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I Had A Husband

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    My 1st Boyfriend

    When i was 16 I had my first boyfriend and he was 14 and he had just got out of juvie for a reason i CAN NOT tell you. He had been saving money for a week. The day he got 100 dollors he asked me out. On our 2 week aniversiry he had some how got 2000 dollors and got his uncle to...
    JulieMooney JulieMooney 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2012

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    I have to get this off my chest or I will explode. My husband and I have been married several years. I had a child from a previous relationship, and we had two together. I always...
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    So I am 23 years old and I don't drive. My parents deny it but really it is semi their fault. When i was 14 my dad asked me if I wanted a car and of course at 14 2 years is a long...
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    My husband and I have been in a relationship for ten years. I was 17 and he was 24. We have always been so attached to each and so much in love. We were best friends and told each...
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    I went on a girls long weekend and ended up sleeping with a guy i met there. i can barely even type these words as that would mean that i actually allowed this to happen. But not...
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    Even thought it was almost 10 years ago, I vividly remember seeing him from across the bar. Don't roll your eyes; this isn't what you think it is. He was handsome and brawny, and I...
    MiscMela MiscMela 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Hi all. I'm just having a really hard time today- I normally just read and read on this site and it helps me alot. I decided to speak up today. I miss my husband so much I want...
    Racquel34 Racquel34 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Alex1sJam4s Alex1sJam4s 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    mylove77 mylove77 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 28

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    nevadagurl nevadagurl 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 1

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    Well I flew to California to visit my parents. My mom threw me a baby shower. It was lovely . We didnt talk much about my husband...I didn't blame her. She wanted to keep the mood...
    melguzman21 melguzman21 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I was 15 and he dumped me for a cheerleader. Then the rest of my four years of high school he would try his hardest to break me and my boyfriend( now husband )up. Then he found me...
    carebear1019 carebear1019 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    s26g s26g 31-35, F 10 Responses Jun 23

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    sarsmassi sarsmassi 26-30, F Jun 29