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I Got Raped By My Husbands Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 10 People

    Never Told

    I've never said a word about it.
    Plaingirl74 Plaingirl74 36-40, F 3 Responses May 29, 2013

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    The man that raped me was my boyfriend at the

    time. We were together for 2 years. It was an abusive relationship. When he raped me I didn't press charges. I thought I would never see him again, because he got kicked out the country we lived in for another reason. I met my husband because he was this man's room mate then. we...
    adelgunde adelgunde 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    LolitaChrisbell LolitaChrisbell 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Jimbob94 Jimbob94 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    walker13sl walker13sl 22-25, F 39 mins ago

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    anonymous2396 anonymous2396 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 10

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    I was raped… I can't deal with the anger.
    Riku3323 Riku3323 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    BornDifferent BornDifferent 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    claireoblast claireoblast 31-35, F Jul 14

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    My punishments were being raped and beaten so it was always very scary to wait knowing that was about to happen and not having anywhere or anyone to run to.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    She had her kid, she was abusing her we had to take her, i dont know if it is that she just wants to deny it all or that she really doesnt realize what she has done, so now its...
    desirejanice desirejanice 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21

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