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I Get Too Attached

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    I Still Love U

     i still am like in love with a guy that did everything possible to let me know he doesn't like me. I just keep holding like one day he will love me back and everything will be okay.  here is what he did: he went out with my bestfriend after i told him i liked...
    rainbowclouds rainbowclouds 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    T.

    i'm attached and all it's doing is hurting me. i can see this. my friends and family are constantly reminding me. he says he loves me, but all he seems to do is make me cry. that's not love. but i feel like i need him in my life. oh what's a girl to do?
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2010

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    Heart Easily Entrapped

    I dont understand why I am the way I am I am a young bisexual woman, thiough my stronger attraction is more towards fellow women. I get easily attached to people, i take their love gestures very seriously and often it only takes me a kiss or a wink from another person for me to...
    karijapua karijapua 26-30, F Nov 10, 2012

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    I'm Too Needy

    I just joined this site... pretty cool. Gotta love this anonymous business. So my story is simple really: I start dating someone and I get waaay too attached. I don't know if that is "normal"...I know it's not uncommon, especially with us women, but whether it's healthy...
    Acignome Acignome 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2008

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    I Give Up

    I wasn't even looking for anything from you other than friendship. Its slowly crept in. Now I can't stop thinking about you. Your texts saying that you miss me slowly dried up after I told you how much I like you. I hate this I don't know how to handle this crap anymore.. Am I...
    stoliddolt stoliddolt 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    Hate This Part of Me

    I do.   Take this for instance, just 3 weeks aho, started "hanging out" with someone new, I guess now it's turned into a friends with benifits type thing. I'v never actually done this before, usually turns into something more fairly fast, or I just get bored and...
    jfgoodtimes jfgoodtimes 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    I Can Never Think Of A Title That Will Do Me Justice. Just Read.

    I was in a relationship for 5 months. around the three month mark we started not seeing each other as much. the rumours started. I got really worried. people said he was avoiding me. I still loved him. i held out for another month but I thought of him every night, i thought about...
    imperfectionz imperfectionz 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2010

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    It only happens with guys

    and not in any way a romantic way. After I get used to people and we get along so well or I can tell that they are being really genuine, I start to get attached. I start to like to see them regularly, weirdly and when I don't see them or don't talk to them for days or I sense a...
    FutureVet2014 FutureVet2014 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Pretty Much Any Relationship

    friends or loversI put my heart into it and give my relationships everything I got. I want to be a good person. Its hard to comprehend that people are not the same way.I get used and it hurts terribly.Its pretty much a re-occurrence throughout my life.Constantly getting hurt and...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F Dec 1, 2011

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    It's so weird how the actions of people before you ripple outwards and impact your life. I can't stand the thought of just "trusting" someone. People have never given me a reason...
    ThatSenpaiWithTheHat ThatSenpaiWithTheHat 18-21, M 5 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    So the other day I was contacted by my ex-husband's now ex-girlfriend who is now 22. She was in dire necessity and need to speak to me about him and some of the things that just...
    Bssanglergrl1 Bssanglergrl1 36-40 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I think I'm broken. I have been broken. There have been too many things in my life that have left too deep an impact. I have trouble being happy. I know what could make me happy...
    aquiver aquiver 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I knew i was getting a little heavy. I knew I had gotten pretty chunky bit I didn't care. My belly started to bulge and hang a little. My pecs got a little soft and bulbous. My...
    Feedeebyaccident8 Feedeebyaccident8 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I do everything too much. I drink too much, I smoke too much, I have too much sex, I do too many drugs. But it's still fun.
    CigaretteEater CigaretteEater 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Too many people have departed from my life, if I meet new people, I know I'll never get to know them or they'll rarely try with me. And of course, if I dare share my life with...
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    i feel too deeply for people, i feel i push people away or make them feel awkward. i just think think think and its always negative. i think i scare people away that i care for. i...
    ForgetableMe ForgetableMe 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    Last night I decided to reorganise my "bucket list" into a "pre baby list". To be honest- I was far too complacent to get my a*se in gear to get anywhere with the bucket list...
    GalateaSpheres GalateaSpheres 36-40, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    Oh **** that. So what if I get attached? what if he leaves me? what if I get heartbroken? Am I really going to live the rest of my life fearing the consequences ? If that's the...
    psychicfrost psychicfrost 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So, it's two and a half hours after I took the second pills, when I was reading, I learned most people take four pills, I was only given three. I expect the reason behind this was...
    RedcatFringeAvenger RedcatFringeAvenger 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Anyone else has this please? I click "me too", but nothing happens. Some "me too" buttons" even show upside down. Is it the computer or a temporary problem? I might try again...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    i just don't get it. I don't understand why i get attached so quickly to people i like. I just met that guy a week ago and as usual i got attached and he is going back to Brazil...
    laurenkt laurenkt 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I am scared to get attached... because once they leave, I'll end up crying again and I'm already tired of shedding my tears. But as the idiot that I am, I would still take them...
    LavenderHart009 LavenderHart009 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Although I would just love to find that special someone to share my life with a past committed relationship went so horribly wrong that I am definitely afraid to be "attached...
    maddie32 maddie32 31-35, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    its just too much so alone no one to talk too no to love me care for me all alone scared feeling loser i don't want to live i want help but who will oh god are you even there...
    evilkilllingme evilkilllingme 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Yes it's true, I drank too much! WATER! I beat the heat with a constant drink in my hand. The weekend was great! All people and animals made it through the terrible heat safely...
    HotMessExpress101 HotMessExpress101 31-35, F 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    It was an unusually busy day for the hospital staff on the sixth floor. Ten new patients were admitted and Nurse Susan spent the morning and afternoon checking them in. Her friend...
    aliveisawesome aliveisawesome 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I'm a bit complicated when it comes to this topic. I hate getting attached to anyone because so many relationships I had in the past always ended horribly. I was attached to some...
    Ominousity Ominousity 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have a hard time of finding a middle ground. Either i care too much or not enough.. I can't stop thinking about things that most of the time i shouldn't even be worried about.. I...
    EternityF EternityF 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I always say, I don't talk to fast, you listen too damn slow. I talk fast already, so when I get excited it does not help. I do Tech Support for a living and when I am stumped...
    ThatGirlIsPoison23 ThatGirlIsPoison23 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I tried I failed There is no safety in living my truth Only regret The explosion of my heart and mind The joy The sorrow The fascination The anger The love It is too much to...
    jacquelinejones jacquelinejones 46-50 2 Responses Jun 26

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    God, I’m so tired... 12:26 am. The sound of my own breathing is annoying me and I can’t sleep. Every little twitch and itch feels like a spider taking a stroll cross my arm...
    drfate drfate 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 26

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    seriously. that'll be 26, too young to be, but too old to be.lol
    vf702 vf702 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 25

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    I have very few female friends in my life, all of them are online (like all 3 of them lol) because I have trouble talking to girls, i either come off as really awkward or really...
    TheReverseFlash TheReverseFlash 16-17, M 3 Responses Jun 25

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    I am that guy you were too shy to talk to. Yes, I know I'm awesome (at least now I do but didn't always). No I don't accept shortchange. No, I don't just assume that you would be...
    Mossonarock Mossonarock 41-45, M 3 Responses Jun 24

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    Hello everyone! There is this guy that I like, he is already 34 and im 22. I really like him and he knows it but I guess he thinks Im too young and immature for him thats why he is...
    chrisdee26 chrisdee26 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 24

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    I used to think that I took a wrong turn with life somewhere along the lines. That was because I couldn't be bothered to ask for some directions or some help. Yeah I know before...
    Jericho7 Jericho7 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    It was my 25th birthday. I wanted to get away and do something different, go some where scenic, connect with nature, pay homage to the blessing of life that the universe has...
    inthyvibe inthyvibe 22-25, F Jun 23

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    I've posted this before, a long time ago. I've struggled with a certain aspect of my personality a lot this year. It's going to be challenged again, to a greater extent, pretty...
    LolaRosa LolaRosa 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    I think it's because I've never gotten that sort of attention in forever and as soon as I get it I have this weird yearning for it and then it becomes addicting and I will get...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F Jun 23

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    Recently I have become emotionally connected to someone whose been helping me overcome my depression but like what happened in school, years ago, I've been become emotionally...
    JamesAlcock JamesAlcock 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 22

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    Sleeping is never something that comes easy to me. Even as a child my mind was too full of unwanted thoughts. This last year has made sleep almost impossible. I have too much to...
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 21