I Get Extremely Jealous When My Boyfriend Talks to Pretty Girls

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    It's Silly

    I know it's silly, but there is nothing that makes me more self conscious about my appearance, and even my whole being than when my Fiance talks to a pretty girl! It drives me crazy!!!!
    KatieJane KatieJane
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Aug 12, 2009


    I trust my boyfriend, but alot of girls he's friends with like him and accuse me of treating him badly. Whenever he's near them I can't help but get a little jealous because he seems like he's flirting and always gives them hugs and i dont like it at all...and he just doesnt know...
    urajewelx10 urajewelx10
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Nov 6, 2006

    I'M Jealous Of My Boyfriend Talking To Other Girls

    Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and I see that he talks to other girls I trust him a lot but I talk to other guys to and I try to accept the fact he talks to other girls like I do with guys but it just bothers me I know I shouldn't worry about every little...
    Love143la Love143la
    1 Response Apr 6, 2013

    Yes I Get Jealous When My Husband Talks to Pretty Girls Cause He Flirts.

    I had a lot of guy friends before we were together and he had a lot of girls as friends.The thing is ever since we've been together i dropped talking to them cause he got jealous. But it's ok for him to talk to girls and flirt. I just found out that hes been talking to an ex...
    infantrywife35 infantrywife35
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Oct 10, 2008

    Me Too!

    i was never the jealous type or well atleast i thought til recently like if my bf talks to other girls and laughs or texts them then lies about it i get jealous then i get mad and he doesnt understand why. its tearing us apart!
    klynn93 klynn93
    1 Response May 21, 2009

    I Don't Have a Boyfriend R...

    I don't have a boyfriend right now but in the past I have gotten very jealous.
    Aulara Aulara
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 30, 2007

    Yeah Im Jealous So Wut

    i cant stand it when he gets mad that i have a lot of guy friends an yet its okay 4 him to hug up on all thoses hoes hell no ill cut a hoe
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Dec 22, 2006

    The Green Monster!

    I trust my boyfriend more than anyone in this world!  There's no real reason to be jealous when there are pretty females around him.  I guess it's just a natural thing to be jealous.  Eh?  lol
    NikilovesMarcel NikilovesMarcel
    2 Responses Feb 4, 2008

    I Cant Help It!!

    My Boyfriend always seems so calm around the girls in his class and my friends but when he sees me its like he tries to avoid me!! at our trivia night we were setting up and he kept leaving the room whenever i came in!! this is our last year together as he is moving and we only...
    jealousysucks jealousysucks
    Apr 24, 2011

    When I Have One

    I don't think the monogamy thing is going to happen again, so it should be all good. Here's hoping...
    BlissfullyBruised BlissfullyBruised
    22-25, F
    Aug 29, 2011


    I beleive jealousy represents insecurity. You see your boyfriend/girlfriend talking to someone you feel is more attractive than you, you instantly get jealous because you think that their going to ditch you for that girl because they're in your mind way better than you. When...
    1996sarah 1996sarah
    2 Responses Aug 22, 2012

    I Trust Him, Not Them

    He knows me well, he knows I don't like it when he talks to girls. He is more attractive than he gives himself credit for and he's really nice, once at a party he protected some girl some of his other friends were trying to take advantage of and carried her into his friends room...
    XioBlue XioBlue
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 1, 2011

    They don't even have to be pretty,

    just talking to other girls is enough to upset me. I'm really easy to upset and have a temper sooooo yeah :/ he knows and it used to be easy cuz he just wouldn't talk to them but this year he's kinda started being a **** about it...
    Kazerella Kazerella
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 15, 2014

    My Own Insecurities

    It was really bad in my last relationship. Most of my then-boyfriend's friends were girls. Pretty girls. I'd constantly compare myself to them and worry about keeping his attention / affections. I think I still worry about that sometimes with my current boyfriend. I'm trying...
    paperalias paperalias
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 4, 2008


    It's ridiculous how I can be jealous. I trust him, and I know he has trust in me. I just get jealous if I'm not around and I hear other girls voices in the background. I don't know why It makes me jealous..........blehhhh.
    littlejxoxo littlejxoxo
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 22, 2012


    I definitely can't handle the thought of my boyfriend talking to someone more kind or funny or intelligent or attractive than myself. It drives me crazy, and oh, the fear of him falling for someone else.... I can't bear it. But, luckily, we're together almost all of the time...
    rainandhayl rainandhayl
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 11, 2012

    Little Green Monster

    I get very jealous when my boyfriend is talking to other girls. Most of his friends are girls so that doesn't really help, lol. :P I guess it's like that saying "I trust you, it's them that worries me." I try not to get jealous but sometimes you just cant help it...
    GoDrinkNailPolish GoDrinkNailPolish
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 26, 2008

    yeah thats true. Luckily he doesnt have many

    girl friends and im happy about that. he was with me yesterday and suddently he got a phone call from a girl and i got really jealous especially when he told her "yeah, it will look good on u, for sure".. i didnt talk at first and when i asked him who the girl was, he told me it...
    mommyJess mommyJess
    13-15, F
    Nov 3, 2015

    It's The Little Things That Count..?

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year, and have known each other three years prior to us dating. We are totally, competely in love, which may sound stupid, being the age we are, but he is made for me. We just recently had sex for the first time, both of us losing of...
    bwlamb bwlamb
    1 Response Feb 29, 2012

    U_U So ******* stay away!

    *Hits your face 1 million times with a water bottle full of lead!*
    TheUltimateCrazyCatLady TheUltimateCrazyCatLady
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 1

    So me and my partner went to visit his old

    friend. At one point he took off his shirt to show off his new tattoo but her response made me extremely uncomfortable. She was very feely and was caressing his back and hanging off of him. At one point it came out that they message each other back and forth all day, at which...
    Gingerfab Gingerfab
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 31, 2015

    Other Girls

    i've always been the girl hanging out with the guys and girls would trip out on me. I always told them i would never want their man they are happy don't worry what girls they hang with because most of my boys would always talk to me about their gf. Well i started dating this guy...
    browneyegirl89 browneyegirl89
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Oct 10, 2008

    Did I Not Do Something.?

    Everytime i've had a boyfriend, theres always jealousy issues because i just want them all to my own , it just ****** me off if a girl knows we're together and she still gets all on him and its not fair because she doesnt know the feelings i have for him and it feels like it...
    Blueejelly Blueejelly
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Oct 16, 2010

    Is It Correct My Bf Not Revealin That His Dating Just Because They Will Start Acting Differently!?

    Is it correct my bf not revealin that his dating just because they will start acting differently!? My bf is serious about me! And he has a lot of frinds who are girls. And he is brought up in that wayonly surrounding girls. But he also has male friends. We occasionally meet for...
    honeyswizgal honeyswizgal
    18-21, F
    4 Responses May 27, 2013

    My boyfriend talks to a bunch of girls on

    snapchat. So #1 I can never see what is said in these conversations and #2 he has talked to these girls as more then friends before. He gets really mad whenever I bring it up but it bugs me. What do I do
    mh10 mh10
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 31, 2015

    I know he's a nice guy a people are allowed to

    make friends of the opposite sex and I completely trust him with the whole of my being. But when I see pictures of him with new friends that just happen to be girls, and he looks like he's having a blast wherever he is, I get nauseous beyond belief, spiral into a depression...
    chikkita91 chikkita91
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 22, 2014

    So my boyfriend and I have been dating

    for 14 months now and I am very jealous when he talks to a pretty girl. He's friends with this girl and they are in the same class together and they text sometimes but he says it's nothing and they text for help with homework. She's really pretty and popular and the opposite of...
    Amylynnxo Amylynnxo
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 22, 2014


    I am so head over heals in love with my boyfriend. He is my soulmate and the father to our beautiful baby girl. I have been with him for almost 3 years. He has already proven to me that he is a faithful man, but i still can't shake that fear that he may let another female get...
    vivirmivida vivirmivida
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 3, 2013

      I Can Be a Pret...

      I can be a pretty Jealous person ...  i used to be extremely Jealous but that was because i was codependent .. now that im not ...  i dont really think it would be a matter of Jealousy as much as an increase in symptoms of paranoia which can be controlled through...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme
    26-30, F
    Apr 7, 2007

    Fr i feel he would start liking her

    even thou he tells me i'm the only one in his mind nd he loves nd likes but i just assume alot even wen he supposedly bestfriend wants to chill with him 😒 i dont let him chill with no girls i'm so over protective idc !
    ashley486 ashley486
    13-15, F
    Jul 11, 2014

    I'm glad he doesn't,

    but I don't talk to other guys either
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma
    18-21, F
    Sep 21, 2014

    Yup....I Do...

    I even get jealous when the girls are not so pretty!!!!
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor
    56-60, F
    6 Responses Aug 12, 2009

    They Say I'm Childish

    Okay so I guess at my age you already hit puberty and start maturing but for some odd reason i feel like a child still...well my mum says i still am but I'm kinda a teenager maybe it's just stereotypes like wen your a teenager you should like boys or girls if youre a male [i'm a...
    KillWithHighlighter KillWithHighlighter
    16-17, F
    Jul 13, 2008

    Im Jealouse of Other Girls

    i am very jealous when my boyfriend talk to  pretty girls than me and  i don't know why I'm so jealous
    september1990 september1990
    6 Responses Sep 14, 2009

    It Doesn't Do Much For Trust..

    I don't know why, and I trust my boyfriend with my life, but there are times I just can't help getting suspicious or jealous. For example (and this is going to sound really lame, because it happened on myspace..) there is this girl who added my boyfriend because he's in a band...
    tehLC tehLC
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Aug 30, 2006

    This Is A Question

    I have a good friend, she calls me most of the time and she talks to me about her problems with her boyfriend. She told me that her boyfriend was watching tv. and he saw a pretty girl and he said" she is sexy as hell" I try to give her a advice but do you think thats right or if...
    princesa420 princesa420
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 28, 2011

    I Wish

    I wish I wasn't so jealous. It scares me sometimes. He has all these really pretty friends and I wonder what he is doing with me. I have never felt this way about anyone was never the jealous type. My boyfriend is very friendly too friendly sometimes. It makes me uncomfortable. I...
    MiseducatedChik MiseducatedChik
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 26, 2008

    Girl Possible After My Boyfriend... Really Jealous...

    Ok my boyfriend has had 7 girlfriends before me (he's 22) and I've always been really insecure about it for some reason. Well a girl who I think might be his ex (she's his friend on facebook) left him a comment on facebook that said (she's a massage therapist):  what other...
    princesscaroline87 princesscaroline87
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 23, 2010

    ...the guy I like stares at pictures of Kate

    upton and I know it's never going to happen with them to date but I'm so jealous bc her body is so much better than mine and it makes my self esteem go down so much and he won't like me if I don't look like her I guess. Idk
    StoryOfMyLife1234 StoryOfMyLife1234
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 6, 2014


    I get very jealous when my boyfriend talks to other girls. and he does the same if I talk to another guy. but if he wants to talk to other girls where does that leave me? I have no want to talk to other guys and I dont want him to be okay with me talking to other guys. I just...
    Sadannababe Sadannababe
    3 Responses Apr 5, 2012

    I'M Get Jealous When My Boyfriend Talks To A Few Girls

    I'M Jealous Of My Boyfriend Talking To Other Girls Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and I see that he talks to other girls I trust him a lot but I talk to other guys to and I try to accept the fact he talks to other girls like I do with guys but it just...
    Love143la Love143la
    1 Response Apr 6, 2013

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