I Had a Bad Valentine's Day

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    The Reason I Hate Valentines Day

    My boyfriend at the time and I were best friends. I was obsessed with him and he made me feel good. He was my first kiss. He was my first valentine. On valentines day, we got each other presents. I got him a box of chocolates with an iTunes gift card, and he got me a card with a...
    AlliSnickers AlliSnickers
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

    A Really Bad Day.

    Here is a bad valentines day. It was 1998 I was married for 11 years, I thought mostly happy so I didn’t see this coming. We had big plans dinner and a night out. I was going over the money and found there was thousands missing. When I asked her about it she didn’t...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jul 18, 2008

    Valentine's Day Fight.. Feeling Crushed :-(

    Both my boyfriend and I (we live together) really don't celebrate Valentine's Day. We've never hyped it up in the three years we've been dating. However, last year he pulled all the stops and got me these reallllly sweet and thoughtful gifts. Most women complain ( I do...
    cleopatra2007 cleopatra2007
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 14, 2007

    Can You Top My Bad Valentines Day??

    I have a ex girl friend that in the past couple months has mental issues that we think is bipolar she has not gotten help for yet. She moved out cheated on me with another guy. This other guy is out to use her because he knows she has a problem and using her. We were going to buy...
    mattrain00 mattrain00
    2 Responses Feb 14, 2012
    FantasyMan86 FantasyMan86
    18-21, M
    Apr 20, 2014

    My valentines day has been bad ever

    since I got married 2002. My ex was abusive, mean and just hateful. Our anniversary is vday and it brings back many bad memories. I hate that day but make the very best of it
    denaellis575 denaellis575
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Mar 16, 2014

    Valintine Day Experience

    So my girlfriend ex girlfriend has been dating for 8 months now and on valentines day she dump me saying she doesnt loved like me anymore . The worst part is i bought a teddy bear a chocolate and a handmade letter who i spent a whole night writing . Before i bought this items i...
    Guy631 Guy631
    Jan 28, 2013

    Several Actually

    There is something about holidays that I hate. Oh yeah, being alone or getting cheated on, that's what it is! I just have bad luck, what can I say.
    deleted deleted
    Nov 19, 2010

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    bathjunkie bathjunkie
    41-45, F
    Feb 3, 2010

    My man overseas sent me flowers

    and a box if chocolate with a horrible card reminding me of my 'trying times'. I spent two weeks gathering a box of goodies and making homemade baked goods and he booked me ' thanks babe'. Not even a video call
    Minnesotalove Minnesotalove
    26-30, F
    Mar 5, 2014

    Valentine\'s Day At the Bk Lounge

    My worst Valentine's Day experience was back in college. I was an engineering student-- a MALE engineering student to be precise, and everyone knows engineering studies a) have no lives outside of math, science, Star Wars, and video gamesb) cannot interact with womenright? ;) Of...
    VAGreg VAGreg
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Feb 12, 2006

    It's Been A While..

    I can't remember the last time I had had a good Valentine's Day..... But then again when I think about it.... This day along with Sweetest's Day are pretty much commercial.... I never needed a specific day to tell my girlfriend I loved/ cherished her..... The things I do...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Jan 6, 2010


    He got me candy. I told him yesterday I gave it up for lent. He also got tulips, but when he came in he was pissed at me and didn't give them to me, just said"whoever claims them" when Livvy asked. I almost threw them out the window. How does this become my fault? I started...
    Shurraw Shurraw
    1 Response Feb 14, 2013

    Least Expected

    On Valentine's Day I received a white rose. I thought it was from this guy who I am close with (a relationship with no real status) but then I remembered that he told me our Valentine's on Saturday not Thursday because he got something special planned already. I saw the card and...
    crazycraze crazycraze
    13-15, F
    Feb 17, 2013

    There is no story to tell.

    I'm 47 and I never had a valentine ever. To me the day has no significance. I guess to those that do maybe. But to me? No:(
    ATroubledLife ATroubledLife
    46-50, M
    Mar 25, 2014

    Unexplained Causes

    Every since I was little I loved anything and everything about magic. I do remember one  time when I real young I felt like I had magic powers. Their was this one necklace that was just beautiful and I put it under my pillow and the next thing you it was gone. The next day is...
    lovelyfaces lovelyfaces
    18-21, F
    Apr 18, 2011

    Couldnt Enjoy It

    i was and still am so sick  one of my eyes was swollen shut and my head was pounding
    theluckyduck theluckyduck
    31-35, M
    11 Responses Feb 15, 2009

    Please Tell Me Im Not The Only One...

    I've been married 10 yrs. My first anniversary is when I should have walked out. We married in October, got pregnant in December, our child born in September. We were newelyweds with a baby. I suppose I couldn't expect much...but I went and bought him a gift he wanted, something...
    sh3d3vil sh3d3vil
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Feb 15, 2012

    The Last Time

    valentines should not be only one day it should be every time in islam so fix yourselfs up. convert yourselfs in to islam it is the one and only religion the true religion so to save yourselfs from hell start acting your right way and fix yourselfs up . and act right thank you...
    qwertyvfd qwertyvfd
    1 Response Feb 14, 2013

    My Past

    Sometimes I feel that everybody is out to get me but I know very well that is not true. I was emotionally and verbally abused my people in my last placement and I was only fourteen. I always get scared that bad things will happen to me. I do remember the time that when I was...
    lovelyfaces lovelyfaces
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 26, 2011

    My whole Valentine's weekend was ruined

    because my man got the worst stomach flu ever. I was taking care of him as much as I could, but honestly, I was way too paranoid of getting sick. Because of my paranoia, I was banished to the couch for the weekend. So needless to say, I haven't had any chocolate, flowers...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 17, 2014

    Such Guilt

    I spent this past Valentine's Day with my boyfriend. He's great. He's really nice to me, he's accepting, he's caring... He's wonderful. There's a problem, though. I'm a lesbian. I don't know why I did it. I'm so ashamed. Maybe I just wanted to feel "normal" for a bit. Maybe one...
    PyroPyrate PyroPyrate
    18-21, F
    10 Responses May 10, 2011

    Maybe I'll Be A Mrs. ... Soon ...

    My bad Valentine's day was the one this year. Everything seemed to be perfect. When I woke up he was gone so I thought he would be downstairs. But he wasn't. A few minutes later the doorbell rang and I went to the door - but there was no one in front. When I just wanted to...
    amyglobetrotter amyglobetrotter
    26-30, F
    Feb 15, 2010

    V-day Jinx

    i had my worst valentine's day ever yesterday. i have been in real relationships but honestly i have never experienced a real date on valentines day. maybe that's why it has become a frustration to actually try to be dined and wined by someone special. i am a romantic at heart...
    robles23 robles23
    26-30, F
    Feb 15, 2011

    Am I Expecting Too Much?

    I went out of my way to get my boyfriend something nice for Valentine's day & what did he do for me in return? Nothing. No gift. No chocolate, not even a flower. Maybe i'm being high maintenence by expecting something, but i don't know. It just bothers me, seeing other guys who...
    xoxoJG xoxoJG
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 15, 2010

    Wtf? I Mean, Really??

    Ok, so Valentine's Day was supposed to be great this year. I actually had someone who lived nearby to spend it with.  The night before, I bought gifts for him and he even made the comment that "There's no way I was going to get out of the date." The next morning comes, and I...
    Kimba2992 Kimba2992
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 15, 2012

    Home-made Card

    I didn't get anyone anything for v-day except for my son.  I made him a card.  I was kind of excited about giving it to him.  He looked at it and asked me what it said.  I read it to him.  He looked at it again and crumpled it up. 
    eromreven eromreven
    5 Responses Feb 14, 2009

    Felt So Stupid

    Last year i decided that i wanted to shower my boo _ who is my ex now _ with gifts on the holiday that is most beneficial for women because i don't think it's fair that the spend all that money on us and they don't really get anything.  Guess what he got me. This year he...
    tinkabella tinkabella
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 17, 2007

    I let my boyfriend know

    that Vday was important to me and although I don't care about expensive gifts, I wanted to be made to feel a bit special in his eyes that day. Well, all week he kept complaining that all the restaurants were booked, to which I replied that it was okay, we could make dinner...
    Catriona2931 Catriona2931
    31-35, F
    Feb 15, 2016

    My boyfriend's mother got sick

    so he stayed home with her for the day leaving me with no plans for the day.
    susie11022 susie11022
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 14, 2014

    How I Feel About Valentne's Day

    In elementary school Valentines was a big day because of all the cards you got, I'd look forward to looking at what card the boy I had a crush on would give me. I would try to give him the special card in the box. Ever since middle school I could remember all the pretty,stuck up...
    boricua1 boricua1
    26-30, F
    Feb 4, 2009


    So my boyfriend *and first love* had been dating for a very long time... for me anyways... about a year and a half... and on V-day this last year, he sent his ex girlfriend (his first love) a rose... he was away at college and didnt even give me a rose this year. I got chocolates...
    ashc ashc
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 14, 2008

    Never Worked Out For Me

    How's this for a bad Valentine's Day? I found out the guy that confessed his feelings for me so many times and that I was "with" had a girlfriend! And he had the nerve to tell me with no sympathy at all! I came home to my dad in tears. This was the second worst Valentine's day I...
    thebookaholic thebookaholic
    22-25, F
    Aug 6, 2013

    lol...this was my first date with this guy

    and he showed up in his work cloths and we ate to the Waffle House ...smh.. im not knocking the work cloths, but on the first DATE?.. a major turn off
    RealFriendsLastLonger RealFriendsLastLonger
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 18, 2014

    Bad Valentine Day

    for 4 years now i have received nothing for valentines even though i try to send even my family members a card....its not about possessions to me its about love why not even pick up the phone and call me and tell me u love me...maybe next year
    razdaz1 razdaz1
    31-35, F
    Sep 5, 2009


    I've never had a problem with this day ever, as far as I can remember. Not when I have been single either. It just didn't bother me. But this year, this past Feb 14th, I could barely stand to hear about it. To have had the hope and feeling that everything was so strongly...
    Cinderelly Cinderelly
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Feb 15, 2009

    My Wife Is Averse to Sex....

    So living in a marriage where sex is not allowed... makes for a bad Valentine Day. Let's see this one coming up will make the 4th devoid of physical affection (sex).
    JRSK007 JRSK007
    51-55, M
    5 Responses Feb 9, 2008

    I found out that my husband was talking with

    this lady called Gladys and other girls.... He was expressing how deeply he misses Gladys and how beautiful she was and so on... The sad part is on Valentine's Day my husband did nothing for me.... I told him how sad u didn't do nothing for me and You don't deserve it!!! Enough...
    chellabella76 chellabella76
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 18, 2014

    Valentine's Day With A Boyfriend

    One thing I looked forward to in having a boyfriend was spending Valentine's day with him and he would give me roses and I can brag to my friends about him. This is how it really went down. -He didn't get me anything. -He didn't even say "Happy Valentine's day" -He didn't text me...
    rkw345 rkw345
    1 Response Apr 25, 2011

    I had been seeing a new man

    and he was fantastical! I had fallen head over heels for the guy, and asked him out a few weeks before. So we were allegedly exclusive. He disappeared for the whole valentines week, didn't wish me a happy v day, and offered no reason for his absence! I dumped him. I had so...
    millicentmay millicentmay
    36-40, F
    Mar 13, 2014

    Heart's Aglow

    I have a love hate relationship with Valentine's Day.   One thing that really bothers me about this day is that I cannot fully fathom why we need a special day each year to show people that we care about them.  If you truly love someone shouldn&rsquo...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Nov 28, 2009

    an Atrocious V-day ... ...

    an atrocious v-day ... who hasn't had one of these? an atrocious v-day makes no difference to me.  why would i care?  it's no different than a bad monday or a long friday in my book.  it's a commercial holiday created by Hallmark or another that's supposed to...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal
    31-35, F
    3 Responses May 30, 2007

    He Broke Up With Me On Valentines Day. . Feb.14,2012

    My valentines day is always bad in my past 3years relationship with my 1st bf valentines day is nothing to expect nothing to celebrate , now a few months ago I met someone who I think finally make my vday special he so great, so kind, so lovable so responsible he can do anything...
    missnolucky missnolucky
    18-21, F
    Feb 14, 2012

    Boyfriendless W/ My 2 Boyfriend Less Friends....

    Last year for Valentine's Day....I was extremely lonely. Me and my ex had just broken up which didn't help at all. My friends were lonely too so on Valentines day at school, we were just sitting around feeling sorry for ourselves while everybody pranced around with teddy bears...
    Val3ntine Val3ntine
    18-21, F
    Oct 6, 2010

    I Think All My V-days Except O...

    I think all my V-days except one have been utterly awful. It's not even all the couples or pressure to have someone love you, it's the over abundance of candy. I eat and eat and eat chocolate all day long until I feel like I'm going to throw up and pass out. The only good V-day I...
    wanderkid wanderkid
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 19, 2007
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