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I Going Through a Divorce, Right Now

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    Divorce After 26 Years Of Marriage...

    Feb. 8th, 2010 my husband of 25 years told me he didn't love me anymore and that he was done! My whole world fell apart and my heart shattered. A couple of days before this I had found him and his employee in kennel with a new lock on top of inside door, and when he finally came...
    lillianmiller11 lillianmiller11 51-55 3 Responses Jan 5, 2011

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    I Don't Want This To End................

    10 weeks ago my wife took my children and with a note on the table for me to read when i got home from work, and left.  We talk only about the children.  She doesn't want to go to counseling.  I already received paper work.  I am so devastated.  My mind is consumed with her...
    michael4480 michael4480 36-40, M 7 Responses Jul 1, 2011

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    My Husband Wants A Divorce

    I have been married for almost 12 years (Jan is our anniversary). We have 3 kids (13, 9 and 7). My husband has been out of work for a year and he just recently sat by his dad's side for weeks watching him die. When he came back home after being away for 5-6 weeks. I knew there...
    HSteinhauer HSteinhauer 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 2, 2009

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    Had The First 4 Way Meeting

    I arrived early and so did my wife.  Suck in a tiny room with a women the i still love but I can see feels uncomfortable sitting here with me.  Small talk started by me and the rest of the time we each spent walking outside.  We discussed the house, the bills, and the children...
    michael4480 michael4480 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 21, 2011

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    Happening Soon

    My wife and I have been having issues connecting it felt like we were roommates for about 6mos.  Last week we went to Cancun with friends and I thought to reconnect.  We held hands once and she cried on my shoulder once.  We have been married 15yrs and last night something...
    o8o5 o8o5 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 17, 2011

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    a mutual decision but still sad experience

    after 20 years together. We are trying to do this with love and respect especially with our two children in mind!
    islandgirl31 islandgirl31 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 12

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    Divorce After 40 Years Of Marriage

    It is quite a shock to discover that after what I thought was a good marriage for 40 years I am now faced with a divorce. I know each case is different but I find it extremely hard to come to terms with. I have raised two children who are both married with children and my husband...
    MARIETJIEP MARIETJIEP 56-60, F 13 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    What Should I Do?

    I have been married for 45 years. I got married 6 months out of high school. We went together 2 years before getting married. I knew there would be problems because he drank a lot even then. I loved him and thought marriage would take care of all our problems ( how is that for...
    jasmine64 jasmine64 61-65 2 Responses Jun 22, 2011

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    Another 26 Years

    My hubby told me he wasn't happy for a few years.  I ignored it.  I wasn't at  times also, but made a covenant for better or worse.  I felt we were in the worse.  I worked so hard at this marriage, it was my lifes career.  We had decided I would stay home and raise our...
    LhasaX2 LhasaX2 46-50 1 Response Jul 17, 2011

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    So Confused......

    I made the decision last month to leave my husband. I spent weeks thinking, making sure I was doing the right thing. I so much as got my own apartment n moved halfway out. Now, after 12 years he sees what he did to me, and that it was wrong. I begged n pleaded to counseling but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 18, 2013

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    Today'S The Day

    After 12 years of an emotionless marriage, amongst some other types of abuse, I'm moving out. I sign my lease today. It's amazing how the person that was suppose to love and cherish you forever is the one that hurts you the worst. Hardest thing I've ever done, I believe it's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    Waiting For Divorce

    My marriage fell apart two years ago when my husband said it was over two months after our 30th anniversiery. Last May he physically abused me, I left the home with my 16yr. old. He was told to file for a divorce since he wanted out but he never did so Oct. one month before ...
    Sportsmom1 Sportsmom1 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2009

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    Hardest Thing In My Life ...

    It's funny what you consider challenging. Making a marriage work - being willing to sacrifice everything to keep this afloat - that is what I considered challenging. Having your husband give you and your child up for drinking and drugs - that topped everything on my list...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 19, 2009

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    It's not really me it's my parents .

    I am not heart broken over it because I hate my step father. He has done nothing but cause me pain and suffering mentally and then he moves my mom and I . But the ironic part he only moved us because he wanted to be closer to his girlfriend. Yeah! He was cheating on my mom this...
    annirawrmuffin annirawrmuffin 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Other man. Yeah I'm done. Plan B is now in effect. The awesome husband and dad I have been working hard on..the "new vastly improved me" stays and the next beautiful woman in my...
    wiseprotector wiseprotector 41-45, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Religious (ego) Consciousness, True Consciousness (subconscious experience), and Spiritual Consciousness (super conscious) *Disclaimer: Controversial. Not for the emotionally...
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    I just have too many things happening in my life right now to deal with people's sob stories. I can't handle it. Nobody wants to know about them but I would tolerate it for close...
    sociableTim sociableTim 31-35, M 6 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend of one and a half years broke up with me two days ago. I am completely shocked and the reality of it all is hitting me now. I was practically crying at work all day...
    blazeee blazeee 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    This could be long. I met this friend whom I am now dating, about 10 months ago. We'll call her D I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 and a half years to do so, we'll call her Monk...
    SoulSurviva93 SoulSurviva93 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    OK so I know everyone gets bummed out/depressed/down every once in a while. God knows I do. It's human nature. But after seeing some of these posts from people who say they are...
    thedude5600 thedude5600 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    My boyfriend and I are taking a 'break' and for some reason I can't seem to do it. All I want to do it talk to him and be with him. He wants some time to just figure himself out...
    Nitsirk7 Nitsirk7 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Some of you who know me and read this know exactly what I'm going through, know my thoughts and feelings. Know how I'm trying... For the rest of you my life has been sort of...
    swtsacrifice swtsacrifice 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 23

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    My husband was recently injured at work (4 broken bones in his back a broken knee and a rib fracture) we have it going through an attorney but we have no means of income for the...
    carla72 carla72 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    Hi I'm going through side affects with my body and it would really be a help if I got a girls advice
    Michela6730 Michela6730 16-17, F Aug 11

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    I've been living in US for 5 years now and Im finally going back to the Philippines for the 1st time next month. I'm very excited to see my family. A year ago I told my sisters to...
    sunshininginme sunshininginme 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    i really am.. but no one sees it because i've been really happy lately (thankyou megan aka my princess😊😘) yeah she helps a lot. i dont open up cuz i'm really bad at...
    xxxalyssabrownxxx xxxalyssabrownxxx 13-15, F Jul 25

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    I really need to get off right now... Anyone want to chat through a ************ session?!?
    Jcchris321 Jcchris321 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 28

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    I have been so caught up in my personal life, which by no means has been easy lately, that I have completely(but unintentionally) put my academic life to the side. I am so...
    sunniedays89 sunniedays89 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    I hate working right now because I'm going to be with this bully! She is too much about her jokes on me and I couldn't stand it, whenever I won't respond to her bad jokes on me...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I have so many things going on right now, I just need someone to talk to and possibly some advice?
    biancal24 biancal24 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    The one person I would love to just get a hug right now is working... And I don't know when I'm going to see him 💔😞😞
    bookholic bookholic 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I received a letter last week that we have a final court date for the divorce. It's really on my birthday. I don't celebrate my birthday much so that part doesn't bother me. I did...
    jaylow13 jaylow13 36-40, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Finally. And end. Yesterday, which ironically was out 13th wedding anniversary, we finally sat down and hammered out company buy out, spousal support and child support. So very...
    Tico72 Tico72 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    I have been married for 11 years in a relationship that wasn't like a marriage it was more like we were friends he did his own thing and I was at home alone with my daughter who I...
    tammy7836 tammy7836 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I'm soo sad!! My mom and dad have been fighting.. They always had their little fights but this time it's bad my dad won't eat my moms food anymore and he sleeps all day and he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 4

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    My name is Hannah, I was born in 1998, I'm 16. Ever since I was little, I doubted my worth. I didn't believe I was 'good enough.' My dad would always make me say, "Hannah's a...
    hdial043 hdial043 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    I have recently been struggling to come to terms with a situation I couldn't have envisage one bit. So here's my story from the very beginning and viewed from my side of the fence...
    ACC77 ACC77 36-40, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't know where I'm heading, but I'll try my best to keep going, because I want to be "there" so fûcking badly
    TheAverageIdiot TheAverageIdiot 16-17, M 9 hrs ago

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    Basically:- Ste brother. He's always with me, hasn't spoken to any other girls for a year since I've known him, helps me when I need help and we have a strong bond, talk for hours...
    OtakuGirl911 OtakuGirl911 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    12 years ago i was 6. I wanted to be a doctor. When i was 6 i had no idea what problems i would have to face today. When i was 8 i thought i was the fattest in my class. When i was...
    breakersflow breakersflow 18-21, F Jul 22

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    So it's been two weeks out of my marriage. I've had a few moments where I'm like "am I doing the right thing", but mostly it's been pretty good actually. I did have a good day...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Breaking up with my bf..and tho I initiated it, it still breaks my heart.. Perhaps I was too conditional with my love, my heart..and a part of it is my ego..but I couldn't see 'us...
    Kathyis30 Kathyis30 26-30, F Aug 13

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    It's been 3 months since my husband told me he didn't want to be with me. After almost 8 years of being together, 5 of marriage and a 6 year old son he just walked out my life and...
    MelyssaLee MelyssaLee 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I'm a mess... I have so much not going on, and all of the wrong things are going on, I want things to be good, and right, and cool again, I wanna be able to smile and relax, I want...
    debonaireash debonaireash 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    My recovering drug addict boyfriend and I have been planning to move together out of state. I have been about an hour away from him for a few months now and as much as the distance...
    secretdestiny secretdestiny 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I like routine, order and structure I think because I'm slightly OCD. But I think that if I continue the same thing ever day anymore it's going to drive me insane. Every morning I...
    Ailurus23 Ailurus23 18-21, M Jul 23

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    Married in 2010 now with a 2-year old. Weve been arguing for years, but lately the fights have been getting more constant and weve finally talked about separating. It saddens me...
    mmmela mmmela 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    I've done everything I can for everyone, but when I need someone to be there for me no ones there. From just being there from someone, giving someone what you need or want, or...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Jul 27

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