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I Going Through a Divorce, Right Now

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 67 People

    Waiting For Divorce

    My marriage fell apart two years ago when my husband said it was over two months after our 30th anniversiery. Last May he physically abused me, I left the home with my 16yr. old. He was told to file for a divorce since he wanted out but he never did so Oct. one month before ...
    Sportsmom1 Sportsmom1 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2009

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    Today'S The Day

    After 12 years of an emotionless marriage, amongst some other types of abuse, I'm moving out. I sign my lease today. It's amazing how the person that was suppose to love and cherish you forever is the one that hurts you the worst. Hardest thing I've ever done, I believe it's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    I Don't Want This To End................

    10 weeks ago my wife took my children and with a note on the table for me to read when i got home from work, and left.  We talk only about the children.  She doesn't want to go to counseling.  I already received paper work.  I am so devastated.  My mind is consumed with her...
    michael4480 michael4480 36-40, M 7 Responses Jul 1, 2011

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    My Husband Wants A Divorce

    I have been married for almost 12 years (Jan is our anniversary). We have 3 kids (13, 9 and 7). My husband has been out of work for a year and he just recently sat by his dad's side for weeks watching him die. When he came back home after being away for 5-6 weeks. I knew there...
    HSteinhauer HSteinhauer 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 2, 2009

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    Hardest Thing In My Life ...

    It's funny what you consider challenging. Making a marriage work - being willing to sacrifice everything to keep this afloat - that is what I considered challenging. Having your husband give you and your child up for drinking and drugs - that topped everything on my list...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 19, 2009

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    What Should I Do?

    I have been married for 45 years. I got married 6 months out of high school. We went together 2 years before getting married. I knew there would be problems because he drank a lot even then. I loved him and thought marriage would take care of all our problems ( how is that for...
    jasmine64 jasmine64 61-65 2 Responses Jun 22, 2011

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    It's not really me it's my parents .

    I am not heart broken over it because I hate my step father. He has done nothing but cause me pain and suffering mentally and then he moves my mom and I . But the ironic part he only moved us because he wanted to be closer to his girlfriend. Yeah! He was cheating on my mom this...
    annirawrmuffin annirawrmuffin 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Happening Soon

    My wife and I have been having issues connecting it felt like we were roommates for about 6mos.  Last week we went to Cancun with friends and I thought to reconnect.  We held hands once and she cried on my shoulder once.  We have been married 15yrs and last night something...
    o8o5 o8o5 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 17, 2011

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    Another 26 Years

    My hubby told me he wasn't happy for a few years.  I ignored it.  I wasn't at  times also, but made a covenant for better or worse.  I felt we were in the worse.  I worked so hard at this marriage, it was my lifes career.  We had decided I would stay home and raise our...
    LhasaX2 LhasaX2 46-50 1 Response Jul 17, 2011

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    Had The First 4 Way Meeting

    I arrived early and so did my wife.  Suck in a tiny room with a women the i still love but I can see feels uncomfortable sitting here with me.  Small talk started by me and the rest of the time we each spent walking outside.  We discussed the house, the bills, and the children...
    michael4480 michael4480 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 21, 2011

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    a mutual decision but still sad experience

    after 20 years together. We are trying to do this with love and respect especially with our two children in mind!
    islandgirl31 islandgirl31 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 12

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    Divorce After 26 Years Of Marriage...

    Feb. 8th, 2010 my husband of 25 years told me he didn't love me anymore and that he was done! My whole world fell apart and my heart shattered. A couple of days before this I had found him and his employee in kennel with a new lock on top of inside door, and when he finally came...
    lillianmiller11 lillianmiller11 51-55 3 Responses Jan 5, 2011

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    Divorce After 40 Years Of Marriage

    It is quite a shock to discover that after what I thought was a good marriage for 40 years I am now faced with a divorce. I know each case is different but I find it extremely hard to come to terms with. I have raised two children who are both married with children and my husband...
    MARIETJIEP MARIETJIEP 56-60, F 13 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    So Confused......

    I made the decision last month to leave my husband. I spent weeks thinking, making sure I was doing the right thing. I so much as got my own apartment n moved halfway out. Now, after 12 years he sees what he did to me, and that it was wrong. I begged n pleaded to counseling but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 18, 2013

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    Going through a Nast divorce and still live with my controlling ex. He won't leave!
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    I have been married to my wonderful, amazing husband for almost two years now and we have been together for 5. I love him with all my heart and divorce is not an option with us...
    cowinapartyhat cowinapartyhat 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    I got off Prozac 10mg after weaning off it over 9 months. Seems crazy right? I thought I was doing it the right way to avoid withdrawals. I took my last dose September 2, 2014. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 26

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    there is this someone that i need to talk to right now, i am feeling so depressed, or not depressed, more like emotionally worn up,,, adding to the fact that i have been missing...
    iamnoor iamnoor 13-15, F Dec 1

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    It was a year and 2 and half months ago, when my life changed dramatically. I found someone who brought out the best of me emotionally and academically and started a relationship...
    roseperezx3 roseperezx3 18-21, F Dec 3

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    I've been M.I.A from E.P. for a while due to the fact that I'm going through some current health issues of my own. I've been suffering from lower back pain for a while now but...
    Marianna2nd2none Marianna2nd2none 31-35, F Nov 21

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    I wish that i had someone that i could talk to. I am the one that people talk to about their problems. But i don't think anyone cares about me, what I'm going through. i just broke...
    sjf1993 sjf1993 18-21, M Dec 6

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    I feel like I'm just suffocating more and more... Tonight I heard things I didn't wanna hear... I feel like I'm the only one right now drowning... He's with her tonight and I'm...
    shawneysbroken shawneysbroken 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    Right now, I am thinking about suicide. I thought I was going to have a good day today but it ended up bad. Today, I cleaned up the whole house for my mom. I knew she would be...
    WeirdOtaku WeirdOtaku 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 20

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    Everything was going fine; the day was good. Got Subway. I love that stuff. Played some Evil Within. Awesome freakin' game. Even watched some kick *** Lexx. Then I got into talking...
    LilacEyez LilacEyez 22-25, F Dec 3

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    The seconds, minutes, hours, and days passing on each one of us merely surviving. I watch, feel, think of too much, wonder where the people in my life have gone? Each holding a...
    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 4

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    There's no other way to say this but I wish I was dead right now I'm honestly over life my family treat me like ******* **** and I have no friends or anyone that I can go hang out...
    Scarsdontfade Scarsdontfade 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm in the early stages of a Divorce. Some days I feel sad for filing for divorce and other days I feel like happy that I'm starting my life over again. I wish there was something...
    thelefthandedboy thelefthandedboy 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 6

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    I signed the petition today with the temporary orders. The stbx will get served next week. It shouldn't be a surprise to him...but I think he is going to be very angry which...
    jules7712 jules7712 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    I ******* hate my stbx. I love who he used to be, but I don't even know who he is now.
    SJS15 SJS15 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 19

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    Here it is in a nutshell. I've been through a lot. It's time I finally get my **** together. It's time I take care of myself. Focus on what makes me happy. It's time I get the...
    poojibp poojibp 18-21, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    The I-Ching says: Chaos, is just another name for Opportunity. Saturn Return. Man, I've calculated my Saturn Return and it is about a year from now but I can already feel the...
    Feroel Feroel 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Just buried my hero, my dad cancer is flippn ugly... Small cell lung cancer... It's aggressive, nasty and fast moving. I couldn't see it's progress he was taken of chemo as it was...
    jessie121412 jessie121412 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 20

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    It's been going on for a long time, and usually when I'm in bed late at night. I have several unresolved issues from my past that, sadly enough, might remain that way. The...
    mike584 mike584 26-30, M Dec 4

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    4 weeks ago on Saturday I decided to bring up to my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years the fact that he likes to drink and because he is so young I was worried it would turn into alcoholism...
    groomer1210 groomer1210 18-21, F Dec 8

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    Another song that caught my attention this morning...enjoy."The Killing Moon"  Under blue moon I saw youSo soon you'll take meUp in your armsToo late to beg you or cancel...
    MrSquishy MrSquishy 41-45, M Nov 30

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    In 2010 my 23 year old brother died unexpectadly, in 2011 I got let go from my job, in 2012 after not being supportive at all my husband left me. I found out he hAd been cheating...
    RainStorm19 RainStorm19 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    okay so we dated for a year and a half and he left me to be with this other girl. the sluttiest girl at our school and that's not just my biased opinion. now we're talking again. I...
    libermoose libermoose 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    I don't know why I have to go through this for too long now. Am I being punished? I have a broken heart. My dreams are shattered. My life is pointless. I feel so empty. I need a...
    astrangeryouwereonce astrangeryouwereonce 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    I think that you fall in love with different songs at different points in your life. As you change and grow, some songs stay with you and some don't. Some songs are nostalgic and...
    AnnUrban AnnUrban 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    I have so much going on, making all these feelings overwhelming. Tears feel the need to run down my face yet I won't let myself cry. Because I'm stronger than this. Because even...
    palomaflys palomaflys 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    "I love you I want you but I cant be with you" he says. A relationship of six years is now over after a trip I gave him to his favorite place. I spent time money energy and feel...
    lesmoveson lesmoveson 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 29

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    Whenever things get hard, I think it's because I've done something wrong. During my development years my family always seemed to make me feel like everything I did was wrong. My...
    moolet moolet 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 4

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    My wife told me that she wants to separate for a while today. I have mixed feelings about it. I feel sadness but also feel like maybe this is the right thing to do...
    Handsome78 Handsome78 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 19

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    Something has been bothering me a lot lately. I don't think highly of myself but that's not what's bothering me. There's a girl who I've liked for a while now and she likes me too...
    wildmike1998 wildmike1998 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 21

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    I'm going to be making some big changes in my life. I'm tired of just taking each day one at a time. I'm excited. I'm ready to live for God, all out. I know it's going to take time...
    astrokitty4341 astrokitty4341 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 22

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