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I Give People What They Want

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    I Try To Give People What They Want

    I try to give people what they want  except if it is something I can't afford.   I also sell items people order.  They usually order what they want.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Jan 7, 2012

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    Well, At Least I Try to

      It's rare for me to actually succeed. But I never show the pain from failing yet again. No, must never show pain. That lesson I learned well. So in a way I give people in my life exactly what they want..... No reasons to ever worry about me. I keep all pain inside, &...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 5, 2009

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    Even Though I Don't Want T...

    Even though I don't want to I feel to much pressure when I disappoint someone. So I still give them what they want. Not a good habbit....
    linda linda 21-25, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2007

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    Give People What They Want and End Up Loosing Out In the End

    I guess I became a people pleaser when I was young. I have realized that no matter how hard i try to please my mom that it won't happen in this life time.  This has carried over to trying to please every body all the time and has left me in a tail spin cause by trying...
    RNgypsy RNgypsy 46-50 1 Response Mar 16, 2009

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    Trying to Stop, Though.

    I did it for my parents for a long time, at the cost of my developing identity and self-respect. Now I just do it out of habit, and from the paralyzing fear that someone might (essentially) reject me if I don't. As much as I did it for parents and other authority figures or...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F Mar 3, 2008

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    Sometimes - But Not Usually.&n...

    sometimes - but not usually.  give them what they want and they will always come back.  But then am I really being myself?  I believe there has to be a balance of giving and taking to really get along peacefully in the world.
    thatweirdromanguy thatweirdromanguy 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 22, 2007

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    Whenever I Can

    I enjoy helping others. If there is something I can do at whatever cost to myself I have always done it. I have recently been trying to remedy this situation focusing more on myself. In my head I consider this to be selfish but others keep telling me that its not. So although I...
    Xeno Xeno 26-30, M 4 Responses Aug 21, 2007

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    Make Ppl Happy

    I love to make everyone happy even though it's causes me pain....
    roshalogud roshalogud 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2011

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    I Have a Big Problem Saying Th...

    I have a big problem saying the word no.  And most of the people around me won't take no for an answer.  So it seems like most of the time I'm coersed into saying yes anyway.  I think I have difficulty saying no because I want to seem like a friendly and helpful...
    theophania theophania 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 22, 2007

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    ::smirk::

    sometimes, just because i can, i WON'T give people what i know they want. :)  
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter 26-30, F 13 Responses Mar 3, 2008

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    I Give People What They Want

     every time someone askes me to do something i cant help but say yes cause i have problems with people disapproving of my life and choses so if a freind told me to brake up with a guy cause they dont like him i would
    Anjelibean Anjelibean 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 8, 2007

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    **** people that think they know what is best for me, if my parents knew me as well as they thought they did, then I wouldn't be going to college because they want me too. It's...
    Lateralus07 Lateralus07 18-21, M Aug 26

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    I love for a guy to tell me what they want to do to me it's so hot ... With text it's sexy and on the phone it's crazy hot.
    blondeprincess17 blondeprincess17 18-21, F Aug 24

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    Well, this is obviously a lie. I mean, there'd be few people to claim they accept Hitler, Pol-Pot or Stalin as they are, or for what they are. And those that do, well, they don't...
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 26

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    Okay I'm a college student so I'm WAY past the whole "school bullying" business because everyone here minds his/her own business. However, I've had my fair share. All the way from...
    alviseb alviseb 16-17, M Sep 11

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    My mother and grandmother always raised me to believe that your looks were everything. If you weren't skinny,then to them you weren't pretty. You couldn't be "fat","ugly",have no...
    Danibugg262 Danibugg262 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    Too many people say they have depression. But really they are just sad or lonely. If they had it a Dr. would prescribe them a treatment (like I am on. I have to take an...
    Ravenbrook Ravenbrook 18-21, M Sep 2

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    it's the best every guy can have....acting gives you the power of doing whatever you want........im an actor and happy of that,,,,,,,,,,hey my world is AWESOME :) i love love it
    jernalpersh jernalpersh 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    And mean what they say.After all actions speak louder than words.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I feel better about myself as a whole. I am doing well in school, have found something I am passionate for as a career, have a stable family(s), and feel happy. All of a sudden...
    SereneSolidarity SereneSolidarity 18-21, M Sep 9

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    I want to have a house with glass roof above my drawing room so I can look at the stars in the nightsky. Together with my cat Garfield and dog, Optimus. On weekends, we'll drive...
    gaeainchaos gaeainchaos 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I have never felt this excited about what I want to do. I was set on becoming a doctor and if not doctor I had no idea what I wanted to be. Taking journalism and a photography...
    layswhyfe layswhyfe 18-21 Sep 4

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    I'm about to be 36 (hard for me to fathom how this can really be) and I'm taking stock of where I am in life. I have watched my peers from my elementary and high school years grow...
    SaudadeVirgo SaudadeVirgo 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    I know what I want IN my life.
    goodman72 goodman72 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    Mainly because im not attractive. Im never really "shocked" When people say it though. I just deny it and blush like crazy. When I look at myself I find myself ugly so I don't know...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    I've only held one grudge and that's towards my mums brother and his son; my cousin. Although I was in the wrong I was happy to talk about the issue I realised they weren't the...
    heyitsabike heyitsabike 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I recently had a fight with a close friend and now she hates me and all the people I knew that knew here hate me now. I am often alone and now my friends who don't even know her...
    Cheshirecupacat Cheshirecupacat 16-17 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm straightforward and I like people be as straightforward as they can, not just saying things for the sake of politeness 'cause....THAT IS ANNOYING! I don't want to spend my time...
    Naturalsimple Naturalsimple 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    it is very hard to accept people as who they are because for one thing, there are a lot of different kinds of people in the world. the concept of good and evil varies from...
    Ryel004F Ryel004F 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I've actually even found that people who are a little 'off' make better friends than popular people. I guess since they know what its like to be the one left out, and have the...
    Almostanonymous Almostanonymous 22-25, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Think before you speak, I hold on to every word you say to me. Everything that spills out of your mouth means something and I analyze it for hours and try to figure you out but it...
    aliensexist12 aliensexist12 22-25, F Aug 20

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    Why the hell should I care about what other people have, it doesn't mean that they're actually happy with it. I used to envy people who's had their father in their lives but then I...
    CosplayPotato CosplayPotato 13-15, F Sep 2

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    It get on my nerves when people call me a crack baby and act condescending towards me like a child. Why do they keep blaming my parents because the way I dress and act differently...
    sham17 sham17 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    One of the secrets to happiness is to be content with what you have been blessed with. There will always be someone with more. I am happy for my friends with blessed lives. I...
    kwarner kwarner 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I don't judge - what I see is what I get. If you show me who you really are, I'll believe you. However you come into my life, that's how I'll accept you, I don't believe in...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    It really saddens me so much, here I am, so excited waiting for your reply and it can take weeks, months to reply and sometimes you don't even reply at all. I met so many people on...
    Resoner Resoner 18-21, M 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    hello I have been on EP for a while now. I have posted this before but I would like to take the chance for those who are new and haven't read my posts yet or for a while. I will...
    thehelpfulone thehelpfulone 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    So, I'm one of those jerks with more than one EP account :,( I promise it's only because I can't for the life of me get back into my other after my little hiatus! Anyhoo, it...
    SexxyNinja SexxyNinja 18-21, F 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    When I grow up, I want to be in a series of abusive relationships, do some softcore **** and then move back in with my mom. Kids, anything is possible. I am living the dream...
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I don't care what you look like really chop it up with me you'll just what I'm saying
    NyCeGuY4URdreamzz NyCeGuY4URdreamzz 22-25, M Aug 24

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    ive really come to the decision that ive had enough. if it wasnt for my kids I would of ended it months ago. my bf lets his family, 2exs and his 2kids treat me like dirt. it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Sep 5

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    I really do, except for Christians as they are unworthy people who do not fight back during our raids.
    RagnarLodbrok RagnarLodbrok 41-45, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    I accept the fact that people are either azzholes or they aren't. It's not my job to change them, so I accept that.
    gtownguy gtownguy 51-55, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Not only does it surprise me when those of both genders say I'm attractive, but the fact that when they feel my skin or touch my hair, they are mesmerized by the feel. Apparently...
    JohnBobMac JohnBobMac 16-17, T Aug 19

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    I accept people but why don't thy accept me?
    rushman5 rushman5 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    "Be who you are. And say what you feel. Because those who mind don't matter. And those who matter don't mind." -Dr. Seuss
    InhuldibleCrelk InhuldibleCrelk 36-40 3 Responses Aug 25

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    I'll start complaining or ranting or describing my day or whatever you wanna call it and I feel like that's all I tend to do lately and I feel like i'm annoying the hell out of my...
    AlphaOmega007 AlphaOmega007 16-17, F Aug 27

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    People are all different aha no point trying to make us all the same. However acceptance doesn't mean like lol.Althoug hI can accept you are unique, it wont sotp me thinking your a...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 5

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