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I Get Scared When Someone Says Can I Ask You Something

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    It Scares Me.....

    I can't help but be scared when someone says " can I ask you something " mainly because I have no clue what they are going to ask, but I don't want to answer any personal questions.. It scares me that people want to know that stuff.. I don't like to talk about a lot of my...
    purplebutterfly14 purplebutterfly14 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    Not Scared But Nervous.

    I won't say I get scared, its more like my heart skips a beat anticipating the question. And most of the time the question turns out to be lame. lol.
    bluie19 bluie19 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2011

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    Not That Scared

    When somebody say " Can I ask you something?" my heart got pump strongly, and then I hold my breathe till he/she will ask the question. but for truth I love the way I felt like that,  after the conversation a huge sigh came out, and the most exciting there was,  when he...
    MauGuju03 MauGuju03 16-17, F Nov 23, 2010

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    I Really Do

    get scared when someone says can I?So I prefer to stay in shell not knowing what will come shooting at my end.I know its sheer escapism ..I accept but really dont know how to act..I dont want to hurt anyone anymore enough tears I have brought....
    winterfall winterfall 41-45 Nov 24, 2013

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    Nervous...

    Usually I'm quick-witted. But, asking this question throws me off-guard and makes he put my defense back on. It's not the question that scares me, it's the reaction I give that determines what happens.
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Apr 12, 2011

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    My Experience With Those Questions

    Whenever somebody asks me "Can I ask you something?"  or anything like that, I know by experience that whatever it is that they are going to ask me is probably something really private or personal for them to feel it necessary to ask me if they could ask me something. ...
    deadmoon deadmoon 22-25, F 13 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    Not That Scared

    When somebody say " Can I ask you something?" my heart got pump strongly, and then I hold my breathe till he/she will ask the question. but for truth I love the way I felt like that,  after the conversation a huge sigh came out, and the most exciting there was,  when he...
    MauGuju03 MauGuju03 16-17, F Nov 23, 2010

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    has never happened to me before but I wish it WOULD happen to me
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    So many people on here have said I am!!! I'm still in shock because I don't think I am :0
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    You claim you know me but how and what?? You know me because I have made you know me ..As because I have always felt you are someone very close,my own with whom I can share...
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    It is that feeling where you want nothing more than to be with her, you want to grab her by the waist pull her close, kiss her deep, and never let go. You want to let your passion...
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    If you're attractive and you talk to me first, chances are, I'm very confused.
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    So basically, i already have a bf, long story short i kinda like his friend more than him. But i cant find the courage to break up with him, my friends keeps saying im lucky to...
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    Non-most of the time on important things but sometimes I'll get a little entertained when someone's lying just their imagination
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    I'm just looking for someone I can talk to.
    shoer shoer 46-50, M 3 Responses Feb 3

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    totally agree with you. my wife does this often. her reason was that her phone was old and could not hear the ringtone when someone texts. so I got her a new larger phone. she...
    Raghunath76 Raghunath76 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 2

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    I want someone who is reliable, trustworthy, and can be depended on. Not someone who cant even text back?! WHOS WITH ME
    coolusername19 coolusername19 18-21, F 11 Responses Feb 2

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    I want someone i can trust all, my freinds and family trust me but i can't trust anyone of them to keep the smallest thing
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    I cant fix you. I cant fix me. I cant turn back time and change what broke us. I also cant let my guard down to give my emotion to you. Im fragile too. I never meant to be...
    oddnelly oddnelly 31-35, F Feb 1

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