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I Get Tired After Socialising

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    But Still Love It - I tend to be very energetic, and very carefully pay attention to people when I am socialising.  I tend to go off in tangents and bring as many...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 4, 2008

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    Socialising - Yeah it can be very draining, and it can bring some good rest afterward.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M Mar 4, 2010

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    Many people don't get that I'm an introvert. After socializing for a while I need time to recover. But it's hard to explain to my extrovert parents. Any advice?
    EmoGirl1237 EmoGirl1237 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    Oooh *yawn* - It can be so exhausting. Smiling trying to make small talk, always feeling like you are soley responsible to prevent or fill the awkward silences. I think the hardest...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 6 Responses Sep 27, 2008

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    Wipeout - People tend to wipe me out especially in say a party situation and I'm forced to go beyond my normal social limits. This is often why you find me disappearing either to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 6, 2009

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    I Always Happens - I don't think you could class me as introverted or extroverted I'm somewhere in the middle but what I do find is I always get tired when I've been socialising...
    peacefulstorm peacefulstorm 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    However It's Different For Me Online.... - This type of socializing I love!   It doesn't drain me like social events do.  There are different expectations and requirements at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 27, 2012

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    Like Right Now - I went with my fiance to his sister's wedding on saturday. And it near killed me with tiredness, and I'm still tired from it. And my brain is mush. There were 78...
    sugarburn sugarburn 22-25, F 13 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    It's Just That - I think well of myself. I'm not going to belittle myself. In conversations where people talk about how x person is a (*(&^)*&YDHF i really get uncomfortable... I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 29, 2011

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    Blehh - it takes sooo much effort to force smalltalk and to be sociable with people that you really could care less about or just dont feel like talking to. like i hate going to...
    asdfok asdfok 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 25, 2008

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    Why I Hate Socializing - Socializing is effing exhausting for me... To put on a happy face and be empathetic and understanding and actively listen to people's needs and concerns...
    brokenheaart brokenheaart 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 27, 2011

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    . - Socializing is like being bedridden for years and then trying to jog a mile... right now, I can barely even walk. And when I do, I look something like a frail baby deer taking...
    effervescence effervescence 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 3, 2009

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    Being Around People - i get nerves   when i am around    people   i dont   know  i relly do hate to socialising
    dogbeith dogbeith 31-35 4 Responses Sep 28, 2008

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    The Burden Of Socializing - Yeah, I am tired of socializing too. The fact of the matter is, the older I get, the less tolerance I have for other people's hurtful hidden agendas...
    sediqua22 sediqua22 36-40 3 Responses Jul 13, 2010

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    Introvert Here. - I'm a true introvert. I get out and socialize but if I'm around other people (besides my small group of friends or my husband) I'm left exhausted. Small talk...
    soulfool soulfool 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    I Love (most) People, Don't Get Me Wrong - I find socializing very taxing. I'm not really all that introverted most of the time, because I do talk a lot (sometimes), so I don't...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 12, 2010

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    Talking Makes Me Tired - I could never understand why I feel so tired after socializing, until I started researching it online & discovered it happens to many other people as well...
    newsoulawakening2 newsoulawakening2 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2013

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    Exhausted - I sometimes hang with a buddy all day long. Depending on who it is, I sometimes feel drained, even if they are really chill. I just call them energy vampires. LOL
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F May 7, 2011

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    Socializing Burns More Calories Than Working Out - I get extremely exhausted after socializing. In fact, I have noticed that if I'm forced to socialize for days at a time, I can...
    lmori lmori 36-40 1 Response Mar 5, 2011

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    It Is Best to Avoid It. - I'm one of those people that avoid social situations as much as possible. Although I do get bouts of "I want to see people" most of the time, I...
    Sparowe Sparowe 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 6, 2009

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    It's Very Draining. - Never mind actually having to talk to people face-to-face, monkeys & associates forbid. Even just talking to people on here exhausts me. (I believe...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo 31-35, M 7 Responses Jan 21, 2008

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    Sensitivity - I always need alone time after socializing, that´s what I need to recharge. I get my energy from rest and quiet, not from being out and about. it´s just who I am...
    feelingwhole feelingwhole 26-30, F Apr 30, 2011

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