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I Had a Gay Husband

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    Married Him Anyway

    I had a gay husband. We met working at a summer camp and were great friends for many years. I got married at 23 to another man and that marriage didn't work out. I reconnected with this old friend and we both realized that we were really meant for each other however now he had...
    goldeninside goldeninside 51-55 1 Response Aug 26, 2010

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    Found Out My Boyfriend Was Bisexual A Month Before We Got Married

    It weird how from feeling the happiest person in the world your life falls from one moment to the other... A month before my husband and i got married i saw some revealing messages on his phone. i confronted him and I told him i just wanted to know the truth... so he told me that...
    littleone436 littleone436 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 3, 2011

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    I Found Out My Husband Was Gay

    I have been married for 13 years, with 3 children, twins of 9 and a 7 year old. I have felt my marriage was wrong for the past 6 years but somehow stayed for the sake of my children. New Years Eve 6 years ago was the first time I noticed another man and the attention he paid me...
    delano1303 delano1303 41-45, F 10 Responses Sep 29, 2010

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    2 years into my marriage

    and just found out my husband is confused about whether he likes guys or not. He had a couple of experiments in the past. The thoughts are coming back again. From our conversations, he has told me he is embarrassed of that. He has told me that he wants to be with me and continue...
    viola411 viola411 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    Dealing With A Bad Marriage...

    I have been married for 4 years.. i have always had a reason to believe my husband was bi or gay.. ! He looks at gay **** and mas****** all the time... we have not had sex in .. well i cant even tell you how long... He wont let me touch him! He keeps to himself. We finally...
    bb1988 bb1988 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 23, 2012

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    So Confused

    Looking for advice from experienced people. I met my fiancé 3.5 years ago. In the beginning he told me that sex was not ever a big priority to him but with me it was different. I really turned him on. That lasted about 3 mos. the sex decreased rapidly. It was about 5 mos in and...
    Gemini1973 Gemini1973 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    Gay, But Got Married Anyway....

    I thought I knew my husband....we had been friends and dating on and off for 16 years married for 5 of those... I knew there were little problems before but never dreamed that he was gay... Strange but as soon as we got married I knew I had made a mistake...but I love him with...
    malibu92 malibu92 31-35, F 13 Responses May 25, 2009

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    I am a gay male looking for a husband or life partner.
    wilhelmar wilhelmar 26-30, M 12 hrs ago

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    The reason i want to meet a gay man for a friend is because I love male friends. I'm open to all friends really except the straight man. You can be gay, lesbian, bi, straight...
    heavenlyrose118 heavenlyrose118 41-45, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    15 and live in Brighton, England... the gay capital ;) New to this site so need friends :) Although I'm bi, I'm more gay than straight. Want someone sweet, funny and cute. On...
    LouisJC124 LouisJC124 13-15, M 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I'm gay. I have my ups and downs with being gay. For example today I was quite happy being gay. I know that one day I'll be happy with my boyfriend or maybe husband, if it's...
    hellotheremister hellotheremister 16-17, M Apr 10

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    I am a gay boy wanting to trade nudess on kiik boys and girls feel welcome to message me ajandersongay
    AJANDERSON AJANDERSON 16-17, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I have some family relatives that are lesbians and i fully respect that. I have nothing against homosexuality but i feel that i'm more prompt for supporting it for homosexual men...
    TheWanderingWillo TheWanderingWillo 22-25, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    hi im 15, gay from Arizona, im looking for some friends so talk to me <3
    JakeAstoise JakeAstoise 16-17, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Why does everyone say I am gay and from here anyone wanna date me
    jordan565 jordan565 16-17, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I'm gay age 13, message me I'm so horny age 10-14 xxx
    ukgayboy ukgayboy 13-15, M 2 hrs ago

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    New account! We write about real and fictional stories about boys. most are gay/bi. Add us to your circle and send us your experiences and we will post them! we can make the author...
    boyishthings boyishthings 13-15, M 1 Response 47 mins ago

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    I never really "came out". My mother knew I was gay by the time I was four. There was this one kid in my kindergarten class that I said I was going to marry. His name was David and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 3

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    To me, it doesn't matter who you choose to or want to have sex with. I value your heart. I am straight in which gender I prefer. I have had good and bad dealings with gays I met...
    blankcheck4urhart blankcheck4urhart 36-40, F Mar 20

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    Does anyone know Polari for "Homophobes are soooooo gay"? Sigmund Freud, had a theory that people often express the strongest negative feelings through their attitude towards...
    desopaws desopaws 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    This question for me is rather ironic, considering the fact that I myself am gay. But even so, I would really love to have a gay best friend. Honestly, I would rather it be a be a...
    xNickDavidx xNickDavidx 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    So, I just need to affirm my existence a little tonight. I only joined Experience Project a few days ago after searching for some stuff on the internet and liking what I read...
    ProcessOfBecoming ProcessOfBecoming 18-21, T 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Every three years there has been a family tradition of going on a family vacation trip in my husbands family, this was supposed to be the eleventh such trip since my husbands...
    isis55 isis55 51-55, F Mar 22

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    well Where to start.... I'm a 18 year old boy never had sex with a man or woman.. but I'm gay, still dreaming of having a traditional family (wife,kids etc) but I'm lost. I'm a...
    lookinginandout lookinginandout 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 5

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    I have never talked about this to anybody ever so, here goes. I have never considered myself gay or bisexual or any sexuality other than straight. However, I have always been...
    buddy4018 buddy4018 18-21, M Mar 26

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    I have had enough... Of people who are homosexual, refusing to accept it and deeming it as 'wrong' and 'weird' to feel the way they're feeling all because their religion tells...
    Skin0Man1 Skin0Man1 18-21, M Apr 9

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    Throughout all of history no society ever accepted marriage to be between two people of the same gender. There were plenty of societies that practiced polygamy and polyandry or a...
    Darkanddesolate Darkanddesolate 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 10

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    Where do I begin! Gosh, we'll ill start here. When I was in the 4th grade I was new to the town and school moved from wv to ohio. Well during my 5th grade year I saw this girl I...
    Ifonlycr Ifonlycr 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    There is a new problem, I have a crush on one of my friends. He is probably one of the sweetest guys around, he loves anime like me, and he has the cutest face. We have been...
    Poprocks007 Poprocks007 13-15, M 4 Responses Apr 2

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    So today was the first day someone denied my gayness. They never explained why they thought I "wasn't gay" but my hypothesis is that he saw me hanging out with one of my friends...
    Skuggington Skuggington 16-17, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am always hiding the truth from others that i am gay. The reason why i am hiding that i am gay = There are a lot of things, problems, goodthings etc. But when the times come and...
    injizzy injizzy 18-21, M Apr 8

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    Give Me Back My Children!-In November 1999 I arrived back in the United States after 10 years abroad first in the Army then married. I was back for my father's funeral but I didn't...
    Cherokeebelle Cherokeebelle 41-45, F a week ago

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    I have friends and family who are gay or lesbian and I love them to death :) At times I fear for them when it comes to homophobic people. Like one time at my second oldest brother...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Part two of my gay experiences It had been about a year since me and calebs last encounter. We were at the softball field it's out in the middle of nowhere. We used to go on walks...
    Wolfman888 Wolfman888 18-21, M Mar 19

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    I thinks it's important for everybody of any sexual orientation, gender identity, race or religion to have equal rights, I believe that all people are equal. I don't get it when...
    CrimsonShadow CrimsonShadow 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    My first experience with this awful disease was about 4 years ago. I had a terrible pain that got increasingly worse over the course of a week. I initially went to the doctor and...
    Imnothomeyet Imnothomeyet 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I met my gay best friend about 2 years ago and I don't know how I've functioned without him before! I remember girls always saying that they wanted a Gay Best friend and I never...
    meow1019 meow1019 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I'm not sure if this a question or just a story that I have to tell. I just had a 5 month affair blow up recently. I am married for 20 years in my late forties with no children. I...
    phxguy2001 phxguy2001 46-50, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    The real reason I came here was to vent about this and that's what I'm doing. It's a lot to read but it's life. I've been with my husband for 7 years since I was 20years old...
    whatsmystory whatsmystory 26-30, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    My names Felipe, and this is the tragic love story between ryan and I. We met on EP, and instantly fell in love, we knew it was meant to be. He broke up with the boyfriend he was...
    Felipster Felipster 16-17, M 18 Responses Mar 22

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    Sooooo I just told my mom I'm bisexual . Through a text convo . Her response was awesome . So far anyway, she said "ok. I love you just exactly as you are" . Whew!!! I wish my now...
    ArtsyFaerie32 ArtsyFaerie32 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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