I Get Hit On Quite a Bit

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    I Get Hit On Alot, But I Dont Like It.

    Its one thing if someone that you know expresses interest, but for a total stranger to come up to you  - it seems kind of insulting to me. Especially since I happen to be big chested , so when I get hit on , it  seems like thats what theyre expressing interest in, not me.
    imzadi81 imzadi81
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 16, 2012

    creepy dudes calling females darling,

    sweety, honey need to stfu. it's not cute or sexy. you don't know me and shouldn't be calling me anything but my screen name.
    isolatedandlonely isolatedandlonely
    31-35, F
    Jan 10, 2016

    I REALLY don't like it.

    Guys have been hitting on me ever since I was 12! (that's the age when I started to "develop") Guys anywhere between the ages of 12 and 30 (plus a few creepy carnival workers who looked ancient) hit on me everywhere I go. I looked more like I was 14 when I was 12, but it's still...
    VegetarianVampire VegetarianVampire
    18-21, F
    Mar 6, 2014

    I'm a waitress at Buffalo Wild Wings

    and you have no idea how many people hit on me. I've even been asked to marry someone lol
    Broken0923 Broken0923
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jan 28, 2015

    Truthfully it's gotten worse,

    as I got older, between men hitting on me or taking my picture I have girls doing it now too! I don't think I'm all that, but hey I always wanted to be in modeling and acting I guess it's the closet I can get! Plus I owned a nightclub and not too much phases me! I'm grateful I...
    Carrie1018 Carrie1018
    41-45, F
    Jan 9, 2016

    It never fails! I for some reason attract

    either very old men or DL Men. I will be walking down the street and an old guy will honk their horn at me or a downlow guy will try and whisper at me. I'm only 21 and a male btw. I don't get it why this is starting to happen and it's just begun to happen it never did before. I...
    TheTruth94 TheTruth94
    22-25, M
    Jan 26, 2015


    I have women flirting with me and asking me for my number all the time.  It's not like I'm some drop dead gorgeous guy.  I'm average, plain and kind of boring at times.I don't flirt and I have no idea how to flirt.When it happens I'm always surprised.  Are you talking to me ma...
    ItsLikeThatMan ItsLikeThatMan
    31-35, M
    Sep 12, 2011

    Make My Day

    Thank you sir, you made my day And you also made my yesterday But my answer still stays the same I am still quite very gay But please don't feel dismayed You're quite a looker I must say However your girlfriend should feel betrayed Though it's not my fault you feel led to stray...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine
    31-35, F
    14 Responses Jul 20, 2011

    Men Like Me!

    It's true, but I'm not bragging, more, I am amazed alot because I think I'm too quirky for run of the mill. I am amazed when people hit on me on the street, or here, grateful to, believe it or not!
    aoutdouze aoutdouze
    22-25, F
    Sep 2, 2013

    I cannot stand males

    who badger females for sex. no, we don't wanna see your ugly earthworm. and don't assume we'll do something for you cause you find us attractive.
    isolatedandlonely isolatedandlonely
    31-35, F
    Jan 10, 2016

    I moved from the western part of the U.

    S. To the south about 3 years ago. I don't know if it's a southern thing. But I am hit on allll the time. To the point where it's getting very annoying. I go to the gas station, grocery store, park, hiking, etc (I don't go to clubs or bars) I keep to myself. I am kind to people...
    mysticdragonlady mysticdragonlady
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 6, 2015

    Whoa There Ma'am.

    Today my fiance and I were looking at some more houses that were for sale, we've already picked out the one we wanted but we wanted to be sure there was nothing better out there.We pass by this sign that says Open House Today and thought why not have a look at the house.  It was...
    ItsLikeThatMan ItsLikeThatMan
    31-35, M
    Nov 20, 2011

    guys are already trying to figure out

    where I live so they can get laid. and when I shut them down they have a temper tantrum.
    isolatedandlonely isolatedandlonely
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 10, 2016

    I'm not even that pretty

    but reasons I dont like going places. People have no tact . Cheesy pickup lines are a no with me . Cat calls are a series of curse words possibly in multiple languages. Sometimes the false honesty thing works but with a minimum of attitude .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    Jan 26, 2015

    I Never Used to

    I'm really not used to this, but lately everywhere I go there are at least three atractive young women (usually young O.O) who are basically all over me. I don't want this, I've been making sure that I do nothing to bring this about (although I am generally a bit of an...
    godsmack666 godsmack666
    18-21, M
    9 Responses May 24, 2009

    It's kinda annoying because of the stupidity of

    the guys that think that I'd just let them take my virginity... OMG so stupid...
    cocoluvr99 cocoluvr99
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 13, 2014

    It's Annoying

    People only seem to hit on me because they think im pretty. Its almost insulting. They think that's all i am is a pretty face. Dont get me wrong I love compliments but when some one keeps saying hey beautiful and stuff like that it kind of gets on my nerves. My friends can call...
    angeliceyes11 angeliceyes11
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Jul 20, 2011

    Only Lately

    Recently I have been going to the bar a lot with someone. We go to open jams and such. We both sing. Well, people cannot leave me alone, and its all older men. I mean, I like older men, but not my dad's age! And I know what they want, and it's not because they like my personality...
    LadySarah09 LadySarah09
    26-30, F
    Jul 5, 2013

    Too Much Attention.

    When I entered my teens,I dont know but things became quite different in the sense that I started getting a lot of attention from the opposite sex.Till then I was considered to be an average guy was just pleasant looking who the girls would not even think of giving a second look...
    Macrajat Macrajat
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jun 4, 2012

    Well, I thought it should be obvious but.

    .., If a anyone just wants to chat, then approach to chat. I usually give people a chance to chat if they have something to talk about. But don't ask to chat and then ask me what I wanted to chat about. Most guys on here approach with no conversation and asking for a nude pic...
    curiousbrenda69 curiousbrenda69
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2016
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