I Got Out of a Bad Relationship

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    I Am In a Bad Relationship.

        I have been married since March of 05.  We have three children together,  He is a great father but not a good husband,  Its been pretty bad lately.  He is always yelling at me or just not saying anything to me at all.  He puts his hands...
    Babydoll85 Babydoll85
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 20, 2009

    I Have Room To Breath Now!

    I'm excited about starting fresh again.  I'm excited about learning new things and being able to grasp new opportunities.  I can concentrate on what I want to do and be able to smile and appreciate those who trully love me.  The future is bright now.  Before...
    FallenGrace FallenGrace
    18-21, F
    Nov 16, 2009

    I still remember it like it was yesterday.

    I had just got her phone number and began texting her on my birthday. She was a stunning singer, great artist, she was perfect. After a couple months into the relationship, I made the stupid mistake of giving up what I wanted to give someone who would at least stay their for a...
    WanderingThinker112 WanderingThinker112
    16-17, M
    1 Response May 31, 2015

    It was the worst relationship .

    .. He cheated on me with multiple women. That happened two years ago and I found it hard to open up myself to anyone since then. I have not been in a relationship after this relationship. I m afraid of being alone forever but I don't want to settle for less. Would rather be alone...
    thousandcuts thousandcuts
    22-25, F
    Jul 3, 2015

    when I was 18 to 21 I was with this guy

    who was an alcoholic, emotionally and mentally abusive. a few times pyhsically. He was always angry.
    Ang012685 Ang012685
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 21, 2015

    If bending over backwards

    and still being told your not good enough is healthy than I messed up and passed on that... God I hate how people act like breaking up is so bad.
    collegekid2016 collegekid2016
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 21, 2015

    I Got Out Finally

    we were together for 4 yrs, we were gonna spend our lives together. when i met him he was my first serious bf so i think it was a "fools rush in thing." after maybe 6mos of being together, i found that i didnt like him. he was mean, depressed and selfish. and his...
    Cyndane Cyndane
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    dalidacc11 dalidacc11
    26-30, F
    Apr 21, 2015

    Big Mistake

    I was stupid. I was stupid for letting him use me. I was stupid for not ending it the first time or sooner. I was stupid for shucking my instincs when they have never gotten me in to trouble. I was stupid and now i have to live with that. First "Date" he invited me over...
    Ema916 Ema916
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 17, 2010

    It was my first lesbian relationship,

    and I was nervous to begin with. She never respected my sexual boundaries and made me feel guilty for trying to assert my needs. My feelings were never important, and she wanted me to forego all of my responsibilities for her. She held a position of power over me, so I was...
    meadowes meadowes
    22-25, F
    Dec 14, 2014

    I remember the first time he bought me some

    flowers and said : " well hurry up and put them in water, they cost 4 quid"....
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Dec 13, 2014

    I recently just got out of the second worse

    relationship in my life. This man was emotionally abusive. He was racist against everyone specially blck n Hispanics. And he would claim he was Puerto Rican when both of his parents were white lol! I honestly don't know where I meet this guys. And why I have to be the one who...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 6, 2014

    So I became single on Sunday.

    I broke up with my boyfriend, and he seemed like a great guy who I could see myself with and we had a long history together. But when I constantly have to start the conversations and feel like I'm not good enough for him and he doesn't care, that's a sign we shouldn't be...
    biancal24 biancal24
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 20, 2015

    Last gf, drug addict,

    quit her job, ran my credit to MAX because my nature is giving. I need help
    Lonley1960 Lonley1960
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Apr 21, 2015

    It Didn't Last Very Long.. If You Can Call It A Relationship

    He thought he could control me and keep me under his thumb, he was wrong! He thought because I was innocent I was naieve as well, he was wrong! He thought if he criticized me and made me feel no one else would love me but him I'd stay and put up with his garbage, he was wrong...
    wack1985 wack1985
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 17, 2009

    My ex-girlfriend apparently doesn't know the

    meaning of the word 'secret'. I was betrayed and let down so many times I was finally like, '**** you, I'm out.'
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 21, 2015
    alonewbyx alonewbyx
    16-17, F
    Dec 13, 2014

    I'm Free

    The first time something happened, we were having an intense discussion about our relationship. No screaming or yelling or raised voices. My two children were playing just outside the window. All of a sudden he grabbed me by the neck of my hoodie and pull me up out of my...
    estrellaluna estrellaluna
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 1, 2009

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