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I Got Out of a Bad Relationship

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    It Didn't Last Very Long.. If You Can Call It A Relationship

    He thought he could control me and keep me under his thumb, he was wrong! He thought because I was innocent I was naieve as well, he was wrong! He thought if he criticized me and made me feel no one else would love me but him I'd stay and put up with his garbage, he was wrong...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2009

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    I Have Room To Breath Now!

    I'm excited about starting fresh again.  I'm excited about learning new things and being able to grasp new opportunities.  I can concentrate on what I want to do and be able to smile and appreciate those who trully love me.  The future is bright now.  Before...
    FallenGrace FallenGrace 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2009

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    I'm Free

    The first time something happened, we were having an intense discussion about our relationship. No screaming or yelling or raised voices. My two children were playing just outside the window. All of a sudden he grabbed me by the neck of my hoodie and pull me up out of my...
    estrellaluna estrellaluna 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2009

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    This Goal Has Been Reached!

    I have officially met my goal of getting out of a bad relationship! cross my fingers it stays this way. I have a good feeling about it. So to all of you lovely ladies and handsome gentlemen out there- my status has changed. I feel pretty bad right now, as should be expected for...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 14, 2010

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    I Got Out Finally

    we were together for 4 yrs, we were gonna spend our lives together. when i met him he was my first serious bf so i think it was a "fools rush in thing." after maybe 6mos of being together, i found that i didnt like him. he was mean, depressed and selfish. and his...
    Cyndane Cyndane 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    Big Mistake

    I was stupid. I was stupid for letting him use me. I was stupid for not ending it the first time or sooner. I was stupid for shucking my instincs when they have never gotten me in to trouble. I was stupid and now i have to live with that. First "Date" he invited me over...
    Ema916 Ema916 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2010

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    I Am In a Bad Relationship.

        I have been married since March of 05.  We have three children together,  He is a great father but not a good husband,  Its been pretty bad lately.  He is always yelling at me or just not saying anything to me at all.  He puts his hands...
    Babydoll85 Babydoll85 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    dont know what to do next any suggestions ?? i mean it was not a serious or a bad relationship we both knew it would end some day and both had a good time together but i just...
    kartikeybharadwaj kartikeybharadwaj 22-25, M Jul 13

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    I got out of federal prison in March and life is going good I learned a lot in prison and I'm not on drugs no more can be happy drug free. Meth almost took my life. God spared me...
    melodyjk melodyjk 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    They weren't bad to the point of physical abuse, but they were far from good. I met my first girlfriend when I was in my last year of high school. We got along great, but I...
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M Jul 11

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    And here I was thinking the guy was a sociopath. No, he's just a narcissist. Like that's supposed to be comforting or something.. Well, here's the story. When we first met, he fell...
    JourneeBlue JourneeBlue 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    I've never been in a romantic relationship, but I do feel that my friendships did not help me much in the end. These friendships weren't violent or anything, but I did not feel...
    thisisausernametoo thisisausernametoo 18-21 Jul 13

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    I feel like I can't do anything and say anything without getting in trouble. I don't really know how to act around people even my family. My mum and dad say they are trying to make...
    samdavis3 samdavis3 16-17, M Jul 2

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    I'm never doing anything illegal again for the rest of my life. Jail is an awful, scary yet humbling experience. I will never drive drunk or evade arrest with a motor vehicle again...
    TrishaNicole TrishaNicole 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm free! I don't have to put up with his bull **** anymore
    lolitamunchkin lolitamunchkin 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    He wonders why I never want to talk to him, and why I lock myself in my room or try to stay away from that house. But everytime we talk it ends up in him screaming normally from...
    BulletForMyBlackVeil BulletForMyBlackVeil 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    My father and I haven't spoken in over five years. He still lives in denial about being physically abusive towards me.
    metalman27 metalman27 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    They told me I look like The little orphan Annie :(
    2tall4heels 2tall4heels 16-17, F Jun 30

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    It's just a trick I seem to have attained over the years. I know it isn't the best thing to do, but sometimes it just helps me to feel better.
    LittleMissIntrovert LittleMissIntrovert 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I need advice please from any one no negativity I recently ran into a guy I went to highschool with we have been talking for a month now we hang out and he calls me everyday or...
    slynn999 slynn999 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I've been with this guy for almost a year and I can honestly say that I thought he was the one. We broke up once and got back together and the second time we broke up it was...
    taaywalks taaywalks 22-25, F 18 hrs ago

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    I had this best friend for five years. We met in high school and became really good friends. We had a lot in common and I just felt myself around him. He's a male, I'm female. We...
    twicefake twicefake 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    As far back as I remember I always recall wanting to get away from the house as far as I could go. My favorite toy was one that involved transportation. Either a Big Wheel, a...
    Badtimanonymous Badtimanonymous 31-35, M Jul 6

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    All throughout high school I was the "popular" girl. I never liked being in relationships & I certainly never paid any mind to any at the boys at my school. I was a bit of a "heart...
    ElenaSC ElenaSC 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    Went on vacation with my partner. We went to Vegas and my shoes were not right so my feet hurt like hell. They got so bad that I had to sit down many times. He took this as me...
    mistakeoverload mistakeoverload 18-21, F Jun 30

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    Saw this on another page, and it really is worth reading if you are in a bad relationship and know it. July 10. Ending Relationships. It takes courage and honesty to end a...
    toolatetoapologise toolatetoapologise 51-55, F Jul 10

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    I was in a relationship for 4 years. We first started seeing each other when I was 17 he was 21. I thought he was my everything. In the beginning he was sweet and very devoted to...
    oceanicdreamer oceanicdreamer 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    Been seeing my abusive ex again . It's only been 2 weeks and it's already getting bad. I'm always shaking and feel anxious when I'm not with him . It's like a drug as cliche as...
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    I just got out of an abusive relationship a month ago and now I'm in a new relationship but I'm so scared cuz of what's happened in the past
    Jaymerz97 Jaymerz97 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 25

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    So I was chilling with my boyfriend, Tyler! Well my mom and dad left to go get food for dinner. Well it everything going on here the traffic is really bad, so there were gone for...
    blondieee1 blondieee1 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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    Got yelled at for throwing away toys I found in my car. Didn't know they were my fiance's. He yelled and swore while I was in the shower and could hardly defend myself. Then when...
    janethinks janethinks 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Well, things are as good as you think when you got into a relationship. Mine at first was a very happy and satisfying one. But when it comes to our second monthsary I think that...
    fruitella06 fruitella06 18-21, F Jun 29

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    hey uh i need help i just got into a relationship things got cereal really fast she is 14 and i am 16 uuh i dont know if i should trust her or not i want to but i am keep worrying...
    Nathan610 Nathan610 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Actually just got out of one last night.. Pretty proud of myself, he's been blowing up my phone & I haven't been giving him the time of day, now all I gotta do is have these...
    aaaxaaa aaaxaaa 18-21, F 23 Responses Jun 25

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    Well okay ! Now that i have your attention!! I guess the reason that im writing this. is to get some insight from other girls . Like other New Cds, i had this tremendous rush of...
    Mindi3107 Mindi3107 26-30 1 Response Jun 28

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    Recently I just got out of a relationship where I've been suffering all along. I let myself suffer but the guy did know he was hurting me, now that we're broken up I still feel...
    ivetouchedrockbottom ivetouchedrockbottom 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I took a 20-minute nap before I left for work. In my dreams I was on my way to work. I took a public transportation and everything was going fine until I noticed the driver was...
    Jelliii Jelliii 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    Biting my nails. Ugh. It used to be a lot worse than it is now... I had complete nubs and split cuticles. There was no way that I could make them pretty. In 5th grade, though, I...
    Boo37 Boo37 13-15, F Jun 24

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    I was for a while. It snuck up on me. I didn't realize it was missing for about a month, then it finally dawned on me that it was just one excuse after another. So I got out of...
    SweetSweetSarah SweetSweetSarah 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    My first boyfriend (were we dating? We went out like twice) but anyways he was in one of my classes during the year but he sent me a dm on twitter after school got out and sent me...
    DauntlessRavenclaw DauntlessRavenclaw 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Well just thought I would put my experiences out there so it could maybe help someone achive the experience better. So I started getting out of body experiences as a child before I...
    kindiak kindiak 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    Shopping for shoes...part 1. The dares are getting more challenging! Almost as challenging as getting a story past the EP Morality Police! Sunday afternoon, I was sent shopping...
    snowangelashley snowangelashley 18-21, F 24 Responses Jun 23

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    I was in two dimensions yesterday.... Here and with my ex lover at the same time. My body was here and my soul jumped out. I was fully aware. Like a lucid dream? I was in my bed...
    astarte42 astarte42 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I was swimming in a public pool with my friend, Kara. When I got out of the water to do a dive, she yanked down my bikini bottoms. I was on display for the whole pool. I was so...
    SamLGirl SamLGirl 13-15, F 17 Responses Jul 12

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    So I've liked wearing panties for awhile now but my girlfriend doesn't like it so I do it in secret. Here resently I got curious about thongs so I went and bought a few. One day my...
    Wedge796 Wedge796 22-25, M 6 hrs ago

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    Whenever im in a relationship, in about 2 months or less i feel already non- exited anymore. I become more quiet and the whole magic of the flirting and laughing is gone , and then...
    mcalderon89 mcalderon89 22-25, M 5 hrs ago

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