I Get Messed Up Because Im Too Nice of a Guy

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    Tried changing fashion styles to portray a bad

    boy look but deep down I can't fight it, I'm a nice guy. I stand for chivalry and the code of the gentlemen but 'nice guys finish last' is an unfortunate truth. Im not saying it's definite, but it does happen more often than not
    leonardtan leonardtan
    22-25, M
    3 Responses May 13, 2014

    This is my life. "Oh he's nice,

    always so calm, friendly" translation: decent guy to know (superficially it seems) "You're like a brother to me" translation: because you don't act hot and at least you're super nice I will just have familial feelings toward you. "I feel I can always talk to you...
    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife
    26-30, M
    5 Responses Jan 9, 2015

    This is like praising your own self.

    .. How can anyone call themselves nice ?? Probably it's possible that I feel am being too nice but am I really nice ? I maybe a little nice but too nice ?? No one has said that as yet to me that I am too nice ... Then why do I feel that "I am being too nice " ?? Why do I...
    uselessguy uselessguy
    36-40, M
    Nov 7, 2014

    It's nice to be in a relationship,

    but I will not put up with immaturity. I understand it's hard for some people to open up to you and share their feelings, but when you give her three years? There was plenty of times I could of cheated on her, mentally or physically. I could of slept with other women or get...
    NeoBatou NeoBatou
    26-30, M
    Jan 8, 2015
    zhenry zhenry
    13-15, M
    Nov 7, 2014

    Why Am I the One Who Get Srewed In the End

    Let me share you guyz my relationship with this girl I truly love, from the beginning of our relationship till the end... First of all, im a super laid back guy meaning i agree with whatever my girl (ex) say depending on the situation.. I met her at my job, at...
    dren182 dren182
    1 Response Feb 19, 2008

    I Guess Its True, It Doesnt Pay To Be Nice Anymore..

    I was brought up with both my parents thank god, and thru my years with them I learned family values that one that I want to share with my wife and kids, I was thought to treat a woman like she's a queen and always be a good husband and a great providor for your family. I always...
    juniar juniar
    41-45, M
    1 Response Dec 31, 2011
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