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I Had An Abortion

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    its been nearly 3 months and I thought I was fine. I mean im not doing terrible but I am getting sad and its making my days a little harder. I don't know what this feeling is, I...
    janeanne13 janeanne13 22-25, F 4 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Successful Herbal Abortion - I just want to share that after much introspection, I decided to have an abortion 3 months ago. I used a combination of Pennyroyal, Blue and Black...
    Alair Alair 31-35 56 Responses Apr 12, 2010

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    What It's Like To Have An Abortion - My Story. - I used to be on the fence of abortion but leaned more towards pro-life. I'd visited tons of pro-life sites where I read horror...
    SpilledSecrets SpilledSecrets 22-25, F 18 Responses Sep 27, 2011

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    The things I would do to feel you move in my tummy. The endless nights I've spent curled up in bed crying about the decision I made. I think back to the day I sat at Planned...
    mglosny mglosny 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    My Abortion Story - My Abortion – Very Long, but I wanted to make sure I included all the details I could remember. October 23rd 2012, I met this guy who worked at a local...
    GagandaLaranda GagandaLaranda 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 14, 2013

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    After reading up on the abortion pill and coming across the numerous amounts of scary/negative stories, I wanted to share my POSITIVE one with people who may be feeling uneasy or...
    Jazzy301 Jazzy301 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I just went to a midwife to have an abortion. There are women lined up. We were about 5. When it was my turn to ebter the room, i was asked to put my pants down, she used the...
    Misty133 Misty133 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Just To Share A 'Positive' Experience. - I was 19 and in my first real relationship, he was my first. We always used condoms, always. Then as we were coming up on our one year...
    ThirdMistake ThirdMistake 41-45, F 11 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    I want to give you a brief into my story - I tried to explain yesterday but just got all muddled as I am still struggling with this. I have a boyfriend & I completely adore him and...
    SYWlittlebutterfly SYWlittlebutterfly 22-25, F 1 Response 22 mins ago

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    Since my abortion, I've learned so much. Having an abortion has changed me. It changed my beliefs. It changed my life. I have found the positive in my experience. And I am stronger...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 24

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    Haven't Had An Abortion, Aren't Even Considering It? Read This - So Since out groups creator has not been seen since 2008, I am going to put what we want you all to see here...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    The Right Choice - This is my story, its alittle long but this was the most difficult decision of my life!  I struggled with the decision to abort or not abort for 5 weeks and...
    haladj327 haladj327 26-30, F 56 Responses Dec 12, 2006

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    I'm a man. My girlfriend got pregnant. We felt it wasn't time, we were too busy with work/school, had no money, time, etc. I'm not religious, she is. We discussed it, and...
    12johnson 12johnson 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I was sent this from an online advisor and thought her words of advice may help others so i have posted it on here for other women who are going through what i am. I was so sorry...
    SYWlittlebutterfly SYWlittlebutterfly 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    Being A Mother And Having An Abortion - When I was pregnant with my daughter, it was the happiest day of my life. But at the same time, I was so scared. My daughter's father abused...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    Problem-free Termination - Just thought I'd post my experience. Having read some of the other stories, I feel relatively lucky about my abortion. I live in Australia and was in a...
    GoogleyEye GoogleyEye 36-40, F 14 Responses Nov 8, 2009

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    I am currently recovering from an abortion procedure. I usually merely call it surgery. Abortion is a word that is difficult for me to say. I must start by saying this was...
    DThomas1776 DThomas1776 22-25, F 21 hrs ago

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    Hi..I had an abortion when I was 14 years old...here is my story I was 14 years old and had just graduated from 8th grade and was about to enter my freshman year of high school I...
    Stheo Stheo 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 7

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    how do you cope after having an abortion? I dont think i can go on crying everyday anymore, its tearing me apart.. and its tearing me&my boyfriend away from eachother aswell
    meganxo meganxo 18-21, F 15 Responses 1 day ago

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    I had an abortion. And I have shared my story a fair number of times. Well, I love to crochet. And I am currently teaching crochet for the craft store that I work at. Tonight we...
    cemarie128 cemarie128 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I had an abortion 6 years ago. I am happy to say that I have closed the door on this experience. I believe I stated that in my last story. So you're probably wondering why am I...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 19

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    Me And You. - We should be together right now. Forget everything else. It's not important. You should still be content and curled in my belly. Perhaps even smiling in your...
    Me5678 Me5678 18-21, F 11 Responses Apr 25, 2013

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    I had an abortion on 3/28/14. As far as logical decisions come, this was one of them. I have Graves Disease which was barely getting under control when i became pregnant. The...
    MADREofDos MADREofDos 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    After reading up on the abortion pill and coming across the numerous amounts of scary/negative stories, I wanted to share my POSITIVE one with people who may be feeling uneasy or...
    Jazzy301 Jazzy301 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    If u r against abortion don't give me ur negative I'm a murderer bullshit Hope to find positive feedback 😊😕😭 N I feel like damaged goods- I had my abortion Dec 13th of...
    Lovemy7yrson Lovemy7yrson 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I Hope This Works.. - I am a mother. I was protecting you from unneeded and unwanted pain. He hated you. I never wanted you to feel that. I hated him for hating you I hope you...
    MyAngelTy MyAngelTy 36-40, F 32 Responses Jul 3, 2013

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    The Best Decision I Ever Made For Myself - Ever since I had my abortion, I have never been so actively involved in abortion debates and I have never been so supportive of anyone's...
    AChristine AChristine 22-25 4 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    I'm here at the hospital with my girlfriend she's about to get s abortion I am completely against abortions and honestly do not know how I will feel about this when she gets out...
    jaystar05 jaystar05 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 8

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    I've done this and know many other women do this too. You know who you are ;) Why tell people who are against abortions, the reasons why we did it? We don't owe them an...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    It's been four months since it happened. Not one day do i go without thinking of you. I miss and love you my little angel..
    luzcee luzcee 16-17 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    You are not a bad person for getting an abortion, it doesn't matter if: You were assaulted. Your birth control failed. You weren't on birth control at all. There is a medical...
    AsexualMeat AsexualMeat 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Not The Ordinary - A word for "you". "You" meaning those who judge our members for their life choices; those who spread verbal abuse like a wild-fire toxin of...
    hae hae 22-25, F 64 Responses Oct 15, 2009

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    Guilt and pain I killing me inside. It has been 6 months but the pain keeps on coming back. I can't keep on feeling this miserable all the time. I just want to cry every time I am...
    memyselfandi27 memyselfandi27 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I was 16 when i had my abortion, was very young and naive. When i found out, i was just about 3 months and was told i had to make a decision- fast. My boyfriend was petrified and...
    jodiexo jodiexo 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I Had An Abortion - I am 18 year old and found out I was pregnant on 8th november, at first I was shocked as i was on the pill and didnt really know what to do, i...
    Tropical291 Tropical291 18-21, F 42 Responses Dec 8, 2009

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    Just Took The Abortion Pill - I barely know what to say or how to start, but I'm grateful there's a place I can write about this, because I can't on my Facebook or public blog...
    alizarin alizarin 31-35, F 121 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    Things You Should Already Know: Having an abortions does NOT make you a bad person You can have another baby after an abortion There is life after an abortion You are not alone...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    A Positive Experience? - I had a medical abortion a last week ago. The reason why I am writing this post is because before I went, I went onto the internet to read about people's...
    New2this1 New2this1 22-25 29 Responses Nov 28, 2008

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    Spontaneous Abortions - Am I A "mommy Killer"? - I have had three spontaneous abortions; or that is what my obstetrician called them.  Most people refer to them simply as...
    NoGodsNoMasters NoGodsNoMasters 31-35, F 96 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    I'm a Christian and yes I had an abortion. But does that make me less of a Christian? Does that make me a bad person? No it does not. An abortion is a choice. One that I needed to...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    I keep thinking I made the wrong decision. I know that's stupid, because I'm 19 with a part time job, and I have about 1k to my name, and in the end it would have been an uphill...
    CadyHeron CadyHeron 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 3

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    LIKE IT OR NOT ABORTION IS A CHOICE - I find it really aggravating that the women that come here looking for support are bombarded with jerks who come here with their own personal...
    ladyinrage ladyinrage 46-50, F 11 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    To Those Who Are In Need Of Help And Support - I had an abortion 5 months ago, and I still do not regret it to this day. I posted my story a long time ago on this page if anyone is...
    westcoastt westcoastt 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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    My ex the one I had the abortion w wants to b friends good or bad idea
    Lovemy7yrson Lovemy7yrson 26-30, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I'm Taking the Group Back Whos With Me?? - This is for those who have been affected by inconsiderate, untactful comments on this board that were disguised as "helpful" or...
    hae hae 22-25, F 25 Responses Jun 28, 2009

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    I'm a girl who had an abortion, I haven't really been able to talk about it, I didn't want to let down my now ex boyfriend, I wanted him to think I was ok, but inside it everything...
    nikkibc nikkibc 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Please help me! I passed a fetal head and arm in the bathroom! I just had surgical abortion last monday and i thought everything is okay when i felt like severe cramping and leg...
    Misty133 Misty133 22-25, F 4 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I was drinking way too much and Halloween me and my best male friend I guess had sex, not that I remember. I woke up and knew I was pregnant. I already am a single mother two year...
    noliesjustlovee noliesjustlovee 22-25, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I am getting a tattoo in memory of my abortion. I wish they had an abortion recovery symbol. I would get the tattoo on my left arm, next to my eating disorder recovery symbol. I...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Got Called The "N" Word For Having An Abortion, Read On - I received a private message from SweetAmaya. You know, the one who calls us all murderers for having an abortion and said...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 16 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    About two months ago I had an abortion and ever since I've been a mess. I have chest pains, I'm super paranoid and usually on edge, I go from happiness to rage out of nowhere, I'm...
    Tzilla95 Tzilla95 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I feel like **** today and the worst part is I can't do anything about it, EVER!
    only19 only19 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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