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I Get Really Hurt When My Friends Ignore Me

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    Funny Really

    The thing is I've been trying to push them away from me and yet it hurts when they do go. It is for the best though. Well..... I believe it is.
    Buffy19 Buffy19 18-21, F Jan 12, 2011

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    Get Over It...

    but at the time it really baffles me. A sudden end in communication is so immature and hurtful. Even if you are busy just take a lousy second to say."talk to ya later". If you are mad just say."I am mad and need time away." Value the friendship enough to be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 12, 2009

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    Ignoring The Friend?

    Me and my best friend also just so happen to be relatives and roommates. We're cousins but in reality we're more like sisters. Ever since I moved in with her I've become closer to a group of friends that she has than I was with some of my other friends back home, so now whenever...
    CNicoleH CNicoleH 22-25, F Sep 14, 2013

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    I was ignored all my life

    unless someone wanted something from me so I think everyone hates to be alone but for me it hits harder because of my past. My friends I feel are always too busy for me and it makes me feel so bad. I don't know if I'm being too sensitive, too needy, or if they're taking me for...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    The Type of Friends I Have..

    I fall into the 18-21yr old group, so I'm in college. My friend Melissa is getting married. Well everyone is now all of a sudden talking to her. (When I say everyone I mean my high school group of friends.) When I try to talk to them it just seems like they don't want anything to...
    royalcherrydust royalcherrydust 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2009

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    I feel more distant with my friends at home

    than I do with my friends who live in different states.
    sammichs sammichs 16-17, F May 26

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    My Friends Ignore Me Sometimes Too....

    I have two great friends they are like sisters to me. But lately i feel like they ignore me sometimes i dont know why it could be me being anxious but when i need them the most they are never there for me. I am always here for them to help them and their problems but whenever i...
    Jan 12, 2013

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    Betrayed

      It started a few days ago.  Of course, my idiotic school has "girl scouts" and almost every girl does it.  Well, i chose not to be a duchebag, so I am currently not doing it.  The troop was holding a gardening thing, so all of my friends went...
    nicolian131 nicolian131 13-15, F 9 Responses Sep 3, 2009

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    Life Goes On

    Although I understand that I can't always see and talk with my friends because life goes on, a part of me wishes I could hang out and chat with my friends all the time; however, what really hurts me are friends who ignore me on purpose and act all butt-hurt when I tell it like it...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2011

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    Not Talking to Anyone

      I haven’t been talking to all my friends for awhile. Seems we only talk when things are great. It’s mostly my fault. I would hide and not return calls. When my phone got seized I had it turned off. I post “sorry lost my phone” on myspace and put a...
    AkA007 AkA007 26-30, F Feb 21, 2009

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    Of Course It Hurts

    Ignoring by your friends without even knowing the reason why really hurts me. I rather talk to her than to ignore them too.
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F Oct 23, 2008

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    Friends Ignoring Me

    me and my friends have been friends forever, and i figured out that they were playing together, and not with me, and they make fun of everything i do, and i can't play volley ball, and i never played before, and i told them that, and they just went all out  saying i was horrible...
    katniseverdeen katniseverdeen 13-15 1 Response Apr 3, 2012

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    My Best Friend's Boyfriend

    Okay! It has been 3 and a half months since my best friend has been dating her boyfriend. I have been friends with her for almost 5 years. Lately, my small group of 6 have been ignoring me except for one or two of them. So anyway, ever since my friend starting dating this guy...
    MMCorbin242 MMCorbin242 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    Not Sure...

    I'm not sure if I still feel this way or not. But I think I've grown enough that getting ignored doesn't mean much anymore. I can always find someone else to talk to. I just have to have something to say.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F Feb 11, 2009

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    My Friend Ignores Me

    i have a best friend.he has some other friends too.i love him more than anyone in the class.he was quite friendly with me but for a week he is getting away from me..i don't know the correct reason but i can tell some possibilities.two weeks ago we had exams. he studied with me...
    Jan 23, 2013

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    My "friends" And Rumors

    last night i got a text from my best friend stating "ally,have you been talking about me?" everyone knows i wouldnt hurt anyone so i just thought she was kidding. a few minutes later i get texts from a lot of my others friends sounding similiar or "we need to talk". i was so...
    tevyvee tevyvee 13-15 Feb 24, 2011

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    She Told Me She Valued Me....

    I'm confused and hurt and sooo many feelings rolled into one. I thought I made a wonderful new friend recently. I've known her for a year. She left for 4 months and I never heard from her at all...before she left she told me she VALUED me and my friendship...I took that to heart...
    BetwixtNiko BetwixtNiko 26-30, F 1 Response May 19, 2011

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    Online and Disconnected...

    Of course it hurts when I'm ignored by my "friends."  The worst part is, my friends ignore me because they have better friends who they have met online. They could be 60 year old men, and my friends like them more than me... it hurts!  One of my closest...
    oxbratty43v3rxo oxbratty43v3rxo 13-15 1 Response Apr 5, 2009

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    Friends? 😥

    So me and a group of three more girls have been best friends since last year and I'm starting to grow apart from them. All of them are doing art club after school accept for me they post fun pictures on Instagram of them doing stuff and I feel left out. One of my best friends...
    RBeanie RBeanie 13-15, F Oct 15, 2013

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    Do I Even Exist To Them Anymore?

    Lately, almost all of my friends seem to ignore me. And when I question them, they never give a straight answer. Before, I used to have tons of friends, and i'd always talk with them and hang out with them... but its not the same anymore. I'll try to talk, but theyll tell me to...
    Christiezx Christiezx 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 22, 2011

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    Lonely

    About 4months again my best friend and I parted ways, this was because I wanted to become friends with this huge group of people and she didn't. I was accepted into the group straight away and left out quite often, people would go the cinema and have sleepovers without me. After...
    BlueEyedRing BlueEyedRing 13-15 Jul 22, 2010

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    Aint That the Way

    i have a friend...she's i don't know a pretty decent friend. and i'm going to keep this short...so basically, sometimes she'll ignore me for long periods of time when i'm around and talk to other people, and then eventually she'll be like "hi" or whatever like she...
    Arishfem Arishfem 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    I get that a lot. I don't have many friends,

    so when I get ignored by them it hurts. What also bothers me is when we make plans and they say one thing one day and then the day you are to go out you find out they invited all these people that they work with and some that you don't like. At least let me know a couple of...
    feelinglost84 feelinglost84 26-30, F Aug 2

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    My Friends Ignore Me

    okay so spring of 2011 i was playing blackops with a friend and one of his friends joined the party and really hit it off he is a couple years older and he started dating some emo girl over xbox live and ignores me and my friend to play reach w/ some girl who could be a 50 year...
    PunkRockBassist PunkRockBassist 13-15 2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    Foret It! Dont Sleep On Their Doorstep!

    Okay, so I invited my friend to swim in my pool and to spend the night. So her and one of her other best friends were already planning something. Except, they weren't sure if they were gonna be able to do she told me it was fine. So I messages her texted her and even messaged her...
    GottaLoveMuzik1028 GottaLoveMuzik1028 13-15 1 Response May 29, 2012

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    Friends?

     Recently I've been feeling distant to my old friends and let me give you an introduction so you can understand my story: My best friend I met her when I was 14 so it's been almost 10 years of friendship, my other friends I met them in high school. Everything was fine, some...
    TearDrop86 TearDrop86 22-25 4 Responses Apr 14, 2009

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    My best friend on ep left today, well..I noticed that she was gone today. I wasn't online yesterday so I don't really know when she left, but she didn't say anything..I'm truly sad...
    PrincessPolarBear PrincessPolarBear 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    It doesn't really matter when you decide to become involved in politics so long as you do. What does matter is that you do your homework, don't settle for what some would have you...
    Moca2014 Moca2014 26-30 Aug 9

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    Yesterday was my birthday. I completed 19. My ex just messaged me, after leaving me for my cuts and calling me sorts of things, she said,"Happy Birthday, baby! Have a great time. I...
    scarredbutrelentless scarredbutrelentless 18-21, M Aug 17

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    Fokyn jerks. Hope they choke on meals. They are so addicted to conquest. That they ignore my proof of theory. Pigs. Why other pigs love them baffles me.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 15

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    I have no friends at all anymore, i must just be a horrible person. Iv been to 4 schools and spent 3 years at college but dont have 1 single friend now. I had a few but then i had...
    russianpenguin23 russianpenguin23 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    My friends and even my family members gets annoyed by the same thing; and that is me randomly singing. If ever I'm tired, I feel really light, like I'm high or something.
    damnwestcoast damnwestcoast 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Like im in lady gaga mother monster "monsters" fandom right been ever since just dance single I just love lady gaga style of a music video and the music she made shes amazing...
    Xxchristinx18 Xxchristinx18 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    It really upsets me! As a Christian, I don't thrust my beliefs in other peoples faces to avoid making people uncomfortable. I discuss it rationally when a situation arises. Yet it...
    LostApothecary LostApothecary 16-17, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I just get extra goofy. I laugh really hard at just about anything.
    LovelyLadyJ LovelyLadyJ 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    If you really love the guy just wait, why try to ruin his life?
    EBestest EBestest 18-21, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Honestly, it's not even about "getting in trouble" for me. It's just why lie about something that just gets less and less important as you get older? Really messes up the trust.
    TyTy19 TyTy19 16-17, M 15 hrs ago

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    People assume I'm a dumb blonde
    emmynap emmynap 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    My body is on self-destruct mode; I feel like I'm being slowly and brutally tortured from the inside. I'm sorry for not getting knocked up, please stop crying blood now darling.
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F Jul 28

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    Silly, crazy, spontaneous!!!! Lol
    MtnDewForever MtnDewForever 16-17, M Jul 30

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    Make silly mistakes, lots of 'Ooops, why did I do that?' moments, knowing that I do know better. And just generally nonsensical
    Karliya Karliya 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    For Instance If am seeking a relationship based on accountability Then I should not have to hear about polls taken and what one scientist found in schools in Quebec!
    BanMan BanMan 41-45, M Aug 18

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    Got back from surgery yesterday, tried talking to my friend on steam. I messaged him a couple times even stopped by the teamspeak he sits on and said hello on mic, he had his mic...
    shinjorai shinjorai 36-40, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    This past summer I've really lost my best friend. She's been hanging out with a mutual friend of ours because she works with her. She now talks like her and is always with her, it...
    TheSongPlaysWithin TheSongPlaysWithin 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    My illness led me to believe things said were about me, hurtful things. She may be the last genuine person in my life, even though she lives miles away. She told me if I keep...
    DevilDoll13 DevilDoll13 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    WARNING: LONG POST AHEAD I dont really have any friends and i havent had any for many years except my wife and kids. I have a few people i talk to online but other than that no...
    shinjorai shinjorai 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    Hurts when you are ignored when you truly want attention at the lowest time of your life.
    Shehshen Shehshen 22-25, F Jul 28

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    I have a problem where when I drink too much sometimes I get aggressive. I've done it to my parents and an ex before but nothing like I do to my current love. In the year we've...
    laurendimitra laurendimitra 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I won't fight for her. I had a friend, she was like a sister to me. She was with me when I battled depression, she was the one who stopped me from committing suicide, she was...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 4

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    I'm talking specifically about when people ignore my private messages on EP. Look, I'm a reasonable guy. If you just say, hey, I don't want to talk right now, message me again...
    wendelloboogie wendelloboogie 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 28

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