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I Get Too Attached

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    I Can Never Think Of A Title That Will Do Me Justice. Just Read.

    I was in a relationship for 5 months. around the three month mark we started not seeing each other as much. the rumours started. I got really worried. people said he was avoiding me. I still loved him. i held out for another month but I thought of him every night, i thought about...
    imperfectionz imperfectionz 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2010

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    T.

    i'm attached and all it's doing is hurting me. i can see this. my friends and family are constantly reminding me. he says he loves me, but all he seems to do is make me cry. that's not love. but i feel like i need him in my life. oh what's a girl to do?
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2010

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    Hate This Part of Me

    I do.   Take this for instance, just 3 weeks aho, started "hanging out" with someone new, I guess now it's turned into a friends with benifits type thing. I'v never actually done this before, usually turns into something more fairly fast, or I just get bored and...
    jfgoodtimes jfgoodtimes 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    I'm Too Needy

    I just joined this site... pretty cool. Gotta love this anonymous business. So my story is simple really: I start dating someone and I get waaay too attached. I don't know if that is "normal"...I know it's not uncommon, especially with us women, but whether it's healthy...
    Acignome Acignome 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2008

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    Pretty Much Any Relationship

    friends or loversI put my heart into it and give my relationships everything I got. I want to be a good person. Its hard to comprehend that people are not the same way.I get used and it hurts terribly.Its pretty much a re-occurrence throughout my life.Constantly getting hurt and...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F Dec 1, 2011

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    Heart Easily Entrapped

    I dont understand why I am the way I am I am a young bisexual woman, thiough my stronger attraction is more towards fellow women. I get easily attached to people, i take their love gestures very seriously and often it only takes me a kiss or a wink from another person for me to...
    karijapua karijapua 26-30, F Nov 10, 2012

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    I Still Love U

     i still am like in love with a guy that did everything possible to let me know he doesn't like me. I just keep holding like one day he will love me back and everything will be okay.  here is what he did: he went out with my bestfriend after i told him i liked...
    rainbowclouds rainbowclouds 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    It only happens with guys

    and not in any way a romantic way. After I get used to people and we get along so well or I can tell that they are being really genuine, I start to get attached. I start to like to see them regularly, weirdly and when I don't see them or don't talk to them for days or I sense a...
    FutureVet2014 FutureVet2014 18-21, F Jun 27

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    I Give Up

    I wasn't even looking for anything from you other than friendship. Its slowly crept in. Now I can't stop thinking about you. Your texts saying that you miss me slowly dried up after I told you how much I like you. I hate this I don't know how to handle this crap anymore.. Am I...
    stoliddolt stoliddolt 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    I was seeking out a good b-day present for my dad on the Amazon online marketplace, & since he loves gardening I believed the perfect would probably be one of those non-rusting...
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    I've met & talked to what seems like millions of guys, and none of it has ever worked out or ended well. I always get too attached and move too quickly and come on too strong and...
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    I am always waiting for the bottom to fall out. No matter how good things get I have this impending feeling it will end. I get why people have commitment issues. Feeling attached...
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    bridget08 bridget08 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    :O what if I wake up and my head was attached to the body of a scorpion :O ...* screams in terror *
    Chernobylplayground Chernobylplayground 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    The moment I realized the Apple computer logo was a direct reference to Eve, who took a bite of fruit from the tree of knowledge of good and evil in the Garden of Eden, and seeing...
    ImAlivingParadox ImAlivingParadox 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I've always cared too much. I'm paranoid about what I say to people because I don't want to hurt them. I care too much about the way I look I care too much about how someone...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Perhaps one of the worst thing is knowing you were willing to try but you were never even an option. You were just someone to pass the time with until they found someone else...
    LionPrincess03 LionPrincess03 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I used a vibrator to get off for most of my relationship with my boyfriend of five years. It was always harder and took longer for me to get off, so it felt easier. I feel like in...
    Honeybear18 Honeybear18 31-35, F 28 Responses Aug 17

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    I've just been burnt too many times. I find it hard yo trust anyone too much anymore. I only let people see the surface.
    PaperTowns PaperTowns 22-25, F Aug 17

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    I first started feeling ugly at a young age. I had goofy teeth and was very shy and unconfident. My family picked on me too. I got bullied throughout primary n high school. Boys...
    braingarden braingarden 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    As a very young child I was put under the impression of no one is bad. The only fear I had was monsters. As I grew older and lost my mom reality hit me hard at 8. I suddenly tried...
    PrettyInWhite PrettyInWhite 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I get too attached with my bed, my closet, my undies, and my freakin' dog.
    unconsciousdreamer unconsciousdreamer 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    I'm constantly checking myself, thinking too much about what I've done or said. Trying to work out what is true and what is not instead of letting things come to me. I can't stand...
    ItisonlyI ItisonlyI 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 15

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    After losing my two closest friends this year, I am very hesitant to become close to anyone else. I talk, I share a little, but I never truly open up. I'm not sure I'm capable of...
    vault101 vault101 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I honestly am. I think I am getting attached and I can't help it omg. So in my other experience thing I was talking about this guy. (Childhood friend) So he finally texted me again...
    xxJaydaxx xxJaydaxx 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    I prefer not to let people in because most can't handle nor can they comprehend the depths of my mind. ****, even I have trouble sometimes sorting out my own thoughts and feelings...
    OldSoulRedux OldSoulRedux 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I get attached too easily and it has bitten and punished me hard for being so gullible.
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