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I Had A Best Friend But Hate Her Or Him Now

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    Omfg even guys like to cause drama, it's annoying. As long asi know u pretty well then u may tell me ur issues, life, whatever the hell u want but if ur going to tell me ur issue...
    Runawayday Runawayday 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I want someone who will love to be be my best friend. Someone I can share conversation with. Someone that likes being around me. I only had one best friend. But she died and now I...
    23Crystal1991 23Crystal1991 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I won't leave my best friend Kody. Right now, he is in a really dark place. He said a LOT of hurtful and hateful things to me today, and I know he is lashing out, and when he gets...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half, and hanging with his friends pretty much the whole time. I haven't really got comfortable with them until recently. See, what...
    edlineuser edlineuser 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Hate is a strong word but yes, I hate my best friend but the only reason is because I love her. I can't stay indifferent to her and when she hurts me, I hate her because I'm angry...
    Bearloveshoney Bearloveshoney 18-21 Mar 24

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    I had been estranged from my best friend for quite some time now. I thought it must have been the distance thing. He is a whole continent away. But despite my emails, he would...
    ashashwat ashashwat 18-21, F Apr 9

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    I have seen this more and more and I don't understand. Best friend -A person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or...
    lovedandadored lovedandadored 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Today I got on Facebook cause he was on my mind and I went to message him and I started looking thru all our old messages first then I messaged my boyfriend and asked if I should...
    MissSkye MissSkye 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I've known my girl best friend, Francine, for 8 years now. She is very bright, very funny, very nice, and the best friend anyone could ask for. I am the luckiest guy in the world...
    aJason23 aJason23 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 21

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    My best friend is AWESOME. (No, it's not myself, he really does exist). :D We've been best friends for a few years, and he's cheered me up when I felt sad. He has been there for...
    Knicksfan20 Knicksfan20 18-21, M Mar 23

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    I want a best friend that will be by my side 24/7. Who will always be there if you need help. Who I can act crazy around with. Who do everything together. Who doesn't care if I'm...
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F Apr 11

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    I love my best friend, but I don't think it's necessary to have contact everyday just because of that one fact. Simply because we have a stronger bond than most, doesn't mean we...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M Apr 6

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    We're not exactly best friends, but we are very good friends. I've liked him since the beginning of the school year. We would flirt with eachother all the time. He did it for fun...
    Kittenfire Kittenfire 16-17, F a week ago

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    I cannot live without my best friend But I have no choice My best friend my wife my love of my life my soulmate passed away on January23/14 And I am left here without you I feel so...
    IlovetitsToo IlovetitsToo 31-35, M Mar 27

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    I though I found a true best friend but now were mad at each other over what happen last night I can't stop crying about it I feel like I have no one now
    lovesmakeup lovesmakeup 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I fell in love with my best friend but he didn't feel the same way I do. He's into another girl and it hurts me so much. I feel so useless and ugly right now. I don't know what to...
    Glo59 Glo59 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I am in love with my best friend but i dont know if he will be ok with it
    LaTeAssassin LaTeAssassin 16-17, M Mar 24

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    My best friend is a guy and we've known each other for almost 9 years already. We constantly get into stupid arguments but they are serious that's just us. I stopped talking to him...
    AlwaysHaveDreams AlwaysHaveDreams 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    Maybe hate is too much but… I thing she is not my best friend anymore, I don´t know what to do. I met my best friend 4 years ago and we became friends very quickly, we had fun...
    CaptainMer CaptainMer 16-17 Mar 31

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    Hello everyone. I am 14 years old and you might think this is just the stupidity of teenage hood but I seriously have a problem. So I became friends with my "Beast Friend " 4 years...
    AlexandraMikhailov AlexandraMikhailov 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    ​know i am very young, but yes I've fallen in love. so it all started in kindergarten. we instantly connected, he was my best friend over everything. we both had a learning...
    seersh98 seersh98 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I believe everything happens for a reason and that you meet everyone that you meet for a reason. Most of my friends have been girls, but I've had one really good guy friend and...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My best friend thinks that I've changed and I hate him because we used to hangout all the time. Then high school came and we don't hangout as much. I started basketball, he got a...
    mariahann88 mariahann88 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    We met 20 years ago in nursing school. She was so funny! We were in the same carpool together. She was from Korea but she was adopted at age 9 by an Italian family, and she had the...
    SanitySister SanitySister 41-45, F Mar 25

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    I hate my 'best friends' they're so ignorant and selfish. They never listen to me, and always push me away when I'm walking with them. They were never there when I'm sad, they...
    gyomii gyomii 16-17, F Mar 29

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    So a few years ago (about 2) I was really close with a friend and they were my "bestfriend" I was soo happy, I had someone I could fully trust and someone I could tell everything...
    farhank14 farhank14 13-15, M Apr 7

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    Let's call my best friend "J" for security reasons. J has been my best friend since October. Before that, I HATED HIM! In school I thought he was a really mean person but id never...
    jamesbond1551 jamesbond1551 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    I used to be best friends with a girl all the way from kindergarten, up to a year after graduation. I was there for her through everything. Her uncle dying, having to move, all...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    Soul sisters, to be frank - That's me and my bestest best friend, which is what we like to call each other. We've only known each other for about a year and we didn't start of as...
    xxxrina xxxrina 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I am head over heals in love with my best friend. Scratch that. I have 2 best friends with whom I am in love. First, there is my husband. We have been through more than any 2...
    staystronglivelong29 staystronglivelong29 26-30, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    My absolute best friend is also my ex-boyfriend. It's not really weird because we didn't date for long and that was a while ago. The only thing that makes it woes is that he knows...
    Usethisone1331 Usethisone1331 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I literally am the worst best friend. EVER. I have liked my best friends ex even when he wasn't her ex.....like at first I didn't know they were dating but when I found out I...
    TealMarie TealMarie 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Rowan. I can't believe I was so terrible to him. I still remember the day. I came to school and was supposed to tell him that there is a laast minute practice after school. I kept...
    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M Mar 26

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    My best friend Ashe knew I liked a guy named Jo for almost a year I loved him so much and I always talked about him even when I moved to a different town. She invited him over so I...
    NonexistantSoul NonexistantSoul 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I may not only love, but be in love with my best friend. I have never been a fan of her boy friend that I unfortunately introduced her to, thinking they would be a quick hook up as...
    EccentricTree EccentricTree 18-21 Mar 25

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    Unlike most of the stories here on the same subject, absolutely nothing ever happened between me and my best friend: we never dated—nor did anyone ever even suggest it or say we...
    luehdnoea luehdnoea 18-21, M Apr 10

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    We actually haven't talked for a while . One day we just stopped talking for some strange reason. But this girl was my best friend . We recently just started talking again. It...
    Anonymous13brah Anonymous13brah 16-17, M Mar 20

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    After being married for many years, I found out my wife ( my ex now as we are divorced for about ten years now) had been cheating on me with a guy who purported to be my best...
    ExperienceDan ExperienceDan 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    I feel totally retarded now... Why'd I fall for him out of all the people? We're totally opposite, but still best friends and he means the world to me, but I had never thought it'd...
    xgone4ever xgone4ever 18-21, F Mar 24

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    I feel extremely guilty even writing this, but I can't keep it to myself anymore. My friend-last year definitively a "best" friend and this year one of my roommates- has become...
    messycrazylife messycrazylife 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I lost two of them, actually. They were mean to me and when I was upset they never helped me. I told another friend about this and she went and told my best friends that I hate...
    clairexo clairexo 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I haven't told him, but I love my best friend, ever since I started talking to him 4 years ago, he's one of the best things that has happened to me. Coincidently before I met him...
    pappa94 pappa94 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Okay, I told my best friend of 13 years that I have feelings for him, he said he feels the same. He then went on holiday and while he was on holiday he called ME asking me for...
    ClaireD97 ClaireD97 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    What is this page all about, you hate your best friend, if you hate your best friend then they are not your friend.
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    i actually have a lover who is my best friend and it is so complicated.. we argue so much.. we get upset.. worry.. cry.. laugh.. open up to each other.. kiss and go further.. sneak...
    dontlosehope28 dontlosehope28 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I am a person who believes in keeping promises, never lying, and always being there for people when they need me. No matter what. I have a guy "bestfriend" that betrayed all...
    lostinsocietyexpectations lostinsocietyexpectations 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    My best friend is a guy. We have been friends since we were young. Now that I am moving I won't get to see him hardly at all. When I told him my house sold and I would be moving...
    VioletCarroll VioletCarroll 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    She's been ******* me off ever since she started going out with her boyfriend like 2 years ago. She never has time for me. And i invited her to my 18th birthday (its a formal thing...
    Lalafancy Lalafancy 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    My best friend is great. I love her, and I think she loves me. Till she stopped responding to my snapchats and texts (despite opening them), we would text for 3 hours daily. I want...
    kylalafferty kylalafferty 22-25, F Mar 25

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    My best friend has been in the Navy for almost 3 years now and I'm still not use to it. We've been best friends for almost ten years. We're more like brothers. We even fight like...
    SDJ317 SDJ317 22-25, M Mar 26

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