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I Going Through a Divorce, Right Now

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    Had The First 4 Way Meeting

    I arrived early and so did my wife.  Suck in a tiny room with a women the i still love but I can see feels uncomfortable sitting here with me.  Small talk started by me and the rest of the time we each spent walking outside.  We discussed the house, the bills, and the children...
    michael4480 michael4480 36-40, M 4 Responses Jul 21, 2011

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    Waiting For Divorce

    My marriage fell apart two years ago when my husband said it was over two months after our 30th anniversiery. Last May he physically abused me, I left the home with my 16yr. old. He was told to file for a divorce since he wanted out but he never did so Oct. one month before ...
    Sportsmom1 Sportsmom1 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2009

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    So Confused......

    I made the decision last month to leave my husband. I spent weeks thinking, making sure I was doing the right thing. I so much as got my own apartment n moved halfway out. Now, after 12 years he sees what he did to me, and that it was wrong. I begged n pleaded to counseling but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 18, 2013

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    Hardest Thing In My Life ...

    It's funny what you consider challenging. Making a marriage work - being willing to sacrifice everything to keep this afloat - that is what I considered challenging. Having your husband give you and your child up for drinking and drugs - that topped everything on my list...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 19, 2009

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    It's not really me it's my parents .

    I am not heart broken over it because I hate my step father. He has done nothing but cause me pain and suffering mentally and then he moves my mom and I . But the ironic part he only moved us because he wanted to be closer to his girlfriend. Yeah! He was cheating on my mom this...
    annirawrmuffin annirawrmuffin 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 9, 2014

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    This is my first actual posting.

    I was married for six years and have been with him for 8 years. My heart is pretty broken right now but I have been trying to focus on the next steps for my life. I am really happy that things will be final and over next month. He keeps posting on Facebook that divorce is easy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 7

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    What Should I Do?

    I have been married for 45 years. I got married 6 months out of high school. We went together 2 years before getting married. I knew there would be problems because he drank a lot even then. I loved him and thought marriage would take care of all our problems ( how is that for...
    jasmine64 jasmine64 61-65 2 Responses Jun 22, 2011

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    Divorce After 26 Years Of Marriage...

    Feb. 8th, 2010 my husband of 25 years told me he didn't love me anymore and that he was done! My whole world fell apart and my heart shattered. A couple of days before this I had found him and his employee in kennel with a new lock on top of inside door, and when he finally came...
    lillianmiller11 lillianmiller11 51-55 3 Responses Jan 5, 2011

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    Happening Soon

    My wife and I have been having issues connecting it felt like we were roommates for about 6mos.  Last week we went to Cancun with friends and I thought to reconnect.  We held hands once and she cried on my shoulder once.  We have been married 15yrs and last night something...
    o8o5 o8o5 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 17, 2011

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    Divorce After 40 Years Of Marriage

    It is quite a shock to discover that after what I thought was a good marriage for 40 years I am now faced with a divorce. I know each case is different but I find it extremely hard to come to terms with. I have raised two children who are both married with children and my husband...
    MARIETJIEP MARIETJIEP 56-60, F 13 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    Here we are less than two weeks from the

    divorce. We have a settlement conference next Wednesday. He says we have they set just in case we need it because our attorneys are forcing us to do that. Now he says we can talk about us. He wants to discuss what we both want as in our marriage. I have my doubts only...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 1 Response May 19

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    Today'S The Day

    After 12 years of an emotionless marriage, amongst some other types of abuse, I'm moving out. I sign my lease today. It's amazing how the person that was suppose to love and cherish you forever is the one that hurts you the worst. Hardest thing I've ever done, I believe it's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    Been best friends 20 years,

    together 16, married 11. We have a 5 and 8 year old. On NYE we talked through divorce arrangements. I initiated but am devastated and don't want this, but we have tried and tried. He's going through mid life crisis, doesn't know what he wants - just that it's not this; not me...
    differentdrummer78 differentdrummer78 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    Another 26 Years

    My hubby told me he wasn't happy for a few years.  I ignored it.  I wasn't at  times also, but made a covenant for better or worse.  I felt we were in the worse.  I worked so hard at this marriage, it was my lifes career.  We had decided I would stay home and raise our...
    LhasaX2 LhasaX2 46-50 2 Responses Jul 17, 2011

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    a mutual decision but still sad experience

    after 20 years together. We are trying to do this with love and respect especially with our two children in mind!
    islandgirl31 islandgirl31 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 12, 2014

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    Last Saturday, 3/14/15,

    my husband if 8 years and I decided we need to move on. We both tried and tried and we are both good people. However, we can not get along. Just another proof that sometimes love is not enough. I have no doubt at some point in our lives we were so much in love. Love remains but...
    purpletearsfall purpletearsfall 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I want him to come back everyday

    but then there is the rare moment where I get so angry I say **** him. he kicked me out and ignores me so **** him he was never worth the pain I suffered.
    SMcCL SMcCL 22-25, F 1 Response May 21

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    I am 23 and divorced sadly.

    my husband left me after my father left my mother, my ex has Asperger and can to the conclusion that because his parents are divorced ands know my parents are divorcing we would inevitability divorce, despite my protect that we are not our parents we were married on new years...
    lonelyASgrlfrnd lonelyASgrlfrnd 22-25, F Dec 21, 2014

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    My Husband Wants A Divorce

    I have been married for almost 12 years (Jan is our anniversary). We have 3 kids (13, 9 and 7). My husband has been out of work for a year and he just recently sat by his dad's side for weeks watching him die. When he came back home after being away for 5-6 weeks. I knew there...
    HSteinhauer HSteinhauer 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 2, 2009

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    I Don't Want This To End................

    10 weeks ago my wife took my children and with a note on the table for me to read when i got home from work, and left.  We talk only about the children.  She doesn't want to go to counseling.  I already received paper work.  I am so devastated.  My mind is consumed with her...
    michael4480 michael4480 36-40, M 7 Responses Jul 1, 2011

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    you don't know what i am going through
    GirlyCasey123 GirlyCasey123 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I don't know what to do friends. I'm so tired of feeling like I'm going to cry after every thought. Things just keep bringing me back to what could I have changed before it all...
    rnwytrain85 rnwytrain85 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am now currently going trough a horrible breakup. I was with with my girlfriend for almost two years and she broke up with me today. I've stayed inside almost all day and didn't...
    swsluver swsluver 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I feel like crap. I am so sad and frustrated and alone. I hate myself right now and I don't even have the strength to cry. I don't really have friends, definitely not close friends...
    namelessentity namelessentity 13-15, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was with this guy for 5 years (I am 24, he is 28)I had known him for 7. We started out as best friends. We met on Valentine's Day, had the same birthdays, lived in the same...
    NatashandAres NatashandAres 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It's been one month since she left me. I get to see the kids a lot but it's not the same. She has already moved on with her life and it's just a matter of time before she finds the...
    rnwytrain85 rnwytrain85 26-30, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am asking for divorce to my wife but she is bent upon not to leave me.. Sleep have no relation in any way.. She don't stay with me.. But still every time I ask her for divorce...
    Ravidesai Ravidesai 41-45, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's been 4 days since I broke up with my ex.. I was feeling really positive and strong but now I'm starting to feel depressed and sad and I don't want to feel this way.. I...
    Victoriaa95 Victoriaa95 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F a week ago

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    I feel my boyfriend is going to break up with me. I am so upset and distraught because he said I was his girl and that he would never ever leave me.. but this morning, he told me...
    kissmequick14 kissmequick14 41-45, F a week ago

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    Well, it's all over. After a month and a half of torture by telling me it could work out and then telling me it wouldn't, he finally ended things. I am relieved because now I have...
    WhoIsTroy WhoIsTroy 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    When we had to go for her biopsy, I kept telling people that it was probably not cancer. It couldn't be. The doctor said it didn't look like cancer so I held on to that. I knew...
    Demonizer Demonizer 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I have never found self pity to be a helpful friend, and it won't be for you.. .I call you to manhood, to embrace the hard things in life for they are how God trains us to be...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M Jul 19

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    I have been sick. The doctor cant diagnose the root of it. My primary doctor never sent over the labs. I have to retake the labs all over. I am tired of lab work. Answers would he...
    baprel26 baprel26 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    I just broke up with my boyfriend today, we've been together for nearly 3 years but the last 6 months or so have been horrible, he hasn't treated me right and he's very selfish...
    Victoriaa95 Victoriaa95 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I am new to being separated only a few weeks in and it has been one hell of an emotional roller coaster. My husband has been going on a down spiral for a while now and I been...
    KETKAT25 KETKAT25 26-30, F Jul 16

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    My girlfriend who I met on here just broke up with me.I fell deeply in love with her.She didn't.I gave her all my love.And I found out she just said that she loved me just to be...
    spidergrrr spidergrrr 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    ultacc11 ultacc11 26-30, F Jul 16

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    aylinacc11 aylinacc11 26-30, F Jul 16

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    You push and push and push. I tried to change and be the better person in the back of the cop car in cuffs again. This is the last straw. You have lied, You have used me. But its...
    KiraRawr KiraRawr 16-17, F Jul 15

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    Me and my boyfriend broke up in January, it wasn't a bad break up he is just younger than me and after several pointless arguments he called it a day, I don't think he was ready...
    sb99 sb99 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    Letting Go. So the final day at our old house is tomorrow. It was supposed to be a house of new memories, new opportunities, and new beginnings. Seven years later and we're...
    mg75 mg75 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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