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I Got Out of a Bad Relationship

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    I'm Free

    The first time something happened, we were having an intense discussion about our relationship. No screaming or yelling or raised voices. My two children were playing just outside the window. All of a sudden he grabbed me by the neck of my hoodie and pull me up out of my...
    estrellaluna estrellaluna 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2009

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    I Got Out Finally

    we were together for 4 yrs, we were gonna spend our lives together. when i met him he was my first serious bf so i think it was a "fools rush in thing." after maybe 6mos of being together, i found that i didnt like him. he was mean, depressed and selfish. and his...
    Cyndane Cyndane 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    Big Mistake

    I was stupid. I was stupid for letting him use me. I was stupid for not ending it the first time or sooner. I was stupid for shucking my instincs when they have never gotten me in to trouble. I was stupid and now i have to live with that. First "Date" he invited me over...
    Ema916 Ema916 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2010

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    I Have Room To Breath Now!

    I'm excited about starting fresh again.  I'm excited about learning new things and being able to grasp new opportunities.  I can concentrate on what I want to do and be able to smile and appreciate those who trully love me.  The future is bright now.  Before...
    FallenGrace FallenGrace 18-21, F Nov 16, 2009

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    It Didn't Last Very Long.. If You Can Call It A Relationship

    He thought he could control me and keep me under his thumb, he was wrong! He thought because I was innocent I was naieve as well, he was wrong! He thought if he criticized me and made me feel no one else would love me but him I'd stay and put up with his garbage, he was wrong...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2009

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    I Am In a Bad Relationship.

        I have been married since March of 05.  We have three children together,  He is a great father but not a good husband,  Its been pretty bad lately.  He is always yelling at me or just not saying anything to me at all.  He puts his hands...
    Babydoll85 Babydoll85 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    This Goal Has Been Reached!

    I have officially met my goal of getting out of a bad relationship! cross my fingers it stays this way. I have a good feeling about it. So to all of you lovely ladies and handsome gentlemen out there- my status has changed. I feel pretty bad right now, as should be expected for...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21 7 Responses Jun 14, 2010

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    Finally got out of the stupid relationship!!!! Just so glad but... Not everything is all peachy, even thought I'm moving on 100% my Ex on the other hand just doesn't know to let it...
    ashleyloveca16 ashleyloveca16 13-15, F Aug 14

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    I Finally got the courage to walk away from a bad relationship. The guy was so mean to me and he was never there when I needed him I finally walked away from him. It's hard to...
    Nursekat87 Nursekat87 26-30, F Aug 22

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    Were we close to being murdered? We will never know. If we were caught that could have been a likely outcome. Muzz and I had left on foot from our campsite at a lay-by beside a...
    Rusham Rusham 66-70, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    Who the hell cares?!?! I mean nobody gives a **** you just got out!
    DreadlockJesus DreadlockJesus 31-35, M Aug 3

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    Just got out of the shower I don't like to be dirty lol
    AlexMafia15 AlexMafia15 13-15, M Aug 4

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    My friend's husband asked her to send me this story. It summarizes my life... "She Could Hear Every Word He Said Through The Open Window, So She Started Typing: A few years ago...
    frspch frspch 51-55, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I was in a relationship with a girl and we were exchanging pictures (you can guess) and it was really bad for me I was ignoring my family and friends I stopped going to church and...
    Hime9908 Hime9908 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    It was never good from day one. I met him at work and he followed me around like an excited puppy begging me to give him a chance. His interest seemed too good to be true. We spent...
    Imnotdillusional Imnotdillusional 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 7

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    I'm in a relationship but I want out. He sucks and I'm so loosing interest. Plus he's really mean to me. He manipulated me into thinking everything is fine. He also demands me to...
    MyExceptionalLife MyExceptionalLife 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    It has been 7 years now and the time is still counting ... I haven't talked to my bad dad ...but we still live on the same house 'cause I have no choice...it sounds weird but you...
    simplyking simplyking 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have been in this exact same place  over half a dozen times before.  Why haven't I learned by now?  From hour to hour  and even minute to minute I NEVER know who you'll...
    girlofnirvana girlofnirvana 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    If I'm in love I'll do everything possible to make her happy and I would cherish and appreciate every moment spent with her. My love doesn't dwindle with time. It's constant. Now...
    heartskipsabeat heartskipsabeat 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    I was in love with my bestfriend for four years. Four very long years... Four years of being led on and manipulated and lied too. Four years of watching the person I loved go...
    LonerProject LonerProject 18-21, M Aug 12

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    Feels good taking a bath I feel refreshed I'm working hard on those abs hahah
    AlexMafia15 AlexMafia15 13-15, M Aug 3

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    I'm in the bath playing around and getting all cleaned up so I can call my bf later ;).
    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    I just got out of a terrible and torturous relationship recently and I decided to jump straight into another relationship (so stupid, I know). This new guy seemed to have so much...
    mistakeoverload mistakeoverload 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    But i need to share my life experience . My parents got divorced when i had 14 , i moved with my mom and sister out of our house . i had few relationships when i had 17 till 18...
    agirlouthere agirlouthere 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have been really discouraged lately, on of my ex girlfriends is trying to get back with me and wont leave me alone. We had a really bad breakup and I don't like being associated...
    Andrewwo Andrewwo 18-21, M Aug 10

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    I am divorced from my children's father. The marriage was difficult and the divorce was worse. My ex stalked me, things got so bad I had a nervous breakdown. I am bi-polar and...
    cwiddi cwiddi 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    We have had our final talk about “all” of the issues that I was having. The zoning out on the phone looking to buy snakes that are $800 a pop when we need a new car because...
    vonbender2010 vonbender2010 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    9 months together and then he turned on me...I dated my ex for a year he made me so happy and he was so caring and loving then nine months into our relationship he started hitting...
    ChandlerTitus1 ChandlerTitus1 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I has been long before my boyfriend told me this he will never do anything wrong ever to broke my heart when I used to ask him about his gal pals and especially about One coz I had...
    Blackangel4u Blackangel4u 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    If I see you, I will report you. I will shame the living bejesus out of you. I don't care if you're male, female, trans or just got out of your spaceship on the planet earth, if...
    extraneous1 extraneous1 51-55, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Here is a profile that I've learned from many bad relationships: Who not to date Somebody who somehow always makes you feel bad Somebody who only tells the truth when they feel...
    saraheve434 saraheve434 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    She's a good friend of mine. I've known her for years. For much of the time, I've been trying to hook up with her. It never happened and I settled into just playing the role of...
    OhDaddyMmm OhDaddyMmm 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    For all of those wondering if they are in an unhealthy relationship.50 Signs You're in a Bad Relationship
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I remember saying to myself when I was younger that I would never be in one. Never say never. We met online when I was 16, he was 17. I was always a paranoid person on the internet...
    DaQueenB92 DaQueenB92 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I just got out of a relationship today because he was unhappy and he said things just weren't working. He didn't help me to understand or anything. The next relationship, I'm not...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    A girl i've known for about 4 years now, told me that when we met she had a crush on me. But at the time I had just started dating another girl. I dated that girl for 2 and a half...
    jagart01 jagart01 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I trap myself in bad relationships, I try to make the best of it but end up just waiting for my escape ha ha
    chad514 chad514 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 3

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    Dear Diary Here we are again u falling assleep. Also whilst we are in convo. Am I that boring u fall asleep. Do u not want to stay up and talk to me. ____________________ Fell...
    Mollou Mollou 18-21, F Aug 13

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    We were on hols in North Wales at Rob's cottage (Rob is our friend Keiran's dad) the three girls, Hann's mum Julie, Keiran with his mum and dad and our friend Lewis and one day we...
    bethizhere bethizhere 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I dropped out of high school. I had severe anxiety issues and it got so bad I couldn't leave the house. I went to therapy got it resolved. I felt like such a loser with a GED. I...
    mysticdragonlady mysticdragonlady 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    I just got out of a rough patch with my fiancé, for calling him a S.O.B., now he's creating some new dram about some freaking condoms. TMI ALERT!!!!! So we normally don't use...
    wishingforabetteroutcome wishingforabetteroutcome 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I just got out of a relationship in June.He was mixed with white and black.And I'm black.
    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    If you asked me a year ago, I wouldn't believe you. I was never comfortable with social media, and I scoffed when I heard about people developing intimate relations online. Then I...
    willbutler412 willbutler412 51-55, M Aug 7

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    Recently got in a relationship with a guy but we have nothing to talk about when we text. In person we talk and stuff but not a lot .i just don't think we are right for each other...
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I was outside picking raspberries. I was bothered by large wasps and so I took my pickings and got out of the garden. But to get out, you have to take a very large step down. When...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I have my own room, but since we're travelling im sharing one with my sister. We had just come back from our day out and i took a shower. When i got out she got in to take one also...
    LifeOnAThread LifeOnAThread 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 2

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    Ok some of you may not know this but you can actually get high off of Dry cough Robotussun (also simalar brands). Well the first time i got high is when me and my older brother...
    scarface201 scarface201 26-30, M 4 days ago

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