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I Get Rejected Alot and Its Painful

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    I have herpes and it really hurts to feel

    rejected because of it. I had met a man online dating site and thought everything was so great and now that I told him about the H I think he is or will reject me. I really was serious about him and him about me, I feel so empty. Its hard because there is a fine line when to...
    akimble akimble 46-50, F 4 Responses May 1

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    By Men I'm Not Even Interested In, And Everyone Else

    I really don't know if it's me, or if it's one of those things in life everyone goes through. But more often than not but people (immature men mostly) will call out the fact that I am disgusting. It happens at the beach and the boardwalk a lot. They say I'm anorexic, that I'm...
    eatontowngirlxo eatontowngirlxo 18-21, F 4 Responses May 28, 2012

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    I Wish I Could Be Different...

    I am very lonely when I'm away from home. My only real friend in this world is my wife. She is my true and best friend. She works hard at home, however, and she goes to bed early at night. That leaves me alone every day. Sure, I have coworkers around me, but I don't exist...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 4, 2011

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    I Am Done!

    I am done pleasing others and just get rejected at the end! I will do what I want! I will please myself and NO ONE CAN DICTATE ME AGAIN!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 25, 2013

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    Sick Of It....

    I have no friends left due to various circumstances that were not my fault. One got arrested for crimes against kids, the other was my best friend of 13 years but I got fed up with her spoiltness and the fact that things always had to be her way or no way at all. She also kept...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2011

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    Victim of Vicious Slander

     Each morning I have to prepare for what the onset of the dawn will bring. Will person who was friendly to me merely yesterday suddenly become terse? Will their eyebrows narrow when I smile the same smile I dislayed only wee hours before? If I had done half of the...
    MondayBliss MondayBliss 41-45 4 Responses Apr 18, 2009

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    I Just Wish For Once A Guy Would Be Everything I Want

    I get sick of being rejected by men, friends, and work, etc it would be nice to have a guy for once do and say the right things I want to hear and be everything I have looked for in a man... be gentle and hold my hand, and not bully me,Β  not sexually dominate, or ignore it seems...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 2 Responses May 28, 2012

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    (Sorry if my English bad) So my school offers a

    program in my school called the Arts and Culture program,and it's only offered to grade 10's ( I'm in grade 10) so I applied for it, my school said if you applied to the program you have to check if your names on the list. I went and checked the list, unfortunately my name was...
    DavidEscate98 DavidEscate98 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 23

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    Rejection

    I know it happens to a lot of people but this is just getting stupid. people make plans with me and the day that we are suppose to hag out or something they decide that they don't FEEL like going anymore. like honestly if your going to make plans with me MAKE SURE YOU ARE GOING...
    cutiev0900 cutiev0900 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 12, 2013

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    Edge Of Insanity

    Every tim its someone new there nice and beautiful i am attracted to them an insane amount and it gets to the point where dating is about to happen my friend is usually there when it happens im at home hes at the random party he comes home and calls me he says "we gotta talk" he...
    zigy54 zigy54 16-17, M Jan 24, 2010

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    I hate rejection. I just got rejected earlier!! It feels so painful :( **** love
    Firdvxs Firdvxs 18-21, M Sep 5

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    So I met this boy last year and he was really sweet. I liked him after a few weeks of knowing him. He liked me the first day he saw me. He went up to my close friend and told her...
    KatieCanBeYours18 KatieCanBeYours18 16-17, F 8 Responses Sep 12

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    Everything i once had ive lost. All that ive gained has been taken away from me. Its overwhelming. Its driving me nuts. Its too much for me to handle. When im with people. When im...
    LifeOnAThread LifeOnAThread 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    Which time was saying it that made you look his way? When saying that you're beautiful for the seventh time that day? or when I said," I am for you...", was that why you betrayed...
    fukubus fukubus 41-45, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have never been rejected cause i have never asked anyone :D
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    by my family see when i was 16 and 17 my parents well my family rejected me see i was atheist and they were completely religious and when i told them i was atheist they wouldnt...
    chuckzares chuckzares 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    Last week I had dinner with a girl who has a lot of problems. Just like I do. I thought we might be able to keep each other company in this cruel world. We met yesterday and I...
    sammysadness sammysadness 36-40, M Sep 1

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    I am a shy person so it took a lot of courage in order to do this. I asked out a guy for the first time ever and I hardly even talk to guys in the first place for a couple reasons...
    AriosaRuby AriosaRuby 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 9

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    This happened when i was in 9th grade. I liked this guy and honestly i thought he liked me back! So i gathered up the courage to actually tell him that, and i did, via text. (I...
    Awesomegirl67 Awesomegirl67 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    I suppose it isn't so much rejected as overstaying my usefulness. As people exit I hear that I am a great person, a great friend and help people realize they have value. Sadly...
    GleefulLaughs GleefulLaughs 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    well, i dunno if you're gonna read this, but i figured i'd still adress you. and you know youre you being adressed because ive never REALLY dated anyone else. so. i wanted to put...
    peaceinmiles peaceinmiles 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 27

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    We had dated for over 2 years and had one of those relationships that just was natural and easy both sexually and romantically. Always were surprising each other with different...
    Anon1134 Anon1134 22-25 1 Response Sep 14

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    i think the new age is such a sad and painful age. this is a time of great change but this change isn't for the better. i wish people would wake up and see that what they are...
    LunarDream LunarDream 13-15, M Sep 4

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    I have intense headaches all day at least 5 out of the 7 days of the week, and have had them for years. But what has really helped me manage them is taking one protein bar & or...
    C5PiE C5PiE 13-15, F Sep 4

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    This isnt the first one, but its the most recent. We had been dating almost six months. She developed feelings for me three years ago but didnt think she stood a chance with me...
    thetalkingmushroom thetalkingmushroom 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 11

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    I ******* remember my 1st painful breakup. actually we don't have a proper breakup. we're a childhood friends. we grew up together until I'm 17 and his 19?? I guess? I don't...
    RegineAbiertasPalencia RegineAbiertasPalencia 18-21, F Aug 24

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    How could anyone not remember their first painful breakup? Mine was in 8th grade with my first boyfriend. We lasted for around 5 months. Since it was my first ever relationship, I...
    KenKitty KenKitty 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I remember my first painful brake up, I was dating a guy for a few years and he said that I'd gotten too old for him and he found another guy. We met when I was 9 and by 16 my...
    2gnillort 2gnillort 70+, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    Is my surgeon jumping the gun by suggesting I see a pain management specialist after having 2 shoulder surgeries one month apart? I had a 1st one early June but 3.5 weeks later I...
    yodasl yodasl 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    I remember my first painful breakup. She was younger than I, almost 16. She could do things that the other women of the night twice her age would be jealous of. Well long story...
    2gnillort 2gnillort 70+, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    My boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago after a 2 year relationship. We were 16 when we got together and he was my first love and my best friend. Now I feel so hurt, scared and...
    livvyy321 livvyy321 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    I Remember... It Was The Most Painful 3 Months Of My Life. He Broke Up With Me For My Best Friend. They Were The Most Important People In My Life At The Time And They Killed Me...
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    My first painful break-up was sloppy. No clean-cut "it's over", just a year of being strung along and being the boy on the side. Friends tried to tell me that she wasn't worth it...
    Onelist140 Onelist140 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    I remember my first painful breakup... I was dating a guy for 2 years.. I'm my mind it was all going so well.. One day he asked me to meet him somewhere.. Little did I no it was to...
    XoxJazzyxox XoxJazzyxox 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I had a painful breakup about a year ago and now I am so over it by now. I just found out my ex broke up with his fourth girlfriend.I was in love with a crazy man.We had a very...
    chocomochalate chocomochalate 26-30, F Sep 4

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    My first painful breakup was so traumatizing it happened when I was 16... I'm 20 years old & it still bothers me today. Or maybe I'm just weak lol... I lost it to my boyfriend...
    stylerashtin stylerashtin 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I remember the way that you cane into my life. I was a lost man with with nothing to live for. One day you showed up,on the street I live on. You told me to stand,and grabbed me by...
    keyshawn15 keyshawn15 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    How every other post on here is about sex.... doesnt it get old after awhile? Sex is just sex... you tickle here... touch there.... and little scratch over that way, and shake in...
    veeshybi veeshybi 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I will usually reply, unless its something seriously stupid. But if you say hey and want a chat or you ask me about something I will reply, this is all about meeting like minded...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M Aug 23

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    That in general. People accuse and blame others for the problems in their own life. I guess its easier to play the blame game, rather than take credit for the troubles you created...
    HeyIThappens HeyIThappens 18-21 Aug 28

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    Yep, back from my trip, fired up, time to do some changing. Might need a nap first. But its gonna happen!
    RLB2 RLB2 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 29

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    I am to old to be feeling like this starting over and over again. I am single father raising a daughter and its hard.
    Extremelylonelyone Extremelylonelyone 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    i dont want to change and you cant force me! i am who i am.i cant change myself bcz you dont love it! got it??????or i should repeat it again????? whispering this song : i dont...
    00roshana00 00roshana00 18-21, F Sep 2

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    After hearing about this new terrorist group called ISIS, I've been hearing the song "In the Name of God" by the Swedish heavy metal band Sabaton playing in my head. The song...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    for me after I got through my high school years, it became just sex more often than not...now I just act on lust until it is satisfied...its such a pleasure beyond words to lay...
    elainehughes46 elainehughes46 41-45, F 8 Responses Sep 13

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    Thank you god its home time iv been to work for 15 hours been missing that special someone so much. Cant wait to see her.
    lilmorsie lilmorsie 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    Yayeee..!! πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰Its my bdayyy today..!! Super super excited..πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰ Omg..!! 😱 Im TWENTY now..!!
    Sweany Sweany 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Should I tell you that I went through your phone and saw the text you sent with a half naked photo of yours to your coworker? You disgust me.
    freshh freshh 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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