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I Get Too Attached to People

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    Sadly,I do..

    the problemo starts when I know whoever I'm attached to isn't attached to me as much as I am,and I feel like one day that person will go out in this world and leave me behind and take a part of me without realizing it. thinking about this gets me emotional and I sometimes have...
    KeepsingingAOM KeepsingingAOM 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    The District Police Guy I Once Knew

    I remember..everyday as I go to work..A happy and teasing voice will always greet me.. " Grace..kape" means coffee....It's our senior district police greeting me his early joke to me...He knows i love coffee..I remembered him as a jolly..slow speaking calm person...He saw my...
    mgey mgey 26-30, F Sep 17, 2012

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    Whenever i get attached to a person they always

    end up leaving me. What's wrong with me?
    Lonelychild28 Lonelychild28 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    Saying Goodbye

    is so difficult for me. After I graduated from high school I literally cried for days once I realized I will never see any of my friends again (even though they all have Facebook and Skype). This is weird because I move around a lot. My parents used to move so much I had a new...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F Nov 24, 2012

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    Do i get too attached

    or people just detach to easily?
    RandomExistence RandomExistence 13-15, M Mar 25

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    She just left.. We've been off

    and on for about a year, and she told me she wants to loose her virginity to me.. For the past week she's been telling me how much she loves me, and now she tells me we can't love each other.. Please help.. I've begged her to stay but she just says she doesn't know how to feel...
    ItsMaison ItsMaison 13-15, M 1 Response May 23

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    I Remember Everyone I Have Ever Met.

    It's not really a story... I just remember everybody I have ever met and I think about them and how they are doing... if they go from my life I still wonder about them... and I feel sad that they are not there anymore. I met someone not too long ago and he became my best friend...
    treehuggermom treehuggermom 46-50, F Feb 3, 2012

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    Am I Dreaming?

    There is a woman on here, I won't tell you who she is, but some of you know.  Months ago she came on like gang busters to me, telling me about how she wanted to have sex with me, things like that.  I live in the US, she lives overseas.  She said she wanted to...
    IanMatthew IanMatthew 56-60, M 39 Responses May 11, 2010

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    Looking for Love (and Sex)

    Some of the women on here, I believe, have a different view of me and what I want.  Yes, I am looking for sex, because I've been deprived of it for two years by a wife who doesn't seem to care anymore.  No, that's not all I'm looking for.  The horny side of me is...
    IanMatthew IanMatthew 56-60, M 51 Responses Apr 25, 2010

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    Empty Void

    Well yes I have felt this, over and over, I am so used to it now, I am not even sure I tend to care about the issue too much. It made me depressed and angry so why actually bother about it? I cared for, and still do about people there are some that have much more powerful impact...
    LJStevens LJStevens 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2013

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    What goes up must come down!

    Is the high, the happiness worth the fall afterwards. On the way up I always think so but on the way down definitely not. Need to practice more caution :(
    Littlemissshy7 Littlemissshy7 41-45, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Is It Attachment

    I'm sort of secluded. But I believe that is the exact reason why I cling to the creative , or intellectual people I meet. Though I'm a musician I'd prefer not to be in the spotlight..but i enjoy the company of genuine and passionate people. I just feel like I like positive people...
    jaix50 jaix50 26-30, M Sep 13, 2013

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    He Is Like My Own Drug..

    Everyday i walk into school and see him smiling at me like i am his everything but sadly i am nothing but a friend to him. Everyone always asks me why we arent together or anything but i always tell them the same thing "we are JUST friends". which that is a total lie because we...
    VballGirl24 VballGirl24 18-21, F Nov 28, 2012

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    Sigh...

    I don't know why, but I just do.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Feb 2, 2012

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    I Need Somebody To Talk Too

    i get too attached and clingy to people and i hate it. if i could change myself i would. i dont want to seek professional help because all i need is somebody to talk to. guy or girl.
    CheekyMonkey92 CheekyMonkey92 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 22, 2012

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    With My Thanks And Appreciation !!!!!!!!!!!

    TO ALL MY EP FRIENDS!!!!! I WOULD JUST LIKE TO TAKE A MOMENT AND THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR THOUGHTS WISHES AND SUPPORT WHILE I WAS IN THE HOSPITAL AFTER SUFFERING FROM A CAR ACCIDENT THAT BROKE FOUR OF MY RIBS AND GAVE ME A PRETTY BAD CONCUSSION FOR SEVERAL DAYS , WHETHER YOU...
    vman1370 vman1370 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 2, 2011

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    I Can Get Too Attached

    It's not often that I meet someone of the opposite sex who is amazing to me on every possible level. And when that happens (and lately, there were two guys, both married), it makes me sad. I mean, I get attached in my mind, feeling sad, like I won't ever meet anyone like them...
    SensualGirl SensualGirl 36-40, F Oct 30, 2010

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    I Am Exhausted.

    I absolutely hate when someone talks to you, makes you care, and then leaves. That hurts What hurts more, or maybe just adds to the hurt, is when they find someone who is pretty much your ****** twin, and replaces you. That burns your heart. Then you find out, that she is way...
    Callie17Dirge Callie17Dirge 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 5, 2013

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    This Is A Weird One..

    I've always got attached to exes and things like that, i think most people do when spending a lot of time with them, but recently I've started working at a dementia nursing home and at first i was ridiculously shy but now i find it so easy to talk to everyone in there, the...
    makegoodchoices makegoodchoices 18-21, F Jul 9, 2012

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    Yea I Get Atacht

    and i get hert becz of it...................
    beeeriy beeeriy 18-21, M 4 Responses May 11, 2010

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    I Have Problems With Letting Go

    I get to attached to people easily. If I have a good friend and that friend changes I won't let them go cause I feel like I can't I feel like my hearth breaks and it makes me cry. Same with boys I met this really nice and hot boy on vacation where my dad's conference took place...
    Blueberrybliss Blueberrybliss 18-21, F Aug 19, 2013

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    I Can't Help It

    I'm not trying to change the world, just the little spot of it that I am borrowing until I die of natural causes with a smile on my face and peace in my heart.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 7, 2011

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    I either push the people I care most about away

    or I get too attached to people who don't care about me
    lizshiv lizshiv 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    Creeper Attachment

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and I feel like I never get tired of him but he gets tired of me.  And it's hard to be away from him. but I don't know if he gets tired of me and whenever I ask him to hang out he always says yes.  But I really want him...
    acuteobtuseisosceles acuteobtuseisosceles 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    Love Hurts.

    (BUT DANCING LIKE AN IDIOT HELPS). i’ll be honest with you. i’ve only had my heart broken properly a couple of times. whether that’s to do with simply stepping off the love roundabout minutes before it screeched to a sickening halt, or choosing spilt-milk men who are...
    blehtolife blehtolife 22-25, F Mar 25, 2012

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    ......but

    am learning to say goodbye........ and turns and walks away before there is any drama. hats off......salute... and my job is done. The game is over, I'm out of quarters. 
    MeltedFlowers MeltedFlowers 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    Then It Hurts When They Leave

    I always get sooooo soooo excited when I talk to someone new for like a few days and I always then look forward to talking to them. And then when they stop talking to me or we get into a huge fight, I get seriously hurt and always feel that there HAS to be something wrong with me...
    stripesANDsunshine stripesANDsunshine 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 22, 2008

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    The Teachers Who Touched My Life

    I have many favorite teachers to say thank you to..My 1st grade teacher Mrs. Crystal..for seeing my potential..nurturing it..and giving me love that i lack coz my mama is always working... then my Music teacher in 4th grade who is too strict but is a very good lecturer..until now...
    mgey mgey 26-30, F Sep 16, 2012

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    I Get WAY To Attached

    It's really hard for me. At times I can be completely attached to someone. And they say how much they like me, and even love me as their friend. They bring me into their family circle and I think "Wow. I feel so whole inside." But suddenly, as if the whole world crashes down...
    RivoltaSilenziosa RivoltaSilenziosa 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    The Feeling She Gives Me

    She found me as a broken man and helped to fix me up. She made me think I wasn't worthless and that I mattered. She gave me a warm feeling inside my newly mended heart that I had forgotten I could feel. That feeling makes me want to return the favor and more. I want to know...
    SCUDFACE SCUDFACE 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 27, 2013

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    Being Lefted

    i get to attached and it is hard for me to get attached to people because i always have the feeling in the back of my head saying don't get attached and just when i get use to them being around they leave and i hate getting attached because i always get hurt i always get...
    kaylatheanimegirl3 kaylatheanimegirl3 18-21, F Jul 7, 2012

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    I'm feeling so hurt at the moment.

    My boyfriend of 6yrs has told me he's confused about how he feels about me at the moment. I love him he is my world how could he do this?
    natlewis1980 natlewis1980 31-35, F Feb 11

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    "Attachment leads to jealousy.

    The shadow of greed, that is." - Master Yoda
    NuclearELDER NuclearELDER 41-45, M 3 Responses Jun 27

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    I get too attached to the wrong people.

    I think I have attachment and abandonment issues from childhood. So when somebody really cares about me, I feel stifled. But if they throw me a few crumbs and then ignore me, I'm madly in love. FML.
    PopcornForDinner PopcornForDinner 46-50, F Jun 27

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