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I Get Really Hurt When My Friends Ignore Me

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    Online and Disconnected...

    Of course it hurts when I'm ignored by my "friends."  The worst part is, my friends ignore me because they have better friends who they have met online. They could be 60 year old men, and my friends like them more than me... it hurts!  One of my closest...
    oxbratty43v3rxo oxbratty43v3rxo 13-15 1 Response Apr 5, 2009

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    Friends?

     Recently I've been feeling distant to my old friends and let me give you an introduction so you can understand my story: My best friend I met her when I was 14 so it's been almost 10 years of friendship, my other friends I met them in high school. Everything was fine, some...
    TearDrop86 TearDrop86 22-25 4 Responses Apr 14, 2009

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    Foret It! Dont Sleep On Their Doorstep!

    Okay, so I invited my friend to swim in my pool and to spend the night. So her and one of her other best friends were already planning something. Except, they weren't sure if they were gonna be able to do she told me it was fine. So I messages her texted her and even messaged her...
    GottaLoveMuzik1028 GottaLoveMuzik1028 13-15 1 Response May 29, 2012

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    The Type of Friends I Have..

    I fall into the 18-21yr old group, so I'm in college. My friend Melissa is getting married. Well everyone is now all of a sudden talking to her. (When I say everyone I mean my high school group of friends.) When I try to talk to them it just seems like they don't want anything to...
    royalcherrydust royalcherrydust 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2009

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    Lonely

    About 4months again my best friend and I parted ways, this was because I wanted to become friends with this huge group of people and she didn't. I was accepted into the group straight away and left out quite often, people would go the cinema and have sleepovers without me. After...
    BlueEyedRing BlueEyedRing 13-15 Jul 22, 2010

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    Funny Really

    The thing is I've been trying to push them away from me and yet it hurts when they do go. It is for the best though. Well..... I believe it is.
    Buffy19 Buffy19 18-21, F Jan 12, 2011

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    Friends Ignoring Me

    me and my friends have been friends forever, and i figured out that they were playing together, and not with me, and they make fun of everything i do, and i can't play volley ball, and i never played before, and i told them that, and they just went all out  saying i was horrible...
    katniseverdeen katniseverdeen 13-15 1 Response Apr 3, 2012

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    My Friends Ignore Me Sometimes Too....

    I have two great friends they are like sisters to me. But lately i feel like they ignore me sometimes i dont know why it could be me being anxious but when i need them the most they are never there for me. I am always here for them to help them and their problems but whenever i...
    Jan 12, 2013

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    Life Goes On

    Although I understand that I can't always see and talk with my friends because life goes on, a part of me wishes I could hang out and chat with my friends all the time; however, what really hurts me are friends who ignore me on purpose and act all butt-hurt when I tell it like it...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2011

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    Not Sure...

    I'm not sure if I still feel this way or not. But I think I've grown enough that getting ignored doesn't mean much anymore. I can always find someone else to talk to. I just have to have something to say.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F Feb 11, 2009

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    My "friends" And Rumors

    last night i got a text from my best friend stating "ally,have you been talking about me?" everyone knows i wouldnt hurt anyone so i just thought she was kidding. a few minutes later i get texts from a lot of my others friends sounding similiar or "we need to talk". i was so...
    tevyvee tevyvee 13-15 Feb 24, 2011

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    Of Course It Hurts

    Ignoring by your friends without even knowing the reason why really hurts me. I rather talk to her than to ignore them too.
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F Oct 23, 2008

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    My Best Friend's Boyfriend

    Okay! It has been 3 and a half months since my best friend has been dating her boyfriend. I have been friends with her for almost 5 years. Lately, my small group of 6 have been ignoring me except for one or two of them. So anyway, ever since my friend starting dating this guy...
    MMCorbin242 MMCorbin242 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    Betrayed

      It started a few days ago.  Of course, my idiotic school has "girl scouts" and almost every girl does it.  Well, i chose not to be a duchebag, so I am currently not doing it.  The troop was holding a gardening thing, so all of my friends went...
    nicolian131 nicolian131 13-15, F 9 Responses Sep 3, 2009

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    Ignoring The Friend?

    Me and my best friend also just so happen to be relatives and roommates. We're cousins but in reality we're more like sisters. Ever since I moved in with her I've become closer to a group of friends that she has than I was with some of my other friends back home, so now whenever...
    CNicoleH CNicoleH 22-25, F Sep 14, 2013

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    Aint That the Way

    i have a friend...she's i don't know a pretty decent friend. and i'm going to keep this short...so basically, sometimes she'll ignore me for long periods of time when i'm around and talk to other people, and then eventually she'll be like "hi" or whatever like she...
    Arishfem Arishfem 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Do I Even Exist To Them Anymore?

    Lately, almost all of my friends seem to ignore me. And when I question them, they never give a straight answer. Before, I used to have tons of friends, and i'd always talk with them and hang out with them... but its not the same anymore. I'll try to talk, but theyll tell me to...
    Christiezx Christiezx 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 22, 2011

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    Get Over It...

    but at the time it really baffles me. A sudden end in communication is so immature and hurtful. Even if you are busy just take a lousy second to say."talk to ya later". If you are mad just say."I am mad and need time away." Value the friendship enough to be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 12, 2009

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    My Friend Ignores Me

    i have a best friend.he has some other friends too.i love him more than anyone in the class.he was quite friendly with me but for a week he is getting away from me..i don't know the correct reason but i can tell some possibilities.two weeks ago we had exams. he studied with me...
    Jan 23, 2013

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    She Told Me She Valued Me....

    I'm confused and hurt and sooo many feelings rolled into one. I thought I made a wonderful new friend recently. I've known her for a year. She left for 4 months and I never heard from her at all...before she left she told me she VALUED me and my friendship...I took that to heart...
    BetwixtNiko BetwixtNiko 26-30, F 1 Response May 19, 2011

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    My Friends Ignore Me

    okay so spring of 2011 i was playing blackops with a friend and one of his friends joined the party and really hit it off he is a couple years older and he started dating some emo girl over xbox live and ignores me and my friend to play reach w/ some girl who could be a 50 year...
    PunkRockBassist PunkRockBassist 13-15 2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    Friends? 😥

    So me and a group of three more girls have been best friends since last year and I'm starting to grow apart from them. All of them are doing art club after school accept for me they post fun pictures on Instagram of them doing stuff and I feel left out. One of my best friends...
    RBeanie RBeanie 13-15, F Oct 15, 2013

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    Not Talking to Anyone

      I haven’t been talking to all my friends for awhile. Seems we only talk when things are great. It’s mostly my fault. I would hide and not return calls. When my phone got seized I had it turned off. I post “sorry lost my phone” on myspace and put a...
    AkA007 AkA007 26-30, F Feb 21, 2009

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    I feel more distant with my friends at home

    than I do with my friends who live in different states.
    sammichs sammichs 16-17, F May 26

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    I get really silly when I'm tired. Like everything becomes hilarious. My mom usually will laugh , because she's goofy like I am, but my dad will just shake his head like wtf...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F Jul 2

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    Especially here on ep. Moronically arrogant pinheads do it. At first i blamed texting. Texting does cause misunderstandings. Then mental egos. A psychopath and a...
    converted converted 46-50, M Jul 12

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    I am a teenager in high school, and my parents have been divorced for over two years (but it was a long and messy process, and they have only been living apart for about 6 months...
    trackster54313 trackster54313 16-17, F Jul 13

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    I hate when I am in the middle of a nice conversation and they suddenly stop messaging me back! The worst part is that I know that they have their phone on them all the time!
    PrincessAphrodite PrincessAphrodite 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I dont hate you... I dont dislike you either. I guess i miss you.. Sounds silly huh? You had a way with ur words.. U said things that made those words come to life and it just...
    LoveeIsLife LoveeIsLife 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Going through school to be a counsellor for Trans* people who have been abused or have addictions is something I really want to do. Though when people are in pain, I can't help...
    JadedCthulhu JadedCthulhu 26-30, T 1 Response 1 day ago

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    When I'm super tired I act really weird
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Sometimes I don't remember the questions I've asked . 😰 What if I've been asking the same questions . Especially those general questions . What if my duplicate questions are...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F Jun 29

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    I'm silly anyways, but yeah. It happens, especially when I'm seriously sleep-deprived. I mistake people for objects and objects for people, talk about things I don't know much...
    superkitty17 superkitty17 31-35, F Jul 5

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    Yep. I just say everything's on my mind when I'm tired XD sometimes it's hilarious
    JuliaAnderson JuliaAnderson 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Yeah the thoughts that run through my head when im tired... "Whatever you do, don't feel like a chinese man and then open a cabinet with a unicorn hiding inside." What?...
    BeautifulCatastr0phe BeautifulCatastr0phe 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    its a good turn on when she swallows!!
    themonk7 themonk7 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    My body is on self-destruct mode; I feel like I'm being slowly and brutally tortured from the inside. I'm sorry for not getting knocked up, please stop crying blood now darling.
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    Feels like someone is stabbing me. Owww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    chelsxx chelsxx 13-15 Jun 28

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    Yes! This is me at this moment. I'm slap happy, overworked, over tired and posting random thoughts. Great way to end my day before I crash.
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F Jun 29

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    ALL YOU NEED IS LOVEEEEEE. Just kidding. You need food, shelter and water in order to live. Also, IM IN LOVE IM IN LOVE IM IN LOVE IM IN LOVE. Just thought I'd let you know!!!!! I...
    littlestar33 littlestar33 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I am so tired right now... But I can't sleep !
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hurts when you are ignored when you truly want attention at the lowest time of your life.
    Shehshen Shehshen 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    This was in grade 8. I came back to school after a dentist appointment. It's funny how I can remember it very clearly in my head. There were these stairs that you went down to go...
    maigreamour maigreamour 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I lost my phone so I lost all my friends numbers. I don't really have any friends that want to hang out with me on Facebook. But still like every hour at home I go on my Facebook...
    kevin1080123 kevin1080123 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    You. The first time I saw you, I thought you were the most handsome boy I had ever seen. You and your beautiful blue eyes. You were perfect to me. I told you everything, I let you...
    LoveandLoss17 LoveandLoss17 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    So I'm starting high school next year and I have literally no friends in my entire grade. Last year all of my friends became popular, EVERY SINGLE ONE. How does tht even happen...
    juliakats3 juliakats3 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 30

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    My mum said something that really struck a chord with me. I have been really hurt by somebody in my past who has left a mark on me. I don't like to talk about it anymore. I just...
    leo1292 leo1292 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Well, I think its been a year since I've written here about my classmates. But there's this new development. This classmate of mine (medium S) who kept comparing my grades to hers...
    purplesprinkles purplesprinkles 22-25, F Jun 28

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    I act like I don't care and shiz like that, but honestly, I hate it when people ignore me. Or when I feel like they don't want to talk to me. I just want to be someone everyone...
    gumdropss gumdropss 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Life Is Better with out Friends. They Can Not Hurt Me, When They Are Not There as I Need When I Hurt When I Bleed. They Can Not Hurt Me By Being Disappointed With... My Letting...
    imgreywlf imgreywlf 56-60, M 6 days ago