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I Give Fantastic Relationship Advice

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 134 People

    Feeling Left Out

     i feel like i have no one i can trust no one i can actually talk to at all   i am in a relationship with a man i utterly die for would do anything for him but i feel as though i am giving everything and yet i am being left out and alone when he has stuff to do  ...
    jessfoulds jessfoulds 22-25 2 Responses Jul 14, 2009

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    Advice?

    My boyfriend and I are complete opposites. I'm 22, I've been helping to support my single mother and younger sister since I was 15. I feel like I'm really mature for my age. I want to experience as much of life as possible. Hes a recovering alcoholic/drug addict. Hes incredibly...
    Rachel5252 Rachel5252 22-25, F 1 Response May 31, 2012

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    Can I Ask For Advice?

    Any tips for re-gaining control of my relationship? Hi, I was wondering if I could ask for some advice about being more assertive and taking control of my relationship. I'm the stereotypical 'nice' partner and it drives my girlfriend nuts - she wants to be feel more challenged...
    LifeInTechnicolour LifeInTechnicolour 22-25 1 Response May 3, 2011

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    How Absurd.

    I am very self-destructive in my taste in men and I don't make a good girlfriend at all. But for whatever reason, I have the uncanny ability of seeing through other people's bullshit and explaining how they can either salvage or develop their own relationships:  romantic...
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 7, 2008

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    Heart Vs Brain

    Heart knows how to heal. The challenge is how to quit the mind.
    Warrior4 Warrior4 26-30, M Nov 12, 2013

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    Is He Is Or Is He Ain't?

    So...I was up until 5am this moring helping a friend with an issue. She's been living with a guy for about a year now and she's 9 months pregnant. They haven't known each other very long and it's very obvious it's not L-O-V-E. Anywho...she comes to me and says she wants my...
    seeker25801 seeker25801 41-45, M 10 Responses Apr 17, 2007

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    I Here!!!

    Mostly everybody that knows me pretty well comes to me for advice. I have always helped someone that needed guidance, or just needed to know what to do. I've never had a problem with helping people. Most people take my advice, and most of the time, benefit from it. I may be a bit...
    Juli3b3ar Juli3b3ar 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2013

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    Love Of My Life, Moves

    My boyfriend Mark, He is the love of my, i recently found out over the summer, there is a great possibility for him to move to Colorado. Ill lose him and i am not sure what to do without him. I NEED HELP
    Cod348 Cod348 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 28, 2012

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    And I Follow It Too!

    People talk about how they give good relationship advice but can't follow it. Screw that! What better relationship advisor than myself if I give great advice. But they do say it is better to find advice from someone else...even therapists have a therapist.....
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2010

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    But, Who Listens?

     I've made all the mistakes you can and learned from them. It's easy to tell someone what they might try to fix things but doing them yourself is much harder.  Advice is cheap.
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 8 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    I Don't Really Know How...

    Whenever my friends start talking about relationship problems they keep turning to me for advice. I don't really know how it happened, but I somehow became the guru for relationships, friendships and problem solving. I'm fine with the latter two, even if I am highly antisocial...
    akrakomatia akrakomatia 22-25, F Aug 17, 2013

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    I don't know if my advice is fantastic,

    and not to come across a know it all....I have been through a lot of stuff in relationships, from the good to the bad, and the bad that most people would not survive... I can relate to most things that happen in relationships... so I like to help and encourage, help people...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Apr 16

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    Yet I've Never Been In One

    I used to spend my years, and still do, watching people obsesively. I learned a lot of what human nature's basic form is with our minds, and it wasn't too hard after that too figure out how a relationship works well. I don't like people touching me, and don't have many friends in...
    queer4clockwork queer4clockwork 18-21 1 Response Nov 14, 2011

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    Trying To Understand Confusing Behavior!

    Hi there, I'm hoping to get some advice from the "Fantastic Advice Givers" in this group. :-) I'm trying to understand someone's behavior towards me, and I'm getting nowhere with it. My friends suggestions are only making things more confusing at the moment...so I would like some...
    Phyla Phyla 26-30, F Feb 12, 2012

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    I Guess...

    I guess I tend to give good relationship advice on certain kinds of issues. I wouldn't go as far as saying it's fantastic advice, I mean I've only ever been in one relationship (which I am still in now), so I haven't gone through much in the lines of break ups and such.  But I...
    ForgottenCelestria ForgottenCelestria 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    Love& Relationships

    me and my beautiful boricua man have knowing each other 4 10-yrs. and have been dating for 2 yrs. he went over seas in kuwait 4 1&6 months he is now back home he works as a contractor on an army base. he is not a phone person so he calls whenever he is always busy @work and...
    cocola cocola 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 20, 2007

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    Ladies place your heart in the hands of God

    and He will place it in the hands of a man who deserves it
    4evamaureen 4evamaureen 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Help Me!!! I Need Advice

    I started dating this new man. Hes wonderful, until I found out what he does. We started dating 2 months ago, we do what dating people do, we go out have a nice time and we do that at home minus the sex. I go on Facebook, MySpace and other websites to see that hes a...
    AznSstarr AznSstarr 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 6, 2012

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    That's What People Tell Me...

    Funny how the person who's never been in a relationship is the one people go to for advice on relationships. =/ I guess it's mainly because I'm a good listener and don't judge people. I try to listen to both sides of the story and don't take sides even if it the person asking...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F Dec 30, 2010

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    </3 He Loves Me Not

    I was with mark. for awhile, then he wanted sex, i told him no, "im 12 god damnit i would NEVER have sex at my age." i turned him down, and he left me, and i miss him i thought he loved me for me not for sex and i cant believe he would do this i know i shouldnt miss him....but i...
    Cod348 Cod348 13-15, M Apr 2, 2012

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    if you are not happy single you wont be happy

    taken happiness comes from within not fro a man or a woman
    4evamaureen 4evamaureen 22-25, F May 16

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    I Hope I Do

    I trust in Jesus and God the Father of Jesus.  Knowing the right words to say is difficult.  Stop before spilling your guts in advice.  Gather your thoughts and temper the advice with love.I can only hope that my words are what the other person needs for comfort.
    JimmyDean001 JimmyDean001 70+, M 1 Response Sep 25, 2011

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    I Do.....

    But why can't I ever use my own advice.......easier said than done I guess.
    Shonda Shonda 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2010

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    And I Follow It Too!

    People talk about how they give good relationship advice but can't follow it. Screw that! What better relationship advisor than myself if I give great advice. But they do say it is better to find advice from someone else...even therapists have a therapist.....
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F Dec 31, 2010

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    I've read some of the questions asked on this

    topic and a lot of the advice given are not 'Fantastic'!! Sorry to say. The reason why I've ticked this one is because I have been cheated on, done the cheating, know how it feels like to be the man and the women on both sides, know what it feels like to have a broken heart...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart 26-30, F Apr 20

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    I've been through a lot sh!

    t in relationships, and though I am young, I can give amazing relationship advice.
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Related Experiences

    I direly need relationship advice. Please.
    WVMBO WVMBO 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 11

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    I'm 13 he's 16 I don't think age matters....I need advice this is hard having a long distance relationship any tips?
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    So I know this is true but I have a good guy in my life right now that I seem to be mean too how can I change because I know it's not right .? Women from dysfunctional families...
    failedlove08 failedlove08 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    Ok, please don't judge me.... i have been with my fella for four years but have dated on and off for a few years back in school. But now, I'm in my 20's and in serious trouble...
    Kezza911 Kezza911 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 8

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    So there is this guy at my school that I have like always had a crush on. I use to know him really well in Elementary and Middle school. Then he just stopped talking and we started...
    Realtalk0066 Realtalk0066 16-17, F Sep 9

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    It's weird I have this deep feeling inside to get you pregnant I never felt that with anyone else Should I feel weird about it ?
    failedlove08 failedlove08 22-25, F Sep 4

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    My bf who I'm dating for a year now tells me It's weird I have this deep feeling inside to get you pregnant I never felt that with anyone else Should I feel weird ?
    failedlove08 failedlove08 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    I am seriously bad at picking out boyfriends. The last guy I even had a CRUSH on, he turned out to be dating my best friend, AND cheating on her. Ya, I need help...
    Firtreegirl15 Firtreegirl15 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    So my bf of one year .. I lost my grandma who meant the world to me and I felt so depressed... And my mom and dad were going through a rough time with their marriage and blamed...
    failedlove08 failedlove08 22-25, F Sep 7

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    I asked my boyfriend whom I thought would tell me anything and be honest. If he has looked at ****? He looks at me and tells me NO not for months. Ok. Well later that day looked at...
    zerena123 zerena123 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    The knight and shinning syndrome My bf told me he wanted to save me . I never wanted to be saved just loved for who I am ... He always told me I was a good person but he told me I...
    failedlove08 failedlove08 22-25, F Sep 8

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    I'm not in one at the moment I just want some, so I don't screw the one that matters up.
    halcyondays2 halcyondays2 18-21, M Sep 8

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    My boyfriend and I are having the talk about whether or not we should still be together tonight. What are things I can say to him to convince him that I'm worth it, and he won't be...
    sidneyf23 sidneyf23 18-21, F Sep 9

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    My boyfriend and I are having a rough time. He's really stressed out with school work, and he's required to do a senior project this year by his school. It's due November. But my...
    sidneyf23 sidneyf23 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    My boyfriend and I broke up a week ago, after ten months. His reasoning was that he needed to think about things, and that he was stressed with school, and he felt like he wasn't...
    sidneyf23 sidneyf23 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm here to help also. It may help me feel better
    EbbsBreaux EbbsBreaux 16-17, F a week ago

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    i have been crushing on this boy in my class for the past 3-4 years. i have tried talking to him and all but he doesn't seem interested in me. But whenever i'm in class like...
    liamtwerksforme liamtwerksforme 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    I always seem to give really good advice too others but can never use it to help myself it's kinda a burden especially when people are like omg you are so smart and mature and have...
    Sproketsocet Sproketsocet 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 1

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    If someone could give me some advice on something personal please massage me or comment and ill message you
    HMC17 HMC17 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    I've been talking to a really sweet, caring, religious guy..we met at a dollar store two summers ago and we have dated once before. we broke up because he thought i wasn't his type...
    marielea061214 marielea061214 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Looking for my half brother, put up for adoption in Ontario Canada in the late 80's, birth fathers name was Brian Farnham and mother Lisa Hilliard. I want to find him! Any advice...
    cfarnham cfarnham 36-40, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I can't swear I will give you a perfect relationship, but I swear I will love you more than anyone else ever could <3 I love you Adrian <3
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I have been told a few times, my straight forward honesty can be brutal. sigh... I agree, but I have a problem with holding things inside, not talking about things "at all." I am...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I spoke with this boy for so long I'm 16 and his 19/20 we spoke like for 7 months I'm guessing he wasn't the best guy but he was amazing for me afterwards I realised I like him and...
    elisa1905 elisa1905 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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