I Get Paranoid When People Are Nice To Me

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    Worried About Men Who Are Too Nice To Me

    I know it sounds strange, but every time someone is nice to me, I feel so vulnerable and I feel like they might be thinking sick things. I know that people are nice people and kind but there is this man who has come round my house to talk about how I am being home-schooled and he...
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    Feb 29, 2012

    Nice People Only Seem To Hate Me

    when people are nice to me i take special care to make sure that i don't trust them, i've lernt long ago that people arn't nice to other people unless the want to either get something from you or betray and hurt you. Most people see me as a cold individual, however this is due to...
    thesadkid thesadkid
    Jun 1, 2011

    I feel every compliment is sarcastic.

    all the time. I stutter tryin to decide wether to say thank you or "wtf do you mean?" so I seem rude . why is that?:o
    N4A2N0A N4A2N0A
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 26, 2014

    yeah i get annoyed when people are not nice

    and when people are nice i get very paranoid it's like hmm why would this person be nice to me all sorts goes through my head it's a no win situation i don't know how to be with certain people and people don't know how to take me neither so frustrating
    fanofpll fanofpll
    31-35, F
    Nov 30, 2015

    As They Are Either Being Manipulative Or Think I Am A Teenager...

    Like there is this guy at work called John. He is 18 and thinks I am the same age although I am 25. He is so kind to me, always asking if I am ok, and caring. It is so lovely but I feel that if he knew my real age he wouldn't be so thoughtful and sweet to me. He is one of a kind...
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    2 Responses Jul 6, 2011

    I either feel like they have another motive,

    they're doing it to get a laugh, or because they pity me. I know it's not always the case but yea
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 1, 2015


    Nice people are ******* SCARY!!!!! What do they want? What are they up to? Is it going to hurt a lot? Or a little? Why nice to me suddenly? Endless questions run through my mind when people are nice...I'm not used to it from most...so it scares the **** out of me!
    yamihirugashi yamihirugashi
    26-30, F
    Mar 2, 2011

    Nice To Me?

    I wouldn't say I'm paranoid but I find it strange cause people are nice to me only when they need or want something from or out of me. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 11, 2011

    People Are Nice For A Reason

    People are nice When they need something When they want something from you People smile and greet you Because they want something in return You are invisible When people don't need you You are like trash Lying at the side of the road Not wanted, Discarded
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench
    22-25, F
    12 Responses Mar 11, 2011

    Omg Yes!!

    I like to think that there are good people out there, that not everyone is mean etc, blah, blah...I even try to live my life as such, trying to be kind and what not.BUTWhen someone is nice to me I immediately question there motives. I just don't wanna be hurt in the long haul :[
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    Feb 28, 2011
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