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I Had A Best Friend But Hate Her Or Him Now

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    My guy and girl best friend started rumors that I was sleeping with my crush, who also had a crush on me. My crush and I had admitted it to one another, but at the time we weren't...
    RaielleMae RaielleMae 13-15, F Jul 27

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    I know it sounds weird to hate your best friend. But, sometimes you do. I think it is the nasty thing call time that make us change our perception on friendship and friends. She...
    allinlove allinlove 22-25, F Aug 3

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    Had a great day with my best friend yesterday ^_^ He's the opposite gender to me. He texted me asking if I wanted to come with him for his passport interview. After his interview...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My best friend was Jordan and I meet her when I was like 7 believe it or not we first met in a church which was ironic cause she's an atheist and I'm undefined now. Anyway we got...
    DarkRun421 DarkRun421 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I've focused a lot on my fetish, but let me add a little depth to my personality. This is about the greatest friendship I ever had and lost. I'm an army brat, so I moved around a...
    Hairaddict67 Hairaddict67 22-25, M Aug 6

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    We don't call our selfs best friends, but I believe we are the best friend of each other. He is really the only person I can be smart with, and actually hates me when I play dumb...
    Notwhatyouthinkiam Notwhatyouthinkiam 16-17, F Jul 27

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    I feel terrible. We have always had this weird tension...I've only been married for a couple years (we will call my husband A and his friend D) A and I had a good relationship at...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Okay so I friend got pregnant at 17 I'm a year younger then her and you know she went through a really bad time with people being so mean to her about this pregnancy i was there...
    hollaout hollaout 16-17, F Jul 22

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    first of all, I'm not in love, it's just a crush. I've only been friends with my best friend for a couple months now, and I first met her brother a couple weeks ago. we have a...
    baesephone baesephone 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    For over 10 years I was bullied, abused and just plain tortured. It made it difficult for me to make friends, because all I knew was aggression, and because I craved attention so...
    janedoe1994 janedoe1994 18-21, F Aug 8

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    So...me and my bf started out as friends. Then became best friends then fwb. We are now in a relationship and I am having trouble with transitioning from friends to lovers. Has...
    bird75 bird75 36-40, F Jul 22

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    I have many guy friends and although I enjoy the laughter, jokes, and good times, I miss having a girl best friend . I'm not gay or anything I just like having a girl who comes to...
    21anchors 21anchors 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 23

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    I'm in love with my best friend I wish I wasn't. I've liked him way before he became best friend, but I know I can never have him.I can't have him for the simple fact that he is...
    cchristinaa cchristinaa 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    There is this girl I really like. She's my best friend. I told her I like her, but she said she just saw me as a friend. I think it was okay so I lived on. While I was on vacation...
    xFredje xFredje 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It's such a coincidence how I'm his best friend and hate his girlfriend, and his girlfriend "strongly dislikes" me. She and I are like rivals and would probably kill eachother if...
    Nickiboy14 Nickiboy14 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 2

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    I had a best friend, we was like sisters. Did everything together, inseparable all that lot, then she replaced me with another girl and we had a massive fight about it and she...
    ellienottingham ellienottingham 13-15, F Aug 4

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    I experience having a Boyfriend who is also my Best Friend but we're not together now because of Her EX .. He promise that he will come back to me Maybe someday .. Is it real or...
    CamilleJane CamilleJane 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 31

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    I had a best friend but she was entertaining other people. So i really need a new best friend i can talk to anytime,will be there for me always,i can call, oovoo, Facebook, Skype...
    PappyDvpe PappyDvpe 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    This is seriously killing me. I love him so much. We talk every day. I have always thought he was the most handsome man ever. He asked me for pictures the other day and I sent them...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I typically get along better with guys than I do with girls. My bestest friend Tyler recently went into the army and I miss him like crazy! Although I write him letters it's not...
    jennalaursen21 jennalaursen21 16-17, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I'm almost 30 years old, so I thought my days of horrible friends and unwanted drama were long gone...I was wrong. I started working with a girl "Meg," last year. We started...
    monkeytine monkeytine 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    Falling in love with your best friend probably is one of the most wonderful (kilig) or inspiring things that can happen your love life.:) I've experienced it, I realized that I...
    BakerQueen14 BakerQueen14 22-25, F Jul 28

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    We used to be so close. But something is happening to him.. He's been so stressed, always blaming his parents for everything and he's been acting..strange. I just can't figure out...
    DearYou DearYou 22-25, F 18 hrs ago

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    Hello, I just joined here and this is my first post and I am not sure how all this works. Honestly, I joined here because I need a place I can let my emotions out after losing my...
    lonelyislandgirl lonelyislandgirl 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    love my best man Logan. The only guy I can count on and the only one who can take my weirdness. We became best friends instantly as soon as we met we just clicked. I bring him out...
    bruhBechWat bruhBechWat 16-17, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I've been friends with a girl for two years now, but I just met her brother a little under a year ago. She and I are going to be sophomores and he's going to be a senior. Since I...
    Shadowkatze Shadowkatze 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    This will be somewhat long but I really need to express all of the sadness and anger that's consuming me inside out. My ex best friend, who I'll call Emily on this post, had been...
    Camille02 Camille02 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 31

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    I have a lot of friends that I consider best friends, this friend that I hate is a childhood friend. She's two years older than me. She is a manipulative, rude, mean, self centered...
    heythereandrea heythereandrea 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    In 8th grade, I started hanging out with these people and I got along with them really well, except for this one girl. I honestly hated each her. She was rude to everyone, she...
    Ashley7374 Ashley7374 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    In 8th grade, I started hanging out with these people and I got along with them really well, except for this one girl. I honestly hated each her. She was rude to everyone, she...
    Hanna883 Hanna883 26-30, F Aug 11

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    I'm 17 years old and I'm in love with this girl. We've been going out for 4 months and it's amazing. But her best friend is bloody creepy. In the first week that we were going out...
    Georgewash1 Georgewash1 16-17 1 Response Jul 26

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    So I take a walk with one of my best friends who is Mexican about every week since he lives close by. Today as we were walking, he confessed his hate for black people. What made...
    Neoking Neoking 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 5

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    She is absolutely the best. The sad thing is she doesnt realize how amazing she is. I tell her from time to time but i think she just thinks of it as like me doing my friend job...
    toastymarshmallow toastymarshmallow 31-35 Aug 6

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    We met last year during my sophomore year. He was in my art class and we became best friends really fast. I told him things I hadn't shared with anyone. I trust him completely. He...
    kellss kellss 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    Damn... I've known her since I was 11, which is almost 3 years ago... I've seen her get worse and worse, but I refused to face that she needed professional help. Now I've actually...
    ColourfulDreams ColourfulDreams 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I edited this a little bit, I didn't know if I wanted you guys to know everything that had happened afterwards but I'm not as nervous as I was before. So I'm bi and yes I fell in...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    So my ex best friend prank called me at 1am telling me to go burn in hell and die well **** him I might just go do that live with that guilt you c*nt I just don't get what...
    Lolbeansarefun Lolbeansarefun 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    My friend since early grade got sick and died long time ago when we just finished college and started working. It broke my heart. we were so close and she was the only friend I...
    zoe1970 zoe1970 41-45, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm thinking about moving to the town of my good life-long friend who is also my crush that rejected me. So, let me explain. There's this guy that I've been good friends with...
    BlueColored BlueColored 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I met her online. We've been friends for a little over a year now. We've talked about it before and still do a lot. She lives in Canada and I live in the US in the state of...
    kyuubinaruto199 kyuubinaruto199 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    So I have been friends with this girl for over a year and now we are honestly best friends. I haven't been this close to someone ever in my life. We met at work and after a couple...
    cj177 cj177 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    I haven't spend time with my best friend in a long time, ever since my friend started getting angry at me because we were friends I pushed him away and told him to believe we were...
    Notwhatyouthinkiam Notwhatyouthinkiam 16-17, F Jul 29

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    When I began my senior year in high school I was 17 going on 18. About two weeks in I got invited by a friend to join her with a group of her guy friends so I figured if there's...
    BaristaPride BaristaPride 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I've never really had a best friend, I've always been that kid who refuses to get close to someone, not because I'm afraid or anything, just because frankly I don't think anyone is...
    MissIHateEverything MissIHateEverything 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Me and my best friend have been friends since 2nd grade and now we are entering our first years in high school. Well now, we aren't best friends anymore thanks to a mistake that I...
    basketballislife15 basketballislife15 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    I can't stand it, I hate it. But i realized I had. One of my best friends moved away and they are doing a long distance relationship and we have been hanging out and giving...
    Georgiakh Georgiakh 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    My best friend moved to South America last year (I live in Canada), and it's been really hard adjusting to it. I started going to a new school, and I hate being there, especially...