I Get Too Attached

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 144 People

    It only happens with guys

    and not in any way a romantic way. After I get used to people and we get along so well or I can tell that they are being really genuine, I start to get attached. I start to like to see them regularly, weirdly and when I don't see them or don't talk to them for days or I sense a...
    FutureVet2014 FutureVet2014
    18-21, F
    Jun 27, 2015

    I Still Love U

     i still am like in love with a guy that did everything possible to let me know he doesn't like me. I just keep holding like one day he will love me back and everything will be okay.  here is what he did: he went out with my bestfriend after i told him i liked...
    rainbowclouds rainbowclouds
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 31, 2009

    I Can Never Think Of A Title That Will Do Me Justice. Just Read.

    I was in a relationship for 5 months. around the three month mark we started not seeing each other as much. the rumours started. I got really worried. people said he was avoiding me. I still loved him. i held out for another month but I thought of him every night, i thought about...
    imperfectionz imperfectionz
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2010

    T.

    i'm attached and all it's doing is hurting me. i can see this. my friends and family are constantly reminding me. he says he loves me, but all he seems to do is make me cry. that's not love. but i feel like i need him in my life. oh what's a girl to do?
    gypsysoul gypsysoul
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 21, 2010

    Heart Easily Entrapped

    I dont understand why I am the way I am I am a young bisexual woman, thiough my stronger attraction is more towards fellow women. I get easily attached to people, i take their love gestures very seriously and often it only takes me a kiss or a wink from another person for me to...
    karijapua karijapua
    26-30, F
    Nov 10, 2012

    Hate This Part of Me

    I do.   Take this for instance, just 3 weeks aho, started "hanging out" with someone new, I guess now it's turned into a friends with benifits type thing. I'v never actually done this before, usually turns into something more fairly fast, or I just get bored and...
    jfgoodtimes jfgoodtimes
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 31, 2009

    I'm Too Needy

    I just joined this site... pretty cool. Gotta love this anonymous business. So my story is simple really: I start dating someone and I get waaay too attached. I don't know if that is "normal"...I know it's not uncommon, especially with us women, but whether it's healthy...
    Acignome Acignome
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 25, 2008

    I Give Up

    I wasn't even looking for anything from you other than friendship. Its slowly crept in. Now I can't stop thinking about you. Your texts saying that you miss me slowly dried up after I told you how much I like you. I hate this I don't know how to handle this crap anymore.. Am I...
    stoliddolt stoliddolt
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

    Pretty Much Any Relationship

    friends or loversI put my heart into it and give my relationships everything I got.Β I want to be a good person. Its hard to comprehend that people are not the same way.I get used and it hurts terribly.Its pretty much a re-occurrence throughout my life.Constantly getting hurt and...
    sweetsie sweetsie
    26-30, F
    Dec 1, 2011

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