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I Gave Him My All and He Cheated On Me

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    I Was So Naive.

    We started dating just before my 17th birthday. I liked him. He was cool, musically talented, smart, cute.. everything I wanted. I met him through, Jez, a girl I once called my best friend. I honestly assumed they were just friends. On the outside they laughed and joked and were...
    notyouraveragegirl notyouraveragegirl 16-17 Jun 22, 2013

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    He Cheated On Me! This Is My Revenge!

    My first boyfriend cheated on me with my sister! This is my revenge, this is the way I will get over him. I will write everything bad about him, sooner or later I will HATE him! 1. He was a wimp so he made my sister tell me. 2. He was a nerdy stupid geek! 3. He called me names...
    mysteryteen mysteryteen 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 15, 2011

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    This is my story, I gave up everything

    for a guy : My friends, my family, my career everything and I was ready to give him everything, I never said NO for anything he wanted. I fell for him head over heels. I loved him truly and I was waiting for him from past 4 years as I was away from him, he used to fight with me...
    cutiehmm cutiehmm 26-30 2 Responses Apr 16

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    Most Amazing Man Ever... Till He Cheated

    My boyfriend/fiance cheated on me. He and I have been together for 4 years.. he works out of town and we have always been that couple everyone says you can tell how in love we are. Honestly the perfect couple. Well my bestfriend got married two days ago and at the reception we...
    sodamnlost sodamnlost 22-25 1 Response Aug 20, 2012

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    I recently found out my boyfriend cheated on me

    during one of the most difficult times of life. I gave him all of me, I gave up my freedom, my party girl lifestyle. I chilled out completely for him, I work everyday to give him everything he wants and needs so it honestly tore me apart when I found out. As I stated in my other...
    kay5262 kay5262 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    A Love Not Forgotten

    I was fifteen years old, and he was sixteen year old. Both young at heart, and just because we were young.... people didn't believe we can love each other as much as a 40 year old married couple could. It started on the internet, and ended up to being on the greatest feelings...
    snowbunny88 snowbunny88 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2008

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    That's What I Get For Voting For Presidents

      They never keep their promises.  They fly here and there spending my money to get there and what do they accomplish in the long run except draw a pension for lilfe?  Not much good for me and my friends.  Maybe their friends got something out of 8 years in...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 5 Responses Mar 6, 2009

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    Dear Hector,

    I got to see you today.....I love us together with the baby....but I also see that you don't want anything to go with me anymore...I can't fathom how we will forever raise our daughter this way. That you never want to hold MY hand or make love to ME. I miss you so much. The love...
    Feb 17, 2013

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    So I strongly suspect

    that my husband of 16 years, who has recently left our home and talks of divorce, had cheated on me while we lived in another state.
    whitelephant1 whitelephant1 46-50, F Apr 25

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    I fell in love with my bestfriend from grade 6.

    We talked about our future together and how perfect we would be. He had a rough childhood (abusive parents). So he moved between cities over about 5 months and apparently, he was getting with some of my friends and other random people. It broke my heart. We are broken up now...
    ElleAssoun12 ElleAssoun12 18-21 Jan 11

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    My Husband Too

    My husband too, cheated on me. I thought we had the fairy tale marriage until this came to light this past March. I felt my world come tumbling down around me, my stomach and chest felt like it did a triple flip and caught fire. My heart was broken into a million pieces, burns...
    justaconvenience justaconvenience 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 4, 2009

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    Loving Them..but Cheated ..

    my first bf was during my college days..we were together for almost three years until i went out of the country for work..and he also sailed through for work..everything seems to be so perfect until one day i found out in one of his brothers account a picture of a baby girl...
    hisgirl2008 hisgirl2008 22-25 Jul 27, 2010

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    I Was So Blind

    THREE YEARS, HE WAS THE MOST HONEST AND LOVING GUY EVER, HOW COULD HE CHANGE SOO MUCH? IN A MATTER OF MONTHS? ALL OUR LIFE PLANS, ALL HE TOOK FROM ME, AND HE WAS SEEING SUMONE ELSE? HOW COULD HE NOT FEEL GUILTY WHEN WE WERE TOGETHER? I HAVE BEEN FEELING THAT SOMETHING WASNT RIGHT...
    IMSODAMAGED IMSODAMAGED 31-35 8 Responses May 15, 2008

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    Wow

    When I was pregnant my bf heated on me with 2 different girls. That's not even the worst part. I took him back(big mistake) he gave me like some sexual thingy witch I cannot not remember what it is called. Bc of this I have not left him bc I don't think anybody will want me bc...
    StrangeMe18 StrangeMe18 18-21, F Sep 15, 2013

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    He Cheated, Blamed, And Then Dumped Me..

    I've never done this before......but here it goes.. I Was with my boyfriend for two years. In the beginning he was wonderful. He told me that he never felt for anyone what he felt for me. I fell in love. He told me he'd like to have a baby, but I couldn't have a baby and he said...
    1 Response Feb 16, 2013

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    He cheated back in April,

    I know it wasn't that long ago. But I've been trying so hard to trust him again, I want to be able to trust him again so bad but I can't force it. He says it was a huge mistake and he still asks me how he can make it up to me. I just don't know how he can. I don't want to have...
    kay5262 kay5262 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    My Ex

    He cheated on me every time I traveled for my job. I am so glad that he isn't in my life as a boyfriend any longer. What is weird is he cheated with one of our co-workers that I was also friends with, got her pregnant, and they are married now. He cheats on her and has even...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 14 Responses Sep 13, 2011

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    I Believe In Karma

    I met this guy accidentally and soon we ended up seeing each other, moving together. He was tall, handsome, successful and extremely intelligent. We fell in love and lived a bit crazy and very happy life filled with laughter and good times. I had never been happier. When he gave...
    farawayfromhellandheaven farawayfromhellandheaven 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 13, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Me and my boyfriend have known eachother for years. We have been dating for 2. A few months ago we signed a lease and moved to a new town. A week after moving in together we get...
    angrynhyrt angrynhyrt 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I have a lot of internal conflicts. I am constantly blaming myself as to why certain things have happened to me in my life. I have secretly dealt with depression and self harm my...
    ImAWorkInProgress ImAWorkInProgress 16-17, F Jul 22

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    I'm sharing this with you because I want to know how I can move forward from this. I do love my husband but I feel so betrayed by his actions. And not just him his family and...
    2011dolly40 2011dolly40 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I was dating this guy, and he was a serial cheater and a pathological liar. He would lie about everything from talking to his ex girlfriend, to just minor things. He told me that I...
    misunderstoodgal32 misunderstoodgal32 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I've known this guy for four years now. We dated for like a month and we practically never broke up since I got so jealous and stop talking to him. While we dated I was going to...
    Notwhatyouthinkiam Notwhatyouthinkiam 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I gave him a bath today and he's so soft but I just put my face on him and inhale.
    minicupcakes minicupcakes 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    So i was hanging with a friend who is a MtF trans and has a girlfriend but has mentioned more than once that they are interested in me/in guys. I posted a mature vid on tumblr of...
    kevinisonfire kevinisonfire 22-25 Jul 9

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    We are childhood friends, our families are really close and we used to see each other everyday. When I turned eight my family moved away. As I grew up I completely forgot about...
    EvelynElf EvelynElf 16-17, F Jul 21

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    Well first of all I know I'm a total idiot, but I really can't help my feelings. I fancied my married boss for years, as he was married I just suppressed the emotion. I've been...
    Layla32 Layla32 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Thinking about him all the time 💕
    mariaababieexo mariaababieexo 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Yeah, so, well. I worked for my father three times before I was 18. He was an ******* and disreptful to me so I quit on him all three times within just a month or two. So then...
    scottoc scottoc 31-35, M Jul 3

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    So I've never been in like a real relationship before just open relationships. So I'm not used to being loyal. But I found this guy, tho he is younger than me & I fell head over...
    SapphireR SapphireR 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    He confuses me. Some days, I swear i see clear hints that he likes me. Other days, it's as if he's avoiding me. I can't get him out of my head. He's the first thing i think about...
    confusionswirlinginmyhead confusionswirlinginmyhead 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    I didn't think it would ever be me. You hear stories about other people being cheated on, but you don't think it'll ever be you. 8 months ago my first relationship ended, of over a...
    ForBetterOrForWorse ForBetterOrForWorse 16-17, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I have been with my bf for 4 yrs. I found out he cheated once just because the other girl found out about me and confronted me about it. They've been going out for 6 mos. He left...
    justmezel justmezel 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    ~I have been cheated on several times in my life. By different people. The first time it happened, the guy I was with was a **** head and sleazy, and I didn't really care but I did...
    Starliteyes24 Starliteyes24 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    My first real love cheated on me and left me for a girl who was 8 years older than him, and plus she left her fiancé to be with him. Oh! And he and one of my "best" guy friends...
    n0ceur n0ceur 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Two days after we got married my husband cheated on me with his ex who left him 6 months before he met me and after we married she came back to him and he cheated on me with her...
    jennny098765 jennny098765 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I had been married for four months before I found out that my husband, whom I have been in a committed relationship for 9 years including a year-long engagement, cheated on me. It...
    krk314 krk314 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    I was cheated on by my ex. We had been together for almost 6 years. I saw the red flags many times but looked the other way. I had jumped from one relationship to another with this...
    mykids02 mykids02 36-40, F Jul 7

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    I am stronger because of all I've been through... I was 16 when everything happened. It all seemed to snowball honestly. I had been home sick with the flu. I was staying at my...
    Ginnty Ginnty 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    I went to a party with my friend and a ton of people that I did not know. while I was there, I got really drunk. now I know getting drunk is still no excuse to cheat on someone...
    needadvicee needadvicee 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    So. I met this guy. He told me I could trust him. He was the first person I fell in love with. About a month after we dated he told me he wanted to be friends with his ex. I didn...
    brittdorn brittdorn 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I was never one to look through my boyfriend's phone . but when he would sit there and talk about this girl named Allisha all the time that was when I finally snapped . I looked...
    abbyhh25 abbyhh25 16-17, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have been secretly dating the guy I was in live with for two years for a week- and 3 weeks ago he left for a trip to Europe. He messaged me on Facebook for 3 days and from then...
    MentoPiano MentoPiano 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    i cheated on my girlfriend.. i honestly do love her so so so much. but i went over to the house of the girl i used to really like, but she never liked me back before but when we...
    supernava supernava 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Idk if I am being cheated yet. He is away with ranger school in the Army right now. He asked me to put his phone in the bottom drawer of his dresser. When I got to his house, I...
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    We had been discussing the possibility of separating for about 4 months. Things were becoming strained between us. We were growing distant and I kept trying so hard to bridge the...
    Navylove19 Navylove19 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Funny thing is I got caught 1 min after but it did not matter. I broke everything I believed in and stand for and the guilt will haunt me.....but..the universe works in strange...
    rukesh3 rukesh3 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    My first normal-ish relationship and he cheated on me.. with my best friend.. my younger sister. We got back together and he cheated on me with some fugly fat chick and she tried...