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I Had a Gay Husband

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    Found Out My Boyfriend Was Bisexual A Month Before We Got Married

    It weird how from feeling the happiest person in the world your life falls from one moment to the other... A month before my husband and i got married i saw some revealing messages on his phone. i confronted him and I told him i just wanted to know the truth... so he told me that...
    littleone436 littleone436 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 3, 2011

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    So Confused

    Looking for advice from experienced people. I met my fiancé 3.5 years ago. In the beginning he told me that sex was not ever a big priority to him but with me it was different. I really turned him on. That lasted about 3 mos. the sex decreased rapidly. It was about 5 mos in and...
    Gemini1973 Gemini1973 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    Dealing With A Bad Marriage...

    I have been married for 4 years.. i have always had a reason to believe my husband was bi or gay.. ! He looks at gay **** and mas****** all the time... we have not had sex in .. well i cant even tell you how long... He wont let me touch him! He keeps to himself. We finally...
    bb1988 bb1988 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 23, 2012

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    2 years into my marriage

    and just found out my husband is confused about whether he likes guys or not. He had a couple of experiments in the past. The thoughts are coming back again. From our conversations, he has told me he is embarrassed of that. He has told me that he wants to be with me and continue...
    viola411 viola411 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    I Found Out My Husband Was Gay

    I have been married for 13 years, with 3 children, twins of 9 and a 7 year old. I have felt my marriage was wrong for the past 6 years but somehow stayed for the sake of my children. New Years Eve 6 years ago was the first time I noticed another man and the attention he paid me...
    delano1303 delano1303 41-45, F 10 Responses Sep 29, 2010

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    Married Him Anyway

    I had a gay husband. We met working at a summer camp and were great friends for many years. I got married at 23 to another man and that marriage didn't work out. I reconnected with this old friend and we both realized that we were really meant for each other however now he had...
    goldeninside goldeninside 51-55 1 Response Aug 26, 2010

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    Gay, But Got Married Anyway....

    I thought I knew my husband....we had been friends and dating on and off for 16 years married for 5 of those... I knew there were little problems before but never dreamed that he was gay... Strange but as soon as we got married I knew I had made a mistake...but I love him with...
    malibu92 malibu92 31-35, F 13 Responses May 25, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I always had a fantasy to have like 5 husbands. Two blondes one Burnett one Latin Boy and probably the last one of multiple ethnicities.one blonde could be shy and submissive, the...
    Kornisone Kornisone 26-30, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    My urges to have sex with men are so strong now. I love my wife but it has become clear to me that I am gay. When I admit my homosexuality to myself I feel so free. When I tell...
    walkingcast1 walkingcast1 41-45, M 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    do you have to look gay because I don't think i look gay but I am gay and i do like somebody on here i don't think he likes me yet :)
    Lewis21dude Lewis21dude 18-21, M 5 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    i am almost 17 years old and have never had a boyfriend. it's better to say this... i gained a bunch of weight when i was 12, like a lot...about 25 pounds! idk what happened but i...
    KatieRosess KatieRosess 16-17, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    hello, i'm not a gay person but i would love to be friends with gay people so come feel free and add me and send me a message. can chat about anything you want.
    girlyAndrea1987 girlyAndrea1987 26-30, M 19 hrs ago

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    In not gay but wouldn't mind talking to some gays ps u can flirt
    nbdash nbdash 16-17, M 15 hrs ago

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    I have been in love with a particular girl for over a year now. We never dated, we were just best friends until she broke my heart when she couldn't accept the fact that I am gay...
    lonleygirl01 lonleygirl01 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I am gay and I am married to a woman. I have to tell her soon. I have decided that I want to have sex with men but not until I admit to her what she already knows. I feel like such...
    walkingcast1 walkingcast1 41-45, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    And that is exactly why I joined this website. I need to tell someone about it. It is really getting to me. I love my husband! From what I read, this is not the case with most...
    zanhaz zanhaz 41-45, F 8 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I love my husband. I truly do. I married a good man! every single day I am realizing that again!!! He saved this marriage by holding on and now we save it together everyday working...
    ventingagain ventingagain 31-35, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I absolutely love and adore my husband. He is my best friend and couldn't imagine my life without him. We were both married before and this is a second marriage for both of us. Our...
    redhot1221 redhot1221 36-40, F 11 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    My husband says I'm a beast of burden and that he is a good host because it makes me go into a trot rather than whip
    NewWoman76 NewWoman76 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Ok so the other day we went to a gay bar an of course got so wasted lol
    LSCouple LSCouple 26-30, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I knew I was gay when I was exactly 12 , there are rumors of me being homosexual back then but I doubt they knew that was the truth. I keep denying this until I was 18 where I...
    guest929393 guest929393 18-21, M 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I'm new... I hope this doesn't sound awkward but I wish I have more gay friends between 18 and 25. So... Anyone?
    guest929393 guest929393 18-21, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I'm not gay or anything, but I would love to make friends with anyone! :)
    tanajo5 tanajo5 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    I am 25 yr old Delhi lesbian gal.. I am well educated and independent..Belong to decent family in Delhi.. Very feminine Looking out for a Delhi gay guy.. (Delhi based).. For moc...
    ivonita2 ivonita2 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    I hate who I am, I hate not having a choice. I hate that it feels like my life dreams of a family and getting married have been stolen from me. My attempts at trying to change this...
    pyroguy80 pyroguy80 31-35, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Hey guys I'm 15 and I like guys my age and up to 20 message me if your fit and gay or bi and want to talk you can kick me at rileyolsen123
    rileyolsen44 rileyolsen44 13-15, M 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Any gay or bi I'm bored msg me lol
    Natemdemon06 Natemdemon06 13-15, M 1 hr ago

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    I've been married for two years and had no clue or any suspicion. Lately he's been accusing me of cheating and shirt with me. Found his profile on meet me talking to 19 year old...
    MarleyandMe1 MarleyandMe1 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 25

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    I've known my now-boyfriend for a year and a half, and we've been seriously dating for five months now. He is a wonderful, super talented guy who is crazy in love with me and...
    ccapron ccapron 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    Soooo I'm 17,I'm a male, and I'm gay. I have one problem though . I am Madly in love with my "straight" male bestfriend . I met him last year Around November/Thanksgiving and from...
    smdwamfc69 smdwamfc69 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 20

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    Hi everyone. My name is Drew. I'm 14. I start high school this fall in Northern Virginia, the same high school as Jay, the top half of everyone's favorite couple, Jay and Corey. I...
    alliwantismyjay alliwantismyjay 13-15, M 12 Responses Aug 22

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    About 7 months ago I was watching a movie ( nothing bad but it was gay based ) and my dad walked in on me, and basically asked what it was (in the mean dad voice). So I told him I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 22

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    Ok iv had a friend who thought was gay for about a year now. So recently he told me he had a gay friend and i got all excited and tryed to find this gay friend when I finally do...
    stricker1997 stricker1997 16-17, M 3 Responses Sep 1

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    I'm gay and a Roman Catholic. Im always having a constant fight between my feeling towards boys and my religion. One day I want to have a boyfriend and eventually a husbandand. but...
    heyabbott heyabbott 16-17 1 Response Sep 2

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    Hey this is my first time writing any experience on here, but I guess I'm going to give it a try. I guess you can say everything started in sixth grade? Since this point in my life...
    ThisKidd ThisKidd 13-15, M 3 Responses Sep 4

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    I found out that I was gay in the middle of my teen years and feel comfortable with it, but it's been hard being myself because I haven't come out to my dad yet or my family...
    jamie1292 jamie1292 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    Hey my name is Evan. I’m from, Wilmington,DE and my parents both have their own companies (ugh, but hell the money is good lol). I play baseball and I do track. I’m very...
    ekc5198 ekc5198 13-15 1 Response Sep 9

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    Hey my name is Evan. I’m from, Wilmington,DE and my parents both have their own companies (ugh, but hell the money is good lol). I play baseball and I do track. I’m very...
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    Hey my name is Evan. I’m from, Wilmington,DE and my parents both have their own companies (ugh, but hell the money is good lol). I play baseball and I do track. I’m very...
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    Hey my name is Evan. I’m from, Wilmington,DE and my parents both have their own companies (ugh, but hell the money is good lol). I play baseball and I do track. I’m very...
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    Hey my name is Evan. I’m from, Wilmington,DE and my parents both have their own companies (ugh, but hell the money is good lol). I play baseball and I do track. I’m very...
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    Hey my name is Evan. I’m from, Wilmington,DE and my parents both have their own companies (ugh, but hell the money is good lol). I play baseball and I do track. I’m very...
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    Hey my name is Evan. I’m from, Wilmington,DE and my parents both have their own companies (ugh, but hell the money is good lol). I play baseball and I do track. I’m very...
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    Hey my name is Evan. I’m from, Wilmington,DE and my parents both have their own companies (ugh, but hell the money is good lol). I play baseball and I do track. I’m very...
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    Hey my name is Evan. I’m from, Wilmington,DE and my parents both have their own companies (ugh, but hell the money is good lol). I play baseball and I do track. I’m very...
    ekc5198 ekc5198 13-15 4 Responses Sep 9

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    Figuring out I was gay answered a lot of questions that were inside of me, but they also brought with them great pains. Trust me I love being gay but when I hear the people I love...
    fredlez2306 fredlez2306 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 18

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    I feel an intense need to get a lot off of my shoulders. I've made a huge mistake. I think it's therapeutic to talk. I am 23 years old. I've been married for 2 years. I married my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Aug 26

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    My name is Gabriel. I shall start from my first friend. His name was Alex. Unlike the other kids in kinder he didn't judge me based on how I dressed or even on how I refused to let...
    GARLITH GARLITH 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 4
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