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I Gave A Baby Up For Adoption

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    It Wasn't Really My Choice

    I was 21 when social services pressured me into giving my baby up for adoption. I was in a sheltered housing flat and social services had stayed in touch with me throughout the years as I was an abused child (although I was never take into care) and had an Aspergers diagnosis...
    sarahd1988 sarahd1988 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2011

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    Adoption Is Love

    A year ago, I was pregnant with a baby boy with a long term boyfriend. I was a sophomore in college at the time. I wanted to keep him but I knew I couldn't give him the proper life I wanted him to have so I decided for adoption. My baby Keelan is now with a loving couple who...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 28, 2013

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    I'm sorry I have no experience giving up a child

    but I would like to write n be a pen pal to offer support for someone who needs someone to talk to about their feelings. Especially a young mother. I am a mom and became a mom at 19.
    dewife2005 dewife2005 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    My Poem About Giving My Daughter Up For Adoption

    Memories of an angel sent from God in heaven A baby born so precious and so small Born to a young mother, just a child herself Who made the choice to sacrifice it all She didn’t have any money, the Daddy was long gone Knew she couldn’t raise a baby solely on her own So she...
    beautytakesatoll beautytakesatoll 18-21, F 5 Responses May 4, 2011

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    Thank You

    I want to thank all the mothers out there who decided to do this. I am adopted and I have a wonderful life and would not want it any other way. Thank you from someone who is
    jalfwit jalfwit 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 10, 2011

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    I Gave Up A Little Boy.

    I got pregnant when I was 16. It was one of the hardest experiences of my life. I live in a very small very christian town and I was looked down upon and ridiculed at first. I had people telling me I should get an abortion or just get rid of it. Others who told me I might as well...
    lml369 lml369 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 31, 2012

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    Hardest Thing I Ever Did...

    Jan 29 1997....i made the decision to give my baby-girl up for adoption..it was hard but in the same token it was a good decision...already having a son with autism..i knew i wouldnt be ablt to take care of her the way she should have been takin care of...the adoption is open...
    happygirl33 happygirl33 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    I Also Gave A Baby Up For Adoption Because It Was The Right Thing To Do

    It was about 26 years ago, and I was young in my 20's.  I already had two little ones, going through a divorice and was going to school.  I did not talk about it much to my parents because I new they would talk me out it.  When not knowing what to do and I did some deep soul...
    conniegang conniegang 51-55 Jan 12, 2011

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    A Child Having A Child

    I was 14 when I had my first child, I prefer not to go into all the circumstances  surrounding this time of my life etc.........I know I should have but I didn't tell my husband before we married that I had given my son up for adoption, when I did tell him, he just use to throw...
    zynthia zynthia 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 8, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I recently just found out that I was pregnant with twins. I found out at 22 weeks and I'm now 29 weeks. I'm still not 100% certain if I am wanting to raise them myself. I'm 22 and...
    candiiceb candiiceb 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I've been thinking of putting myself up for adoption because my parents fight non stop and my dad is verbally and mentally and emotionally abusive. He treats us like crap and he...
    nessamay1998 nessamay1998 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I am 8 months pregnant. I found out when I was 5 months in. Why I showed no symptoms before that still baffles me. I still had my time of the month for 4 months and didn't get...
    cassiopeiaah cassiopeiaah 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I lost 6 pounds in 1 week and you know it's full of vitamins ... My skin is better aswell ;)
    CarcinogenicCacti CarcinogenicCacti 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hi .. I am an adult baby up for adoption. I like wearing diapers and I love having raspberries blown on my tum tum :) I'm looking for an online mommy to look after me :) please...
    drowningscarab drowningscarab 22-25, M Aug 28

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    I'm a bit worried if giving my child up for adoption will be hard for me emotionally. I have a 4 yr old son...and am trying hard to get my life on track....I'm a single mom. I'm 6...
    luxieluna luxieluna 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    i was the eldest son. I was thinking when i was a kid that im different from my family and when i got 5 years old, my mom gave birth for their youngest son, until i found out, im a...
    leonsomar leonsomar 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 30

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    When i was a kid i had teenage babysitters so when i became a teen i expected not to have babysitters. WRONG! My mom worked or went out most nights and left me with babysitters...
    Cleancut Cleancut 41-45 2 Responses Sep 8

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    I'm actually in search of a babygirl for my Master. I'm hoping by reaching out here I'll be able to connect to some babygirls and introduce you to my Master. The qualities begin...
    subpetgrl subpetgrl 51-55, F Sep 8

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    I'm actually in search of a babygirl for my Master. I'm hoping by reaching out here I'll be able to connect to some babygirls and introduce you to my Master. The qualities begin...
    subpetgrl subpetgrl 51-55, F Sep 8

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    I wish my nephew was my son. The more I spend time with him the more I want to keep him. I wish he could stay a baby forever.One day I post his picture. Hes so cute.I wish he lived...
    KiannaJ KiannaJ 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 20

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    I need to rant. I am currently babysitting, sitting in their kitchen as I type this, and it is ridiculous. So I primarily babysit for 2 families, one Is more of a part time nanny...
    Kat0524 Kat0524 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am 19 single and wanting a child I don't want to go threw all the bs of adopting I'm wanting to find someone that is willing to get preg and have the baby for me and when the...
    felicityanntomlinson felicityanntomlinson 18-21, F 18 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't want to go to college, get a job, and learn to drive.. I don't want a boy friend or to be repeatedly used by guys. I want to be taken and turned into a baby forever.. My...
    LilLexi16 LilLexi16 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 19

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    I have been an Adult Baby for a few years! I have NEVER had Cuddles. Could anyone tell me what they are like? I was badly beat and abused, and verbally put down! I would REALLY...
    babysuzy45 babysuzy45 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I want to be treated like a baby forever.
    GirlyPerson GirlyPerson 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    The staff at Kavanagh Legal professionals will deliver prompt and Skilled lawful information on kid guidance and custody, that will help divided or divorced moms and dads reach an...
    Eveline1062z Eveline1062z 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    With our a long time of encounter from the conveyancing marketplace Now we have learnt to cope with all obstructions that may be faced within an productive method. This will likely...
    Lestermg94 Lestermg94 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    Today was one of the bad days that happen once in a blue moon. Being recovered for many months it pains me to feel this way. I know im not depressed, im just having a terrible day...
    OverWorkedWoman OverWorkedWoman 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    As a small child, I was told that I was adopted. My adoptive parents didn't know very much about where I came from or who I was, only that I had a different first name which they...
    eljefe3126 eljefe3126 46-50 Sep 9

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    It's has been 2 weeks and 1 day since I gave birth to the love of my life.... I have always wanted to be a mother. It is truly my hearts desire. When I found out I was pregnant in...
    meltimes2 meltimes2 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    It's been almost a year since we had a birth mom back out of an adoption. It is incredibly heartbreaking and I still think of him everyday. I wish I could have had the opportunity...
    Ag0405 Ag0405 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I'm trying to organize a network of people who have been affected by adoption and the foster care system. Please visit www.facebook.com/groups/adopteelondon The group is still in...
    mnjones92 mnjones92 22-25, M Aug 28

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    On august 31 my baby boy, Jacen, was born at 22 weeks. Saturday night I had my first really big contraction. I wrote this off as a Braxton hicks because I didn't get another for...
    maggie3333333 maggie3333333 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    My husband and I live in NJ, he is a fireman and I'm a former pediatric nurse and we've been married for 9 years. We have a loving 8 year old son who asks us almost daily and prays...
    lking7 lking7 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    How Could A Mother Be So Cruel?- A coworker in her 40s though she honestly doesn't look over 30 arrived at work in tears today. 2 yrs ago her only child moved from their home state...
    thankfullykinderfree thankfullykinderfree 66-70, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I've only held one grudge and that's towards my mums brother and his son; my cousin. Although I was in the wrong I was happy to talk about the issue I realised they weren't the...
    heyitsabike heyitsabike 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I gave birth to a baby boy over 40 mins ago! My poor 2 year old girl was watching! At home! Thank goodness my mum just arrived to deliver him! I got to the hospital half hour ago...
    Girlygirl14701 Girlygirl14701 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 31

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    as some off you know I am babysit my friends 4 year old daughter when my friend work today we went to the park to feed the ducks and all was untill we had to go home I told her...
    donjuul donjuul 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 8

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    Unfortunately, in many scenarios, Regardless of the goodwill and greatest intentions of one or both mom and dad, agreement cannot be attained about the future treatment and welfare...
    Peternhj Peternhj 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    I've just had a baby! She's 6 weeks old
    ilovemykids2014 ilovemykids2014 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 23

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    I was supposed to born on dec 25 but my mom say it was Christmas and had no time to go to hospital and so she gave birth on me in 28 dec easily 0.o
    Plaplee Plaplee 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I was 17, and my twin sister was at a volleyball camp. Normally my parents are ok leaving me with my twin sister and my at the time 12 and 8 year old sister, but without her, they...
    Carlsoncarly Carlsoncarly 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 4 months he is 25 & I am 15. Sounds bad but Im very mature for my age and mature looking. He had a son with his ex, his bm he...
    saboramiel saboramiel 18-21, F Aug 21

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    Okay so this might be long, apologies in advanced ... I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now, officially. We've been in each other's lives for longer. My problem is, I...
    jlflyers jlflyers 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 28

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    I had this same experience twice. J already wrote about one of them, when I was 17, but I also had this experience when I was 14. My twin sister was always out at her friends...
    Carlsoncarly Carlsoncarly 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    I'm extremely depressed because my fiancé isn't ready to have a baby yet. We are getting married next year and I have had baby fever for over 4 years now. I am 21 he is going to...
    LovelyLuna253 LovelyLuna253 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    Rp only No K/ik Hi baby! Im looking for babies. I love when my babies are really little. I love when they are still in baby diapers. I like when my babies can barley walk and have...
    MommyNikki MommyNikki 18-21, F Aug 31

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    Rp only No K/ik Hi baby! Im looking for babies. I love when my babies are really little. I love when they are still in baby diapers. I like when my babies can barley walk and have...
    MommyNikki MommyNikki 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31