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I Get Nervous Meeting Women

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    Nice Guy Syndrom

    This is the worse thing about me that I hate so much. One particular girl I have recently come in contact with said these words to me “you don’t know how good looking you are, do you?” Well no I don’t. If I look in the mirror I see sloth from The Goonies. I try my...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 24, 2010

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    Saying All The Wrong Things

    I never seem to be able to talk to a woman, they are so beautiful that I get all flustered and mix up words, sometimes can't even pronounce them correctly. Maybe that is why I am so intiminated by them. Probably why I want to be a female and have since early in life. Oh, to be...
    EvieDrag EvieDrag 61-65, T Aug 23, 2010

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    I hate being so in-experienced with girls,

    I can't hold a conversation with one 😑 not my fault I'm extremely shy and nervous around them.
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 1 Response May 13

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    I Just Don't Get It... Why Aren't Women In My Life?

    I like to think of myself as myself as your average guy.  I partied quite a bit  but still managed to graduate high school with decent grades, got a real job that I love that I can support myself with after I move out of the rent's house which will happen shortly, and...
    four20one four20one 16-18, M Oct 31, 2007

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    Stutter Stutter.

    Thats me. How am I supposed to react? Am I being nice enough? Am I being too nice? Am I being an *******? Do I look ok? Do I look nervous? Crap I didn't open that door. Am I being interesting? What do I say. I'm so uncomfortable. Be yourself. What is yourself? Be...
    anteye anteye 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2006

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    The 'Curse' Of Being A 'Great Guy'

    i don't know about the rest of you but the words "you're a really great guy but..." are like poison to me. i'm sure you all know where i'm coming from, constantly seconding guessing which girls to talk to, what to say to them, what their texts mean, ect. its agony. then when you...
    blackfire459 blackfire459 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 15, 2012

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    I Do Too

    i am a female and when i see a pretty girl I get shaky. My eyes cant meet theirs and it is chaos. I had a super pretty History teacher in hi skl. The way I would stare at that lady made even me creeped out. life
    Sansiz Sansiz 18-21, F Jan 30, 2013

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    I'm A Nice Guy, Is There Something Wrong With That?

    I don't hit women; I don't want to flirt them just for sex; I don't take advantage of them when they are drunk; I can take a girl all the way home just because it's not safe for her to go alone, I will just stop at the doorstep and saying good night... Apparently, there is...
    mr1031011 mr1031011 26-30 2 Responses Oct 18, 2010

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    Why Do They Have To Be So Beautiful!!!

     im 29, and i have never been with a woman, in a relationship!!! i just dont have the confidence, and i cant ever see myself having the confidence to be with a woman!! i mean, i guess i know why i dont have the confidence, but thats a different story, i just dont know how to...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 26, 2009

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    A Start

    Ok, I did manage to get married have wonderful children and get divorced. The woman I married chased me for two years! Anyway never felt the goose bumps with her all that much. Now I find that I am 43 and no more comfortable with women the before marriage. Wouldn't that be...
    yeddi18 yeddi18 41-45, M Jul 3, 2012

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    Nice Guy Syndrom Ii

    How do you know when a girl is just being nice vs. showing attraction? I can't tell the difference, I never know which ones to make a move on and which ones to be passive with. I understand how girls need to feel comfortable with you before they consider a future of courtship...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain 26-30, M 9 Responses Sep 7, 2010

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    I wish one day I could just meet someone who's totally different and into me and as unique as I am who's non conformed and who is just happy and purses me a little. I'm a man I don...
    bradman1390 bradman1390 22-25, M 12 hrs ago

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    I get super nervous when meeting new people, yet I can be so talkative to people I've known for years. I just need to warm up to people :)
    Loovvee Loovvee 22-25, F Jul 27

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    Adventure Part 1: I'm leaving Hawaii today to go meet my Daddy Dom for the first time. He's in Canada. I've never visited there. I'm so nervous about meeting him. Any tips, tricks...
    YourwishSir YourwishSir 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 6

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    Ethan614c4ap9 Ethan614c4ap9 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    new people bring in new perspectives. There's always something to learn from their experiences & their cultures. You may not like the way they speak or the way they dress or...
    uselessguy uselessguy 36-40, M 11 hrs ago

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    I really like meeting new people, but I'm sorry if I don't reply to you, I can talk to everyone.
    imaloser2580 imaloser2580 22-25, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I really like meeting new people but I'm too shy to do anything about it :(
    Paragonn Paragonn 13-15, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I really enjoy meeting new people. Just to talk to them for the first time and get to know them is something I really enjoy doing. Especially if we both like the same things
    deany311 deany311 18-21, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Right now there is a family reunion happening at my house (not my family). I don't know anyone and I feel so nervous that it actually makes me cry. I just want to hide away in my...
    kico4 kico4 13-15, F Jul 20

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    We visited a clothing optional spa. There were two communal hot tub / sauna areas. One was for women only and the other was for both men and women. My girlfriend, who is 38 and has...
    almostvegan almostvegan 51-55 4 Responses Aug 2

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    Only when meeting new people. I can't seem to be able to go and introduce myself to people.
    christid309 christid309 22-25, M Jul 29

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    Women are in standing and carrying wen you not well
    123tomcat 123tomcat 51-55, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    There is something about so hot about the married Indian Women.
    indibull69 indibull69 46-50, M 8 hrs ago

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    I suppose there are so many men who post on here women can have their pick and don't have to ask or post if they don't want to
    Tarmigan Tarmigan 61-65, M 8 hrs ago

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    i really like matured women goshh i cant help it <3
    tweetums tweetums 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Since I've had a child of my own and seeing the overall process, idk why but I find pregnant women to be very very attractive. I generally think that if they are normally...
    graywolf558 graywolf558 26-30, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I believe it's even proven that women's IQ is higher on average than men's. Also the person with the highest intelligence known on earth was a woman :)
    cucksome cucksome 26-30, M 12 mins ago

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    So I'm nervous but I want to try dressing up and going to a club Sunday as a girl any words of encouragement lol
    Heaven21 Heaven21 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 25

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    Every since I was a little girl, I was super shy. If I met new people, I would be super quiet around them. But when I feel more comfortable around people and feel I can trust them...
    Faithlovee Faithlovee 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    Men like this author are true gemsA Message to Women From a Man: You Are Not "Crazy"You're so sensitive. You're so emotional. You're defensive. You're overreacting. Calm down...
    SpiceZ SpiceZ 56-60, F Jul 22

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    I officially start my new job tomorrow :) Kinda nervous though!
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Jul 20

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    I think people are just the best most awesome thing ever, they're just so interesting and every single person has their own unique personality ,how can u not love meeting new...
    Life8227 Life8227 16-17, F Jul 20

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    I use it to vent, get an outside perspective on life, and pass the time. But I get nervous that my fiance will get upset that I am on a 'social network' that is completely personal...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I have my very first paying day at work Tomorrow and I'm really nervous what if I **** up an order... What if I give the change one... What if I accidentally say something to a...
    Daisyellenrose Daisyellenrose 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I really didn't want to get up. But the duck walks up from the lake and knocks at the backdoor around 6AM. Today was the norm. Feed the duck before the geese get there. Then watch...
    MaskedRascal MaskedRascal 36-40, M Jul 22

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    OK! Let me be straight a head and honest when i talk about women. Most guys talk about the girl azz and beebs as have to say some does. I do look to women in different angle as...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M Jul 23

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    i got so nervous when i was asking Megan to be my girlfriend that i had to ask her if i can start over. whoops.
    xxxalyssabrownxxx xxxalyssabrownxxx 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    I have no idea why, but I love just meeting and learning about new people, despite the fact I'm socially awkward and it's difficult for me to interact with strangers. I'm really...
    JustAOddGirl JustAOddGirl 13-15, F Jul 28

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    I'm that type of person that love meeting new people but when it meet them I'm very shy🙉 I know that I'm very shy but can I do to get over the shyness
    Purplequeen21 Purplequeen21 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    Seriously, how can I help it that I'm scared and nervous all the time? I wish he would understand what my mind is like, and see that he makes it so much worse...
    mandyownstimmy mandyownstimmy 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    tomorrow, i will go to S. Tomé e Principe to do volunteer with children and also adults for 1 month. I dont know how people will receive me and how they will react to our...
    monicafixe monicafixe 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    I have a date tomorrow with the most gorgeous white/Asian firefighter. I'm really nervous considering how open and honest he is with me. It's easier to respond to someone when you...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    Well, Aug 16th I'll officially be moved into my dorm with my new roomie i'm so nervous. I really hope I can stick to it. I've been known to get going when things get tough..my dad...
    ksites ksites 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    Don't know what's happening but I'm having a nervous breakdown
    ladyyukihime ladyyukihime 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I am always open to talking to new people and meeting others, so message me if you want to talk :)
    JickeryJack JickeryJack 18-21, M Aug 6

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