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I Get Scared When Someone Says Can I Ask You Something

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    Not Scared But Nervous.

    I won't say I get scared, its more like my heart skips a beat anticipating the question. And most of the time the question turns out to be lame. lol.
    bluie19 bluie19 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2011

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    Not That Scared

    When somebody say " Can I ask you something?" my heart got pump strongly, and then I hold my breathe till he/she will ask the question. but for truth I love the way I felt like that,  after the conversation a huge sigh came out, and the most exciting there was,  when he...
    MauGuju03 MauGuju03 16-17, F Nov 23, 2010

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    It Scares Me.....

    I can't help but be scared when someone says " can I ask you something " mainly because I have no clue what they are going to ask, but I don't want to answer any personal questions.. It scares me that people want to know that stuff.. I don't like to talk about a lot of my...
    purplebutterfly14 purplebutterfly14 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    Not That Scared

    When somebody say " Can I ask you something?" my heart got pump strongly, and then I hold my breathe till he/she will ask the question. but for truth I love the way I felt like that,  after the conversation a huge sigh came out, and the most exciting there was,  when he...
    MauGuju03 MauGuju03 16-17, F Nov 23, 2010

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    Nervous...

    Usually I'm quick-witted. But, asking this question throws me off-guard and makes he put my defense back on. It's not the question that scares me, it's the reaction I give that determines what happens.
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Apr 12, 2011

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    I Really Do

    get scared when someone says can I?So I prefer to stay in shell not knowing what will come shooting at my end.I know its sheer escapism ..I accept but really dont know how to act..I dont want to hurt anyone anymore enough tears I have brought....
    winterfall winterfall 36-40 Nov 24, 2013

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    My Experience With Those Questions

    Whenever somebody asks me "Can I ask you something?"  or anything like that, I know by experience that whatever it is that they are going to ask me is probably something really private or personal for them to feel it necessary to ask me if they could ask me something. ...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F 13 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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