I Get Really Hurt When My Friends Ignore Me

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    Do I Even Exist To Them Anymore?

    Lately, almost all of my friends seem to ignore me. And when I question them, they never give a straight answer. Before, I used to have tons of friends, and i'd always talk with them and hang out with them... but its not the same anymore. I'll try to talk, but theyll tell me to...
    Christiezx Christiezx
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Nov 22, 2011

    so apperantly my best friend didn't text me

    or call me for nearly a week.. the last time we spoke "properly" was on friday last week.. a friend of mine came from another city to visit me but we didn't meet up at the day of her arrival so I texted my bestie bc she asked me if my friend came already and I asked her what she...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 28, 2015

    Ignoring The Friend?

    Me and my best friend also just so happen to be relatives and roommates. We're cousins but in reality we're more like sisters. Ever since I moved in with her I've become closer to a group of friends that she has than I was with some of my other friends back home, so now whenever...
    CNicoleH CNicoleH
    22-25, F
    Sep 14, 2013

    Funny Really

    The thing is I've been trying to push them away from me and yet it hurts when they do go. It is for the best though. Well..... I believe it is.
    Buffy19 Buffy19
    22-25, F
    Jan 12, 2011

    Not Talking to Anyone

      I haven’t been talking to all my friends for awhile. Seems we only talk when things are great. It’s mostly my fault. I would hide and not return calls. When my phone got seized I had it turned off. I post “sorry lost my phone” on myspace and put a...
    AkA007 AkA007
    26-30, F
    Feb 21, 2009

    so apperantly my best friend didn't text me

    or call me for three days now.. the last time we spoke was on friday.. a friend of mine came from another city to visit me but we didn't meet up at the day of her arrival so I texted my bestie bc she asked me if my friend came already and I asked her what she's doing and she...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 24, 2015

    Well there is one in particular.

    She has a friend a little older than us, and whenever they are together, she ignores me. I just follow her and act really shy and hurt but she still ignores me. She can be a brat.
    juliettecf juliettecf
    18-21, F
    Jan 12, 2015

    Friends Ignoring Me

    me and my friends have been friends forever, and i figured out that they were playing together, and not with me, and they make fun of everything i do, and i can't play volley ball, and i never played before, and i told them that, and they just went all out  saying i was horrible...
    katniseverdeen katniseverdeen
    1 Response Apr 3, 2012

    I feel more distant with my friends at home

    than I do with my friends who live in different states.
    sammichs sammichs
    18-21, F
    May 26, 2014

    Aint That the Way

    i have a friend...she's i don't know a pretty decent friend. and i'm going to keep this short...so basically, sometimes she'll ignore me for long periods of time when i'm around and talk to other people, and then eventually she'll be like "hi" or whatever like she...
    Arishfem Arishfem
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

    Get Over It...

    but at the time it really baffles me. A sudden end in communication is so immature and hurtful. Even if you are busy just take a lousy second to say."talk to ya later". If you are mad just say."I am mad and need time away." Value the friendship enough to be...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Feb 12, 2009

    Foret It! Dont Sleep On Their Doorstep!

    Okay, so I invited my friend to swim in my pool and to spend the night. So her and one of her other best friends were already planning something. Except, they weren't sure if they were gonna be able to do she told me it was fine. So I messages her texted her and even messaged her...
    GottaLoveMuzik1028 GottaLoveMuzik1028
    1 Response May 29, 2012

    She Told Me She Valued Me....

    I'm confused and hurt and sooo many feelings rolled into one. I thought I made a wonderful new friend recently. I've known her for a year. She left for 4 months and I never heard from her at all...before she left she told me she VALUED me and my friendship...I took that to heart...
    BetwixtNiko BetwixtNiko
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 19, 2011

    hmmm like my cousin's their my bestfriend

    since we were kids but now i think one of them is ignoring me all the time and when i try to help him he's being rude to me i don't know why but i feel like ignored my bestfriends telling me don't talk to him never but i don't want to be same to be cruel what to do ? 😰
    Sozdar Sozdar
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 12, 2015

    My Friends Ignore Me

    okay so spring of 2011 i was playing blackops with a friend and one of his friends joined the party and really hit it off he is a couple years older and he started dating some emo girl over xbox live and ignores me and my friend to play reach w/ some girl who could be a 50 year...
    PunkRockBassist PunkRockBassist
    Mar 23, 2012

    I value friendship so much

    and they all come to me for advice as im 'always there for them' yet, when I need them, they're no where to be seen. My one friend especially, when we're together its so much fun! We plan to move out together and I know she has a hard family life, but she was meant to come and...
    BlackFox05 BlackFox05
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 13, 2014

    My Best Friend's Boyfriend

    Okay! It has been 3 and a half months since my best friend has been dating her boyfriend. I have been friends with her for almost 5 years. Lately, my small group of 6 have been ignoring me except for one or two of them. So anyway, ever since my friend starting dating this guy...
    MMCorbin242 MMCorbin242
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 4, 2012


      It started a few days ago.  Of course, my idiotic school has "girl scouts" and almost every girl does it.  Well, i chose not to be a duchebag, so I am currently not doing it.  The troop was holding a gardening thing, so all of my friends went...
    nicolian131 nicolian131
    13-15, F
    9 Responses Sep 3, 2009

    Of Course It Hurts

    Ignoring by your friends without even knowing the reason why really hurts me. I rather talk to her than to ignore them too.
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv
    26-30, F
    Oct 23, 2008

    Not Sure...

    I'm not sure if I still feel this way or not. But I think I've grown enough that getting ignored doesn't mean much anymore. I can always find someone else to talk to. I just have to have something to say.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    Feb 11, 2009

    My Friends Ignore Me Sometimes Too....

    I have two great friends they are like sisters to me. But lately i feel like they ignore me sometimes i dont know why it could be me being anxious but when i need them the most they are never there for me. I am always here for them to help them and their problems but whenever i...
    Jan 12, 2013

    My Friend Ignores Me

    i have a best friend.he has some other friends too.i love him more than anyone in the class.he was quite friendly with me but for a week he is getting away from me..i don't know the correct reason but i can tell some possibilities.two weeks ago we had exams. he studied with me...
    Jan 23, 2013


    About 4months again my best friend and I parted ways, this was because I wanted to become friends with this huge group of people and she didn't. I was accepted into the group straight away and left out quite often, people would go the cinema and have sleepovers without me. After...
    BlueEyedRing BlueEyedRing
    Jul 22, 2010

    Online and Disconnected...

    Of course it hurts when I'm ignored by my "friends."  The worst part is, my friends ignore me because they have better friends who they have met online. They could be 60 year old men, and my friends like them more than me... it hurts!  One of my closest...
    oxbratty43v3rxo oxbratty43v3rxo
    1 Response Apr 5, 2009

    The Type of Friends I Have..

    I fall into the 18-21yr old group, so I'm in college. My friend Melissa is getting married. Well everyone is now all of a sudden talking to her. (When I say everyone I mean my high school group of friends.) When I try to talk to them it just seems like they don't want anything to...
    royalcherrydust royalcherrydust
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 2, 2009

    Friends? 😥

    So me and a group of three more girls have been best friends since last year and I'm starting to grow apart from them. All of them are doing art club after school accept for me they post fun pictures on Instagram of them doing stuff and I feel left out. One of my best friends...
    RBeanie RBeanie
    16-17, F
    Oct 15, 2013


     Recently I've been feeling distant to my old friends and let me give you an introduction so you can understand my story: My best friend I met her when I was 14 so it's been almost 10 years of friendship, my other friends I met them in high school. Everything was fine, some...
    TearDrop86 TearDrop86
    4 Responses Apr 14, 2009

    So there's this girl in my class

    and we were hanging out at a volleyball game. After it we were waiting outside for our parents to pick us up. I was trying to tell her about this kid who was being funny with the cheers he was doing and was literally in the middle of my story and she just walks away and starts a...
    KenDen KenDen
    16-17, F
    Sep 25, 2015

    My "friends" And Rumors

    last night i got a text from my best friend stating "ally,have you been talking about me?" everyone knows i wouldnt hurt anyone so i just thought she was kidding. a few minutes later i get texts from a lot of my others friends sounding similiar or "we need to talk". i was so...
    tevyvee tevyvee
    Feb 24, 2011

    It deosn't happen often

    but when it does it gets extremely awkward.
    Tagstar2000 Tagstar2000
    16-17, M
    Sep 8, 2015

    It happens so much to the point

    where I'll just walk away from the group. What ****** me off more is when they pretend to be concerned and ask me to come back. Then when I do, they just ignore me again.
    FromAntoinette FromAntoinette
    Jan 24, 2016
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