I Got Cheated On

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 500 People

    By my ex husband. I just thought he was an

    alcoholic but actually he was a lying cheating alcoholic. Not once but 3 times. I think my faith in men was destroyed the day I found out. That was ten years ago. Still single
    beachbabe2014 beachbabe2014
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jun 29, 2014

    It was my supposed to be "best friend" of 7

    years and my boyfriends ex girlfriend. My real best friend died so my boyfriend and his ex which was supposed to be my best friend as well started seeing each other for weeks, this carried on throughout my birthday. She didn't apologise and he begged for my forgiveness and...
    goodoldnoname goodoldnoname
    18-21, F
    Feb 15, 2016


    Being cheated on hurts. When I discovered the truth I fell to my knees and howled like a dog, no tears, just painful noise. Wine put me to sleep. I woke just after 3 am with a tortuous jolt – run! I really needed to run. I ran through the streets of London, the physical...
    gerardfsmith gerardfsmith
    41-45, M
    1 Response Dec 2, 2010

    The Beginning Of The End

    Part of it I believe is because men are inclined by nature to spread their seed. I'm not a male but I work with animals, and men are animals. It's instinct. That's not to say they have no conscious control over it. Fact is beautiful women tend to be self confident, strong willed...
    Rioyoki Rioyoki
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 22, 2010

    I was dating the guy

    for two years only to get cheated on and replaced after a week of being dumped. Worst part is I still love him and won't stop thinking about him. Any advice please?
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 29, 2014

    First girlfriend I ever had got sick of waiting

    for me to feel comfortable enough to do all the things she desired, so she went elsewhere. Pretty pathetic actually. If someone isn't ready for sex, in general or just specific acts, that isn't a reason to get some side action.
    kk1874 kk1874
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 29, 2016

    I had this best friend

    for five years. We met in high school and became really good friends. We had a lot in common and I just felt myself around him. He's a male, I'm female. We weren't the type of friends to talk every day, we did a lot of different things in life. He moved away with a girlfriend...
    twicefake twicefake
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 1, 2014

    my ex girlfriend cheated on me.

    i knew about it.. but i was so blinded by love that i didnt do anything..
    xxxalyssabrownxxx xxxalyssabrownxxx
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 25, 2014

    I has been long before my boyfriend told me

    this he will never do anything wrong ever to broke my heart when I used to ask him about his gal pals and especially about One coz I had seen him being over friendsly with her and she obviously had feelings for him ever since they have been friends, its just that he kept telling...
    Blackangel4u Blackangel4u
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 27, 2014

    I feel like a ******* chump

    and I can't do **** about it at the moment. All I can do is build my case and wait for the correct moment to strike
    slappaho slappaho
    31-35, M
    Feb 28, 2014

    She cheated on me.. I don't understand,

    I love her, I cared for her, I did everything with compassion and affection. I have her my all what could I have possibly done wrong
    Zaoist Zaoist
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Dec 13, 2015

    You might hate me after I write this

    but I'm sorry. I love when guys or husbands say their wife or girlfriend had cheated on them. I say that because males are the one who get the girl to cheat. Guys are sneaky!!! You might say girls cheat to. Your right but I always see guys breaking the girl heart for no reason...
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jul 13, 2015

    Cheating Husband

    I have never written about this before. I have been with my husband for 7 years (09/20/02) and I found out on 04/28/09 he cheated with his ex. We are both good looking people. He is a firefighter. I am shocked. His ex that lives 3000 miles away told me and he...
    dawnamarie76 dawnamarie76
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Oct 19, 2009

    I Have A Question.

    Lets say you were the bread winner in your relationship, you made the money and basically financially supported your spouse, they helped where they could but it wasnt ever enough. Then you find out that they had been cheating on you and they realized what they had done wrong and...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Dec 14, 2010

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    or know someone in a relationship, where cheating has occurred in the past or currently happening, an important new tv show with one of the best marriage therapists in the country wants help couples resolve their issues. Compensation for chosen couples. For more info, email...
    onettoone onettoone
    31-35, M
    1 Response Apr 12, 2016

    I've been with my boyfriend

    for nine months. He is my first serious relationship and I'm 20 and saved my virginity unto I lost it to him and he knew how special it was to me. He treated me so well very sweet, loving, accepting, helpful and so much more. We got in a huge fight one day and we almost broke up...
    kaiylynn33 kaiylynn33
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 23, 2014

    I just it cheated on a few hours ago n she did

    it with her ex bf. he told me personally through txt that they have been together n I was a joke. What do I do now? I mean I liked her n all but her n her fam went to far saying there ganna kill me. N then I honestly want to be with a girl. I don't know if I should look for...
    jorden9804 jorden9804
    18-21, F
    Jan 23, 2014

    Cheater ,cheater

     i should have recognized the signs but i guess i was so was so wrapped up in me i didnt see what was going on till the day she left . just walked away leaving me with everything,children,house,money ,everything.confussion,broken heartedness, uncertainty of what the future...
    solopodal solopodal
    46-50, M
    7 Responses Nov 4, 2009

    i think i am.. like i went on snapchat

    and i hate the damn notification thing when people post a story so i watched everyones story and i saw her story and i saw her with someone else.. šŸ˜”šŸ˜”šŸ˜”šŸ˜” he had his hand on her leg and her hand was touching his hand and of course the caption hadda be "bae...
    xxxalyssabrownxxx xxxalyssabrownxxx
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 6, 2014

    ā€œI know about her. I put the pieces together

    like a puzzle. It was validating, really. To know all of those times I suspected something I was in fact correct. No I was never crazy, I was right. And you were lying to me. And honestly Iā€™m not even mad. I feel sorry for you. I feel sorry for whatever happened to you that...
    gravity1 gravity1
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2016

    We were in a relationship

    for 4 years and she decided that one night with a random guy from the bar was more important then us. She thought she wouldn't find out but it was my friends roommate and she never realized it was him even with him in the house when they entered. I turned around and cheated on...
    Pantyskater14 Pantyskater14
    31-35, M
    Aug 27, 2014

    One day I saw this girl,

    she was so beautiful, i stared at her for a few seconds, no I'm not a creeper, but i just look at how beautiful she was, her eyes, her hair, her mouth, the way she stand, talk.. I was amazed. I'm not a talkative person, I could say I'm actually really shy, but once she was...
    Cheesyboy Cheesyboy
    22-25, M
    4 Responses May 25, 2014

    I have been with my boyfriend

    for more than a year. In the beginning, all was well. We were very in love with each other. 2 months into the relationship, my boyfriend admitted that he has a gambling issue and owes a lot of money. It was the darkest period of his life and I stayed with him to show him support...
    Whtwth Whtwth
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 29, 2016

    My fiance cheated on me.

    I'm so sad. She keeps trying to turn it around and say it was my fault! We have a 3 yr old boy, otherwise it would not be such a big deal. she wants me back. I don't know if we can ever come back from this. She disgusts me. She has always lied. She always comes up with...
    Janish Janish
    36-40, M
    1 Response May 5, 2015

    I got cheated on by my girlfriend

    that I was dating for 2 years. I found out on Christmas Day she has been having sex with her boss for 4 months.
    ToGxFtW ToGxFtW
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 10, 2014

    Well what I knew all along finally was

    confirmed. I feel so lost. I feel numb. All of this turmoil and hurt, only for him to be out having the time of his life. I don't even have much to say really on the subject other than I feel lost. I'm glad I found out now that I'm been moving on, because had I found out before...
    Negrita13131 Negrita13131
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 23, 2015

    My boyfriend is younger

    than I am, he is 19 and I am 21 so he was a senior in high school (he recently graduated). He had prom and I felt that I was too old to go and I already had my time. I thought that if I went then I wouldn't have fun and it would just bring him down. Well, he was friends with...
    mkkb mkkb
    1 Response Jun 23, 2014

    I had a relationship.

    We were happy together but he said he was in love with his ex but he had feelings for me as well when he was with me.I loved him too.I'm finding it difficult to move on and now he is not in touch with me at all.
    SweetPoison7 SweetPoison7
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 3, 2014


    On a test i have had someone copy off of me. I noticed by purposely putting down the wrong answers. 9+2=100. Yes i was 6 years old when this happened, and i am sure the kid was embarrassed for being so far off..
    Arorin Arorin
    22-25, M
    Mar 17, 2010

    My girlfriend cheated on me with someone she met

    before me. Basically I was pushing her away but I didn't know another potential guy was in the picture. I am trying to get her back. She does love me but she's a bit of a wild child so her guy is telling her to explore that first boat that sailed away. What do I do? I can't...
    NeedToTalk2015 NeedToTalk2015
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2015

    My ex who cheated on me

    and has a baby on the way KEEPS coming into my work and I catch him starring at me!!! We were together 6 years. Does it seem as if he knows he made the wrong choice ? Because although I want to believe that, he Posts about her sometimes .. And it breaks my heart.. He got with...
    thatgirlvannesa thatgirlvannesa
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Apr 20, 2016

    So I brought this up before,

    my ex who I was with for 5 years cheated on me, and got the girl pregnant. He now lives with her but his mother was talking to me and said he's miserable that all he ever wanted was me but made stupid choices. He got my name tatted awhile back and his mother told me he still has...
    thatgirlvannesa thatgirlvannesa
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 23, 2016

    No More Bull Sh*T!

    2 years ago I fell in love with this girl and had a kid with her and I THOUGHT she loved me too but 8 months ago I enlisted and joined the MVD(a branch in Russian special forces) and after my training was done I was shortly shipped to Chechnya, I wrote to my lover all the time...
    sovietred2 sovietred2
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Jul 24, 2013

    I Deserved It, Right?

    I mean is that why bad things happen to people because they deserve it? No! But that is where my mind goes and then it's like, I can't find a reason that would justify that kind of pain being put to another persons heart. I don't live my life outside of what you see here. I...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Mar 13, 2011

    I Got Cheated On, I Didn't See It Coming.

    I was in a 5 1/2 year relationship all throughout college. We were best friends and we hung out with each other all day everyday. We were in each others dorm room and slept together every night. We did everything together... Her mother hated me all throughout our...
    JK9898 JK9898
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jul 28, 2013


    So, i got cheated on like back in July.  At least thats the one I am sure of, right.  I always suspected, but never even bothered to mention infidelity, mostly because my boyfriend was always accusing me of the same.  So I found out about a week after I dumped him...
    justgotangry justgotangry
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2009

    So.. I really liked this girl

    and we dated for about 6 months. Everything was going fine, until one night. We were skyping cause I was away from home, and my friend was over at her house, I asked why he was there and she just laughed it off. The next day I came home and I found out from another friend, that...
    Firsttimestraight Firsttimestraight
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Nov 11, 2014

    What sucks the most is

    that I had to figure it out. All I ever wanted from the guys that cheated on me was the respect to come out in the open and say it to my face. You could tell me I would cuss you and we would break up....simple. You didn't have to break up with me make it seem as it was all my...
    sonarlove sonarlove
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 2, 2014

    She Broke My Trust

    During the summer (June 2010), I found a lovely girl. She was absolutely incredible. I had self-esteem problems, and it was hard to ask her out myself, though we knew we liked each other. But I was friends with one of her friends. So he helped me out, encouraged, and helped us...
    Frostbite614 Frostbite614
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Jul 8, 2011

    I've only had a relationship with a guy

    for 3 days and he goes and some what cheats on me! He said he was committed and asked me out! I can't believe this!? From the famous words of Taylor Swift We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together!
    AngelsAgainstUs AngelsAgainstUs
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2015

    I've Been Cheated On.

    Not once, But twice. Both adorable Both I thought were sweet but turned out to be Both players Both best friends First story: My best friend Stefani, &Someone I dont even know Everything was well, Intil, My one of my best friend, Told me she was dating...
    AndieAddiction AndieAddiction
    13-15, F
    1 Response Oct 22, 2009

    10 Years Down The Drain

    I was with the same man for 10 yrs.we got together when i was 19.from day one he was never very faithfull.we splitup alot but he always came over that same day or night and for some reason i always took him back.we had 5 children together so i really wanted it to work. so when he...
    littlefairy5 littlefairy5
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 25, 2009

    Dislike Cheaters...

    Nothing more than your wife telling you she does not  love  you anymore. Cause you got caught looking at **** or chatting one too many times. Then in her mind finds a way to get rid of you by getting a protection from abuse to get rid of you permanently.. Waits for a...
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5
    41-45, M
    45 Responses Nov 4, 2009

    we we're together for over one year

    and when I found out about it I threw a drink into that homewreckers face and felt soo relieved!
    nevenatasha nevenatasha
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 9, 2014
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