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I Got Out of a Bad Relationship

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    I Am In a Bad Relationship.

        I have been married since March of 05.  We have three children together,  He is a great father but not a good husband,  Its been pretty bad lately.  He is always yelling at me or just not saying anything to me at all.  He puts his hands...
    Babydoll85 Babydoll85 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    It Didn't Last Very Long.. If You Can Call It A Relationship

    He thought he could control me and keep me under his thumb, he was wrong! He thought because I was innocent I was naieve as well, he was wrong! He thought if he criticized me and made me feel no one else would love me but him I'd stay and put up with his garbage, he was wrong...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2009

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    Big Mistake

    I was stupid. I was stupid for letting him use me. I was stupid for not ending it the first time or sooner. I was stupid for shucking my instincs when they have never gotten me in to trouble. I was stupid and now i have to live with that. First "Date" he invited me over...
    Ema916 Ema916 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2010

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    This Goal Has Been Reached!

    I have officially met my goal of getting out of a bad relationship! cross my fingers it stays this way. I have a good feeling about it. So to all of you lovely ladies and handsome gentlemen out there- my status has changed. I feel pretty bad right now, as should be expected for...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21 7 Responses Jun 14, 2010

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    I Have Room To Breath Now!

    I'm excited about starting fresh again.  I'm excited about learning new things and being able to grasp new opportunities.  I can concentrate on what I want to do and be able to smile and appreciate those who trully love me.  The future is bright now.  Before...
    FallenGrace FallenGrace 18-21, F Nov 16, 2009

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    I'm Free

    The first time something happened, we were having an intense discussion about our relationship. No screaming or yelling or raised voices. My two children were playing just outside the window. All of a sudden he grabbed me by the neck of my hoodie and pull me up out of my...
    estrellaluna estrellaluna 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2009

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    I Got Out Finally

    we were together for 4 yrs, we were gonna spend our lives together. when i met him he was my first serious bf so i think it was a "fools rush in thing." after maybe 6mos of being together, i found that i didnt like him. he was mean, depressed and selfish. and his...
    Cyndane Cyndane 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    Well, I suppose my narcissist got out of the relationship with me. Exactly 2 weeks ago, everything was rosy again. I say "again" because it was the typical pattern of his daily...
    Avicularia Avicularia 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    My Ex is a Narcissist I have suffered for 3 years his emotional abuse has left me so empty I don't know where to begin in rebuilding my life its only been 2 days but I am...
    sazz85 sazz85 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I was in a relationship with a girl and we were exchanging pictures (you can guess) and it was really bad for me I was ignoring my family and friends I stopped going to church and...
    Hime9908 Hime9908 13-15, M Aug 28

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    Well, yesterday was a good day, and today is starting out the same. I had a dream about him again last night. Both last night and the night before were not bad dreams...just...
    Avicularia Avicularia 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    I met my ex boyfriend four months ago. We met online and talked everyday for a month before actually meeting. We had very deep conversations and I felt like I already knew him even...
    confusedgirl01 confusedgirl01 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    It has been 7 years now and the time is still counting ... I haven't talked to my bad dad ...but we still live on the same house 'cause I have no choice...it sounds weird but you...
    simplyking simplyking 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    I hate to even say it, but I am at a point where I'm pretty sure I can't deny the inevitable anymore. I'm not necessarily feeling READY for this, but I need to end my relationship...
    SinginGlamChick85 SinginGlamChick85 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 4

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    There was this one guy. He was sweet at first, but as time passed, well, that wasn't the case. Always getting mad at me for nothing, he would accuse me of cheating constantly...
    SomethingGrimm SomethingGrimm 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    aight listen up, cuz now iv had enough, ya goin round spredin lies tellin people that babys mine bu yu no tha truth who ate all the pies? ask the father cuz that baby it ain mine...
    dragonninja dragonninja 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Feeling really down tonight... Will it ever stop hurtng?
    confusedgirl01 confusedgirl01 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    Having a better day today. I hate when I miss him cause I know I shouldn't
    confusedgirl01 confusedgirl01 31-35, F Sep 7

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    The more I learn about psychopathy/NPD, the more I forgive the one who ensnared me. He can't help what he is. But it's so hard to forgive myself for giving up my morals and...
    Avicularia Avicularia 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 8

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    My ex reminds me of the guy in 50 Shades of Gray, minus the millions and the S&M stuff.
    racingSnail racingSnail 31-35, F Sep 8

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    But i need to share my life experience . My parents got divorced when i had 14 , i moved with my mom and sister out of our house . i had few relationships when i had 17 till 18...
    agirlouthere agirlouthere 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    Well, this is my problem from the beginning of my "adult life"-I meet a girl and have a need to help her, in every way, if she has unpaid bills, I'll pay her bills and won't pay...
    Zpirit1978 Zpirit1978 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 5

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    I have already established how I feel about "the other woman" and the "cheater." But I see so many posts about bad, toxic marriages...Honestly...It scares me. People run when...
    rollingdoro rollingdoro 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    We have had our final talk about “all” of the issues that I was having. The zoning out on the phone looking to buy snakes that are $800 a pop when we need a new car because...
    vonbender2010 vonbender2010 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I has been long before my boyfriend told me this he will never do anything wrong ever to broke my heart when I used to ask him about his gal pals and especially about One coz I had...
    Blackangel4u Blackangel4u 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I am new here & looking for someone I can relate to on a personal level that has gone through something similar. I am 25 years old and I have been in a relationship for 5 years now...
    gretch024 gretch024 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Does my man love me or not He's very mean sometimes he's got really bad anger issues and says horrible things to me at one point he was physically abusive but he stopped but the...
    Elibabe303 Elibabe303 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 8

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    She's a good friend of mine. I've known her for years. For much of the time, I've been trying to hook up with her. It never happened and I settled into just playing the role of...
    OhDaddyMmm OhDaddyMmm 36-40, M Aug 29

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    A girl i've known for about 4 years now, told me that when we met she had a crush on me. But at the time I had just started dating another girl. I dated that girl for 2 and a half...
    jagart01 jagart01 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    I dropped out of high school. I had severe anxiety issues and it got so bad I couldn't leave the house. I went to therapy got it resolved. I felt like such a loser with a GED. I...
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    Krisne Krisne 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    snowbabe3 snowbabe3 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    hellerpeople hellerpeople 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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