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I Get Nervous Meeting Women

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    Nice Guy Syndrom Ii

    How do you know when a girl is just being nice vs. showing attraction? I can't tell the difference, I never know which ones to make a move on and which ones to be passive with. I understand how girls need to feel comfortable with you before they consider a future of courtship...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain 26-30, M 9 Responses Sep 7, 2010

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    Stutter Stutter.

    Thats me. How am I supposed to react? Am I being nice enough? Am I being too nice? Am I being an *******? Do I look ok? Do I look nervous? Crap I didn't open that door. Am I being interesting? What do I say. I'm so uncomfortable. Be yourself. What is yourself? Be...
    anteye anteye 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2006

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    I hate being so in-experienced with girls,

    I can't hold a conversation with one 😑 not my fault I'm extremely shy and nervous around them.
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 1 Response May 13, 2014

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    Why Do They Have To Be So Beautiful!!!

     im 29, and i have never been with a woman, in a relationship!!! i just dont have the confidence, and i cant ever see myself having the confidence to be with a woman!! i mean, i guess i know why i dont have the confidence, but thats a different story, i just dont know how to...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 26, 2009

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    Especially pretty women.

    And coquetish women. Gorgeous women are the worst. There was this one woman who was so perfect that my soul wept that it would never "know" (I mean biblically) such beauty. I circled around her, trying to find an imperfection or unflattering angle to assuage my soul; to prove...
    Woody6 Woody6 41-45, M Sep 1, 2015

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    A Start

    Ok, I did manage to get married have wonderful children and get divorced. The woman I married chased me for two years! Anyway never felt the goose bumps with her all that much. Now I find that I am 43 and no more comfortable with women the before marriage. Wouldn't that be...
    yeddi18 yeddi18 41-45, M Jul 3, 2012

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    I'm A Nice Guy, Is There Something Wrong With That?

    I don't hit women; I don't want to flirt them just for sex; I don't take advantage of them when they are drunk; I can take a girl all the way home just because it's not safe for her to go alone, I will just stop at the doorstep and saying good night... Apparently, there is...
    mr1031011 mr1031011 26-30 2 Responses Oct 18, 2010

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    I Do Too

    i am a female and when i see a pretty girl I get shaky. My eyes cant meet theirs and it is chaos. I had a super pretty History teacher in hi skl. The way I would stare at that lady made even me creeped out. life
    Sansiz Sansiz 22-25, F Jan 30, 2013

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    Nice Guy Syndrom

    This is the worse thing about me that I hate so much. One particular girl I have recently come in contact with said these words to me “you don’t know how good looking you are, do you?” Well no I don’t. If I look in the mirror I see sloth from The Goonies. I try my...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 24, 2010

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    Saying All The Wrong Things

    I never seem to be able to talk to a woman, they are so beautiful that I get all flustered and mix up words, sometimes can't even pronounce them correctly. Maybe that is why I am so intiminated by them. Probably why I want to be a female and have since early in life. Oh, to be...
    EvieDrag EvieDrag 66-70, T Aug 23, 2010

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    I Just Don't Get It... Why Aren't Women In My Life?

    I like to think of myself as myself as your average guy.  I partied quite a bit  but still managed to graduate high school with decent grades, got a real job that I love that I can support myself with after I move out of the rent's house which will happen shortly, and...
    four20one four20one 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 31, 2007

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    The 'Curse' Of Being A 'Great Guy'

    i don't know about the rest of you but the words "you're a really great guy but..." are like poison to me. i'm sure you all know where i'm coming from, constantly seconding guessing which girls to talk to, what to say to them, what their texts mean, ect. its agony. then when you...
    blackfire459 blackfire459 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 15, 2012

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    There is a girl at school

    who i like but I can never get enough courage to talk to her. I feel horrible after that class we have together bc I never talk to her.
    randomkjabcaijbiaj randomkjabcaijbiaj 18-21, M Mar 11, 2015

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    Related Experiences

    Not like that. I'm unsuited for a romantic relationship with younger women for any number of reasons, and even being friends can be awkward. But I still like talking with...
    mickitg mickitg 41-45, T 14 hrs ago

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    Ever now an then when im watching tv and an old show comes on that first aired in the 90's the women almost always wore pantyhose, i loved watching these shows just to stare at...
    SPHlover54 SPHlover54 18-21, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I am not afraid to speak my mind so I will. This is a place I come to get the truth off my chest. I think women who call themselves Bitc*** and other insulting names are the...
    Kornisone Kornisone 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    On the 22nd, I have a phone interview for the Disney Internship Program and I am so excited and nervous. This is the final step in the process. I have been practicing answering...
    bawstenbrewin bawstenbrewin 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    It reminds me that I still have hope in meeting the right one. :) And I see white guys with black women everyday and everywhere I go. It seems like interracial dating is growing...
    CaliTexan37 CaliTexan37 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    so i go for my surgery on Thursday i have to be up before 6 45 am because that's when i go to the hospital. I am getting tubal ligation, done but instead of just getting them cut...
    Alexia85 Alexia85 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I almost lost u 24 hours ago You're meeting me in 50 minutes My heart is in my throat my throat is in my stomach my stomach is in my throat Maybe this is what love feels like I'm...
    lilimartelini lilimartelini 51-55, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    There's so much information out there about how to approach women and how to get women to approach you. It's like things that should be somewhat easy and natural have become so...
    Letmebepatient Letmebepatient 31-35, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My girlfriend broke up with me because I complained I wasn't getting enough attention. I explain to her my unique situation that I am often surround by beautiful half naked women...
    davidle1 davidle1 36-40, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    When women flirt with me I get nervous and don't know how to react. I was never really great in that department. Even when people tell me I'm sexy or handsome, paying me a...
    TimeUnfolds TimeUnfolds 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I find it amazing how many married women will go to bed with me. Many of them are freaks in bed and really get into it. A lot of these women are from out of town. Many are...
    selectivefun1000 selectivefun1000 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My Organization meetings are always so boring and i am the leader and founder of it. All i do s sit at the head of our table and have people say or give ideas in which to help...
    SladeTheLegend SladeTheLegend 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I was at a meeting yesterday and this slender dark haired women had a long dress on but on the other side it only went down just a little below her hips. You could see her legs and...
    Gaary1 Gaary1 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 4

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    I have a meeting to go to.I'm stressed out because I really don't know when this meeting is. I've checked my calendar and I just can't seem to find the date and time for my meeting...
    ishqelahasil ishqelahasil 26-30, M Feb 4

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    Muse part three I stood there and looked at her . 5'10" goddess from the heavens. Oh my god! I couldn't believe how beautiful she was. She had the cutest little mole above her...
    AmazingPoet AmazingPoet 41-45, M Feb 2

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    1s and 0s. That’s how computers and machines see us. Nothing more than that. It’s simple. There is no prejudice, no stereotypes…just 1s and 0s. How we see ourselves and how...
    OakleysWorld OakleysWorld 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 2

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    What can I do? I need to slow down I know that much. I'm 20 and I work 35 hours a week and go to school full time. I'm almost done with college so I want to push through no matter...
    melissasweetheart melissasweetheart 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    I haven't had the good fortune of ever seeing a good aggressive fight between two women. But the idea has always interested me tremendously. I certainly don't know any ladies...
    ShortySammie ShortySammie 41-45, M Feb 1

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    Met up with him this morning on his route to make a delivery. As soon as I saw his truck, my heart felt as if it would fall out my chest. I parked my car and he came to my car door...
    LMNGirl LMNGirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    I've never been with a woman before. I've been married & dated men. But since I've hit my 40's, I can't help but want to try something different. I know women are more sensual...
    RememberSeptember RememberSeptember 46-50, F 6 Responses Jan 31

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    As a radical feminist, I have many views that many would consider controversial. I am a huge advocate of petticoating and support any women (especially mothers) who adopt this...
    radicalfeminist radicalfeminist 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    As a radical feminist, I have many views that many would consider controversial. I am a huge advocate of petticoating and support any women (especially mothers) who adopt this...
    radicalfeminist radicalfeminist 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 31

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    My name is Lauren, Im 15 years old girl. 1.74 tall and practice martial arts, gymnastics and also models. Im now 8th in the overall martial arts ranking of my country (for both...
    laurenoflaurenof laurenoflaurenof 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    FAT= FABULOUS AND THYCK..I Absolutely Without Question/Fail Love Fabulous and Thyck Women,Hell I'm One.Fabulous and Thyck Women Are Simply The Most Beautiful Sexist and Hot Women...
    BiggBeautifulBri BiggBeautifulBri 46-50, M Jan 31

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    It's my first day solo at the gym, I have my very first real Health consultation today, of them actually and I'm really nervous! I can't wait to get them over with to release some...
    wantingtobehappy84 wantingtobehappy84 26-30, F Jan 30

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    I la-la-la-lovee older men, preferably white. And I don't mean the Hugh Hefner, about to kick the bucket older man. I mean a 30 to 50 year old man who isn't overweight, isn't...
    BisexTex BisexTex 18-21, F 9 Responses Jan 29

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    I have a hard time meeting guys. I'm completely open to interracial dating, I somewhat don't mind about age, within reason. I think I'm pretty decent looking. I've tried online...
    travelaround11 travelaround11 22-25, F Jan 28

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    I've found that women in their 30s and 40s are more comfortable with themselves (both physically and mentally) than younger/older women. I'm speaking in general terms of course...
    ron282 ron282 46-50, M Jan 28

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