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I Had a Gay Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 32 People

    Found Out My Boyfriend Was Bisexual A Month Before We Got Married

    It weird how from feeling the happiest person in the world your life falls from one moment to the other... A month before my husband and i got married i saw some revealing messages on his phone. i confronted him and I told him i just wanted to know the truth... so he told me that...
    littleone436 littleone436 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 3, 2011

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    Dealing With A Bad Marriage...

    I have been married for 4 years.. i have always had a reason to believe my husband was bi or gay.. ! He looks at gay **** and mas****** all the time... we have not had sex in .. well i cant even tell you how long... He wont let me touch him! He keeps to himself. We finally...
    bb1988 bb1988 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 23, 2012

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    So Confused

    Looking for advice from experienced people. I met my fiancé 3.5 years ago. In the beginning he told me that sex was not ever a big priority to him but with me it was different. I really turned him on. That lasted about 3 mos. the sex decreased rapidly. It was about 5 mos in and...
    Gemini1973 Gemini1973 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    2 years into my marriage

    and just found out my husband is confused about whether he likes guys or not. He had a couple of experiments in the past. The thoughts are coming back again. From our conversations, he has told me he is embarrassed of that. He has told me that he wants to be with me and continue...
    viola411 viola411 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    Married Him Anyway

    I had a gay husband. We met working at a summer camp and were great friends for many years. I got married at 23 to another man and that marriage didn't work out. I reconnected with this old friend and we both realized that we were really meant for each other however now he had...
    goldeninside goldeninside 51-55 1 Response Aug 26, 2010

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    I Found Out My Husband Was Gay

    I have been married for 13 years, with 3 children, twins of 9 and a 7 year old. I have felt my marriage was wrong for the past 6 years but somehow stayed for the sake of my children. New Years Eve 6 years ago was the first time I noticed another man and the attention he paid me...
    delano1303 delano1303 41-45, F 10 Responses Sep 29, 2010

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    Gay, But Got Married Anyway....

    I thought I knew my husband....we had been friends and dating on and off for 16 years married for 5 of those... I knew there were little problems before but never dreamed that he was gay... Strange but as soon as we got married I knew I had made a mistake...but I love him with...
    malibu92 malibu92 31-35, F 13 Responses May 25, 2009

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    Just hours after celebrating our 2nd wedding anniversary, my water broke early the next morning on September 2, 2014. As I got out of bed, there was a huge gush. It just kept...
    jillmgaw jillmgaw 31-35, F Feb 5

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    My husband saved me in more ways then anyone will ever know. I was so numb before I met him, I didn't even realize it myself. I didn't feel, I had no true compassion or sympathy...
    vault101 vault101 26-30, F 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I found out in late January that I was pregnant. I have 2 kids already and am happily married. My husband and I never planned on having any more kids. As soon as I found out I was...
    kaylaann2015 kaylaann2015 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    We started out as friends. I am married with two wonderful children. I never set out to have an affair, the thought didn't cross my mind in the beginning. I just enjoyed his...
    sundevilgsd sundevilgsd 31-35, F 1 Response 38 mins ago

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    last boyfriend I had was in September and really miss the feeling of having someone text me if u live by L.A. I live in the San Fernando Valley
    wallflower31099 wallflower31099 13-15 13 hrs ago

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    It has never been an issue to me. Well, not until now. I'm the eldest among 3. They're straight boys; I'm gay (though closeted). And recently, I noticed that my second sibling is...
    rainspy91 rainspy91 22-25, M 6 hrs ago

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    I want to have gay phone sex tomorrow, is anyone down?
    bobbys08 bobbys08 18-21, M 12 hrs ago

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    Hey I'm gay 17 from the UK looking for guys any age who are interested in talking /trading on k.. I... K
    Biboyuk17 Biboyuk17 16-17, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    It's hard to be a gay teenager but I love it and I found the love of my life love u babe👬😘😍
    duran127 duran127 13-15, M 3 hrs ago

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    I am 31 and my husband is 31 as well?we are a gay couple? for the last 7 years My husband has been aware of his Aspergers Diagnosis and I, Have done a very extensive amount of...
    KnightOfTheMadHatter KnightOfTheMadHatter 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 22

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    We have had anal sex and I noticed a difference. God help me for thinking it, but I believe he is gay. I feel it in the pit of my stomach. I asked as best as I could I mentioned...
    Luuz Luuz 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 10

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    Perhaps it was the reason why my marriage did not last forever."Don't tell me what to do, I have my own mind".Yet, am ready to compromise.(He can't) He even said I was a very...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    One day I will have a husband to love...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Today, I got the biggest shock of my life My 50 year old dad came into my room, and told me that since him and my mum broke up about 10 years ago, he's been to counselling, spoken...
    Mselisa Mselisa 18-21, F 15 Responses Feb 8

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    I met a guy. And the scary thing is, I liked him. I liked him way more that I ever did any girl. I've always had feelings for guys but I never acted upon it. So I told him. He...
    AlexTheAverage AlexTheAverage 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 13

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    Hi. So I am in need of some advice. I just started dating a guy who I really like, we connect really well, he's honest, great communication and I could honestly see me marrying him...
    halessss halessss 18-21, F Feb 12

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    I support gay rights. It's their life, and they can make your own choices. I don't care if I lose friends because I support them. Just because you don't like it, that doesn't give...
    BrokenCorpse BrokenCorpse 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 3

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    I've always been interested in guys since before i can remember but when i was younger i was really into drama and was bullied for being gay, therefore i saw it as a bad thing and...
    Wacky1993 Wacky1993 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Ok here is the sequel. I wrote about an affair I had with a married preacher, long story short my husband walked in and caught us. I haven't been with the preacher again since...
    reddhot reddhot 51-55, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I had known I was attracted to guys since I was about 8. I came out to my parents the for the first time when I was 15. Being the homophobic, religious, bigots that they are, they...
    jclawrence89 jclawrence89 22-25, M 14 Responses 1 day ago

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    I find interesting a selected group of questions and posting of this site as in many other sites as well. From those that stimulate your mind, your understandings of others points...
    Iamaboytoo Iamaboytoo 26-30, M 21 hrs ago

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    I've known I was gay since age 13. I've never believed I was abnormal, but I've always believed society thinks otherwise. I experienced bullying in school for being "gay" (even...
    pawnee pawnee 41-45, M Feb 16

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    Hey all, I guess this is my coming out story and accepting who I am. I've been in a relationship with a nice girl from my school for roughly over a year. At first, our...
    therealjeric therealjeric 16-17, M 4 Responses Feb 22

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    I am gay.... I have heard that term referring to it by the person who uses it as a comment of distinction , of overly ego, as a breed apart. I have heard it use by others trying...
    Iamaboytoo Iamaboytoo 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    Yeah....my crush sorta found out I'm gay. He doesn't mind. But if he finds out I like him....I dunno. I have no clue if he's gay or not. I know there's gotta be a good amount of...
    sblp2017 sblp2017 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 4

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    have had years of gay friends. from bootmen to transexuals to masculine gays to sensitive ones&every thing in between. now l ooking for some one to talk who has all their lives...
    wlws wlws 61-65, M Feb 11

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    Why are gay people still looked down upon? You think they choose a life of discrimination? You think they chose to be gay? When did you choose to be straight? It's already been...
    anthonyc12 anthonyc12 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 22

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    Since coming out as gay and getting divorced I've understandably been catching up on lost time. I've been doing sex clubs and cruising a lot as well as meeting guys one to one and...
    hadronnrg hadronnrg 46-50, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Since coming out as gay and getting divorced I've understandably been catching up on lost time. I've been doing sex clubs and cruising a lot as well as meeting guys one to one and...
    hadronnrg hadronnrg 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    21 years of hiding. You didn't ask I couldn't tell. My whole life Iv known that I was gay. When I was in 4th grade I had a crush on my best friends dad. I remember wishing that he...
    TheNewAndImproved TheNewAndImproved 22-25, M Feb 17

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    Lucy and the chocolates. I lasted one day. The bearing factory, a freight train in my chest, so loud. The sound shook my gizzard. No thanks. Walmart, night stocker. Look in the...
    rustyskills rustyskills 41-45, M 4 hrs ago

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    I absolutely adore gay people. They are super chill, they listen and you can tell them anything. I need more gay friends in my life, so if I add you and you're gay it's because I...
    BrokenCorpse BrokenCorpse 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    I knew that I am gay since I can remember and my parents knew it also since I like playing things from female side like barbie dolls and doll houses. Hahahah I used to fight with...
    queenchristianjay queenchristianjay 26-30, M Feb 5

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    My husband and I have been together for almost 8 years now. We have no kids together, and he has 1 son from a previous marriage. When I moved in to my husbands house (8 years ago...
    bbstorm bbstorm 26-30, F Feb 13

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    I got a little carried away when I was with a guy last night. I was at a gay party and I let slip that I had tights on under my trousers. Anyway he started to feel between my legs...
    ris9358 ris9358 51-55, M 9 Responses Feb 15