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I Had A Husband

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    My 1st Boyfriend

    When i was 16 I had my first boyfriend and he was 14 and he had just got out of juvie for a reason i CAN NOT tell you. He had been saving money for a week. The day he got 100 dollors he asked me out. On our 2 week aniversiry he had some how got 2000 dollors and got his uncle to...
    JulieMooney JulieMooney 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2012

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