I Get Jealous Easily

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    I'm not normally the jealous type,

    or whatever. But if you mess with my boo, I will scalp you. ^-^
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 29, 2015

    That is the one thing I will admit is a flaw

    whenever I am in a relationship. I have been screwed over enough times by guys and girls to know that people aren't always telling you the truth about other people they talk to. Even with the best person I could possibly be with, I still do that. Guess it's just my minds way of...
    loveloveforever loveloveforever
    18-21, F
    Feb 27

    I hate getting jealous.

    . And it's just.. Ugh... It'd feel like my heart was ripped out... I just hate it so much.. Does anyone have any tips on how to not be jealous?
    DoorMattress DoorMattress
    16-17, M
    3 Responses Jul 24, 2015

    I'm just very possessive about my friends.

    ........ I always get jealous when my best friend even talks with someone else......
    weirdnerdgirl weirdnerdgirl
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Oct 29, 2015

    I don't know why but I am a jealous person.

    I may not like to admit it but I can get easily jealous and I worry that it causes problems at times. I just wish I could make this jealousy go away but I've always struggled with it even though I don't like to admit that I do.
    tw82491 tw82491
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 21

    I've had 2 relationships with the same guy

    and he dumped me twice because I'm to jealous. On one side, I understand it completely but on the other side not. In the past, he lied to me a few times so in my head, I can't forget that and I get jealous for the smallest things.
    Unintendedgirl Unintendedgirl
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 18

    Very, very, very, very,

    very, very, very easily..
    LanniLette LanniLette
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 30, 2014

    Truth is that I get jealous easily.

    What is mine is mine, nobody can mess with it.
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Feb 1

    I want to control my jealousy

    but I got cheated on , how can i do trust people after have trusted them with all my heart then they did that to me ? Anyone who could go tru this and trust again?
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jan 24

    When she's thick 😂 you like aw.

    . I'm skinny.. Meh. He can have her. I'll stick to my abs thank you :3
    3st3ll3 3st3ll3
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 24, 2015

    So one time there was this girl

    who went up to my crush ' face real close and I really, really, really wanted to throw an apple to her head. But I didn't because I could've hit my crushes head but if was further away I could've done it. I don't know why I f get so jealous, he never really hangs out with girls...
    deleted deleted
    Jun 11, 2015

    I hate that I get jealous.

    It tears me apart and it is slowly ruining me. I don't want to be jealous. I try not to be a jealous guy. But at the end of the day I do get very very jealous. And I get jealous fast.
    Raptax231 Raptax231
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 27, 2015

    Yes I am a jealous person.

    I'm sorry if I'm easily annoyed, I'm sorry if I act like I don't like you, and I know I'm easily jealous over the stupidest things, which really don't want to be jealous of.
    KT3535 KT3535
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Feb 23

    I don't care if we just became friend

    or if I just know your name, I will get jealous if I see you talking to someone else. I don't know why, but I don't let my jealously get the best of me... Most of the time... I consider myself extremely possessive. I know it is bad if I am the persons only friend, but my brain...
    BakaForSenpai BakaForSenpai
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 10

    I'm such a jealous b*tch sometimes.

    BeautifulMistake21 BeautifulMistake21
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Aug 2, 2014

    I get so jealous so easily.

    . I hate it but I can't help it
    alyssiabeth alyssiabeth
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 8, 2015

    I should really stop going looking

    for things and getting upset when I find "it." It can be the smallest of things and my mind magnifies it by 1000x... I'm too old for this..
    lildiva89 lildiva89
    26-30, F
    Oct 15, 2015
    LostMarionette LostMarionette
    16-17, F
    Feb 11

    can you hear that? it's the sound of my heart

    breaking into a billion pieces
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 22

    I'm a Scorpio, there's a few stings in my tail!

    I'm not really possessive with it, just challenging. I have a few things to work on!
    Banyousbabe Banyousbabe
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 8, 2015

    If I was a donut... Is be a jelly donut.

    I, ladies and gentlemen, am a jealous *****. I get jealous when my dogs greets people, my friend talks to someone else, when my partner looks at other people. I get jealous that I use my right side of my body more than the left. Jealousy is my center. I feel as if I...
    SnoopDoggsGrama SnoopDoggsGrama
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 8, 2015

    I seriously get so jealous

    so easy. And it's like 90% of the reason my boyfriend and I fight. He's never really ever don't anything major for me to feel this way, it's more of my past relationship, which I know I should never let that define my relationship now, but it is so hard. My last relationship I...
    haileyx3 haileyx3
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Feb 2
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Jul 27, 2015

    I hate it but it's true.

    When I love someone I get really greedy with their attention and I don't mean to be. I get jealous and I start worrying that something better could come along and I'll just be put to the side. Im lucky to be with you and I really love you :)
    Raptax231 Raptax231
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Oct 13, 2014

    I don't get jealous of people,

    I get jealous over people (not sure I am using the right words here to convey the right feeling). I don't get jealous because she is prettier than me, smarter than me etc... I am very much content, I am glad that I am me, I am happy with myself, I am not the most beautiful girl...
    MissGaga MissGaga
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 30, 2014

    I'm sorry but I do get jealous easily.

    Call me possessive or clingy but If you're mine, YOU'RE MINE . I ain't sharing! NOPE! hehe. I'll try to deny it but you'll just laugh and find it cute. Why? :/ WHY!
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Apr 10

    I get very jealous in a relationship.

    but I also like being with a guy who gets jealous.. and is protective and a little controlling. I don't know why.
    tiannadiane tiannadiane
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 23, 2015

    “Jealousy is a mean

    and eval B*I*T*C*H, don’t let her take over your mind. She will send you looking for something that is not there, make you think things that are not true, make you hear things that were never said, make you feel things that can not be touched.”
    Cupcakestoy Cupcakestoy
    41-45, F
    Apr 20

    I hate this feeling and I've never had it in

    life except when it comes to him. I get jealous and it's clearly an insecurity but it's the worst feeling in the world. I know why I feel it is how we came to be and I'm getting better at blocking it out or even talking about it. Hoping in time it'll go as I relax more! Till...
    myownbox myownbox
    26-30, F
    3 Responses May 2, 2015

    people say jealousy is an ugly thing well I

    guess I'm one ugly mf because I can't help it I'm not a stalker typer jealous person but I do get very jealous I can't help it when I have feelings for someone they are strong.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 19

    Me as a girlfriend: "Babe.

    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jan 5, 2015

    it really hurts . i really dont like it .

    and gurls play on this / my feelings "to check if i like them" . but it just makes me become upset n angry n i dont forgive them n then once they know im intrested . we hook up but inside when i get the chance . i do or say something ugly :( . n of course feel even worse n they...
    cdwishimatgurlCalandraBelle cdwishimatgurlCalandraBelle
    36-40, T
    Feb 1

    so . readin sum stories .

    n iv had a super jealous wife n stuf n it was bad coz i started living staring at the ground instead . but right now . iv thought u kno whats awsum . being hand in hand with my gurl . we both staring at other chix n guys if she wants . n we turn to look at each other after becoz...
    cdwishimatgurlCalandraBelle cdwishimatgurlCalandraBelle
    36-40, T
    Feb 2

    I hate it. In the past,

    boys have manipulated me by making me jealous. I wish I didn't care, but I do.
    deleted deleted
    Dec 3, 2015

    if you're my boyfriend,

    that means you're my boyfriend. of course you talking to other girls is going to make me feel jealous. I'm not saying don't talk to any, but be aware, that while your spending time with her, I want to be spending time with you. don't try and make me jealous. it's not cute.
    skittlequeen skittlequeen
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 26, 2015

    Sometimes I get jealous over the weirdest

    little things. Like I've been babysitting for this family for about 2 years now..Their house is like my second home, I'm here all the time. Well anyways, a few days ago their mom asked if I would be able to watch the kids over the summer..I told her I could only watch them 1...
    Rachel335 Rachel335
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 19

    I get jealous of people in relationships.

    I am so bitter towards them. I always joke about ow disgusting it is but I am really so lonely and it's so upsetting.
    Abcdefghijessy Abcdefghijessy
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 14, 2015

    I hate that I get jealous

    so easily :/ I don't mean to. Sometimes just the right thing said can cause me to get jealous. I just....I'm in a long distance relationship and my girlfriend is so amazing and she makes me so happy and it's not like I don't trust her. I do trust her and I love her so so much. I...
    Raptax231 Raptax231
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Nov 15, 2014

    My Bf has been getting along

    so well with his new friends.. mostly girls. I guess I should be happy for him since he's been sociable. He is a friendly person and I know that I can't be all that there is to him, but I somehow feel afraid that they'll take him away from me. He almost makes me feel second...
    xCallisto xCallisto
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 17

    And I hate that about myself.

    I feel an emotional burn and I end up crying :/ :(
    tanchel90210 tanchel90210
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 28

    when my friend is totally better

    than me, thats when i get upset a lot. im this socially awkward girl because quietness personality basically lives in my DNA and i also have the pathetic depression that makes me want to kill myself every bit if second. its not fair that they live better than myself because i...
    whitenut whitenut
    16-17, F
    Apr 4

    Usually I don't feel defective.

    Even if I am jealous for my friends after some period it passes and I am genuinely happy for them. Also I feel different with different friends. For some of them I am always only happy. For other sometimes jealous. But this is not why I feel defective. My current problem is this...
    Memonster Memonster
    2 Responses Apr 18

    I don't know why some people don't get jealous

    at least once from a situation with their girlfriend/boyfriend. you never know what could possibly happen. I'll be honest, I'm cold about. I get jealous easily because what's mine is mine (not saying I treat a person as a possession) but if I have a boyfriend I don't want to...
    Mesmicdoll Mesmicdoll
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 24, 2015

    yes when it's someone I care

    for deeply I tend to get jealous very very easy I'm not a psycho jealous though lol
    deleted deleted
    Sep 13, 2015

    I think I have BPD. I get irrationally angry

    when my girlfriend texts or hangs out with other people and I hate myself for it.
    lkattil lkattil
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 8

    Okay, so....yikes. I get bitchy

    when jealous. Like PMS bitchy. So, when the girl I hate for practically no apparent reason starts flirting with MY crush, I got pissed. However, it was passive-aggressive. It lasted 4 days. Day 1: I was silent, trying to keep my emotions bottled up like I normally do. Day 2...
    shawking shawking
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Jan 31

    I am jealous of the people

    who are around my age that have already achieved so much; musical prodigies, geniuses, musical artists, etc. And then I think about how I haven't done anything worthwhile. I hate being jealous...
    misanthropicpessimist misanthropicpessimist
    16-17, F
    Jul 14, 2015

    Yeahhhhh. Too easily.

    Anybody else? I hate it : /
    HeartOfWarrior HeartOfWarrior
    18-21, M
    Dec 7, 2015

    I absolutely hate it,

    but it's true. And even though I've gotten much better at controlling it, it still happens. Recently, my boyfriend got a job and has tons of female coworkers. They are all super cool/edgy or beautiful. Also, pretty much all of them are outgoing and flirtatious and confident. I'm...
    kristinap123 kristinap123
    26-30, F
    Feb 9

    It's one of my least favorite things about

    myself because I know I should be happy for others. I get really jealous of friendships mostly. Like when a friend of mine is closer to someone else than me, it just eats away at me.
    amandapanda007 amandapanda007
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 7

    I am an intern. I met a new friend at my work

    place. she was awesome, cool, smart, fun, basically everything that I'm not. She and I both clicked and i thought we were like best friends since we're just a difference in year. Then I rotated to another department after two weeks. There I made a few more friends. They were...
    56jennn 56jennn
    22-25, F
    Feb 4

    It's rare enough for me to fall

    for someone, but it's bad for me at the same time. Even if we're not dating, I get bugged by you laughing at any other guys jokes, you flirting with him, anything that has to do with another guy tbh. Sorry but if anyone plans on dating me, I will get jealous but it's only...
    akaShaun akaShaun
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 23, 2015

    I'm going to sound awful

    but I get jealous of people who are very close with their families. I never had that luxury and I tend to be very bitter about it.
    nemophilist8 nemophilist8
    18-21, F
    Apr 11

    I honestly can't help it sometimes.

    As far as I know, I do not have any talents. I'm always envious of people that have talents and are making names for themselves. Even if it's one thing that will carry them far, I wish I could be them. Singing, intelligence, athletics, music, making friends, even something as...
    FreshAirLover FreshAirLover
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 5

    So I still get jealous

    when I look back on a memory....when my boyfriend had a crush on some girl when we were dating, it hurts to think back on it, in trying hard to be less jealous so I don't upset my bf, because I tend to be meaner to him when I remember incidents like that
    PoetryApocolypse PoetryApocolypse
    18-21, F
    Feb 1

    A person who seems jealous

    or clingy is actually someone who cares the most.
    iamsal iamsal
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 8
    DoorMattress DoorMattress
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Oct 14, 2015
    ItsOkey ItsOkey
    22-25, M
    Mar 19
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