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I Get Too Attached

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    Pretty Much Any Relationship

    friends or loversI put my heart into it and give my relationships everything I got. I want to be a good person. Its hard to comprehend that people are not the same way.I get used and it hurts terribly.Its pretty much a re-occurrence throughout my life.Constantly getting hurt and...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F Dec 1, 2011

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    I Give Up

    I wasn't even looking for anything from you other than friendship. Its slowly crept in. Now I can't stop thinking about you. Your texts saying that you miss me slowly dried up after I told you how much I like you. I hate this I don't know how to handle this crap anymore.. Am I...
    stoliddolt stoliddolt 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    Hate This Part of Me

    I do.   Take this for instance, just 3 weeks aho, started "hanging out" with someone new, I guess now it's turned into a friends with benifits type thing. I'v never actually done this before, usually turns into something more fairly fast, or I just get bored and...
    jfgoodtimes jfgoodtimes 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    T.

    i'm attached and all it's doing is hurting me. i can see this. my friends and family are constantly reminding me. he says he loves me, but all he seems to do is make me cry. that's not love. but i feel like i need him in my life. oh what's a girl to do?
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2010

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    I'm Too Needy

    I just joined this site... pretty cool. Gotta love this anonymous business. So my story is simple really: I start dating someone and I get waaay too attached. I don't know if that is "normal"...I know it's not uncommon, especially with us women, but whether it's healthy...
    Acignome Acignome 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2008

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    Heart Easily Entrapped

    I dont understand why I am the way I am I am a young bisexual woman, thiough my stronger attraction is more towards fellow women. I get easily attached to people, i take their love gestures very seriously and often it only takes me a kiss or a wink from another person for me to...
    karijapua karijapua 26-30, F Nov 10, 2012

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    I Still Love U

     i still am like in love with a guy that did everything possible to let me know he doesn't like me. I just keep holding like one day he will love me back and everything will be okay.  here is what he did: he went out with my bestfriend after i told him i liked...
    rainbowclouds rainbowclouds 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    It only happens with guys

    and not in any way a romantic way. After I get used to people and we get along so well or I can tell that they are being really genuine, I start to get attached. I start to like to see them regularly, weirdly and when I don't see them or don't talk to them for days or I sense a...
    FutureVet2014 FutureVet2014 18-21, F Jun 27, 2015

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    I Can Never Think Of A Title That Will Do Me Justice. Just Read.

    I was in a relationship for 5 months. around the three month mark we started not seeing each other as much. the rumours started. I got really worried. people said he was avoiding me. I still loved him. i held out for another month but I thought of him every night, i thought about...
    imperfectionz imperfectionz 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2010

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    Call me super glue because holy **** do I get attached!
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Each scar that has healed over my torn flesh is mine. No one else’s. Many by my own hand. Most hidden beneath the skin. But why do so many insignificant of happening bother me to...
    SeekingMyUnkown SeekingMyUnkown 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    Suffocating head locked down, feel you crenching my throat Was knocked by the blood clot to my brain I tried to make peace but it seems nothings better without you Hopeless...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee 70+, F 3 days ago

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    Screwing me good, that’s what I sought to have you do Use to be us now you're gone I'm here working hard to improve So far away I'm here doing good without you Working hard...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee 70+, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    This is really funny! I took the quiz and it says I'm supposed to smell like a peach, plus all this other stuff below. You are sensual and flirtatious. You always make sure to...
    MaddietheGoalie MaddietheGoalie 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Reason, Season, or Lifetime People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person. When...
    Q2013 Q2013 46-50, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I want time to stop, I want us to stay, let's forget about the past, let's live the present, and make a future, if we give up, if we let this die, we won't, I know I'm not perfect...
    LoneWarrior94 LoneWarrior94 18-21, M a week ago

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    I have been used that many times by men always either being with me cause they know they can put me down walk all over me never been cause they like me same with friends used me...
    deadbyaprilpromiseme deadbyaprilpromiseme 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    Ugh especially at school when the lunch room area or a class room gets too loud. All those voices talking at once. It gets too loud that I get annoyed and I feel like yelling at...
    EnigmaticPerson EnigmaticPerson 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    I'm that gum stuck to your shoe. I'm that tattoo you regret. I'm the soft breathing at the back of your neck. I'm that scar that never goes away. I'm the embarrassing memory that...
    sophiebelle27 sophiebelle27 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 26

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    I think it's too late to be scared. Im in too deep. It happened so quickly. I didn't even put up a fight. I surrendered to him so eagerly. I still haven't figured out why it was...
    WickedlyHis WickedlyHis 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    I latch on to those who understand me sort of and make me feel comfortable. Then when they leave me, I get a horrible feeling and live with an emptiness in me for a while until...
    crimsoncube crimsoncube 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    i write and pour out on these pages. far too much of myself. mostly because i dont care anymore. i have a lot to sort out in life so writing here sort of helps. i doubt i...
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 25

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    And I get sad when I learn they are gone or are going away on trips *sighs*
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 25

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    That's the story of my life. Just when i feel i am getting attached to someone. There they go far, far away. I keep searching for them, until i get tired of the tears and the pains...
    uniqueguy91 uniqueguy91 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 24

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    Do you ever read people's stories and never talk to them, but feel a connection? Just go, yep, I know how you feel. I'm, most of the time, too shy to talk to people anywhere but...
    justonelk justonelk 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    I think people should stop making others get attached to them if it's only to leave them after, and make them so sad...
    Saya024 Saya024 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    Its so easy for me to get emotionally attached to someone and it could even be someone who doesn't feel the same for me. The sad thing about getting attached too easy is that in...
    bluesky1223 bluesky1223 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 22

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    I'm too young to feel this old. >)):( the amount of worries I have for my age is astounding.
    hellokitty206 hellokitty206 22-25 1 Response Jan 22

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    ive been slacking a lot, lacking in some stuff too. i want too ask for help but im to pride full to do so
    callmeally callmeally 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    At the moment I feel painfully traumatised and I feel deeply hated and it is hurting me so much ... I hate my mother and I won't allow her to abuse me anymore ..she never liked me...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    At the moment I feel painfully traumatised and I feel deeply hated and it is hurting me so much ... I hate my mother and I won't allow her to abuse me anymore ..she never liked me...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    By intense meaning deep... into serious talk (not all the time of course), and really into getting to know people who want to either be in my circle or maintain a conversation with...
    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 21

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    Who remembers this? (Pic attached) I haven't even seen this in years!!! But I was shopping Sunday and I saw it. My kids saw me taking a pic of it and said "mommy what is that?" I...
    Triztemuneca87 Triztemuneca87 26-30, F 12 Responses Jan 20

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    When I get TOO attached, I become this crazy little *****. UGH. Maybe because I get too attached to dickheads.
    22Nm 22Nm 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 20

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    i was very slim at 130 but now i weight 175, the last year i started to eat too much junk food at college but i didnt notice my gain until a close friend told that my belly was...
    Fattyboy1990 Fattyboy1990 22-25, M Jan 20

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    This is the problem with getting attached to someone. When they leave, you just feel lost. I guess my biggest weakness is getting attached to people easily.:(
    ImAlivingParadox ImAlivingParadox 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 20

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