I Gave Him My All and He Cheated On Me

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    He cheated back in April,

    I know it wasn't that long ago. But I've been trying so hard to trust him again, I want to be able to trust him again so bad but I can't force it. He says it was a huge mistake and he still asks me how he can make it up to me. I just don't know how he can. I don't want to have...
    kay5262 kay5262
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jun 30, 2014

    Everything and anything a women has to give

    and it's still not enough for some boys
    PrototypeBri PrototypeBri
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 16, 2014

    It's been a few days

    and I just found out al the lies he did from me and that he also cheated on me with his 2 year ex girlfriend. I literally gave him my life and he broke that and my trust for all relationships. Bottom line is....boys are stupid.
    kristencameryn kristencameryn
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2015

    My Ex

    He cheated on me every time I traveled for my job. I am so glad that he isn't in my life as a boyfriend any longer. What is weird is he cheated with one of our co-workers that I was also friends with, got her pregnant, and they are married now. He cheats on her and has even...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    13 Responses Sep 13, 2011

    He Cheated On Me! This Is My Revenge!

    My first boyfriend cheated on me with my sister! This is my revenge, this is the way I will get over him. I will write everything bad about him, sooner or later I will HATE him! 1. He was a wimp so he made my sister tell me. 2. He was a nerdy stupid geek! 3. He called me names...
    mysteryteen mysteryteen
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 15, 2011
    Xproblem Xproblem
    18-21, F
    Aug 16, 2014

    My Husband Too

    My husband too, cheated on me. I thought we had the fairy tale marriage until this came to light this past March. I felt my world come tumbling down around me, my stomach and chest felt like it did a triple flip and caught fire. My heart was broken into a million pieces, burns...
    justaconvenience justaconvenience
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jul 4, 2009

    So I strongly suspect

    that my husband of 16 years, who has recently left our home and talks of divorce, had cheated on me while we lived in another state.
    whitelephant1 whitelephant1
    46-50, F
    Apr 25, 2014

    Ok so I have decided too tell you guys this.

    ..about 3 months ago my boyfriend wrote me a letter telling me that he is leaving me for someone else...I was kinda pissed about it cause he could have at least told me in person....well I then found out he left me for my cousin (who is a complete bombshell ) and my cousin was ok...
    BustyAndUgly BustyAndUgly
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 28, 2015

    Dear Hector,

    I got to see you today.....I love us together with the baby....but I also see that you don't want anything to go with me anymore...I can't fathom how we will forever raise our daughter this way. That you never want to hold MY hand or make love to ME. I miss you so much. The love...
    Feb 17, 2013

    I Was So Blind

    THREE YEARS, HE WAS THE MOST HONEST AND LOVING GUY EVER, HOW COULD HE CHANGE SOO MUCH? IN A MATTER OF MONTHS? ALL OUR LIFE PLANS, ALL HE TOOK FROM ME, AND HE WAS SEEING SUMONE ELSE? HOW COULD HE NOT FEEL GUILTY WHEN WE WERE TOGETHER? I HAVE BEEN FEELING THAT SOMETHING WASNT RIGHT...
    IMSODAMAGED IMSODAMAGED
    31-35
    8 Responses May 15, 2008

    He Cheated, Blamed, And Then Dumped Me..

    I've never done this before......but here it goes.. I Was with my boyfriend for two years. In the beginning he was wonderful. He told me that he never felt for anyone what he felt for me. I fell in love. He told me he'd like to have a baby, but I couldn't have a baby and he said...
    1 Response Feb 16, 2013

    I Believe In Karma

    I met this guy accidentally and soon we ended up seeing each other, moving together. He was tall, handsome, successful and extremely intelligent. We fell in love and lived a bit crazy and very happy life filled with laughter and good times. I had never been happier. When he gave...
    farawayfromhellandheaven farawayfromhellandheaven
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Sep 13, 2011

    I got trouble with my friends trouble in my

    life problems when you don't come home at night..... He goes out every weekend while I'm at home in his bed bored out my mind waiting on him . Take 2 sleeping pills to wake up at 4am and he's still not here... I hate this feeling , my intuition telling me he's out there doing Me...
    BeautynBrains4 BeautynBrains4
    18-21, F
    Dec 6, 2014

    And wants to reconcile.

    ....it will be a cold day in hell before I allow this man back into my life. He is now calling asking for forgiveness, can we work out our marriage, etc. Well he should have thought about us working on our marriage before he involved a third party, who was ready and willing to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 15, 2015

    A Love Not Forgotten

    I was fifteen years old, and he was sixteen year old. Both young at heart, and just because we were young.... people didn't believe we can love each other as much as a 40 year old married couple could. It started on the internet, and ended up to being on the greatest feelings...
    snowbunny88 snowbunny88
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 30, 2008

    Loving Them..but Cheated ..

    my first bf was during my college days..we were together for almost three years until i went out of the country for work..and he also sailed through for work..everything seems to be so perfect until one day i found out in one of his brothers account a picture of a baby girl...
    hisgirl2008 hisgirl2008
    22-25
    Jul 27, 2010

    This is my story, I gave up everything

    for a guy : My friends, my family, my career everything and I was ready to give him everything, I never said NO for anything he wanted. I fell for him head over heels. I loved him truly and I was waiting for him from past 4 years as I was away from him, he used to fight with me...
    cutiehmm cutiehmm
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 16, 2014

    I went along with naomi

    because she told me nate FINALLY wanted to talk to me and when we went to the basement he was KISSING SOME OTHER GIRL! Not only that but he told ME to come back! I snapped for the first time in a LONG TIME and I went full on attack mode! What's worse is NAOMI DRAGGED ME THERE...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Mar 11, 2015

    I Was So Naive.

    We started dating just before my 17th birthday. I liked him. He was cool, musically talented, smart, cute.. everything I wanted. I met him through, Jez, a girl I once called my best friend. I honestly assumed they were just friends. On the outside they laughed and joked and were...
    notyouraveragegirl notyouraveragegirl
    16-17
    Jun 22, 2013
    fauxlady fauxlady
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 16, 2014

    I recently found out my boyfriend cheated on me

    during one of the most difficult times of life. I gave him all of me, I gave up my freedom, my party girl lifestyle. I chilled out completely for him, I work everyday to give him everything he wants and needs so it honestly tore me apart when I found out. As I stated in my other...
    kay5262 kay5262
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 25, 2014

    My boyfriend left me

    for another women he met on the Internet after being together for 5 years and having two kids together. When he left I lost everything; job, car, house and worst of all my family. I moved between with family members (his and mine) to get back on my feet. After countless jobs...
    kha0 kha0
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 17, 2015

    I fell in love with my bestfriend from grade 6.

    We talked about our future together and how perfect we would be. He had a rough childhood (abusive parents). So he moved between cities over about 5 months and apparently, he was getting with some of my friends and other random people. It broke my heart. We are broken up now...
    ElleAssoun12 ElleAssoun12
    18-21
    Jan 11, 2014

    I gave you a beautiful son,

    and lost another but you have the NERVE to ask a girl for a naked picture? I take care of our kids and your kid ! I struggle with money and stress and YOUR drinking addiction. WHY DO YOU HURT ME ? ARE YOU ENJOYING IT !I am so mad and all I can do is cry cause this rage is so...
    roses2004 roses2004
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 5, 2014

    Most Amazing Man Ever... Till He Cheated

    My boyfriend/fiance cheated on me. He and I have been together for 4 years.. he works out of town and we have always been that couple everyone says you can tell how in love we are. Honestly the perfect couple. Well my bestfriend got married two days ago and at the reception we...
    sodamnlost sodamnlost
    22-25
    1 Response Aug 20, 2012

    You think you know someone

    until they break your heart.. After we broke up the first time , it was pretty obvious that we were obsessed with each other. It only took about a week for us to start talking again. For that whole summer it was all about getting back together, and then we did. It was amazing...
    Mychele01 Mychele01
    18-21, F
    Nov 17, 2015

    We were together for 5 years,

    I treated him so well, even better than what I do to myself. But he cheated and broke up with me, while he put all the blame on me and my parents.
    StephanieDolphin StephanieDolphin
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Oct 22, 2014

    Wow

    When I was pregnant my bf heated on me with 2 different girls. That's not even the worst part. I took him back(big mistake) he gave me like some sexual thingy witch I cannot not remember what it is called. Bc of this I have not left him bc I don't think anybody will want me bc...
    StrangeMe18 StrangeMe18
    18-21, F
    Sep 15, 2013

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