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I Get Too Attached

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 149 People

    I'm Too Needy

    I just joined this site... pretty cool. Gotta love this anonymous business. So my story is simple really: I start dating someone and I get waaay too attached. I don't know if that is "normal"...I know it's not uncommon, especially with us women, but whether it's healthy...
    Acignome Acignome 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2008

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    Heart Easily Entrapped

    I dont understand why I am the way I am I am a young bisexual woman, thiough my stronger attraction is more towards fellow women. I get easily attached to people, i take their love gestures very seriously and often it only takes me a kiss or a wink from another person for me to...
    karijapua karijapua 26-30, F Nov 10, 2012

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    Pretty Much Any Relationship

    friends or loversI put my heart into it and give my relationships everything I got. I want to be a good person. Its hard to comprehend that people are not the same way.I get used and it hurts terribly.Its pretty much a re-occurrence throughout my life.Constantly getting hurt and...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F Dec 1, 2011

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    I Can Never Think Of A Title That Will Do Me Justice. Just Read.

    I was in a relationship for 5 months. around the three month mark we started not seeing each other as much. the rumours started. I got really worried. people said he was avoiding me. I still loved him. i held out for another month but I thought of him every night, i thought about...
    imperfectionz imperfectionz 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2010

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    Hate This Part of Me

    I do.   Take this for instance, just 3 weeks aho, started "hanging out" with someone new, I guess now it's turned into a friends with benifits type thing. I'v never actually done this before, usually turns into something more fairly fast, or I just get bored and...
    jfgoodtimes jfgoodtimes 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    T.

    i'm attached and all it's doing is hurting me. i can see this. my friends and family are constantly reminding me. he says he loves me, but all he seems to do is make me cry. that's not love. but i feel like i need him in my life. oh what's a girl to do?
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2010

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    I Give Up

    I wasn't even looking for anything from you other than friendship. Its slowly crept in. Now I can't stop thinking about you. Your texts saying that you miss me slowly dried up after I told you how much I like you. I hate this I don't know how to handle this crap anymore.. Am I...
    stoliddolt stoliddolt 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    I Still Love U

     i still am like in love with a guy that did everything possible to let me know he doesn't like me. I just keep holding like one day he will love me back and everything will be okay.  here is what he did: he went out with my bestfriend after i told him i liked...
    rainbowclouds rainbowclouds 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    LysistratasWeakness2 LysistratasWeakness2 51-55, M 2 Responses May 3

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    I met this guy in a game and we started to become great friends. He was so sweet to me. He'd give me hugs and kisses in the game. But then he told me he was married and have kids...
    Yoyoko Yoyoko 16-17, F 2 Responses May 4

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    i love him so much and he is my ex and my best friend he loves me too but he detach himself by having other girlfriend he confessed that he doesnt want to be in relationship with...
    Granet Granet 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm really terrified of getting attached to people as well as places. I never wanted to buy anything I couldn't just pack in a bag and move. It used to fill me with a lot of...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 4 Responses May 3

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    I've only talked to you a few days ago but to me u are already a good friend.Although our ages differ by many years I felt we communicated comfortably if I dare say a connection...
    late0 late0 18-21, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's probably one of my biggest downfalls. I care about people too much, and they don't care about me enough. I never seem to learn and keep getting attached anyway.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I seriously feel like I can't trust anyone… It's like it's a game, you're standing on the edge and if you fall or in other words let yourself trust someone and get attached to...
    brokenandbi brokenandbi 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 28

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    I just finished reading a book. In under 24 hours may I add. I feel as if whenever I read so quickly, I get way too emotionally attached to the characters and then the book...
    putathoughtonit putathoughtonit 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    I got attached friend got unattached. Now I'm left hanging. This is no way to live. I'm going to have to unattach now and it's the f'n hardest thing up do. So fine call me best...
    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife 26-30, M 1 Response May 2

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    I love u and I'm attached... I don't want to be though... I know nothing good will come out of this attachment I have... and I can't stop it... if this doesn't turn out well my...
    emeraldprincess1003 emeraldprincess1003 22-25, F May 2

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    Im currently getting attached to Loader Bot in Tales from the Borderland, I will forever love Baymax, I cried in The Iron Giant, and I am so overprotective of Clank from Ratchet...
    W1ll0wstream101 W1ll0wstream101 22-25, F 3 Responses May 5

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    Indeed.. (See the photo attached) This world is full of monsters with friendly faces. So many two faces around us. And we often judge people by its cover, but we should know that...
    RedHwaiting RedHwaiting 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 27

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    Who can relate? Check the photo attached!!
    RedHwaiting RedHwaiting 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 29

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    I don't like letting my guard down. I've had way too much let down in my life to let anyone get close to me. If I let you get close, don't make me regret it.
    HarleyQuinn251 HarleyQuinn251 31-35, F 1 Response May 14

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    You are a nonlinear thinker, and you're even surprised by the places your mind takes you. Lol My mind is always on its own adventure.....daydreaming. You love to get lost in a...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Are you one of those people who are concerned about their stained teeth, and want them to be pearly white, just like the sparkling teeth of a baby? Then visiting your dentist for a...
    deepakrajput deepakrajput 22-25, M May 12

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    I'm hurting too much inside. I think I'm going to have a breakdown or depression because of just a small thing. I have no friends to talk to about my issues and in keeping too much...
    loveumybabyliam loveumybabyliam 18-21, F 1 Response May 3

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    Am I too young to be married? I'm almost 20 now and I got married 18. I have a baby 7 months. I feel like my mind is affected emotionally to a lot of things. Maybe is it becos im...
    loveumybabyliam loveumybabyliam 18-21, F May 3

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    When I start to like somebody, I idolise him. I can only awesome things about the person. I cannot find any fault or can too easily ignore it. I fall head over heels but it's over...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 10

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    This vent was inspired by a number of things however recently a dear friend with a blog made a post that hit on the topic somewhat and it was the extra little push I needed to vent...
    AbbyVents AbbyVents 22-25, F 10 Responses 5 days ago

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    I dislike when I think too much. Which is always. I start to think about my life. Of could or should have been and what is good about it now. But it isn't just my voice I hear when...
    jrf9782 jrf9782 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I use to barely sleep. I had severe insomnia. Id sleep 3hrs at most. Lately I sleep too much. Now im sleeping 12 to 13hrs. Its broken up cause Im woken up. But still its too much...
    PhoenixRising83 PhoenixRising83 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Yes we do! We have way too much unrealistic expectations in our relationships. We don't want the man or the woman to cheat but we afraid to experiment in bed. Women don't like...
    FelicitySmoak FelicitySmoak 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 23

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    In the quest for understanding and meaning, sometimes I go too far. Oh, look at that picture, I dont look happy there (but may in the next). Oh, look, my dad has this nasty face...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Apr 25

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    http://www.blogthings.com/whattypeofwritershouldyoubequiz/results/?result=Film I got film, but I prefer writing novels. I am character writer. I also took What your greatest...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 30

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    My dad. Began drinking after law school. Me suspects fear of not good enough. Mom kicked him out. Said come back with a job. He got a mistress. And left mom. When he...
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 1 Response May 4

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    There was a 2 year period where I was living alone, just out of a horrific relationship, where no matter how much I threw myself at my job I still had a lot of time alone there too...
    CrypticK76 CrypticK76 36-40, M 1 Response May 7

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    I'm too young but fill older than my grandmother most times. Afraid to go out and live life, and if I do then I'm afraid to do it alone. Alone, Alone it sucks but Hey whatever
    Bryona Bryona 18-21, F 1 Response May 7

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    I keep gaining weight. My flat stomach has turned into a jiggly protruding belly. All of my shorts from last summer, some of which were too big are way too small! I keep trying to...
    missimo missimo 26-30, F 2 Responses May 8

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    Thinking about things too much leads to doing little. Leads to over thinking. Leads to despair. Thinking too much can make a lighthearted mood go to a low mood. Really there's...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 2 Responses May 12

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    My friend and I were talking last night about when our "Prince" will show up... Today she tells me she thinks he showed up and asked when I think my "Knight in shining Armor" would...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 2 Responses May 12

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    A person once told me that in order to live more you must take the risk of getting hurt. I thought it was right at first but now I disagree. The problem with this is that I've been...
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 18-21, F a week ago

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    I get let down a lot. Very easily too. People get my hopes up. They talk so much **** but... They don't walk the walk. Actions speak louder than words. I live by that. It's like my...
    Halestone Halestone 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Supposed to have this tooth pulled. I've called 3x about when my appointment with the oral surgeon will be and they keep saying they will get back to me. Now the same tooth is...
    Morrgin Morrgin 31-35, F 3 days ago

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