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I Had An Affair With a Married Man

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    He was my boss at the time i never had

    intercourse but we did have oral sex twice.
    pinksteam pinksteam 18-21, F May 27

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    My Sherman

    I was having issues with my then current boyfriend. I didn't feel desired and was horny as hell. I put an add on craigslist a few years ago and met some good guys that I had fun with. One of them was "Sherman". Sherman and I met up and had some fun. I could tell he was lying...
    netvan netvan 51-55 Apr 20, 2013

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    I was out of town for work in Arizona

    and my company put me in a motel. I had just gotten back to the hotel and phoned my wife to tell her about my day and see how her day went as well. We finally hung up as it was getting late and I decided to head to the lobby bar for a few drinks. It was pretty empty in the motel...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    I just broke up with the love of my life

    for his children's sake..... We met 15 month ago ,until August last year we just said "hello,how are you.." I actually tried to stay away and avoid him,but like in all stories we ended up together. He loves me I know that and nobody can say otherwise ,not even his wife as he...
    lumiligh lumiligh 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    Yes, I had an affair with married man.

    I was married at the time too. My marriage was already crumbling but his is still going strong and I couldn't be any happier for him. I can only speak for myself of course, but the affair was never about love or wanting a leave our spouse for each other. We went into the...
    Rainbowsandrain Rainbowsandrain 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 20

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    Why Don't I Feel Guilty?

    When we met he was engaged and so was I. I decided to not get married to my son's father but he married his daughter's mom. We had so much in common. I loved talking to him. I considered us friends. Then we crossed the line. After we had sex...everything changed.  He is a...
    jbeans2060 jbeans2060 22-25 Aug 8, 2009

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    *%^&$#@! Said He Wasn't Married!!!

    I had no intention of being the other woman.  My intention was to be the only woman.  After a few weeks of dating and some hard-to-put-your-finger-on-odd-behaviour, I did a background check on my "boyfriend" and found out his name was different from what he'd...
    bleedingheartconservative bleedingheartconservative 51-55, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2009

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    Yes, I did. In 2008,

    I met my now husband at a holiday party his wife at the time was throwing. She had hired me to photograph the party. I immediately felt an attraction to him. Weeks went by and I couldn't get him out of my head. When he arrived to pick up the prints from the party, he offered to...
    FreyaQ FreyaQ 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2013

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    ......

    I had a relationship with a married man, he had an affair with me. I was single at the time, therefore I could not be having an affair but was having a relationship of some sorts.                        ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 15, 2009

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    I am 14. Keep in mind he was much older.

    I was bored one day. He texted me. Informing me we had met a while back and that we exchanged numbers. I was bored. I was depressed. I wanted to talk to someone. He seemed nice. I've always been with older guys, so I didn't question how we met, he knew how old I was.We...
    Nandp329 Nandp329 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    Yes...

    Yeah I did, and I enjoyed all three times with him.  We were friends before that, and we still are--we still drink and smoke together [I don't smoke anymore though].  I just hope nothing pops out 10 months from now...  :/
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 1 Response May 3, 2009

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    It was a long battle.

    I always tried to end it but he won my heart over with his words and I lost my head 100 times. I, we, loved a lot in every sense of the word. Respect and comfort were present, a longing and human need was satisfied for both. And we got away with it all, were never publicly...
    lilsecret1 lilsecret1 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 4

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    And I am thinking about starting it up again.

    I have a feeling he wants to because usually we don't talk about it but recently he's been making little remarks and I have just been ignoring them. I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful man and if I went through with this it would completely ruin it for us if my...
    Rainbowsandrain Rainbowsandrain 36-40, F 3 Responses May 5

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    "It's Too Much Pain to Have to Bear..."

    "...To love a man you have to share." The song "Stay" by Sugarland became my anthem for quite a while. The married man I was seeing wasn't married, in my mind... because he didn't tell me.  He didn't wear a wedding ring, and when I asked him...
    HisONEnOnly HisONEnOnly 22-25, F Sep 7, 2009

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    How Hurt Would You Be?

    I’m curious about how people think of their lover after the affair......... Help me figure out how angry and hurt people are after being hurt by an affair.   Check out the survey........ “What Would You Do With The Pictures Left Over From Your Affair...
    SHAWNTWAIN SHAWNTWAIN 51-55, M Mar 29, 2010

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    Bad Babysitter

    I had an ongoing affair with an older married man. I was babysitting for this couple for a couple of years and he was always so nice to me. He would give me rides home and we would talk about everything. It was so nice having someone that was interested in me and he was really...
    VickyBu VickyBu 18-21, F 18 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    It Went Against Everything I Believed In

    I was at work when I met him & he was a subcontractor. There were no initial spark when I first met him, if anything he rarely gave me eye contact and he wasn't at all attractive. As time went on we started talking and he seemed like a nice person and that was it. When his job...
    universe08 universe08 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    The Other Woman

    We were friends to start with. In fact, I am a friend of his wife. I do not understand how it developed into a relationship, but it did. Might be because he was working out of town, and my friend wasn't staying with him. It started when I had to travel to his local for work. And...
    clargal clargal 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 23, 2012

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    3 years ago I was in a physically &mentally

    abusive relationship that had gone on for 4 years. I started working at a new place and met a very attractive man. We first started flirting and then he started texting me. His girlfriend also worked with us and was 6 months pregnant with their first child. We became intimate...
    gracie931 gracie931 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    Sort of

    I had a relationship with a married lesbian, although she was the butch in the relationship. I didn't know she was married.
    youngmiss youngmiss 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4, 2009

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    It helped me through an incredibly tough time

    in my life. I knew he was married and ignored/ rebuffed him for over a year. Eventually, I reached a point in life where I was falling into a dark hole and needed to be caught. By anyone. And he was there and willing. Very little of it was about sex, most of it was about...
    leggomymeggo leggomymeggo 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    Like a Lamb to Slaughter...

    We worked together for 3.5 years running a business for his brother-in-law.  When he first came to work there (I had been there 6 months already) I did not like him at all.  The business was in trouble and he and I were working lots of hours, sharing lots of...
    NotAnymore NotAnymore 46-50 3 Responses Feb 15, 2009

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    He was my everything,

    my perfect connection, he said the same about me, and yet now he is able to put me on limited contact and I feel lost and alone and confused. How can people say something but do another? How is it so easy for someone to go from obsessed to silence?
    Kaspeers Kaspeers 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 13

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    I had an affair with a married man.

    . At first I didn't know that until he told me after we started to get serious! I'm a 18 yr old guy who is gay. He is very DL which his wife didn't know. We met up and had awesome sex.. He was visiting from the mainland.. We have sex everyday until the day he left.. He told me he...
    avabooboo avabooboo 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I had an affair with a son of a ***** Francesco

    Clementucci, I really felt in love with him, despite the terrible intimate part with him and knowing that he is almost married, I was still hoping that we could be together. But Clementucci just took it as an short term affair. I really feel used, and want to share my experience...
    anna1953 anna1953 56-60, F Apr 10

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    I had an affair with a Married Man.

    Its been an emotional roller coaster and I finally called it quits 3 months ago and I find myself missing him dearly. I was married as well. We were not in love we are just used to each other. I fell hard for this man who I gave my complete self to and I hate that he got the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 19

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    Married and had an affair with a married man at

    work. We've been trying to keep the friend thing going, talking occasionally, but when I think I'm over it those feeling come back.... I hate this. Last time I tried to cut him out I made him feel bad. But this is so hard to let it go!
    artist7 artist7 31-35, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    A Very Drunken Mistake

    I know some people who work in a pub near where I live so I went to see them and have a few drinks. About halfway through the evening a guy came in. Quite tall with light brown hair and mid twenties. He sat down beside me and we immediately started taking. He bought me some...
    uniqueness101 uniqueness101 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    Something

    Why Me ? Why did I had to be soo dumb and naive to fall in love with a married man ??? WHY ?im 19 and he was 36 My heart is broken I try push him away but my heart and my mind knows I'm in love with this man ! It really hurts me how much I love him and have feelings for him...
    69900gos 69900gos 18-21 Nov 18, 2013

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    Affair

    I was engaged to be married. My fiancee and I broke up. We got back together but he failed to inform me that while we were apart he got someone pregnant and married her. One day he called from his home phone instead of his cell and didn't block the number and it was from her...
    devon devon 36-40 3 Responses Oct 27, 2008

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    I Don't Know Why I Ended Up Having An Affair With A Married Man

    The first guy I met was when I was 21.  We were love birds, shared so much in common and we lived together for 10 years.  We have one child.  Six years ago he moved to another State for work and saw another woman, whom he had 2 other children.  That devastated...
    honeybee2u honeybee2u 31-35 1 Response Oct 10, 2010

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    Fun At Work

    I first slept with Brad 6 weeks after he got married. We met eachother at work and had an instant connection, he was engaged at the time. We didn't usually work at the same location, but would still call or text eachother frequently. Ill never forget that on June 1st we worked...
    starlesscatharsis starlesscatharsis 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 12, 2012

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    It was actually very beautiful.

    Never in my wildest dreams did we want to hurt anybody else. We didn't. Nobody found out. Circumstances were too tough. We loved each other a lot. The best thing to do in life is forgive. I forgive him fully and completely for not leaving his wife for me. He didn't want to...
    lilsecret1 lilsecret1 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    Just a Few Thoughts About the Whole Deal

    Last night, which was Christmas, I slept with a married man.  I couldn't believe he ditched that ***** he's married to just to do ME on Christmas!  I mean, I'm only 19 yrs old and I'll say it:  I'm hot!  But...he's 46 yrs old and well, he's NOT, and he...
    CLove CLove 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 26, 2008

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    I Am Marriage But No Satisfaction

    Almost 3years ago i got marriage and have no baby coz my wife is older to me.i do every thing but nothing my wife allow me to get relationship each other but not to live her.!
    rio81 rio81 31-35, M Sep 27, 2013

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    On 17th of April I met a guy on the street I was driving my car with my cousin and he was in his car beside me on the traffic stop sign , he asked me to stop and we started...
    sisikuci sisikuci 26-30, F Jul 11

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    At first I didn't know what to think. Then I decided that I was giving this man something his wife could not give him. Sexual satisfaction. I knew the mans wife because I was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I would love for this to happen oddly enough. If anyone has encouraged their partner to do this and it happened, how did you do this. Please feel free to message me your ideas
    Jamie444 Jamie444 41-45, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I love him and he loves me. It was supposed to be a fling. I would never be involved with a married man... I was turned off when I first met him then he became my boss and I had to...
    EssAyyRrr EssAyyRrr 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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    I was having an affair with a married man since September. I went into it for a physical needs type if thing, but it quickly deepened. He was the one who initiated the deeper...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    First off, let me say that I'm not looking to be with a married man or someone who has a girlfriend...not my thing. I'm seeking a single guy to be a Friend with Benefits. Why...
    air2fire air2fire 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Well tonight I was drunk and my married man came to watch me shoot pool. (I'm I a pool league) of course his wife came with him since I'm friends with his wife. We were all talking...
    justthewayilikeit justthewayilikeit 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 8

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    In 2000 I had sex with my first black woman 3-4 times. I was 20. She was 30. She reconciled with her husband of 7 years and I returned to Russia. I did not know she gave birth to a...
    SmolenskBorn SmolenskBorn 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    So yea I'm having an affair with my sister in laws husband... We've been seeing each other on and off over the past 7 months. My marriage to his wife's brother has been in the...
    bowerstoy bowerstoy 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    Long story short, I'm inlove with a married man, who's 32. I'm 17 btw, he has a daughter who's one, his wife is due with their second child in a few months, and me and this man...
    Princessjaa Princessjaa 16-17, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am married for 11 years now and have 4 beautiful children. Everyone who knows me thinks i have a perfect life.. and i do.. except of being MADLY in love with another man!! He...
    solo1411 solo1411 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    I am a married man and a few women have come to me asking for more than a friendship. I have turned them down but I have been tempted... Should I just give in and have a great time...
    heartgun heartgun 26-30, M 6 Responses Jul 7

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    Well, I started highschool, I am much more mature than the rest of the high school. I just keep to myself and focus on the future, I've had an unbelievable past for someone of 15...
    DreamLurker DreamLurker 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    This happened a while ago... I have been having this fantasy of seeing her with another man.. could never get it done... Have always used those visualizations during our love...
    stimulatingcouple stimulatingcouple 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have been in a relationship with this man for 7 months. It started off as all relationships do. All nice and loving. Now he screams at me , calls me names, and just recently...
    jon0517 jon0517 36-40, F Jul 2

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    I am in love with a man I never met it's hard to know that yeah he loves me but not in that way I'll never get to meet him I'll never get to see his gorgeous brown eyes...
    xriiccii xriiccii 13-15, F 2 Responses