Post

I Get Uptight Whenever I Go to the Mall

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 187 People

    Is It Really Necessary?

    I seriously don't understand why very many people from my age group are obsessed with going to malls. As a child, my mother always brought me outside for shopping since there was nobody to babysit me. Pretty much every twenty minutes I'd ask when we'd go home. Rarely is there...
    shooterboss shooterboss 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 28, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Have Amazing Social Anxie...

    I have amazing social anxiety. Going to the mall makes me incredibly uptight.
    turtlemusic28 turtlemusic28 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 14, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Hate It

    I just hate. I get into a panic whenever my friends ask me to come with them. If I'm in there for more then 20 minutes I get start getting anxious. I'm the type of person who HATES shopping and crowds. Now people avoid asking me unless there is a GOOD reason I have to go and they...
    poeticdiva poeticdiva 22-25, F Nov 13, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Well, I Get Uptight In Certain...

    Well, I get uptight in certain parts inside the mall. I prefer the outdoor malls. Less people, less perfume smells, less rush.
    britanky britanky 26-30, F Apr 9, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Dear God Do I Ever! ...

    Dear god do I ever! It's the fluorescent lighting. Everything is ten times more jarring. Normally I can handle consumerism on mass levels, I may not be happy with it, but I can coexsist with it. Not under those damn lights though. And then you go into Abercrombie or Hollister and...
    wanderkid wanderkid 19-21, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Maybe I Just Hate Being Surrounded By Buttholes.

    I love the mall,I love to spend money there,but I absolutely hate going there.I always get pushed out of the way at the sale rack by some scary fat old lady,almost all of the little mexican kids are running around not watching where they are going and tripping you and then the...
    blackcat blackcat 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Anxiety Disorder and Crowds

    I hate crowds. I feel lost when there are too many people.  Lost and small.  Like a mouse avoiding the eagles' tallons.  I shop only if I have to or when there aren't alot of people- forget sales, I'll pay the price just to miss the people.  The day after...
    Tigress35 Tigress35 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Mild Agoraphobia Merges With Anti-consumerism

    In reading about it, I have learned that being uncomfortable in crowds is not uncommon for people who were badly bullied as a kid. I can go into malls and cities, I'm just not completely comfortable there. All those people, in such close proximity just make me feel anxious...
    accomplice accomplice 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 11, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Hate the Mall!

    I always feel mildly uncomfortable.  From the point I find that I have to go.  I am slightly better if I have a friend with me.  I don't like the crowds.  I feel like the sales people are staring at me.  It makes me feel judged.  Therefore, I have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 17, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Lots of People

    makes me feel alone and stressed out whenever i go to a shopping mall, i need my space to be me. so many people so much going on i feel suffocated...
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Sep 5, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Whenever Mall

    Whenever I want to shop I Just go to the mall online.  In my P.J.s or at the office desk.  My favorite online shopping mall is www.WheneverMall.com
    WheneverMall WheneverMall 46-50, M Oct 23, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Only Go

    for shopping, when it's of the utmost importance.  I don't like being around a bunch of people I don't know.  So I tend to try to stick to the smaller stores or, at most, Wal Mart.  I never liked going to the mall, even when I was a teen.  I just went with...
    SmotherMe SmotherMe 26-30, F Nov 16, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Weird

    idk but whenever im at the mall i feel like everyone is judging me. gahh and i hate shopping. trying stuff on and looking in the mirror and seeing how bad it looks on me is not the funnest thing in the world.
    asdfok asdfok 18-21, F Jun 23, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Cause I'm In Debt and Don&...

    Cause i'm in debt and don't want to spend money...yea...SWIPE!!
    greymagik greymagik 21-25, M May 27, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Do

    I don't know why, but going to the mall makes me feel uncomfortable..
    kalikula kalikula 16-18, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Teenz

    OMGosh! I feel like a elephant in a circus. We have a small mall in my town, and let me tell you! It's a breeding ground for mess. i mean most people dont even buy anything. Just walk around like animals in on a farm. Going around and around and around in circles.  ...
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Don't get me wrong I love to shop

    but the mall makes me nervous . First of all there are way too many mass shootings going on to not plan an exit route or hiding spot whenever I'm in a crowded place with my kids walmart is on this list for sure. Second I am not usually a germ phobic but if you have ever looked...
    jnoga jnoga 31-35, F Jul 2

    Your Response

    Cancel

    No, I Love the Mall!...

    No, I love the mall!
    sondosia sondosia 18-21, F Jan 18, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Uhmm Something Like That.

    I'm agoraphobic, so it is safe to say that I get uptight in malls.  Yesterday I was so nervous about going on the escalators for whatever crazy reason, but I lived.  I won't go if it is during a crowded time though.
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 17, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Shopping and Crowds

    I'm not a lover of shopping or crowds. I enjoyed shopping at Nordstrom's yesterday as they have personal shoppers. I go into the dressing room and she gets everything my size... some times she will bring things that I would NEVER think to try on and I'd be amazed at how well they...
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean 36-40, F Apr 17, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Ew.

    I love shopping, but not at the mall. I go on occasion, but for the most part try to find stand alone stores to shop in. The mall is just so crowded and full of kids without supervision. The food court smells disgusting and the whole atmosphere just depresses me a little. Maybe...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 13, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Fear

    I get uptight when I go to the mall because I have an anxiety about large crowds and enclosed spaces.  I sort of breathe fast and sweat and try to hurry up and get what I'm there for and leave.  I have to take breaks and go outside from time to time because I can't...
    SteenaBeana SteenaBeana 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 13, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Passed Out Once

    I hate large crowds, but it was Christmas and I had to go to the mall, and it was PACKED!!  It also doesn't help that I have anxiety and panic disorder.  After about a hour, I just couldn't take it anymore and was heading for an exit, so I could get some air, and calm...
    keyna keyna 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Malls Remind Me Of When I Was In High School...

    ...and that's not a good thing. The very last time I went to the mall to shop, I was about 14 years old. I remember that my pants cost about $50 a pop and my goal was to fit in. Now that I'm older, I'm so used to not fitting in that I sure as hell am not going to spend $50+ on...
    ghstgrl ghstgrl 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    No and It Is Not Called a Mall...

    no and it is not called a mall unless you're in the usa!!
    pixiedust pixiedust 21-25, F Jan 18, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Get Up Tight When I Go Any W...

    i get up tight when i go any where sounds over the top but very true
    tracey10 tracey10 26-30, F May 26, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Hate Going to the Mail and G...

    I hate going to the mail and getting MORE bills that I am having problems keeping up with, YIKES!!
    AlwaysRemembers AlwaysRemembers 41-45, F Apr 9, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Used to Love It...

    Now, overweight and ugly and older. Now truly realizing the mall isn't just a fun place with tons of people and shiny things to look at or have lunch at, I hate it. I feel like I don't belong there unless I meet the standards of today's teen world and I don't meet those standards...
    Neur0ticism Neur0ticism 18-21, F Jun 23, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Dont Like Crowds, So Yes. ...

    I dont like crowds, so yes. However, its not the mall that does that, its the crowds
    Flint Flint 16-18, F Apr 9, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Hate It

    I hate hate hate going to the mall. At least I know for a fact that I hate it when there are people there. I don't know, I just feel so awkward and out of place at the mall. Even on the rare occasion where I am with friends. I can't really explain why it bothers me...it just does...
    complexitykills complexitykills 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 3

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Oh Yeah...i Hate Shopping...ca...

    Oh yeah...I hate shopping...cant stand people who stop right in front of you to look at a something over the otherside...move people...dont stop at the doorway ..get. out. of. the. way.
    caroli9 caroli9 36-40, F Jan 18, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Wish- I Knew Why I Even Said I Was Lonely.

    I have so many family and friends that would be surprised of this.
    LaurieSMM LaurieSMM 56-60 Jul 19, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yeah Its My Constant Lack of M...

    Yeah its my constant lack of money!!! And i hate crowds its a big fear of mine! i feel like im gonna get squashed, lost, i dont know sometimes i think what if there was a fire where would i go i would die!! I know it is very overdramatic but i cant help myself most times...
    sazead sazead 22-25, F Apr 9, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I ate there by my self at the mall. Friday night It's filled with old ppl and students like 18 years olds Walking down the mall about million times in the past 11 years. I wonder...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F Aug 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have to go to the mall. But I HATE going to the mall.. I feel like I'm the only girl who feels this way!!! Then my grandma is going and she takes an hr a store . I always feel...
    Gamer0808 Gamer0808 18-21, F Sep 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Kinda a wacky mall set version if diehard.
    OzarksTrucker OzarksTrucker 36-40, M Aug 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So I was walking on the street, a lady stopped me and asked me if she can have my number and call me sometime. I was shocked, seriously, and i just smiled and shook my head..then I...
    JamesLindberg JamesLindberg 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have a theory that I have been cat in one of my previous lives. Which is kind of strange considering that I am a dog person.
    HannibalQ HannibalQ 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i love skirts and dresses but in high school people call you easy and the pervs try and get behind you on the stairs
    kkkeeennnzzz kkkeeennnzzz 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    EDIT ; 2014/09/07 : I showed it to another doctor and he said I don't have this, thanks gosh. I have it too sadly :( I was checked a couple of days ago by an ENT specialist...
    Zulwarn Zulwarn 22-25, M Sep 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You can't just start talking to me whenever you feel like it after you ignored me for no reason at all. I am not a toy for you to be playing with whenever your childish self feels...
    CityLuvr98 CityLuvr98 16-17, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love it and I wish I would've gotten it done a long time ago. The stares it brings when I wear belly shirts is crazy. Like when I'm at the mall, I notice all sorts of looks and...
    mariamami mariamami 31-35, F 16 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This special relatives operate enterprise was set up in 2007 by The present proprietor operators. It was one of several very first on the internet shop corporations in Australia...
    Laurenazrj90 Laurenazrj90 31-35, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I cant find this color , i want to try it i searched the whole mall :(
    Sssaaarrraaa Sssaaarrraaa 70+, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I was a kid it was hard for me to make friends. My parents really didn't let me do anything, and when I did have friends over they were so strict on me and my friends that no...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53 18-21, F Sep 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    An Irishman named O'Malley went to his doctor after a long illness. After a lengthy examination, the doctor sighed and looked O'Malley in the eye and said, "I've some bad news for...
    hancockian hancockian 66-70, M 6 Responses Sep 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have decided I need some time out. I've booked 3 days off work, but told my wife that I'm going to a conference. I've booked a room in a motel that is miles away, and told her...
    Heellover Heellover 36-40, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I Need A Solution For This This is yaswanth Reddy from Hyderabad city, India. I am into big problems due to people who cheated me by taking my innocence as an advantage. Right now...
    yaswanthr yaswanthr 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I never thought that someone's surroundings could make someone so depressed, but it's happened to me. Two years ago I had to move to a small town in southern South Carolina...
    etalors etalors 18-21, F Aug 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When you have Tourette's, you can't pretend to be okay, even when you're not. People notice and understand there's something wrong with you. When you have social anxiety and you...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 17

    Your Response

    Cancel