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I Had A Relationship Change Me

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    I Still Love Her

    I have always been bi-sexual and loved both men and women in both a romantic and sexual way but when i met sara-jayne my world changed, she was everything i'm not, slim, sexy, eyes to die for and beautiful hair. her character just spoke for itself she really is loved by everyone...
    doctorpaula doctorpaula 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2012

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    Kamilan

    Myself I use to be one to follow the leader in relationships always trying to please.That was the nature of who I was .I loved a man so much at one time I idolized him and thought he would never let me down. That's when I found outin life that when you love someone sometimes they...
    Haunted5 Haunted5 56-60, F 1 Response May 16, 2012

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    Relationships

    Relationships,They change us,Hopefully for better,One thing's for sure,They're an experience!
    mrraincoat mrraincoat 46-50 Oct 9, 2012

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    Every Relationship Has A Lesson

    Every relationship I have been in that has ended has forced me to take a long genuine look at myself and see what lesson needs to be learned. What responsibility did I have in the failure of the relationship? Even an abusive relationship can change us for the better if we...
    LoveisNotEnuf LoveisNotEnuf 26-30, F Oct 16, 2013

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    It helped me mature .

    It helped me appreciate being single.
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 18-21, F Mar 23

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    I Came For The Group Logo But Stayed For The Truth Of It...

    Every single relationship that meant anything at all to me has left its indelible marks on my soul. If a butterfly can flap it's wings in the rainforests of Brazil and cause a hurricane in Tokyo how can anyone think that letting someone in your heart, soul, life and bed not...
    MynameisTed MynameisTed 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 6, 2012

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    Hawaii...

    Blah! This is a pervasive element in my life, but it's changed me, I'm quite a bit more aware of who I am and am not because of my best relationship.
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2012

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    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 13

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    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    acorn288 acorn288 16-17, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    amm0714 amm0714 26-30, F Sep 30

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    I have split up with my boyfriend who I now think is narcissist. I did research after we broke up because so many things just didn't add up. And after reading many articles and...
    pd007 pd007 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    Desko12 Desko12 18-21, M 6 Responses Oct 7

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    Hey guys I just thought I'd tell my story in the hope that I can inspire other people to get out of abusive relationships. It all started about 16 years ago when in school I met a...
    Demo90 Demo90 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 6

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    PinkNailPolish PinkNailPolish 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Initially I thought that I could achieve change with someone else's help.... I even discovered that there were people in my life who were willing to help but every time they asked...
    Emeraldteo Emeraldteo 18-21, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I use EP as a sort of diary where I write things down and get them out. So today I'm sitting thinking about my relationship with my ex. I feel very detached from it. I can say the...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304 26-30, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I feel a little embarrassed to say that I wish I had a significant other lol I just do! It gets a little blah sometimes.. Geeez.... Just someone to hug, kiss, be with, care for...
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 36 mins ago

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    cubes1998 cubes1998 16-17, F Oct 2

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    ArisDiCicco ArisDiCicco 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    Everything has changed this past 10 months! I had an epiphany, the real, awe-inspiring, shell-shocking revelation that we tend to see in movies etc. I am not kidding you right now...
    Tearystar1027 Tearystar1027 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 10

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    sigh...where do i begin....i have loved my SO since highschool but we were both in relationships. fast forward about 10 years later and a bad divorce on my end bad breakup on his...
    jenner3182 jenner3182 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm ready to change...:) -feeling New
    up97 up97 16-17, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I am Asian. I was raised by family members who were themselves of mixed parentage. Most of them married outside our 'race'. It was so normal to us. And besides we live in a multi...
    Ladygrey79 Ladygrey79 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
    weightingforhappiness weightingforhappiness 18-21, F Oct 2

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    ConfusedTeenGirl ConfusedTeenGirl 18-21, F Oct 1

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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
    weightingforhappiness weightingforhappiness 18-21, F Oct 2

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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
    weightingforhappiness weightingforhappiness 18-21, F Oct 2

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    Something I wrote to him, although I didn't send it. Thank you. I have a lot of things to thank you for. Thank you for showing me how to love and supposedly be "loved". Thank...
    weightingforhappiness weightingforhappiness 18-21, F Oct 2

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