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I Got Betrayed By Friends

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    Is This Really The New Definition Of Friendship?

    When did it become okay for friends to have strong opinions about my diet, lifestyle and marriage? I grew up in a world where you supported your friends no matter what, and the only grounds for dumping a friend was if they were unpleasant directly to YOU. Nowadays, it seems the...
    MaxineR MaxineR 36-40, F Oct 7, 2012

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    Yes I Have

    i have been betrayed by friends, sometimes it was just be people who i was just starting to trust, and other times, it was my best friends, and even though, it has now happened twice, with two different people, the pain still ******* hurts.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 14, 2010

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    My Ex Bff...

    I'm not friends with her anymore, but she flirted with my boyfriend and he ended up cheating on me with her. She's a massive sl*t, but I thought she really cared about me as a friend and respected me. I guess not. Good riddance to rubbish, and I am a lot happier now. Let her...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    Never Forget....unda

     My best friend lets just say she isn't the preetiest girl out there. but the guy who i was kinda dating was i could say he was really cute. i was walking around the block. I got a text from "Hannah" that "Jack" had asked her out. and i was crazy over...
    xxojbxxo xxojbxxo 18-21, F Dec 9, 2009

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    She invited me over "to fix her computer." Over and over she invited me over, and we'd sit and talk, and sometimes I'd hug her or rub her shoulders, but she wouldn't let me kiss...
    wundayatta wundayatta 56-60, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I know I've sed this a thousand times,but I can't say it enough :no one is your "BFF".School started a week ago and I really didn't know anybody I only had 1"friend" and she wasn...
    crazcat97 crazcat97 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    I think I told this story before, but here I go again... I have lost my faith in so many things. I have lost my faith in myself, in people, in life. When I was a kid, I had a...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    The only person I loved highly has betrayed me , my father. his evil wife who pretended to be my friend in order to get him and his money and she did it . she destroyed everyone's...
    anna57 anna57 31-35, F Aug 16

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    Betrayed isn't the word I was looking for, more let down than anything. When you're there for close friends when they need it you'd expect the same in return. That's what true...
    Fabulousboy91 Fabulousboy91 22-25, M Aug 10

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    This happened just this past weekend and I am still going thought a bit of shock. I've not really talked to them any. The must know something is up, but probably not sure what that...
    MelissaSmith24740 MelissaSmith24740 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I has been long before my boyfriend told me this he will never do anything wrong ever to broke my heart when I used to ask him about his gal pals and especially about One coz I had...
    Blackangel4u Blackangel4u 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Told a dear friend of mine (well I thought she was a friend) a secret and I recently found out she told a couple of people. I feel so betrayed. I want to confront her but I don't...
    ttaK ttaK 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 6

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    Ok so what happened was I use to date this guy named Chase on the xbox.At first I thought he was nice and all.so one day Chase told his cousin Tylor to friend me on xbox.So I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 13

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    I had a friend for two years. We started hanging out over summer and every time we went out it was perfect. We didn't need to do anything exciting to have fun just being together...
    Alibooksaplenty Alibooksaplenty 16-17, F Aug 16

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    This human being I called my "mother" is not what she appears to be; motherly, caring, quiet, sweet & innocent. Here's how I found out I got married few months ago, husband and I...
    sydnew sydnew 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    When I was younger, I was bullied and made fun of--even by teachers! My mom took me out of school in fourth grade and started to home school me. It was during this year that we...
    HatersGonnaHateMe HatersGonnaHateMe 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I was betrayed by my bestfriend when she dated my recent Ex, is it bad to forgive her and yet i despise her? Is it wrong to feel betrayed and hate her? Or is it wrong to say she's...
    wargoddess1 wargoddess1 18-21, F Aug 15

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    I have few friends, at the moment I have 2 friends my female best friend Ozma and my male best friend Sean lol, I would like more but tis hard to find a friend you can trust and...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    We were friends for 6 years and I am in high school. Whatever fight happened stayed within the class and was sorted out within ourselves. Recently I have talked more openly with...
    Virus180xxx Virus180xxx 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    Ok here's the deal. I have always been a pretty independent person. I had a perfect childhood. Two very loving parents. I had a vision of the way life is supposed to be. Fast...
    slim156 slim156 41-45, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It's not why I was betrayed or what it was about it's the fact that I was betray by someone I trusted so dearly that matters to me
    renguard renguard 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    My so called 'best friend' has been flirting with my crush ever since I've introduced them.She knows I like him very much,pretty much in love with him.She told me he likes me yet...
    AnushaSohraab AnushaSohraab 13-15, F Aug 11

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    I was hurt a lot and lied to a lot and betrayed a lot. So much I have trust issues and it is hard to find a person I can trust but I have. I found my best friend I can trust her...
    cutemonkey cutemonkey 13-15, F Aug 18

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    Hii, all.. M new in EP. Have found myself being betrayed for long 3 years. I am a lesbian. The girl I was engaged with happened to be straight. Still she continued dating me and...
    Sriporna7 Sriporna7 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Usually im a very happy person, and i always try to make others happy. But smiling is getting harder to do, feeling happy is slowly fading away. Now i just feel torn in half, like...
    lovewithallyoursoul lovewithallyoursoul 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I was with someone and we were happy, but he was dull and boring, so I broke it off gently telling him we can still be friends and all, then he pretends to be someone else on EP...
    naco26withcheese naco26withcheese 13-15, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    .The guy i lost my virginity to went on a show called "MTV's losing it" and told the story of taking my virginity. And kind of bragged about it. He made it sound really bad and...
    newaccountquinnmac12 newaccountquinnmac12 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Just got turned over at work by a sniffling tie wearing hiding behind desk and locked door two faced son of a Lieing mother *****....
    iamperception iamperception 46-50, M Aug 19

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    The short fuse! When I was about 11/12 I went for a sleepover at one of my friends houses. We had a lovely evening playing games that her mother had organised. She was a very nice...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F Aug 6

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    The short fuse! When I was about 11/12 I went for a sleepover at one of my friends houses. We had a lovely evening playing games that her mother had organised. She was a very nice...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I ended things. We are now friends only. The events leading up to that were convoluted and confusing as usual. So a few days ago we went over to some friends of ours. Our...
    starflower1 starflower1 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    The short fuse! When I was about 11/12 I went for a sleepover at one of my friends houses. We had a lovely evening playing games that her mother had organised. She was a very nice...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    WARNING: LONG POST AHEAD I dont really have any friends and i havent had any for many years except my wife and kids. I have a few people i talk to online but other than that no...
    shinjorai shinjorai 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    There were some people I met in my life that if I knew now, I'd love to be around. I'm a different person. I want to engage. I wish I had maintained relationships with certain...
    shameinnoshame shameinnoshame 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    I want to make new friends but for some reason I can't. I am a 21 year old college student and I don't have any friends to talk to in college. Its sometimes makes me feel...
    SilverLightning SilverLightning 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was in love with my bestfriend for four years. Four very long years... Four years of being led on and manipulated and lied too. Four years of watching the person I loved go...
    LonerProject LonerProject 18-21, M Aug 12

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    They basically had my bday for me; I just got paid and it was simple times having it be all funny that they got the date wrong couldn't clearly enough say that we don't give a...
    bettygingham bettygingham 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I've only recently admitted that I was controlled by certain bullies for two years in school, and got to like it. In fact, there was one sadistic boy in particular, but I was the...
    rolledgoldboy rolledgoldboy 22-25 1 Response 4 days ago

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    While I been on hols, two friends from dance class, Hannah Louise an Ellen have been chattin about what to doo at our next parents and friends concert at the end of October an they...
    hanntiger1 hanntiger1 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    As I prepare to type this, I realize that most of this story results from me being an analytical, clingy Teenage girl. Yet, It's a relevant problem to me and I want to get it off...
    LostInTheSolarSystem LostInTheSolarSystem 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 13

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    I've only ever had 2 boyfriends since I was 14. First relationship lasted for about 6 months, second one lasted for 2 years but it was an on-and-off abusive relationship. If I...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    This happened to me three days ago and since then I can't stop thinking about it. Well, my cousin, our friend and me went out that night after waiting like 5 hours for my cousin...
    nyantastic nyantastic 16-17, F Aug 18

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    So here's the deal. I've had guy friends only since as long as I can remember. Guy friends are easy... Making friendships with females has been difficult for me, but I don't know...
    Solfeggio Solfeggio 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 24

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    I honestly don't understand people. My so called brothers("best friends") treated me like **** my freshman year of college, but I didn't notice until recently. My roommate moved...
    AfroPenguin AfroPenguin 18-21, M a week ago

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    I'm Chris. (Sorry to those who've been told I was Jake. That was my Cousin.) Anyways the first time I had my heart broken was 6th grade. I was dating this girl. But, every time I...
    Gre3nBoytt Gre3nBoytt 13-15, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have no friends . I had a lot of good and bad ones I guess you can say . I had plenty of great , motivating , positive friends freshman and sophmore year but I traded them for...
    MbVG MbVG 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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