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I Got Cheated On

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    I Deserved It, Right?

    I mean is that why bad things happen to people because they deserve it? No! But that is where my mind goes and then it's like, I can't find a reason that would justify that kind of pain being put to another persons heart. I don't live my life outside of what you see here. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 13, 2011

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    Hate It

    I cant stand him he was a jerk to me and on two other girls (rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr) i dont deserve him and he doesnt deserve me.
    crissfreak crissfreak 13-15, F Mar 14, 2009

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    my ex girlfriend cheated on me.

    i knew about it.. but i was so blinded by love that i didnt do anything..
    xxxalyssabrownxxx xxxalyssabrownxxx 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I Love Her So Much

    MiYoung, she's the best girlfriend I ever had. But, she left me to get the man she really wants.Visit her profile so you can know how pretty she is. I can't believe she cheated on me.
    SiChul SiChul 18-21, M Jan 26, 2011

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    We were in a relationship

    for 4 years and she decided that one night with a random guy from the bar was more important then us. She thought she wouldn't find out but it was my friends roommate and she never realized it was him even with him in the house when they entered. I turned around and cheated on...
    Pantyskater14 Pantyskater14 31-35, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    She Broke My Trust

    During the summer (June 2010), I found a lovely girl. She was absolutely incredible. I had self-esteem problems, and it was hard to ask her out myself, though we knew we liked each other. But I was friends with one of her friends. So he helped me out, encouraged, and helped us...
    Frostbite614 Frostbite614 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 8, 2011

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    I just it cheated on a few hours ago n she did

    it with her ex bf. he told me personally through txt that they have been together n I was a joke. What do I do now? I mean I liked her n all but her n her fam went to far saying there ganna kill me. N then I honestly want to be with a girl. I don't know if I should look for...
    jorden9804 jorden9804 16-17, F Jan 23

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    I Took Him Back...

    my boyfriend and i had already broken up once. after we broke up he started dating another girl (his ex before me) i was heart broken and cried all the time. finally, they broke up and we started to work things off. after about 3 months of dating for the second time, i lost my...
    Bella4125 Bella4125 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    I was dating the guy

    for two years only to get cheated on and replaced after a week of being dumped. Worst part is I still love him and won't stop thinking about him. Any advice please?
    hopelesslylost2 hopelesslylost2 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    I had this best friend

    for five years. We met in high school and became really good friends. We had a lot in common and I just felt myself around him. He's a male, I'm female. We weren't the type of friends to talk every day, we did a lot of different things in life. He moved away with a girlfriend...
    twicefake twicefake 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    ~ By Every One of Them ~

    ~ Of course I've only had 2 boyfriends. Heehee. But still! I mean SHEESH! ~ J was an a*s. I dated him when I was 19. I forgive myself for this because I was young & didn't know any better. Mahahaha!  He claimed the reason he cheated was because I wasn't good...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 14, 2009

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    A Preacher?

    My girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me with a guy who wants to become a Preacher. I don know If her knew she was In a relationship, she was at college 250 miles away. she came hoe tried to fix things which I fell for and is now back at college and Our relationship is over as of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 19, 2010

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    What sucks the most is

    that I had to figure it out. All I ever wanted from the guys that cheated on me was the respect to come out in the open and say it to my face. You could tell me I would cuss you and we would break up....simple. You didn't have to break up with me make it seem as it was all my...
    sonarlove sonarlove 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    By my ex husband. I just thought he was an

    alcoholic but actually he was a lying cheating alcoholic. Not once but 3 times. I think my faith in men was destroyed the day I found out. That was ten years ago. Still single
    beachbabe2014 beachbabe2014 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I got cheated on by my girlfriend

    that I was dating for 2 years. I found out on Christmas Day she has been having sex with her boss for 4 months.
    ToGxFtW ToGxFtW 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 10

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    The Beginning Of The End

    Part of it I believe is because men are inclined by nature to spread their seed. I'm not a male but I work with animals, and men are animals. It's instinct. That's not to say they have no conscious control over it. Fact is beautiful women tend to be self confident, strong willed...
    Rioyoki Rioyoki 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    10 Years Down The Drain

    I was with the same man for 10 yrs.we got together when i was 19.from day one he was never very faithfull.we splitup alot but he always came over that same day or night and for some reason i always took him back.we had 5 children together so i really wanted it to work. so when he...
    littlefairy5 littlefairy5 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    Cheater ,cheater

     i should have recognized the signs but i guess i was so was so wrapped up in me i didnt see what was going on till the day she left . just walked away leaving me with everything,children,house,money ,everything.confussion,broken heartedness, uncertainty of what the future...
    solopodal solopodal 46-50, M 7 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    I've Been Cheated On.

    Not once, But twice. Both adorable Both I thought were sweet but turned out to be Both players Both best friends First story: My best friend Stefani, &Someone I dont even know Everything was well, Intil, My one of my best friend, Told me she was dating...
    AndieAddiction AndieAddiction 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2009

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    Uber-gay

    So, i got cheated on like back in July.  At least thats the one I am sure of, right.  I always suspected, but never even bothered to mention infidelity, mostly because my boyfriend was always accusing me of the same.  So I found out about a week after I dumped him...
    justgotangry justgotangry 22-25, M 3 Responses Oct 15, 2009

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    Cheated

    On a test i have had someone copy off of me. I noticed by purposely putting down the wrong answers. 9+2=100. Yes i was 6 years old when this happened, and i am sure the kid was embarrassed for being so far off..
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M Mar 17, 2010

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    Onwards

    Being cheated on hurts. When I discovered the truth I fell to my knees and howled like a dog, no tears, just painful noise. Wine put me to sleep. I woke just after 3 am with a tortuous jolt – run! I really needed to run. I ran through the streets of London, the physical...
    gerardfsmith gerardfsmith 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 2, 2010

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    I have got cheated on by my girl friend

    and now I feel this bad urge to cheat, just to get back. Need somebody to talk to me abt it.
    nicktime nicktime 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 22

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    Trying To Move On After Infidelity

    Long story short. I'm 24 now and my SO is 27. I met my now fiance in September 2011 and we started dating shortly after despite living 2 hours apart. I got pregnant with our now 13 month old 2 1/2 months after we got together which put a strain on the relationship. I'm not sure...
    bwatson8912 bwatson8912 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2013

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    I feel like a ******* chump

    and I can't do **** about it at the moment. All I can do is build my case and wait for the correct moment to strike
    slappaho slappaho 31-35, M Feb 28

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    I Have A Question.

    Lets say you were the bread winner in your relationship, you made the money and basically financially supported your spouse, they helped where they could but it wasnt ever enough. Then you find out that they had been cheating on you and they realized what they had done wrong and...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 14, 2010

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    Heh

    His name is Nathan. He is a dumass. Thats all I gotta say.
    WinterPrincess21 WinterPrincess21 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2009

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for nine months. He is my first serious relationship and I'm 20 and saved my virginity unto I lost it to him and he knew how special it was to me. He treated me so well very sweet, loving, accepting, helpful and so much more. We got in a huge fight one day and we almost broke up...
    kaiylynn33 kaiylynn33 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    we we're together for over one year

    and when I found out about it I threw a drink into that homewreckers face and felt soo relieved!
    nevenatasha nevenatasha 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    I'M Pissed.

    If he wanted to be with someone else we could've just broken up. He didn't have to cheat. Ugh I'm so mad this happened to me. Well now he got what he wanted. I will never even talk to him again. Hope he has fun with all the girls who won't understand his life like I did. Good...
    MidChaser MidChaser 18-21 2 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    Dislike Cheaters...

    Nothing more than your wife telling you she does not  love  you anymore. Cause you got caught looking at **** or chatting one too many times. Then in her mind finds a way to get rid of you by getting a protection from abuse to get rid of you permanently.. Waits for a...
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 48 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    stephruiz24 stephruiz24 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    I Just Can'T Believe It...

    I can't believe he would cheat on me. It never even crossed my mind that I shouldn't trust him. I thought he was a good guy and I got completely blind-sided. I'm heart broken. I, of course, had to break up with my navy boy. What do I do now? :.(
    MidChaser MidChaser 18-21 1 Response Aug 4, 2013

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    Consistently Bad Endings To Good Things

    I dated a girl from the beginning of may til about 2 weeks ago when I found out she started seeing the same guy she put in jail for hitting her, again. Of course he had other court problems and could be the dumbest kid i've ever seen. I can say partially this is my fault as I...
    MrSolodolo1 MrSolodolo1 26-30, M Nov 13, 2011

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    I Can'T Stop Thinking About Him

    I cry all the time. I'm so sad I just can't help it. He was so horrible to me! He won't speak to me at all and he even tweeted "I don't regret a thing in my life." He doesn't even deal bad that he basically broke my heart. Everything was a lie. He said he would do anything for me...
    MidChaser MidChaser 18-21 3 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    Cheating Husband

    I have never written about this before. I have been with my husband for 7 years (09/20/02) and I found out on 04/28/09 he cheated with his ex. We are both good looking people. He is a firefighter. I am shocked. His ex that lives 3000 miles away told me and he...
    dawnamarie76 dawnamarie76 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    No More Bull Sh*T!

    2 years ago I fell in love with this girl and had a kid with her and I THOUGHT she loved me too but 8 months ago I enlisted and joined the MVD(a branch in Russian special forces) and after my training was done I was shortly shipped to Chechnya, I wrote to my lover all the time...
    sovietred2 sovietred2 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 24, 2013

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    My boyfriend is younger

    than I am, he is 19 and I am 21 so he was a senior in high school (he recently graduated). He had prom and I felt that I was too old to go and I already had my time. I thought that if I went then I wouldn't have fun and it would just bring him down. Well, he was friends with...
    mkkb mkkb 18-21 1 Response Jun 23

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    I Got Cheated On, I Didn't See It Coming.

    I was in a 5 1/2 year relationship all throughout college. We were best friends and we hung out with each other all day everyday. We were in each others dorm room and slept together every night. We did everything together... Her mother hated me all throughout our...
    JK9898 JK9898 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 28, 2013

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    One day I saw this girl,

    she was so beautiful, i stared at her for a few seconds, no I'm not a creeper, but i just look at how beautiful she was, her eyes, her hair, her mouth, the way she stand, talk.. I was amazed. I'm not a talkative person, I could say I'm actually really shy, but once she was...
    Cheesyboy Cheesyboy 18-21, M 2 Responses May 25

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    Related Experiences

    Update! There's hope guys - don't settle! Last time I posted it had been only one month since being cheated on - and I was a mess. Only thing I was sure of is that there was no way...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Long story short; he cheated. pissed off some mutual friends of the mistress. so they messaged me telling me of the child as a way to get back at him, they were hoping that I would...
    SilentRider SilentRider F Aug 14

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    I am the wife of a United States Marine. I am also the ex-girlfriend of another Marine, who cheated on me for a year while I waited patiently and faithfully for him at home...
    HeatherMD02 HeatherMD02 18-21 2 Responses Aug 11

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    My first normal-ish relationship and he cheated on me.. with my best friend.. my younger sister. We got back together and he cheated on me with some fugly fat chick and she tried...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend and I had been talking for a while before he finally decided to ask me out the other day. Let me tell you a little bit about him. He has had a...
    unluckiestginger unluckiestginger 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    My ex of 4 years cheated on and gave me an STD. I hate his ******* guys but yet still love him. I have had a little over 2 weeks of no contact and he had tried contacting me once...
    brokenhearted7108 brokenhearted7108 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    I cheated on my boyfriend, whom i have been a year with, with one of my sisters good friends, who is also in a relationship. The connection we had, was passionate and thrilling...
    gugly14 gugly14 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Second experience with being cheated on. The guy that I was with at the time disappeared on me out of the blue. He said that he was with family but I found it strange that I didn...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    About two months ago I went on a schooltrip. Actually those three days were designated as "Days of religious orientation". This is a thing at my school since it is a katholic...
    kolibrei kolibrei 16-17 1 Response Aug 9

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    I know that most men don't like getting pedicures, but I understand that it is common/alright for men to get them. I am a man who, a couple of months ago, got my first pedicure. It...
    countingtoesisfun countingtoesisfun 26-30, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    So I've never been in like a real relationship before just open relationships. So I'm not used to being loyal. But I found this guy, tho he is younger than me & I fell head over...
    SapphireR SapphireR 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    Little jerk cheated on my with my "friend" i beat them senseless before tossing them out
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F Jul 29

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