I Had A Relationship Change Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 514 People

    I Still Love Her

    I have always been bi-sexual and loved both men and women in both a romantic and sexual way but when i met sara-jayne my world changed, she was everything i'm not, slim, sexy, eyes to die for and beautiful hair. her character just spoke for itself she really is loved by everyone...
    doctorpaula doctorpaula
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 29, 2012

    I was in a relationship with my bff .

    .me and her dated for 2 years during that time I had depression n was suicidal ... I told her n she told Meh she didn't care if I tried to kill myself n all that..it hurted a lot so we broke up after that I choose wisely who I like or who I share emotions with she was my bff n...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Nov 2, 2015

    I had a relationship change me.

    The relationship went so well it turned into a marriage. But before we met I was trying to isolate myself to avoid pain from others and protect myself. I was trying to enjoy myself alone.
    Gambler715 Gambler715
    51-55, M
    Dec 16, 2015

    saw me wanted me chased me caught me got bored

    with me left me sometimes I think this is all my life will consist of.
    kk1874 kk1874
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 15
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 5, 2015
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    Dec 6, 2015

    I had this relationship

    where we took some serious falls. She proved what the world was cruel...she caused me to lose my family...myself...i nearly died for her...because of her
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 7, 2015

    So many changes in my 40's.

    Relationship changes, career, homes, countries, friendships, if it could change in my life it has. I sit here at the close of another year and reflect on what has taken place not only this year but the last ten. I would never guess that I have seen or done the things I have...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 6, 2015

    Every Relationship Has A Lesson

    Every relationship I have been in that has ended has forced me to take a long genuine look at myself and see what lesson needs to be learned. What responsibility did I have in the failure of the relationship? Even an abusive relationship can change us for the better if we...
    LoveisNotEnuf LoveisNotEnuf
    31-35, F
    Oct 16, 2013

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    emilyccaa emilyccaa
    26-30, F
    Dec 8, 2015

    It's changed me for the worse.

    I'm bitter, angry, depressed, with no friends, no purpose, in a foreign country and completely ******* alone. That's what a relationship did to me.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 2, 2015

    My first love messed me up way more

    than the 13 horrible years with my ex husband ever could. That was only a year and a half but still more damaging than my marriage. Now I want nothing to do with love really. A guy would have to be ******* amazing to change that
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic
    36-40, F
    Nov 18, 2014

    Kamilan

    Myself I use to be one to follow the leader in relationships always trying to please.That was the nature of who I was .I loved a man so much at one time I idolized him and thought he would never let me down. That's when I found outin life that when you love someone sometimes they...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 16, 2012

    Yes it has changed me completely.

    Fell in love with a lady on EP, head over heels love her. Before I met her I was just hanging out, enjoying sitting around being an old man. Met her and my whole outlook changed. Like night into daylight. I woke up to so many things. Have had to learn some hard lessons during...
    boldtimer boldtimer
    66-70, M
    Mar 15

    I sit here with my coffee,

    listening to the sound of life happening around me as my life stands still. I'm the beginning stages of my Divorce. Yes I know I will be OK eventually, I know it gets easier with time, but today, I'm not OK. Today I am a mess. Today I'm struggling to find hope and reason. He...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 10, 2015

    the one with my ex he tried to force me to do

    weed last night mean he's just a controlling person I don't know why I keep talking to him and believing him when he's crazy af
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 2, 2015

    They say what we had was not real,

    then why does my heart hurt each and everytime I see and hear your name😔
    SChic SChic
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 8, 2015

    It changed everything about me.

    It took my dignity, my pride, my security and my child. I need a rewind button...
    damagedwings damagedwings
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 5, 2015

    Hawaii...

    Blah! This is a pervasive element in my life, but it's changed me, I'm quite a bit more aware of who I am and am not because of my best relationship.
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71
    41-45, M
    1 Response Sep 6, 2012

    one day I know that I will have to let you go,

    knowing that our paths are hard to meet for now. Stifling tears about to fall knowing that a computer screen will always be between us. Uncertain of the future, i start to treasure each memory we have for each other, and when the inevitable comes I have but one wish...close your...
    SChic SChic
    36-40, F
    Dec 8, 2015

    My ex girlfriend changed me,

    The relationship didnt even last for a month and I dont like her anymore but I sometimes do wish we were togther and the memories we had were forgotten. It doesnt help when you struggle with depression most of you teenage years.
    MichaelLife MichaelLife
    13-15, M
    2 Responses Nov 1, 2015

    I Came For The Group Logo But Stayed For The Truth Of It...

    Every single relationship that meant anything at all to me has left its indelible marks on my soul. If a butterfly can flap it's wings in the rainforests of Brazil and cause a hurricane in Tokyo how can anyone think that letting someone in your heart, soul, life and bed not...
    MynameisTed MynameisTed
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Aug 6, 2012

    I went on an online dating site

    and met a girl. We were in a relationship for two months. I started to fall for her and then she abruptly broke up with me. Those two months were the happiest time of my life in the last two years at least. It wasn't the sex(still figuring out if I enjoy it or what) it was the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 2, 2015

    Regrets and mistakes were memories made,

    who would have known how bittersweet this would taste... Nevermind I'll find someone like you...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 5, 2015

    Relationships

    Relationships,They change us,Hopefully for better,One thing's for sure,They're an experience!
    mrraincoat mrraincoat
    46-50
    Oct 9, 2012

    If you don't already know it,

    EVERY relationship will change you, for better or worse. Learn from each one.
    bcvegas4u2 bcvegas4u2
    66-70, M
    Jan 21

    I dated a girl for nearly 5 years.

    Despite the fact that she would beat me up I stayed with her. I would do anything to try to make her happy. She later cheated on me and left me
    Christuner666 Christuner666
    26-30, M
    1 Response Nov 2, 2015

    I am so glad I didn't let my guard down

    and forgive you again. It's been 5 days and you're already up to no good. The last 9 years were all for nothing. I wish I was the type of person to do you dirty the way you did me and get revenge with one of your friends. But I'm not. I'm the type that gets screwed over instead...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 4, 2015

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