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I Give Fantastic Relationship Advice

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 139 People

    But, Who Listens?

     I've made all the mistakes you can and learned from them. It's easy to tell someone what they might try to fix things but doing them yourself is much harder.  Advice is cheap.
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 8 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    Heart Vs Brain

    Heart knows how to heal. The challenge is how to quit the mind.
    Warrior4 Warrior4 26-30, M Nov 12, 2013

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    Can I Ask For Advice?

    Any tips for re-gaining control of my relationship? Hi, I was wondering if I could ask for some advice about being more assertive and taking control of my relationship. I'm the stereotypical 'nice' partner and it drives my girlfriend nuts - she wants to be feel more challenged...
    LifeInTechnicolour LifeInTechnicolour 22-25 1 Response May 3, 2011

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    If you don't have anything to hide from your

    significant other- give them your social media passwords, take your pass code off your phone, etcetera. Why be so secretive if you don't have anything to hide?
    kittykattt6918 kittykattt6918 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 23

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    Love& Relationships

    me and my beautiful boricua man have knowing each other 4 10-yrs. and have been dating for 2 yrs. he went over seas in kuwait 4 1&6 months he is now back home he works as a contractor on an army base. he is not a phone person so he calls whenever he is always busy @work and...
    cocola cocola 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 20, 2007

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    Feeling Left Out

     i feel like i have no one i can trust no one i can actually talk to at all   i am in a relationship with a man i utterly die for would do anything for him but i feel as though i am giving everything and yet i am being left out and alone when he has stuff to do  ...
    jessfoulds jessfoulds 22-25 2 Responses Jul 14, 2009

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    Trying To Understand Confusing Behavior!

    Hi there, I'm hoping to get some advice from the "Fantastic Advice Givers" in this group. :-) I'm trying to understand someone's behavior towards me, and I'm getting nowhere with it. My friends suggestions are only making things more confusing at the moment...so I would like some...
    Phyla Phyla 26-30, F Feb 12, 2012

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    I don't know if my advice is fantastic,

    and not to come across a know it all....I have been through a lot of stuff in relationships, from the good to the bad, and the bad that most people would not survive... I can relate to most things that happen in relationships... so I like to help and encourage, help people...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Apr 16

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    I've read some of the questions asked on this

    topic and a lot of the advice given are not 'Fantastic'!! Sorry to say. The reason why I've ticked this one is because I have been cheated on, done the cheating, know how it feels like to be the man and the women on both sides, know what it feels like to have a broken heart...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart 26-30, F Apr 20

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    I Do.....

    But why can't I ever use my own advice.......easier said than done I guess.
    Shonda Shonda 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2010

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    I've been through a lot sh!

    t in relationships, and though I am young, I can give amazing relationship advice.
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F Sep 21

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    Love Of My Life, Moves

    My boyfriend Mark, He is the love of my, i recently found out over the summer, there is a great possibility for him to move to Colorado. Ill lose him and i am not sure what to do without him. I NEED HELP
    Cod348 Cod348 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 28, 2012

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    I Guess...

    I guess I tend to give good relationship advice on certain kinds of issues. I wouldn't go as far as saying it's fantastic advice, I mean I've only ever been in one relationship (which I am still in now), so I haven't gone through much in the lines of break ups and such.  But I...
    ForgottenCelestria ForgottenCelestria 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    </3 He Loves Me Not

    I was with mark. for awhile, then he wanted sex, i told him no, "im 12 god damnit i would NEVER have sex at my age." i turned him down, and he left me, and i miss him i thought he loved me for me not for sex and i cant believe he would do this i know i shouldnt miss him....but i...
    Cod348 Cod348 13-15, M Apr 2, 2012

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    I Here!!!

    Mostly everybody that knows me pretty well comes to me for advice. I have always helped someone that needed guidance, or just needed to know what to do. I've never had a problem with helping people. Most people take my advice, and most of the time, benefit from it. I may be a bit...
    Juli3b3ar Juli3b3ar 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2013

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    Advice?

    My boyfriend and I are complete opposites. I'm 22, I've been helping to support my single mother and younger sister since I was 15. I feel like I'm really mature for my age. I want to experience as much of life as possible. Hes a recovering alcoholic/drug addict. Hes incredibly...
    Rachel5252 Rachel5252 22-25, F May 31, 2012

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    Ladies place your heart in the hands of God

    and He will place it in the hands of a man who deserves it
    4evamaureen 4evamaureen 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    How Absurd.

    I am very self-destructive in my taste in men and I don't make a good girlfriend at all. But for whatever reason, I have the uncanny ability of seeing through other people's bullshit and explaining how they can either salvage or develop their own relationships:  romantic...
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 7, 2008

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    if you are not happy single you wont be happy

    taken happiness comes from within not fro a man or a woman
    4evamaureen 4evamaureen 22-25, F May 16

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    Yet I've Never Been In One

    I used to spend my years, and still do, watching people obsesively. I learned a lot of what human nature's basic form is with our minds, and it wasn't too hard after that too figure out how a relationship works well. I don't like people touching me, and don't have many friends in...
    queer4clockwork queer4clockwork 18-21 1 Response Nov 14, 2011

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    And I Follow It Too!

    People talk about how they give good relationship advice but can't follow it. Screw that! What better relationship advisor than myself if I give great advice. But they do say it is better to find advice from someone else...even therapists have a therapist.....
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2010

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    I Don't Really Know How...

    Whenever my friends start talking about relationship problems they keep turning to me for advice. I don't really know how it happened, but I somehow became the guru for relationships, friendships and problem solving. I'm fine with the latter two, even if I am highly antisocial...
    akrakomatia akrakomatia 22-25, F Aug 17, 2013

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    And I Follow It Too!

    People talk about how they give good relationship advice but can't follow it. Screw that! What better relationship advisor than myself if I give great advice. But they do say it is better to find advice from someone else...even therapists have a therapist.....
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F Dec 31, 2010

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    That's What People Tell Me...

    Funny how the person who's never been in a relationship is the one people go to for advice on relationships. =/ I guess it's mainly because I'm a good listener and don't judge people. I try to listen to both sides of the story and don't take sides even if it the person asking...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F Dec 30, 2010

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    I Hope I Do

    I trust in Jesus and God the Father of Jesus.  Knowing the right words to say is difficult.  Stop before spilling your guts in advice.  Gather your thoughts and temper the advice with love.I can only hope that my words are what the other person needs for comfort.
    JimmyDean001 JimmyDean001 70+, M 1 Response Sep 25, 2011

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    Help Me!!! I Need Advice

    I started dating this new man. Hes wonderful, until I found out what he does. We started dating 2 months ago, we do what dating people do, we go out have a nice time and we do that at home minus the sex. I go on Facebook, MySpace and other websites to see that hes a...
    AznSstarr AznSstarr 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 6, 2012

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    Is He Is Or Is He Ain't?

    So...I was up until 5am this moring helping a friend with an issue. She's been living with a guy for about a year now and she's 9 months pregnant. They haven't known each other very long and it's very obvious it's not L-O-V-E. Anywho...she comes to me and says she wants my...
    seeker25801 seeker25801 41-45, M 10 Responses Apr 17, 2007

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    Related Experiences

    I appreciate when a friend gives me helpful advice. It is amazing what a difference it can make. First, to have a friend; Second to have a smart and empathetic friend; and Third...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M Nov 8

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    So my ex boyfriend wants to commit to me and move in together maybe by my house, but I currently have a bf who is 20 yrs old, I am 23, so it's a big difference because he's barely...
    txblank91 txblank91 22-25, F Nov 2

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    In my relationship I don't feel or think I'm happy. I don't want to hurt him but I don't think I can do this :/ why? Because 1) it's moving too fast 2) he doesn't take pictures...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 14

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    So I'm 20 & my ex is 25 I know it's kinda a big age difference but I thought it would be nice to date someone that has their life together and knows what he wants but I was wrong...
    Linaa29 Linaa29 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I need relationship advice badly. So my bf and i have been dating for a 2 months now and we have gotten very intamite. But the only thing is he wants to go further and i want this...
    lost12unit lost12unit 13-15, M 3 Responses Nov 16

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    Today, my class received great relationship advice about casual dating from my 70+ year old History sub. Apparently if you like someone enough, you will want to "hook up and then...
    BloodofAmara BloodofAmara 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 13

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    Can someone please give me some advice
    yeahis18 yeahis18 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am so ******* tired of my family. I'm 15 and I'm stressed. I should not be stressed! I feel like a house wife. My mom's lazy, my step dad is ******* sorry, my little brother is...
    hexpinkxthat hexpinkxthat 13-15, M 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I will write the story as I see it. And if anyone can give me insight. Please let me know. First, I started dating or seeing someone while they were in a relationship. (Horrible I...
    aainfamous aainfamous 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    So this is new... Something that a lot of people probably don't hear a lot and to be fair, I don't know why it is either... But here it goes... I have been in 4 relationships so...
    sancarn sancarn 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    To me, the answer is simple- I love him, I want him, and I would do anything for him. Our connection makes me feel things I've never felt before, and literally makes my whole body...
    brittersnicole brittersnicole 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 27

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    December 28th of this year will mark 3 years for me and my boyfriend/father of my daughter... It's been ALONG 3 years too. Our relationship as any started off perfect, we were in...
    trustgod0713 trustgod0713 22-25 Oct 29

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    iv been in abusive relationship and It took me awhile to leave it .I carried that persom into my relationship ship now.It has ruined the relationship between me and my boyfriend...
    theobserver5 theobserver5 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 11

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    I'm ok as long as Im not alone I don't see anything that reminds me of him I don't see anything about relationships People don't try n comfort me People don't talk about him
    bigca1697 bigca1697 16-17, F 39 mins ago

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    Here's a rundown of why I'm so lost right now. Been with this wonderful woman for 9 months, with the 10th rapidly approaching. We've been through a lot in this 9 months. To put in...
    supermario1256 supermario1256 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Normally I vent, I express myself, or really seek out people who understand where I'm coming from with my experiences. This post is about advice about dysfunctional families, and...
    KelseyLeigh123 KelseyLeigh123 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 18

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    I dated this lady for about two months and we shared everything about our lives and each other with one another. Then she drove 3 hours down to my home on 11-14-14 to spend the...
    wjk1849 wjk1849 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 15

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    I won't give him up, but I might have too. ------ Here's the story: Alright. I know I might be judged severely. But I am 15 years old and I'm in love with a 23 year old man. He has...
    cydneyxx cydneyxx 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hi, I really need your advice because I'm a bit confused and rattled. I was with my boyfriend for about 6 months when we first met everything was great, we laughed so much and had...
    Rainrebel Rainrebel 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 28

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    I couldn't stand the pain of my brokenheart anymore. i was married to this man for almost 9 years and we have a son. my dilemma? we were living apart from each other for that whole...
    kiryll kiryll 26-30, F Nov 11

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    I don't understand why people feel like they should talk about their relationships with me, especially if it's not going well. I can't give you any helpful advice because I have...
    IndecisiveLateBloomer IndecisiveLateBloomer 18-21, F 3 days ago

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