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I Get Extremely Jealous When My Boyfriend Talks to Pretty Girls

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    My Jealousy Is Affecting My Life

    Well I have always been a jealous girl, but this relationship I'm in right now makes me want to jump off a cliff. For some reason in my mind I have to please everyone and be the most attractive, intelligent, athletic, etc. It's ridiculous and I hate to be beat. The boy I'm dating...
    LadyToken LadyToken 16-18, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2007

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    I'M Get Jealous When My Boyfriend Talks To A Few Girls

    I'M Jealous Of My Boyfriend Talking To Other Girls Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and I see that he talks to other girls I trust him a lot but I talk to other guys to and I try to accept the fact he talks to other girls like I do with guys but it just...
    Love143la Love143la 22-25 1 Response Apr 6, 2013

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    Yes I Get Jealous When My Husband Talks to Pretty Girls Cause He Flirts.

    I had a lot of guy friends before we were together and he had a lot of girls as friends.The thing is ever since we've been together i dropped talking to them cause he got jealous. But it's ok for him to talk to girls and flirt. I just found out that hes been talking to an ex...
    infantrywife35 infantrywife35 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2008

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    They Say I'm Childish

    Okay so I guess at my age you already hit puberty and start maturing but for some odd reason i feel like a child still...well my mum says i still am but I'm kinda a teenager maybe it's just stereotypes like wen your a teenager you should like boys or girls if youre a male [i'm a...
    KillWithHighlighter KillWithHighlighter 16-17, F Jul 13, 2008

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    Did I Not Do Something.?

    Everytime i've had a boyfriend, theres always jealousy issues because i just want them all to my own , it just ****** me off if a girl knows we're together and she still gets all on him and its not fair because she doesnt know the feelings i have for him and it feels like it...
    Blueejelly Blueejelly 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 16, 2010

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    Is It Correct My Bf Not Revealin That His Dating Just Because They Will Start Acting Differently!?

    Is it correct my bf not revealin that his dating just because they will start acting differently!? My bf is serious about me! And he has a lot of frinds who are girls. And he is brought up in that wayonly surrounding girls. But he also has male friends. We occasionally meet for...
    honeyswizgal honeyswizgal 18-21, F 4 Responses May 27, 2013

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    When I Have One

    I don't think the monogamy thing is going to happen again, so it should be all good. Here's hoping...
    BlissfullyBruised BlissfullyBruised 22-25, F Aug 29, 2011

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    This Is A Question

    I have a good friend, she calls me most of the time and she talks to me about her problems with her boyfriend. She told me that her boyfriend was watching tv. and he saw a pretty girl and he said" she is sexy as hell" I try to give her a advice but do you think thats right or if...
    princesa420 princesa420 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    So my boyfriend and I have been dating

    for 14 months now and I am very jealous when he talks to a pretty girl. He's friends with this girl and they are in the same class together and they text sometimes but he says it's nothing and they text for help with homework. She's really pretty and popular and the opposite of...
    Amylynnxo Amylynnxo 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Ugh

    It's ridiculous how I can be jealous. I trust him, and I know he has trust in me. I just get jealous if I'm not around and I hear other girls voices in the background. I don't know why It makes me jealous..........blehhhh.
    littlejxoxo littlejxoxo 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2012

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    Jealousy

    I trust my boyfriend, but alot of girls he's friends with like him and accuse me of treating him badly. Whenever he's near them I can't help but get a little jealous because he seems like he's flirting and always gives them hugs and i dont like it at all...and he just doesnt know...
    urajewelx10 urajewelx10 16-18, F 5 Responses Nov 6, 2006

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    I Guess Im a Bit Jealous...

    When my boyfriend hangs around with other girls I feel its Ok I mean I dont wanna hurt him...But when he hugs them or sit next to them EXTREMELY CLOSE or you know hold there hand...I feel </3 I just want to tell him hows he hurting me but I don't want him to think Im being...
    LilMissInnocent LilMissInnocent 16-17, F Jul 8, 2008

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    Yeah Im Jealous So Wut

    i cant stand it when he gets mad that i have a lot of guy friends an yet its okay 4 him to hug up on all thoses hoes hell no ill cut a hoe
    SUNCHYN SUNCHYN 16-18, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2006

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    Yup....I Do...

    I even get jealous when the girls are not so pretty!!!!
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F 6 Responses Aug 12, 2009

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    I know he's a nice guy a people are allowed to

    make friends of the opposite sex and I completely trust him with the whole of my being. But when I see pictures of him with new friends that just happen to be girls, and he looks like he's having a blast wherever he is, I get nauseous beyond belief, spiral into a depression...
    chikkita91 chikkita91 22-25, F Sep 22

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    I'M Jealous Of My Boyfriend Talking To Other Girls

    Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and I see that he talks to other girls I trust him a lot but I talk to other guys to and I try to accept the fact he talks to other girls like I do with guys but it just bothers me I know I shouldn't worry about every little...
    Love143la Love143la 22-25 1 Response Apr 6, 2013

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    Definitely.

    I definitely can't handle the thought of my boyfriend talking to someone more kind or funny or intelligent or attractive than myself. It drives me crazy, and oh, the fear of him falling for someone else.... I can't bear it. But, luckily, we're together almost all of the time...
    rainandhayl rainandhayl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 11, 2012

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    I Don't Have a Boyfriend R...

    I don't have a boyfriend right now but in the past I have gotten very jealous.
    Aulara Aulara 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 30, 2007

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    I Trust Him, Not Them

    He knows me well, he knows I don't like it when he talks to girls. He is more attractive than he gives himself credit for and he's really nice, once at a party he protected some girl some of his other friends were trying to take advantage of and carried her into his friends room...
    XioBlue XioBlue 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 1, 2011

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    It's Silly

    I know it's silly, but there is nothing that makes me more self conscious about my appearance, and even my whole being than when my Fiance talks to a pretty girl! It drives me crazy!!!!
    KatieJane KatieJane 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 12, 2009

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    Girl Possible After My Boyfriend... Really Jealous...

    Ok my boyfriend has had 7 girlfriends before me (he's 22) and I've always been really insecure about it for some reason. Well a girl who I think might be his ex (she's his friend on facebook) left him a comment on facebook that said (she's a massage therapist):  what other...
    princesscaroline87 princesscaroline87 22-25, F 3 Responses May 23, 2010

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    Other Girls

    i've always been the girl hanging out with the guys and girls would trip out on me. I always told them i would never want their man they are happy don't worry what girls they hang with because most of my boys would always talk to me about their gf. Well i started dating this guy...
    browneyegirl89 browneyegirl89 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2008

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    It's The Little Things That Count..?

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year, and have known each other three years prior to us dating. We are totally, competely in love, which may sound stupid, being the age we are, but he is made for me. We just recently had sex for the first time, both of us losing of...
    bwlamb bwlamb 16-17 1 Response Feb 29, 2012

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    I Cant Help It!!

    My Boyfriend always seems so calm around the girls in his class and my friends but when he sees me its like he tries to avoid me!! at our trivia night we were setting up and he kept leaving the room whenever i came in!! this is our last year together as he is moving and we only...
    jealousysucks jealousysucks 13-15 Apr 24, 2011

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    I Wish

    I wish I wasn't so jealous. It scares me sometimes. He has all these really pretty friends and I wonder what he is doing with me. I have never felt this way about anyone was never the jealous type. My boyfriend is very friendly too friendly sometimes. It makes me uncomfortable. I...
    MiseducatedChik MiseducatedChik 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 26, 2008

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    I'm Jealous, But Don't Want Him to Be

    I'm very jealous, don't want my boyfriend to talk with other girls... but I don't want him to be jealous when i'm talking to other boys..... I know, I'm not normal
    linda linda 21-25, F 3 Responses Feb 26, 2008

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    Fr i feel he would start liking her

    even thou he tells me i'm the only one in his mind nd he loves nd likes but i just assume alot even wen he supposedly bestfriend wants to chill with him 😒 i dont let him chill with no girls i'm so over protective idc !
    ashley486 ashley486 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    The Green Monster!

    I trust my boyfriend more than anyone in this world!  There's no real reason to be jealous when there are pretty females around him.  I guess it's just a natural thing to be jealous.  Eh?  lol
    NikilovesMarcel NikilovesMarcel 70+ 2 Responses Feb 4, 2008

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    Normal?

    I am so head over heals in love with my boyfriend. He is my soulmate and the father to our beautiful baby girl. I have been with him for almost 3 years. He has already proven to me that he is a faithful man, but i still can't shake that fear that he may let another female get...
    vivirmivida vivirmivida 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    Me Too!

    i was never the jealous type or well atleast i thought til recently like if my bf talks to other girls and laughs or texts them then lies about it i get jealous then i get mad and he doesnt understand why. its tearing us apart!
    klynn93 klynn93 13-15 1 Response May 21, 2009

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    Jealousy

    I get very jealous when my boyfriend talks to other girls. and he does the same if I talk to another guy. but if he wants to talk to other girls where does that leave me? I have no want to talk to other guys and I dont want him to be okay with me talking to other guys. I just...
    Sadannababe Sadannababe 18-21 3 Responses Apr 5, 2012

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    Little Green Monster

    I get very jealous when my boyfriend is talking to other girls. Most of his friends are girls so that doesn't really help, lol. :P I guess it's like that saying "I trust you, it's them that worries me." I try not to get jealous but sometimes you just cant help it...
    GoDrinkNailPolish GoDrinkNailPolish 16-18, F 2 Responses Feb 26, 2008

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    It Doesn't Do Much For Trust..

    I don't know why, and I trust my boyfriend with my life, but there are times I just can't help getting suspicious or jealous. For example (and this is going to sound really lame, because it happened on myspace..) there is this girl who added my boyfriend because he's in a band...
    tehLC tehLC 16-18, F 2 Responses Aug 30, 2006

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    ...the guy I like stares at pictures of Kate

    upton and I know it's never going to happen with them to date but I'm so jealous bc her body is so much better than mine and it makes my self esteem go down so much and he won't like me if I don't look like her I guess. Idk
    StoryOfMyLife1234 StoryOfMyLife1234 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 6

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      I Can Be a Pret...

      I can be a pretty Jealous person ...  i used to be extremely Jealous but that was because i was codependent .. now that im not ...  i dont really think it would be a matter of Jealousy as much as an increase in symptoms of paranoia which can be controlled through...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F Apr 7, 2007

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    Jealousy

    I beleive jealousy represents insecurity. You see your boyfriend/girlfriend talking to someone you feel is more attractive than you, you instantly get jealous because you think that their going to ditch you for that girl because they're in your mind way better than you. When...
    1996sarah 1996sarah 16-17 2 Responses Aug 22, 2012

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    My Own Insecurities

    It was really bad in my last relationship. Most of my then-boyfriend's friends were girls. Pretty girls. I'd constantly compare myself to them and worry about keeping his attention / affections. I think I still worry about that sometimes with my current boyfriend. I'm trying...
    paperalias paperalias 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 4, 2008

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    They don't even have to be pretty,

    just talking to other girls is enough to upset me. I'm really easy to upset and have a temper sooooo yeah :/ he knows and it used to be easy cuz he just wouldn't talk to them but this year he's kinda started being a **** about it...
    Kazerella Kazerella 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    Im Jealouse of Other Girls

    i am very jealous when my boyfriend talk to  pretty girls than me and  i don't know why I'm so jealous
    september1990 september1990 18-21 6 Responses Sep 14, 2009

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    I'm glad he doesn't,

    but I don't talk to other guys either
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F Sep 21

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    I am jealous when I am in love, my boyfriend is the jealous type as well and we accepted this fact about each other. We believe that if you love a person it's only natural to be...
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    I didn't do it on purpose. I can't really talk to any other people because he gets super jealous. but, I can't complain because I'm the same way. I hate when he talks to other...
    gummball gummball 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm really jealous of pretty girls..
    cassiecollins cassiecollins 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 11

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    I'm so jealous of pretty girls...
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    A dare that sort of backfired! It was in early April, 1971. I was 16, and was in grade 11 (third year of high school). There were a bunch of girls in my class that got angry...
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    Why I am feeling jealous when my room mate get higher incentive. Though I did not start working yet but I do hold a far better profile than him. Is it normal with male? Earlier I...
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    I've always been friends with the "pretty girls" all my friends are like Barbie dolls. Constantly being complimented by people and it makes me feel so self conscious.
    sammylynn333 sammylynn333 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I admit I get jealous at times. Even when a guy I'm just talking to as a friend is close to another girl. It makes me feel upset. I get jealous when I see people getting what I've...
    JustDevy JustDevy 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    think girls are superior to boys. all girls should put boys through petticoating and femininze them to turn boys into pretty girls.
    GirlyAndrea1987 GirlyAndrea1987 26-30, M 3 Responses