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I Had An Affair With a Married Man

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    i met a guy at church he had a son from a

    previous relationship. we been seeing each other for a few months and after doing some research I found out not only was he married but he still lived with the chick! I was solo mad at myself & him buy its a lesson learned
    luvabl3 luvabl3 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2014

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    I worked at a VBS camp two years ago during the

    summer. It was held during the night and I worked where I helped teach kids how to cook. I was the leader and I worked with a man, let's call him Bryan, who was about 29 at the time. I was 15. (A very mature 15 year old, I must add) We instantly connected. And we were very close...
    Southernpanda Southernpanda 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    "It's Too Much Pain to Have to Bear..."

    "...To love a man you have to share." The song "Stay" by Sugarland became my anthem for quite a while. The married man I was seeing wasn't married, in my mind... because he didn't tell me.  He didn't wear a wedding ring, and when I asked him...
    HisONEnOnly HisONEnOnly 22-25, F Sep 7, 2009

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    Im terrified, embarrassed

    and I'm afraid addicted. I don't know what do do. I am married, a professional, well educated, church going, mother of young children and have been having an affair with a married man for 2 years now. He too has young children. We live hours apart but meet halfway every 2 weeks...
    Lostandscared3 Lostandscared3 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 13

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    I'm trying to end it.

    I just can't. He's just the best I think its because it kinda turns me on us sneeking around. But I kno its wrong. I need to settle down and get a man myself and I want to be faithful. Its just he's so tempting and hot. He told me we could still mess around and I cn get married...
    laverso laverso 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 28, 2014

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    Like many here I too had an affair with a

    married man... He was my boss and he was gorgeous. I had just gotten out of a terrible relationship and a close friend of mine had committed suicide so I was shaken to the core emotionally. However being with my mm made me feel happy. He was genuinely kind to me and we shared...
    0Mischa0 0Mischa0 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    And I am thinking about starting it up again.

    I have a feeling he wants to because usually we don't talk about it but recently he's been making little remarks and I have just been ignoring them. I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful man and if I went through with this it would completely ruin it for us if my...
    Rainbowsandrain Rainbowsandrain 41-45, F 2 Responses May 5, 2014

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    I don't love you I'm just passing the time.

    You could love me if I knew how to lie. But who could love me, I am out of my mind. Throwing a line out to sea, to see if I can catch a dream.
    Pk3456 Pk3456 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    We met on EP actually.

    His name was Jason. We talked all the time about anything and everything, being intimate over the phone quite a bit. I thought I was in love. I thought he felt the same. We had made plans to meet in person. He told me he didn't if it didn't go anywhere, that he just wanted to...
    BeautifulxDelusions BeautifulxDelusions 18-21, F 6 Responses May 6

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    Bad Babysitter

    I had an ongoing affair with an older married man. I was babysitting for this couple for a couple of years and he was always so nice to me. He would give me rides home and we would talk about everything. It was so nice having someone that was interested in me and he was really...
    VickyBu VickyBu 18-21, F 17 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 18, 2014

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    he haunts me in my dreams at night,

    even once you have let go, you really haven't, cause he revisits me in my dreams at night
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I was younger, not yet engaged.

    I don't condone it, but I don't regret it either.
    Dominatrixwife Dominatrixwife 18-21, F Oct 4, 2014

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    Yes, I had an affair with married man.

    I was married at the time too. My marriage was already crumbling but his is still going strong and I couldn't be any happier for him. I can only speak for myself of course, but the affair was never about love or wanting a leave our spouse for each other. We went into the...
    Rainbowsandrain Rainbowsandrain 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    This selfish act has ruined my reputation,

    mentality, eating habits, spiked up my anxiety, turned many people in my town away from me. Exposure is karma. You think you're in love. This isn't the case. Stay away. I urge women to not have affairs with married men. Please. Even if your emotions are taking over, especially...
    LDR8 LDR8 26-30, F Oct 6, 2014

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    I like being the side women.

    s e x with no strings attached pretty much whenever I want. Im so needy and want to be wanted that if a guy wants to spend time with me, it makes me feel better about myself. Sad but true
    Tileesi Tileesi 26-30, F 10 Responses Aug 22

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    This is to all the women having affairs with

    married men right now. I want to share my story of my experience with having a relationship with a married man, in hopes that you reconsider continuing the affair. I had a 7 year relationship with a married man, I wouldn't call it an affair because he wasn't in love with me and...
    Linley242 Linley242 51-55, F 7 Responses Oct 5, 2014

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    I gave a married guy several BJs

    because his wife didn't like that chore. She eventually started giving them and he cut me off. I really enjoyed giving them knowing he would have sex with her later.
    Therealjason Therealjason 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I was so naive. I am

    so completely mad at myself. He told me he was going through a divorce and we started seeing each other. I fell head over heels in love with this man. Come to find out he wasn't going through a divorce. He simply wasn't happy. I was a side piece. My heart hurts everyday and it...
    ofallthings23 ofallthings23 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    I was out of town for work in Arizona

    and my company put me in a motel. I had just gotten back to the hotel and phoned my wife to tell her about my day and see how her day went as well. We finally hung up as it was getting late and I decided to head to the lobby bar for a few drinks. It was pretty empty in the motel...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    Fun At Work

    I first slept with Brad 6 weeks after he got married. We met eachother at work and had an instant connection, he was engaged at the time. We didn't usually work at the same location, but would still call or text eachother frequently. Ill never forget that on June 1st we worked...
    starlesscatharsis starlesscatharsis 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 12, 2012

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    I know many people will make judgmental

    comments. I don't really care. I just need to get this out. My relationships in the past have always ended with me hurt due to infidelity. I naturally sacrifice to make others happy. Long story short, I've been bitter about love. I'd rather die alone than be hurt again. I don...
    BrittBratz BrittBratz 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 21

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    It all started wen i got introduce to my gf's

    cousin (X). I knew he was married. X had this thing in him dat attracted me. He showered me with so much care & concern. He always kept saying, if only he knew me earlier he would have gotten married to me. I fell for him. Weekly meetings became daily. Eventually one fine night...
    chocoholics chocoholics 31-35, F 1 Response May 28

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    I'm married and having an affair with a married

    man.im in a great relationship with both men.
    k3rrr1 k3rrr1 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    He was my everything,

    my perfect connection, he said the same about me, and yet now he is able to put me on limited contact and I feel lost and alone and confused. How can people say something but do another? How is it so easy for someone to go from obsessed to silence?
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    i used to be an escort.

    i met alot of men but one in particular that pursued me like crazy. he wanted me to stop escorting nd he would take care of me. we dated for 3 years. in that 3 years was alot of lies nd cheeting. i found out he had a wife nd 4 children that he went home to every night. his wife...
    laurieBoo laurieBoo 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    My best friend and I went to Cuba

    for Christmas vacation. She had just completed her divorce and I was recently separated from my husband. My divorce will be final in the next few weeks. We wanted to meet men and we sure did! She did not sleep in our room more than two of our seven nights there. I thought I...
    CafeAuLeah CafeAuLeah 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    If you all could read my last experience

    and help me out I will in return help you out as well.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 7

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    yes, I did that...ended kinda bad.

    one tell I will tell you all about it, when i have the energy. but, for now.... just know that i been down that road if you wanna talk.
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 Jul 9

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    Help!! I've been having an affair with a

    married man at work. We've had instances where we almost got caught. He's much older than me. But so gentle. My marriage broke down because of him. He promises me the world but I just found out he's going away with his wife and today she picked him up from work I feel so...
    cdngirl2 cdngirl2 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    Why do married men cheat

    and then suddenly feel guilty about it but still want to be friends. Also its okay if I initiate kisses or touching but he doesn't want to start anything
    Sabr3na Sabr3na 36-40, F 3 Responses May 4

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    I had an affair. It's been over a year.

    I don't think of him every minute anymore. He's still very much in my life. We were friends for many years before it grew. We did and do love each other. We both decided, we can't be together. We were very respectful of each other. Nobody got hurt, except ourselves. We REALLY...
    lilsecret1 lilsecret1 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    When I look back I slowly see how

    so obsessed I was with toxic man. A womanizer narcissistic man who loved himself more than he loved anyone else. I fed your ego constantly and that's what kept you coming back. 7 years Mike...7 years you took advantage of my love for you.
    Linley242 Linley242 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    Affair

    I was engaged to be married. My fiancee and I broke up. We got back together but he failed to inform me that while we were apart he got someone pregnant and married her. One day he called from his home phone instead of his cell and didn't block the number and it was from her...
    devon devon 36-40 3 Responses Oct 27, 2008

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    I started waitressing last year The owner of

    the restaurant hired me and always seemed like a good guy One night after I had worked there about a month he game in with bloodshot eyes. Looked like he had been crying. I was curious so I went to his office. I was surprised he let me in I asked him what was wrong and he told...
    NatalieGirlF NatalieGirlF 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 4

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    I'm actually had more then one affair with a

    married man. The first was when I was a teenager, I had a relationship with a guy I babysat for. His wife was friends with my mom, and it went on for a few years. The most recent affair that I've had, was with my boss. The sneaking around, secrets, and risk of getting caught...
    karebear92 karebear92 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Ok I just need some advice

    or insight on my situation. If I went into detail about my married man it would take days. Basically last year we had a fling for about 4 months. He bought a Harley and then went distance for about 6-8 weeks then slowly came back around finding excuses to text and call me. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 7

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    Does anyone have any info

    or been through alcoholism with anyone? I just have a few questions.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 9

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    Yes its not something im fond of

    but yes I had affair with married man
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M Aug 5

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    having an affair with a married man.

    meet him once a week for public fun.
    stlguy45 stlguy45 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 3

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    still some of the best sex I ever had.

    I miss him. we still tlk I wish I could just have home one more time
    laverse laverse 18-21, F Mar 18

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    This time 6 months ago,

    I would never have believed i would be in this situation. I know what I've done is wrong, I am ashamed but I really need to put my story across. Situation me, single mum, 4 year old girl, been single for many years, (don't mind it that way) homeowner, very difficult and...
    latrocks latrocks 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    A Very Drunken Mistake

    I know some people who work in a pub near where I live so I went to see them and have a few drinks. About halfway through the evening a guy came in. Quite tall with light brown hair and mid twenties. He sat down beside me and we immediately started taking. He bought me some...
    uniqueness101 uniqueness101 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    I had an affair with a married man

    that last for two months. I thought they were already separated but realize they haven't but the marriage is on the rock. His wife was a casino gambler and they lost their properties because of her. His love and respect for her were gone. My hubby contacted my lover's wife and...
    sunrio sunrio 36-40 1 Response Oct 22, 2014

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    Yes, I did. In 2008,

    I met my now husband at a holiday party his wife at the time was throwing. She had hired me to photograph the party. I immediately felt an attraction to him. Weeks went by and I couldn't get him out of my head. When he arrived to pick up the prints from the party, he offered to...
    FreyaQ FreyaQ 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2013

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    Ok I guess I'm deleting my account.

    It seems no one wants to help here so I guess I'll go elsewhere.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 8