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I Get Really Hurt When My Friends Ignore Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 338 People

    Foret It! Dont Sleep On Their Doorstep!

    Okay, so I invited my friend to swim in my pool and to spend the night. So her and one of her other best friends were already planning something. Except, they weren't sure if they were gonna be able to do she told me it was fine. So I messages her texted her and even messaged her...
    GottaLoveMuzik1028 GottaLoveMuzik1028 13-15 1 Response May 29, 2012

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    Friends?

     Recently I've been feeling distant to my old friends and let me give you an introduction so you can understand my story: My best friend I met her when I was 14 so it's been almost 10 years of friendship, my other friends I met them in high school. Everything was fine, some...
    TearDrop86 TearDrop86 22-25 4 Responses Apr 14, 2009

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    Not Sure...

    I'm not sure if I still feel this way or not. But I think I've grown enough that getting ignored doesn't mean much anymore. I can always find someone else to talk to. I just have to have something to say.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F Feb 11, 2009

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    Ignoring The Friend?

    Me and my best friend also just so happen to be relatives and roommates. We're cousins but in reality we're more like sisters. Ever since I moved in with her I've become closer to a group of friends that she has than I was with some of my other friends back home, so now whenever...
    CNicoleH CNicoleH 22-25, F Sep 14, 2013

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    Lonely

    About 4months again my best friend and I parted ways, this was because I wanted to become friends with this huge group of people and she didn't. I was accepted into the group straight away and left out quite often, people would go the cinema and have sleepovers without me. After...
    BlueEyedRing BlueEyedRing 13-15 Jul 22, 2010

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    Aint That the Way

    i have a friend...she's i don't know a pretty decent friend. and i'm going to keep this short...so basically, sometimes she'll ignore me for long periods of time when i'm around and talk to other people, and then eventually she'll be like "hi" or whatever like she...
    Arishfem Arishfem 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    I feel more distant with my friends at home

    than I do with my friends who live in different states.
    sammichs sammichs 16-17, F May 26

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    My Friends Ignore Me

    okay so spring of 2011 i was playing blackops with a friend and one of his friends joined the party and really hit it off he is a couple years older and he started dating some emo girl over xbox live and ignores me and my friend to play reach w/ some girl who could be a 50 year...
    PunkRockBassist PunkRockBassist 13-15 2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    I get that a lot. I don't have many friends,

    so when I get ignored by them it hurts. What also bothers me is when we make plans and they say one thing one day and then the day you are to go out you find out they invited all these people that they work with and some that you don't like. At least let me know a couple of...
    feelinglost84 feelinglost84 26-30, F Aug 2

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    Life Goes On

    Although I understand that I can't always see and talk with my friends because life goes on, a part of me wishes I could hang out and chat with my friends all the time; however, what really hurts me are friends who ignore me on purpose and act all butt-hurt when I tell it like it...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2011

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    Friends Ignoring Me

    me and my friends have been friends forever, and i figured out that they were playing together, and not with me, and they make fun of everything i do, and i can't play volley ball, and i never played before, and i told them that, and they just went all out  saying i was horrible...
    katniseverdeen katniseverdeen 13-15 1 Response Apr 3, 2012

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    Friends? 😥

    So me and a group of three more girls have been best friends since last year and I'm starting to grow apart from them. All of them are doing art club after school accept for me they post fun pictures on Instagram of them doing stuff and I feel left out. One of my best friends...
    RBeanie RBeanie 13-15, F Oct 15, 2013

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    Online and Disconnected...

    Of course it hurts when I'm ignored by my "friends."  The worst part is, my friends ignore me because they have better friends who they have met online. They could be 60 year old men, and my friends like them more than me... it hurts!  One of my closest...
    oxbratty43v3rxo oxbratty43v3rxo 13-15 1 Response Apr 5, 2009

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    Not Talking to Anyone

      I haven’t been talking to all my friends for awhile. Seems we only talk when things are great. It’s mostly my fault. I would hide and not return calls. When my phone got seized I had it turned off. I post “sorry lost my phone” on myspace and put a...
    AkA007 AkA007 26-30, F Feb 21, 2009

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    Funny Really

    The thing is I've been trying to push them away from me and yet it hurts when they do go. It is for the best though. Well..... I believe it is.
    Buffy19 Buffy19 18-21, F Jan 12, 2011

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    The Type of Friends I Have..

    I fall into the 18-21yr old group, so I'm in college. My friend Melissa is getting married. Well everyone is now all of a sudden talking to her. (When I say everyone I mean my high school group of friends.) When I try to talk to them it just seems like they don't want anything to...
    royalcherrydust royalcherrydust 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2009

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    My "friends" And Rumors

    last night i got a text from my best friend stating "ally,have you been talking about me?" everyone knows i wouldnt hurt anyone so i just thought she was kidding. a few minutes later i get texts from a lot of my others friends sounding similiar or "we need to talk". i was so...
    tevyvee tevyvee 13-15 Feb 24, 2011

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    My Best Friend's Boyfriend

    Okay! It has been 3 and a half months since my best friend has been dating her boyfriend. I have been friends with her for almost 5 years. Lately, my small group of 6 have been ignoring me except for one or two of them. So anyway, ever since my friend starting dating this guy...
    MMCorbin242 MMCorbin242 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    I was ignored all my life

    unless someone wanted something from me so I think everyone hates to be alone but for me it hits harder because of my past. My friends I feel are always too busy for me and it makes me feel so bad. I don't know if I'm being too sensitive, too needy, or if they're taking me for...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    Get Over It...

    but at the time it really baffles me. A sudden end in communication is so immature and hurtful. Even if you are busy just take a lousy second to say."talk to ya later". If you are mad just say."I am mad and need time away." Value the friendship enough to be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 12, 2009

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    Do I Even Exist To Them Anymore?

    Lately, almost all of my friends seem to ignore me. And when I question them, they never give a straight answer. Before, I used to have tons of friends, and i'd always talk with them and hang out with them... but its not the same anymore. I'll try to talk, but theyll tell me to...
    Christiezx Christiezx 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 22, 2011

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    I value friendship so much

    and they all come to me for advice as im 'always there for them' yet, when I need them, they're no where to be seen. My one friend especially, when we're together its so much fun! We plan to move out together and I know she has a hard family life, but she was meant to come and...
    BlackFox05 BlackFox05 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 13

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    Betrayed

      It started a few days ago.  Of course, my idiotic school has "girl scouts" and almost every girl does it.  Well, i chose not to be a duchebag, so I am currently not doing it.  The troop was holding a gardening thing, so all of my friends went...
    nicolian131 nicolian131 13-15, F 9 Responses Sep 3, 2009

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    She Told Me She Valued Me....

    I'm confused and hurt and sooo many feelings rolled into one. I thought I made a wonderful new friend recently. I've known her for a year. She left for 4 months and I never heard from her at all...before she left she told me she VALUED me and my friendship...I took that to heart...
    BetwixtNiko BetwixtNiko 26-30, F 1 Response May 19, 2011

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    Of Course It Hurts

    Ignoring by your friends without even knowing the reason why really hurts me. I rather talk to her than to ignore them too.
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F Oct 23, 2008

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    Alright so I was once really good friends with this boy {we'll call him S} since kindergarten. He was my escape from having to fit in with the nasty girls I went to school with...
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    I was suspended for a week cuz some sluty snooty girl made my best friend cry by making fun of her and I beat her up. I guess I beat her up pretty bad she ended up spitting out...
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    And it just keeps happening... Another message in my inbox with that guy named deleted. Seriously? You couldn't take the time to say goodbye first? We just talked yesterday and...
    Lyssak Lyssak 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    its actually over.. the thing that probably fears anybody the most is losing whats most important to them. ive lost a lot of things important to me, but this is by far the worst...
    Ebolaa Ebolaa 16-17, M 17 hrs ago

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    Hi I am samanta,Here is my lil story- I don't have a single friend , I am jobless.I am alone..I can't tell you guys how much depressed I'm right now,I really need to talk with...
    samanta7 samanta7 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    I just dont feel like I have anyone I can trust or even really talk to for that matter, I hate feeling so alone. :(
    Jessbenoit Jessbenoit 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 1

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    I felt so bad because they're too "good-behaviour" person, bcs as a young people i thought that we have to explore anything, even it is good or bad. I felt so blessed because my...
    kathv kathv 22-25, F Dec 9

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    yeah the title of this experience says it all .. that would be nice .. so i can keep track on them .
    antoneli antoneli 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 14

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    I've been beginning to have feelings for someone and I'm scared they're going to **** me over idk
    acorn288 acorn288 16-17, F Dec 2

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    I need a friend who's awake late at night if your reading this then maybe it's you
    DaggerPaw DaggerPaw 13-15, M 1 Response Dec 2

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    There's nothing I love more than a big, fat, morbidly obese hog of a man... except maybe fattening him up. I just go crazy for them and their giant sexy bellies and moobs and...
    JazzieAV JazzieAV 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 13

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    I just wanted to say that it is such a huge self-esteem boost seeing experiences like this. I always think I am so ugly, but the fact that I know there are people who like fatties...
    BoitaPensee BoitaPensee 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 13

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    I'm only 16.. 3 years ago I cut myself and I have been doing it on and off since then. I don't understand what's wrong with me. I'd be out with my friends, enjoying my time. Then...
    Aly262 Aly262 16-17 1 Response Dec 1

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    Okay, so I have maybe quite a few good friends, but two which I'm very close with. Let's call them Jenna and Olivia. So Jenna and I have been extremely close since preschool, and...
    celiapennington147 celiapennington147 13-15, F 7 Responses Dec 12

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    I want to find other people who get upset when people ignore their messages. All of the people who say "let it ho" or "idc if it's rude" or"that's just your opinion" or "you can't...
    thescriptmaroon thescriptmaroon 22-25, M Nov 22

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    I am the kind of person that expects nothing in return for the fear of being disappointed. In relationships I can't help but nip a problem in the butt by just saying sorry for my...
    crimsonfleur609 crimsonfleur609 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I found someone different than most guys i've met online .. I thought he was just like them , but its funny how i realized that his not , when its all over . I regret doing...
    PinkLipstick00 PinkLipstick00 18-21, F Nov 23

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    Excuse me while I ***** cry about how sad I am and tell a bunch of strangers who don't give a **** about why I'm feeling so blue. It sucks feeling so alone. It hurts when you go...
    kurioussubmissive kurioussubmissive 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    I wish I could shut off my feelings. Whenever I like someone, I always end up getting hurt. When I meet some one new, a little voice in my head says "What if he's different?" and...
    beekachu222 beekachu222 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 14

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    I am to a point that the hurting and sadness are normal and any joy is frightening . I have had a lot of ups and downs in my life and many of the bad things I have caused , I just...
    chris121458 chris121458 51-55, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    my auto text that is sent when I ignore a call is "I don't feel like talking, call tomorrow unless someone is dying " my friends just text now and ask me what type of mood I'm in...
    lostinthoughtss lostinthoughtss 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 22

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    I have three in total I Hope never to lose them, They wont ever see this i doubt but i wanted to say thanks and i love them all the same. One of whom I love ten foot from, Shes...
    prettybrowneyes1993 prettybrowneyes1993 18-21, F Nov 26

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