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I Had An Affair With a Married Man

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    There is this guy at work,

    extremely attractive and amazing. His wife has been been depriving him of everything. It started of just innocently making comments as the other one walked by but it quickly became more. Sending each other pictures. Sneaking upstairs to kiss. We didn't go farther than kissing...
    PolysciTOfly PolysciTOfly 22-25, F Oct 6, 2014

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    Why do married men cheat

    and then suddenly feel guilty about it but still want to be friends. Also its okay if I initiate kisses or touching but he doesn't want to start anything
    Sabr3na Sabr3na 36-40, F 3 Responses May 4

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    This selfish act has ruined my reputation,

    mentality, eating habits, spiked up my anxiety, turned many people in my town away from me. Exposure is karma. You think you're in love. This isn't the case. Stay away. I urge women to not have affairs with married men. Please. Even if your emotions are taking over, especially...
    LDR8 LDR8 26-30, F Oct 6, 2014

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    My best friend and I went to Cuba

    for Christmas vacation. She had just completed her divorce and I was recently separated from my husband. My divorce will be final in the next few weeks. We wanted to meet men and we sure did! She did not sleep in our room more than two of our seven nights there. I thought I...
    CafeAuLeah CafeAuLeah 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    It helped me through an incredibly tough time

    in my life. I knew he was married and ignored/ rebuffed him for over a year. Eventually, I reached a point in life where I was falling into a dark hole and needed to be caught. By anyone. And he was there and willing. Very little of it was about sex, most of it was about...
    leggomymeggo leggomymeggo 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 15, 2014

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    Yes, I did. In 2008,

    I met my now husband at a holiday party his wife at the time was throwing. She had hired me to photograph the party. I immediately felt an attraction to him. Weeks went by and I couldn't get him out of my head. When he arrived to pick up the prints from the party, he offered to...
    FreyaQ FreyaQ 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2013

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    We met on EP actually.

    His name was Jason. We talked all the time about anything and everything, being intimate over the phone quite a bit. I thought I was in love. I thought he felt the same. We had made plans to meet in person. He told me he didn't if it didn't go anywhere, that he just wanted to...
    BeautifulxDelusions BeautifulxDelusions 18-21, F 2 Responses May 6

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    I have been having an affair with a married man

    for 6 months now, the worst and best is that it's a complete secret, something I could never talk about with any of my friends. I feel like finally there is a group of women I can discuss this with, women who understand this whole chaoticness that is the life we chose.
    kittykitt kittykitt 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 9

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    Like many here I too had an affair with a

    married man... He was my boss and he was gorgeous. I had just gotten out of a terrible relationship and a close friend of mine had committed suicide so I was shaken to the core emotionally. However being with my mm made me feel happy. He was genuinely kind to me and we shared...
    0Mischa0 0Mischa0 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    He was my everything,

    my perfect connection, he said the same about me, and yet now he is able to put me on limited contact and I feel lost and alone and confused. How can people say something but do another? How is it so easy for someone to go from obsessed to silence?
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I had an affair with a Married Man.

    Its been an emotional roller coaster and I finally called it quits 3 months ago and I find myself missing him dearly. I was married as well. We were not in love we are just used to each other. I fell hard for this man who I gave my complete self to and I hate that he got the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 19, 2014

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    I'm trying to end it.

    I just can't. He's just the best I think its because it kinda turns me on us sneeking around. But I kno its wrong. I need to settle down and get a man myself and I want to be faithful. Its just he's so tempting and hot. He told me we could still mess around and I cn get married...
    laverso laverso 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 28, 2014

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    This is to all the women having affairs with

    married men right now. I want to share my story of my experience with having a relationship with a married man, in hopes that you reconsider continuing the affair. I had a 7 year relationship with a married man, I wouldn't call it an affair because he wasn't in love with me and...
    Linley242 Linley242 51-55, F 7 Responses Oct 5, 2014

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    The Other Woman

    We were friends to start with. In fact, I am a friend of his wife. I do not understand how it developed into a relationship, but it did. Might be because he was working out of town, and my friend wasn't staying with him. It started when I had to travel to his local for work. And...
    clargal clargal 26-30, F Feb 23, 2012

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    I was out of town for work in Arizona

    and my company put me in a motel. I had just gotten back to the hotel and phoned my wife to tell her about my day and see how her day went as well. We finally hung up as it was getting late and I decided to head to the lobby bar for a few drinks. It was pretty empty in the motel...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    Like a Lamb to Slaughter...

    We worked together for 3.5 years running a business for his brother-in-law.  When he first came to work there (I had been there 6 months already) I did not like him at all.  The business was in trouble and he and I were working lots of hours, sharing lots of...
    NotAnymore NotAnymore 46-50 3 Responses Feb 15, 2009

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    Affair

    I was engaged to be married. My fiancee and I broke up. We got back together but he failed to inform me that while we were apart he got someone pregnant and married her. One day he called from his home phone instead of his cell and didn't block the number and it was from her...
    devon devon 36-40 3 Responses Oct 27, 2008

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    Fun At Work

    I first slept with Brad 6 weeks after he got married. We met eachother at work and had an instant connection, he was engaged at the time. We didn't usually work at the same location, but would still call or text eachother frequently. Ill never forget that on June 1st we worked...
    starlesscatharsis starlesscatharsis 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2012

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    A Very Drunken Mistake

    I know some people who work in a pub near where I live so I went to see them and have a few drinks. About halfway through the evening a guy came in. Quite tall with light brown hair and mid twenties. He sat down beside me and we immediately started taking. He bought me some...
    uniqueness101 uniqueness101 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    Bad Babysitter

    I had an ongoing affair with an older married man. I was babysitting for this couple for a couple of years and he was always so nice to me. He would give me rides home and we would talk about everything. It was so nice having someone that was interested in me and he was really...
    VickyBu VickyBu 18-21, F 18 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    "It's Too Much Pain to Have to Bear..."

    "...To love a man you have to share." The song "Stay" by Sugarland became my anthem for quite a while. The married man I was seeing wasn't married, in my mind... because he didn't tell me.  He didn't wear a wedding ring, and when I asked him...
    HisONEnOnly HisONEnOnly 22-25, F Sep 7, 2009

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    I am 14. Keep in mind he was much older.

    I was bored one day. He texted me. Informing me we had met a while back and that we exchanged numbers. I was bored. I was depressed. I wanted to talk to someone. He seemed nice. I've always been with older guys, so I didn't question how we met, he knew how old I was.We...
    Nandp329 Nandp329 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 12, 2014

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    Yes, I had an affair with married man.

    I was married at the time too. My marriage was already crumbling but his is still going strong and I couldn't be any happier for him. I can only speak for myself of course, but the affair was never about love or wanting a leave our spouse for each other. We went into the...
    Rainbowsandrain Rainbowsandrain 41-45, F 8 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    I worked at a VBS camp two years ago during the

    summer. It was held during the night and I worked where I helped teach kids how to cook. I was the leader and I worked with a man, let's call him Bryan, who was about 29 at the time. I was 15. (A very mature 15 year old, I must add) We instantly connected. And we were very close...
    Southernpanda Southernpanda 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    I gave a married guy several BJs

    because his wife didn't like that chore. She eventually started giving them and he cut me off. I really enjoyed giving them knowing he would have sex with her later.
    Therealjason Therealjason 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I had an affair with a married man

    that last for two months. I thought they were already separated but realize they haven't but the marriage is on the rock. His wife was a casino gambler and they lost their properties because of her. His love and respect for her were gone. My hubby contacted my lover's wife and...
    sunrio sunrio 36-40 1 Response Oct 22, 2014

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    I was younger, not yet engaged.

    I don't condone it, but I don't regret it either.
    Dominatrixwife Dominatrixwife 18-21, F Oct 4, 2014

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    i met a guy at church he had a son from a

    previous relationship. we been seeing each other for a few months and after doing some research I found out not only was he married but he still lived with the chick! I was solo mad at myself & him buy its a lesson learned
    luvabl3 luvabl3 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2014

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    i have a dark secret.

    my story is a long one. i dont expect anyone to read all of it. ive never told anybody. its driven me crazy and ive seen a counselor about it. i wish i had someone to talk to about my experience/affair. it was traumatizing. i was working and living overseas in brazil for 5...
    rainydaytoday rainydaytoday 22-25 1 Response Sep 26, 2014

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    I just broke up with the love of my life

    for his children's sake..... We met 15 month ago ,until August last year we just said "hello,how are you.." I actually tried to stay away and avoid him,but like in all stories we ended up together. He loves me I know that and nobody can say otherwise ,not even his wife as he...
    lumiligh lumiligh 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    I had an affair with a married man.

    . At first I didn't know that until he told me after we started to get serious! I'm a 18 yr old guy who is gay. He is very DL which his wife didn't know. We met up and had awesome sex.. He was visiting from the mainland.. We have sex everyday until the day he left.. He told me he...
    avabooboo avabooboo 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    I started waitressing last year The owner of

    the restaurant hired me and always seemed like a good guy One night after I had worked there about a month he game in with bloodshot eyes. Looked like he had been crying. I was curious so I went to his office. I was surprised he let me in I asked him what was wrong and he told...
    NatalieGirlF NatalieGirlF 18-21, F 16 Responses Jan 4

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    still some of the best sex I ever had.

    I miss him. we still tlk I wish I could just have home one more time
    laverse laverse 18-21, F Mar 18

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    I had an affair. It's been over a year.

    I don't think of him every minute anymore. He's still very much in my life. We were friends for many years before it grew. We did and do love each other. We both decided, we can't be together. We were very respectful of each other. Nobody got hurt, except ourselves. We REALLY...
    lilsecret1 lilsecret1 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    He was my boss at the time i never had

    intercourse but we did have oral sex twice.
    pinksteam pinksteam 18-21, F 1 Response May 27, 2014

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    I was so naive. I am

    so completely mad at myself. He told me he was going through a divorce and we started seeing each other. I fell head over heels in love with this man. Come to find out he wasn't going through a divorce. He simply wasn't happy. I was a side piece. My heart hurts everyday and it...
    ofallthings23 ofallthings23 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    Help!! I've been having an affair with a

    married man at work. We've had instances where we almost got caught. He's much older than me. But so gentle. My marriage broke down because of him. He promises me the world but I just found out he's going away with his wife and today she picked him up from work I feel so...
    cdngirl2 cdngirl2 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 18, 2014

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    And I am thinking about starting it up again.

    I have a feeling he wants to because usually we don't talk about it but recently he's been making little remarks and I have just been ignoring them. I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful man and if I went through with this it would completely ruin it for us if my...
    Rainbowsandrain Rainbowsandrain 41-45, F 2 Responses May 5, 2014

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    call me a wh@@@ or a homewrecker.. but I've had to affairs with two men and loved them.. it was fun and exciting.. one guy we continue today. I've known him since I was 5 and we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 2

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    any couples out there?? around 27-36??
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 2

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    I am having an affair with my friend's husband. We have known each other for almost 20 years. We hooked up at another friend's wedding and have talked every day since, even have...
    anavay anavay 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 28

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    Ok so this is my first post and I know it's hard to believe but please if there's someone out there that thinks they can help please respond My name is Kelsey. I'm a senior in...
    KelseyA KelseyA 18-21, F 68 Responses May 7

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    I'm having some marital problems and for the last year I don't know if my husband and I are just in a temporary crisis or whether we'll get through it. We split up for a little...
    shoogabonbons shoogabonbons 36-40, F 2 Responses May 5

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    Happily married "straight" guy but... I've always had curious urges. I've recently had a couple trans experiences and I'm hooked. I've also still got the itch to be with a manly...
    TXDTC TXDTC 31-35, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I was with a married man for about a year and now it's been a year since I've seen him. It was amazing - we would meet up at my house or sometimes go to a bar, ***** club, or adult...
    blazerfan blazerfan 36-40, F 10 Responses