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I Had An Affair With a Married Man

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    There is this guy at work,

    extremely attractive and amazing. His wife has been been depriving him of everything. It started of just innocently making comments as the other one walked by but it quickly became more. Sending each other pictures. Sneaking upstairs to kiss. We didn't go farther than kissing...
    PolysciTOfly PolysciTOfly 22-25, F Oct 6

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    Something

    Why Me ? Why did I had to be soo dumb and naive to fall in love with a married man ??? WHY ?im 19 and he was 36 My heart is broken I try push him away but my heart and my mind knows I'm in love with this man ! It really hurts me how much I love him and have feelings for him...
    69900gos 69900gos 18-21 Nov 18, 2013

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    Just a Few Thoughts About the Whole Deal

    Last night, which was Christmas, I slept with a married man.  I couldn't believe he ditched that ***** he's married to just to do ME on Christmas!  I mean, I'm only 19 yrs old and I'll say it:  I'm hot!  But...he's 46 yrs old and well, he's NOT, and he...
    CLove CLove 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 26, 2008

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    I had an affair with a married man

    that last for two months. I thought they were already separated but realize they haven't but the marriage is on the rock. His wife was a casino gambler and they lost their properties because of her. His love and respect for her were gone. My hubby contacted my lover's wife and...
    sunrio sunrio 36-40 1 Response Oct 22

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    My Sherman

    I was having issues with my then current boyfriend. I didn't feel desired and was horny as hell. I put an add on craigslist a few years ago and met some good guys that I had fun with. One of them was "Sherman". Sherman and I met up and had some fun. I could tell he was lying...
    netvan netvan 51-55 Apr 20, 2013

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    And I am thinking about starting it up again.

    I have a feeling he wants to because usually we don't talk about it but recently he's been making little remarks and I have just been ignoring them. I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful man and if I went through with this it would completely ruin it for us if my...
    Rainbowsandrain Rainbowsandrain 41-45, F 3 Responses May 5

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    I just broke up with the love of my life

    for his children's sake..... We met 15 month ago ,until August last year we just said "hello,how are you.." I actually tried to stay away and avoid him,but like in all stories we ended up together. He loves me I know that and nobody can say otherwise ,not even his wife as he...
    lumiligh lumiligh 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    I was younger, not yet engaged.

    I don't condone it, but I don't regret it either.
    Dominatrixwife Dominatrixwife 18-21, F Oct 4

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    Yes, I did. In 2008,

    I met my now husband at a holiday party his wife at the time was throwing. She had hired me to photograph the party. I immediately felt an attraction to him. Weeks went by and I couldn't get him out of my head. When he arrived to pick up the prints from the party, he offered to...
    FreyaQ FreyaQ 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2013

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    I had an affair with a Married Man.

    Its been an emotional roller coaster and I finally called it quits 3 months ago and I find myself missing him dearly. I was married as well. We were not in love we are just used to each other. I fell hard for this man who I gave my complete self to and I hate that he got the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 19

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    I am 14. Keep in mind he was much older.

    I was bored one day. He texted me. Informing me we had met a while back and that we exchanged numbers. I was bored. I was depressed. I wanted to talk to someone. He seemed nice. I've always been with older guys, so I didn't question how we met, he knew how old I was.We...
    Nandp329 Nandp329 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    i met a guy at church he had a son from a

    previous relationship. we been seeing each other for a few months and after doing some research I found out not only was he married but he still lived with the chick! I was solo mad at myself & him buy its a lesson learned
    luvabl3 luvabl3 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27

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    Why Don't I Feel Guilty?

    When we met he was engaged and so was I. I decided to not get married to my son's father but he married his daughter's mom. We had so much in common. I loved talking to him. I considered us friends. Then we crossed the line. After we had sex...everything changed.  He is a...
    jbeans2060 jbeans2060 22-25 Aug 8, 2009

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    This is to all the women having affairs with

    married men right now. I want to share my story of my experience with having a relationship with a married man, in hopes that you reconsider continuing the affair. I had a 7 year relationship with a married man, I wouldn't call it an affair because he wasn't in love with me and...
    Linley242 Linley242 51-55, F 7 Responses Oct 5

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    A Very Drunken Mistake

    I know some people who work in a pub near where I live so I went to see them and have a few drinks. About halfway through the evening a guy came in. Quite tall with light brown hair and mid twenties. He sat down beside me and we immediately started taking. He bought me some...
    uniqueness101 uniqueness101 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    I was out of town for work in Arizona

    and my company put me in a motel. I had just gotten back to the hotel and phoned my wife to tell her about my day and see how her day went as well. We finally hung up as it was getting late and I decided to head to the lobby bar for a few drinks. It was pretty empty in the motel...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    i have a dark secret.

    my story is a long one. i dont expect anyone to read all of it. ive never told anybody. its driven me crazy and ive seen a counselor about it. i wish i had someone to talk to about my experience/affair. it was traumatizing. i was working and living overseas in brazil for 5...
    rainydaytoday rainydaytoday 22-25 1 Response Sep 26

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    I worked at a VBS camp two years ago during the

    summer. It was held during the night and I worked where I helped teach kids how to cook. I was the leader and I worked with a man, let's call him Bryan, who was about 29 at the time. I was 15. (A very mature 15 year old, I must add) We instantly connected. And we were very close...
    Southernpanda Southernpanda 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    Bad Babysitter

    I had an ongoing affair with an older married man. I was babysitting for this couple for a couple of years and he was always so nice to me. He would give me rides home and we would talk about everything. It was so nice having someone that was interested in me and he was really...
    VickyBu VickyBu 18-21, F 17 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    Help!! I've been having an affair with a

    married man at work. We've had instances where we almost got caught. He's much older than me. But so gentle. My marriage broke down because of him. He promises me the world but I just found out he's going away with his wife and today she picked him up from work I feel so...
    cdngirl2 cdngirl2 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 28

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    Fun At Work

    I first slept with Brad 6 weeks after he got married. We met eachother at work and had an instant connection, he was engaged at the time. We didn't usually work at the same location, but would still call or text eachother frequently. Ill never forget that on June 1st we worked...
    starlesscatharsis starlesscatharsis 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2012

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    Sort of

    I had a relationship with a married lesbian, although she was the butch in the relationship. I didn't know she was married.
    youngmiss youngmiss 18-21, F Feb 4, 2009

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    This selfish act has ruined my reputation,

    mentality, eating habits, spiked up my anxiety, turned many people in my town away from me. Exposure is karma. You think you're in love. This isn't the case. Stay away. I urge women to not have affairs with married men. Please. Even if your emotions are taking over, especially...
    LDR8 LDR8 26-30, F Oct 6

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    How Hurt Would You Be?

    I’m curious about how people think of their lover after the affair......... Help me figure out how angry and hurt people are after being hurt by an affair.   Check out the survey........ “What Would You Do With The Pictures Left Over From Your Affair...
    SHAWNTWAIN SHAWNTWAIN 51-55, M Mar 29, 2010

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    It Went Against Everything I Believed In

    I was at work when I met him & he was a subcontractor. There were no initial spark when I first met him, if anything he rarely gave me eye contact and he wasn't at all attractive. As time went on we started talking and he seemed like a nice person and that was it. When his job...
    universe08 universe08 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    Yes...

    Yeah I did, and I enjoyed all three times with him.  We were friends before that, and we still are--we still drink and smoke together [I don't smoke anymore though].  I just hope nothing pops out 10 months from now...  :/
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F May 3, 2009

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    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 18

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    I had an affair with a married man.

    . At first I didn't know that until he told me after we started to get serious! I'm a 18 yr old guy who is gay. He is very DL which his wife didn't know. We met up and had awesome sex.. He was visiting from the mainland.. We have sex everyday until the day he left.. He told me he...
    avabooboo avabooboo 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I'm trying to end it.

    I just can't. He's just the best I think its because it kinda turns me on us sneeking around. But I kno its wrong. I need to settle down and get a man myself and I want to be faithful. Its just he's so tempting and hot. He told me we could still mess around and I cn get married...
    laverso laverso 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    I had an affair with a son of a ***** Francesco

    Clementucci, I really felt in love with him, despite the terrible intimate part with him and knowing that he is almost married, I was still hoping that we could be together. But Clementucci just took it as an short term affair. I really feel used, and want to share my experience...
    anna1953 anna1953 61-65, F Apr 10

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    3 years ago I was in a physically &mentally

    abusive relationship that had gone on for 4 years. I started working at a new place and met a very attractive man. We first started flirting and then he started texting me. His girlfriend also worked with us and was 6 months pregnant with their first child. We became intimate...
    gracie931 gracie931 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    "It's Too Much Pain to Have to Bear..."

    "...To love a man you have to share." The song "Stay" by Sugarland became my anthem for quite a while. The married man I was seeing wasn't married, in my mind... because he didn't tell me.  He didn't wear a wedding ring, and when I asked him...
    HisONEnOnly HisONEnOnly 22-25, F Sep 7, 2009

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    I Am Marriage But No Satisfaction

    Almost 3years ago i got marriage and have no baby coz my wife is older to me.i do every thing but nothing my wife allow me to get relationship each other but not to live her.!
    rio81 rio81 31-35, M Sep 27, 2013

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    Like a Lamb to Slaughter...

    We worked together for 3.5 years running a business for his brother-in-law.  When he first came to work there (I had been there 6 months already) I did not like him at all.  The business was in trouble and he and I were working lots of hours, sharing lots of...
    NotAnymore NotAnymore 46-50 3 Responses Feb 15, 2009

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    It helped me through an incredibly tough time

    in my life. I knew he was married and ignored/ rebuffed him for over a year. Eventually, I reached a point in life where I was falling into a dark hole and needed to be caught. By anyone. And he was there and willing. Very little of it was about sex, most of it was about...
    leggomymeggo leggomymeggo 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    Yes, I had an affair with married man.

    I was married at the time too. My marriage was already crumbling but his is still going strong and I couldn't be any happier for him. I can only speak for myself of course, but the affair was never about love or wanting a leave our spouse for each other. We went into the...
    Rainbowsandrain Rainbowsandrain 41-45, F 8 Responses Mar 20

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    Affair

    I was engaged to be married. My fiancee and I broke up. We got back together but he failed to inform me that while we were apart he got someone pregnant and married her. One day he called from his home phone instead of his cell and didn't block the number and it was from her...
    devon devon 36-40 3 Responses Oct 27, 2008

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    He was my boss at the time i never had

    intercourse but we did have oral sex twice.
    pinksteam pinksteam 18-21, F 1 Response May 27

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    The Other Woman

    We were friends to start with. In fact, I am a friend of his wife. I do not understand how it developed into a relationship, but it did. Might be because he was working out of town, and my friend wasn't staying with him. It started when I had to travel to his local for work. And...
    clargal clargal 26-30, F Feb 23, 2012

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    He was my everything,

    my perfect connection, he said the same about me, and yet now he is able to put me on limited contact and I feel lost and alone and confused. How can people say something but do another? How is it so easy for someone to go from obsessed to silence?
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 13

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