard

    Need someone in the north east of England who can **** me hard and if your good enough u might get something back. Needs to be a boy and a teenager kik me at ollyd1234 thanks hope ill be see u soon behind my bum ******* me xxxxx
    Ollyfuzzlexx1234567890 Ollyfuzzlexx1234567890
    22-25, F
    Jul 8, 2013

    Were Are Your Friends With Benefits?

    We talk about having friends with benefits and some do have them. What about those people who want such friends and don't have any? Are you willing to make yourself available to become such a friend? Are you afraid of what you might find out there? More than half the time people...
    Nitehowl Nitehowl
    56-60, M
    5 Responses Mar 2, 2011

    Love FWB

    The best sex of my life I had with a friend.  I'm sure sex with someone you love is great, but all I can say is if I waited to fall in love I'd be very sexually frustrated.
    sallysimpson sallysimpson
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Nov 4, 2009

    Married man looking

    for another I am in the Matthews, NC area Favorite activities are safe and mild I am mostly smooth and like others that way. Share pics, thoughts and hopefully meet
    jscott3320 jscott3320
    56-60, M
    Apr 4, 2016

    This story is about my co worker.

    She have neen on and off with a guy sge says for 3 yrs.The thing is he pops in and out her life.They vet together foe amazing sex but then she says ahe dont hear from gim in like maybw 6 mos. He always had hos own place .This past week they hooked after she git off work which...
    Lisa1471 Lisa1471
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 1, 2016

    Lost My Friend With Benefit And Don’t Know What To Do?

    I guess I should be happy for my friend. He and his girlfriend are finally in a good place. But it leaves me out in the cold. Now I have no one. He no longer wants to **** me, no longer wants to see to me, and no longer wants to talk to me. I have lost the only person that...
    someday59 someday59
    56-60, F
    4 Responses Jul 7, 2010

    Sounds Great, But...

    ...isn't this just another way of saying "sleeping around"?  Perhaps a bit more upscale version of the "free love" mantra of the hippies back in the '60s?
    deleted deleted
    Feb 24, 2012

    Any Advice?

    So here is my situation. I am recently divorced as is my friend. We have acutally been friends for several years, and he was actually friends with my ex first. We first hooked up in January of this year. We have several friends in common and hang out during the weekends. We...
    adoty61299 adoty61299
    3 Responses Dec 26, 2011

    It Is Not Wrong.

    I have had three friends with benefits. These are men I did not want a longterm thing with at all. I was horny and did not want to date. I was younger and divorced from my first husband. I only wanted a man to come over and lay me good. A lot of women ask if it is wrong. We get...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 7, 2010

    She's Out There

    Touch. The essence of life. The non-verbal communication that imparts more information to the brain than nearly anything else. The touch of a hand in mine makes it hard for me to think of anything else. I have had affairs in the past. I didn't want to have any more because i...
    Drummer1013 Drummer1013
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Nov 23, 2012

    Looking For One...

    Looking for other who are making this work... while I try to find a FWB for myself...
    JRSK007 JRSK007
    51-55, M
    1 Response Jan 29, 2010

    No Strings This Time

    Back to the days when i was still in highschool i had a gf that lasted about a year, it was my longest so far. We been through alot and etc. And time came that we had to broke up. Years later, we found ourselves starring at each other. She walked closer to me and said hi. We had...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 17, 2013

    Its Too Complicated

    Well, for starters we’re human, so that means we naturally tend to develop closer binds with people that we feel intimate with. Eventhough we have the power to separate physical intimacy and emotional intimacy, it would still be difficult and harmful. In a perfect world, we...
    jazzME jazzME
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jan 22, 2011

    Married And Want A Friend With Benefits

    I have been married for 20 yrs and love my wife a great deal. About 8 years ago she shut down in the bedroom completely. I am a very passionate and sexual person with a very strong sex drive. I have tried everything to get or sex life back. From role play to toys. Being...
    guido73 guido73
    41-45, M
    Sep 17, 2013

    He Said "its Only For Fun" I Said "no Strings Attached"

    I met this guy in the pub..i was drunk and so he was. i guess i was too flirty that night coz i haven't really been out for a while and as my friend told me "let your hairdown girl!" so i did! then this guy came and chat with me. anyways, its dance and kiss the next thing i knew...
    perfectlysingle perfectlysingle
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 27, 2012

    A Friend Who Might Want More.. What Do You Think?

    A few months ago, I was introduced to this guy by a mutual friend. We connected on FaceBook and I really needed some friend in the area. I had just moved there. I didn;t even think we would actually meet. But then we did. The night before we firt met, we spent the whole...
    Danyush Danyush
    6 Responses Jun 8, 2009

    Party Chemistry

    During college there was a time when my girlfriend lived in a place upstairs from a restaurant near campus, where there were 20 or so rooms rented to different students, with a common kitchen and bathrooms. I lived on the other side of campus. I got to know several of the...
    ninecats ninecats
    Jul 8, 2013

    Friend With Benefits Or More?

    i have been involved with this guy "jorge"since 2006...we had worked together back then, were friends and used to only flirt (i was married then-but not happy),,,he got a new job but always stayed in touch i found myself very attracted to him and 1 night we ended up...
    knu122 knu122
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Oct 4, 2009

    Doesn't Everybody?,g

    I guess my best friends have always been women--well, girls when I was a kid--and I've also been attracted to most of them. Sometimes the attraction comes first, sometimes later. Sometimes it's mutual, sometimes it's not. Either way, I don't let it get in the way of a friendship...
    BuckFuddy BuckFuddy
    51-55, M
    1 Response Sep 26, 2009

    I Enjoy My Fwbs

    I have had a FWB for awhile now but it isn't working out. He lives to far away for us to get together more than once a month or so and then it iw very rushed.  So there has been another gentleman that I am going to try out this weekend and see if we are compatible.  He...
    DiscreetlyPlaying DiscreetlyPlaying
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Dec 22, 2009

    Me And Helena

    2 years ago I was with this girl named Helena. We didn't really date but it seemed like we did. It was like an opened relationship. She was dating another guy the same time she took it liking me. I heard that her boyfriend is one of those jealous types. Anyways we never had...
    DeeJayKelvin DeeJayKelvin
    18-21, M
    Feb 17, 2010

    Friend In The Navy

    She was about 23, I 21. We live in the same housing unit and, on occasion, were delpoyed on the same ship or found one another in ports-of-call around the globe. I first met her in the housing unit at our base in Norfolk. There was a woman in our unit that we called "Teddy...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 19, 2012

    We Were Friends With Benefits For A While

    Back in the day, before the expression "Friends with Benefits" became common or popular, we developed a bit of a thing between us. It was well after we got out of college and we both in the big city struggling to start our careers. I was frustrated to discover it wasn't going to...
    studfinder studfinder
    56-60, M
    Apr 15, 2012

    I am a 57 year old male looking

    for a younger woman to exchange email with on an ongoing basis. Maybe eventually meet if we get tired of typing. I am kind and easy to talk to and also discreet. I am in the Ottawa, Ontario, Canada area. Drop me a line and lets get acquainted.
    seethruman seethruman
    56-60, M
    1 Response Dec 26, 2014

    Friends Flashing Boobs

    About 5 years ago i went to a music festival with about 8 mates. All of us male. after arriving and setting up our tents and getting the beers out a group of 5 girls started setting up on the pitch next to us. After watching them struggle for a bit a few of us went over ...
    mfe2007mfe mfe2007mfe
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Mar 1, 2010

    Is This All Wrong?!

    I have a friend named Sean. He's my friend with benefits and we've been benefitting from each other for about 4 months now. Read my blog for more infor on our relationship. And things obviously are complicated between us. Doe he want more, does he not, do I? So many...
    Danyush Danyush
    1 Response Jun 22, 2009
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