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I Had a Gay Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 32 People

    So Confused

    Looking for advice from experienced people. I met my fiancé 3.5 years ago. In the beginning he told me that sex was not ever a big priority to him but with me it was different. I really turned him on. That lasted about 3 mos. the sex decreased rapidly. It was about 5 mos in and...
    Gemini1973 Gemini1973 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    2 years into my marriage

    and just found out my husband is confused about whether he likes guys or not. He had a couple of experiments in the past. The thoughts are coming back again. From our conversations, he has told me he is embarrassed of that. He has told me that he wants to be with me and continue...
    viola411 viola411 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    Gay, But Got Married Anyway....

    I thought I knew my husband....we had been friends and dating on and off for 16 years married for 5 of those... I knew there were little problems before but never dreamed that he was gay... Strange but as soon as we got married I knew I had made a mistake...but I love him with...
    malibu92 malibu92 31-35, F 13 Responses May 25, 2009

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    Dealing With A Bad Marriage...

    I have been married for 4 years.. i have always had a reason to believe my husband was bi or gay.. ! He looks at gay **** and mas****** all the time... we have not had sex in .. well i cant even tell you how long... He wont let me touch him! He keeps to himself. We finally...
    bb1988 bb1988 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 23, 2012

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    Found Out My Boyfriend Was Bisexual A Month Before We Got Married

    It weird how from feeling the happiest person in the world your life falls from one moment to the other... A month before my husband and i got married i saw some revealing messages on his phone. i confronted him and I told him i just wanted to know the truth... so he told me that...
    littleone436 littleone436 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 3, 2011

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    I Found Out My Husband Was Gay

    I have been married for 13 years, with 3 children, twins of 9 and a 7 year old. I have felt my marriage was wrong for the past 6 years but somehow stayed for the sake of my children. New Years Eve 6 years ago was the first time I noticed another man and the attention he paid me...
    delano1303 delano1303 41-45, F 10 Responses Sep 29, 2010

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    Married Him Anyway

    I had a gay husband. We met working at a summer camp and were great friends for many years. I got married at 23 to another man and that marriage didn't work out. I reconnected with this old friend and we both realized that we were really meant for each other however now he had...
    goldeninside goldeninside 51-55 1 Response Aug 26, 2010

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    Never had gay friends before so hi!
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses May 3

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    Recently I have been communicating with a few other guys out there who share my same ideas. They have inspired me to think more closely about my lifestyle and have inspired me to...
    coolsean1 coolsean1 18-21, M 3 Responses May 4

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    my husband and I were both in the military at the time. we just weren't able to afford a wedding and we didn't know how soon the coast guard would separate us. so we went to the...
    Anuska23 Anuska23 22-25, F 1 Response 55 mins ago

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    My husband is having knee replacement surgery tomorrow. I now understand what my 76 years old male friend was trying to tell me. He kept telling me that my husband had "weak...
    dreamerintexas dreamerintexas 51-55, F 10 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    This is hard. My husband has betrayed me and our marriage may be over in two days. I'm scared and stressed out. I'm lonely and tired. I'm ready for the pain of this entire...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I was 21 years old and had 3 children already. My first pregnancy was a walk in the park. I suffered feom severe nausea but other than that i felt great. I delivered my baby girl...
    cosmicburst cosmicburst 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    A very insightful and important acticle Gay activists claim redefining marriage won’t hurt anyone, but that’s a lie. Just ask Canadians. May 1, 2015 (ThePublicDiscourse...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M May 2

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    I don't care what anybody says I am who I am not many people know I am gay I am still in the closet
    georgeh075 georgeh075 16-17, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Gay and single,this feeling of mine is burden and struggle so ugly me T.T
    GabrielShot GabrielShot 16-17, M 11 hrs ago

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    I had a dream last night about my ex and a gay dude i knew in college. The gay dude was comforting me in my ex's bed room. His bedroom however looked like a girls room with a pink...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My husband may not be mechanically inclined like I am but He has Skills I wouldn't trade for nothing. He definitely knows how to make me purrrr. Yep the man has Skills and all...
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    after how many months, i snoop the fb profile of mm today and i was astonished to see that i am no longer affected. he looks happy with friends. i have finally gotten over him. i...
    chantal0218 chantal0218 31-35, F 14 hrs ago

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    Today is hard. The finality of Wednesday is really hitting me now. I don't want my marriage to be over. I know he had an affair, but I'm not ready to be a divorced, single mom...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 49 mins ago

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    The Simple Truth about Homosexuals I'm writing this post to clear the air.. There are some common misconceptions about us gay peeps. I can't speak for all but this is my story...
    SuumCuique SuumCuique 31-35, F 4 Responses May 14

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    Out...proud and happy thats me. And why should I not be? Being gay is not a disease or a life style choice...you are born that. Way. Been with my husband nearly 29 years living...
    thegaychef thegaychef 56-60, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My husband and I I just started an Indiegogo campaign to help raise funds for her IVF medications. What are the recommended avenues for getting the word out? The campaign is here...
    EMAA123 EMAA123 31-35, F 14 hrs ago

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    Not recently, but it was more than once. All it really was was empty "revenge" for the things he did. For a long time, our relationship was pretty messed up - we never seemed to be...
    IzzzyD IzzzyD 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    I'm 31 years old, and for as long as I can remember I've been dodging the fact that I'm at least bisexual or gay. It's taken up so much of my strength and, looking back, has shaped...
    thanks4listening thanks4listening 31-35, M 5 Responses May 9

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    I am legally married to my husband, and we have been together since 2001, married since 2008. I am only here for friendships with kind and like minded people. Please do not send me...
    NeoGeo70 NeoGeo70 41-45, M Apr 30

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    I have a gay mother and had a straight father. My mom told me she was gay after their divorce was final. This was about 26 years ago for me. I love my mom and loved my dad. It was...
    sweetJerseyGirl sweetJerseyGirl 41-45, F 1 Response May 15

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    I am a man. For a long time I defined myself as gay -- I was attracted to guys, had a lot of sex with them and had three relationships, one lasted for 8 years. I can't say that I...
    diquray diquray 31-35, M 2 Responses May 9

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    OK, so i have a question is their a fine line between gay and straight. maybe not completely centered ... because that would be considered bisexual! but some where to the left or...
    Ifonlycr Ifonlycr 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am gay. I don't think I will truly be able to find true love without feeling guilty. I can't come out to my parents because I don't think they're exactly supportive, they won't...
    jonho10 jonho10 13-15, M 4 Responses Apr 25

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    I'm frustrated. I'm frustrated the gay community has labels. I'm frustrated that so often being spiritual isn't something gay people talk about. I'm frustrated most gay people I've...
    VilhoDog13 VilhoDog13 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 27

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    I am a gay man who likes to help young gays live a happier adolescence. In the last year I helped some boys, aged 16 - 19, to come out with their parents and friends, declare their...
    AlexPaterson AlexPaterson 36-40, M 3 Responses May 7

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    I have always been a little bit of a shy type, just quiet for the most part. Social anxiety plays into it a bit as well. Anyways, went through high school and never had any sort of...
    Katie4545 Katie4545 18-21, F 4 Responses May 9

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    I get so upset when I see younger gay guys who base their whole identity of self on sex. It's beyond heartbreaking and scary to hope they don't either become a cautionary tale or...
    WarriorsHeart WarriorsHeart 22-25, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    This was awkward we had some discussion in PD today about Gay Rights and that Thing in Ireland, half our class was against it then some ***** shouts "Of course Mackenzie would be...
    SpiritOfOrpheus SpiritOfOrpheus 13-15, M 12 Responses 6 days ago

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    I had an affair with my best friend's husband...Rightfully, she was very angry with me and was determined to let the whole world know, and that is exactly what she did. I don't...
    tulips1122 tulips1122 36-40, F 12 Responses May 1

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    I find that my situation is different than many I've read here and also very much the same. Some of these posts actually make me think "I don't have it so bad", but the bottom line...
    iwant2bhappyagain iwant2bhappyagain 56-60, F May 9

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    I finally finished coming out to my family! I had been out to my mom and my sister for a while, but still had to come out to my dad and my other sister. It takes me a while to work...
    parabolas parabolas 16-17, M 3 Responses Apr 26

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    I'm not gay yet. But all the talk about gay marriage, and open gay activities has gotten me interested. I looked at gay **** online, it appears to be fun, nothing objectionable...
    nothingon nothingon 61-65, M 3 Responses Apr 27

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    I can only imagine how hard it can be for gay people to be accepted by the society. I'm not gay myself, but I absolutely support gay rights. It must be awful to be gay and to know...
    HereIam2000 HereIam2000 13-15, M 5 Responses Apr 27

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    Well, I'm not gay or bisexual. I just don't mind if you have another sexuality. Likewise, other people who are straight, and someone says they're gay... I hate it how the straight...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 2

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    I get along with my husband, but something happened yesterday that kind of made me feel bad about maybe giving him less credit than he deserves. I'm 6 months pregnant as of...
    JaxyBaine JaxyBaine 26-30, F 2 Responses May 3

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