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I Had a Love Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 30 People

    Michele And Rich (Part Three)

    In 2008 I decided to retire, and I think that, down deep I had been beginning to realize that Michele had probably denied to her parents that she had ever had any affair with me or anyone else. She most likely had just told them that we were just friends, and that I had simply...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M Apr 5, 2013

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    I Miss Her

    Five years ago I met a woman online. I was in an unhappy marriage, with an overbearing wife, and this woman just seemed to have the right type of personality for me. at first we were just enjoying the attention from each other. I came from an alcoholic family and have a hard time...
    seattlejobud seattlejobud 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 2, 2012

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    Michele And Rich (Part One)

    She appeared at the brightly lit receiving door as I was in the middle of unloading my first delivery of the day. I almost dropped the heavy carton that I was about to send down the conveyor rollers, when I noticed that instead of a few rough and tumble stockroom workers, stood a...
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    The Affair, The GPS Tracking Device, The Sex, The Lies

    Part One Marsha and Winston How It All Got Started She appeared at the brightly lit receiving door as I was in the middle of unloading my first delivery of the day. I almost dropped the heavy carton that I was about to send down the conveyor rollers, when I noticed that instead...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M 2 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    Michele And Rich (Part Two)

    So let me begin by mentioning that when we first met in early 1997, Michele was just 32 years young, and I was 15 years older than her, 47 years old. Of course now as I write this I have just turned 64 and Michele will be turning 49 in a few days. From the very start Michele...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M Apr 5, 2013

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    Very Unordinary Love Affair

    I can't speak to him anymore. I can't see him anymore. My parents forbid me to go see him and his boss will fire him if he learns that we have been meeting up.   It has been 5 years now since I felt this love for this man. We started off just as friends and I...
    kiersten0775 kiersten0775 16-17, F Apr 5, 2010

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    The Paper Store (Parking Lots)

    For about a year after Michele and Rich had begun to meet in various parking lots around Massachusetts, they would go for rides all over New England. Usually they would head off to scenic locations in the country, and sometimes to coastal areas. Michele always liked to lay a...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M Apr 11, 2013

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    Michele And Rich (Part Six)

    She had gone to that dealer instead of her regular dealer, because they knew us both there, and that would have been too embarrassing for Michele, who likes to keep her love life a total secret from the world. She had made an appointment to have them check if there was anything...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M 5 Responses Apr 6, 2013

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    I Had A Affair !!!!

    I was about 21/22 when it happened, I had 2 beautiful daughters and a husband that paid little attention to me. He was to busy having his own affair with a girl that I thought was my best friend.It all started one day when I walked into the local Get-in-Go and the guy behind the...
    coffey0820 coffey0820 51-55, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    Michele And Rich (Part One)

    She appeared at the brightly lit receiving door as I was in the middle of unloading my first delivery of the day. I almost dropped the heavy carton that I was about to send down the conveyor rollers, when I noticed that instead of a few rough and tumble stockroom workers, stood a...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M 3 Responses Apr 3, 2013

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    Still In Love With The Ex

    13 yrs ago I dated a man who had been through a pretty hard life he was sweet and caring and we fell in love very quickly almost too quickly with in a couple of weeks which in return scared both of us  our first date consisted of him taking me to a hotel and we rented a...
    moocows1 moocows1 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    Michele And Rich (Part Five)

    As she pulled away I noticed that a medium to large sized sedan had been sitting at an angle just back from us about 30 feet or so. This was a very empty, distant part of the lot at most times of the day. I sat there for a good 7 minutes and finally the man pulled slowly up past...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M Apr 6, 2013

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    Michele And Rich (Part Five)

    As she pulled away I noticed that a medium to large sized sedan had been sitting at an angle just back from us about 30 feet or so. This was a very empty, distant part of the lot at most times of the day. I sat there for a good 7 minutes and finally the man pulled slowly up past...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M Apr 10, 2013

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    How Hurt Would You Be?

     I’m curious about how people think of their lover after the affair......... Help me figure out how angry and hurt people are after being hurt by an affair.   Check out the survey........ “What Would You Do With The Pictures Left Over From Your...
    SHAWNTWAIN SHAWNTWAIN 51-55, M Mar 29, 2010

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    Does She Love Me?

    Two years ago I had a love affair with a female work mate. She loved me so much and we found so many things in common and that really made us all the more attracted to each other. Because of the affair she ahd a problem with her husband and moved out. The husband did not know...
    andysully andysully 31-35 May 27, 2010

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    Michele And Rich (Part Four)

    Finally!!! It's the next day, and our last day, November 7th 2012, at a walmart lot and we were going to have lunch and maybe a drive and then some familiar exciting times. WRONG! So Wrong, SURPRISE!!! I sat for a few minutes in my SUV with the curtains all ready in "action...
    covertaggressives101 covertaggressives101 61-65, M Apr 6, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I've posted my affair story, so not going to repeat. I've finished my Affair, which is why this title says, I HAD an affair. It's been 5 months since I was together with the...
    OnAlert OnAlert 56-60, M 12 Responses a week ago

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    I met my OH when I was 13 and he was 15.... we are pretty much together since than with some on/off phases inbetween. When I was 18 I had an affair with his younger cousin who was...
    anniecherry anniecherry 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    See Dreamgirl75,,,you had the affair,,with your co-worker,,now you ask a question ,,Can to married people (MM and MW) Who having affair with one another 1, Stop the sex ,, yes you...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Did anyone have success re-establishing sex and not only sex, but passion back in their marriage after they had an affair? If you have re-established sex with wife/husband...
    Fmina Fmina 51-55, F 7 Responses Jul 2

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    I am an affair success story. Due to my x-h's controlling behaviour toward me (coupled with alcohol abuse) for years, I checked out of my marriage a few years ago. I allowed fear...
    dayflight dayflight 31-35 8 Responses Jul 15

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    Just a thought..and I might get alot of sh*t for this but I had an affair and it really f*cked me up (read my posts!) and I will never do that again!! Now my thought is for those...
    LionCaged LionCaged 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 23

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    Denial.... I haven't accepted his decision to end things. How could he? Where the heck did he find the strength? Why would he end it when the sex was so damn amazing? I...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 6 Responses Jul 4

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    I had an affair with a random woman called Gill. It was excellent while it lasted but I went back to my wife. She let me come back but she does not trust me. I felt that I would...
    ericthebee ericthebee 36-40, M 5 Responses Jul 7

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    It's the same old saying, they want you to do good until your doing better than them. I am not sorry your husband loved me. I am not sorry your husband had sex with me. I am not...
    ventingagain ventingagain 31-35, F 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    Had an affair with a guy for a year while in the UK and fell madly in love with him and is still am!But ive been back in Australia for 11 weeks we are both older 46-50 known each...
    pommygirl pommygirl 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    How are all you ladies?? I know the good ones are still good.. But what about the ones who mm left.. Are you starting to feel better??! I'm on the next stage I can't explain it but...
    ventingagain ventingagain 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 6 years now. I honestly love him with all my heart and I know that he would do absolutely anything for me no matter what...
    oabutler oabutler 18-21, F 20 Responses Jul 7

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    This is for all the Truemans, Soevils and alike out there... i'm finally starting to allow myself to agree with you, there really isn't any justification for cheating. what you...
    earthandthesky earthandthesky 36-40, M 7 Responses Jul 11

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    I had an affair with a married man.. At first I didn't know that until he told me after we started to get serious! I'm a 18 yr old guy who is gay. He is very DL which his wife didn...
    avabooboo avabooboo 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Married and had an affair with a married man at work. We've been trying to keep the friend thing going, talking occasionally, but when I think I'm over it those feeling come...
    artist7 artist7 31-35, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Yeah I took my therapists advice.. MM text "can we meet tonight" Me without hesitation "I would love that" Everything was amazing.. So much for the wean him off idea..and if he...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 5 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    So our first 'date' as friends, with other friends tonight has been cancelled. My friend is ill. Weather is bad anyway. All week I've had that inner feeling of 'don't go, don't do...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Goodbye.......... This is an update to a story I wrote on May 20th about my affair coming to an end. Since I initially wrote this story, things had taken a turn. Initially, the...
    bobrido bobrido 46-50, M 9 Responses Jul 24

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    Happily ever after is only in the fairy tales ladies. I was a "success" story. I thought that I got my HEA when I married my mm. That is what we all think. We think how perfect...
    blumomma blumomma 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 17

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    Last year, I started an affair with a married man at my work. At the time, I was his boss. It was his first time cheating on his wife of 20+ years and my third time with a...
    GumboGirl GumboGirl 36-40, F 16 Responses Jul 8

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    So... my ex mm still wants me. I got divorced, he never did. It's been 23 months of a rough road, filled with enormous love, laughter, anxiety, guilt, excitement, doubt, fun and...
    lilsecret1 lilsecret1 36-40, F 13 Responses Jul 3

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    I ended my affair 4 months ago. I'm continuing to work on my marriage, however, I am having difficulty enjoying sex with my husband. His sex drive is pretty much dead due to his...
    Musicalangel13 Musicalangel13 31-35, F 11 Responses Jul 19

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    I had an emotional affair with someone who was once just a friend. I have been married less than a year. My husband found out when he went through my phone and saw some text...
    soon2bnurse soon2bnurse 22-25, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've found a great song for the ending of an affair. I can't believe I hadn't heard it before. Leaving New York by REM. I think it is about being in a relationship and coming to...
    lilsecret1 lilsecret1 36-40, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm curious about something? I am only using a MM example bc I'm a woman. How many if you married men had a physical and emotional relationship with a woman who was half your age...
    tc57 tc57 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 3

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    I was 15 she was 35 my speech teacher. She was very will pretty and always rubbed against me in class. I was a naive kid who did not know what was happening. She told me in class...
    edstarr edstarr 56-60, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Kinda of an answer for those who post "how can you say I love you to your significant other when you are having an affair?" Sometimes having an affair is the equivalent to...
    blovedsmle blovedsmle 31-35, F 12 Responses Jul 6

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    Cheater amaze me you have a affair then when crap gets bad you want to blame the affair partner. Well guess what it's affair it never was meant to be right. Something so wrong as...
    Trueman1944 Trueman1944 66-70, M 4 Responses Jul 11

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    My dad. Gosh, Ive picked up on his secretive behaviour for the past few months and I know somethings cooking. Im not surprised whatsoever. There are two affairs I know of that hes...
    Larutan Larutan 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    After I found out the affair, after the initial denials, my husband ultimately severed contact with his AP. He had created a email account just for her and cleared that out too and...
    missingherbigtime missingherbigtime 31-35, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    It's funny you know, In the early days of this affair I thought to myself 'of course I can handle this' and I felt sure of it too. But with each passing day, week, month that...
    reccos234 reccos234 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    She thought I had an illicit affair when I was on travel. I travel a lot, but she got the wrong impression when I described one of my trips. She decided to try her own hand at...
    rikki3214 rikki3214 41-45, M 4 Responses Jul 4

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    I held off for months. I am a college professor and a grad student of mine kept flirting with me. She was 28, married, short hair and very attractive. We would have great...
    onjourney onjourney 46-50, M 11 Responses Jul 6