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I Get Nervous Meeting Women

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    Nice Guy Syndrom Ii

    How do you know when a girl is just being nice vs. showing attraction? I can't tell the difference, I never know which ones to make a move on and which ones to be passive with. I understand how girls need to feel comfortable with you before they consider a future of courtship...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain 26-30, M 9 Responses Sep 7, 2010

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    I'm A Nice Guy, Is There Something Wrong With That?

    I don't hit women; I don't want to flirt them just for sex; I don't take advantage of them when they are drunk; I can take a girl all the way home just because it's not safe for her to go alone, I will just stop at the doorstep and saying good night... Apparently, there is...
    mr1031011 mr1031011 26-30 2 Responses Oct 18, 2010

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    The 'Curse' Of Being A 'Great Guy'

    i don't know about the rest of you but the words "you're a really great guy but..." are like poison to me. i'm sure you all know where i'm coming from, constantly seconding guessing which girls to talk to, what to say to them, what their texts mean, ect. its agony. then when you...
    blackfire459 blackfire459 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 15, 2012

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    Why Do They Have To Be So Beautiful!!!

     im 29, and i have never been with a woman, in a relationship!!! i just dont have the confidence, and i cant ever see myself having the confidence to be with a woman!! i mean, i guess i know why i dont have the confidence, but thats a different story, i just dont know how to...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 26, 2009

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    I Do Too

    i am a female and when i see a pretty girl I get shaky. My eyes cant meet theirs and it is chaos. I had a super pretty History teacher in hi skl. The way I would stare at that lady made even me creeped out. life
    Sansiz Sansiz 18-21, F Jan 30, 2013

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    I Just Don't Get It... Why Aren't Women In My Life?

    I like to think of myself as myself as your average guy.  I partied quite a bit  but still managed to graduate high school with decent grades, got a real job that I love that I can support myself with after I move out of the rent's house which will happen shortly, and...
    four20one four20one 16-18, M Oct 31, 2007

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    Stutter Stutter.

    Thats me. How am I supposed to react? Am I being nice enough? Am I being too nice? Am I being an *******? Do I look ok? Do I look nervous? Crap I didn't open that door. Am I being interesting? What do I say. I'm so uncomfortable. Be yourself. What is yourself? Be...
    anteye anteye 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2006

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    Nice Guy Syndrom

    This is the worse thing about me that I hate so much. One particular girl I have recently come in contact with said these words to me “you don’t know how good looking you are, do you?” Well no I don’t. If I look in the mirror I see sloth from The Goonies. I try my...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 24, 2010

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    I hate being so in-experienced with girls,

    I can't hold a conversation with one 😑 not my fault I'm extremely shy and nervous around them.
    drbreezzy drbreezzy 18-21, M 1 Response May 13, 2014

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    A Start

    Ok, I did manage to get married have wonderful children and get divorced. The woman I married chased me for two years! Anyway never felt the goose bumps with her all that much. Now I find that I am 43 and no more comfortable with women the before marriage. Wouldn't that be...
    yeddi18 yeddi18 41-45, M Jul 3, 2012

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    Saying All The Wrong Things

    I never seem to be able to talk to a woman, they are so beautiful that I get all flustered and mix up words, sometimes can't even pronounce them correctly. Maybe that is why I am so intiminated by them. Probably why I want to be a female and have since early in life. Oh, to be...
    EvieDrag EvieDrag 61-65, T Aug 23, 2010

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    Whenever anyone says they want to talk to me or get to know me, especially online, I get reeaally damn nervous. I get worried that person will end up hurting me or that it'll just...
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    I truly love being with women. I have many girlfriends that I am very close too. However, I am not interested in having sex with any of them. I was born and raised to have sex...
    mominhottub mominhottub 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 18

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    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 1

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    After our first meet at the mall that day Madeline and i at first did not meet up for that cup of coffee like we had panned. Her art kept her busy and my life kept me from mine...
    YohKomori YohKomori 22-25, M Jan 9

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    Well yesterday I wore women's clothes out in public. Ok it was semi public, it was at a state park and not many people were around. I wore a black and white pencil skirt with...
    cricket88 cricket88 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Title says it all clear as day Lol. When im nervous I find it hard to sit still. Like if im nervous I have to start cleaning or doing something to occupy my hands and mind. Aso I...
    Heart4Jesus Heart4Jesus 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    I had an unexpected but erotic experience yesterday. I am away with friends at a tourist town up along the state boarder. I'm staying at a nice hotel with a nice garden setting...
    Lana102 Lana102 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 8

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    **** its so weird. i had a dream she held my hand by linking our fingers together, and in my dream i got so nervous but happy cos i felt like "okay thats her proving that she wants...
    artandtravel artandtravel 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    have a friend that has recently started to dress and he has found out that I crossdress. A few weeks ago he asked if he could come over and watch football since he doesn't have...
    cdjo cdjo 41-45, M 20 Responses Jan 20

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    I get nervous around girls of my age cuz if i like a girl then there is all this anxiety inside me and i just want to get away from that situation...when i see girl that i like it...
    anderlr anderlr 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    As soon as I start feeling nervous or hit that feeling of anxiety, my stomach starts getting into knots. I hate this feeling. I lose my appetite, lose sleep, I can't function...
    khushali11 khushali11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    The meeting of two people is like the meeting of two chemical substances... both get transformed...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F Jan 16

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    Do Men Really Like Dating BBW big beautiful women? I Asked 25 Of Them.Jared, 28Yes. Men are hardwired to care about looks. That’s just a fact of evolution.Garrett, 28I think...
    LissaCoffey LissaCoffey 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    An important meeting is necessary, to live Yes appointment necessary, necessary, for life
    karanabeona karanabeona 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    i get nervous in front of big crowds, if im performing or speaking,or when i want to talk to someone new in person. i get so anxious that i either start to hyperventilate or vomit...
    nekokitty13 nekokitty13 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    I like meeting new people and make friends.. If u want something to say you're free to message me :)
    Gorgeous71 Gorgeous71 16-17, F Jan 13

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    This job I'm trying to go for only opens for applications very rarely and the window of time to apply is very short so I'm just getting more and more nervous waiting for the...
    Edzo808 Edzo808 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 13

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    I feel so nervous about flying all by myself to Hawaii .. But I want to go so bad
    michellesydney michellesydney 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 16

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    I like meeting people on here but you have to be careful on what you say because you have no idea what that person is like nor what they may consider mean
    trew5432 trew5432 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    Hey, just send me a message if u want to talk! I love meeting new people! :)
    Newgirl00 Newgirl00 13-15, F Jan 19

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    I feel so nervous going for interviews and I have two pretty big ones coming up. They're my way into uni to do child nursing and they're all I can think about. I'm stressing so...
    pygmypuff pygmypuff 18-21, F Jan 21

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    it's been 2 months since I've had sex with my boyfriend and I'm so nervous for when we do. I feel like he won't want me anymore. He's seen me naked before but it won't be the same...
    TheTenaciousPirate TheTenaciousPirate 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    I'm not having a wedding, nor am I even engaged, but I've thought a lot about my wedding in general. Like, do I need a planner, can I do it by myself? Where am I going to get food...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F a week ago

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    Hi :) Wolfie here ! Yupp I do enjoy meeting new people:) Specially the ones with ( tittttties) :))))
    wolffive wolffive 51-55, M 3 days ago

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    I'm nervous almost all the time. Like right now.
    poisoflo poisoflo 16-17, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    paulacc11 paulacc11 26-30, F Jan 3

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    paulacc11 paulacc11 26-30, F Jan 3

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F Jan 4

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    Growing up it was almost a universal understanding for my peers who were male to view girls and eventually women as sexual objects. I tell people all the time it takes a lot for a...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed 31-35, M Jan 17

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    minnieccaa minnieccaa 26-30, F Jan 19

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    I am a black woman and I am just tired of negativity that goes on with black women. Growing up, I was not liked by black people. Black women have issues too. I used to be for black...
    BrownBeeCa BrownBeeCa 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 7

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    I believe women are superior to men. Their brains function in a way that allows for the integration of several ideas all at once. It's as if they can see the whole picture in a...
    originnone originnone 51-55, M 8 Responses Jan 19

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    Women who are the brains behind a highly successful multi-million dollar company. Women of iron will. Women whose decisions could entirely affect the lives of everyone in this...
    Elizabeth161223 Elizabeth161223 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    It makes me cry when I see all these things saying "real women have curves" and "only dogs like bones". I'm very slim because of a health issue and instead of support from other...
    strawberryblonde89 strawberryblonde89 22-25, F 42 Responses