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I Had An Affair With a Married Man

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    I Don't Know Why I Ended Up Having An Affair With A Married Man - The first guy I met was when I was 21.  We were love birds, shared so much in common and we lived together...
    honeybee2u honeybee2u 31-35 Oct 10, 2010

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    I am 14. Keep in mind he was much older. I was bored one day. He texted me. Informing me we had met a while back and that we exchanged numbers. I was bored. I was depressed. I...
    Nandp329 Nandp329 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    3 years ago I was in a physically &mentally abusive relationship that had gone on for 4 years. I started working at a new place and met a very attractive man. We first started...
    gracie931 gracie931 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    I had an affair with a Married Man. Its been an emotional roller coaster and I finally called it quits 3 months ago and I find myself missing him dearly. I was married as well...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 19

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    It was a long battle. I always tried to end it but he won my heart over with his words and I lost my head 100 times. I, we, loved a lot in every sense of the word. Respect and...
    lilsecret1 lilsecret1 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 4

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    Sort of - I had a relationship with a married lesbian, although she was the butch in the relationship. I didn't know she was married.
    youngmiss youngmiss 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4, 2009

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    Fun At Work - I first slept with Brad 6 weeks after he got married. We met eachother at work and had an instant connection, he was engaged at the time. We didn't usually work at...
    starlesscatharsis starlesscatharsis 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 12, 2012

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    It was actually a very beautiful. Never in my wildest dreams did we want to hurt anybody else. We didn't. Nobody found out. Circumstances were too tough. We loved each other a lot...
    lilsecret1 lilsecret1 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    My Sherman - I was having issues with my then current boyfriend. I didn't feel desired and was horny as hell. I put an add on craigslist a few years ago and met some good guys...
    netvan netvan 51-55 Apr 20, 2013

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    I was out of town for work in Arizona and my company put me in a motel. I had just gotten back to the hotel and phoned my wife to tell her about my day and see how her day went as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    Why Don't I Feel Guilty? - When we met he was engaged and so was I. I decided to not get married to my son's father but he married his daughter's mom. We had so much in common. I...
    jbeans2060 jbeans2060 22-25 Aug 8, 2009

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    *%^&$#@! Said He Wasn't Married!!! - I had no intention of being the other woman.  My intention was to be the only woman.  After a few weeks of dating and some hard-to...
    bleedingheartconservative bleedingheartconservative 51-55, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2009

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    Yes, I had an affair with married man. I was married at the time too. My marriage was already crumbling but his is still going strong and I couldn't be any happier for him. I...
    lovehimdeeply lovehimdeeply 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    Yes... - Yeah I did, and I enjoyed all three times with him.  We were friends before that, and we still are--we still drink and smoke together [I don't smoke anymore though...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 1 Response May 3, 2009

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    Affair - I was engaged to be married. My fiancee and I broke up. We got back together but he failed to inform me that while we were apart he got someone pregnant and married her...
    devon devon 36-40 3 Responses Oct 27, 2008

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    Yes, I did. In 2008, I met my now husband at a holiday party his wife at the time was throwing. She had hired me to photograph the party. I immediately felt an attraction to him...
    FreyaQ FreyaQ 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2013

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    I Am Marriage But No Satisfaction - Almost 3years ago i got marriage and have no baby coz my wife is older to me.i do every thing but nothing my wife allow me to get relationship...
    rio81 rio81 31-35, M Sep 27, 2013

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    Something - Why Me ? Why did I had to be soo dumb and naive to fall in love with a married man ??? WHY ?im 19 and he was 36 My heart is broken I try push him away but my heart and...
    69900gos 69900gos 18-21 Nov 18, 2013

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    Like a Lamb to Slaughter... - We worked together for 3.5 years running a business for his brother-in-law.  When he first came to work there (I had been there 6 months already...
    NotAnymore NotAnymore 46-50 3 Responses Feb 15, 2009

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    It Went Against Everything I Believed In - I was at work when I met him & he was a subcontractor. There were no initial spark when I first met him, if anything he rarely gave me...
    universe08 universe08 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    It helped me through an incredibly tough time in my life. I knew he was married and ignored/ rebuffed him for over a year. Eventually, I reached a point in life where I was falling...
    leggomymeggo leggomymeggo 26-30, F Feb 15

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    I had an affair with a son of a ***** Francesco Clementucci, I really felt in love with him, despite the terrible intimate part with him and knowing that he is almost married, I...
    anna1953 anna1953 56-60, F 5 days ago

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    Just a Few Thoughts About the Whole Deal - Last night, which was Christmas, I slept with a married man.  I couldn't believe he ditched that ***** he's married to just to do ME...
    CLove CLove 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 26, 2008

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    I am ashamed to admit it but I did have an affair with a married black man that I work with. It started off kinda slow with just blow jobs and stuff for about a month but...
    WanabeBuxom WanabeBuxom 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    After being married for many years, I found out my wife ( my ex now as we are divorced for about ten years now) had been cheating on me with a guy who purported to be my best...
    ExperienceDan ExperienceDan 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    We met in a 3 month long nursing class & work together. He knew dad & came to His funeral. He surprisingly kissed me out of the blue at a bar after some drinks & told me about his...
    BlueEyes3182 BlueEyes3182 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Hi all, apologies for my bad English, it's been a while. So my story is a bit different than most love affairs with married men here. I am now 30 years old. About 6 months ago I...
    highnlow highnlow 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I get so aroused by the fact that my wife is having an online affair with another man. They exchange pics and chat every day. I get so turned in by it. Anyone want to chat about...
    Sportybhoy Sportybhoy 46-50, M 8 Responses Apr 6

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    Okay, I'll begin by acknowledging that I won't likely find a woman to have an affair with here. But I want to have an affair with a woman. I have been married 17 years and have...
    Mcluvinassman Mcluvinassman 36-40, M 5 Responses Mar 28

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    I am in love with a married man. Please no harsh judgements and just hear my side of the story. I am 21 years old (he is 45) and in college I met a guy 3.5 months ago and on our...
    sava1993 sava1993 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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      I'm a newbie here, however, while feeling lonesome once again on a weekend, I thought I'd see if there's someone else put there that share my problem. I have 3 older...
    Maurap Maurap 46-50, F Mar 22

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    i fell in love with a married man and he was my first. He was the one who initiated and i lied to him about my experience. He came to my house, we had sex, he said he was very...
    mayamasala mayamasala 26-30, F Mar 26

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    I am 23 and I used to work with this man, who I will call Todd, for over a year. I've known him for 2 years now. He is 35. Up until recently, he's been married for several years...
    ImJustMe81406 ImJustMe81406 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    DENIAL. ANGER. BARGAINING. DEPRESSION. ACCEPTANCE. High School Sophomore Year Health Class. The 5 stages of loss. "It doesn't necessarily always happen in this order, nor does it...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 1 Response Apr 1

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    I have a boyfriend of 7 years. He has cheated on my throughout our whole relationship. I stayed because I loved him. Recently I've been seeing someone else. It's been going on for...
    Tyrea31 Tyrea31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Next month will be a year I have been seeing my married man. Sometimes I go over the year and wonder how I really got here. Why am I dating a married man?? I never expected to fall...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F Mar 27

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    I'm seeing a married man that is 17 years older than me, we talk and see each other all the time. But I can't see myself calling it a relationship because I know he will not leave...
    BLANKstateofmind BLANKstateofmind 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I realize I have no friends on here or many in real life due to my own issues. I've always been a loner and very introverted. I am seeing a married man who I adore very much and...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    CRAZY, OBSESSIVE, PSYCHOTIC. I'm all of those and more. I love my boyfriend with all my heart, I want him with me through all that I go through. I truly love him. Being in a...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Ending my relationship With a married man. Feel like I'm getting my life back, never knew he was married until 2 years in . I was in love and stupid by then. I have a strong...
    charlotte61 charlotte61 51-55, F Apr 5

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    I am dating a married man. At first, it started as a casual fling. I never thought we'd see each other more than a couple of times due to our distance. But he's made a great...
    MisAdventuress MisAdventuress 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 13 2014- INTERNATIONAL MISTRESS DAY. Am I correct? On this day, his wife, or She, asked him in a rhetorical manner, if he saw me today, because it was the...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 3 Responses Mar 21

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    BALANCE. TRANQUILITY. DOOM. A long time ago, I was told that my mentality of "Balance" was self-proclaimed. I believe that something good happens to me, something just as equally...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 Apr 6

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    I met him while working at a restaurant last summer. He tipped me way above the average to catch my attention. I never payed him any mind. Then about two weeks later one of my co...
    hismarried05 hismarried05 18-21, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I have been with a man and I really enjoyed it! I love my wife v much and I love the feel of a man. Sometimes I can cope with this well but at other......
    PhilFunk PhilFunk 51-55, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Never had sex with a black woman but I want to.
    andykenny andykenny 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    My wife is a gorgeous, petite 60 year old who looks much younger. She has always been a but of a flirt and has had sex with a few men since marrying me. She thinks she is too old...
    Jimxmarried Jimxmarried 51-55, M 10 Responses Apr 7

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    I am married too. After years of feeling neglected and resentful in my marriage, I set out to have some needs met and honestly, get some attention. But I had it in my head that I...
    newvome newvome 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    Been married for 2 years, together for 6. My husband and I separated in 2012 because of his drinking problem. During our separation, a friendship between me and another man...
    jcr0610 jcr0610 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I am 28 years old, married for 1.5 years. My boss was at my wedding where I said YES to love of my life in front of 300 people. Then I got an offer to move my home country to...
    bilmem bilmem 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I'm 24 years old and looking for one or more males to fulfil my long dream of having a male burst all in my mouth, and feel the pleasure of a man deep inside me, I would love to be...
    Wabbzz Wabbzz 22-25, M 3 hrs ago

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    and EP wanted me to complete the title to: "and feel bad". Not that I didn't... for the first few months.. or in face to this day but honestly, he is Latin with a cute accent and a...
    highnlow highnlow 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 21