I Get Nervous Meeting Women

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    I Just Don't Get It... Why Aren't Women In My Life?

    I like to think of myself as myself as your average guy.  I partied quite a bit  but still managed to graduate high school with decent grades, got a real job that I love that I can support myself with after I move out of the rent's house which will happen shortly, and...
    four20one four20one
    16-17, M
    1 Response Oct 31, 2007

    Why Do They Have To Be So Beautiful!!!

     im 29, and i have never been with a woman, in a relationship!!! i just dont have the confidence, and i cant ever see myself having the confidence to be with a woman!! i mean, i guess i know why i dont have the confidence, but thats a different story, i just dont know how to...
    cowshed123 cowshed123
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Nov 26, 2009

    A Start

    Ok, I did manage to get married have wonderful children and get divorced. The woman I married chased me for two years! Anyway never felt the goose bumps with her all that much. Now I find that I am 43 and no more comfortable with women the before marriage. Wouldn't that be...
    yeddi18 yeddi18
    41-45, M
    Jul 3, 2012

    Especially pretty women.

    And coquetish women. Gorgeous women are the worst. There was this one woman who was so perfect that my soul wept that it would never "know" (I mean biblically) such beauty. I circled around her, trying to find an imperfection or unflattering angle to assuage my soul; to prove...
    Woody6 Woody6
    41-45, M
    1 Response Sep 1, 2015

    The 'Curse' Of Being A 'Great Guy'

    i don't know about the rest of you but the words "you're a really great guy but..." are like poison to me. i'm sure you all know where i'm coming from, constantly seconding guessing which girls to talk to, what to say to them, what their texts mean, ect. its agony. then when you...
    blackfire459 blackfire459
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 15, 2012

    I hate being so in-experienced with girls,

    I can't hold a conversation with one 😑 not my fault I'm extremely shy and nervous around them.
    drbreezzy drbreezzy
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 13, 2014

    There is a girl at school

    who i like but I can never get enough courage to talk to her. I feel horrible after that class we have together bc I never talk to her.
    randomkjabcaijbiaj randomkjabcaijbiaj
    18-21, M
    Mar 11, 2015

    Saying All The Wrong Things

    I never seem to be able to talk to a woman, they are so beautiful that I get all flustered and mix up words, sometimes can't even pronounce them correctly. Maybe that is why I am so intiminated by them. Probably why I want to be a female and have since early in life. Oh, to be...
    EvieDrag EvieDrag
    66-70, T
    Aug 23, 2010

    Nice Guy Syndrom

    This is the worse thing about me that I hate so much. One particular girl I have recently come in contact with said these words to me “you don’t know how good looking you are, do you?” Well no I don’t. If I look in the mirror I see sloth from The Goonies. I try my...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Aug 24, 2010

    I'm A Nice Guy, Is There Something Wrong With That?

    I don't hit women; I don't want to flirt them just for sex; I don't take advantage of them when they are drunk; I can take a girl all the way home just because it's not safe for her to go alone, I will just stop at the doorstep and saying good night... Apparently, there is...
    mr1031011 mr1031011
    26-30
    2 Responses Oct 18, 2010

    Stutter Stutter.

    Thats me. How am I supposed to react? Am I being nice enough? Am I being too nice? Am I being an *******? Do I look ok? Do I look nervous? Crap I didn't open that door. Am I being interesting? What do I say. I'm so uncomfortable. Be yourself. What is yourself? Be...
    anteye anteye
    36-40, M
    1 Response Nov 25, 2006

    Nice Guy Syndrom Ii

    How do you know when a girl is just being nice vs. showing attraction? I can't tell the difference, I never know which ones to make a move on and which ones to be passive with. I understand how girls need to feel comfortable with you before they consider a future of courtship...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain
    26-30, M
    9 Responses Sep 7, 2010

    I Do Too

    i am a female and when i see a pretty girl I get shaky. My eyes cant meet theirs and it is chaos. I had a super pretty History teacher in hi skl. The way I would stare at that lady made even me creeped out. life
    Sansiz Sansiz
    22-25, F
    Jan 30, 2013
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