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I Had Affairs With Married Men

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 364 People

    My Best Affair Ever

    I met a man and just started talking to him..we texted alot and talked on the phone. He was engaged and later married and I was in a not so great relationship. There was just something about him that drove me over the edge..I don't know if it was the fact that he was married or...
    cinfullysweet cinfullysweet
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 5, 2011

    I Love Married Men...

    one of my weaknesses. I've been "the other woman" with a guy for about 6 years now. But I love to please other married men too
    bbwloves2play bbwloves2play
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Oct 24, 2013

    Affair For 10 Years With Married Man

    I am writing on behalf of a friend, who has had an affair with a married man for 10 years.  He is married, but he has had affairs all his married life.  Sometimes, according to her, he was sleeping with another girl, much younger, while he was sleeping with her.  He woudl...
    sahakk sahakk
    4 Responses Jul 9, 2011

    Married and Having An Affair With a Married Man

     I was in a very abusive marriage and married for 14 years but with my husband for 28 years. He is 55 and I'm 46.  A couple years ago he went on vacation and met a 25 year old girl.  Since then things started going downhill.  He started treating me really bad...
    Lovehimdearly Lovehimdearly
    5 Responses Aug 17, 2009

    I Have A Few Times

    Its so much fun. I dont do it with any intention of stealing them, more like Im just borrowing them hahahaha. The way i look at it, they just need a little bit of something that they cant get from home. and thats just why theyve come to me. if it makes em happy, then im happy...
    WhiteMushroom WhiteMushroom
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Nov 5, 2013

    now I wish I had someone I could spend this

    experience is about relationships my life with money desire that female companionship looks and parents mean absolutely nothing to me long as your hearts in the right spot I've got a good sense of humor I'm in excellent shape I'm 50 years old I'm 61 210 pounds I need Health and...
    dophil dophil
    51-55, M
    1 Response Dec 6, 2013

    I,m Pregnant With My Lovers Child And His Girlfriend Is Pregnant Too I Love Him But Know I Should Walk Away Advice Please

    im in a very horrible situation which i know i only have myself to blame, im 24 yrs old and a yr ago i started sleeping with my boss who is 41 and has a girlfriend of 4 years and a 1 yr old son with her , i know who she is but never spoke to her the guilt was always eating me up...
    blondie1988 blondie1988
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 9, 2012

    Married Men ! Been There Done That Got The Tshirt I've Got A Whole Load Of Tshirts

    I’ve had a fair few flings and one nighters with married men I sometimes think should I feel guilty about it these men cheating on there wives but if it wasn’t me they dipped it into it would be some other women. So that’s how I rationalise it also I love being with married...
    blondebird16uk blondebird16uk
    18-21, F
    13 Responses Jul 6, 2011

    Married Guy W

    I have two stories and this one is the married guy one. I met a guy at an online dating site - a normal one ok. and he told me he was married. but we met anyway. it was a nice city, kinda sweet and homely... we were supposed to go have dinner when we go to the car he decided...
    WhiteMushroom WhiteMushroom
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 2, 2013
    stlguy45 stlguy45
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Jun 10, 2015

    An Affair 5 Years Strong

    I have been having an affair with a married man for 5 years now, longer than I have been married. It's a fantastic relationship based on a strong friendship, shared views on life and total honesty. Both our other partners are aware of our affair and as long as we are honest with...
    ssshh32 ssshh32
    31-35, F
    11 Responses Jul 6, 2010

    The Married Guy With A Heart

    I was in love with him long before he was married. Years later we had a sorority/fraternity reunion in my city and I knew he would be there. I was so nervous because I knew I had gained weight yet I wanted to look good when I saw him. We all showed up at the bowling alley as...
    2ashamed2share 2ashamed2share
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2012

    God I Love Him....

    It started with permission, they were polyamorous but when she saw us getting close she told him she wanted to be monogamous out of nowhere but he told her he broke up with me when he didn't ,we are still together.this is difficult because we all live together. I don't know what...
    theroommate9 theroommate9
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 26, 2012

    Affair With Older Married Man

    I was only 19 when I started sleeping with a married man who was atleast 16 years my senior.  Prior to meeting him I'd only had 2 sexual relationships with guys my own age.I went on an overnight ferry and he was one of the workers on the ship.  It was my first holiday on my own...
    kimmislut99 kimmislut99
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Mar 13, 2011

    Married Friends

    I was walking along the sidewalk heading somewhere still unknown, when I met up with a few friends that were skipping and running and jumping all over the place singing some sort of song. They grabbed me by my arm and brought me to a beautifully groomed grassy hill that...
    shiannek shiannek
    2 Responses Sep 23, 2013

    Best Sex In 25 Years

    When I was in my twenties I had sex with my boss. He was the owner of a real estate company. I didn't walk into the job planning this but I was attracted to him and it was obvious that the attraction was reciprocated. He was married and sixteen years older than me with a...
    2ashamed2share 2ashamed2share
    31-35, F
    Dec 19, 2012

    Do I Express My Feelings To My Married Lover??

    So as I read through others stories of their affairs I've noticed that deep affection seems to be quite common amongst both married partners. And that makes me examine my own situation. I have serious emotional connection to my lover but I've not expressed them because I know we...
    AlreadyTaken2013 AlreadyTaken2013
    26-30, F
    Mar 26, 2013

    The Damage Of Affairs With Married Men...from The Wifes Perspective

    I am writing as I recently found out my husband of five years had been having an affair with a partner at work. We have two young children together and I will never understand what went on through his little head. I called the girl made his life hell for two months and now I am...
    goodgurl goodgurl
    7 Responses Apr 20, 2012

    A Giant Of A Man With A Giant Broken Heart

    Big John Every morning at the mine you could see him arrive He stood six-foot-six and weighed two-forty-five Kinda broad at the shoulder and narrow at the hip Everybody knew you didn't give no lip to Big John - Johnny Cash, Big John One of the plights of the male when it comes...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley
    46-50, M
    Aug 20, 2013

    A Bed Made Just For Cathy

    A Bed Made Just for Cathy The pillow that you made for me It was soft with feather down And the headboard, it came from an old house That was about to be torn down And the songs you always sang to me Oh wow to fall asleep Did they sound the same to her In the bed you made for me...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley
    46-50, M
    Oct 10, 2013

    Affair Started When I Was Married Too...

    ....but now I am "single" and he stayed married. We only get together once a month now, if that, since I have started dating someone else it isn't as good for me. Plus it has been 6 years since we started. It's still pretty passionate though, and he does bring out something...
    Mumbo67 Mumbo67
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jun 12, 2012

    Should I Confront Or Walk Away

    Mine story started two years ago. I met this guy online. He said he was 36 and at the time I was 29. He said he worked in marketing and was busy traveling for work and was looking for a causal relationship. At the time I was not looking for anything serious I was looking for the...
    lily2423 lily2423
    Sep 30, 2012

    Memory Of The Summer

    Dear W.C., As I said before, I don’t hate you or get angry at you; it is more of your illness and my worries that made us apart. You have a tendency to overdo things and I have the tendency to worry about things, especially illness as I said before I have no control over it...
    hotyogabk hotyogabk
    51-55, F
    1 Response Dec 4, 2012

    Losing Everything

    I was working at a company for 16 yrs and I made a stupid mistake and got myself fired for it. I can't change what I did, but to add to the misery I was having an affair with someone at the company for the last five years. I tried not to fall for him but I did. I miss him so much...
    ariestms211 ariestms211
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jul 13, 2013

    I Have Sex With Really Inappropriate People.

    Despite being in what some people would call a 'relationship' which is hanging on my the last thread at the minute i have sex all the time with people i shouldn't! Married men seems to be flavor of the past year. Even my sisters husband. I no I'm a home wrecker but i don't even...
    MissVanDerWoodsen MissVanDerWoodsen
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

    Quitting The Married Men Habit

    It's not a big deal. I can quit any time. Really! I actually picked up the habit 'cause it seemed hip at the time. You know -- all the "in" girls had one. A married guy!  I'd heard the stories about the rush, the power trip, the wild infatuation and torrid overnight sex...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant
    46-50, F
    10 Responses Jul 27, 2010

    Broken Pieces

    I started seeing that married men earlier this year despite my faith i continue seeing him because he told me that he was getting separated from the wife and that thing were just not going to well. Our love felt so right at the time. From the beginning he use to tell me how much...
    Daisygue Daisygue
    6 Responses Aug 25, 2012

    I Can't Stay Faithful....

    I've had numerous affairs over the course of my marriage. Some of my encounters have been serious, some not. In either case, I've given up a lot of my heart to other men only to hurt or be hurt. Numerous times I've tried staying faithful, and go a few months without straying just...
    AlreadyTaken2013 AlreadyTaken2013
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Dec 17, 2012

    7 Years, 3 Men, A Fling, A Relationship, And Something . . .

    Over the last 7 years I have had ups and downs in my marriage. We've been married for over 25 years now, and I do love my spouse but I have rediscovered what it is like to maintain a marriage while getting it on the side. Now know that for me, I can't be with multiple men at the...
    LyndioutWest LyndioutWest
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 14, 2013

    I met a guy a little over a 1 1/2 ago.

    He lives in Va, I live in Fl. He comes to town a lot for work. Multiple times a month. I'm a bartender at a bar he and his coworkers come to every time they are in town. We started hanging out and then after a couple more visits to town he started staying with me while he was in...
    LoveAffairNeedOut LoveAffairNeedOut
    May 8, 2015

    Broken Hearted

    well i met a guy on here and things were only meant to be daddy daughter roleplaying thing and well it went further we fell in love with each other and then 4-5 months later he tells me he wants me to move to alabama and he loves me and he wants to get a place with me so then a...
    sexymama27 sexymama27
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Mar 27, 2012

    It's Been Over, But I Still Think Of Him.

    First, let me begin by saying that I'm not proud of what I did.  I am a married woman who had an affair with a married man.  To get the full picture, let me bring you back to about  6 months ago.  I met a couple through my son's tball team.  Obviously...
    jezebel77 jezebel77
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 12, 2010

    Had Sex With A Older Guy

    Im 16 rite now and I had sex with a married man. I babysit for a guy and his wife and I knew the dad liked me because he's always staring at me and winking. So one day I was watchin there 3 yr old daughter and the dad came home early from work but said I could stay for a little...
    Jenni241 Jenni241
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Oct 16, 2012

    I Had One Affair With One Married Man

      back in 2008 I went on to craigslist and I was looking for something that involved a couple a threesum but instead the husband and I started an affair that lasted for 5 months until I broke it off we would meet sometimes when I got off of work when I was home alone or we...
    nicki83 nicki83
    26-30, F
    Apr 12, 2012

    Hate The Fact

    I'am 22 years and dated this 30 yrs guy.It was a great one.we used to talk even inthe wee hours.all was good and there was nothing suspicious until 2months of dating when i came to learn that he had a son.i got stressed and confronted him.his story was that he separated with the...
    Michelleida Michelleida
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 20, 2012

    Hotels Perth

    Hi Can anyone tell me of hotels in Perth that allow you to book only for the day? Thanks
    Needtoknowhow Needtoknowhow
    36-40, F
    Oct 15, 2012

    X Hey I was Kevin I'm new one the experience I

    am blind 100% no light perception and I'm having a hard time navigating my way around these sites I'm embarrassed because it says right here on one of my experiences I've slept with a married man well that's not all possible I'm 61 200 pounds I am a man and I love women I don't...
    dophil dophil
    51-55, M
    Dec 7, 2013

    I Loved How He Made Me Feel

    My affair started when I was still a teen and has since ended. I was very young and quite naive about the whole situation and I know it meant a lot more to me than it ever did to him. It all started when I was 17 and he was a 29-year-old newlywed. I had known him as just a family...
    naughtygirl89 naughtygirl89
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2011

    There Can Be A Happily Ever After In An Affair

    Doug’s Happily Ever After “I want the fairytale.” - Julia Roberts as Vivian in Pretty Woman I interviewed Doug because it was imperative that his story be prominently depicted in this book. As committed as these types of relationships can be, it is infrequent that an...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley
    46-50, M
    Sep 15, 2013

    My Side Of Story

    I believe we all have different sides of stories to our experiences and true feelings, whether it is moral or immoral. The experiences and feelings are real and authentic, but the impact of the acts are moral or immoral. It depends on how you look at it, who looks at it, and when...
    hotyogabk hotyogabk
    51-55, F
    8 Responses Dec 5, 2012

    Can't Happen to Me

    Where to start, well at the beginning of course. Nine years ago I was lonely and feeling isolated, my husband of 21 years at that time seemed to have decided that we didn't need to have friends or an outside life. He changed jobs and went back to a job that took us to a very...
    tjwing tjwing
    1 Response Aug 21, 2009

    Know Him Through An Iphone App

    I been using an iphone app that allows me to know anonymous people. I know this man who is 37 years old, (I am 21 years old) .. he works afew blocks away from me but I had never met him... yet. I enjoys talking to him alot and I know it might be dangerous to talk to people online...
    anonymousbetch anonymousbetch
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 8, 2012

    A Tale Of 2 Women: ~The Secret Lover~

    A Tale of 2 Women Part II My fiancé works 3 days a week, 12 hour shifts, and stays up late working on various projects and hobbies at home, leaving me lonely and bored most days of the week. After an unusually rough week at work, I decided WTH, Im stressed, lonely, and I know...
    ArlenBales ArlenBales
    31-35, M
    Jun 19, 2013

    I Couldn'T Stop... I Liked Having A Dirty Secret

    About 3 years ago, I got divorced from my ex-husband. He was abusive both verbally and physically. I got married when I was 19 and hadn't really experienced life. I wasn't looking to settle down with anyone anytime soon. I dated a few people, but they tried tying me down to them...
    iwant2seestars iwant2seestars
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Mar 15, 2013

    The Wifey.

    Okay, so I've done it. I've slept with a married man. It was great, however despite that fact I want to bring this month affair to an end. Should I tell his wife? I think that this could possibly do more harm then good. She shouldn't hear it from me, but from him right? God. I...
    Thespins Thespins
    22-25, F
    12 Responses Oct 16, 2013

    Married and Having An Affair With a Married Man

     I was in a very abusive marriage and married for 14 years but with my husband for 28 years. He is 55 and I'm 46.  A couple years ago he went on vacation and met a 25 year old girl.  Since then things started going downhill.  He started treating me really bad...
    Lovehimdearly Lovehimdearly
    2 Responses Aug 17, 2009

    Generally Risk-free

    There is a thrill in ******* a man whom I cannot have for good. It plays into my fear of commitment, and I can have a man who has to go home to his family and his life, and I am not allowed in that life. I like that. I also enjoy that he seems so grateful and happy for the sex...
    auroramaru auroramaru
    46-50, F
    Jun 5, 2011

    A Funny One

    When I was getting it every morning from the land lord, I would hop out of bed after sex, and I would drip a little on the floor without realizing it. Well after a week or so there was a trail of drips going from my side of the bed to the foot of the bed. One day my husband was...
    ditz ditz
    46-50, F
    1 Response Nov 26, 2012
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