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I Get Nervous Meeting Women

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    Ok, I did manage to get married have wonderful children and get divorced. The woman I married chased me for two years! Anyway never felt the goose bumps with her all that much. Now I find that I am 43 and no more comfortable with women the before marriage. Wouldn't that be...
    yeddi18 yeddi18 41-45, M Jul 3, 2012

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    The 'Curse' Of Being A 'Great Guy'

    i don't know about the rest of you but the words "you're a really great guy but..." are like poison to me. i'm sure you all know where i'm coming from, constantly seconding guessing which girls to talk to, what to say to them, what their texts mean, ect. its agony. then when you...
    blackfire459 blackfire459 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 15, 2012

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    Saying All The Wrong Things

    I never seem to be able to talk to a woman, they are so beautiful that I get all flustered and mix up words, sometimes can't even pronounce them correctly. Maybe that is why I am so intiminated by them. Probably why I want to be a female and have since early in life. Oh, to be...
    EvieDrag EvieDrag 61-65, T Aug 23, 2010

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    I'm A Nice Guy, Is There Something Wrong With That?

    I don't hit women; I don't want to flirt them just for sex; I don't take advantage of them when they are drunk; I can take a girl all the way home just because it's not safe for her to go alone, I will just stop at the doorstep and saying good night... Apparently, there is...
    mr1031011 mr1031011 26-30 2 Responses Oct 18, 2010

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    There is a girl at school

    who i like but I can never get enough courage to talk to her. I feel horrible after that class we have together bc I never talk to her.
    randomkjabcaijbiaj randomkjabcaijbiaj 18-21, M Mar 11

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    I Just Don't Get It... Why Aren't Women In My Life?

    I like to think of myself as myself as your average guy.  I partied quite a bit  but still managed to graduate high school with decent grades, got a real job that I love that I can support myself with after I move out of the rent's house which will happen shortly, and...
    four20one four20one 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 31, 2007

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    I hate being so in-experienced with girls,

    I can't hold a conversation with one 😑 not my fault I'm extremely shy and nervous around them.
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 1 Response May 13, 2014

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    I Do Too

    i am a female and when i see a pretty girl I get shaky. My eyes cant meet theirs and it is chaos. I had a super pretty History teacher in hi skl. The way I would stare at that lady made even me creeped out. life
    Sansiz Sansiz 18-21, F Jan 30, 2013

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    Nice Guy Syndrom

    This is the worse thing about me that I hate so much. One particular girl I have recently come in contact with said these words to me “you don’t know how good looking you are, do you?” Well no I don’t. If I look in the mirror I see sloth from The Goonies. I try my...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 24, 2010

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    Why Do They Have To Be So Beautiful!!!

     im 29, and i have never been with a woman, in a relationship!!! i just dont have the confidence, and i cant ever see myself having the confidence to be with a woman!! i mean, i guess i know why i dont have the confidence, but thats a different story, i just dont know how to...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 26, 2009

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    Stutter Stutter.

    Thats me. How am I supposed to react? Am I being nice enough? Am I being too nice? Am I being an *******? Do I look ok? Do I look nervous? Crap I didn't open that door. Am I being interesting? What do I say. I'm so uncomfortable. Be yourself. What is yourself? Be...
    anteye anteye 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2006

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    Nice Guy Syndrom Ii

    How do you know when a girl is just being nice vs. showing attraction? I can't tell the difference, I never know which ones to make a move on and which ones to be passive with. I understand how girls need to feel comfortable with you before they consider a future of courtship...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain 26-30, M 9 Responses Sep 7, 2010

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    cashi43 cashi43 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 17

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    I am always nervous about trying new things. But I have never been more nervous in my life. For those who don't know I am Bipolar, I have getting help from a therapist for awhile...
    AllTheEmotions AllTheEmotions 18-21, M Apr 8

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    The way to have world peace is a topless world meeting, boobs= world peace
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    I like it when there is some sort of game involved and the loser has to sit in the gunge tank while the winner pulls the chain to release the gunge onto them. It's great to watch...
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    my name is aarya , i had a friend named aasha , she had a friend maghi , i had seen maghi ffew times , she is so pretty and has nice figure with good shapes in particular private...
    amarnathnaga007aarya amarnathnaga007aarya 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 17

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    I recently wrote an erotic story about a young submissive girl meeting a mysterious Dom in an old amusement park. If anyone is interested in reading, here is the link on Wattpad...
    gatsbyj3 gatsbyj3 18-21, M Apr 19

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    I'm nervous because I believe in school we will do doing the sport of swimming and I'm pretty sure you can tell why an anti social person is nervous. Also, I don't know what type...
    fatality500 fatality500 13-15, M Apr 12

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    So today in the lunch room, there were two girls who I found to be attractive and I was interested in talking to them to get to know them better. Only problem was is that I was...
    MegaManZero97 MegaManZero97 16-17, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was looking at a web site that popped up to give men who think EP is a dating site an alternative but was surprised when this article popped up ,, maybe food for thought for both...
    rckt148 rckt148 56-60, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    I'm so nervous.... I feel like I'm messing things up .... I'm scared.... Why am I so terrified about a simple phone call??? What am I really afraid of? I'm afraid that I won't...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    I'm really nervous I start next week an internship.. Somebody got some tips for me?
    Miriam212 Miriam212 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    I love people. It provides me the encouragement and happiness that can't be earned from being lonely. It does not necessarily matter what that person has to be. Most of the time, I...
    kowow kowow 16-17 Apr 4

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    I go to college in the fall and I am nervous and excited at the same time. I have so many worries and fears yet at the same time I am excited for the fresh start, the new...
    Ivygirl96 Ivygirl96 18-21, F Apr 13

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    It's unreal how nervous I am when talking to people face to face, yet when it comes to over the phone, I'm totally fine, even though I cringe at everything I say because I can't...
    QueenOfAwkwardness QueenOfAwkwardness 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    I am definitely nervous for my future. Trying to balance my education, my career plans, and what I love...I find that I can only pick two.
    nish23 nish23 18-21, M Apr 14

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    I haven't seen my ex since the last time we made love. I kind of could tell as it was happening, that it was going to be the last time. a few days later, we got into an argument...
    Kizzykinz Kizzykinz 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    I messaged my ex boyfriend J on facebook to ask how my best friend C is doing because he refuses to talk to me, but I wonder all the time what/how he's doing. Now I'm nervous that...
    marinadelmonroe marinadelmonroe 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My doctor here in Paris is an older guy, and I've seen how he looks at me when I slip off my clothes for an internal examination. I get nervous, which might sound strange, not...
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have women friends on EP.. Some add me and I used to add them back without even had a conversation with them.. I used to do that because I wanted to make a balance with my men...
    Sorrentina Sorrentina 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 18

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    I blend my clothing each day. I have replaced entire sections of clothing with the women's versions. I only wear panties (VS High leg breifs, thongs, and v-strings) because they...
    bajep bajep 56-60, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    I believe as a man its my privilege to respect women. More so as a person and a human being it's my job to respect all life. Men respecting women, women respecting men, men...
    Thespistx Thespistx 26-30, M Apr 6

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    I'm tired of so much media attention given to rail-thin women and holding them up as the standard for feminine beauty. Look around you, how many women do you see in your daily life...
    pantyluvr843 pantyluvr843 41-45, M 16 Responses Apr 9

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    I know that older women are sexy they know how to dress and how to take a compliment. I have used the gentleman approach on both and younger women just don't care to be helped with...
    Qearl33 Qearl33 22-25, F Apr 4

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    why do women want to be submissive when there horny, but once they get there rocks off , they don't want to be? how hard is it to find a submissive women that does what I say when...
    cjraquarius cjraquarius 22-25, M Mar 31

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    I think Asian women are totally gorgeous. I met and fell in love with a Taiwanese women last year. Asian women treat their men so incredibly well. They generally do a lot if yoga...
    Julesyro Julesyro 61-65, M 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I had a problem with four cruel women from three different congregations. I was learning how to manage my emotion to these women because they were strong emotion to me. I know the...
    JXoxo2013 JXoxo2013 26-30, F Apr 6

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    I don't like total *******, but I will admit I do like women who have an attitude. A woman who can be a ***** if the situation calls for it, and doesn't care what other people...
    this22 this22 22-25 Apr 9

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    I read just the other day about women now earning more than men in twenty-two (22) of the major cities in the US. I find that highly encouraging. I look forward to the day when...
    BabyLee001 BabyLee001 66-70 Apr 10

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