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I Get Nervous Meeting Women

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    I Do Too

    i am a female and when i see a pretty girl I get shaky. My eyes cant meet theirs and it is chaos. I had a super pretty History teacher in hi skl. The way I would stare at that lady made even me creeped out. life
    Sansiz Sansiz 18-21, F Jan 30, 2013

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    The 'Curse' Of Being A 'Great Guy'

    i don't know about the rest of you but the words "you're a really great guy but..." are like poison to me. i'm sure you all know where i'm coming from, constantly seconding guessing which girls to talk to, what to say to them, what their texts mean, ect. its agony. then when you...
    blackfire459 blackfire459 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 15, 2012

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    Why Do They Have To Be So Beautiful!!!

     im 29, and i have never been with a woman, in a relationship!!! i just dont have the confidence, and i cant ever see myself having the confidence to be with a woman!! i mean, i guess i know why i dont have the confidence, but thats a different story, i just dont know how to...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 26, 2009

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    Stutter Stutter.

    Thats me. How am I supposed to react? Am I being nice enough? Am I being too nice? Am I being an *******? Do I look ok? Do I look nervous? Crap I didn't open that door. Am I being interesting? What do I say. I'm so uncomfortable. Be yourself. What is yourself? Be...
    anteye anteye 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2006

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    There is a girl at school

    who i like but I can never get enough courage to talk to her. I feel horrible after that class we have together bc I never talk to her.
    randomkjabcaijbiaj randomkjabcaijbiaj 18-21, M Mar 11

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    Nice Guy Syndrom Ii

    How do you know when a girl is just being nice vs. showing attraction? I can't tell the difference, I never know which ones to make a move on and which ones to be passive with. I understand how girls need to feel comfortable with you before they consider a future of courtship...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain 26-30, M 9 Responses Sep 7, 2010

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    I Just Don't Get It... Why Aren't Women In My Life?

    I like to think of myself as myself as your average guy.  I partied quite a bit  but still managed to graduate high school with decent grades, got a real job that I love that I can support myself with after I move out of the rent's house which will happen shortly, and...
    four20one four20one 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 31, 2007

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    I'm A Nice Guy, Is There Something Wrong With That?

    I don't hit women; I don't want to flirt them just for sex; I don't take advantage of them when they are drunk; I can take a girl all the way home just because it's not safe for her to go alone, I will just stop at the doorstep and saying good night... Apparently, there is...
    mr1031011 mr1031011 26-30 2 Responses Oct 18, 2010

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    I hate being so in-experienced with girls,

    I can't hold a conversation with one 😑 not my fault I'm extremely shy and nervous around them.
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 1 Response May 13, 2014

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    Nice Guy Syndrom

    This is the worse thing about me that I hate so much. One particular girl I have recently come in contact with said these words to me “you don’t know how good looking you are, do you?” Well no I don’t. If I look in the mirror I see sloth from The Goonies. I try my...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 24, 2010

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    Saying All The Wrong Things

    I never seem to be able to talk to a woman, they are so beautiful that I get all flustered and mix up words, sometimes can't even pronounce them correctly. Maybe that is why I am so intiminated by them. Probably why I want to be a female and have since early in life. Oh, to be...
    EvieDrag EvieDrag 61-65, T Aug 23, 2010

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    A Start

    Ok, I did manage to get married have wonderful children and get divorced. The woman I married chased me for two years! Anyway never felt the goose bumps with her all that much. Now I find that I am 43 and no more comfortable with women the before marriage. Wouldn't that be...
    yeddi18 yeddi18 41-45, M Jul 3, 2012

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    vikesfan06 vikesfan06 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Hey how you doing today. I'm just a very going guy, who truly enjoy life to the fullest. I'm into meeting new and exciting people to know on a personal level. I know what this...
    sircash09 sircash09 31-35, M Mar 16

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    I have social anxiety so meeting new people is really difficult for me. I think its funny how much I love meeting new people considering I'm so shy. I'm always really awkward when...
    GreenEyess GreenEyess 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I'll get to the point whenever I'm nervous my face gets red !! That's a problem for me even if I'm nervous I can hide it I can act like everything is fine , but my face will just...
    JamieDaveJ JamieDaveJ 16-17, M Mar 4

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    Our thesis is done, which means, thesis defense is about to come. Oh dear, I can't explain how nervous I am. I am assigned to defend our work next week, Wednesday, and I think I'll...
    dindinpobs dindinpobs 16-17, F Feb 27

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    I have a job interview for bass pro shop in Palm Bay Florida on 3/5/15 so nervous I can't even get any sleep tonight
    Mattdomb Mattdomb 18-21 1 Response Mar 4

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    I am feeling extremely nervous because I have to so a demonstration speech tomorrow during my oral communications class. It will be talking about "how to save money?", but I don't...
    Shioxt Shioxt 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 5

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    I absolutely love meeting & talking to new people!
    Brandonxx Brandonxx 18-21, M Mar 6

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    Im that kind of person that loves meeting new people but too shy to start something. If someone sat next to me I'd have a battle in my mind like "Do I talk to them?!" "Do they want...
    Patienceie Patienceie 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 7

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    I am so nervous. My mind is packed with so many things. I'm organizing a Talent Show that will be taking place tonight. And I'm also going to be the only MC at the event. I've...
    RavenS45 RavenS45 18-21, F Mar 18

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    I don't wanna say I'm like Tweak on the TV show South Park, but I am a bit nervous in unfamiliar social situations or any time I'm under pressure to "perform." Sometimes I think...
    lovelywarpedlemon lovelywarpedlemon 18-21, F Mar 19

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    I had a media workshop in the city today for school and I met a really great girl while I was there! She was so friendly and we seemed to have quite a lot in common :) we have...
    baberlay baberlay 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    My band is playing a shoe tonite at this venue called the Egyptian room its still in the state I live in, in fact its right downtown I believe in the same city. But we have never...
    Jwolf1342 Jwolf1342 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Got my work experience for the week starting tomorrow! Excited yet nervous! Wish me luck everyone!
    fatality500 fatality500 13-15, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    i'll have sweaty palms if im nervous... and that happens all the time. my hands are never dry! i dont like it.. :(
    dyxnxh dyxnxh 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    So for those of you who live in the Uk you will know about gcse and the options forma and things. I just filled mine in to be handed in tomorrow and im honestly so nervous but so...
    NobodyCaresOkai NobodyCaresOkai 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    You get that feeling of excitement right before the interview. Heart starts beating faster, a million thoughts flowing through the mind. How do you calm down? The first step is to...
    Jackson2222 Jackson2222 26-30, M 20 hrs ago

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    I signed up to perform in my school talent show, not having a routine at all. My song ended up being 5 minutes long. I've been trying to choreograph a ballet routine all week but I...
    makailafish makailafish 16-17, F 12 hrs ago

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    Violence against women is rooted in deeply ingrained social norms that portray women as less than men. Violence against women and girls is a global problem, and ending it requires...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    I am a 30 year old straight male too and I have started to wear women's short shorts! They feel so much more comfortable with that stretch feel, but also when it hugs around your...
    DiamondD84 DiamondD84 26-30, M Mar 2

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    You know what passes me off? In schools and other places they always have WOMENS abuse hotlines. and seminars on WOMENS rights. and lectures on how WOMEN are objectified in the...
    tylerlh tylerlh 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 4

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    I personally like when women disrespect men feelings. I'm sorry. I been seeing men disrespect women a lot. I feel glad that women are treating men how they treated them. I don't...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 4

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    I'm talking to every man who looks at a women an only wants to screw her. You know what, if you loved your mother you know where I'm coming from. Women don't get respect in this...
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M Mar 15

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    Yesterday, I was watching this video where 3 women got kidnapped in 2004 and were basically slaves. The man did horrible things to these women. Because you see, the women were...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 4 Responses Feb 27

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    Here's a comment I saw: "guys who hit girls should be publicly caned or castrated" Alright. If that's how we deal with men who abuse women, how do we deal with women who hit men...
    AgentSean AgentSean 18-21, M Mar 7

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    happy women's day:))))))) thanks you all the women who make the earth a better and beautiful place to live,,,,, as a mother you nourish us,,,, as sister you are always there for...
    mdbest4u mdbest4u 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 7

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    I admire women who do their jobs well against all odds.The housewife toiling away at her chores but taken for granted.The working women who don't get equal pay or recognition as...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 14