I Get Frustrated About My Identity

a group for those debating sexual identity, or preference. for transgenders, gays, lesbians, bysexuals. all are welcome to vent their thoughts and frustations and doubts. 133 People

    I get frustrated because I have a son

    that I don't want knowing I'm a gay guy who wears diapers. so I play liking girls when I really don't. I'm a guy who loves to have **** in me wether in my mouth or my *** and preferably both at the same time.
    diaperedbottomboy diaperedbottomboy
    26-30, M
    May 22, 2015

    My dysphoria isn't getting any better it bugs me

    and the more I see shot on YouTube it bugs me more it's not possible for me at the moment I'm unemployed/ I have no idea when I'm getting a job nobody will hire me even after doing a fancy degree waste of time personally and I'm 25 so the day I could do it I'll be close to 30...
    Tiggerzzzz Tiggerzzzz
    26-30, M
    Apr 16, 2016


    marilife marilife
    31-35, F
    Nov 28, 2014

    I made this account back

    when I was still brushing off the problems I have with my gender identity. I've had problems with my body since I was three and learned the difference between boys and girls. I never wanted this body I was born with. I was never happy being a "woman." Deep down, I never felt...
    Shirogane Shirogane
    22-25, F
    Apr 21, 2015

    Hey guys! I could use some help deciding wether

    or not I'm transgender. I have two older brothers and live with a very accepting family. When I was born my parents were very excited to have a girl so they bought me all the girliest things. I dressed very girly for the first half of my life and I wore dresses up until 1st...
    SkylarGray SkylarGray
    18-21, T
    1 Response Dec 30, 2015

    Finishing my senior schooling is currently

    so hard, recently coming out to a select few as gay, but I really just want to be far more feminine. The hardest part is scrolling through social media and seeing all the girls with big smiles, being the way they are, and wishing that I could be like that. And i get so angry...
    XxxsissybimboxxX XxxsissybimboxxX
    22-25, M
    Mar 4, 2015

    I cant stand not being known

    as bi but i was attacked by several guys in a locker room at my old school because i came out thats never happening again because im not coming out again. :(
    LaTeAssassin LaTeAssassin
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 27, 2014

    Who And What Am I Part 2

    hi i am a bit lost lonely and broken in life and just following up my first part of who am i what am i onto 2003 big brother show gay ron davis said he was gay was i one of them? 2004 my lonely life continued with more gays coming out of the closet spencer and elton john i was...
    defoekeane defoekeane
    36-40, M
    Apr 1, 2012

    Hope Can Only Stretch To Last So Far

    i am at a cross roads with my sexual identity. i know i am a man, i know my body says female. but i am running out of the hope for change. for the chance to change. my patience grows thinner, and i am driving my self crazy. wispering and wondering to my self alone in to the...
    childcalledit childcalledit
    26-30, T
    2 Responses Nov 24, 2009

    Gay Or Not?

    When I was a little child, very very little child, I remember I had a crush on this girl which was way older than me (elementary school :p ) My parents and family were teasing me about it as joking and I was totally understanding so nothing wrong until now. After that, I don't...
    somenonstop1 somenonstop1
    26-30, M
    1 Response Nov 11, 2013

    I can only finish by watching lesbian ****

    and my boyfriend hasn't been able to make me finish yet. I've been thinking I'm a lesbian but I really don't want to be. I don't have anything against homosexuals at all! I just want to only like guys. Maybe I like guys but sexually attracted to women? Can someone help me figure...
    rocks78 rocks78
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 18, 2014

    I honestly feel like I am a girl not a guy.

    I can't help but feel bad about myself in my male body. I'd feel more comfortable as a female and am looking to hopefully make it a reality. If there are any females in the north Richland hills/Hurst/Fort Worth area who can help me with this. Please I beg of you, help me become...
    DanielPhillips DanielPhillips
    18-21, M
    Mar 16, 2015

    It gets pretty difficult

    when people ask me what race I am. I know I'm 'Mexican', I was born in Queretaro; A Large City In Mexico. I only lived there till about 4 not that time consuming. I enrolled to pre-school and kindergarten there. After I moved to the USA I had to retake kindergarten. Now 17 years...
    deleted deleted
    13 Responses Mar 3, 2016

    It's too conflicting

    now a days. I sometimes want to stay a male but I also want to be female in a sense that my package is inverted. I often wonder how my life would be like if I did this change and how it would effect others. I'm bisexual which doesn't help identify what I really am ( ._.)
    hedowmedow hedowmedow
    18-21, M
    Jan 31, 2015

    I Know What Your Going Through

    Hi people!im a very very proud father.one of my sons is gay and one of my daughters is a lesbian.i love them dearly.they were having trouble with themselves.i noticed and asked them whats going on.they explaind it to me.so i found a place to help us all understand whats taken...
    hotel09 hotel09
    41-45, M
    Aug 22, 2012

    Who And What Am I?

    hi im a guy in his late thirties in the UK and i am very awkward socially.i am very shy and my lack of confidence has always hung like a cloud over me.i didnt have many friends at school and i was a bit of a loner. i took up a job when i was 20 in a male dominated environment and...
    defoekeane defoekeane
    36-40, M
    Apr 1, 2012

    I'm gender fluid ....

    I think.... Don't judge me for not knowing
    annirawrmuffin annirawrmuffin
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2014

    I don't know who I am sometimes.

    Right I feel like crying because the inside of me doesn't feel connected to my body. It feels so foreign and out of place. I won't cry though, ill just hope the feeling would go away soon. But I seriously wish I wasn't in this body sometimes.
    ponycupcake ponycupcake
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Sep 12, 2014

    I'm a biological male,

    but honestly I feel like both genders. I'm considering reassignment when I get older, but I still have a lot to think about. It's a tough choice, but I'd hope I'll be happy with whatever I choose.
    metallic28 metallic28
    18-21, M
    Feb 28, 2015
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