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I Getting Outside Of The Gender Boxes

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    I Opened Them At My School

    there was this one boy at my school who was trasgender and people made fun of him because he liked wearing thongs and dresses so for halloween i dressed like a girl the whole deal a thong padded bra a bright red dress make up and a wig it was a huge it all the girls were suprised...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 24, 2013

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    Gender Equalizing

    For years I've wanted to wear skirts and tights. ...they just seem more comfortable and better express whmoever I am. Athleta has great product with a masculine edge. I've found it interesting as some female styles have moved closer and closer to the masculine. Athleta takes it...
    wyzebird wyzebird 51-55, M Apr 11, 2012

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    I'm pansexual btw...and I support my transgender and genderqueer "cousins"! LOVE Y'ALL! Stay strong lovelies! It only gets better once you accept who you are. :D
    eharber97 eharber97 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    The Martian Sol 2-9-16 Where to begin? Last night was rather interesting to say the least. You could say I was a bit down. It started with me coming home to unpack what...
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    Queerness is certain. But I don't know at what level. This question has been taking over my mind for the last few weeks and I just need an answer. A while ago, I posted something...
    shawking shawking 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I was born female but I feel like a male. I don't like being called "she" or with my female birth name. I don't like being considered as feminine. I don't like dress feminine. I...
    darklotus01 darklotus01 13-15, T 2 days ago

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    i was here a while ago. i'm 15, boy, and still unable to talk to my mom about my possible trans-gender/sexuality. i told some of my close friends they were accepting(thank god...
    jennie323 jennie323 13-15, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    There are times where it's not too hot, just the right amount of sun outside, put on my sunglasses,I take a lawn chair and sit down. Set aside all my worries, concerns, and...
    ACMJC ACMJC 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I travel for business every week or two, a couple hours each way. Usually the return trip is late evening, arriving near midnight. Last week I finished early, and decided to...
    allingoodfun allingoodfun 46-50, M 4 days ago

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     i have been stuggling with gender identity for a while. I wanted to be a boy, then i wanted to be a girl. I LOVE wearing guy clothes and going by guy pronouns and a guy name...
    cigarettedaydreams0523 cigarettedaydreams0523 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    So I wasn't sure if I was going to get a chance to get naked outside anytime soon because of the cold. But I was wrong. While just last week it was snowing.. Tonight it is 55...
    J120925 J120925 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I do remember my first time naked in the dark at my cabin in the mountains. I was lounging outside just after sunset in an sun chair drinking beer and smoking a cigar. Didn't know...
    niceskip niceskip 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 2

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    I am often naked outdoors when weather and situation permits. Nighttime can be a thrill since you loose control of the area around you. Unable to control you environment and the...
    niceskip niceskip 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 2

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    I am often naked outdoors when weather and situation permits. Nighttime can be a thrill since you loose control of the area around you. Unable to control you environment and the...
    niceskip niceskip 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 2

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    I tend to change genders a LOT and my appearance and voice could go either way, so no one really knows if I'm a boy or a girl haha.
    BennettStark BennettStark 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    When i was a child and teenager, i always went outside to look for fun activities. I grew up in the States and specifically in Denver, Colorado. I had it all back then and as i...
    vabeachfemale vabeachfemale 51-55, F 12 Responses Jan 31

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    I spent like 8 hours a day outside when I was a kid lol
    polylove0210 polylove0210 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 31

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    Just saw the Danish Girl yesterday, and although it had a tremendous emotional impact and was very psychological in some aspects, i feel like there was some awkwardness. And i mean...
    Noodlepudding666 Noodlepudding666 16-17, F Jan 31

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    a am 100% female. for those of you who don't exactly know what gender fluidity is and may think it's something else but sometimes I feel more masculine and sometimes I feel more...
    Kornisone Kornisone 26-30, F 12 Responses Jan 30

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    Regular routine when enjoying a sauna wintertime at my cabin in the mountains. After both first and second round in the sauna we linger outside and cool down with either a snow...
    niceskip niceskip 46-50, M Jan 29

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    This is a NY Times article that I found a very good read. It's the closest dissertation that I have ever found that treats gender as non binary. http://www.nytimes.com/2012/08/12...
    JoanieNewHampshire JoanieNewHampshire 61-65, T 1 Response Jan 28

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    maybe not mine, exactly, but i'm always confused about gender in general: i'm glad i was assigned as i was, but it's more of a matter of thinking it's the best fit. i often...
    astrifer astrifer 22-25, F Jan 27

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    Hi, my name is Peyton. I 've struggled my whole life with my gender and sexuality. Recently, I have realized that, even since a young age, I have always been attracted to anyone...
    SimpleSiezures SimpleSiezures 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    i hate gender stereotypes because in society if a girl acts like a girl and a boy acts like a boy everybody is fine with that but when a girl acts more like a guy they say why can...
    PurpleMonkey34 PurpleMonkey34 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    a little cold ran outside in the rain naked almost got caught by my nabor
    Chrischem13141 Chrischem13141 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 26

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    I have no clue what's going on here. I don't feel comfortable when being called 'female' but I also don't feel comfortable being called 'male'. Lately, on the internet, I've been...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 25

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    So I thought I was genderfluid but something is still so unsettling. I feel like I'm not right...something not right. I always believed I was a boy or that I was born in the wrong...
    ryuichibecca ryuichibecca 16-17 4 Responses Jan 25

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    Yeah, yeah I'm a bit young to post here but when I was about 8 I rode my bike with my friend Kira and her cousins outside and we climbed the big tree in their yard for hours. We...
    TitaniaMoon TitaniaMoon 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 24

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    . We went outside the house, onto the street, other kids streets and woods and parks and ponds. We walked and cycled and played football. We fell out and fought and made up again...
    wetadam wetadam 70+, M 1 Response Jan 24

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    I mean, it's nice to talk to a person at any hour of the day. But there's something special that goes into have a nice conversation at 3am in the morning. I'd love to have one...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 24

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    Yay! finally get a beautiful new look outside! ^^ ....getting a blizzard in Virginia :)
    wenwen14 wenwen14 18-21, F Jan 22

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    i just joined the forum yesterday. I am transgender and support all gender non conforming people. I have been out for nearly eleven years. I have some wonderful friends and have...
    Gennee Gennee 66-70, T 4 Responses Jan 22

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    i don't know what gender i am..
    horrurs horrurs 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 22

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    this guy who's pinning after me doesn't know I'm genderfluid, though he isn't repeled by that sort of thing, I'm still worried to tell him. hope he isn't any if I have a guy day on...
    Montana1Tanner2 Montana1Tanner2 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    It is not my duty to be a mother or a housewife. It should be only my choice what to do with my life. It is sad that a true gender equality does not exist, even in the western...
    DiscoveringTheTruth DiscoveringTheTruth 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    The last time I posted I had just started college and was talking about how I was wearing socks without shoes all over campus. I’m still doing that, and I’ve even gotten a...
    robwearssox robwearssox 18-21, M Jan 21

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    There is just something about being outside under the night sky.....I'm not sure if it's the stars, the cool night air or the dark quietness, but it brings this overwhelming...
    orchids43 orchids43 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    I've identified as genderfluid since I was 14 but now I feel slightly more male than usual.... I don't know what to identify as now... When I put on male clothes, I feel amazing...
    bulletinmyhead bulletinmyhead 16-17, T 2 Responses Jan 20

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    I like getting message in my EP mailbox and talking and conversing with people. what I don't like is getting perverted or propositioning messages from people I'm not here to hook...
    AiymaSnikies AiymaSnikies 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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