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I Had a Gay Husband

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    I was married to my ex

    for 2.5 years but lived only 3 monthsI was abroad and he lived in the U.S. After I moved in with him he started to act strange. He told me after two weeks that he is not attracted to me and that I didn't really looked good on my wedding day as a bride. He would come home late...
    Healing144 Healing144 26-30, F Nov 28, 2015

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    Found Out My Boyfriend Was Bisexual A Month Before We Got Married

    It weird how from feeling the happiest person in the world your life falls from one moment to the other... A month before my husband and i got married i saw some revealing messages on his phone. i confronted him and I told him i just wanted to know the truth... so he told me that...
    littleone436 littleone436 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 3, 2011

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    2 years into my marriage

    and just found out my husband is confused about whether he likes guys or not. He had a couple of experiments in the past. The thoughts are coming back again. From our conversations, he has told me he is embarrassed of that. He has told me that he wants to be with me and continue...
    viola411 viola411 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    Married Him Anyway

    I had a gay husband. We met working at a summer camp and were great friends for many years. I got married at 23 to another man and that marriage didn't work out. I reconnected with this old friend and we both realized that we were really meant for each other however now he had...
    goldeninside goldeninside 51-55 1 Response Aug 26, 2010

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    Gay, But Got Married Anyway....

    I thought I knew my husband....we had been friends and dating on and off for 16 years married for 5 of those... I knew there were little problems before but never dreamed that he was gay... Strange but as soon as we got married I knew I had made a mistake...but I love him with...
    malibu92 malibu92 31-35, F 13 Responses May 25, 2009

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    So Confused

    Looking for advice from experienced people. I met my fiancé 3.5 years ago. In the beginning he told me that sex was not ever a big priority to him but with me it was different. I really turned him on. That lasted about 3 mos. the sex decreased rapidly. It was about 5 mos in and...
    Gemini1973 Gemini1973 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    Dealing With A Bad Marriage...

    I have been married for 4 years.. i have always had a reason to believe my husband was bi or gay.. ! He looks at gay **** and mas****** all the time... we have not had sex in .. well i cant even tell you how long... He wont let me touch him! He keeps to himself. We finally...
    bb1988 bb1988 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 23, 2012

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    I Found Out My Husband Was Gay

    I have been married for 13 years, with 3 children, twins of 9 and a 7 year old. I have felt my marriage was wrong for the past 6 years but somehow stayed for the sake of my children. New Years Eve 6 years ago was the first time I noticed another man and the attention he paid me...
    delano1303 delano1303 41-45, F 10 Responses Sep 29, 2010

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    hello im a guy gay looking for girls from any place in world to build a good family i live in morocco i have my own office and i can move to europe any way this is my e-mail...
    kamal7777 kamal7777 26-30, M 3 hrs ago

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    When we married we were both bisexual. Over time and sharing men, it became obvious that I am gay and it brought us even closer and now we share men more intimately.
    cucked4ever cucked4ever 61-65, M 5 hrs ago

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    There was someone who I performed with years ago; for the sake of this story, I'll call him Greg. Greg and I had performed in several community theater productions. Being near him...
    PhillyAutismGuy PhillyAutismGuy 26-30, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    My wife and I miss having a gay friend for me, as she loves gay men. And of course I sure do!!
    cucked4ever cucked4ever 61-65, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Why do people keep asking me how big it is? I. am. not. interested. Just because I'm gay doesn't mean I'm a pervert. In fact, I'm actually a virgin, because I'm afraid anyone I...
    anonyme23 anonyme23 22-25, M 5 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I came out a while back ,its been really hard . my family had the biggest problem with it .I was sad and couldn't seem to think I could handle the situation but it has made me...
    timjusttim123 timjusttim123 16-17, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Whats up fellow gaylords? Who's on?
    HeyHey20 HeyHey20 18-21, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I am preparing to leave my husband. Not because of the affair, but for me and to spare him pain in the future. I sign my lease this week. I'm excited and scared. Wish me luck!
    Runnergirl2015 Runnergirl2015 31-35, F 7 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Here's the story of our relationship Helpful facts - When we met I was 17, she was 25. I am now 18 and she is 26. She also has a 4 year old daughter. We met on Xbox on June 28...
    EnergyUS EnergyUS 22-25, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I still remember every single moment back then , when i was bullied for being thin and weak , for being smart in opposite of the others . I remember how every one in my class tried...
    mz95 mz95 18-21, M 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    A friend of mine, who I haven't seen in years and I've only spoken to on the phone once in 5 years has posted on fbook that he is in a relationship. Why does this **** me off so...
    iandiswhoiam iandiswhoiam 51-55, M 22 hrs ago

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    I do indeed believe this principle...and sometimes it is so hard! We recently have had a major change in our lives....our son and his children are now living with us. Our empty...
    soulbabble soulbabble 51-55, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    is it just me or do other people hate the stereotype that all gay people act the same and that your weird just because your gay. just had someone tell me that they know all about...
    gayanallover gayanallover 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I still remember when i first accepted the fact that i am a gay man. My whole life i knew i was attracted to men but i would always be ashamed and hide it even from myself. I...
    loco8912 loco8912 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My name is May. Here i want to share a little story of experience with the world on how i got my husband back when i almost lose him. Well i'm not a big talker so i'm just going to...
    may19191 may19191 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    Soooo I need to say this.... This, is a gay person, me. LGBT+ (gay people in specific) don't always wear ******* rainbows and tight pink jeans and have died hair. We don't all...
    apWeiss12 apWeiss12 13-15, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hi readers, I am writing this today because I need to get my feelings and thoughts out to someone, and I feel like I have absolutely no where else to turn. I have reached a...
    AKT1 AKT1 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    Well... since this is an experience-sharing group I would like to tell my story of how is being gay in my life ^~^ maybe will be a lot to write... so if dont like to read skip this...
    Dominii Dominii 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    Not long after I became more open about being bi, I was at a sleepover with three friends. Well, they kind of knew I was bi and we were all watching movies in the basement. One...
    houseofcards39 houseofcards39 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have been on a kind of journey to try to understand myself and my history. A journey of discovery to try to work out why I had a 2 nervous breakdowns and what made the boy most...
    iandiswhoiam iandiswhoiam 51-55, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Its amazing that I live in a pretty progressive city, yet there is so much diversity among its gay populace. It just doenst make any sense. My husband and i have been looking to...
    EtTuJudas EtTuJudas 46-50, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am a happily married gay man living with my husband of 2 yrs and best friend of 27 yrs. Life has never been better and I would love to share with anyone who is interested.
    EtTuJudas EtTuJudas 46-50, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I know I'm young and people be telling me being gay is a phase... Well this "phase" I've had it hasn't pasted yet, it's been 3 years
    jchayungs jchayungs 13-15, M a week ago

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    Until recently I had never been to. Gay bar, I went to one last night and they were great, they had sexy gogo boy dancers, one was so hot, like ripped all over I just had to give...
    jameson1992 jameson1992 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    My husband and I have had a terribly rocky last three years together. He's cycled, going from adoring me to blaming me; he's begged me to stay and he's insisted I leave. He's...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F Jan 29

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    29th of Jan 2016 will officially be remembered for life... I thought atleast 15 times whether or not to go to school today, for it was our school day rehearsals....I over thought...
    EarthGirl97 EarthGirl97 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    This is my second time sharing this story. EP removed the first one. Again, I support gay rights, and I live in Alabama. Many people were slightly disgusted to learn that I support...
    CNSPRCYTHRY CNSPRCYTHRY 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 28

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    Ugh I can't live like this anymore. I can't take it. I'm a closeted gay/bisexual guy and most of my family is conservative and homophobic (due to their so called christian values...
    GCassr22 GCassr22 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 26

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    I am afraid I am just coming to the realization that mine is gay as well. No intimacy. He works in an industry where he is away on a boat with all men for a month at a time. He...
    Christina1975 Christina1975 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    I met my husband when I was 23 I loved him the first time I saw him we both knew we were ment to be he had a lot of baggage but I knew we could always work through anything there...
    rlynnw2003 rlynnw2003 31-35, F 28 Responses Jan 23

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    i am gay i knew i was gay at 12 years old and i came out as gay at 21 my friends and family are cool with it and that is all that i wanted
    jamal1986 jamal1986 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 22

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    i had an emotional affair with my ex boyfriend and my husband just found out today who I was speaking to. I have not been this low in such a long time. my husband travels Monday...
    embelina06 embelina06 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    Hey everyone. I desperately need advice. I have always had problems with anxiety and depression. Recently, these problems have gotten a lot worse. I am at the age of 15, already...
    zachj46 zachj46 26-30, M 5 Responses Jan 19

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