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I Get Too Attached

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    Hate This Part of Me

    I do.   Take this for instance, just 3 weeks aho, started "hanging out" with someone new, I guess now it's turned into a friends with benifits type thing. I'v never actually done this before, usually turns into something more fairly fast, or I just get bored and...
    jfgoodtimes jfgoodtimes 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    I'm Too Needy

    I just joined this site... pretty cool. Gotta love this anonymous business. So my story is simple really: I start dating someone and I get waaay too attached. I don't know if that is "normal"...I know it's not uncommon, especially with us women, but whether it's healthy...
    Acignome Acignome 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2008

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    I Can Never Think Of A Title That Will Do Me Justice. Just Read.

    I was in a relationship for 5 months. around the three month mark we started not seeing each other as much. the rumours started. I got really worried. people said he was avoiding me. I still loved him. i held out for another month but I thought of him every night, i thought about...
    imperfectionz imperfectionz 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2010

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    I Give Up

    I wasn't even looking for anything from you other than friendship. Its slowly crept in. Now I can't stop thinking about you. Your texts saying that you miss me slowly dried up after I told you how much I like you. I hate this I don't know how to handle this crap anymore.. Am I...
    stoliddolt stoliddolt 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    Pretty Much Any Relationship

    friends or loversI put my heart into it and give my relationships everything I got. I want to be a good person. Its hard to comprehend that people are not the same way.I get used and it hurts terribly.Its pretty much a re-occurrence throughout my life.Constantly getting hurt and...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2011

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    I Still Love U

     i still am like in love with a guy that did everything possible to let me know he doesn't like me. I just keep holding like one day he will love me back and everything will be okay.  here is what he did: he went out with my bestfriend after i told him i liked...
    rainbowclouds rainbowclouds 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    Heart Easily Entrapped

    I dont understand why I am the way I am I am a young bisexual woman, thiough my stronger attraction is more towards fellow women. I get easily attached to people, i take their love gestures very seriously and often it only takes me a kiss or a wink from another person for me to...
    karijapua karijapua 26-30, F Nov 10, 2012

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    T.

    i'm attached and all it's doing is hurting me. i can see this. my friends and family are constantly reminding me. he says he loves me, but all he seems to do is make me cry. that's not love. but i feel like i need him in my life. oh what's a girl to do?
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    This is when I get hurt, I am a very emotional person with a lot of feelings! I can get attached to someone very quickly! Sometimes I realise but other times i dont until i get...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I hate how im overly protective, and overly jealous. I get too attached and i end up ******* things up. I loved too much and now i know they felt like i was taking their life away...
    LoveeIsLife LoveeIsLife 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I'm so stupid. I really don't mean to get attached. I try and tell myself not to. I try and refuse it. But I get attached too fast once I decide that I like you. And I hate it.
    DepressedButWellDressed DepressedButWellDressed 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    Why do I become emotionally attached to guys too soon/too easily or not at all? I've tried and tried to not be that way, but that seems to be the only way I fall for guys. If I don...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 day ago

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    I just got out of 7th grade I go back to school in a couple weeks but I had this one teacher in 7th and I kinda have this problem with getting to attached to people.. I think it's...
    LaelaRuiz LaelaRuiz 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Within the first week maybe 2 of talking I became attached now 2 months into the friendship and I'm worried things are going to fall apart and she's going to disappear
    originalmonstermouse originalmonstermouse 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    So anytime a family member comes down to visit like my cousins I get attached to them while they are here even if it's for a day and when they leave I feel like a peace of me is...
    kaylaugh18 kaylaugh18 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I get attached And then I can't I CANT let go I can never hate them I can never tell them no I can not spend long periods of time away from them They become my heart My life My...
    Brokenglassapple Brokenglassapple 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    I am so paranoid I literally don't think I'll ever be able to get attached to anyone
    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I just met this guy a few days ago.. But right off the bat we clicked. We have been hanging out since the day we met ( except today ) I've met some his family and he's met majority...
    casskatherine casskatherine 18-21, F Jul 15

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    I am really picky usually with guys, but when I find one I like, it's impossible for me to not get attached.....
    luckey872 luckey872 18-21, F Jul 7

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    I haven't done any research to see if they have this already, but I use crutches to get around in town. I would like to have a camera attached to my head that whenever I would...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    I get attached to people way to easily cause I'm always looking for a friend. I hate it though cause some people cut me out and leave me all alone for no reason without saying a...
    nathanieljlaw nathanieljlaw 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    I'm afraid of getting close to others or having a new best friend because my best friend died over a year ago. Not only that, I have had lots of friends who have died. Others, I...
    ninathecat ninathecat 31-35 Jul 18

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    I have a bf that is so nice to me, I mean I love him. But out of no where my feeling started to grow for my old crush, and there might be a chance he likes me too, I want to talk...
    sarahmak sarahmak 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    My wife took 30 sleeping pills. What should I do
    jeffyjeffy26 jeffyjeffy26 26-30, M 12 hrs ago

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    I tend to do too much thinking during these times I'm in the hospital. I'm exceeding my doctors prognosis by about 6 months now and everything seems to be holding steady. Still...
    Kermit1216 Kermit1216 36-40, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    "Who are you to wave your finger? So full of it Eye balls deep in muddy waters ******' hypocrite Liar, lawyer, mirror, show me. What's the difference? Kangaroo done hung the...
    HowLongWillWeBeWaiting HowLongWillWeBeWaiting 22-25, M 3 hrs ago

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    I am a very private person, and very quiet. I have never liked talking to people, except people I like & feel safe with. Whenever I speak, I always speak very softly. The...
    s4019t s4019t 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    I would have to admit that I'm addicted to Second Life. My other games have suffered for it and I do love my games. I get on first thing when I get home and have stayed up way too...
    jonders66 jonders66 46-50, M 43 mins ago

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    I have a habit of letting people break down my walls too quickly, I get too sucked in to people and forget to look out for the warning signals until it's too late but by then I am...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    You say she’s just a friend, Just a girl you talk to, But darling, remember, We started out as just friends too. You tell me she’s nothing, But you talk the night through, I...
    Brokenpiecesthatsmile Brokenpiecesthatsmile 16-17, F Jul 1

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    I've recently had a couple teeth extracted due to lack of funds for a root canal. I've also had three root canals and one needs a crown badly. It's July 1 and the next open appt is...
    jakobe1987 jakobe1987 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I'm too quiet in person, but get the feeling I message others too much on line. I'm sorry and it would help if someone talked to me first or managed a good way to tell me I'm...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jul 10

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    VAG Service Light Reset Tool is obd2repair vag Service and Airbag Reset (SLR) Tool. For Audi VW Airbag Reset Tool support for Audi and for VW vehicles up to Model Year 2012. VAG...
    obdiirepair obdiirepair 22-25, F Jul 18

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    I really think my sister and my mum hates me. Since my mum broke up with her soon to be married boyfriend she has been really snappy. This was a couple of months back and she is...
    mpaoyxaon mpaoyxaon 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    I sit and watch my mum pick up another bottle of cheap cidar and neck it back, i can tell the alcohol is changing her mood already so i sit quietly because i know this is the time...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F Jul 1

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    I mite be independent but I need love too. I mite be shy but I need to be loved too. I mite hate men at times but that's because I've been burnt every single time I've dated...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F Jul 11

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    It takes me a lot to post something. Many times, I have erased after typing and gone back to reading other posts. I just feel that I am revealing myself too much and that I should...
    Brokenhurricane Brokenhurricane 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    im 19 and look 15 and im sick of it. i cant grow facial hair and im tall (6'2) and skinny. it has really affected my life. i am very self concious and i have a low self esteem. i...
    farmac1st farmac1st 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    Everytime I see a person I start to analyze them. I look every little or big move they make, eyes, hands, how they stand, how their lips are just everything. It distracts me so...
    realandtrue realandtrue 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I literally can't tell if I'm fat or not. I'm like 5'4 125 pounds and size 3-5 pants. I honestly feel fat, but this is very personal this next part; I'm a virgin. And I feel like I...
    trippyprincess trippyprincess 13-15, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Whenever I visit people make sure I eat a bunch of cruciferous vegetables before I go. These make me gassier than a propane and propane accessories. I toot toot on their...
    Fartmickfart Fartmickfart 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    I startes thinking too much when i was 17 an came across dating long distance. Im insecure about my image so i always thought why would she like me if i didnt like me? Whenever it...
    troubledB troubledB 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I need way too much sleep. I can't wake up in the morning because I don't want to. Other nights I can't stop thinking long enough to sleep...
    gingerbetch gingerbetch 22-25, F Jul 2

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    Before i started modelling myself, i was taking also life drawing classes to learn how to draw the naked human body. It was exiting since we were getting involved with other naked...
    prince35xxx prince35xxx 31-35, M Jul 3

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    i don't want to let anyone else down that i love... i just want to get better, before it's too late.
    CreatorOfSin CreatorOfSin 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I think I put people ahead of myself too often. for example I gave up on a crush so that my best friend could have him...now they are engaged. I have also stayed friends with...
    angelexondra angelexondra 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    i can just express my feelings and opinion and just everything through writing, i'm really bad at talking about what i think and feel. often people think i'm lazy or don't have an...
    wanderingwoods wanderingwoods 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    This was the best group I could find for what I was trying to say. The second I see a gay guy I freak out and want to be amazing friends, then I realize I don't want to just be...
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 16-17, M Jul 15