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I Had a Gay Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 32 People

    Dealing With A Bad Marriage...

    I have been married for 4 years.. i have always had a reason to believe my husband was bi or gay.. ! He looks at gay **** and mas****** all the time... we have not had sex in .. well i cant even tell you how long... He wont let me touch him! He keeps to himself. We finally...
    bb1988 bb1988 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 23, 2012

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    2 years into my marriage

    and just found out my husband is confused about whether he likes guys or not. He had a couple of experiments in the past. The thoughts are coming back again. From our conversations, he has told me he is embarrassed of that. He has told me that he wants to be with me and continue...
    viola411 viola411 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    Married Him Anyway

    I had a gay husband. We met working at a summer camp and were great friends for many years. I got married at 23 to another man and that marriage didn't work out. I reconnected with this old friend and we both realized that we were really meant for each other however now he had...
    goldeninside goldeninside 51-55 1 Response Aug 26, 2010

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    Found Out My Boyfriend Was Bisexual A Month Before We Got Married

    It weird how from feeling the happiest person in the world your life falls from one moment to the other... A month before my husband and i got married i saw some revealing messages on his phone. i confronted him and I told him i just wanted to know the truth... so he told me that...
    littleone436 littleone436 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 3, 2011

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    Gay, But Got Married Anyway....

    I thought I knew my husband....we had been friends and dating on and off for 16 years married for 5 of those... I knew there were little problems before but never dreamed that he was gay... Strange but as soon as we got married I knew I had made a mistake...but I love him with...
    malibu92 malibu92 31-35, F 13 Responses May 25, 2009

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    I Found Out My Husband Was Gay

    I have been married for 13 years, with 3 children, twins of 9 and a 7 year old. I have felt my marriage was wrong for the past 6 years but somehow stayed for the sake of my children. New Years Eve 6 years ago was the first time I noticed another man and the attention he paid me...
    delano1303 delano1303 41-45, F 10 Responses Sep 29, 2010

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    So Confused

    Looking for advice from experienced people. I met my fiancé 3.5 years ago. In the beginning he told me that sex was not ever a big priority to him but with me it was different. I really turned him on. That lasted about 3 mos. the sex decreased rapidly. It was about 5 mos in and...
    Gemini1973 Gemini1973 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    my friend and I were hanging out he's gay and I am a lesbian, but then some dickheads came and started having a go at him while I was talking to someone. he got beaten up pretty...
    isolatedgirl123 isolatedgirl123 13-15, F 33 mins ago

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    I am a 15 year old gay guy looking for some chats.
    casio747 casio747 13-15, M 1 Response 37 mins ago

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    Well today is my anniversary. I see couples post lovey posts of how great it is to be with someone. How wonderful and caring that person is. Me? Today I woke up and cried. Once the...
    silentlyopaque silentlyopaque 22-25, F 1 Response 40 mins ago

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    I have to start by explaining my first marriage. I got married when I was 21 (too young). I was married for 14 years to someone that everyone loved to be around. He was funny, had...
    Noeliakim Noeliakim 36-40, F 55 mins ago

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    My own superhero! I love my husband. I feel so safe when he’s around. Like when our children were young and I was fetching them from school. I was going to meet Jim to shop...
    littlescamp littlescamp 41-45, F 1 hr ago

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    My own superhero! I love my husband. I feel so safe when he’s around. Like when our children were young and I was fetching them from school. I was going to meet Jim to shop...
    littlescamp littlescamp 41-45, F 1 hr ago

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    I dreamed that I was having sex with a boy (I'm gay). I was active, we both finished drenched in sweat.
    gianmarzzellino97 gianmarzzellino97 16-17, M 1 hr ago

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    I am 15, male and gay. I was not always closeted, I told two of my best friends that I was gay, however, I paniced a few months later and told them I was only joking - this ruined...
    casio747 casio747 13-15, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Soo as the story goes he did return in April. First he was nice and said 'we can meet if you want?' Texted back and fourth my anxiety got high again waiting for my phone to beep...
    ventingagain ventingagain 31-35, F 1 hr ago

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    I have been married twice my first husband cheated on me plus other things and I'm on my second husband who I'm still with cheated on me sometimes I think I'm the one who is in the...
    tinkerbell1964 tinkerbell1964 51-55, F 1 hr ago

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    Well actually i m bi but i have to say that being gay ... its not an easy work ... you are always surrounded by pervs and pedos... I always wished for a perfect life well everyone...
    Dreck007 Dreck007 18-21, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Any bis or gays wanna chat ??
    jonathaneh jonathaneh 13-15, M 2 hrs ago

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    Im just curious, i know marriage can be an all out war on us sometimes but even so do some of you just look at your marriage now and your husband and still want him? Not even...
    mrsmr2011 mrsmr2011 22-25, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    And I don't support bigots and idiots! :D Gay people are people too. Why do you act like they aren't? Because they're different? Well, news flash, people. You can't hate on...
    DrowningInRed DrowningInRed 13-15, F 4 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I love my Husband!! I wouldn't want to be with anyone! He knows me well ... I know him better!
    ginaw35 ginaw35 46-50, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I've been confused and gay for quite some time now. I'm now 17; I started attaining a sexual attraction for males during the 6th grade (around 12-13 years old?). Although my...
    Wep777 Wep777 16-17, M 16 hrs ago

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    I HATE my husband's ex...I finally said it! My husband dated this woman for a few months when he realized she was wrong for him and told her he didn't see this having a future bc...
    LAE1005 LAE1005 26-30, F 23 hrs ago

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    Living in a small town, beliefs are drilled into your head at a young age. Prime example: homosexuality is bad. It really makes me angry that southern children are raised on hate...
    linnb linnb 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Surprisingly I've dated so many gay guys and I'm a girl. Like they would date me and then once we broke up or stopped "talking" they would come out of the closet and be like "I'm...
    purplepumpkin17 purplepumpkin17 16-17, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm tired of people saying they were born gay or straight. The very concept of being gay or straight is completely societal. If anybody has pets like cats, they all do stuff to...
    EllaBella9999 EllaBella9999 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    enough of it! i'm so sick of over hearing my parents saying stuff like "gays are gross" and "gays aren't people" if they simply knew i supported gays, they would make me live with...
    wolfsparadise wolfsparadise 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    The real focus of this story is my amazing husband. I cannot believe how blessed i am to have him as my partner all these years. He has remained steadfast and true, while i have...
    goodbnbad goodbnbad 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm 18. I love music, especially Madonna, Lady Gaga, Shania Twain, Kylie Minogue, Kesha, Beyoncé, and many more! I want to be a performer. I love writing music, and I've written...
    TheDopeAura TheDopeAura 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Well mine thinks he is gay... In a way it would explain a LOT if he is. After 25 years of marriage I was told twice by my ex he didn't love me anymore. On the night he asked me for...
    btapwood btapwood 46-50, F Jul 21

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    November 27, 2015 is the day my life changed forever. We were sleeping, and at around 4:30 am one of my dogs woke my husband (who was asleep on the couch in the living room, the...
    Createdbytheash Createdbytheash 26-30, F Jul 21

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    Well I had a really weird dream. A gay dream. I was walking to a car maybe to roll up the windows because i was in a bad neighborhood. As I was walking i saw three black guys...
    sylarisgay sylarisgay 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    I support gay people. A lot of people I know are gay and I don't have anything against gays. Gay people should be treated like anybody else, if you think about they really are not...
    kelseypalmer08 kelseypalmer08 13-15, F Jul 19

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    I have been separated from my husband for 11 months now. We were together for 3 years and have two children together. We fought some but not really bad until after I had my second...
    shoxic shoxic 22-25, F Jul 19

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    My date last night was a real dud. Hot or Not.......NOT. The topic of conversation kept coming back to his mom who has dementia and his brother who, during heart surgery, ended...
    steverick steverick 56-60, M 9 Responses Jul 18

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    I have thought I was gay for a while but due to friends around me I never acted on it or let them know. When I was in college I had a relationship with my room mate and when he...
    Kamryn83 Kamryn83 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 18

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    "...3The scribes and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in adultery, and placing her in the midst 4they said to him, 'Teacher, this woman has been caught in the act...
    ksnowman ksnowman 18-21, M Jul 17

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    Well, Sorta. I now learned that my sexual orientation does not have to be a lot drama, with me coming out. Because oneself straight does not tell the world, 'hey I'm straight...
    WonderxGirl WonderxGirl 13-15, F Jul 17

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    So I'm obviously gay, and in the closet to my family and a few of my friends. My really good friends know I'm gay and they don't care, but my one friend ( who is a homophobe ) can...
    scream23 scream23 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    I have no idea how people will respond to this but I have gay friends who are literally the best people in the world. Before I knew they were gay they were just people with hearts...
    ccdoll486 ccdoll486 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    Although he's alive, healthy and well, I miss him. I miss the closeness we once shared. I miss the times we would text and say "I love you" every time we talked. I miss the...
    CandyCrushers CandyCrushers 36-40, F Jul 14

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