I Get Attached to People Very Easily

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    I have an open heart,

    and all my life there have been certain people who have stood out to me very strongly. (There are and have been many that I care about along the way but just didn't have the same effect on me that some do.) I tend to fall completely in love with these people. They have been...
    Stormhorse Stormhorse
    26-30, F
    Oct 2, 2015

    I've been clearing out my circle recently.

    I don't know why, but I don't really like to delete people out of it, but I feel like I should for the better. I have talked to a good number of people who are now inactive. I'll probably never delete them. Someone of them I talked too a lot, and some of them I just had a...
    moose73630 moose73630
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Oct 21, 2015
    jussassweetasacherry jussassweetasacherry
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 7

    It's not even funny how quick I can get

    attached. And once I'm attached I will literally do anything to keep you.
    Madebyaspell Madebyaspell
    13-15, F
    Jan 7

    One thing I don't like about myself is

    that I get attached to people to easily. I spend a few days with them or talking to them and if we get along, then I'm hooked. If I don't have contact with them again then I miss them and have to work hard to shrug it off and move on.
    MelMeg MelMeg
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 26, 2014

    M* sister and her boyfriend are probably

    breaking up. He's like a brother * never had... mother fu-
    CrossCresentCreed CrossCresentCreed
    18-21, F
    Dec 2, 2015

    I Know Why Too.....

       I am the type of person that if you show me any kind of kindness. If you are just a little friendly to me, I fall in love and become a friend for life. I think that's why I stayed with Shane for so long. Why I kept going back..... He was the only man who was always...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 10, 2009

    i care about people too much lol like i been

    talkin to this 6th grader kayla for a lil bit now and i already think of her as a sister lol cuz she be like i wanna fight so n so n i be like if tha gurl bring somebody imma really have a squad n i like hmu lol its weird but i get attached to dam easy like its not love attached...
    LiLJunie LiLJunie
    16-17, F
    Mar 22, 2015

    I'm so stupid. I really don't mean to get

    attached. I try and tell myself not to. I try and refuse it. But I get attached too fast once I decide that I like you. And I hate it.
    WellDressedandDepressed WellDressedandDepressed
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 1, 2014

    I hate this quality about myself.

    If you talk to me for like a whole day I'll get attached and start caring about you. It's crazy lol but my fall back game gets stronger everyday
    namedashley namedashley
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 4, 2015

    Not Anymore

    Honestly, my latest so called friends ruined any chance anyone has of ever getting close to me. Some people get efffed over for being nice all the time, I am one of those people. (((Or was)))
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Mar 10, 2011

    Wish humans dint had a heart

    and a feeling called detachment. Some religions like Jainism and buddism say that to be happy in life living beings should master detachment.
    acoolstud99 acoolstud99
    26-30, M
    Jan 8


    this only really happens to me online.  if i connect with someone even after just meeting them ill want to talk to them or whatever right from then.  and in person i seem to get attached though usually that takes at least an hour with them then ill want to hang out with...
    Turbulence Turbulence
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Jun 19, 2009

    When i meet someone and we get along

    and they get me i get sooo attached.i dont even have to know the person in person. Wish there was a way to stop doing that but i think its part of who i am.
    deleted deleted
    Mar 4, 2014

    It is difficult to let go of some people.

    . though they microscopically impacted our life, that impact will remain there forever. I get attached to people who I've just gotten acquainted with and who I've spent a good amount of time communicating with. I tend to feel the need to want them there constantly. It's pestering...
    mercifulpennies mercifulpennies
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 5, 2014

    I get attached And then I can't I CANT let

    go I can never hate them I can never tell them no I can not spend long periods of time away from them They become my heart My life My soul And when they let me go, I die Over And over And over again
    NearAsFarCanBe NearAsFarCanBe
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jul 2, 2014

    Everything was wonderful

    and then he just disappeared and left me hurting.
    boo514 boo514
    31-35, F
    Apr 22, 2015

    Yea I do get attached easy

    and quick and get dropped even quicker... 😩😞😪🙏🏻
    Brokenwingz1986 Brokenwingz1986
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 2

    It's my main flaw but it's better

    than not feeling anything I guess
    renguard renguard
    18-21, M
    Aug 13, 2014

    Probably the reason why I've been distancing

    myself from a lot of people now...
    LittleMidnight LittleMidnight
    1 Response Aug 25, 2015

    I've Got You Under My Skin

    I've talked about this before, and some of you I've talked to directly about this.   I'm a very deeply caring person, and once you have made it into my heart, you're not going anywhere anytime soon..   I care about everyone, even though I definitely can be...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jun 24, 2010

    I do! And I worry about that,

    but oh well.. They can handle it or not! It's who I am! Of I like you, I get attached that just the way it is
    deleted deleted
    Dec 26, 2015
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