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I Had a Gay Husband

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    Gay, But Got Married Anyway....

    I thought I knew my husband....we had been friends and dating on and off for 16 years married for 5 of those... I knew there were little problems before but never dreamed that he was gay... Strange but as soon as we got married I knew I had made a mistake...but I love him with...
    malibu92 malibu92 31-35, F 13 Responses May 25, 2009

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    Married Him Anyway

    I had a gay husband. We met working at a summer camp and were great friends for many years. I got married at 23 to another man and that marriage didn't work out. I reconnected with this old friend and we both realized that we were really meant for each other however now he had...
    goldeninside goldeninside 51-55 1 Response Aug 26, 2010

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    Found Out My Boyfriend Was Bisexual A Month Before We Got Married

    It weird how from feeling the happiest person in the world your life falls from one moment to the other... A month before my husband and i got married i saw some revealing messages on his phone. i confronted him and I told him i just wanted to know the truth... so he told me that...
    littleone436 littleone436 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 3, 2011

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    I Found Out My Husband Was Gay

    I have been married for 13 years, with 3 children, twins of 9 and a 7 year old. I have felt my marriage was wrong for the past 6 years but somehow stayed for the sake of my children. New Years Eve 6 years ago was the first time I noticed another man and the attention he paid me...
    delano1303 delano1303 41-45, F 10 Responses Sep 29, 2010

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    Dealing With A Bad Marriage...

    I have been married for 4 years.. i have always had a reason to believe my husband was bi or gay.. ! He looks at gay **** and mas****** all the time... we have not had sex in .. well i cant even tell you how long... He wont let me touch him! He keeps to himself. We finally...
    bb1988 bb1988 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 23, 2012

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    2 years into my marriage

    and just found out my husband is confused about whether he likes guys or not. He had a couple of experiments in the past. The thoughts are coming back again. From our conversations, he has told me he is embarrassed of that. He has told me that he wants to be with me and continue...
    viola411 viola411 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    So Confused

    Looking for advice from experienced people. I met my fiancé 3.5 years ago. In the beginning he told me that sex was not ever a big priority to him but with me it was different. I really turned him on. That lasted about 3 mos. the sex decreased rapidly. It was about 5 mos in and...
    Gemini1973 Gemini1973 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    Hi, I am 35 years old smart and beautiful women from Middle East Europe. I have a college degree. I am heterosexual. I need an american citizen, smart, wealthy gay husband for only...
    Savannahgq Savannahgq 31-35, F Dec 31, 2014

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    I think my husband hates me.....My childhood was REALLY bad. My current husband also had a childhood similar to mine but was not as lucky as me and his life took a different path...
    Lsngthsbttle Lsngthsbttle 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I guess you can say friends in general. I think if I had gay friends I wouldn't feel so alone in the world. Where I live there is practically no gay population. Sometimes you get...
    tormentedinternally tormentedinternally 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 6

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    My first time was with the guy who's my boyfriend right now. So this is how it all happened.. We meet on Instagram but he didn't live far from me so I have seen him before at...
    Geovani00 Geovani00 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 11

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    To Have and To Hold: The Boiled Frog"The story is often used as a metaphor for the inability or unwillingness of people to react to significant changes that occur...
    menrclueless menrclueless 46-50, F 5 days ago

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    I have not actually had an affair with my boss- and I never will. The reason I say NEVER is because he is gay. But recently I have been having dreams about he and I going on...
    CuriousSouthernGirl38 CuriousSouthernGirl38 36-40, F 27 mins ago

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    I'm looking for gay friends!
    genuinePINOYgay genuinePINOYgay 26-30, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Memoir of a New Life To say that I had a good relationship with my mother prior to my marriage would be an understatement. She could be overbearing and meddlesome with a very...
    pseudonympublic pseudonympublic 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I have considered cheating on my husband. we have been married for 22 years and together for 26 years. We did not live together before marriage. We have not had sex in 11 years...
    Mukwah Mukwah 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 2

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    I AM HIV+ AND I HAVE FOUND LOVE ON EP - UPDATE Back in May 2014, I shared the story of how I met Eric on EP and how we fell in love with one another. When I wrote that story it...
    Ralphsnt69 Ralphsnt69 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 7

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    I AM GAY.Not because I was born this way, and not because my Father didn't love me enough when I was younger. But because I chose to be gay. I am a highly conservitave, Christian...
    Zaidrie Zaidrie 16-17, M 19 Responses Jan 9

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    Hey! :) So yes as u probably had already seen im gay, well actualy im the only one who knows so i think it doesnt count... :p I fell deeply depressed some times because of this...
    Bral05 Bral05 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 5

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    I am gay, I am the oldest of three; one brother one sister. My brother was the first to come out, mostly by default. It's pretty much the same for my sister. My mom was in denial...
    Scott1954 Scott1954 56-60, M Jan 10

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    Where to begin my plight? I met him during my second year of highschool (2005). From there, me and the bunch he hang out with became pretty close. I was rowdy, ambitious, and...
    Heartbrokenv2 Heartbrokenv2 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Since fifth grade I knew that my best friend was not what you would call "straight". Even though I am his best friend, he doesn't trust me with his phone because he says that he...
    Ashbarg Ashbarg 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    I've never come out to anyone I know, but now I am on the Internet. I'm gay. I'm bi. I'm straight. I really don't know. Once the hormones finally hit, I found myself looking at...
    dexter06 dexter06 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    Well, lets seeeee. Im a not traditional gay guy in more than one way, as i think i have stated in other stories, i do not look gay or act gay in public. But u get me in a room with...
    whiteboy1996 whiteboy1996 18-21, M Jan 10

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    My best friend is gay, but I don't really care about that. Though I still hope he'll turn straight, I still love him for who he is (as a friend of course). He's one of the most...
    misscheyenne misscheyenne 13-15, F Dec 30, 2014

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    My husband I have been together since highschool and we knew we wanted to be together forever. After 3 years of marriage we decided we wanted to try new things on the bedroom and...
    nikkigabber22 nikkigabber22 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    So I have this best gay friend who flirts/teases me more than other gay guys, he seems serious in his eyes and expressions sometimes and he's young, early 20's, thought maybe he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 3

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    I am a semi closeted gay. I have been in a relationship with a woman for 8 years. We grew up together and have been dating since we were 15. I'm not the stereotype as they say. I'm...
    rugbyireland91 rugbyireland91 22-25, M Jan 4

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    Heeey... Long story short, 7 years ago I felt that maybe my family was right, that I wasn't gay and that I was just brought into that lifestyle from being bullied in school and...
    NIX1980 NIX1980 31-35, M Jan 7

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    Had a 3 some with a guy and my husband. We had a good time until the guy wanted to be friends and chat more with me and my husband got jealous. He's in the military and we move a...
    allibabe808 allibabe808 26-30, F 11 Responses Jan 10

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    I've never come out to anyone I know, but now I am on the Internet. I'm gay. I'm bi. I'm straight. I really don't know. Once the hormones finally hit, I found myself looking at...
    dexter06 dexter06 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 12

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    This may seem pointless to say. Majority of people support any sexuality now. I completely support gays and lesbians. I support pansexuals, transgendered, bisexuals, asexuals...
    Xychorite Xychorite 16-17, M 5 Responses Jan 12

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    I've been gay for two years. I figured out I was gay when I realized I wasn't strong enough to fight my battles anymore. Even though I was one of the strongest people anyone knew...
    ShaneJake ShaneJake 16-17, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My brother got called ugly my his friends, male and female, and my dad started saying that he should tell them that their gay and then started saying how it's weird for guys to...
    DarkOnTheInside13 DarkOnTheInside13 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Okay so I know alot of yoy are going to judge me once I tell my story but I don't care. approximately 3 1/2 years ago my husband Bert fell 8 feet onto a concrete floor injuring...
    AiymaSnikies AiymaSnikies 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    This is something I wouldn't normally do, but the funny thing is, I'm not gay, but I enjoyed it. Over the past few months, I've been on multiple dates with about 20 different girls...
    chicagoartist500 chicagoartist500 18-21, M 18 hrs ago

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    I absolutely adore waking up every morning knowing I'm a gay man! I used to run from my feelings but now I embrace them fully, I'm gay and so very proud of it! There's nothing...
    CW3185 CW3185 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 1

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    well yes, why not? i am sorta gay, half gay to be exact (bisexual). so one guy just told me, its gay to accept gays. wth! really! oh come on can't the world be any more stupid than...
    daniel147 daniel147 13-15, T 6 Responses Jan 3

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    Today my tutor somehow got onto talking about gay people, and said that statistically 1in 3 people are gay. now being in a small class and like the only gay/possible gay guy in the...
    CookmySock CookmySock 16-17, M 4 Responses Jan 7

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    I lived with my mom and her mom from birth till I was about 6. she was 16 raising me. I didn't know any different, it was the way I was raised, how I was influenced, the life I...
    summerwinterfallspring summerwinterfallspring 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    Did any one weigh the pros and cons of being gay? Would you choose to be hated, to suffer discrimination and all the rest we endure. We are gay, we choose to live a gay life and...
    Scott1954 Scott1954 56-60, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    Okay I am trying to apologize to some people that I offended but since I am blocked I am not able to do that, but I would like this to get to the person. I have and gay friends...
    mlcockrell mlcockrell 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    hi girls is it okay if your husband wear your nightgown on bed with you to sleep
    daya55 daya55 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I work in social services and it makes me a true supporter of gay and lesbian families having the same rights to have children as straight couples. Lesbian and gay couples require...
    Lilmisshappymess Lilmisshappymess 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    im not gay, but a closefriend of mine is. do gay guys like gay guys or straight guys?
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    For a long time I wasn't really sure of myself. For many years I thought I was bisexual. I was uncomfortable with my sexuality and went on EP, which is where I met my boyfriend...
    Felipster Felipster 16-17, M 6 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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