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I Had a Love Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 32 People

    Does She Love Me? - Two years ago I had a love affair with a female work mate. She loved me so much and we found so many things in common and that really made us all the more...
    andysully andysully 31-35 May 27, 2010

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    Very Unordinary Love Affair - I can't speak to him anymore. I can't see him anymore. My parents forbid me to go see him and his boss will fire him if he learns that we have been...
    kiersten0775 kiersten0775 16-17, F Apr 5, 2010

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    Michele And Rich (Part One) - She appeared at the brightly lit receiving door as I was in the middle of unloading my first delivery of the day. I almost dropped the heavy...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M 3 Responses Apr 3, 2013

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    Michele And Rich (Part Five) - As she pulled away I noticed that a medium to large sized sedan had been sitting at an angle just back from us about 30 feet or so. This...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M Apr 10, 2013

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    The Affair, The GPS Tracking Device, The Sex, The Lies - Part One Marsha and Winston How It All Got Started She appeared at the brightly lit receiving door as I was in the middle...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M 2 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    I Miss Her - Five years ago I met a woman online. I was in an unhappy marriage, with an overbearing wife, and this woman just seemed to have the right type of personality for me...
    seattlejobud seattlejobud 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 2, 2012

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    Michele And Rich (Part One) - She appeared at the brightly lit receiving door as I was in the middle of unloading my first delivery of the day. I almost dropped the heavy...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M Apr 5, 2013

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    I Had A Affair !!!! - I was about 21/22 when it happened, I had 2 beautiful daughters and a husband that paid little attention to me. He was to busy having his own affair with a...
    coffey0820 coffey0820 51-55, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    Michele And Rich (Part Six) - She had gone to that dealer instead of her regular dealer, because they knew us both there, and that would have been too embarrassing for...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M 5 Responses Apr 6, 2013

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    Michele And Rich (Part Two) - So let me begin by mentioning that when we first met in early 1997, Michele was just 32 years young, and I was 15 years older than her, 47...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M Apr 5, 2013

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    Michele And Rich (Part Three) - In 2008 I decided to retire, and I think that, down deep I had been beginning to realize that Michele had probably denied to her parents...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M Apr 5, 2013

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    Still In Love With The Ex - 13 yrs ago I dated a man who had been through a pretty hard life he was sweet and caring and we fell in love very quickly almost too quickly with in a...
    moocows1 moocows1 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    The Paper Store (Parking Lots) - For about a year after Michele and Rich had begun to meet in various parking lots around Massachusetts, they would go for rides all over New...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M Apr 11, 2013

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    How Hurt Would You Be? -  I’m curious about how people think of their lover after the affair......... Help me figure out how angry and hurt people are after being...
    SHAWNTWAIN SHAWNTWAIN 51-55, M Mar 29, 2010

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    Michele And Rich (Part Five) - As she pulled away I noticed that a medium to large sized sedan had been sitting at an angle just back from us about 30 feet or so. This...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M Apr 6, 2013

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    Michele And Rich (Part Four) - Finally!!! It's the next day, and our last day, November 7th 2012, at a walmart lot and we were going to have lunch and maybe a drive and...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M Apr 6, 2013

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    I've just come clean once again. Should my husband love me? I've been with the same man since I was 17, I am now 43. He is a good man and I really don't know why I had 2 affairs...
    kellyT43 kellyT43 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 16

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    I broke things off w/ my MM on 3/7. It's now 3/16. We both can't stand not communicating. It's too hard right now. We need each other occasionally I guess. Has anyone ever had an...
    lilsecret1 lilsecret1 36-40, F 15 Responses Mar 16

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    Yes, I had an affair with married man. I was married at the time too. My marriage was already crumbling but his is still going strong and I couldn't be any happier for him. I...
    lovehimdeeply lovehimdeeply 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    It's almost April. My life has changed so much. I'm happy. Complete. Content. Calm. I'm very much in love. Living together. Falling asleep in his arms every night. It's amazing...
    carpediem2 carpediem2 36-40, F 12 Responses Mar 29

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    8 years ago I had an affair with my then boyfriend's best friend. I fell so deep in love with him, he was my obsession. I just could not get away, i saw him everyday, we took trips...
    S3xym4m4 S3xym4m4 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    Just wanting to hear from some other married ladies like me out there who had an affair with a single man, fell in love and vice versa but decided to stay with their husband for...
    Casscat Casscat 41-45, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I cannot stop thinking of the incredible sensual ~sex filled ~affair that I had with my handsome Italian chiropractor! It was a crazy high voltage "love affair of a lifetime" with...
    BeJen BeJen 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I had an affair with a son of a ***** Francesco Clementucci, I really felt in love with him, despite the terrible intimate part with him and knowing that he is almost married, I...
    anna1953 anna1953 56-60, F 5 days ago

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    It was my wife that had the affairs, I was either out at sea in schools or after the service working twelve Hours a day seven days a week. She was out with other men while I was on...
    toughth toughth 56-60 8 Responses Mar 17

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    It's been almost a year and our love affair couldn't be stronger. We had a long conversation about if he or I would ever marry again after he being divorced 5 years ago and me one...
    onejudge24 onejudge24 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I had an affair and ended up getting pregnant . I had an abortion . My husband forgave me and said he still loves me and I feel I betrayed him. The bf who got me pregnant bailed on...
    Cathymary Cathymary 31-35, F 11 Responses 1 day ago

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    I had an affair with a Married Man. Its been an emotional roller coaster and I finally called it quits 3 months ago and I find myself missing him dearly. I was married as well...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 19

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    I feel silly. I feel like me. I'm smiling. It's corny because its my screen name ... But there really is nothing better than laughing! Laughing people are happy people. Even the...
    nothingbetterthanlaughing nothingbetterthanlaughing 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    A few year back a married lady going through a rough marriage, thinking I was separated made a go at me. I was then away from my wife due to work. I did not have those intentions...
    hotsweet1966 hotsweet1966 46-50, M 3 Responses Mar 23

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    My parents are going through a divorce and my dad and I found out that my mom has been talking to a guy for 2 months and are more than friends. My dad told me that she had an...
    xXlonebrushpupXx xXlonebrushpupXx 13-15, F Mar 27

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    I had an affair or close to it. She was my wife's friend. Always telling me I was good looking always being nice then the text came and I responded. My wife hadn't wanted me in...
    october004 october004 31-35, M 12 Responses Apr 5

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    I had an affair with a hot colleage while I was engaged to my wife.
    xxxtop xxxtop 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 1

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    I had an affair with my best friend's NEW WIFE. It cost me my 10-year marriage as well as a large chunk of my sanity.
    dbushy dbushy 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 1

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    I am not here because I had an affair, on the contrary I actually was cheated once but that's not the case, i'm just curious to know why would a person in their right mind think...
    alpaqqa alpaqqa 13-15, F 19 Responses 5 days ago

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    I found this TREMENDOUSLY eye opening. I read this last night on a message board about affairs and had to share ----- "Love", within infidelity, isn’t. Love in this context is...
    Wikedangel Wikedangel 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 27

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    Posting this again... 17 Reasons Why People Cheat Break out into selfhood For a long time there are forces...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have been here for awhile hoping to come across a story similar to mine. I need help. My story has gone from dream to nightmare. Had affair. MM always said he loved us both...
    blumomma blumomma 31-35, F 13 Responses Mar 31

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    I'm writing this in the hopes that others can relate to my affair experience and help me let go. I'm very ashamed and reluctant to post this, but here it is. I've been married for...
    dsumm1 dsumm1 51-55, M 12 Responses 4 days ago

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    Part 3: the affair When I posted my experience on EP and how depressed I was about my situation I got a lot of positive comments and support which really helped me change my...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 30

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    My longstanding affair ended after his spouse found out (a few times over a few years), threatened divorce and he couldn't see us ever having a "happy ending" after destroying both...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 33 Responses Mar 29

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    I did it because of my insecurity. I was married at the time and the guy gave me desire, affection, adventure, and sex all of which was missing from my marriage. My husband and I...
    sapphire601 sapphire601 31-35, F 8 Responses Mar 29

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    My ex-H had an 8 mo affair which ended our marriage last year. We may have had sex twice in the previous 2 years prior to me kicking him out. The day before I left him, I had sex...
    bluebutterfly13 bluebutterfly13 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 1

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    It all came out. I think part of me wanted to be "caught." All I ever wanted was my husband's love and attention. I saw the heartbreak on his face and I owned my deception and lies...
    MissViolet711 MissViolet711 46-50, F 11 Responses Mar 24

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    What do you do if you want to feel every emotion imaginable in the world.... ten fold? Have an affair. My two year affair brought me the most intense pleasure and the most...
    Steph613 Steph613 41-45, F 12 Responses Mar 27

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    Where to start?? Run women, if it hasn't began yet run! It's a very long and painful road. Feelings get involved on both sides and then one stops feeling before the other and all...
    ventingagain ventingagain 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 1

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    So another another ... Another Dollar... Not what I meant to say... What I mean is another lie.... Affairs are about lies... Left, right and centre.... Lying at home and lying...
    learner80 learner80 31-35, F 10 Responses Apr 4

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    A Hard Habit To Break The desire to have constant contact with you IS a Hard Habit To Break. It is true that you currently are, and have been for some time now, my first waking...
    FindingMySong FindingMySong 46-50, M 7 Responses Mar 23

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    I have an eating disorder and my AP doesn't even know. He loves petite skinny young girl type body figure but failed to realize with me being 5'4 and close to 100 pounds it's not...
    myheart99 myheart99 36-40, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    It started at work. We were just two people in search of something. It was just physical at first. Like all things new it was amazing. We were built for each other. Then it became...
    stratluver stratluver 46-50, M 13 Responses Mar 31

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    You know what's sad all the movies that make affairs out to be so great. Affairs are nothing but pain pain for everyone. I believe they need more movies like Tyler Perry's...
    Poorspouses1 Poorspouses1 70+, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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