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I Had a Stalker

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    My stalker was an exboyf

    who had been abusive so got dumped. When we were together he would go through my phone, emails, etc. If I was 5 minutes late from work he would be calling me over and over. If I got up in the middle of the night to pee he would get up too. It was so so suffocating and he was so...
    msoptimist msoptimist 36-40, F Nov 30, 2013

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    So..I literally had an ex turn into a stalker.

    .he seemed completely obsessed with me. We broke up in June and he still texts all the time and wants to be in my life. I'm too nice I think..because I guess I'm trying too be friends now too..does this make me stupid and crazy? I guess I just feel sorry for him..he has no family...
    LOOKN4NSIGHT43 LOOKN4NSIGHT43 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    Beware of stalkers and those

    that pretend on here. always remember that. Until we meet face to face, you no longer deserve anything more than casual conversation about things that don't really matter. In return, I will provide no secrets for you to use against me.
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 24, 2014

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    Living Nightmare

    I had been modeling at the local mall. Just things like bikinis & stuff from Dillards & the Buckle store. I was 17 & dating this guy at the same time I was modeling. 6 months after I start modeling I find out that I'm pregnant with my boyfriend's baby. He had already given me a...
    ProudWife01 ProudWife01 18-21 4 Responses Oct 28, 2012

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    My Stalkerish Ex

    When i was 17.... i started seeing this guy that was 7 years older than me and it wasnt very long before we took our relationship to the next level and i moved in with him. At first our relationship was great...he was a total gentleman..but than i started noticing that as time...
    purpleshades purpleshades 22-25 4 Responses Jun 28, 2009

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    It's been a while since I've thought about him.

    After the restraining order, and a year of time I hadn't given him much thought. So I don't understand why he slipped into my dreams last night. It was terrifying. I dreamt of seeing him in the mall, it was strangely empty so he came and approached me. I tried being nice then...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 26

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    I had an older woman

    that had a crush on me and wanted to set me up with her daughter. I was never interested in her more than a friend. When I started dating someone seriously she questioned my choice. She would call my work and home not realizing caller ID revealed who was calling. Thank fully I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 7

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    so it all started after my parents got divorced

    my mom wanted a fresh start so we moved to a new house her bestfriend moved in with us so on the day of moving my mom's bestfriends brother helped us move along with some other family and his friend Johnny..Johnny is a 31 year old bear look alike months after the move i got a...
    IAmHer102 IAmHer102 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    During college years my best friend

    and I noticed that a guy was following me. It became obvious that he knew my schedule. Lab classes were feared the most. He was not in our group or in our class but he came before the class and stared at me, and he also showed up at the end of the lab. Few females in my lab...
    WisePearls WisePearls 36-40, F 1 Response May 20, 2014

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    A Lesson In Caution

    As someone who always wanted to be completely open with everyone I met, having a stalker changed that. It taught me that putting out a lifetime of information online and/or even to the people I met in person wasn't wise. I learned that it wasn't so bad that I was selective and if...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 7, 2012

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    I HAVE A Stalker Any Advice Please!!?

    Hello, I have been a victim of stalking, harrassment and verbal abuse by my neighbor who lives across the street from me. This has been going on for more than 5yrs. It got worse for me just a few months ago, when I witnessed my neighbor taking pictures of me and my children, as...
    AnnInSearch AnnInSearch 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    this started happening five years ago

    but was a 3-4 long ordeal. when I was 18 I noticed the same car driving up and down my boyfriends street (it was a dead end street) at least every 2-3 hours ALL night, we thought whoever was driving the car was just some weirdo and we didn't put much thought into it. anyway a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 6

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    My Stalker Found Me Again :(

    I had met my boyfriend Alex through this girl Debbie, whome I went to junior college with.  They had known each other in high school, where he idolized her as a love struck puppy would, especially since she looked like a super model.  Although he had a...
    DangerMouse87 DangerMouse87 31-35 8 Responses Jul 19, 2010

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    Phone App Could Have Ended My Stalking Nightmare Within Minutes.

    Phone App could have ended my Stalking Nightmare within minutes. September 1998, I was 23. I had a nice car, a successful business, a string of girlfriends, a very busy social life and a great bachelor pad in Surrey. Life couldn’t get any better. My story starts 13 years...
    Messagespy Messagespy 36-40 2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    Husband's Lover Stalked Me And Him

    I won't go into all the details but let's just say that my husband and I got married and soon after I found out he was having an affair with a woman he had met while on deployment.  This was just after 9/11 and I think she thought he was going to be her meal ticket.  Only...
    IntuitiveOne IntuitiveOne 41-45, F 7 Responses May 1, 2011

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    When I was 11 in 6th grade,

    I was going.on fine until the worst time has come in the middle of the first semester. I was moved from my math class to an accelerated class. When I walked in, I saw an Asian guy almost looking at me. I sat in a seat by a girl named johanna who always tells who likes who. She...
    Samanthiah Samanthiah 13-15 Jan 14

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    When I was in 9th grade I lived in a new

    neighborhood and knew most of my neighbors and what cars they drove. One day at the end of our cul-de-sac there was an old blue pickup truck. At the time, I had just gotten home and the only people who lived in my house was my mom, my moms friend, and myself. Shortly after...
    mikkijade12 mikkijade12 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    The Text From No-one Part 1

    It all began in high school. I was about mid-year of my second or third year in high school and i was pretty content with my life my grades; I didn't have a care in the world. I had nothing really special about me I didn't ever bring harm to others or even made enemies. I was...
    pizzaboy213 pizzaboy213 22-25, M 4 Responses Nov 30, 2012

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    When I was 14 years old.

    Dropping secret notes in my locker. Trespassing inside my classroom to give me a LONG letter without the teacher looking. I never read it. Waiting outside my classroom door so he can walk me to my next class. Every single day. Following me home. Standing outside my house early...
    22Nm 22Nm 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    She slept with my boyfriend of almost 2 years.

    When she found out she encouraged him to kill himself. When he did she stood outside my classroom, walked behind me in the halls after every period, every day. She found out where I parked, so I moved farther away and she followed me to that spot too. She ruined my life...
    katierow katierow 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2014

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    My Stalker Cannot Be Stopped

    I guess my story starts in March, a few weeks after my sixteenth birthday. I felt guilty, mean and responsible for something I had nothing to do with, people were bullying this kid with aspergers syndrome. (Lets call him B) I thought this was irrational and unfair, so I spared...
    demoninsideasmile demoninsideasmile 13-15, F 9 Responses Dec 4, 2012

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    A girlfriend, when I was 14,

    kept calling me and being silent on the phone...it was stalking but back then there was no name for it...my mother threatened the police and she stopped
    330GTC 330GTC 51-55, M Apr 30, 2014

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    Teaching Me All the Wrong Things

    I've had a few. The one that messed with my head the most was probably my high school German teacher. I was a senior, and he was a first year teacher. He had no idea what he was doing, and I tried to help him out for the first few weeks - keeping the class under control while...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 11 Responses Dec 1, 2007

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    I Was Stalked By Another Woman

    I wonder if it takes a certain personality type to get stalked. I have had many men follow me home and do sort of strange stalkerish things. I just thought that weirdos were attracted to me. I was super nice to everyone when I was younger and I think stalkers are attracted to...
    youngestgirl youngestgirl 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    They were checking out my travel over the

    years.....she was blocked But we have every year with her filthy paws
    thanks124 thanks124 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    I have stalkers everywhere I go.

    Obviously, it makes me very upset and scared to even go out. Shopping? Forget it, someone creepy is always following.
    HannahB15 HannahB15 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Yep. There is a pack of hyenas following me

    everywhere I go. Plus, I have pilots gang stalking me....They're researching me , I suppose. Why else would they constantly be hovering over my home? Maybe they want people to think I'm crazy. I do sound crazy, right? Intelligent little ****. I've managed to accept people...
    Forgettotrust Forgettotrust 26-30, F 1 Response May 4, 2014

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    Creepy? O.o

    When i was in middle school (6th grade)...this weird guy in my class..like an nerd in an old guy body but he was 11...O.o Anyways...he wud always try to touch me, be near me, tlk to me..smell me....no matter wht. He wud wait for me after skewl n follow me to my bus...just...
    ScarsOfRegret ScarsOfRegret 16-17, F 9 Responses Apr 29, 2011

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    It Was Me

    I follow myself everywhere. I couldn't get rid of me, so we became friends! LOL. At least I think so.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 28, 2009

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    Stalker

    I was 18 when I started to get stalked. The whole thing started out when I was hanging out with this one guy "J"(dont want to put names) around the time I graduated highschool. I had just turned 18 three months after graduating highschool so I was able to go out with my friends...
    stargirl685 stargirl685 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    My Family's Psychotic Stalker

    None of us know exactly how it all started. However, we have given it a lot of thought over the years and have decided that while his goal was to terrorize all of us, our stalker was especially attracted to my 17 year old sister, Kathryn. When she finally saw his face she...
    Strangers27 Strangers27 18-21 Dec 1, 2012

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    It Made Me Feel Weird

    A few years ago I was between jobs and went to college for 6 months to get a transferable computer skills qualification. There was about 20 people on the course-a real mix of backgrounds and personalities. Being a sociable kind of guy I chatted to anyone at coffee breaks, but...
    mikemcneil mikemcneil 51-55, M 12 Responses Dec 2, 2007

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    HannahB15 HannahB15 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 8

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    For many years I have been stalked.

    I keep moving but she finds me. She has made her life's goal to find me. I have spent $300,000 running. While I was hiding she murdered my brother on my birthday. She spent 2 years planning the murder. No one will listen. No one cares. Nothing works. She always uses new...
    stalked10 stalked10 31-35 3 Responses May 2, 2014

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    I had a stalker and I was tellingly aunt about

    the guy that kept stalking me she asked me "you know who sent him there to stalk you right" me:"well no" aunt: "Your dad sent that guy there to stalk you, you weren't talking to him nor the whole family so we wanted to make sure you were okay and safe. He wouldn't harm you, he...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2014

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    In middle school 7th grade there was this girl.

    . Let's call her S S was in all of my classes besides art and gym, she followed me around in the halls (even to the bathroom, she waited outside), she stared at me during lunch all the time.. She told me she knows where my hairline on my head starts and that she thinks my mom is...
    DoorMattress DoorMattress 13-15, M 2 Responses May 16

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    How would u feel if u were a social worker

    and your client handed u a piece of paper that had your address , home phone number , and relatives names on it? Lol
    twistedwords twistedwords 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    Online Stalker (sorry Long)

     I know this probably doesn't seem as creepy as people who have stalkers face to face but this was quite unnerving for me. Several years ago I had a yahoo profile that I used to talk to my friends. One day I got a random message from a stranger who read my...
    moiramaggie moiramaggie 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 6, 2010

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    There was a boy in my tuition class,

    he added me on Facebook and said I looked pretty and so I was like thanks. Then he got a bit weird so I blocked him later to find he had made like 20 accounts reading me on Facebook. Another day I was walking home and he followed me and I was sooo scared! I called my brother and...
    Bhavika18 Bhavika18 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 23, 2014

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    Stalkers - They're Shite Aren't They?

    I met my stalker as I hitched back from the seaside one day, and he picked my friend and I up and drove us back to the hospital where we lived in the Nurses Home. He seemed immediately smitten with me, and my friend Yani Ding seeing this, said her goodbyes and left me in the car...
    javeachica javeachica 61-65, F 19 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    Hey ladies, you think guys are the only ones

    who are stalking? Think again! I finally got rid of mine for good, I hope. She now categorizes me as a typical douche bag because I finally yelled at her. I tried the calm approach and it didn't work the other three times. Is it really an ******* move to yell at a girl when you...
    CptColorado117 CptColorado117 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 14, 2014

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    I had a really bad stalker issue

    once - the bastard even killed my dog and her puppies then threatened my sisters but was smart enough not to do it where others heard or saw anything so it was just our word against his so dad took a transfer - we didn't tell anyone where we were going and we moved across Texas...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 15, 2014

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    You Never Know..

    I did.   He was a family friend, who I'd known for years.   I got groomed from childhood.   He made my life living hell for 12 straight months.   Got into my house - because he was a family friend you know.   It's normal to fear for...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 12 Responses May 7, 2010

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    He Was Really Scary...

    Me and my mom were volunteering to set up for a dance at a country club. We'd already volunteered a few times, but this time we met a few other volunteers there. There was a woman and her son. So her son kept coming up to me and asking me questions about how to set up the...
    luvvu23 luvvu23 22-25 7 Responses Mar 25, 2010

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    Obsessed Older Man That Stalked Me

    Not too long ago when I was 23 I was stalked by a 35 year old man that went to the same community college as me. We'll say the guys name is Mark*. Mark was 35 and had previously been to prison for drugs and was living with his parents. He was very emotionally unstable and had a...
    gemw gemw 22-25 1 Response May 13, 2013

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    The Man Outside My Window

    When I was little, 5 I think, I'd always see a person out my window. My window looked into the forest, and as a little 5 year old I don't think I understood. A man always stood in the forest, smiling. Every day when I'd get home from school I'd see him and smile. It was when...
    LilystarOfNZ LilystarOfNZ 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013