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I Get Really Hurt When My Friends Ignore Me

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    Do I Even Exist To Them Anymore?

    Lately, almost all of my friends seem to ignore me. And when I question them, they never give a straight answer. Before, I used to have tons of friends, and i'd always talk with them and hang out with them... but its not the same anymore. I'll try to talk, but theyll tell me to...
    Christiezx Christiezx 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 22, 2011

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    My Friends Ignore Me

    okay so spring of 2011 i was playing blackops with a friend and one of his friends joined the party and really hit it off he is a couple years older and he started dating some emo girl over xbox live and ignores me and my friend to play reach w/ some girl who could be a 50 year...
    PunkRockBassist PunkRockBassist 13-15 2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    Of Course It Hurts

    Ignoring by your friends without even knowing the reason why really hurts me. I rather talk to her than to ignore them too.
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F Oct 23, 2008

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    Friends?

     Recently I've been feeling distant to my old friends and let me give you an introduction so you can understand my story: My best friend I met her when I was 14 so it's been almost 10 years of friendship, my other friends I met them in high school. Everything was fine, some...
    TearDrop86 TearDrop86 22-25 4 Responses Apr 14, 2009

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    My Friend Ignores Me

    i have a best friend.he has some other friends too.i love him more than anyone in the class.he was quite friendly with me but for a week he is getting away from me..i don't know the correct reason but i can tell some possibilities.two weeks ago we had exams. he studied with me...
    Jan 23, 2013

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    Friends? 😥

    So me and a group of three more girls have been best friends since last year and I'm starting to grow apart from them. All of them are doing art club after school accept for me they post fun pictures on Instagram of them doing stuff and I feel left out. One of my best friends...
    RBeanie RBeanie 13-15, F Oct 15, 2013

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    Friends Ignoring Me

    me and my friends have been friends forever, and i figured out that they were playing together, and not with me, and they make fun of everything i do, and i can't play volley ball, and i never played before, and i told them that, and they just went all out  saying i was horrible...
    katniseverdeen katniseverdeen 13-15 1 Response Apr 3, 2012

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    Not Sure...

    I'm not sure if I still feel this way or not. But I think I've grown enough that getting ignored doesn't mean much anymore. I can always find someone else to talk to. I just have to have something to say.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F Feb 11, 2009

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    Not Talking to Anyone

      I haven’t been talking to all my friends for awhile. Seems we only talk when things are great. It’s mostly my fault. I would hide and not return calls. When my phone got seized I had it turned off. I post “sorry lost my phone” on myspace and put a...
    AkA007 AkA007 26-30, F Feb 21, 2009

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    My Friends Ignore Me Sometimes Too....

    I have two great friends they are like sisters to me. But lately i feel like they ignore me sometimes i dont know why it could be me being anxious but when i need them the most they are never there for me. I am always here for them to help them and their problems but whenever i...
    Jan 12, 2013

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    The Type of Friends I Have..

    I fall into the 18-21yr old group, so I'm in college. My friend Melissa is getting married. Well everyone is now all of a sudden talking to her. (When I say everyone I mean my high school group of friends.) When I try to talk to them it just seems like they don't want anything to...
    royalcherrydust royalcherrydust 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2009

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    She Told Me She Valued Me....

    I'm confused and hurt and sooo many feelings rolled into one. I thought I made a wonderful new friend recently. I've known her for a year. She left for 4 months and I never heard from her at all...before she left she told me she VALUED me and my friendship...I took that to heart...
    BetwixtNiko BetwixtNiko 26-30, F 1 Response May 19, 2011

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    They Aren't Really Your Friends...

    It took me a while to learn this. People grow tired of me and instead of just being open and honest... they begin to ignore me. I think the most hurtful instance was when two of my friends were planning a vacation together. I wasn't able to go... though the more I patiently...
    fancygal fancygal 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    Foret It! Dont Sleep On Their Doorstep!

    Okay, so I invited my friend to swim in my pool and to spend the night. So her and one of her other best friends were already planning something. Except, they weren't sure if they were gonna be able to do she told me it was fine. So I messages her texted her and even messaged her...
    GottaLoveMuzik1028 GottaLoveMuzik1028 13-15 1 Response May 29, 2012

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    My Best Friend's Boyfriend

    Okay! It has been 3 and a half months since my best friend has been dating her boyfriend. I have been friends with her for almost 5 years. Lately, my small group of 6 have been ignoring me except for one or two of them. So anyway, ever since my friend starting dating this guy...
    MMCorbin242 MMCorbin242 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    Ignoring The Friend?

    Me and my best friend also just so happen to be relatives and roommates. We're cousins but in reality we're more like sisters. Ever since I moved in with her I've become closer to a group of friends that she has than I was with some of my other friends back home, so now whenever...
    CNicoleH CNicoleH 22-25, F Sep 14, 2013

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    Get Over It...

    but at the time it really baffles me. A sudden end in communication is so immature and hurtful. Even if you are busy just take a lousy second to say."talk to ya later". If you are mad just say."I am mad and need time away." Value the friendship enough to be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 12, 2009

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    Life Goes On

    Although I understand that I can't always see and talk with my friends because life goes on, a part of me wishes I could hang out and chat with my friends all the time; however, what really hurts me are friends who ignore me on purpose and act all butt-hurt when I tell it like it...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2011

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    3 long years of ups and downs. when we first started dating I felt on top of the world. it was a crazy feeling being in love and I want to feel I again. a year ago he told me he no...
    js224224 js224224 16-17, F Mar 26

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    I don't have any friends. I used to. I actually had quite a lot when I was in high school. But that was 5 years ago, and I'm in college, have a boyfriend and a busy job. They all...
    RunningFree32 RunningFree32 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    Couldn't be more true. I miss my ex a lot somedays. Like when I just went on vacation with my family and knowing he was suppose to go with us and meet the rest of the family sucks...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Mar 22

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    I don't even want to be around my friends because I'm just so self conscious that they all actually think I'm less than them, like a child. I feel like everything I do around them...
    BeingInMonochrome BeingInMonochrome 16-17 1 Response Mar 23

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    When I started getting depressed I distanced myself and stopped doing alot of things. I really wish I could have a good friend.
    princesszoe13 princesszoe13 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    My friends secretly do hate me, they might as well just tell me, but none of them have the bollocks to or just cannot be bothered with me at all. Got a party this weekend for one...
    venetiaroses venetiaroses 13-15, F Apr 2

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    When I am tired, I act in the same way as I do when I am drunk... Which can sometimes be embarrassing! Haha.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 18

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    I need a good friend. I feel so alone all the time and I am so depressed.
    princesszoe13 princesszoe13 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    This is pretty self explanatory. I'm shy...but it would mean a lot if people message me.
    totallynotalunatic totallynotalunatic 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I used to be a rather trusting person but as of recently I've discovered that some people really aren't your true friends no matter what they say. I would say that currently I only...
    twiggy93 twiggy93 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I dont know how or why we do it, but we ALWAYS hurt those we love most. Even in the past, i hurt my closest friends. Theres this guy ive been friends with for about three years...
    chooseyourownlife chooseyourownlife 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I don't want to sound overly sensitive, but this is something that has been eating away at me for a long time. Being in the Media Age where everyone is tuned into the lives of...
    SagittariusBlunt SagittariusBlunt 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    I'm really weird. When I'm with my friends and we meet people we don't know I'm outgoing but if it were to be me by myself and I met someone I don't know I'm super shy. I think it...
    Li14 Li14 13-15, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    people school is just about, but hey, I want some friends okay? Girls at school are mostly what all of my friends…… Well, friend or few call the Mosquitos privately, the blood...
    TaylorMarieee TaylorMarieee 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    it hurts being ignored...it hurts when someone promised not leave you but is the only one who's ignoring you right now...why does there's such that kind of person easily breaking...
    19Mariya77 19Mariya77 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I like this boy and he played me but everyday I miss him soo much and at school I ignore him because I have to show him I'm better with out him and happier but I'm really hurt and...
    Hiphop098 Hiphop098 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I don't know that this thing called "LOVE" should really hurt this bad. I have been with this young lady for 5months now, but she always wanna fight every week and it's like a...
    Larin0214 Larin0214 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I used to have this one bestfriend. We were close and the best of friends for about six years. But then I moved away to a new school and it seems like we never see each other or...
    wootaco wootaco 22-25 Apr 7

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    It Was My Mission to Never have dad hurt the others when I was younger. There are 5 in my family, 3 girls (all born first, I'm 2nd oldest), and 2 boys. We weren't an overly...
    maqeurious maqeurious 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I have never believed in internet relationships, so I sent a fake picture to a group of people. What I had no idea about is that I would start liking one of the guys extremely much...
    dorixoxo dorixoxo 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Whenever people ignore me, it ****** me off badly. I take it VERY personal. I know I shouldn't, but I can't help it. Like I never ignored you before. I try to give you a good laugh...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I really like when people message me and we can share experiences and things. I just don't like it if it's a weird message... Or a not so nice one. For instance, about 10 minutes...
    KT98 KT98 13-15, F 11 hrs ago

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    You know what really hurts? Seeing the people around you make friends while you sit there all alone with no one to talk to. To stop yourself from crying you just play with your...
    wonderlustdreamer wonderlustdreamer 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    Very much so, I miss him, but I don't. He really hurt me. I really thought we could have worked things out, but I guess I was wrong. I'm hurting really bad.
    iloveschoultzki iloveschoultzki 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    It hurts when you consider someone to be a friend, then you think they would be around "forever" and stick to you side (because they know you so well...but instead, they just don...
    RChisholm RChisholm 31-35, F Mar 25

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    I always do hurt my parents knowingly...... they still love me... tat really hurts...me... m 21 nw but still... i could not find out the seriousness about my life i always want to...
    NMRishe NMRishe 18-21, M Mar 20

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    i havent spoken to my bff in years and she does not care but somewhere i really hurts me
    krisha9002 krisha9002 18-21, F Mar 18

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    I do believe that internet friends are real, but they are limited. They can't really see you at your worst and they can't be there as fully for you as a person who is really there...
    Mattie1203 Mattie1203 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I'm a high school freshman and I don't have any friends at all in school. I'm anti-social and I'm really shy. When I'm in school, I always skip lunch because I have no one to sit...
    SuperKitty99 SuperKitty99 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Where do I begin? Well, call me Maggie, though it's not my real name. I'll start with saying 'Hi, I was suicidal, I am self-destructive, and I will stay broken for the rest of my...
    anonymousdeus anonymousdeus 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I don't necessarily ONLY want girl friends because that whole period thing is just...no (no offence). But I like all the attention the girls give me at school. It gets me horny...
    Thatmixedchild Thatmixedchild 13-15, M 3 Responses Mar 29

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    Hey everyone.I am 15 years old.Last year I lost my best friend last year.And by lost I mean that she stopped talking to me.We had been best friends since kindergarten and it was...
    inecrazyandhypersensitive inecrazyandhypersensitive 13-15, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    It really hurt me. My skin bruises easily. Mom came at home one day after getting in trouble at school and my tore my *** up. I telled after each lash, and she would say something...
    KiannaJ KiannaJ 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    So in class today before we took a test our teacher showed us our class pet for the day and it was just a black snake nothing that could really hurt you and of course I am the only...
    MissSkye MissSkye 16-17, F