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I Get Nervous Meeting Women

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    I Do Too

    i am a female and when i see a pretty girl I get shaky. My eyes cant meet theirs and it is chaos. I had a super pretty History teacher in hi skl. The way I would stare at that lady made even me creeped out. life
    Sansiz Sansiz 18-21, F Jan 30, 2013

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    Why Do They Have To Be So Beautiful!!!

     im 29, and i have never been with a woman, in a relationship!!! i just dont have the confidence, and i cant ever see myself having the confidence to be with a woman!! i mean, i guess i know why i dont have the confidence, but thats a different story, i just dont know how to...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 26, 2009

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    Saying All The Wrong Things

    I never seem to be able to talk to a woman, they are so beautiful that I get all flustered and mix up words, sometimes can't even pronounce them correctly. Maybe that is why I am so intiminated by them. Probably why I want to be a female and have since early in life. Oh, to be...
    EvieDrag EvieDrag 61-65, T Aug 23, 2010

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    I Just Don't Get It... Why Aren't Women In My Life?

    I like to think of myself as myself as your average guy.  I partied quite a bit  but still managed to graduate high school with decent grades, got a real job that I love that I can support myself with after I move out of the rent's house which will happen shortly, and...
    four20one four20one 16-18, M Oct 31, 2007

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    A Start

    Ok, I did manage to get married have wonderful children and get divorced. The woman I married chased me for two years! Anyway never felt the goose bumps with her all that much. Now I find that I am 43 and no more comfortable with women the before marriage. Wouldn't that be...
    yeddi18 yeddi18 41-45, M Jul 3, 2012

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    The 'Curse' Of Being A 'Great Guy'

    i don't know about the rest of you but the words "you're a really great guy but..." are like poison to me. i'm sure you all know where i'm coming from, constantly seconding guessing which girls to talk to, what to say to them, what their texts mean, ect. its agony. then when you...
    blackfire459 blackfire459 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 15, 2012

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    I hate being so in-experienced with girls,

    I can't hold a conversation with one 😑 not my fault I'm extremely shy and nervous around them.
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 1 Response May 13

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    I'm A Nice Guy, Is There Something Wrong With That?

    I don't hit women; I don't want to flirt them just for sex; I don't take advantage of them when they are drunk; I can take a girl all the way home just because it's not safe for her to go alone, I will just stop at the doorstep and saying good night... Apparently, there is...
    mr1031011 mr1031011 26-30 2 Responses Oct 18, 2010

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    Nice Guy Syndrom Ii

    How do you know when a girl is just being nice vs. showing attraction? I can't tell the difference, I never know which ones to make a move on and which ones to be passive with. I understand how girls need to feel comfortable with you before they consider a future of courtship...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain 26-30, M 9 Responses Sep 7, 2010

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    Nice Guy Syndrom

    This is the worse thing about me that I hate so much. One particular girl I have recently come in contact with said these words to me “you don’t know how good looking you are, do you?” Well no I don’t. If I look in the mirror I see sloth from The Goonies. I try my...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 24, 2010

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    Stutter Stutter.

    Thats me. How am I supposed to react? Am I being nice enough? Am I being too nice? Am I being an *******? Do I look ok? Do I look nervous? Crap I didn't open that door. Am I being interesting? What do I say. I'm so uncomfortable. Be yourself. What is yourself? Be...
    anteye anteye 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2006

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    Related Experiences

    I got out of a four year relationship last year and ever since it ended I have had absolutely horrible luck with women. I've read every book, I've tried every approach and I'm very...
    leocognecetti leocognecetti 18-21, M Jul 2

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    I have a date tomorrow with the most gorgeous white/Asian firefighter. I'm really nervous considering how open and honest he is with me. It's easier to respond to someone when you...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    We serve, respect and obey our wives because we love them. Last night i learned why we must serve, respect and obey other women. Because women are all equal and we must serve them...
    Humblesissy Humblesissy 46-50, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I get super nervous when meeting new people, yet I can be so talkative to people I've known for years. I just need to warm up to people :)
    Loovvee Loovvee 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    i love absolutely love women and only women... thats what i prefer... women are made for men
    kinkprime kinkprime 22-25, M 7 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    It started at school when, for some reason, the girls would be the ones challenging the boys to a match (and at age 8, usually winning) although I used to win most, they were...
    zoomer316 zoomer316 36-40, M 14 hrs ago

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    i like matured women, i am attracted to them... women who know how to carry sex appeal in the matured age are the ones i am like
    kinkprime kinkprime 22-25, M 17 hrs ago

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    I have a close, Bi-Female friend who wants to meet more Women Bi or straight. I get along with women better than men and would like to make more female friends as well. We want...
    MikjallFimbultyr MikjallFimbultyr 36-40, M 6 hrs ago

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    I'm pretty antisocial in general but I wouldn't mind having a few close friends. I've been looking at this website called Meetup.com. There are a few groups there that I'm...
    FreedomtoFly FreedomtoFly 26-30, F Jul 5

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    Seeing my girl in a few months >.< Im nervous just thinking about it I mean it's the first time we r meeting and everything >.<
    BloodStainedSoul BloodStainedSoul 13-15, F Jul 14

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    Right now there is a family reunion happening at my house (not my family). I don't know anyone and I feel so nervous that it actually makes me cry. I just want to hide away in my...
    kico4 kico4 13-15, F Jul 20

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    I love meeting new women. Its bad because i have a gf but i always try to meet new women all the time. Right now i talk to 4 other girls besides her. Ive been intimate with only 1...
    JayS5mooth JayS5mooth 26-30 Jul 2

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    i like older women, i dont know exactly why... but i am very much attracted to them
    kinkprime kinkprime 22-25, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I really Like Older women who can do everything by her past experience
    Jimmy365 Jimmy365 26-30, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    SO TELL ME WHATS WRONG WITH ENJOYING WOMEN WHO HAVE CURVES?
    imgreywlf imgreywlf 56-60, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I love a full figured/curvaceous woman, as opposed to the stick figures society seems to tell you is the 'must have' body. To me a real woman has curves, only a kid has a stick...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Yesterday, I snuck away for a little meeting with a visually attractive person, whose voice I had never heard before. You see, we've been chatting for a while on a social media...
    REMx3 REMx3 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 10

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    Only when meeting new people. I can't seem to be able to go and introduce myself to people.
    christid309 christid309 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    I'm a typical pasty white guy in the US, but have always had a thing for ethnic women, especially those with dark skin and dark eyes. East Indian, Black, Asian, Middle Eastern...
    KittyDaddy KittyDaddy 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    I used to have 7 or 8 pairs of panties but I got caught with them and had to get rid of them. But yesterday I bought another pair from walmart :3 lol when I buy then I'm so nervous...
    feedmecum38 feedmecum38 16-17, M Jul 7

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    Given a choice I would prefer an older woman. There's an element of maturity and experience that adds to the thrill of meeting a new person
    gtaonline225 gtaonline225 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    Meet mm for a while since 2 month. I'm the one approach him and he soften his attitude towards me. But we are no more in so call relationship he doesn't want. We met whenever he...
    n1BB1t n1BB1t 26-30, F Jul 13

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    So I'm nervous but I want to try dressing up and going to a club Sunday as a girl any words of encouragement lol
    Heaven21 Heaven21 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Hi, I'm having a nervous breakdown at the moment. It all started about 4 months ago when I left my ex partner who was controlling, I had to leave and give up my job and moved...
    stephanie29 stephanie29 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    He's coming to see me tomorrow. It's been seven years since I've seen his face. He will spend the week with me. And I'm nervous. Terrified. Excited. We are gonna have a shoot out...
    ZombieBaitMaiden ZombieBaitMaiden 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I get nervous a lot. When I am nervous I feel like I want to pass out. Which is bad. My stomach feels like it's in knots.
    Summernicolezink Summernicolezink 16-17, F Jul 18

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    Every since I was a little girl, I was super shy. If I met new people, I would be super quiet around them. But when I feel more comfortable around people and feel I can trust them...
    Faithlovee Faithlovee 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    Men like this author are true gemsA Message to Women From a Man: You Are Not "Crazy"You're so sensitive. You're so emotional. You're defensive. You're overreacting. Calm down...
    SpiceZ SpiceZ 56-60, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I want to join a sorority when I go to college but I'm nervous I might get hazed.
    sonny818 sonny818 16-17, F Jul 1

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    I'm getting ready to got to job corps in 8 days, I grew up with a very rassist grandma and she's warning me that there might be black people there. I didn't even think about that...
    bryce7 bryce7 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    the father of my baby said he wanted to talk even though he bailed im nervous I wonder what he wants
    kenz16 kenz16 16-17, F Jul 2

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    I've recently been meeting quite a lot of people here on ep,and I gotta say, I really do love it! :) it's nice knowing there actually are some nice people out there who aren't so...
    aliy14 aliy14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Been stuck on the phone all day listening to one meeting after the other ramble on and on. It's all so users and I can't wait until this is done so I can celebrate the 4th...
    TheWomanYouHate TheWomanYouHate 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    People are interesting, they are full of stories and personality, I honestly like meeting new people and learning for their personal experiences. It's always nice if someone took...
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    I have hoped for this moment for a very long time but now that it is becoming a reality I am getting so nervous. Broke my back getting over comfort eating and lost a lot of...
    IllusiveLittleMe IllusiveLittleMe 26-30, F Jul 9

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    I have met my boyfriend's god parents when we first started dating and they are so welcoming and warm. However, my boyfriend is in the army and his parents are military as well. I...
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123 22-25, F Jul 12

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    I enjoy meeting new people! Id like to make some new friends on here!
    earththinker earththinker 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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