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I Get Too Attached

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    I Give Up

    I wasn't even looking for anything from you other than friendship. Its slowly crept in. Now I can't stop thinking about you. Your texts saying that you miss me slowly dried up after I told you how much I like you. I hate this I don't know how to handle this crap anymore.. Am I...
    stoliddolt stoliddolt 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    Heart Easily Entrapped

    I dont understand why I am the way I am I am a young bisexual woman, thiough my stronger attraction is more towards fellow women. I get easily attached to people, i take their love gestures very seriously and often it only takes me a kiss or a wink from another person for me to...
    karijapua karijapua 26-30, F Nov 10, 2012

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    Hate This Part of Me

    I do.   Take this for instance, just 3 weeks aho, started "hanging out" with someone new, I guess now it's turned into a friends with benifits type thing. I'v never actually done this before, usually turns into something more fairly fast, or I just get bored and...
    jfgoodtimes jfgoodtimes 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    T.

    i'm attached and all it's doing is hurting me. i can see this. my friends and family are constantly reminding me. he says he loves me, but all he seems to do is make me cry. that's not love. but i feel like i need him in my life. oh what's a girl to do?
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2010

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    I Can Never Think Of A Title That Will Do Me Justice. Just Read.

    I was in a relationship for 5 months. around the three month mark we started not seeing each other as much. the rumours started. I got really worried. people said he was avoiding me. I still loved him. i held out for another month but I thought of him every night, i thought about...
    imperfectionz imperfectionz 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2010

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    I'm Too Needy

    I just joined this site... pretty cool. Gotta love this anonymous business. So my story is simple really: I start dating someone and I get waaay too attached. I don't know if that is "normal"...I know it's not uncommon, especially with us women, but whether it's healthy...
    Acignome Acignome 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2008

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    Pretty Much Any Relationship

    friends or loversI put my heart into it and give my relationships everything I got. I want to be a good person. Its hard to comprehend that people are not the same way.I get used and it hurts terribly.Its pretty much a re-occurrence throughout my life.Constantly getting hurt and...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F Dec 1, 2011

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    I Still Love U

     i still am like in love with a guy that did everything possible to let me know he doesn't like me. I just keep holding like one day he will love me back and everything will be okay.  here is what he did: he went out with my bestfriend after i told him i liked...
    rainbowclouds rainbowclouds 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    (I know I wrote too much, but I'd appreciate it a lot if you could find time to read it and try to help me out here) I get attached to people easily, but sometimes it's so hard...
    asami13 asami13 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Not many people talk to me or acknowledged I exist. any person who shows the slightest interest, I get attached to... any friend I have ever made tho talks to me for a while and I...
    Louder4life Louder4life 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I've always thought of myself as incapable of being too close to a person. For me, it’s never good to know that you’re craving the person’s presence every time they’re not...
    Megarian Megarian 16-17, F a week ago

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    I was traped in a toxic long distance relationship because I believed his feelings and influence was real. Afraid of loosing him i let my life fall apart...
    LittleLadyLion LittleLadyLion 18-21, F Mar 29

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    i care about people too much lol like i been talkin to this 6th grader kayla for a lil bit now and i already think of her as a sister lol cuz she be like i wanna fight so n so n i...
    violinmaster242 violinmaster242 13-15, F Mar 22

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    Hello. I just lied to everybody which I normally don't. The story is 3 weeks ago I cheat on my girlfriend and once I came back from my travelling she broke up with me. She have no...
    laurelaie laurelaie 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Here's an update on my friend's situation. I have learned that he has moved out and he's now staying with me for the time being. He mentions that his ex broke up with him WHILE...
    NeoxExor NeoxExor 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I dont want a family... I never have one, i Only have people who care about me enought to keep me alive, i dont want a family, Cuz i already losse my chance of have one, And i dont...
    Mysorrow Mysorrow 18-21, M Mar 21

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    The psychic that once approached me told me, "You've been through so much that you don't give yourself a chance with anyone so you won't get attached and disappointed." Boy, was...
    ClaireH19 ClaireH19 18-21, F Apr 1

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    How many other families, people and friends do you know that have broken relationships? Now I want you to think of a trait in common that you can see in all those involved in it...
    dabram71 dabram71 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I hate it how I can be easily attached to people but eventually they would turn out to people they've said they will never be. :(
    ajdream ajdream 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have been single since 2011, which means I haven't got a serious relationship for nearly 4 years. I have dated some girls in those years, but they didn't wanted strings attached...
    Hernando1987 Hernando1987 26-30, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    This image says what I feel when I think I am getting attached or attracted to someone.
    unreciprocated unreciprocated 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    I don't let myself get too close to people because I've been hurt so many times. I let people think I've completely opened up to them so they don't feel like they've completely...
    GreenEyess GreenEyess 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I am scared to meet someone new that almost takes my breath away, that makes me pause, think longer, and take a breath before I proceed. I am afraid to meet this "perfect" being...
    74Kitty 74Kitty 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I always find myself thinking way too much or over thinking something. For example, throughout the day, my mind wonders everywhere from funny things, to ideas, to sexual thoughts...
    rockerstar rockerstar 26-30, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I'd like to think of myself as Gatsby from F. Scott Fitz's. Appearance wise, I look like a little rich girl from the burbs and I can talk, just like one, too. I have such nice...
    Fuzzies Fuzzies 56-60, M Mar 24

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    Why do i care so much i guess its just who i am. Some log off and do not give a second thought to those on line for me that has never ever been the case. I care too much for people...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 17 Responses Apr 3

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    I really hate it when that happens, now I have to drive clear to all the way there, where I didn't mean to go just to turn around so I can get bac; to where I should have been had...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 9

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    Too many rules means too many people are so inhibited and suppressed which also causes a lack of communication and missed enjoyments.
    LTEP69 LTEP69 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Too much. Too often. Giving up is stopped by caring. And worry. Lol. Dang codependancy.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    I wish people would realize how ignorant they look when they call all kids stupid or retarded. That's like a police officer or soldier calling civilians inferior and weak...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    When I first took the Myers Briggs and the beginning of college it was INTJ after a few years I took it and it was INTP.
    unreciprocated unreciprocated 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I'm thinking too much right now...got my heart on a string dangling in mid air with the blender on...one false step and down she goes...I'm just thinking about my sis...and what...
    EternalViolet EternalViolet 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Once I took a whole bottle of Lexapro, Ativan, Zyprexa, Risperdal, Restoril, Zantac and who knows what more. The point is that I only remember when I shut my eyes in bed. Next...
    AndreaCulea AndreaCulea 22-25, F Apr 1

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    I wish my school would just get rid of homework for good. The classes are moving forward way too fast. It's like the homework is what's supposed to be teaching us. The teachers...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M Apr 3

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    Hi, I am from a south-east Asia country which is really poor. Here, everything i see is too devastating, just imagine a place in which the weather is extremely hot, insufficient...
    justanfuckingasshole justanfuckingasshole 22-25, M Apr 3

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    Girls who burp are always sexy as long as it's not forced or from swallowing air. It's hot if it's because they ate too much or because they drank a soft drink too fast. I know I...
    LittlemissB95 LittlemissB95 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    On Saturday my step gramma took my sister and I out to see Cinderella, which was okay, though I pretty much hate princesses. Afterwards though, we went back to her house (my...
    kingbrizo kingbrizo 18-21 Apr 11

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    In my lifetime, I know I wasn't near perfect with the decision and choices I made. At times, I can be wrecking ball. Other times, I'm just the opposite. As I said in my previous...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    I keep thinigs to my self because I'm very selective about who I open up to. You can't talk to everybody about everything. I have no problem being open and getting things off my...
    MJP88 MJP88 26-30, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I feel so alone. I know it's entirely my fault for isolating myself, and that makes it worse. I spend too much time locked up in my own head. Nobody from my old school cares about...
    MurderAndCreate MurderAndCreate 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I care way too much and take everything too seriously. And nothing can take the pain away that I feel from my let downs at least nothing I've found yet.
    ReneeTay ReneeTay 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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