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I Get Really Hurt When My Friends Ignore Me

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    Betrayed

      It started a few days ago.  Of course, my idiotic school has "girl scouts" and almost every girl does it.  Well, i chose not to be a duchebag, so I am currently not doing it.  The troop was holding a gardening thing, so all of my friends went...
    nicolian131 nicolian131 13-15, F 9 Responses Sep 3, 2009

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    Not Sure...

    I'm not sure if I still feel this way or not. But I think I've grown enough that getting ignored doesn't mean much anymore. I can always find someone else to talk to. I just have to have something to say.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F Feb 11, 2009

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    Life Goes On

    Although I understand that I can't always see and talk with my friends because life goes on, a part of me wishes I could hang out and chat with my friends all the time; however, what really hurts me are friends who ignore me on purpose and act all butt-hurt when I tell it like it...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2011

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    Lonely

    About 4months again my best friend and I parted ways, this was because I wanted to become friends with this huge group of people and she didn't. I was accepted into the group straight away and left out quite often, people would go the cinema and have sleepovers without me. After...
    BlueEyedRing BlueEyedRing 13-15 Jul 22, 2010

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    Aint That the Way

    i have a friend...she's i don't know a pretty decent friend. and i'm going to keep this short...so basically, sometimes she'll ignore me for long periods of time when i'm around and talk to other people, and then eventually she'll be like "hi" or whatever like she...
    Arishfem Arishfem 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Of Course It Hurts

    Ignoring by your friends without even knowing the reason why really hurts me. I rather talk to her than to ignore them too.
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F Oct 23, 2008

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    My Friends Ignore Me

    okay so spring of 2011 i was playing blackops with a friend and one of his friends joined the party and really hit it off he is a couple years older and he started dating some emo girl over xbox live and ignores me and my friend to play reach w/ some girl who could be a 50 year...
    PunkRockBassist PunkRockBassist 13-15 2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    Funny Really

    The thing is I've been trying to push them away from me and yet it hurts when they do go. It is for the best though. Well..... I believe it is.
    Buffy19 Buffy19 18-21, F Jan 12, 2011

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    My "friends" And Rumors

    last night i got a text from my best friend stating "ally,have you been talking about me?" everyone knows i wouldnt hurt anyone so i just thought she was kidding. a few minutes later i get texts from a lot of my others friends sounding similiar or "we need to talk". i was so...
    tevyvee tevyvee 13-15 Feb 24, 2011

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    I was ignored all my life

    unless someone wanted something from me so I think everyone hates to be alone but for me it hits harder because of my past. My friends I feel are always too busy for me and it makes me feel so bad. I don't know if I'm being too sensitive, too needy, or if they're taking me for...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    Friends Ignoring Me

    me and my friends have been friends forever, and i figured out that they were playing together, and not with me, and they make fun of everything i do, and i can't play volley ball, and i never played before, and i told them that, and they just went all out  saying i was horrible...
    katniseverdeen katniseverdeen 13-15 1 Response Apr 3, 2012

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    She Told Me She Valued Me....

    I'm confused and hurt and sooo many feelings rolled into one. I thought I made a wonderful new friend recently. I've known her for a year. She left for 4 months and I never heard from her at all...before she left she told me she VALUED me and my friendship...I took that to heart...
    BetwixtNiko BetwixtNiko 26-30, F 1 Response May 19, 2011

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    Online and Disconnected...

    Of course it hurts when I'm ignored by my "friends."  The worst part is, my friends ignore me because they have better friends who they have met online. They could be 60 year old men, and my friends like them more than me... it hurts!  One of my closest...
    oxbratty43v3rxo oxbratty43v3rxo 13-15 1 Response Apr 5, 2009

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    Ignoring The Friend?

    Me and my best friend also just so happen to be relatives and roommates. We're cousins but in reality we're more like sisters. Ever since I moved in with her I've become closer to a group of friends that she has than I was with some of my other friends back home, so now whenever...
    CNicoleH CNicoleH 22-25, F Sep 14, 2013

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    Friends?

     Recently I've been feeling distant to my old friends and let me give you an introduction so you can understand my story: My best friend I met her when I was 14 so it's been almost 10 years of friendship, my other friends I met them in high school. Everything was fine, some...
    TearDrop86 TearDrop86 22-25 4 Responses Apr 14, 2009

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    I feel more distant with my friends at home

    than I do with my friends who live in different states.
    sammichs sammichs 16-17, F May 26

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    Not Talking to Anyone

      I haven’t been talking to all my friends for awhile. Seems we only talk when things are great. It’s mostly my fault. I would hide and not return calls. When my phone got seized I had it turned off. I post “sorry lost my phone” on myspace and put a...
    AkA007 AkA007 26-30, F Feb 21, 2009

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    I get that a lot. I don't have many friends,

    so when I get ignored by them it hurts. What also bothers me is when we make plans and they say one thing one day and then the day you are to go out you find out they invited all these people that they work with and some that you don't like. At least let me know a couple of...
    feelinglost84 feelinglost84 26-30, F Aug 2

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    The Type of Friends I Have..

    I fall into the 18-21yr old group, so I'm in college. My friend Melissa is getting married. Well everyone is now all of a sudden talking to her. (When I say everyone I mean my high school group of friends.) When I try to talk to them it just seems like they don't want anything to...
    royalcherrydust royalcherrydust 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2009

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    I value friendship so much

    and they all come to me for advice as im 'always there for them' yet, when I need them, they're no where to be seen. My one friend especially, when we're together its so much fun! We plan to move out together and I know she has a hard family life, but she was meant to come and...
    BlackFox05 BlackFox05 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 13

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    Get Over It...

    but at the time it really baffles me. A sudden end in communication is so immature and hurtful. Even if you are busy just take a lousy second to say."talk to ya later". If you are mad just say."I am mad and need time away." Value the friendship enough to be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 12, 2009

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    Friends? 😥

    So me and a group of three more girls have been best friends since last year and I'm starting to grow apart from them. All of them are doing art club after school accept for me they post fun pictures on Instagram of them doing stuff and I feel left out. One of my best friends...
    RBeanie RBeanie 13-15, F Oct 15, 2013

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    Foret It! Dont Sleep On Their Doorstep!

    Okay, so I invited my friend to swim in my pool and to spend the night. So her and one of her other best friends were already planning something. Except, they weren't sure if they were gonna be able to do she told me it was fine. So I messages her texted her and even messaged her...
    GottaLoveMuzik1028 GottaLoveMuzik1028 13-15 1 Response May 29, 2012

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    My Best Friend's Boyfriend

    Okay! It has been 3 and a half months since my best friend has been dating her boyfriend. I have been friends with her for almost 5 years. Lately, my small group of 6 have been ignoring me except for one or two of them. So anyway, ever since my friend starting dating this guy...
    MMCorbin242 MMCorbin242 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    Do I Even Exist To Them Anymore?

    Lately, almost all of my friends seem to ignore me. And when I question them, they never give a straight answer. Before, I used to have tons of friends, and i'd always talk with them and hang out with them... but its not the same anymore. I'll try to talk, but theyll tell me to...
    Christiezx Christiezx 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 22, 2011

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    I hate hurting anybody or seeing anybody hurt. I don't intentionally hurt them. I wonder why they hurt me. I hate to make it about 'guys,' but at times it is. I try to be a friend...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Nov 6

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    If I find out that those boys gave my brother k2 just to see him go crazy like that ima really hurt someone like I never been scared to fight a group of boys I will really hurt one...
    catycaty16 catycaty16 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I hate when squirrels ignore me.
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 8

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    When I was a cat my turtle friend locked me but then he went poopoo in my letterbox so ya when there a cow in the living room that's when my turtle friends started to ignore me...
    Imprettyshy Imprettyshy 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    Like it's not funny or cute--it's annoying. My "friends" have basically made it a habit.
    LanniLette LanniLette 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 7

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    My ex bestfriends have traveled down a much different path than I have . It hurts to know that I am no longer apart of their lives
    Izy96 Izy96 18-21, F Oct 23

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    Words KILL. Have you ever hurt by someone's words ? Yea I know. But words are weapon , like it or not.
    monatonie monatonie 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 30

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    If you want to chat, send a note on my board. DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT SEND ME PRIVATE LETTERS OUT OF THE BLUE. I USUALLY JUST DELTE THEM , OK DOKIE ARTICHOKIE :) And please if...
    lunadelobos lunadelobos 41-45 1 Response Nov 4

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    I have lost so many friendships over the years and I am not quite sure why. I get really close to someone and then they distance their self from me. Recently, I lost the best...
    Ezria96 Ezria96 18-21, F Oct 24

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    I was friends with this girl for 5 yrs. After 2 yrs of knowing each other I introduced her to my family then her and my cousin started dating. Well let's just say some things were...
    princesswreckless princesswreckless 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 23

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    I really miss her.I got to know her online here.I have not met her though.I know she is getting married to another E.p.member.Wish them all the best.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 6 Responses Oct 22

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    Me this weekend! I have laughed and giggled so much at my own jokes. As a bonus, made my friends and family laugh. Im smiling now just remembering.
    SouthernDaisy SouthernDaisy 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Feeling pretty sad tonight :/ I met one of my childhood friends today (briefly) after not seeing him for 10 years. I know it's normal for people to drift apart, for many reasons...
    TheHeartOfALovingSoul TheHeartOfALovingSoul 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 7

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    AT one point you conclude that friendship is just an illusion, just a dream, just a box of scrap with a thin layer of chrome to make it look nice. That's the point I'm at now and I...
    gomega98 gomega98 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 21

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    The girl I thought was my best friend, the one that I spend most of my time with, the one I cared a lit, helped a lot, just out of the blue told me not to stay with her anymore and...
    DamienBodie DamienBodie 18-21 3 Responses Nov 7

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    But i have to care first. And be listened to. Sad to have rules. Sad society made them needed.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    It may seem like your alone but I can tell what your feeling most of the time people say "you don't know what it's like" I do know I understand what is happening I don't know how...
    Lilwillbe Lilwillbe 16-17, F a week ago

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    Well I'm 52 and nobody likes me !
    832casper 832casper 51-55, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    And another one bites the dust. I'm getting to the point where I don't take most people seriously for a while on here... get past a month... then maybe. Even that.... still going...
    wintershawl wintershawl 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    So i try naturopathy more frequently. Until pushed from my body.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    Over the last six or so years I've been in so many times about my anxiety and they've tried to fob me off with antidepressants and leaflets telling me i should do this and that...
    papercastles papercastles 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Sometimes I get so hungry that everything someone says reminds me of food… like I just read the word assuages and I thought of sausages and I don't even hardly ever eat sausages...
    Misscoconut Misscoconut 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    So about this "best friend". I didn't have an actual really "best best friend" until the other year. I became close to this girl one summer and eventually became "best friends...
    coconutmeraki coconutmeraki 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 28

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