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I Had A Relationship Change Me

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    Relationships,They change us,Hopefully for better,One thing's for sure,They're an experience!
    mrraincoat mrraincoat 46-50 Oct 9, 2012

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    I Came For The Group Logo But Stayed For The Truth Of It...

    Every single relationship that meant anything at all to me has left its indelible marks on my soul. If a butterfly can flap it's wings in the rainforests of Brazil and cause a hurricane in Tokyo how can anyone think that letting someone in your heart, soul, life and bed not...
    MynameisTed MynameisTed 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 6, 2012

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    Kamilan

    Myself I use to be one to follow the leader in relationships always trying to please.That was the nature of who I was .I loved a man so much at one time I idolized him and thought he would never let me down. That's when I found outin life that when you love someone sometimes they...
    Haunted5 Haunted5 56-60, F 1 Response May 16, 2012

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    It helped me mature .

    It helped me appreciate being single.
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 18-21, F Mar 23

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    Hawaii...

    Blah! This is a pervasive element in my life, but it's changed me, I'm quite a bit more aware of who I am and am not because of my best relationship.
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2012

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    I Still Love Her

    I have always been bi-sexual and loved both men and women in both a romantic and sexual way but when i met sara-jayne my world changed, she was everything i'm not, slim, sexy, eyes to die for and beautiful hair. her character just spoke for itself she really is loved by everyone...
    doctorpaula doctorpaula 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2012

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    Every Relationship Has A Lesson

    Every relationship I have been in that has ended has forced me to take a long genuine look at myself and see what lesson needs to be learned. What responsibility did I have in the failure of the relationship? Even an abusive relationship can change us for the better if we...
    LoveisNotEnuf LoveisNotEnuf 26-30, F Oct 16, 2013

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    I was in a relationship for about 5 months. She broke up with me over disaplnairy. She even gave me back my ring too . What a good surprise. She told me to leave her, her...
    IsleOFun IsleOFun 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    I was in a relationship for 3 years and one day I wake up go to work and I get a phone call off her saying that we should split up because she wants kids within the next year or 2...
    Need6pac Need6pac 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 27

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    The clawing at my heart...the marks it left. The succubi, the banshee, the shedevil. I am changed. I won't fear hell in love anymore. I am too scabbed over and jaded for that
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    I can't sleep very well. I mean everythin went fine with rehearsals buh they made a change in the script which now I come to bed has really thrown me :O they don't want me to come...
    hanntiger1 hanntiger1 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    How do you know when to keep following your heart or to stop and listen to your head? They say “love until it hurts” and “listen to your heart, it’s never wrong.” But is...
    hanna135 hanna135 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    So... part 2... I decided that nobody is going to hire me, and I go to an old employer, over an hour away, and they will take me back... so, I get ready to move. (There are good...
    cozyuptothefire cozyuptothefire 51-55, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    i can remember a day we went to a jungle with my dad's friends and we had to walk in the river! i had a nice trousers (it was new pretty and expensive).it was tight and i couldnt...
    00roshana00 00roshana00 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Not my life just hair couldn't find an experience that just had "I changed my hair style" so this is all I could come close to but tell me if u like my new hair style and tell me...
    Botdf1shutup Botdf1shutup 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    When I had started my first year of college I went in with a 10 month relationship but it had quickly ended when I found out news that he had given me an Std after visiting the...
    M0nica15 M0nica15 18-21, F 9 mins ago

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    Because i was in one myself for several years. He abused me as my bf, and i believed him when he said he would change and control his temper. I believed him so completely that i...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 19 hrs ago

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    Hi guys, I posted at the beginning of September about a long-distance relationship I'm currently in. Long story short; he lives in Korea and I live in Canada. We were together in...
    cheersbabe cheersbabe 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I can't ever seem to stay on track I'll be where I wanna be and than I'll do something to impede my progress...finally was staring to earn trust bak from the woman I love with all...
    lost2017 lost2017 26-30, M 8 hrs ago

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    My fiance and I are spending a year apart while he's away (military). When we first met (and fell in love), I had to move away for grad school. We were able to see each other every...
    alittlequirky alittlequirky 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I don't know what to do about loving and really hating my boyfriend at the same time. We are both very impulsive people who often rush into things but don't do anything half...
    UsuallyHappii UsuallyHappii 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I am 33. I met a woman online and we talked as friends for 3 or 4 years without ever meeting. Even though she lived only 30 miles from me. She had been diagnosed with "bipolar" and...
    bentsurvivor bentsurvivor 31-35, M Aug 22

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    Dear Friends, View my blog for complete reformation on your relationship. We dot give people Plan B in their relationship because our foundation "JESUS" is Matchless. Quite...
    kenmok kenmok 36-40, M 15 hrs ago

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    Dear Friends, Reformation of your relationship. We don't give people Plan B in their relationship because our foundation "JESUS" is Matchless. Quite simply I know that i have...
    kenmok kenmok 36-40, M 10 hrs ago

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    I believe people can change good and bad. My ex is a great example of this. We dated all threw high school and we had a great relationship we had a lot of things in common as far...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    To give some context to this post I have just come home after watching 'The Amazing Spiderman 2' at the Film society at my university. While there I had one of my only ever public...
    Goingthroughhell182 Goingthroughhell182 18-21, F Sep 10

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    Im writing this in hopes it helps clear my mind. Hopefully someone would be able to help me understand why life and love works the way it does... Years ago i met a man who truly...
    sinistergirl sinistergirl 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I feel an intense need to get a lot off of my shoulders. I've made a huge mistake. I think it's therapeutic to talk. I am 23 years old. I've been married for 2 years. I married my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Aug 26

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    My Ex is a Narcissist I have suffered for 3 years his emotional abuse has left me so empty I don't know where to begin in rebuilding my life its only been 2 days but I am...
    sazz85 sazz85 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My whole life, I had been taught by my family, and peers that long distance relationships were impractical, and could never possibly work out. Sadly enough, I believed them...
    PrincessKayleigh PrincessKayleigh 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    There was this one guy. He was sweet at first, but as time passed, well, that wasn't the case. Always getting mad at me for nothing, he would accuse me of cheating constantly...
    SomethingGrimm SomethingGrimm 16-17, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I had no choice, really. It was either let her continue the I'm pushing you away then pulling you back when its convenient thing or walk away and prove that I love MYSELF. It...
    PesteredByPenguins PesteredByPenguins 36-40, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I am hoping to find one nice mature woman for a mutually agreeable and satisfying relationship in the Philadelphia metropolitan area.
    donaldsterling donaldsterling 51-55, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I need help...my BF and I live 1200 miles apart and he is VERY jealous. I need ideas on ways to reassure him that I am devoted to him....anyone else have experience with this? I...
    giggletree giggletree 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I've been with my kids mom for 7 years and have 2 kids,a 4 year old and a 1 year old. We had an up and down relationship because when we first started she didn't have an idea what...
    jay305 jay305 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 28

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    I remember being in a relationship with an older girl. She was 18, and I was 15. It was long distance, but we had planned to meet up once she had saved up enough money. Honestly...
    CrunchyNoodle CrunchyNoodle 16-17, M Sep 2

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    i wish i could right all the wrongs of my past and i'm not sure if i can really change my future but i can stop the past from repeating itself in the present
    trailsonrails trailsonrails 51-55, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    We met on Fb. My cousin co-signed him because they were old pals and he seemed well educated, handsome and charming. We hooked up so fast. Seems I was in a rush to have a...
    milanmilan milanmilan 36-40, F Aug 31

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    I'm tired of people on here complaining that their partner won't have sex with them. Sex doesn't just happen because one person gets turned on. You can't treat someone like a...
    emptynow emptynow 36-40, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Well, this is my problem from the beginning of my "adult life"-I meet a girl and have a need to help her, in every way, if she has unpaid bills, I'll pay her bills and won't pay...
    Zpirit1978 Zpirit1978 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 5

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    This past year has been a huge step for me. I went on dates for the first time in my life, and I learned how to open up and be more social. This year I had the chance to start 2...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    In May I started talking to this guy named Stephen. He at the time was in 9th grade and I was in 10th grade. I met him when I went to visit my friend in her guitar class. At first...
    emilyann97 emilyann97 16-17, F Aug 21

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    My fiance: -says he is boring multiple times -says he is a homebody multiple times -says he doesn't want to go out [unless it is for juice] -he complains about disappointing me and...
    twiztedrune twiztedrune 18-21, F Aug 27

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    Dating a very cute girl from London, Kentucky (I'm from Germany). Met each other in a chat room, both been interested into furry art and stuff like that. She had a weakness for...
    ChipmunkTV ChipmunkTV 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    I have no more feelings left inside of me. I fell in love with a great person once. It was beautiful. Young love always feels amazing but it was an extremely controlling...
    Zari93 Zari93 18-21 2 Responses Sep 8

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    Both my parents spanked me as a kid but when I reached puberty mom left dad deal with me most of times. At first it was a change for the better becuase at that age I began to feel...
    rcarlos72 rcarlos72 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    For seven months, I was in a controlling relationship. I thought I had met the man I wanted to be with always. There were red flags from the beginning, but I was so attracted to...
    flpatty flpatty 51-55, F Aug 21

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    I have already established how I feel about "the other woman" and the "cheater." But I see so many posts about bad, toxic marriages...Honestly...It scares me. People run when...
    rollingdoro rollingdoro 22-25, F