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I Grew Up With A Spanking Fetish

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 475 People

    I Did, And It Was Unfulfilled

    It's only now in hindsight that I realize I had a spanking fetish growing up. Back then I think I would have called it a curiosity. I was never once actually spanked growing up, but was certainly aware spankings were a thing, that some kids got punished that way. They were a...
    adamkessler2 adamkessler2 36-40, M Feb 1, 2013

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    My Story

    Everyone's spanking fetish seems to be different. Here's mine as a Q&A... Q: So, Christy, how long have you been interested in spanking? A: Almost as long as I can remember. I remember being in the 1st grade and watching a cartoon where a mama bear spanked her cubs and can still...
    Christysbottom Christysbottom 36-40, F 13 Responses Jun 3, 2013

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    Early Times

    I remember the slow almost sensual spankings given on birthdays in front of the whole class in kindergarten and 1st grades. Standing up the teacher would turn us in to her inner thigh and hold our little bodies close and at that age I remember my face being right in her crotch...
    wetbottomboy44 wetbottomboy44 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    I Wonder

    I wonder if the spanking fetish is the reason schools quit paddling students.. It could very well be. I myself would poke at the fire sometimes to see if I could get my butt burned..If a teacher I liked that paddled students..You can bet your butt I would try and get one from...
    paddlednikki paddlednikki 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2013

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    Born With A Spanking Fetish?

    I feel nearly like you, newman1833. Dunno if there is a spanking gene but I was fascinated by spanking ever since I can remember. I felt an overwhelming sensation when I watched a movie or read a book related to boys getting spanked. I could not classify this feeling back then...
    strictcp strictcp 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    Let A Friend Spank Me At 12

    I was 8 when I first started to get excited seeing/hearing another person get spanked, and I really got a funny feeling when I was going to get spanked. As I got older and found out about ************ I would ********** thinking about being spanked. When I was 12 I was playing...
    jimmielovesdiapers jimmielovesdiapers 46-50, M May 19, 2013

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    Grew Up With A Spanking Fetish

    I GREW UP WITH A SPANKING FETISH & still have it ,like to bare my *** & see that old razor strap , really turns me on ,heart beats 100 . And *** cringes & puckers !!!
    ekrolj ekrolj 46-50 6 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    My 1st Confession - How It Started.

    I have a confession. I’m a secret spankoholic. Only a few old boyfriends knows about my kink but not how I became introduced to it. This has always been my darkest secret. I've been spanking obsessed ever since I was a very little girl. For the longest time, I've been wanting...
    NoInnocentAngel NoInnocentAngel 26-30, F 15 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    One sometimes hears, "children

    who are spanked may grow up to be fetishists as a result." In my case, I didn't bother waiting to grow up. I became a fetishist while I was still a toddler.I can't remember a time when I wasn't fascinated by the subject of spanking. When I used to sit on my mother or father's...
    Badseed1956 Badseed1956 56-60, M Jan 17

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    Growing Up With A Spanking Fetish

    looking back on my childhood i now know that i had a spanking fetish starting at the age of around 10.i didnt know at the time what it was called but i liked to see other getting spanked and getting spanked myself.Even that my mom and dad spanked me i just couldnt get spanked...
    spanklover spanklover 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 14, 2012

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    My Spanking Fetish Started When I Was A Kid

    I have spent a long time trying to remember when spanking entered into my consciousness. I had young parents who were christian and believed in spanking. I think my first serious spanking came when I was about five. My brother is two years younger than me and we had gotten...
    pavium pavium 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 13, 2013

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    Why

    I have always had a fetish about bare bottom spankings or spankings across my shorts or panties. Yet the fact is apart from getting my legs smacked occasionally I was never spanked. I often imagined being over my form teachers lap whilst she spanked me over my very tightly...
    littlegreyshorts littlegreyshorts 51-55, M Oct 16, 2013

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    Growing Up With A Spanking Fetish

    I realised very early on that I like spanking. I had seen it on TV shows, Bonanza, and British school dramas etc, and I was fascinated. I liked it all, hand spankings, canings, slipperings etc. (maybe not the paddle) I also knew from an early age, that this was not normal, and...
    Kleeny Kleeny 36-40, M 7 Responses Sep 16, 2012

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    Bare Bottoms

    Those of us interested in spankings have many different stories to tell about why we find spankings so fascinating and how we got started in that interest...whether we were spanked as children or not, when and how we were first spanked, and so on. I have been fascinated by...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 20, 2013

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    Many Years Researching Spanking Fetish

    Ive spent about 12 years researching a spanking fetish about myself .Where it began what i like about it etc.I have come up with good reasoning.Number one its all about power or being powerless which ever you want.Mine started at 6 years old i rememebr seeing a spanking on tv and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 3, 2013

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    Here's something I wish I could have done

    when I was 12. I was never spanked, but perhaps this idea could have changed that, and also have been a way to ask for a spanking without it being too embarrassing to go through with. Save up my allowance for a few weeks and go buy a wooden hairbrush. Obviously I'd have to get...
    adamkessler2 adamkessler2 36-40, M 3 Responses May 27

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    30 Years And Counting

    I grew up getting spanked. They were not severe, in fact, compared to my friends and relatives, I probably got off easy. I was spanked regularly, and yes, it was bare bottom, but they ended before I hit puberty. But, I was interested in it, even if I couldn't explain it, since...
    Christysbottom Christysbottom 36-40, F 6 Responses May 31, 2013

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    Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Spanking?

    You wouldn't think it would be this hard to get a good spanking. The world is full of hostile, frustrated, angry people, who are looking for outlets for their frustrations. And I am offering the perfect outlet. MY BUTT! I would be THRILLED if every single person reading this took...
    newman1833 newman1833 51-55, M 4 Responses Jul 18, 2013

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    Online Discovery - Jackpot!

    My mom i think was one of the last hold outs to using A OL. She liked it, and i had my own account. It was always locked down using the parental settings, but a neighborhood boy taught me a trick to get around that annoyance. I was 12 then and felt the 13 yo rule was unfair...
    NoInnocentAngel NoInnocentAngel 26-30, F 12 Responses Jun 9, 2013

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    Many Times

    I have shared a couple of my more memorable spankings, but I know that the spankings I received were not only deserved, but wanted. I know why I confessed to breaking the window, I wanted to know what it was like to get spanked by someone other than my dad. I often went home...
    mountainlionbilly mountainlionbilly 18-21 1 Response Jun 11, 2013

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    A Serious Problem That People Pass Off As A Harmless Fetish

    SHAME - YOUR VERDICT This morning I awoke with deep thoughts Gandhi... a serious subject. He was prepared to suffer; to suffer imprisonment, starvation, punishment, beatings and even death... in his service to God; in his obedience to God's laws, as he understood them, and...
    Btrue21self Btrue21self 51-55, M 4 Responses Apr 21, 2013

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    My First Paddle

    I have bean spanking myself as long as i can remember.I still have the first paddle i ever made for myself when i was twelve.At sixteen i drilled hole's in it,were my lingerie and beat my *** raw.I love that paddle so much.My girlfriend knows i love to spank myself.Sometimes she...
    royalflush70 royalflush70 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 20, 2012

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    Exploring My Spanking Fetish

    As a kid riding my bicycle all over town, I enjoyed exploring old, abandoned buildings and houses as I still do to this day. There's one house in particular I enjoyed going into. In the back bed room, I spread newspaper on the floor, propped a mirror up, found a board, laid down...
    Mirky Mirky 51-55, M 6 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    Frustratingly Ironic

    I, too, have been fascinated with spanking and OTK-related activities for as long as I can remember. And my daydreams were fairly detailed and specific. In my favorite scenarios, a female friend or teen-age babysitter is spanking me over her knee. She is bare-legged or wearing a...
    Welder53 Welder53 51-55 1 Response Jul 20, 2013

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    I Grew Up When It Was Normal To Get Spanked At School - At Home - Lots, Bare, - Hard!

    I grew up in Texas, and it was very common and normal to get spanked as punishment. At that time, there was no such thing as "Time Out", it was scolding, spanking, and standing in the corner after being freshly spanked. It was really normal to get swats on the naked butt. At...
    medicalenemaboy medicalenemaboy 61-65, M 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

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    It Started Early

    The first spanking that I remember was at age five or six. But although I don't remember any previous spankings, I do remember that when my father told me I was to be spanked, I knew exactly what was coming. So at that time, I did remember at least one earlier spanking, that I...
    tqbartleby tqbartleby 51-55, M 2 Responses Feb 6, 2013

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    Jimmy's Summer Spanking

    I seem always to have been obsessed with, and aroused by spanking as long as I can recall. While I did not enjoy getting spanked myself as a child, I loved watching others around me get spanked, which happened quite a lot in those days of the early 1960's. One occasion that I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 10, 2013

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    The Awakening In The Late 4th Grade.

    Almost 57 years ago when I was 3 I lost my parents in a traffic accident and ended up in an religious based orphanage. It was strange at first but since I was so young I quickly adapted to the highly structured environment. This place was quick to use spanking as a means of...
    rbeatty53 rbeatty53 56-60, F 5 Responses Nov 28, 2012

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    I Was Convinced I Was Insane!

    I got my first spanking in 1959. I could tell you the exact time and date! But I knew that I was fascinated by the word and the act, well back before that date. My ears perked up when ever I heard "spanking" and my heart would beat faster whenever I saw anything related to it...
    sc40808 sc40808 61-65, M 7 Responses Dec 11, 2013

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    Spankings: Terrified As A Child, Fascinated By Age Ten

    Forty years later the right situation still send shivers through me. In the third grade I witnessed boys and girls paddled at the front of the classroom. As early as I can remember I received spankings at home, never cruel, but quite firm. By the time I was 8 or 9, both parents...
    mickb4 mickb4 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 22, 2013

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    Is There A Spanking Gene?

    Because if there is, I've got it. I can't remember a time when I wasn't fascinated by spanking. In elementary school, when other kids would announce that they had recently received a spanking at home, I was all ears. I wanted all the details and couldn't get enough of hearing...
    newman1833 newman1833 51-55, M 12 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    God'S Woodshed

    Until I was ten, we were nominal members of the Lutheran Church. We considered ourselves Christian but seldom attended services. This was fine with me, because I found the services tedious and when I became too old to bring a coloring book to church, I simply refused to go and my...
    newman1833 newman1833 51-55, M May 13, 2013

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    Where Does The Interest Come From

    I to grew up with a spanking fetish which was probably there from a very early age. Although I was spanked as a child at home and school it was not excessive to be truthful it was fairly rare for me to be spanked, and was only slippered at school and home a couple of occassions...
    plimsolllover plimsolllover 36-40 2 Responses Jan 16, 2013

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    A Fetish That Developed Some 50 Years Ago!

    When I was 10. Like Newman I do not like the "real thing", and in fact oppose it; and have verbally torn into quite a few brutal parents on EP's "discipline" fora. Yet I too grew up with the fetish and fascination. I think the seed was an uncharacteristic spanking in Infants...
    Perspicares Perspicares 56-60, M Nov 1, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Or a cutting board, spatula, or wooden spoon. I have no issue with spanking a kid when they're out-of-line or do something bad. I got spanked (good) and I turned out just fine...
    somerbunni703 somerbunni703 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 27

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    I do strong believe in the sense of spanking. Its benefit is independent of age and gender. Besides I think a spanker should know the feelings that are caused by such punishments...
    wellreddened wellreddened 51-55, M 5 hrs ago

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    I'm 13 and I think my mom over reacted. I was at school and got into an argument with a friend and the teacher had to come into it and separate us. My teacher sent home a note to...
    annebaby annebaby 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    As a spanker, it's hard to balance the right amount of discipline to the the offense. Some times it's only a few swats that our needed, and sometimes it a lot more for what they...
    Momof2spankedstill Momof2spankedstill 41-45, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I usually get spankings from My HOh at bedtime.. I like it, because after my punishment I feel better and finally sleep happy and peaceful
    NewWoman76 NewWoman76 36-40, F 1 Response 46 mins ago

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    I can't really say that the hairbrush is the worst spanking implement. When I was growing up it was one of the more common spanking implements that were used. Not only did I hear...
    tripdelta3 tripdelta3 56-60, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hello everyone. You may call me discipline :) I don't want to give away my real name until I have gotten to know you all better personally, anyway. Back on topic. I have never been...
    Disciplining Disciplining 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 6

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    Hello everyone. You may call me discipline :) I don't want to give away my real name until I have gotten to know you all better personally, anyway. Back on topic. I have never been...
    Disciplining Disciplining 13-15, F 6 Responses Sep 6

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    I still get spankings and often. It is part of my relationship with my girlfriend. As I type this I am sitting in my basement starring at a paddle, paint stir stick, and a belt. It...
    spankedashleey spankedashleey 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 13

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    I get belt spankings. I am 13(8th grade) and my dad still spanks me with a belt. What the heck! So I was just doing my homework and I accidentally knocked over a glass and it broke...
    Daddyspanksme Daddyspanksme 13-15, F 6 Responses Sep 5

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    I confess I was not eager to get a well reddened bottom whenever I had misbehaved. But there was no doubt: a spanking was a natural part of every punishment. I had great respect...
    wellreddened wellreddened 51-55, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    When I think about my spankings then I imagine me lying over the knee of my mom or dad. Certainly I received most spankings in this position - at least up to 13. When I had aged...
    wellreddened wellreddened 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 13

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    Seeing all these posts about woman being 'spanked' really creeps me out! I know most of you are pro-spanking however until a few weeks ago I didn't know spanking a grown woman...
    kel25 kel25 26-30 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I am 14 in the 13-15 age group. I still get spankings and it's ridiculous! I've been spanked by almost every family member but my worst spankings are from my uncle and aunt and mom...
    Lanaoreo Lanaoreo 13-15, F 8 Responses Sep 1

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    Today my family was going to the park. My little brother wanted to go for 2 hours and my parents said yes. When we got to the park everything was ok until about an hour later. I...
    Daddyspanksme Daddyspanksme 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    This is another story about dad and his infamous slipper. Mom was spanking my little bro in our room while Dad , sister and me were watching tv in living room. Suddenly mom...
    rcarlos72 rcarlos72 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 7

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    I think there is nothing hotter then a spanking on some white briefs bent over the knee! Then after the spanking the sore butt!
    SexuBio SexuBio 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago