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I Had a Gay Husband

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    I Found Out My Husband Was Gay

    I have been married for 13 years, with 3 children, twins of 9 and a 7 year old. I have felt my marriage was wrong for the past 6 years but somehow stayed for the sake of my children. New Years Eve 6 years ago was the first time I noticed another man and the attention he paid me...
    delano1303 delano1303 41-45, F 10 Responses Sep 29, 2010

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    Dealing With A Bad Marriage...

    I have been married for 4 years.. i have always had a reason to believe my husband was bi or gay.. ! He looks at gay **** and mas****** all the time... we have not had sex in .. well i cant even tell you how long... He wont let me touch him! He keeps to himself. We finally...
    bb1988 bb1988 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 23, 2012

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    2 years into my marriage

    and just found out my husband is confused about whether he likes guys or not. He had a couple of experiments in the past. The thoughts are coming back again. From our conversations, he has told me he is embarrassed of that. He has told me that he wants to be with me and continue...
    viola411 viola411 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    Married Him Anyway

    I had a gay husband. We met working at a summer camp and were great friends for many years. I got married at 23 to another man and that marriage didn't work out. I reconnected with this old friend and we both realized that we were really meant for each other however now he had...
    goldeninside goldeninside 51-55 1 Response Aug 26, 2010

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    Gay, But Got Married Anyway....

    I thought I knew my husband....we had been friends and dating on and off for 16 years married for 5 of those... I knew there were little problems before but never dreamed that he was gay... Strange but as soon as we got married I knew I had made a mistake...but I love him with...
    malibu92 malibu92 31-35, F 13 Responses May 25, 2009

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    Found Out My Boyfriend Was Bisexual A Month Before We Got Married

    It weird how from feeling the happiest person in the world your life falls from one moment to the other... A month before my husband and i got married i saw some revealing messages on his phone. i confronted him and I told him i just wanted to know the truth... so he told me that...
    littleone436 littleone436 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 3, 2011

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    So Confused

    Looking for advice from experienced people. I met my fiancé 3.5 years ago. In the beginning he told me that sex was not ever a big priority to him but with me it was different. I really turned him on. That lasted about 3 mos. the sex decreased rapidly. It was about 5 mos in and...
    Gemini1973 Gemini1973 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    i dont even hav a boyfriend i never had my first kiss...im pathetic....huhhhh...i wish i could have that romantic date with a sweet guy....dont get me wrong i can also get naughty...
    monishnair monishnair 13-15, M 45 mins ago

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    I wanted to make a post for the people who are struggling to accept the fact they are gay, if you are one of these people. :) coming onto this experience is the first step. There...
    Disqualify Disqualify 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 21

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    I love that my closest male friend is gay. We get along so well and my husband is ok with us spending time alone together.
    Jenner81 Jenner81 31-35, F Nov 24

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    The dilemma associated with the taboo of being gay is chewing at my flesh, digging into my bones. I hate labels. I hate associating with a category, but in order to fully...
    TideToGo TideToGo 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 26

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    I think my fiancé is gay. I found gay **** DVDs hidden under the couch. I asked him about them and he said they were just movies. But I wouldn't be questioning anything if he had...
    Lackoflust Lackoflust 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 29

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    Haha, bigots are always a bundle of fun, aren't they?? Considering I come from the Southern United States, they are absolutely everywhere, and you just learn to tune them out; you...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    Had an experience last night at the bar, and I'd like to get some feedback. Walked into the ladies room, and there's a guy. WTF I asked him what the hell did he think he was doing...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 23

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    My Life : (Gay) As child, my life was so good that any child would envy. Being the only son and the youngest brother of lots of sisters, I was always provided special care. But it...
    Majnooshah Majnooshah 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 3

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    My husband and i have been having issues, i feel disconnected from him. He smokes a lot of weed(to the point of being useless) i do too but i am active and always finding new...
    latinaBonita latinaBonita 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    Happiness is at its peak, as gays can now meet and greet the people they want to date, on an online platform. Online dating sites in today’s world is the most convenient and...
    MosesProffitt MosesProffitt 22-25 Dec 1

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    Tbh I'm more neutral with gays like I don't support then but I'm not for them either. But technically speaking I don't support gays. Now because I don't support gays doesn't mean...
    CarthOnasi CarthOnasi 13-15, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    Ok so hi everybody my name is Andrew Whittemore and I am a 13 year old gay boy I live in powell Tennessee and I found out i was gay when there was a romper and I decided after too...
    Andrewwhittemore Andrewwhittemore 13-15, M Dec 5

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    Since I was a small boy I had dreams about other boys. It stopped for a really long time when out of the blue I started having these thoughts and dreams. Deep down I knew I was...
    LostArab LostArab 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    My best friend from the time I was 17 to 21 hates me now. He has never liked the guys that I date. He's gay, so it's not like he was jealous, but he was always more like an older...
    RestlessDreamer22 RestlessDreamer22 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    I see my ex-husband everywhere. His face appears in my dreams, I see him in the check-out line at the Bay, or while waiting for the subway. I am constantly thinking about him...
    chatonenamour chatonenamour 31-35, F a week ago

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    I see my ex-husband everywhere. His face appears in my dreams, I see him in the check-out line at the Bay, or while waiting for the subway. I am constantly thinking about him...
    chatonenamour chatonenamour 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    It was years ago, but it still hurts as if it were yesterday. I knew it was happening. I was in school, college, and I was doing very well. Our lives had diverged, it seemed...
    moonchild0315 moonchild0315 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 18

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    Gay Men Are Cute! Hi! I'm a bigendered heterosexual male. I'm in love with women regardless of the gender I'm feeling, but I'm curious if any other gynophillic transgendered ladies...
    ViewtifulMe ViewtifulMe 26-30, T 2 Responses Nov 22

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    To the people of the world: To the LGBT community: Does anybody else feel like their sexuality has become their entire life? I sure do. To everyone: I mean, come on, I'm only...
    Lukas98 Lukas98 16-17, M 3 Responses Dec 8

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    I maybe 29 years old but eventually there comes a time where you have no choice but to accept who you are otherwise you will never be happy. Now although I have several other...
    MachineEmpire1985 MachineEmpire1985 26-30, M 6 Responses a week ago

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    I had been married for 23 years when I fell in love with another man. I had felt disconnected from my husband for a lot of years but thought I was doing the right thing by staying...
    Alucia66 Alucia66 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    No I'm not gay. I dress for comfort and I prefer dresses and skirts. If clothes dictate whither or not your gay, then every women that wears pants or shorts, the only accepted male...
    Adam59 Adam59 56-60, M 3 Responses Nov 19

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    I bet if you ask every homophobe, anti-gay, and anti-gay rights person these questions: 1) will YOUR paycheck change if a guy is kissing another guy? 2) will YOUR relationship...
    CursedWithABlessing CursedWithABlessing 18-21, F 9 Responses Nov 19

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    Its really hard when you've lived with a parent who is so against people who are gay and you are completely for it. You don't want to cause problems so you don't disagree with them...
    Lai96 Lai96 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    One of the hardest things that I've been through is discovering that I might be gay/Bi. I ounce had a girlfriend - very beautiful and lovely - her cousin was one of my friends...
    rogersphy rogersphy 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 29

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    Well I have no doubt on the question. I was born gay. Never have fancied a female. To me being gay is as normal as being straight Luckly for me my parents excepted that being gay...
    thegaychef thegaychef 51-55, M 2 Responses Dec 7

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    This is SUPER weird, but I think my reason for it is reasonable, maybe? Lol idk. Well basically the ONLY reason why I want one, is to see if I really truly support gays. I know...
    ThatOneAsianDude ThatOneAsianDude 13-15, M Dec 8

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    I have a gay son who died of AIDS and its miserable complications. Accordingly, I probed scientific research, the scriptures, my own experience, and the experience of others for...
    bushbasha bushbasha 22-25, M a week ago

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    You know what i dont understand? It's that when a person'a favorite celebrity is labeled "gay", they're like, "who cares if he's gay? He's still _____. That doesnt change who he...
    xxxfakerhaterxxx xxxfakerhaterxxx 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am a married gay who for years tried to deny that I had any feeling for the same gender. I now accept that I should have acknowledged this years ago but I will not come out of...
    willylover1 willylover1 61-65, M 2 days ago

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    My official very first lover came back to finish his senior year at my school. I have no intentions to reconnect with him because he had really hurt me. He wasn't your normal gay...
    avabooboo avabooboo 18-21, M Nov 19

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    I had a expeience with a boy a mouth ago. His name was Gabe. It started off with me going round his house. (He knew I was gay). We were in his room talking and then he said he was...
    Decoy0042 Decoy0042 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 27

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    I was speaking to a friend of mine and my sexuality came up, unfortunately this is a regular occurrence. She said "why can't I have a gay best friend? I know you're bi but I want a...
    flamingfangirl flamingfangirl 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 29

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    I'm Roman Catholic and believe that the reasons are based on evidence rather than faith. That said, I struggle with gay marriage and even the Biblical references on it. I've...
    originnone originnone 51-55, M 10 Responses Dec 6

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    I'm sorry for the lengthy post... I just watched Geography Club and it got me regretting how long it took me to come out, and then explore as to why that was.... One of the things...
    jbar291 jbar291 18-21, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm sorry for the lengthy post... I just watched Geography Club and it got me regretting how long it took me to come out, and then explore as to why that was.... One of the things...
    jbar291 jbar291 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Bill Passed In Michigan House Could Exempt Medical Personnel From Treating Gay People, MICHIGAN WTF! I honestly don't even want to live here anymore. Seriously what about human...
    Wynnieskye Wynnieskye 16-17, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    Im gay and damn proud! Everyone at my school knows im gay and everyone's ok with it... i honestly don't know why people make such a fuss about coming out... if a straight person...
    coolyogaykid coolyogaykid 13-15, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm 100% gay but if I keep it real I could probably sleep with a female 🌚 tbh sexuality is a lot less black and white than many believe. And I don't wanna say being gay is a...