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I Get Really Hurt When My Friends Ignore Me

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    The Type of Friends I Have..

    I fall into the 18-21yr old group, so I'm in college. My friend Melissa is getting married. Well everyone is now all of a sudden talking to her. (When I say everyone I mean my high school group of friends.) When I try to talk to them it just seems like they don't want anything to...
    royalcherrydust royalcherrydust 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2009

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    Ignoring The Friend?

    Me and my best friend also just so happen to be relatives and roommates. We're cousins but in reality we're more like sisters. Ever since I moved in with her I've become closer to a group of friends that she has than I was with some of my other friends back home, so now whenever...
    CNicoleH CNicoleH 22-25, F Sep 14, 2013

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    I value friendship so much

    and they all come to me for advice as im 'always there for them' yet, when I need them, they're no where to be seen. My one friend especially, when we're together its so much fun! We plan to move out together and I know she has a hard family life, but she was meant to come and...
    BlackFox05 BlackFox05 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    Well there is one in particular.

    She has a friend a little older than us, and whenever they are together, she ignores me. I just follow her and act really shy and hurt but she still ignores me. She can be a brat.
    juliettecf juliettecf 13-15, F Jan 12

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    My Friends Ignore Me Sometimes Too....

    I have two great friends they are like sisters to me. But lately i feel like they ignore me sometimes i dont know why it could be me being anxious but when i need them the most they are never there for me. I am always here for them to help them and their problems but whenever i...
    Jan 12, 2013

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    She Told Me She Valued Me....

    I'm confused and hurt and sooo many feelings rolled into one. I thought I made a wonderful new friend recently. I've known her for a year. She left for 4 months and I never heard from her at all...before she left she told me she VALUED me and my friendship...I took that to heart...
    BetwixtNiko BetwixtNiko 26-30, F 1 Response May 19, 2011

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    Lonely

    About 4months again my best friend and I parted ways, this was because I wanted to become friends with this huge group of people and she didn't. I was accepted into the group straight away and left out quite often, people would go the cinema and have sleepovers without me. After...
    BlueEyedRing BlueEyedRing 13-15 Jul 22, 2010

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    Not Talking to Anyone

      I haven’t been talking to all my friends for awhile. Seems we only talk when things are great. It’s mostly my fault. I would hide and not return calls. When my phone got seized I had it turned off. I post “sorry lost my phone” on myspace and put a...
    AkA007 AkA007 26-30, F Feb 21, 2009

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    Online and Disconnected...

    Of course it hurts when I'm ignored by my "friends."  The worst part is, my friends ignore me because they have better friends who they have met online. They could be 60 year old men, and my friends like them more than me... it hurts!  One of my closest...
    oxbratty43v3rxo oxbratty43v3rxo 13-15 1 Response Apr 5, 2009

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    Foret It! Dont Sleep On Their Doorstep!

    Okay, so I invited my friend to swim in my pool and to spend the night. So her and one of her other best friends were already planning something. Except, they weren't sure if they were gonna be able to do she told me it was fine. So I messages her texted her and even messaged her...
    GottaLoveMuzik1028 GottaLoveMuzik1028 13-15 1 Response May 29, 2012

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    Of Course It Hurts

    Ignoring by your friends without even knowing the reason why really hurts me. I rather talk to her than to ignore them too.
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F Oct 23, 2008

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    Friends Ignoring Me

    me and my friends have been friends forever, and i figured out that they were playing together, and not with me, and they make fun of everything i do, and i can't play volley ball, and i never played before, and i told them that, and they just went all out  saying i was horrible...
    katniseverdeen katniseverdeen 13-15 1 Response Apr 3, 2012

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    Betrayed

      It started a few days ago.  Of course, my idiotic school has "girl scouts" and almost every girl does it.  Well, i chose not to be a duchebag, so I am currently not doing it.  The troop was holding a gardening thing, so all of my friends went...
    nicolian131 nicolian131 13-15, F 9 Responses Sep 3, 2009

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    hmmm like my cousin's their my bestfriend

    since we were kids but now i think one of them is ignoring me all the time and when i try to help him he's being rude to me i don't know why but i feel like ignored my bestfriends telling me don't talk to him never but i don't want to be same to be cruel what to do ? 😰
    Sozdar Sozdar 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 12

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    Friends? 😥

    So me and a group of three more girls have been best friends since last year and I'm starting to grow apart from them. All of them are doing art club after school accept for me they post fun pictures on Instagram of them doing stuff and I feel left out. One of my best friends...
    RBeanie RBeanie 13-15, F Oct 15, 2013

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    Life Goes On

    Although I understand that I can't always see and talk with my friends because life goes on, a part of me wishes I could hang out and chat with my friends all the time; however, what really hurts me are friends who ignore me on purpose and act all butt-hurt when I tell it like it...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2011

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    Get Over It...

    but at the time it really baffles me. A sudden end in communication is so immature and hurtful. Even if you are busy just take a lousy second to say."talk to ya later". If you are mad just say."I am mad and need time away." Value the friendship enough to be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 12, 2009

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    My "friends" And Rumors

    last night i got a text from my best friend stating "ally,have you been talking about me?" everyone knows i wouldnt hurt anyone so i just thought she was kidding. a few minutes later i get texts from a lot of my others friends sounding similiar or "we need to talk". i was so...
    tevyvee tevyvee 13-15 Feb 24, 2011

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    Funny Really

    The thing is I've been trying to push them away from me and yet it hurts when they do go. It is for the best though. Well..... I believe it is.
    Buffy19 Buffy19 18-21, F Jan 12, 2011

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    My Best Friend's Boyfriend

    Okay! It has been 3 and a half months since my best friend has been dating her boyfriend. I have been friends with her for almost 5 years. Lately, my small group of 6 have been ignoring me except for one or two of them. So anyway, ever since my friend starting dating this guy...
    MMCorbin242 MMCorbin242 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    My Friend Ignores Me

    i have a best friend.he has some other friends too.i love him more than anyone in the class.he was quite friendly with me but for a week he is getting away from me..i don't know the correct reason but i can tell some possibilities.two weeks ago we had exams. he studied with me...
    Jan 23, 2013

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    Aint That the Way

    i have a friend...she's i don't know a pretty decent friend. and i'm going to keep this short...so basically, sometimes she'll ignore me for long periods of time when i'm around and talk to other people, and then eventually she'll be like "hi" or whatever like she...
    Arishfem Arishfem 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Do I Even Exist To Them Anymore?

    Lately, almost all of my friends seem to ignore me. And when I question them, they never give a straight answer. Before, I used to have tons of friends, and i'd always talk with them and hang out with them... but its not the same anymore. I'll try to talk, but theyll tell me to...
    Christiezx Christiezx 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 22, 2011

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    Friends?

     Recently I've been feeling distant to my old friends and let me give you an introduction so you can understand my story: My best friend I met her when I was 14 so it's been almost 10 years of friendship, my other friends I met them in high school. Everything was fine, some...
    TearDrop86 TearDrop86 22-25 4 Responses Apr 14, 2009

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    Not Sure...

    I'm not sure if I still feel this way or not. But I think I've grown enough that getting ignored doesn't mean much anymore. I can always find someone else to talk to. I just have to have something to say.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F Feb 11, 2009

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    My Friends Ignore Me

    okay so spring of 2011 i was playing blackops with a friend and one of his friends joined the party and really hit it off he is a couple years older and he started dating some emo girl over xbox live and ignores me and my friend to play reach w/ some girl who could be a 50 year...
    PunkRockBassist PunkRockBassist 13-15 Mar 23, 2012

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    I feel more distant with my friends at home

    than I do with my friends who live in different states.
    sammichs sammichs 18-21, F May 26, 2014

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    Aggravated may be a better term. Don't you just love logging in and seeing the word "deleted" next to a message of a "friend"? I mean, really.. how rude. At least a goodbye...
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