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I Great Marriage, But No Sex, Dammit

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 21 People

    Don't Know How Great It Is Anymore

    After several years with little sex and little closeness, and after several attempts to discuss the situation (attempts driven by my frustration), my wife announced last Sunday, 'You want affection, intimacy and sex; I don't want that.' She said she felt uncomfortable (she didn't...
    rickcc rickcc
    51-55, M
    1 Response Oct 22, 2009


    I'm actually the opposite. Only 19, so is my fiancee, although she'll be 20 in april. But anyways, technically, we aren't married yet, but we have a great relationship, but I don't really like to have sex as much anymore. I don't know why, but when we first started going out, it...
    raineskate raineskate
    18-21, F
    Feb 4, 2010


    i have tried talking, writing, yelling, fighting, crying even sad to admit begging for IT.  I'm a pretty, sexy, smart, wife- gives it all to her man, but i hardly even get it once a week.   I even told him I will look elsewhere if he doesn't own up to his...
    enufisenuf enufisenuf
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Sep 14, 2009

    What Do I Have To Do The Stoke Up The Furnace?

    I have a similar lack of interest issue from my wife. She is wonderful and a great mother but nothing gets her going.  We've talked about it a lot and she just "doesn't get in the mood." I've tried everything (candle light, mood music, massage, lots of foreplay...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 18, 2009

    Not Quite....

    I wouldn't say no sex, just limited sex. I have a high sex drive, I think about sex often, and want it very frequently as well. My wife is on the other end of the spectrum. She doesn't think about sex, feel sexual, have sexual thoughts or fantasies (at least that is what she...
    PastDue PastDue
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Oct 27, 2011
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