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I Get Along Better With Guys

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    Most people it takes me a

    while to warm up to and actually have a real conversation with, go to for advice, talk to everyday all day. But there is one person who really got me. He understood my humor, he gave me logical advice, helps me so much I wish I could do more for him. In the words of kian lawley...
    WaitingForSuperman WaitingForSuperman 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2014

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    Less drama with guys.

    But if I ever have problems, I usually tell my girlfriends. No offence lol, but my guy friends just aren't very good with problems. Except for one, he's the sweetest.
    CutiePie199 CutiePie199 18-21, F 2 Responses May 24, 2014

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    I find guys more outgoing

    and "down to earth". I get along better with guys than girls.
    Frankineedles Frankineedles 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 26, 2014

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    They don't have any drama

    and their chill and they let loose. I love hanging with the boys.
    WintersSoldier2 WintersSoldier2 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2014

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    Love My Guy Friends

    Whilst I have about an equal number of girl friends and guy friends, I'm really close to about two girls and about six guys - I'm close to others too, of course, just those people more so. I love my guy friends, they're easy to be around and when we're out and about, I just...
    beckiexox beckiexox 16-17, F Oct 19, 2011

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    There's less drama, guys are just

    so chill most of the time. It's perfect
    EllieAmazing EllieAmazing 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2014

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    I don't understand women,

    they are too emotional. My closest friends have always been guys, but they usually lose touch when they start dating someone. Their girlfriends have nothing to fear from me, but most don't understand that sex was never a part of that friendship, and in most cases, would not even...
    cgould72 cgould72 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    Guys Are So Simple

    They really aren't hard to get along with and are most are just about cool with nearly everything. I also find that guys are more loyal than girls as well. Most girls will ditch all their friends the minute they're in a relationship while guys will try to spend time with their...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F 3 Responses May 23, 2012

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    Yeah...

    I just feel I can get along much better with guys than I do girls. Not like I don't have girl friends, but I just feel like I can relate a lot less to them. Maybe this all has to do with that I grew up in a family of men. I never even had a female figure in my life (my mother...
    Chasing4flowers Chasing4flowers 18-21, F Sep 25, 2011

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    I find the comfort of guys better

    than girls. They don't judge you, and they are always there to listen. I also feel super comfortable around them, and I don't have to talk about the superficial **** that girls sometimes want to talk about (well the ones that I know)
    distanceandspace distanceandspace 18-21, F Jan 22, 2014

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    It's the sad truth really,

    and it bothers the hell out of my boyfriend. My attraction to male friends started in kindergarden. My best friend at that was mean to me and never shared any of her beloved toys; I always received her rejects. We also never played at my house, it was always hers. One day, I...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F Oct 24, 2014

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    I'm not gonna sugar coat it.

    Sometimes my confidence can be degrading in other females' eyes. But it's typical. A hot girl will walk in the room and the guys will pay attention, and the girls will suspect anything negative about her and label her based off every little thing. I can't handle that. Jealousy...
    MoniiiBabyy MoniiiBabyy 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    I want one guy who is sweet.

    Not a bf, just a best guy friend who I can talk to. I used to have one, but they never stick around!
    gymnastgal gymnastgal 13-15, F Sep 1, 2014

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    Guys Tell More Interesting Stories And Funnier Jokes

    I've been friends with boys since 3rd grade. The 2 boys I mostly hung out with was Michael and Christopher. They tell storeis that actually catch your attention. You laugh at every joke they tell. We'd go to the basketball court sit on the bleachers and just sit there telling...
    Legit97 Legit97 18-21, F Oct 14, 2012

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    They're More Fun

    I've never really gotten along with other girls. Not that I've fought with them or anything, I just don't bond well with girls. I don't really bond emotionally with ANYONE, but I enjoy the company of guys better in general. In school I hung out with them more than with the girls...
    InvariableAlteration InvariableAlteration 22-25, F 10 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    It hasn't always been

    that way. But lately I have been getting more guy friends and losing my girl friends. I am very rarely attracted to guys anymore (though some can be pretty cute haha), and instead am dating a gal friend of mine. She's about as perfect as a girl can be. But to get back on topic...
    Saudabell Saudabell 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 9, 2014

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    I'm not going to tell you the ol' cliché

    that "guys are less drama" or whatever. The fact is this. I'm somewhat androgynous. This means that yes, I'm a girl, but I exemplify quite a number of traits which are considered more masculine. I like films with shooting and violence provided there's a good story. I don't...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 7 Responses Jan 15

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    willowknight willowknight 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    they might not be easier to understand

    but they don't juge you and start drama
    taylorrose99 taylorrose99 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2014

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    I don't have allot in common with girls

    Even though I have more girl friends than guys friends, I've always seemed to get along with guys better. I guess its because I'm a bit of a tomboy, so thwe whole, shopping, talking about boys and hair isn't my thing. lol. In fact one of my best friends is a guy and I got along...
    CGFE CGFE 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    Guys don't start **** about you.

    . They don't talk about you they don't have any drama whatsoever. There so dam funny. Girls. Ugh. There the opposite, they are backstabbing, gossiping sons of *******. Guys are very easy to get along with.
    XXimdeadinsideXX XXimdeadinsideXX 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 15

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    A lot of girls at my school would call on to me

    to hang out or sit down with them but I would politely say 'no'. It's because I'm not really girly and most of the girls at my school only likes to talk about someone else and pretend that they aren't backbiting (which they are technically doing). Boys just keeps all the drama...
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2014

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    Yeah this is true. I just feel like I can be

    myself around guys, and they seem to understand my humour sense better. Idk something just clicks better with guys, as friends.
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2014

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    When you have a best friend like my superman

    nobody else can compare to him. He's just gaahh, he is superman.
    WaitingForSuperman WaitingForSuperman 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2014

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    Is there any good decent guy on this site

    that can carry a good conversation without turning the conversation into anything sexually.
    lusciouslycurvy lusciouslycurvy 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 21, 2014

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    Male Friends

    I tend to get along better with men.  I appreciate their straight-forwardness.  If I ask a man for an opinion, they'll generally tell me the truth and not what they think I want to hear.  I also feel that they are a lot less judgemental. Most of my female...
    angeleyes2009 angeleyes2009 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 12, 2010

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    It's true I do! I think most people find it

    hard to get along with me because one I don't care how you look and how I look (I do have some standards don't worry) I do what I want often I'm laid back I'm into gaming and love playing games I hate Cookie dough>_< I will stand my ground and will not take **** from...
    Krystal666 Krystal666 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 18, 2014

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    And I'm not the type

    that does just to hook up with them like most girls. I literally get along with guys much better then girl. They have less drama and you just have a good time with them.
    blossomingMe blossomingMe 18-21, F Sep 26, 2014

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    Well basically because boys are the only ones

    who don't hurt me and my personality is more like a boy than a girl . And boys are more kind than girls and considerate .
    Silentsuffer Silentsuffer 13-15, F May 24, 2014

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    I'd like to find a guy friend on here around my

    age, and with some similar interest simply to talk to. I haven't had a friend guy in years that I was comfortable enough with to really talk talk. You know, the kinda crap you don't just share with anyone. I like having a males opinion, especially when I'm having man issues. Who...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    ehh it's easier for me to tell my problems to

    guys than girls. As long as they are the same age as me...if it was an older guy, then i would be scared../).(
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 2, 2014

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    I Barely Have Any Female Friends.

    In school, most of the guys are idiots, and I have one idiot guy friend, and I can barely stand him. I have two friends that are female. Online, it's a totally different story. I have... one female friend, and about thirty to forty guys I talk to, ranging from age 13 to over...
    MathematicallyMindedFractal MathematicallyMindedFractal 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2012

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    I'm One

    When women gathers, we tend to talk about friends/people, sex and glamours, money and emotions.While when men talks, it's either about sex or events. I often get along well with guys. They're handy also.^^
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2012

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    Sadly But True ...

    Actually I have always wished I would have more girl friends but nope .. instead I have more girlfriends :P (Im bi) Besides, romantic relation, just limited for friendships .. I get along with guys much better than girls .. I dont know why but I have found that guys are more...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 11 Responses Dec 7, 2009

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    Most def. My entire life it was always

    surrounded by the boys. Girls were always too dramatic and backstabbing and as fun as they thought they were, they weren't. I've always enjoyed sitting around chillin with the guys, playin video games, listenin to music, watchin em play they're music and just having a no gossip...
    lostwithin25 lostwithin25 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 26, 2014

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    Really??!?? You need to learn the art of conversation Honey. I cant, and wont, carry it on my own.
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