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I Give Fantastic Relationship Advice

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    I Here!!!

    Mostly everybody that knows me pretty well comes to me for advice. I have always helped someone that needed guidance, or just needed to know what to do. I've never had a problem with helping people. Most people take my advice, and most of the time, benefit from it. I may be a bit...
    Juli3b3ar Juli3b3ar 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2013

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    Trying To Understand Confusing Behavior!

    Hi there, I'm hoping to get some advice from the "Fantastic Advice Givers" in this group. :-) I'm trying to understand someone's behavior towards me, and I'm getting nowhere with it. My friends suggestions are only making things more confusing at the moment...so I would like some...
    Phyla Phyla 26-30, F Feb 12, 2012

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    I Guess...

    I guess I tend to give good relationship advice on certain kinds of issues. I wouldn't go as far as saying it's fantastic advice, I mean I've only ever been in one relationship (which I am still in now), so I haven't gone through much in the lines of break ups and such.  But I...
    ForgottenCelestria ForgottenCelestria 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    Feeling Left Out

     i feel like i have no one i can trust no one i can actually talk to at all   i am in a relationship with a man i utterly die for would do anything for him but i feel as though i am giving everything and yet i am being left out and alone when he has stuff to do  ...
    jessfoulds jessfoulds 22-25 2 Responses Jul 14, 2009

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    And I Follow It Too!

    People talk about how they give good relationship advice but can't follow it. Screw that! What better relationship advisor than myself if I give great advice. But they do say it is better to find advice from someone else...even therapists have a therapist.....
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F Dec 31, 2010

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    Heart Vs Brain

    Heart knows how to heal. The challenge is how to quit the mind.
    Warrior4 Warrior4 26-30, M Nov 12, 2013

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    Can I Ask For Advice?

    Any tips for re-gaining control of my relationship? Hi, I was wondering if I could ask for some advice about being more assertive and taking control of my relationship. I'm the stereotypical 'nice' partner and it drives my girlfriend nuts - she wants to be feel more challenged...
    LifeInTechnicolour LifeInTechnicolour 22-25 1 Response May 3, 2011

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    Yet I've Never Been In One

    I used to spend my years, and still do, watching people obsesively. I learned a lot of what human nature's basic form is with our minds, and it wasn't too hard after that too figure out how a relationship works well. I don't like people touching me, and don't have many friends in...
    queer4clockwork queer4clockwork 18-21 1 Response Nov 14, 2011

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    That's What People Tell Me...

    Funny how the person who's never been in a relationship is the one people go to for advice on relationships. =/ I guess it's mainly because I'm a good listener and don't judge people. I try to listen to both sides of the story and don't take sides even if it the person asking...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F Dec 30, 2010

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    How Absurd.

    I am very self-destructive in my taste in men and I don't make a good girlfriend at all. But for whatever reason, I have the uncanny ability of seeing through other people's bullshit and explaining how they can either salvage or develop their own relationships:  romantic...
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 7, 2008

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    </3 He Loves Me Not

    I was with mark. for awhile, then he wanted sex, i told him no, "im 12 god damnit i would NEVER have sex at my age." i turned him down, and he left me, and i miss him i thought he loved me for me not for sex and i cant believe he would do this i know i shouldnt miss him....but i...
    Cod348 Cod348 13-15, M Apr 2, 2012

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    Love Of My Life, Moves

    My boyfriend Mark, He is the love of my, i recently found out over the summer, there is a great possibility for him to move to Colorado. Ill lose him and i am not sure what to do without him. I NEED HELP
    Cod348 Cod348 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 28, 2012

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    Ladies place your heart in the hands of God

    and He will place it in the hands of a man who deserves it
    4evamaureen 4evamaureen 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    if you are not happy single you wont be happy

    taken happiness comes from within not fro a man or a woman
    4evamaureen 4evamaureen 22-25, F May 16

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    Advice?

    My boyfriend and I are complete opposites. I'm 22, I've been helping to support my single mother and younger sister since I was 15. I feel like I'm really mature for my age. I want to experience as much of life as possible. Hes a recovering alcoholic/drug addict. Hes incredibly...
    Rachel5252 Rachel5252 22-25, F 1 Response May 31, 2012

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    But, Who Listens?

     I've made all the mistakes you can and learned from them. It's easy to tell someone what they might try to fix things but doing them yourself is much harder.  Advice is cheap.
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 8 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    And I Follow It Too!

    People talk about how they give good relationship advice but can't follow it. Screw that! What better relationship advisor than myself if I give great advice. But they do say it is better to find advice from someone else...even therapists have a therapist.....
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2010

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    Is He Is Or Is He Ain't?

    So...I was up until 5am this moring helping a friend with an issue. She's been living with a guy for about a year now and she's 9 months pregnant. They haven't known each other very long and it's very obvious it's not L-O-V-E. Anywho...she comes to me and says she wants my...
    seeker25801 seeker25801 41-45, M 10 Responses Apr 17, 2007

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    I Don't Really Know How...

    Whenever my friends start talking about relationship problems they keep turning to me for advice. I don't really know how it happened, but I somehow became the guru for relationships, friendships and problem solving. I'm fine with the latter two, even if I am highly antisocial...
    akrakomatia akrakomatia 18-21, F Aug 17, 2013

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    I Do.....

    But why can't I ever use my own advice.......easier said than done I guess.
    Shonda Shonda 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2010

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    Love& Relationships

    me and my beautiful boricua man have knowing each other 4 10-yrs. and have been dating for 2 yrs. he went over seas in kuwait 4 1&6 months he is now back home he works as a contractor on an army base. he is not a phone person so he calls whenever he is always busy @work and...
    cocola cocola 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 20, 2007

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    I've read some of the questions asked on this

    topic and a lot of the advice given are not 'Fantastic'!! Sorry to say. The reason why I've ticked this one is because I have been cheated on, done the cheating, know how it feels like to be the man and the women on both sides, know what it feels like to have a broken heart...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart 26-30, F Apr 20

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    I Hope I Do

    I trust in Jesus and God the Father of Jesus.  Knowing the right words to say is difficult.  Stop before spilling your guts in advice.  Gather your thoughts and temper the advice with love.I can only hope that my words are what the other person needs for comfort.
    JimmyDean001 JimmyDean001 70+, M 1 Response Sep 25, 2011

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    Help Me!!! I Need Advice

    I started dating this new man. Hes wonderful, until I found out what he does. We started dating 2 months ago, we do what dating people do, we go out have a nice time and we do that at home minus the sex. I go on Facebook, MySpace and other websites to see that hes a...
    AznSstarr AznSstarr 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 6, 2012

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    I don't know if my advice is fantastic,

    and not to come across a know it all....I have been through a lot of stuff in relationships, from the good to the bad, and the bad that most people would not survive... I can relate to most things that happen in relationships... so I like to help and encourage, help people...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Apr 16

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    Related Experiences

    I have been dating this guy for six months. This is my first more serious relationship after a previous twelve year relationship. Embarrassed to say I did meet this guy online. We...
    suzy0118 suzy0118 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 21

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    I don't even know where to start. I need some serious advice and no jokes ppl please. This sounds crazy and maybe even unbelievable, but I fell in love with a 30 yr old guy and I'm...
    strixerX strixerX 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Find 2 people who are in a stable, happy relationship which is like the one you aspire to be in. Look at why they are in a relationship. They are not in a relationship because...
    sancarn sancarn 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    hi. never done this before so not sure what to expect? I'm 20 years old, and in a relationship with a 37 year old man. He's so lovely but the obvious concerns me. I'm sensible and...
    minniex minniex 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I've been with this guy on and off for about three years and I keep telling myself I'm not in love with him. He leaves me for other girls and then when that relationship is over he...
    Maq98 Maq98 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    5 months ago I started talking to this guy I knew from Facebook, we talked about the most stupid things but I was also there if he needed me and he was there for me too. We got...
    123anotherme 123anotherme 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I want to know if I am doing the right thing or am I over analyzing the situation... Been with my man for three years but doesn't seem to see how his actions affect me or those...
    Kymen Kymen 22-25, F Jul 14

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    I like giving love advice to all of my friends...
    Harukami Harukami 16-17, F Jul 19

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    I'm in love and have fallen for a beautiful man. It's still only early days and we have been together for 5 months. We talk openly about everything and love each other. The...
    Monstamonie Monstamonie 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I might leave my husband he cheated ! He was in a relationship with several other woman ! I can't deal my heart feels trapped should I try or just walk away I don't know if this is...
    Justhearmeout Justhearmeout 31-35, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Im so confused, frustrated, remorseful and sad. I dont know how to help my boyfriend we have been together for a year but i really hurt him:( i betrayed him and he found out and i...
    Dana93y Dana93y 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Age Is Just A Number. 💯 💯💯
    shaunyy0911 shaunyy0911 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 2

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    i have a lot on my mind and ive been through some stuff throughout my life but ive been with my current boyfriend for almost 2 years and i think its all starting to fall apart...
    AmIAllAlone1996 AmIAllAlone1996 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    My recent ex put me threw a lot he was sweet at times and I really fell in love with him sometimes I think he only did it for the sex but then again at times he abuses me and...
    Haayyyythere Haayyyythere 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. I want to be with him so bad but I feel him drifting. We argue a lot and he tells me he doesn't know what he's doing...
    PrincessColon9712 PrincessColon9712 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Okay so I really don't take rejection well , when someone says no I fall back like wayyyyyyy back and I block the other person out and stuff can someone help me get over this...
    Haayyyythere Haayyyythere 13-15, F Jul 18

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    1. Find a girl 2. If you think she/he likes you it's just your imagination 3. Lay down in fetal position 4. Try not to cry 5. Cry a lot
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M 4 Responses Jul 20

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    How would you feel if you have expressed to your mate that you Feel excluded from their life and the very next day you wake up after they were supposed to be leaving to go to work...
    imireallyhere23 imireallyhere23 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    The girl I call myself so in love with makes me feel so worthless etc.........I want to understand why she does this to me ..
    c561 c561 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    My boyfriend is In the army and we are young and in love. I miss him and I don't know how to deal with these feelings and not being able to talk for weeks or months at a time.
    armystronggirlfriend54 armystronggirlfriend54 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Okie so there's this guy (which sounds weird cuz were so close but anyway) who I have known for about 5 years now and I go over to his house all the time and we're really close...
    CooCooAchoo CooCooAchoo 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Okay I hate to sound like 'that girl' but I actually am in huge need of relationship advice. Honestly, I will take anything, I just need someone to talk to because this feeling of...
    Dancedancedance Dancedancedance 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    But I cant take my own advice and practice it... why does this happen? My friends say I am a good listener and always give them good advice but here I am feeling stupid and wasting...
    msmari27 msmari27 26-30, F Jul 20

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    My group of friends call me "The Mother of Advice". They say I always give the best advice about anything without judgement. If you EVER need advice just feel free to ask me!
    JaydenH JaydenH 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Wats the worst relationship advice u ever took
    acebaby16 acebaby16 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago