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I Get Nervous Meeting Women

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    I'm A Nice Guy, Is There Something Wrong With That?

    I don't hit women; I don't want to flirt them just for sex; I don't take advantage of them when they are drunk; I can take a girl all the way home just because it's not safe for her to go alone, I will just stop at the doorstep and saying good night... Apparently, there is...
    mr1031011 mr1031011 26-30 2 Responses Oct 18, 2010

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    I Just Don't Get It... Why Aren't Women In My Life?

    I like to think of myself as myself as your average guy.  I partied quite a bit  but still managed to graduate high school with decent grades, got a real job that I love that I can support myself with after I move out of the rent's house which will happen shortly, and...
    four20one four20one 16-18, M Oct 31, 2007

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    Saying All The Wrong Things

    I never seem to be able to talk to a woman, they are so beautiful that I get all flustered and mix up words, sometimes can't even pronounce them correctly. Maybe that is why I am so intiminated by them. Probably why I want to be a female and have since early in life. Oh, to be...
    EvieDrag EvieDrag 61-65, T Aug 23, 2010

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    A Start

    Ok, I did manage to get married have wonderful children and get divorced. The woman I married chased me for two years! Anyway never felt the goose bumps with her all that much. Now I find that I am 43 and no more comfortable with women the before marriage. Wouldn't that be...
    yeddi18 yeddi18 41-45, M Jul 3, 2012

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    Nice Guy Syndrom

    This is the worse thing about me that I hate so much. One particular girl I have recently come in contact with said these words to me “you don’t know how good looking you are, do you?” Well no I don’t. If I look in the mirror I see sloth from The Goonies. I try my...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 24, 2010

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    Nice Guy Syndrom Ii

    How do you know when a girl is just being nice vs. showing attraction? I can't tell the difference, I never know which ones to make a move on and which ones to be passive with. I understand how girls need to feel comfortable with you before they consider a future of courtship...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain 26-30, M 9 Responses Sep 7, 2010

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    Why Do They Have To Be So Beautiful!!!

     im 29, and i have never been with a woman, in a relationship!!! i just dont have the confidence, and i cant ever see myself having the confidence to be with a woman!! i mean, i guess i know why i dont have the confidence, but thats a different story, i just dont know how to...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 26, 2009

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    I hate being so in-experienced with girls,

    I can't hold a conversation with one 😑 not my fault I'm extremely shy and nervous around them.
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 1 Response May 13

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    I Do Too

    i am a female and when i see a pretty girl I get shaky. My eyes cant meet theirs and it is chaos. I had a super pretty History teacher in hi skl. The way I would stare at that lady made even me creeped out. life
    Sansiz Sansiz 18-21, F Jan 30, 2013

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    The 'Curse' Of Being A 'Great Guy'

    i don't know about the rest of you but the words "you're a really great guy but..." are like poison to me. i'm sure you all know where i'm coming from, constantly seconding guessing which girls to talk to, what to say to them, what their texts mean, ect. its agony. then when you...
    blackfire459 blackfire459 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 15, 2012

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    Stutter Stutter.

    Thats me. How am I supposed to react? Am I being nice enough? Am I being too nice? Am I being an *******? Do I look ok? Do I look nervous? Crap I didn't open that door. Am I being interesting? What do I say. I'm so uncomfortable. Be yourself. What is yourself? Be...
    anteye anteye 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2006

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    Some of you men may be able to somehow relate to my story headline, so you probably know how much it sucks when you've had the worst luck with women. As a man in my 30s, I have...
    dude2278 dude2278 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 20

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    Why do i get so nervous around people ive had this all my life i was at work this week and in a meeting with 10 others which is uncommon and i got asked a direct question i didn't...
    mann30 mann30 31-35, M Nov 22

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    Serial cheater here. I've been emailing this man for over a month now. We are meeting for lunch tomorrow. I could care less about lunch and want to just go crazy on him. It's been...
    5timecheater 5timecheater 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 4

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    Update Guys, this Guy I have been written about, whom now my boy friend. invited me to visit his parents next Feb.so for the first time in my life I'm meeting a boy's parents...
    Ashleyoo0 Ashleyoo0 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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    Submissive women are the most exquisite creatures on this good Earth. They significantly increase this man's self-confidence and sexual value. I understand that a woman who is...
    jwtecy jwtecy 46-50, M 3 Responses Nov 21

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    No girl likes to start over with a new guy. Getting to know a guy all over again. Learning how to feel comfortable with a guy all over again. Giving herself mind, body, and soul to...
    SunshineH316 SunshineH316 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    Seriously though... I've been attracted to this woman that is way out of my league (and quite a bit older than me) for a while now. She is always smiling and her kindness has no...
    peacekeeper15 peacekeeper15 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 28

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    My woman and I have recently agreed that I can take on a second wife. The hardest part is actually finding a woman who is willing to actually take part in the relationship. There...
    von15 von15 18-21, M Dec 2

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    NEED ADVICE. I was really close to my English professor when I took a course with him in summer so when the course finished I emailed him just to update him about getting a...
    psychedelicblues psychedelicblues 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    Well, my sister has had a "wonderful idea" to go to her works christmas party dressed in an identical dress as her "sister". Unfortunately, the "sister" is me! So, the michelle...
    Lacieamanda Lacieamanda 26-30 2 Responses Dec 9

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    It's always been a pleasure meeting new people, knowing about them & becoming friends. It's been totally a great experience when you come across a stranger, start talking & then...
    ProjectXPune ProjectXPune 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    What are some great ways to approach women and maintain a conversation with them? My goal is to have an emotional driven conversation, build attraction, and get the number from...
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    So tomorrow there's a poetry slam and I'm super nervous because I'm performing in it. Has anyone else ever been in a poetry slam? Does anyone know ways not to be nervous on stage?
    Analease Analease 13-15, F Dec 4

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    We both claim to be happily married.She has confessed feelings for me in the past.Of love.I have told her she turns me on both physically and intellectually.This has forced us to...
    1gr8guy 1gr8guy 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 9

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    i love talking that's for sure,and i also love meeting New people the reason why i love meeting New people is because i can my experience with them.And get to know them And about...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M 19 hrs ago

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    There is this time of life for women which I find wonderful for me as a man opposite women. Many men treat it as a problem, as well as some women... but for me it is a blessing...
    elKraken elKraken 70+ 1 Response Nov 18

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    I am going crazy, I have a huge presentation tomorrow in front of a big time client, and my boss will be there. Earning this client would put me top of list, but failing causes a...
    wise025 wise025 22-25, M Nov 20

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    I'm nervous about this job....I'm not liking it so far...I never want to go :(
    Court24 Court24 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 22

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    I love to meet new people. I love meeting people from all over the place and making new friends
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 22

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    He only has time to sleep at night.. His boy toy gets the last few hours.. That or other ppl.. Meetings at 1.30am? How much slack is one supposed to cut? I just wanna stay away for...
    melancholic28 melancholic28 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    I love meeting and chatting with new people from all over the world and all walks of life. So feel free to send me a message anyone :) I spend a lot of time sitting and waiting in...
    tripedge tripedge 31-35, M Nov 24

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    Though I am classified as an introvert (and still show strong signs of it on days that I'm left alone for too long), I still like meeting people. I make a conscious effort every...
    Truthseeker18 Truthseeker18 18-21, M Nov 27

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    idk just the idea makes me nervous that i don't know how to do it right/well. it freaks me out help
    gingergurl22 gingergurl22 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    Is it ok to be nervous? We have a baseball pre-game next week, then in January we have tryouts. I can hit but sometimes I choke and miss the ball and that might cost me a spot on...
    AAmmeerriiccaa AAmmeerriiccaa 13-15, M Dec 1

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    10yeargap.com focuses on younger women dating older men and it encourages age gap marriage. 10YearGap.com is not a sugar daddy site. Single women are attracted to older single men...
    JessieFay JessieFay 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    Anticipating a meeting next sat with a young stud , can't wait to Trans for for him and get him going
    sjzwsws sjzwsws 41-45, T 3 Responses Dec 7

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    These are the reasons why I am no longer adding any more women and limiting my interactions with them. I came to this site for help and a stress free atmosphere. After sevenish...
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M 17 Responses Dec 9

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    Soooooo I tried out for my high school play "Footloose" and it turns out that my Drama teacher (play director) wants me to play Reverend Shaw. Nervous as ****, but I'm down. Like...
    Alayjahndro Alayjahndro 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    They're having a viewing tonight for my grandpa at the funeral home. I must say, I'm a little nervous. I can't imagine how my mom and her siblings feel.
    MusicJunkie6794 MusicJunkie6794 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    OMG I have a job interview today and I am crazy nervous! I know I will do great!
    abbyboo1234 abbyboo1234 16-17, F 5 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    A new survey has revealed that one 25% of women prefer to be with men 10+ years older than they are, while one third of men prefer to be with women 10+ years younger than them.The...
    Katycc11 Katycc11 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    Men and women are different. Our brains are wired differently, our hormones are different and our EMOTIONAL NEEDS are different. Men tend to do for women what men need and women...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 9

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    tessacc12 tessacc12 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    carecc13 carecc13 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    whitneycc11 whitneycc11 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    Worse still are how many men succeed in covering up they are abusers. Through intimidation. Or big talk of how they hate men that do. Usually talking with violence toward the...
    GivaCafeMatin GivaCafeMatin 56-60, M