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I Get Too Attached

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    Heart Easily Entrapped

    I dont understand why I am the way I am I am a young bisexual woman, thiough my stronger attraction is more towards fellow women. I get easily attached to people, i take their love gestures very seriously and often it only takes me a kiss or a wink from another person for me to...
    karijapua karijapua 26-30, F Nov 10, 2012

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    Hate This Part of Me

    I do.   Take this for instance, just 3 weeks aho, started "hanging out" with someone new, I guess now it's turned into a friends with benifits type thing. I'v never actually done this before, usually turns into something more fairly fast, or I just get bored and...
    jfgoodtimes jfgoodtimes 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    I Still Love U

     i still am like in love with a guy that did everything possible to let me know he doesn't like me. I just keep holding like one day he will love me back and everything will be okay.  here is what he did: he went out with my bestfriend after i told him i liked...
    rainbowclouds rainbowclouds 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    It only happens with guys

    and not in any way a romantic way. After I get used to people and we get along so well or I can tell that they are being really genuine, I start to get attached. I start to like to see them regularly, weirdly and when I don't see them or don't talk to them for days or I sense a...
    FutureVet2014 FutureVet2014 18-21, F Jun 27

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    I Give Up

    I wasn't even looking for anything from you other than friendship. Its slowly crept in. Now I can't stop thinking about you. Your texts saying that you miss me slowly dried up after I told you how much I like you. I hate this I don't know how to handle this crap anymore.. Am I...
    stoliddolt stoliddolt 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    Pretty Much Any Relationship

    friends or loversI put my heart into it and give my relationships everything I got. I want to be a good person. Its hard to comprehend that people are not the same way.I get used and it hurts terribly.Its pretty much a re-occurrence throughout my life.Constantly getting hurt and...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F Dec 1, 2011

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    I'm Too Needy

    I just joined this site... pretty cool. Gotta love this anonymous business. So my story is simple really: I start dating someone and I get waaay too attached. I don't know if that is "normal"...I know it's not uncommon, especially with us women, but whether it's healthy...
    Acignome Acignome 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2008

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    T.

    i'm attached and all it's doing is hurting me. i can see this. my friends and family are constantly reminding me. he says he loves me, but all he seems to do is make me cry. that's not love. but i feel like i need him in my life. oh what's a girl to do?
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2010

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    I Can Never Think Of A Title That Will Do Me Justice. Just Read.

    I was in a relationship for 5 months. around the three month mark we started not seeing each other as much. the rumours started. I got really worried. people said he was avoiding me. I still loved him. i held out for another month but I thought of him every night, i thought about...
    imperfectionz imperfectionz 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2010

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    This is the problem with getting attached to someone. When they leave, you just feel lost...
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    I try so hard to convince myself I need no one. I try so hard to convince myself no one would need me. Three in the morning came about though, and she laid on her bed sobbing and...
    leimic leimic 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I started asking myself if I was too sensitive yesterday and I got kind of excited about it, since maybe that's the reason why I have so many problems? People have called me too...
    AmIAMaleHSP AmIAMaleHSP 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    and it breaks my heart to be abandoned over and over. to feel like I am not worth it..
    Tstanley86 Tstanley86 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Way too much that sometimes i get confused if something really happened in real life or it's just something that i fantasized or imagined. I guess it's also the reason why i get...
    katnis21 katnis21 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Do you know what it's like to hide your feelings, because you don't want to get that person in trouble? Do you know what it's like to throw your studies aside, just to be by his...
    Fuzzies Fuzzies 61-65, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    A few years ago - when I was 10 years old - I was raped by my stepfather. It was a terrifying experience for me to say the least and because of that I never let anyone get too...
    hannahphillips hannahphillips 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I took a long break but I'm back. I deleted all of my stories and friends before I left. looking back now, I feel like I shouldn't have done that. I was mad at the world and wanted...
    Louder4life Louder4life 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I took my accounting 355 test on chapters 5-7. I barely paid attention to Chapter 8 in class today because I was so focused on remembering. I took a concerta and about a tablespoon...
    Chrossy Chrossy 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Afraid of someone losing interest in you after you've gotten so attached to them. - Human Feelings and Problems
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Some people tell me this. But I do talk to others, even more than people talk to me. Just like one of my friends, she said I am too quiet, but when I am tgt with her, she doesn't...
    Acrylic19 Acrylic19 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    OOHHHH gosh, explaining how I felt when my closest friend left for a mission trip. IT WAS TORTURE. I cried every time I heard his name. Yeah, I can have platonic guy friends...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 20

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    I become attached to anything that has been with me for more than ten minutes.. I can't help it!
    Jthecat Jthecat 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I sick of not getting attached.. or so it seems to everyone else, but really I'm too attached and get hurt every time because I'm scared to say how I really feel. I'm afraid that I...
    deni444 deni444 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm great at making friends but not great at keeping friends. I'm great at dating but I suck at relationships. I feel loved but I don't know how to give it. I lose interest in...
    LanaKane LanaKane 70+, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I hate getting attached because when I do. People always betray me and push me away. So I try not get attached nowadays.
    JamesAlcock JamesAlcock 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I come here a lot since I am disabled and have tons of my own problems. It does a lot of good reading and replying to the posts here. I sometimes just give younger people an off...
    boldtimer boldtimer 66-70, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    Want to be taken home now. And loved by both genders. But no home. And too picky. And possibly sick.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I feel like I care about people too much, and wanting them to stay in my life. I work with amazing people, and although I've only known them for 2 1/2 months, one of them are going...
    Tommokia Tommokia 18-21, F Jul 17

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    I had ONE thing with this guy who I like (as a person but also other ways are growing on me) and it lasted 3 days and now it's very awkward between us and I feel like I can't get...
    badgutfeeling badgutfeeling 18-21, F Jul 16

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    I remember I took lots of pills and no one was in the house and just me everyone was somewhere I don't know and I took the pills and went to the bathroom and locked the door and I...
    winterblood winterblood 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    I'm a bartender....been one since 2007. I get some real characters in here....I hear some real stories. The other night these two guys came in...took a seat at the bar...I gave...
    1chuck2 1chuck2 31-35, M Jul 16

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    That moment when you realize the people you care most about have started to drift away from you and there is nothing you can do to stop it. I know it's a part of life and...
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I feel so lost. It's like when I need my feelings to apply towards myself in terms of when it's really important, I can't. All that happens is I lose my motivation completely. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 13

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    too many people have left for me to try to love you now
    aarinxg aarinxg 18-21, F Jul 13

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    His voice - deep, intense, gentle, and kind. His voice was the soundtrack of my summer. His caresses were the summer breezes while lounging on the grass in Trocadero. His soft...
    EshaVellu EshaVellu 31-35, F Jul 13

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    all days are too short. and this story was too short, so I made it longer as EP requested.
    goliathtree goliathtree 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 13

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    how bad is this for me? Here's a good way to put it: I don't ever want to have a pet...because I'm too scared to face the day when he/she dies...so whether human or animal, I'm too...
    ThatOneN3rd ThatOneN3rd 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    Its difficult to be there for someone who you love and have been in a relationship with and not get attached. I just have to keep my own interests first before I try to save the...
    eda13 eda13 22-25 Jul 12

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    I've been attached before and I ended up getting hurt so I'm not trying to make the same mistake.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 12