I Had a Stalker

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    This happened a few months ago.

    I was in public library with my nose buried in a novel oblivious to my surrounding as I always am when I am engrossed in a good book. I was pulled out of it when somebody knocked on the desk in front me. I looked up to find a guy seated across from me wearing a silly grin.&ldquo...
    MysticNymph MysticNymph
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2016

    Online Stalker (sorry Long)

     I know this probably doesn't seem as creepy as people who have stalkers face to face but this was quite unnerving for me. Several years ago I had a yahoo profile that I used to talk to my friends. One day I got a random message from a stranger who read my...
    moiramaggie moiramaggie
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Jan 6, 2010

    my stalker is my ex-girlfriend,

    i was curiosity by the other sex,and then a meet her and we start to date. When I saw it was not what I wanted, i broke up. But she stalker me for 1 year or more. Now, 2 years later she started to talk to me in the instagram, i answered and was educated, hope she don't...
    yukirios yukirios
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 6, 2015

    In my life I have only had one real stalker,

    but one person can really mess up your life.. He blackmailed, kidnapped, and used me in every way possible. The worst part is that soon he is getting released, and I will probably never sleep again.
    LilVixen17 LilVixen17
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 7, 2015
    HannahB15 HannahB15
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 8, 2015

    There was a boy in my tuition class,

    he added me on Facebook and said I looked pretty and so I was like thanks. Then he got a bit weird so I blocked him later to find he had made like 20 accounts reading me on Facebook. Another day I was walking home and he followed me and I was sooo scared! I called my brother and...
    Bhavika18 Bhavika18
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 23, 2014

    It Was Me

    I follow myself everywhere. I couldn't get rid of me, so we became friends! LOL. At least I think so.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Mar 28, 2009

    In middle school 7th grade there was this girl.

    . Let's call her S S was in all of my classes besides art and gym, she followed me around in the halls (even to the bathroom, she waited outside), she stared at me during lunch all the time.. She told me she knows where my hairline on my head starts and that she thinks my mom is...
    DoorMattress DoorMattress
    16-17, M
    1 Response May 16, 2015

    **** yeah let me take you back to my freshmen

    year, i remember this like yesterday, how can I forget this experience. I was 15. and I didn't really have many friends. Most of them were guys. cause I was like the shiny new toy and they all wanted to be my friend. I knew it was cause they liked me. They made it pretty obvious...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jun 9, 2015

    My Stalker Found Me Again :(

    I had met my boyfriend Alex through this girl Debbie, whome I went to junior college with.  They had known each other in high school, where he idolized her as a love struck puppy would, especially since she looked like a super model.  Although he had a...
    DangerMouse87 DangerMouse87
    8 Responses Jul 19, 2010

    My aunt married my stalker

    after he threatened to rape and kill me when I was in 6th grade.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 13, 2016

    Beware of stalkers and those

    that pretend on here. always remember that. Until we meet face to face, you no longer deserve anything more than casual conversation about things that don't really matter. In return, I will provide no secrets for you to use against me.
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Apr 24, 2014

    I had an older woman

    that had a crush on me and wanted to set me up with her daughter. I was never interested in her more than a friend. When I started dating someone seriously she questioned my choice. She would call my work and home not realizing caller ID revealed who was calling. Thank fully I...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 7, 2015

    Living Nightmare

    I had been modeling at the local mall. Just things like bikinis & stuff from Dillards & the Buckle store. I was 17 & dating this guy at the same time I was modeling. 6 months after I start modeling I find out that I'm pregnant with my boyfriend's baby. He had already given me a...
    ProudWife01 ProudWife01
    4 Responses Oct 28, 2012

    It's been a while since I've thought about him.

    After the restraining order, and a year of time I hadn't given him much thought. So I don't understand why he slipped into my dreams last night. It was terrifying. I dreamt of seeing him in the mall, it was strangely empty so he came and approached me. I tried being nice then...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 26, 2015

    So..I literally had an ex turn into a stalker.

    .he seemed completely obsessed with me. We broke up in June and he still texts all the time and wants to be in my life. I'm too nice I think..because I guess I'm trying too be friends now too..does this make me stupid and crazy? I guess I just feel sorry for him..he has no family...
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Dec 26, 2013

    I have stalkers everywhere I go.

    Obviously, it makes me very upset and scared to even go out. Shopping? Forget it, someone creepy is always following.
    HannahB15 HannahB15
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 3, 2015

    During college years my best friend

    and I noticed that a guy was following me. It became obvious that he knew my schedule. Lab classes were feared the most. He was not in our group or in our class but he came before the class and stared at me, and he also showed up at the end of the lab. Few females in my lab...
    WisePearls WisePearls
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 20, 2014


    This guy messaged me out of the blue one day, on here, he was middle aged, he started talking to me, and came onto me really strong, He said he liked me, I flat out told him you are coming off to strong, and he replied I go for things that I want and I get them. The more I talked...
    Angels80808 Angels80808
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Sep 3, 2013

    He Scared Me Forever

    When I started 9th grade the only thing I wanted to do was fit in. I had finally gotten over my 'nerd stage'and was ready to start dating people. I first met 'him' during lunch with a bunch of my friends, I went out of my way to get his attention and it worked...
    TVDMonster TVDMonster
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 22, 2009

    She slept with my boyfriend of almost 2 years.

    When she found out she encouraged him to kill himself. When he did she stood outside my classroom, walked behind me in the halls after every period, every day. She found out where I parked, so I moved farther away and she followed me to that spot too. She ruined my life...
    katierow katierow
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2014

    My Stalker Cannot Be Stopped

    I guess my story starts in March, a few weeks after my sixteenth birthday. I felt guilty, mean and responsible for something I had nothing to do with, people were bullying this kid with aspergers syndrome. (Lets call him B) I thought this was irrational and unfair, so I spared...
    demoninsideasmile demoninsideasmile
    13-15, F
    9 Responses Dec 4, 2012

    I had a girl in middle school

    who would wink at me, and she would mouth I love yous to me as I walked by. she asked me out and I was being nice so I kinda got tricked into it ..had to watch her volleyball game..awkward. anyway the girl wrote in my yearbook..I should learn to say no lol. she use to follow me...
    Cocrispy Cocrispy
    26-30, M
    Oct 3, 2015

    Obsessed Older Man That Stalked Me

    Not too long ago when I was 23 I was stalked by a 35 year old man that went to the same community college as me. We'll say the guys name is Mark*. Mark was 35 and had previously been to prison for drugs and was living with his parents. He was very emotionally unstable and had a...
    gemw gemw
    1 Response May 13, 2013

    My Family's Psychotic Stalker

    None of us know exactly how it all started. However, we have given it a lot of thought over the years and have decided that while his goal was to terrorize all of us, our stalker was especially attracted to my 17 year old sister, Kathryn. When she finally saw his face she...
    Strangers27 Strangers27
    Dec 1, 2012

    They were checking out my travel over the

    years.....she was blocked But we have every year with her filthy paws
    thanks124 thanks124
    51-55, F
    1 Response Dec 25, 2014

    I had a stalker and I was tellingly aunt about

    the guy that kept stalking me she asked me "you know who sent him there to stalk you right" me:"well no" aunt: "Your dad sent that guy there to stalk you, you weren't talking to him nor the whole family so we wanted to make sure you were okay and safe. He wouldn't harm you, he...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 24, 2014

    When I was 14 years old.

    Dropping secret notes in my locker. Trespassing inside my classroom to give me a LONG letter without the teacher looking. I never read it. Waiting outside my classroom door so he can walk me to my next class. Every single day. Following me home. Standing outside my house early...
    Sen22 Sen22
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2015

    Phone App Could Have Ended My Stalking Nightmare Within Minutes.

    Phone App could have ended my Stalking Nightmare within minutes. September 1998, I was 23. I had a nice car, a successful business, a string of girlfriends, a very busy social life and a great bachelor pad in Surrey. Life couldn’t get any better. My story starts 13 years...
    Messagespy Messagespy
    2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

    How would u feel if u were a social worker

    and your client handed u a piece of paper that had your address , home phone number , and relatives names on it? Lol
    twistedwords twistedwords
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 18, 2014

    Teaching Me All the Wrong Things

    I've had a few. The one that messed with my head the most was probably my high school German teacher. I was a senior, and he was a first year teacher. He had no idea what he was doing, and I tried to help him out for the first few weeks - keeping the class under control while...
    eyes eyes
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Dec 1, 2007

    It Made Me Feel Weird

    A few years ago I was between jobs and went to college for 6 months to get a transferable computer skills qualification. There was about 20 people on the course-a real mix of backgrounds and personalities. Being a sociable kind of guy I chatted to anyone at coffee breaks, but...
    mikemcneil mikemcneil
    51-55, M
    11 Responses Dec 2, 2007

    He Was Really Scary...

    Me and my mom were volunteering to set up for a dance at a country club. We'd already volunteered a few times, but this time we met a few other volunteers there. There was a woman and her son. So her son kept coming up to me and asking me questions about how to set up the...
    luvvu23 luvvu23
    7 Responses Mar 25, 2010

    You Never Know..

    I did.   He was a family friend, who I'd known for years.   I got groomed from childhood.   He made my life living hell for 12 straight months.   Got into my house - because he was a family friend you know.   It's normal to fear for...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody
    31-35, F
    12 Responses May 7, 2010

    Yep. There is a pack of hyenas following me

    everywhere I go. Plus, I have pilots gang stalking me....They're researching me , I suppose. Why else would they constantly be hovering over my home? Maybe they want people to think I'm crazy. I do sound crazy, right? Intelligent little ****. I've managed to accept people...
    Forgettotrust Forgettotrust
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 4, 2014

    A girlfriend, when I was 14,

    kept calling me and being silent on the phone...it was stalking but back then there was no name for it...my mother threatened the police and she stopped
    deleted deleted
    Apr 30, 2014

    Stalkers - They're Shite Aren't They?

    I met my stalker as I hitched back from the seaside one day, and he picked my friend and I up and drove us back to the hospital where we lived in the Nurses Home. He seemed immediately smitten with me, and my friend Yani Ding seeing this, said her goodbyes and left me in the car...
    deleted deleted
    13 Responses Dec 13, 2010

    My Stalkerish Ex

    When i was 17.... i started seeing this guy that was 7 years older than me and it wasnt very long before we took our relationship to the next level and i moved in with him. At first our relationship was great...he was a total gentleman..but than i started noticing that as time...
    purpleshades purpleshades
    4 Responses Jun 28, 2009

    The Weekend I Won'T Forget..

    Hey everyone. So, I had a previous experience about a stalker I had back in junior high when I was 14. I am now 16 and I am experiencing the same thing with the same guy. If you've read my previous story, then you know, this guy went to my school. I did decide to confront him...
    AnonymouslyNew AnonymouslyNew
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Jul 28, 2013

    this started happening five years ago

    but was a 3-4 long ordeal. when I was 18 I noticed the same car driving up and down my boyfriends street (it was a dead end street) at least every 2-3 hours ALL night, we thought whoever was driving the car was just some weirdo and we didn't put much thought into it. anyway a...
    deleted deleted
    May 6, 2015

    When I was 11 in 6th grade,

    I was going.on fine until the worst time has come in the middle of the first semester. I was moved from my math class to an accelerated class. When I walked in, I saw an Asian guy almost looking at me. I sat in a seat by a girl named johanna who always tells who likes who. She...
    Samanthiah Samanthiah
    Jan 14, 2015

    For many years I have been stalked.

    I keep moving but she finds me. She has made her life's goal to find me. I have spent $300,000 running. While I was hiding she murdered my brother on my birthday. She spent 2 years planning the murder. No one will listen. No one cares. Nothing works. She always uses new...
    stalked10 stalked10
    3 Responses May 2, 2014

    so it all started after my parents got divorced

    my mom wanted a fresh start so we moved to a new house her bestfriend moved in with us so on the day of moving my mom's bestfriends brother helped us move along with some other family and his friend Johnny..Johnny is a 31 year old bear look alike months after the move i got a...
    IAmHer102 IAmHer102
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 24, 2015

    I had a really bad stalker issue

    once - the bastard even killed my dog and her puppies then threatened my sisters but was smart enough not to do it where others heard or saw anything so it was just our word against his so dad took a transfer - we didn't tell anyone where we were going and we moved across Texas...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 15, 2014

    Husband's Lover Stalked Me And Him

    I won't go into all the details but let's just say that my husband and I got married and soon after I found out he was having an affair with a woman he had met while on deployment.  This was just after 9/11 and I think she thought he was going to be her meal ticket.  Only...
    IntuitiveOne IntuitiveOne
    41-45, F
    7 Responses May 1, 2011

    A Lesson In Caution

    As someone who always wanted to be completely open with everyone I met, having a stalker changed that. It taught me that putting out a lifetime of information online and/or even to the people I met in person wasn't wise. I learned that it wasn't so bad that I was selective and if...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 7, 2012

    He Remains Out There.

    This is written in response to the one who weaves questions. He knows who he is. I speak only the truth. I have no reason to lie. Anyone who knows me, knows this. You have behaved in a most heinous manner to me. You lied. You created such falsehoods. You are well aware of the...
    deleted deleted
    11 Responses Jan 4, 2013

    When I was in 9th grade I lived in a new

    neighborhood and knew most of my neighbors and what cars they drove. One day at the end of our cul-de-sac there was an old blue pickup truck. At the time, I had just gotten home and the only people who lived in my house was my mom, my moms friend, and myself. Shortly after...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 15, 2015

    I was in an relationship

    and for the first few months everything seemed great. As more time passed, the guy got more possessive with me. He'd want to know where I was, who I was with, what I was doing 24/7. Whenever I mentioned it, he'd just say he cared about me and all. Eventually, this led to a lot...
    Hurt329 Hurt329
    18-21, F
    Jun 1, 2015

    Creepy? O.o

    When i was in middle school (6th grade)...this weird guy in my class..like an nerd in an old guy body but he was 11...O.o Anyways...he wud always try to touch me, be near me, tlk to me..smell me....no matter wht. He wud wait for me after skewl n follow me to my bus...just...
    ScarsOfRegret ScarsOfRegret
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Apr 29, 2011

    Hey ladies, you think guys are the only ones

    who are stalking? Think again! I finally got rid of mine for good, I hope. She now categorizes me as a typical douche bag because I finally yelled at her. I tried the calm approach and it didn't work the other three times. Is it really an ******* move to yell at a girl when you...
    CptColorado117 CptColorado117
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 14, 2014

    I Was Stalked By Another Woman

    I wonder if it takes a certain personality type to get stalked. I have had many men follow me home and do sort of strange stalkerish things. I just thought that weirdos were attracted to me. I was super nice to everyone when I was younger and I think stalkers are attracted to...
    youngestgirl youngestgirl
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Aug 1, 2013
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