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I Get Nervous Meeting Women

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    Nice Guy Syndrom Ii

    How do you know when a girl is just being nice vs. showing attraction? I can't tell the difference, I never know which ones to make a move on and which ones to be passive with. I understand how girls need to feel comfortable with you before they consider a future of courtship...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain 26-30, M 9 Responses Sep 7, 2010

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    Stutter Stutter.

    Thats me. How am I supposed to react? Am I being nice enough? Am I being too nice? Am I being an *******? Do I look ok? Do I look nervous? Crap I didn't open that door. Am I being interesting? What do I say. I'm so uncomfortable. Be yourself. What is yourself? Be...
    anteye anteye 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2006

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    I hate being so in-experienced with girls,

    I can't hold a conversation with one 😑 not my fault I'm extremely shy and nervous around them.
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 1 Response May 13, 2014

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    Saying All The Wrong Things

    I never seem to be able to talk to a woman, they are so beautiful that I get all flustered and mix up words, sometimes can't even pronounce them correctly. Maybe that is why I am so intiminated by them. Probably why I want to be a female and have since early in life. Oh, to be...
    EvieDrag EvieDrag 61-65, T Aug 23, 2010

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    I Just Don't Get It... Why Aren't Women In My Life?

    I like to think of myself as myself as your average guy.  I partied quite a bit  but still managed to graduate high school with decent grades, got a real job that I love that I can support myself with after I move out of the rent's house which will happen shortly, and...
    four20one four20one 16-18, M 1 Response Oct 31, 2007

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    I Do Too

    i am a female and when i see a pretty girl I get shaky. My eyes cant meet theirs and it is chaos. I had a super pretty History teacher in hi skl. The way I would stare at that lady made even me creeped out. life
    Sansiz Sansiz 18-21, F Jan 30, 2013

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    Why Do They Have To Be So Beautiful!!!

     im 29, and i have never been with a woman, in a relationship!!! i just dont have the confidence, and i cant ever see myself having the confidence to be with a woman!! i mean, i guess i know why i dont have the confidence, but thats a different story, i just dont know how to...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 26, 2009

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    A Start

    Ok, I did manage to get married have wonderful children and get divorced. The woman I married chased me for two years! Anyway never felt the goose bumps with her all that much. Now I find that I am 43 and no more comfortable with women the before marriage. Wouldn't that be...
    yeddi18 yeddi18 41-45, M Jul 3, 2012

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    I'm A Nice Guy, Is There Something Wrong With That?

    I don't hit women; I don't want to flirt them just for sex; I don't take advantage of them when they are drunk; I can take a girl all the way home just because it's not safe for her to go alone, I will just stop at the doorstep and saying good night... Apparently, there is...
    mr1031011 mr1031011 26-30 2 Responses Oct 18, 2010

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    Nice Guy Syndrom

    This is the worse thing about me that I hate so much. One particular girl I have recently come in contact with said these words to me “you don’t know how good looking you are, do you?” Well no I don’t. If I look in the mirror I see sloth from The Goonies. I try my...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 24, 2010

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    The 'Curse' Of Being A 'Great Guy'

    i don't know about the rest of you but the words "you're a really great guy but..." are like poison to me. i'm sure you all know where i'm coming from, constantly seconding guessing which girls to talk to, what to say to them, what their texts mean, ect. its agony. then when you...
    blackfire459 blackfire459 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 15, 2012

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    HisLittleLady HisLittleLady 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 13

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    Any women wearing/ wear rubber flip flops? Love seeing women in them
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    his was the most beautiful thing that I ever read One Flaw in Women By the time the Lord made woman, he was into His sixth day of working overtime. An angel appeared and said...
    Metmedaddy Metmedaddy 51-55, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    this has been a long weekend. my car is in the shop and I have been stuck at home. MM had had a big job to do this whole week. ( he owns his own computer business) so for the...
    nikita9042 nikita9042 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    Back in the 80s I was driving south to GA. to make a delivery it was a drop and hook deal. Well I get to Atlanta and drop the trailer but the one I was supposed to pick up wasn't...
    honkado honkado 56-60 Feb 10

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    I am so nervous and just need to vent! So friday I am going to go to meet with some people who are more or less going to judge my work and tell me that they either see a lot of...
    Ana8939 Ana8939 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 10

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    My brother was in the hospital this past week and I was a total wreck. I drove to Maryland to be with my brother in the hospital. Chris was not supportive at all. He barely spoke...
    Tiffanyportelli Tiffanyportelli 22-25, F Feb 2

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    On Friday, I have to go in front of my English class and recite a poem by memory, and lead a class discussion on it. I've never liked going in front of classes, and doing things...
    gr16478 gr16478 16-17, M Feb 16

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    I love meeting young girls
    mathstrainer mathstrainer 61-65, M 1 Response Feb 18

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    I'll never forget I went on a date with a Latin lady some years ago from a social site who lived in the area. I can tell from our phone calls we didn't have much in common she was...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed 31-35, M 4 days ago

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    As the title states i love talking to new people into the kinky Darker side of things. Sex is so amazing, fun, spicy and full of energy and i like to chat with people with the same...
    BigGulp4U91 BigGulp4U91 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I recently mailed an ex-friend a sincere letter of apology saying how I was a ****** person & if she could possibly forgive me. It's been a week since I mailed it & I have no clue...
    IntrovertedKat IntrovertedKat 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    Right now I'm so nervous.... I used to be a floral designer and I haven't done it in a few years, but I went by a local florist to see if they needed some help for Valentine's Day...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 12

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    Why do I do this to myself? I went into work (a restaurant) on my day off to say "Hi" to my coworkers. Grabbed a fountain drink. I really went there intending to ask them all to...
    lovelywarpedlemon lovelywarpedlemon 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    Before an interview by a day or two: YEAH, I GOT THIS I'm awesome I'll say all the smart things. I'll just be myself, easy! Before an interview by few minutes: I still got this...
    simmerdame simmerdame 16-17, F a week ago

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    Being in a new state on the other side of the country is exciting but scary too. I'm nervous for my interview today. The people here are so different than what I'm used to. I...
    Anonymouscoast Anonymouscoast 22-25 5 days ago

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    Currently, I'm studying at university - and everyone says how its a great opportunity to get to know people. But at first I come across as really shy, no matter how confident I try...
    mariya03 mariya03 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    I was forced to give a short speech off the top of my head today, and I'm usually really bad at talking and I get really nervous, but I thought I did really well and I felt no...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 5

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    I always enjoy meeting new friends , getting to know different cultures, and learning a lot about them.
    proxpher proxpher 18-21, F Feb 8

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    I have friends but feel really uncomfortable if I'm hanging out with more than two or three at a time. One or two is my preference. I am also incredibly nervous around any new...
    alec90 alec90 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 9

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    Isn't it really something when the one thing you're taught as kids is to not speak to strangers... Yet there's a multitude of things that happen as we get older, that involves...
    gazzapocotron gazzapocotron 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 11

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    So I love meeting new people :D If anyone would like to chat, I'd love to :D
    TurningTrixta TurningTrixta 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 11

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    Jeez, I'm nervous as a cat. My heart is thumping away. Bad energy flowing. I don't have any reason to feel this way. There's nothing new bothering me. I can feel it in my stomach...
    rustyskills rustyskills 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 13

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    today is moving day for me. me n my animals are gonna be moving in with my friend from high school n im excited but nervous. i hope we can live together n still remain great...
    lil1ontheway lil1ontheway 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 15

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    I hate talking on the phone. I get nervous and either start talking quickly or giving short answers just to finish the call and hang up, and when I hang up I feel bad because I was...
    simmerdame simmerdame 16-17, F Feb 20

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    I'm very shy. I love meeting new people. I'm rarely approached though. I am not one to reach out. I'm the type to speak when spoken too. Long story but kinda beat into me on...
    Averageguy41074 Averageguy41074 36-40, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I love meeting people from around the world. it's fun.
    gautamgk gautamgk 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Our thesis is done, which means, thesis defense is about to come. Oh dear, I can't explain how nervous I am. I am assigned to defend our work next week, Wednesday, and I think I'll...
    dindinpobs dindinpobs 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I like strong women, I dont mean benching-300-types. I Mean mentally strong, independent, caring women. I think it may be because of child-psychology and my Mother. My dad passed...
    ZubinTheWannabeHero ZubinTheWannabeHero 22-25, M Feb 3

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    Dating changes as people age, so dating older women can have its benefits. If you are interested in dating an older woman, there are plenty of reasons to do so. Whether you think...
    Nileay Nileay 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 5

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    Last year, on my first “official” trip out of Dakar (as a UN employee), I stopped at a market town about 100 miles east of the capital. My visit was not a success as the person...
    bethturner bethturner 26-30, F 9 Responses Feb 5

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    like sharing experience with all women of world. No men please. Dear women, you can add me to yahoo messenger (aldinorov@yahoo.fr). If you have skype, it's good too. Only women...
    aldinorov aldinorov 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 2

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    I don't despise them. I simply think nothing of them. It's an irrational thought that plenty penis-wielding humans have and that makes me laugh at them. Their reasons why we are...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 4

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    like sharing experience with all women of world. No men please. Dear women, you can add me to yahoo messenger (aldinorov@yahoo.fr). If you have skype, it's good too. Only women...
    aldinorov aldinorov 36-40, M Feb 4

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    It's all about WOMEN .... Q- You know why women love shoes? A- Because no matter how much & whatever they eat , the shoes always fit.. Q- Why can't Women Drive well? A- Because...
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 5 Responses Feb 8