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I Had a Stalker

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    It All Started At The Campground.

    I was 15 at the time now 17 about to be 18, my cousin at the time was 14, now 16. My grandparents and I were camping at the park. My cousin and her dad was also there just a few campers away from mine. Me and her were out walking around the campers (getting bored). We decide to...
    BlueEyedGirl95 BlueEyedGirl95 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2013

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    Ewww

    When I was 17, my friend (female, also in high school) had a "friend" who was 37 years old. She was completely enamored with him for quite a while. Somehow, she gave him my phone number - and she begged me to be nice to him. He would call at all hours of the night...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 1, 2007

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    Ex Boyfriend.

    I dated this guy back my freshman year during the summer going into my sophmore year. I thought he was everything I wanted. BOY was I wrong!!!!! We had a good start going on, but then he got a little too clingy, obbsesive, and controlling. One morning at my house he was...
    BlueEyedGirl95 BlueEyedGirl95 18-21, F Jun 5, 2013

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    During college years my best friend

    and I noticed that a guy was following me. It became obvious that he knew my schedule. Lab classes were feared the most. He was not in our group or in our class but he came before the class and stared at me, and he also showed up at the end of the lab. Few females in my lab...
    WisePearls WisePearls 36-40, F 1 Response May 20

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    It Escalated Real Quickly...

    If you've been following me, I had a previous friend turned stalker. He was obsessed with me and envious of my boyfriend. I told him we couldn't be friends anymore. I ignored him and everything but he still wouldn't get it. He ended up twisting my words and still thought we were...
    thebookaholic thebookaholic 22-25, F Sep 19, 2013

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    My Stalker Cannot Be Stopped

    I guess my story starts in March, a few weeks after my sixteenth birthday. I felt guilty, mean and responsible for something I had nothing to do with, people were bullying this kid with aspergers syndrome. (Lets call him B) I thought this was irrational and unfair, so I spared...
    demoninsideasmile demoninsideasmile 13-15, F 9 Responses Dec 4, 2012

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    For many years I have been stalked.

    I keep moving but she finds me. She has made her life's goal to find me. I have spent $300,000 running. While I was hiding she murdered my brother on my birthday. She spent 2 years planning the murder. No one will listen. No one cares. Nothing works. She always uses new...
    stalked10 stalked10 31-35 2 Responses May 2

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    Beware of stalkers and those

    that pretend on here. always remember that. Until we meet face to face, you no longer deserve anything more than casual conversation about things that don't really matter. In return, I will provide no secrets for you to use against me.
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 24

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    A Lesson In Caution

    As someone who always wanted to be completely open with everyone I met, having a stalker changed that. It taught me that putting out a lifetime of information online and/or even to the people I met in person wasn't wise. I learned that it wasn't so bad that I was selective and if...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 7, 2012

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    How would u feel if u were a social worker

    and your client handed u a piece of paper that had your address , home phone number , and relatives names on it? Lol
    twistedwords twistedwords 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 18

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    Creepy? O.o

    When i was in middle school (6th grade)...this weird guy in my class..like an nerd in an old guy body but he was 11...O.o Anyways...he wud always try to touch me, be near me, tlk to me..smell me....no matter wht. He wud wait for me after skewl n follow me to my bus...just...
    ScarsOfRegret ScarsOfRegret 16-17, F 9 Responses Apr 29, 2011

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    Never Again, Will I Trust Anyone Online (Sorry It's Long)

    Hi. I'm your average 14 year old girl. I'm not popular, but I'm not a nerd. I go to school, get A's in all my classes, I have a ton of friends and family that loves me, and so on. And today I'm going to be sharing my story of the time I was stalked online. It all started about 2...
    ForeverLove2Sing ForeverLove2Sing 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 28, 2013

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    Phone App Could Have Ended My Stalking Nightmare Within Minutes.

    Phone App could have ended my Stalking Nightmare within minutes. September 1998, I was 23. I had a nice car, a successful business, a string of girlfriends, a very busy social life and a great bachelor pad in Surrey. Life couldn’t get any better. My story starts 13 years...
    Messagespy Messagespy 36-40 2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    Ex Boyfriend Might Be Stalking Me.

    Ok this is still going on right now. So I met this guy In my psychology class in college. He almost 21 I'm 19 and him and I dated the first week of college he seemed real cute and sweet at first (red flag #1) then he would text me all these erotic things like what color under...
    Caligirl95 Caligirl95 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    Husband's Lover Stalked Me And Him

    I won't go into all the details but let's just say that my husband and I got married and soon after I found out he was having an affair with a woman he had met while on deployment.  This was just after 9/11 and I think she thought he was going to be her meal ticket.  Only...
    IntuitiveOne IntuitiveOne 41-45, F 7 Responses May 1, 2011

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    So..I literally had an ex turn into a stalker.

    .he seemed completely obsessed with me. We broke up in June and he still texts all the time and wants to be in my life. I'm too nice I think..because I guess I'm trying too be friends now too..does this make me stupid and crazy? I guess I just feel sorry for him..he has no family...
    LOOKN4NSIGHT43 LOOKN4NSIGHT43 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    My Family's Psychotic Stalker

    None of us know exactly how it all started. However, we have given it a lot of thought over the years and have decided that while his goal was to terrorize all of us, our stalker was especially attracted to my 17 year old sister, Kathryn. When she finally saw his face she...
    Strangers27 Strangers27 18-21 Dec 1, 2012

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    Text From No-one Part 2

    Where we last left off the texting had finally stopped. I thought i was in the clear. I thought nothing of it, those events were in the past and that's where they shall stay! or so I believed... It was about three months later. It was the summer time and I was having a blast...
    pizzaboy213 pizzaboy213 18-21, M Dec 9, 2012

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    About three years ago I had a stalker.

    .. Via the internet, he learnt where I worked what's sites I use who I chat to, who I was seeing, he found me on Facebook, other network pages.. He wouldn't leave me alone, in the end I had to close down the sites I used and the police got involved.. I learnt he only lived half...
    Budmouth Budmouth 26-30, F Apr 22

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    My stalker was an exboyf

    who had been abusive so got dumped. When we were together he would go through my phone, emails, etc. If I was 5 minutes late from work he would be calling me over and over. If I got up in the middle of the night to pee he would get up too. It was so so suffocating and he was so...
    msoptimist msoptimist 36-40, F Nov 30, 2013

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    A girlfriend, when I was 14,

    kept calling me and being silent on the phone...it was stalking but back then there was no name for it...my mother threatened the police and she stopped
    330GTC 330GTC 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 30

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    Stalked By My Dead Relatives

    It feels good to be able to write here, because nobody in my family will accept the fact that ghosts can stalk a person just like living breathing humans. As I have said before on ep, I was tortured by satanic ghosts for four years straight. After that was over, a few of my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 16, 2013

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    You Never Know..

    I did.   He was a family friend, who I'd known for years.   I got groomed from childhood.   He made my life living hell for 12 straight months.   Got into my house - because he was a family friend you know.   It's normal to fear for...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 6 Responses May 7, 2010

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    She slept with my boyfriend of almost 2 years.

    When she found out she encouraged him to kill himself. When he did she stood outside my classroom, walked behind me in the halls after every period, every day. She found out where I parked, so I moved farther away and she followed me to that spot too. She ruined my life...
    katierow katierow 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    Hey ladies, you think guys are the only ones

    who are stalking? Think again! I finally got rid of mine for good, I hope. She now categorizes me as a typical douche bag because I finally yelled at her. I tried the calm approach and it didn't work the other three times. Is it really an ******* move to yell at a girl when you...
    dsapollo20 dsapollo20 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Teaching Me All the Wrong Things

    I've had a few. The one that messed with my head the most was probably my high school German teacher. I was a senior, and he was a first year teacher. He had no idea what he was doing, and I tried to help him out for the first few weeks - keeping the class under control while...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 11 Responses Dec 1, 2007

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    I Tried To Make Friends With The Creepy Kid

    This happened a few years ago and has since been resolved, but I'll share my experience for those interested. It was the first day of my university course and nobody knew anybody yet, so everyone was pretty much drifting around and mingling. I went into the library and saw the...
    4 Responses Jan 8, 2013

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    He Scared Me Forever

    When I started 9th grade the only thing I wanted to do was fit in. I had finally gotten over my 'nerd stage'and was ready to start dating people. I first met 'him' during lunch with a bunch of my friends, I went out of my way to get his attention and it worked...
    TVDMonster TVDMonster 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22, 2009

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    My Stalkerish Ex

    When i was 17.... i started seeing this guy that was 7 years older than me and it wasnt very long before we took our relationship to the next level and i moved in with him. At first our relationship was great...he was a total gentleman..but than i started noticing that as time...
    purpleshades purpleshades 22-25 5 Responses Jun 28, 2009

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    Crazy! Stage5 Clinger Xgirlfriend

    So gotta crazy story for you! about 3 years ago I lived with 4 guys including my boyfriend now my husband and he had this annoying stage 5 clinger BAD CRAZY STALKER x girlfriend her name was Laura Cardoza, Laura would show up at parties wherever! we were! nobody would know how...
    CottageGroveStories CottageGroveStories 31-35, M 5 Responses Jul 23, 2010

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    He Was Really Scary...

    Me and my mom were volunteering to set up for a dance at a country club. We'd already volunteered a few times, but this time we met a few other volunteers there. There was a woman and her son. So her son kept coming up to me and asking me questions about how to set up the...
    luvvu23 luvvu23 22-25 7 Responses Mar 25, 2010

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    I had a really bad stalker issue

    once - the bastard even killed my dog and her puppies then threatened my sisters but was smart enough not to do it where others heard or saw anything so it was just our word against his so dad took a transfer - we didn't tell anyone where we were going and we moved across Texas...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 15

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    There was a boy in my tuition class,

    he added me on Facebook and said I looked pretty and so I was like thanks. Then he got a bit weird so I blocked him later to find he had made like 20 accounts reading me on Facebook. Another day I was walking home and he followed me and I was sooo scared! I called my brother and...
    Bhavika18 Bhavika18 18-21, F Jun 23

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    The Weekend I Won'T Forget..

    Hey everyone. So, I had a previous experience about a stalker I had back in junior high when I was 14. I am now 16 and I am experiencing the same thing with the same guy. If you've read my previous story, then you know, this guy went to my school. I did decide to confront him...
    AnonymouslyNew AnonymouslyNew 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 28, 2013

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    Yep. There is a pack of hyenas following me

    everywhere I go. Plus, I have pilots gang stalking me....They're researching me , I suppose. Why else would they constantly be hovering over my home? Maybe they want people to think I'm crazy. I do sound crazy, right? Intelligent little ****. I've managed to accept people...
    Forgettotrust Forgettotrust 26-30, F 1 Response May 4

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    Maybe I Was Too Nice

    When I was in my junior year of high school, I met this guy who we will call Matt for privacy reasons. Matt was a senior in high school and was also a fairly new student to the school. He seemed shy and was often seen sitting alone. He was in one of my classes, so one day I...
    ariel131 ariel131 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2013

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    The Text From No-one Part 1

    It all began in high school. I was about mid-year of my second or third year in high school and i was pretty content with my life my grades; I didn't have a care in the world. I had nothing really special about me I didn't ever bring harm to others or even made enemies. I was...
    pizzaboy213 pizzaboy213 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 30, 2012

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    It Was Terrifying

    It was eight years ago--back in 2000.   I had been going out with him for a few months and he seemed like a really nice guy.    I was going through a divorce and I knew I didn't want to spend the rest of my life with him, but he was a lot of fun for a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Apr 6, 2008

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    Online Stalker (sorry Long)

     I know this probably doesn't seem as creepy as people who have stalkers face to face but this was quite unnerving for me. Several years ago I had a yahoo profile that I used to talk to my friends. One day I got a random message from a stranger who read my...
    moiramaggie moiramaggie 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 6, 2010

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    It Was Me

    I follow myself everywhere. I couldn't get rid of me, so we became friends! LOL. At least I think so.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 28, 2009

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    Huge Stalking Affair - A Latino Americano Secret Revealed.

    I will tell you a story about the most dangerous (because well known among high spheres, rich and influential) stalker and cyberstalker of the world. This man resides in southern Portugal, has an american passport, owns a Ferrari and runs an undercover gym in Quarteira. He...
    thruthuncovered thruthuncovered 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2013

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    Living Nightmare

    I had been modeling at the local mall. Just things like bikinis & stuff from Dillards & the Buckle store. I was 17 & dating this guy at the same time I was modeling. 6 months after I start modeling I find out that I'm pregnant with my boyfriend's baby. He had already given me a...
    ProudWife01 ProudWife01 18-21 3 Responses Oct 28, 2012

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    My Stalker Found Me Again :(

    I had met my boyfriend Alex through this girl Debbie, whome I went to junior college with.  They had known each other in high school, where he idolized her as a love struck puppy would, especially since she looked like a super model.  Although he had a...
    DangerMouse87 DangerMouse87 31-35 8 Responses Jul 19, 2010

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    Obsessed Older Man That Stalked Me

    Not too long ago when I was 23 I was stalked by a 35 year old man that went to the same community college as me. We'll say the guys name is Mark*. Mark was 35 and had previously been to prison for drugs and was living with his parents. He was very emotionally unstable and had a...
    gemw gemw 22-25 1 Response May 13, 2013

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    Electronic Stalking........Advice Needed

    Endless texts, now emails and trying to contact me on an online dating site..... The texts have been ongoing for several months....I have made the mistake of sporadically answering and even seeing him....but even if I don't answer for weeks it doesn't stop. I have firmly said...
    Twiddlebug Twiddlebug 36-40, F 2 Responses May 11, 2013

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    Obsessed

    This guy messaged me out of the blue one day, on here, he was middle aged, he started talking to me, and came onto me really strong, He said he liked me, I flat out told him you are coming off to strong, and he replied I go for things that I want and I get them. The more I talked...
    Angels80808 Angels80808 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    I HAVE A Stalker Any Advice Please!!?

    Hello, I have been a victim of stalking, harrassment and verbal abuse by my neighbor who lives across the street from me. This has been going on for more than 5yrs. It got worse for me just a few months ago, when I witnessed my neighbor taking pictures of me and my children, as...
    AnnInSearch AnnInSearch 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    Stalker

    I was 18 when I started to get stalked. The whole thing started out when I was hanging out with this one guy "J"(dont want to put names) around the time I graduated highschool. I had just turned 18 three months after graduating highschool so I was able to go out with my friends...
    stargirl685 stargirl685 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    Did I Have A Stalker?

    A kid at my school said he was friends with my "stalker". I asked him who it was, and he said my boyfriends cousin. And even weirder, he said he had pictures of me sleeping and he was in my big pine tree with binoculars and a camera! I never found him, and never quite believed...
    AlligatorGal22 AlligatorGal22 13-15 1 Response Aug 2, 2013

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    It Made Me Feel Weird

    A few years ago I was between jobs and went to college for 6 months to get a transferable computer skills qualification. There was about 20 people on the course-a real mix of backgrounds and personalities. Being a sociable kind of guy I chatted to anyone at coffee breaks, but...
    mikemcneil mikemcneil 46-50, M 12 Responses Dec 2, 2007

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    I Was Stalked By Another Woman

    I wonder if it takes a certain personality type to get stalked. I have had many men follow me home and do sort of strange stalkerish things. I just thought that weirdos were attracted to me. I was super nice to everyone when I was younger and I think stalkers are attracted to...
    youngestgirl youngestgirl 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    The Man Outside My Window

    When I was little, 5 I think, I'd always see a person out my window. My window looked into the forest, and as a little 5 year old I don't think I understood. A man always stood in the forest, smiling. Every day when I'd get home from school I'd see him and smile. It was when...
    LilystarOfNZ LilystarOfNZ 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    He Remains Out There.

    This is written in response to the one who weaves questions. He knows who he is. I speak only the truth. I have no reason to lie. Anyone who knows me, knows this. You have behaved in a most heinous manner to me. You lied. You created such falsehoods. You are well aware of the...
    PoetryNEmotion PoetryNEmotion 51-55, F 15 Responses Jan 4, 2013

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