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I Get Rejected Alot and Its Painful

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    Edge Of Insanity

    Every tim its someone new there nice and beautiful i am attracted to them an insane amount and it gets to the point where dating is about to happen my friend is usually there when it happens im at home hes at the random party he comes home and calls me he says "we gotta talk" he...
    zigy54 zigy54 16-17, M Jan 24, 2010

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    I Am Done!

    I am done pleasing others and just get rejected at the end! I will do what I want! I will please myself and NO ONE CAN DICTATE ME AGAIN!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 25, 2013

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    (Sorry if my English bad) So my school offers a

    program in my school called the Arts and Culture program,and it's only offered to grade 10's ( I'm in grade 10) so I applied for it, my school said if you applied to the program you have to check if your names on the list. I went and checked the list, unfortunately my name was...
    DavidEscate98 DavidEscate98 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 23

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    Rejection

    I know it happens to a lot of people but this is just getting stupid. people make plans with me and the day that we are suppose to hag out or something they decide that they don't FEEL like going anymore. like honestly if your going to make plans with me MAKE SURE YOU ARE GOING...
    cutiev0900 cutiev0900 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 12, 2013

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    I Just Wish For Once A Guy Would Be Everything I Want

    I get sick of being rejected by men, friends, and work, etc it would be nice to have a guy for once do and say the right things I want to hear and be everything I have looked for in a man... be gentle and hold my hand, and not bully me,  not sexually dominate, or ignore it seems...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 2 Responses May 28, 2012

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    By Men I'm Not Even Interested In, And Everyone Else

    I really don't know if it's me, or if it's one of those things in life everyone goes through. But more often than not but people (immature men mostly) will call out the fact that I am disgusting. It happens at the beach and the boardwalk a lot. They say I'm anorexic, that I'm...
    eatontowngirlxo eatontowngirlxo 18-21, F 5 Responses May 28, 2012

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    Victim of Vicious Slander

     Each morning I have to prepare for what the onset of the dawn will bring. Will person who was friendly to me merely yesterday suddenly become terse? Will their eyebrows narrow when I smile the same smile I dislayed only wee hours before? If I had done half of the...
    MondayBliss MondayBliss 41-45 4 Responses Apr 18, 2009

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    Sick Of It....

    I have no friends left due to various circumstances that were not my fault. One got arrested for crimes against kids, the other was my best friend of 13 years but I got fed up with her spoiltness and the fact that things always had to be her way or no way at all. She also kept...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2011

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    It just hurts so much, its unexplainably painful.
    69allnightlong 69allnightlong 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    This is only the most recent in a long line of rejections. Being a transgender person in the American South certainly isn't easy, but the most painful moments are those that are...
    SisterCyanide SisterCyanide 26-30, T 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Help.. Im feeling really sad these few days.. I got rejected.. I thought he loved me back after all the things he had done... I went to confront him about all the mess and...
    Jaqque23 Jaqque23 18-21, F Apr 3

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    Hey, I'm new on EP. I thought I wanted to share an experience that many people have had. I was rejected. I wasn't good enough for him and yet 2 weeks later he starts flirting with...
    lee521 lee521 13-15, F Mar 23

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    It happens every day. My wife does not want me she doesn't want intimacy. She just looks at me and says no matter how much I give you it's never enough. I'm tired of being...
    october004 october004 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    It saddens me so muh to see so many peole on here who have been rejected by church. I worked for my church and they restructered my position so my junior got my job. I have...
    sassychristian sassychristian 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I hate being rejected...........
    Stimpy101 Stimpy101 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 10

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    To keep my story short- i had it very hard in my life. I dont know why people treated me this way, that i became sick, but i cant find answers to this. All i feel is pain, shame...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F Apr 10

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    So this is my life. I'm a very shy girl and I was happy until I was 9. After what happened when I was 9, my life became very bad and painful. And then I wanted to suicide. But...
    DarkEmoAngel06 DarkEmoAngel06 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    My first painful breakup was on valentines day 2013. I was dating this one girl and she cheated on me and dumped me on that day.
    NaonWolf NaonWolf 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    It was very painful not only because that person hurt me a lot, also because that friendship was made while I was being bullied and later I found out that person didn't like me at...
    imanonwriter imanonwriter 16-17, F Apr 10

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    No matter how harsh and painful my life is right now, someday.... Someday, a day will come when I can smile every day.
    SmileyFace1014 SmileyFace1014 13-15, F Apr 11

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    100% pure cotton pyjamas make a statement of quality and good taste, no other sleepwear or lounging garments are more comfortable for a good night sleep. Pure cotton is a fibre...
    hemasbags hemasbags 26-30, F Mar 28

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    I have recently within the last 3 month become very interested in the paranormal almost obsessed with it. I started watching the tv show Ghost Adventures and became addicted to it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 22

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    Nike SB Supreme Blue is one amongst the merchandise within the 'High' Nike's product family. this can be a large family, and one that remains growing, with different siblings...
    mmogooglegame mmogooglegame 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    I just told my mom everything… how I despise her how after all these years of her letting me down and leaving me alone I can no longer trust her… I told her even if you gave...
    lost1234567 lost1234567 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    for the past 5 months I've been purging n starving myself. I've lost about 35 pounds and my weight keeps going down. my weight is controlling my life its all I think about. well...
    OriginallyVintage OriginallyVintage 13-15, F Mar 23

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    I am married to an incredible man. When we met he warned me of his disability. To look at him, you would never know he suffers from debilitating back and spinal pain. Yet, he...
    hedymorris hedymorris 46-50, F Apr 3

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    Sometimes you have to encourage yourself.  Sometimes you have to speak victory during the test.  And no matter how you feel,  Speak "life" over yourself,  encourage yourself...
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F Apr 6

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    A lot of the time when someone says. I love you or care for you. I will be there for you. When it comes down to the real deal. There's normally an unspoken condition, only when its...
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    It makes me laugh when people tell me how's collage or university. Does no one look at me age progress chatting with me. Clearly I'm not age yet to go to collage or a university I...
    MerpR MerpR 13-15, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    My family doesn't like me. Don't worry, they love me. They just don't like my person. I'm a mildly emo punk rocker who has a bisexual girlfriend and doesn't like sports, and my...
    palant palant 13-15, M Mar 22

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    Not sure why I keep rejecting him when part of me really likes him... It's a strange feeling.
    mrvitous26 mrvitous26 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I tried so hard to make it work but you just threw it in my face. I thought you actually cared about me, then I found out you used me to make someone jealous. I hate you. But I...
    cyclingmaniac cyclingmaniac 16-17, M Mar 23

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    It all started four years ago when this guy sat across the table from me and offered me some hummus, we hit it off right then and there. We had a good friendship, he always told me...
    marionhan marionhan 22-25, F Mar 27

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    I have chronic pain problems, and people treat me like dirt because they assume that I am have mental issues, not realizing how stressful it is to feel this way all the time. I...
    stphnmclrn46 stphnmclrn46 22-25 Mar 29

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    A good friend of thirty years (or so I thought) went silent on me a few years ago after an email exchange where I politely told him I wasn't in a space to read about his Jehova...
    KatieTreat KatieTreat 51-55, T Mar 31

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    that hurt...pride and all
    huhsorryiwasoverthinking huhsorryiwasoverthinking 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I met this guy online about 3 weeks ago. It was a mistake the first time we talked, because I was kind of trolling him, and sent him a picture of my friend saying it was me. I...
    Belinda Belinda 26-30, F Apr 5

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    How can I put this into words? I started dating a very beautiful, intelligent and funny woman. It was going great, we would hang out and do things like most couples would but, she...
    No551 No551 26-30 Apr 6

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    Im not desperate for a relationship, but what bugs me is no one seems to give me a chance. Im decent looking, well educated, great self-control and extremely welcoming and nice...
    Jonesing4nice Jonesing4nice 18-21, M Apr 9

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    My best friend knows everything I'm going through and he still post pictures I want no one to see on twitter and Instagram and makes fun of me constantly it's always a joke to him...
    11001s 11001s 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    This is so true and after awhile I just don't care anymore because I love who I am and who I've become (:
    hitthelightsnow hitthelightsnow 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    ...when you've cared about someone more than you've cared about yourself...when your feelings went ignored, ... Is when you loved someone that didn't love you back 😞
    bhaljun bhaljun 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    I am so shy when I look back my life feels like a 32 year awkward silence. I sit and think about what I think other people are thinking and it paralyzes me. I think about what I...
    teetoe1 teetoe1 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    Eliteist? Yes. Sadistic? Yes. Stupid? No.
    MrCharlED MrCharlED 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    Yes, it was a long time ago, she was my first love and when she agreed to go out with me I could hardly believe it. I was about 16, she was beautiful, well dressed, ambitious...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M Mar 22

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    I'm experiencing it right now OMG it hurts so much 😞😞😞😞😠😭😭😭😭😭😷😷😩😫
    Thatssoawesome Thatssoawesome 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    All i can see is darkness. There is complete nothingness. I feel like people can see through me as though I am a walking spirit. I don't matter. Nothing matters and so why...
    CannibalizeTheMerciful CannibalizeTheMerciful 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    I usually don't go to school for a day or two... I want to cut the f-cking thing out of my body!!!! I cry, I scream... Worst thing ever!!!!
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F Mar 26

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    They say the first is the worst. I guess this is a different kind of pain. My relationship had to end. Not because we stopped loving each other, nothing bad happened that should...
    sunshine1221 sunshine1221 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I have passed out from exhaustion when I am on my period. I have horrible cramps, nausea, fatigue, and to top everything off my blood counts drop so I get weak, shaky and irritable...
    Thatonechickthatdoesstuff Thatonechickthatdoesstuff 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    My Mama is having rotator cuff surgery on April 7th. That's what brought me here. Hoping to learn some things from others' experience, with helping her afterward.
    Deb515 Deb515 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 27

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