I Get Along Better With Guys

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    I tend to get along better with men.  I appreciate their straight-forwardness.  If I ask a man for an opinion, they'll generally tell me the truth and not what they think I want to hear.  I also feel that they are a lot less judgemental. Most of my female...
    angeleyes2009 angeleyes2009
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Feb 12, 2010

    Guys Tell More Interesting Stories And Funnier Jokes

    I've been friends with boys since 3rd grade. The 2 boys I mostly hung out with was Michael and Christopher. They tell storeis that actually catch your attention. You laugh at every joke they tell. We'd go to the basketball court sit on the bleachers and just sit there telling...
    Legit97 Legit97
    18-21, F
    Oct 14, 2012

    I'm not going to tell you the ol' cliché

    that "guys are less drama" or whatever. The fact is this. I'm somewhat androgynous. This means that yes, I'm a girl, but I exemplify quite a number of traits which are considered more masculine. I like films with shooting and violence provided there's a good story. I don't...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jan 15, 2015

    Is there any good decent guy on this site

    that can carry a good conversation without turning the conversation into anything sexually.
    lusciouslycurvy lusciouslycurvy
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 21, 2014

    There's less drama, guys are just

    so chill most of the time. It's perfect
    EllieAmazing EllieAmazing
    18-21, F
    Sep 25, 2014

    When you have a best friend like my superman

    nobody else can compare to him. He's just gaahh, he is superman.
    Lilred17 Lilred17
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 27, 2014

    Less drama with guys.

    But if I ever have problems, I usually tell my girlfriends. No offence lol, but my guy friends just aren't very good with problems. Except for one, he's the sweetest.
    CutiePie199 CutiePie199
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 24, 2014

    I want one guy who is sweet.

    Not a bf, just a best guy friend who I can talk to. I used to have one, but they never stick around!
    gymnastgal gymnastgal
    16-17, F
    Sep 1, 2014

    Its weird but I like it.

    If any guys around my age want to talk then message me... I feel so lonely and I have done a bad thing
    deleted deleted
    Apr 28, 2015

    Most def. My entire life it was always

    surrounded by the boys. Girls were always too dramatic and backstabbing and as fun as they thought they were, they weren't. I've always enjoyed sitting around chillin with the guys, playin video games, listenin to music, watchin em play they're music and just having a no gossip...
    starzbound2fall starzbound2fall
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 26, 2014

    I'd like to find a guy friend on here around my

    age, and with some similar interest simply to talk to. I haven't had a friend guy in years that I was comfortable enough with to really talk talk. You know, the kinda crap you don't just share with anyone. I like having a males opinion, especially when I'm having man issues. Who...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 24, 2014

    For some reason I find it easier to talk to guys

    than girls I have no idea why this is?
    sroonaka616 sroonaka616
    May 22, 2015

    Most people it takes me a

    while to warm up to and actually have a real conversation with, go to for advice, talk to everyday all day. But there is one person who really got me. He understood my humor, he gave me logical advice, helps me so much I wish I could do more for him. In the words of kian lawley...
    Lilred17 Lilred17
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 30, 2014

    It hasn't always been

    that way. But lately I have been getting more guy friends and losing my girl friends. I am very rarely attracted to guys anymore (though some can be pretty cute haha), and instead am dating a gal friend of mine. She's about as perfect as a girl can be. But to get back on topic...
    Saudabell Saudabell
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 9, 2014

    It's true I do! I think most people find it

    hard to get along with me because one I don't care how you look and how I look (I do have some standards don't worry) I do what I want often I'm laid back I'm into gaming and love playing games I hate Cookie dough>_< I will stand my ground and will not take **** from...
    Krystal666 Krystal666
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 18, 2014

    I find the comfort of guys better

    than girls. They don't judge you, and they are always there to listen. I also feel super comfortable around them, and I don't have to talk about the superficial **** that girls sometimes want to talk about (well the ones that I know)
    distanceandspace distanceandspace
    22-25, F
    Jan 22, 2014

    Guys don't start **** about you.

    . They don't talk about you they don't have any drama whatsoever. There so dam funny. Girls. Ugh. There the opposite, they are backstabbing, gossiping sons of *******. Guys are very easy to get along with.
    3st3ll3 3st3ll3
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 15, 2015
    willowknight willowknight
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

    Yeah this is true. I just feel like I can be

    myself around guys, and they seem to understand my humour sense better. Idk something just clicks better with guys, as friends.
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma
    18-21, F
    Sep 25, 2014

    Idk y it is...but I just click wid the fellas.

    ..I get told all the time...I wish all girls were as fun,cool and laid back as you are...lol I love my homies...But its easier to vibe with guys then girls...cuz deez ******* these days too damn jealous of other females and too messy....I'm not with the drama and ish so I'll...
    gabrielle04 gabrielle04
    26-30, F
    Apr 29, 2015

    And I'm not the type

    that does just to hook up with them like most girls. I literally get along with guys much better then girl. They have less drama and you just have a good time with them.
    blossomingMe blossomingMe
    18-21, F
    Sep 26, 2014

    I'm not gonna sugar coat it.

    Sometimes my confidence can be degrading in other females' eyes. But it's typical. A hot girl will walk in the room and the guys will pay attention, and the girls will suspect anything negative about her and label her based off every little thing. I can't handle that. Jealousy...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Sep 25, 2014

    i liked this one guy

    for like 2years only to find out he likes guys lmao but hes my best friend im attracted to his looks though lol
    deleted deleted
    Jun 10, 2015

    A lot of girls at my school would call on to me

    to hang out or sit down with them but I would politely say 'no'. It's because I'm not really girly and most of the girls at my school only likes to talk about someone else and pretend that they aren't backbiting (which they are technically doing). Boys just keeps all the drama...
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 25, 2014

    I Barely Have Any Female Friends.

    In school, most of the guys are idiots, and I have one idiot guy friend, and I can barely stand him. I have two friends that are female. Online, it's a totally different story. I have... one female friend, and about thirty to forty guys I talk to, ranging from age 13 to over...
    InternationalSpaceStation InternationalSpaceStation
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 9, 2012

    They don't have any drama

    and their chill and they let loose. I love hanging with the boys.
    WintersSoldier2 WintersSoldier2
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 25, 2014

    they might not be easier to understand

    but they don't juge you and start drama
    taylorrose99 taylorrose99
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2014

    I'm One

    When women gathers, we tend to talk about friends/people, sex and glamours, money and emotions.While when men talks, it's either about sex or events. I often get along well with guys. They're handy also.^^
    ladyryan ladyryan
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 7, 2012

    Sadly But True ...

    Actually I have always wished I would have more girl friends but nope .. instead I have more girlfriends :P (Im bi) Besides, romantic relation, just limited for friendships .. I get along with guys much better than girls .. I dont know why but I have found that guys are more...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Dec 7, 2009

    it's easier for me to get along with guys,

    not girls. mainly cause girls are mean spirited, high maitenence, and hard to trust. I'd rather wear lounge pants, cracks dirty joke and have a good laugh with the boy's vs.wearing frilly tops and skirts while gossiping about the latest.. that's a snooze fest just waiting to...
    nannuh16 nannuh16
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 8, 2016

    I don't have allot in common with girls

    Even though I have more girl friends than guys friends, I've always seemed to get along with guys better. I guess its because I'm a bit of a tomboy, so thwe whole, shopping, talking about boys and hair isn't my thing. lol. In fact one of my best friends is a guy and I got along...
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 1, 2010

    Well basically because boys are the only ones

    who don't hurt me and my personality is more like a boy than a girl . And boys are more kind than girls and considerate .
    Silentsuffer Silentsuffer
    16-17, F
    May 24, 2014

    IDK y I get along better with guys

    than girls, maybe because most of the girls go behind my back and talk smack! Guys don't do that really, and they r actually fun to hang around!
    Emily555555 Emily555555
    13-15, F
    Jan 7, 2016

    I don't understand women,

    they are too emotional. My closest friends have always been guys, but they usually lose touch when they start dating someone. Their girlfriends have nothing to fear from me, but most don't understand that sex was never a part of that friendship, and in most cases, would not even...
    cgould72 cgould72
    41-45, F
    Feb 13, 2015


    I just feel I can get along much better with guys than I do girls. Not like I don't have girl friends, but I just feel like I can relate a lot less to them. Maybe this all has to do with that I grew up in a family of men. I never even had a female figure in my life (my mother...
    Chasing4flowers Chasing4flowers
    18-21, F
    Sep 25, 2011

    Guys Are So Simple

    They really aren't hard to get along with and are most are just about cool with nearly everything. I also find that guys are more loyal than girls as well. Most girls will ditch all their friends the minute they're in a relationship while guys will try to spend time with their...
    deadmoon deadmoon
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 23, 2012

    I find guys more outgoing

    and "down to earth". I get along better with guys than girls.
    Frankineedles Frankineedles
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Sep 26, 2014

    Love My Guy Friends

    Whilst I have about an equal number of girl friends and guy friends, I'm really close to about two girls and about six guys - I'm close to others too, of course, just those people more so. I love my guy friends, they're easy to be around and when we're out and about, I just...
    beckiexox beckiexox
    18-21, F
    Oct 19, 2011

    ehh it's easier for me to tell my problems to

    guys than girls. As long as they are the same age as me...if it was an older guy, then i would be scared../).(
    deleted deleted
    May 2, 2014

    It's the sad truth really,

    and it bothers the hell out of my boyfriend. My attraction to male friends started in kindergarden. My best friend at that was mean to me and never shared any of her beloved toys; I always received her rejects. We also never played at my house, it was always hers. One day, I...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin
    22-25, F
    Oct 24, 2014
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