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I Had An Angry Father

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    I Had An Angry Father...i Still Do.

    I'm a girl of 20 years old, and I've a brother, my twin. My father's always been violent. I have all those memories of him yelling (more often with my brother than I) and now, it's getting worse. I don't know why he gets violent so suddenly, he just can't admit that he's wrong...
    Noeru625 Noeru625 18-21 Aug 22, 2012

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    Increasing Anger

    A father who is never wrong. I am sure most people who reads this knows or shares a father such as this which is why i have decided to share my story with like minded people. I am a 20 year old girl with one olded brother who had moved out years ago. My brother use to protect me...
    Niovo Niovo 18-21 May 26, 2013

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    Trying But Always Failing

    Angry is all I remember about my father.  Always angry. controlling about everything.  If he gave you a job to do, he would then control everything about it.  My mother was passive and still is and would always say what a wonderful man he was, he had a bad childhood...
    debrajane debrajane 56-60 Aug 14, 2011

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    Waling On Eggshells

    We were always walking on egg shells never knowing when the next blow up was going to be.  He never touched us, but I always felt the potential was there and was often scared.   I saw him break things and turn over a table once.  He wasn't afraid of anyone...
    Francescanolonger Francescanolonger 46-50, F 4 Responses Nov 11, 2007

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    I Am Having Social Phobia

    I am having social phobia... Because by birth I was getting feared to do simple works and to mineral with friends. The reason is my mother was(still) finding small silly mistakes in whatever the  work i do.... At the age of 18( the age when I entered college) completely I...
    nirmala1510 nirmala1510 22-25 Aug 14, 2011

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    So Easy To Set Off...

    I have an angry father. Honestly, he has such a short fuse. It takes next to nothing to make him mad, and you can never be sure what will set him off. And he's so damn picky that he's impossible to please. Of course, he has to share his opinions with everybody, including me...
    MsStarrShine MsStarrShine 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 17, 2011

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    A Ticking Bomb

    my dad has recently become more and more angry. Idk if its because of the hard economic downfall or what, but my whole family is afraid of him because he could blow up any second. My younger brother, 10, and i, 18, were arguing in our room. Not even yelling. My brother was...
    juney90 juney90 18-21 2 Responses Jul 24, 2009

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    Angry, Cruel, and a Fool

    My father was an angry man.  I know only too well what it was like to try to sneak into my own home after school just to avoid his awful knifing words; words that cut at my soul and bled my self worth.  Looking back, it wasn't all bad though; sometimes his arrogant...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Nov 15, 2008

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    Soo mom and I had a "fight" this morning, but I hardly ever call anything a fight. A fight has some type of defenses on both sides of the argument, right? I'm never the one...
    SubmissiveSecrets SubmissiveSecrets 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I know I put the experience title as such above, but at the moment I would put myself on the borderline of not liking his actions and/or just not caring any longer for him...
    Paintbrushes Paintbrushes 16-17, F Jun 27

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    Saw my old best friend Sunday. He's 23 and has his baby already. He was so caring with him and it was just so cute :3 I would have never imagined him as a good father 10 years ago...
    AshlyP03 AshlyP03 16-17, F 39 mins ago

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    My sister's phone is lost and she saved money so much that phone. Im angry with the bastards inside this house. They're just ******* thieves. Hate you step family
    rsddhj rsddhj 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    It took just one parent to let out more than 30 tears, anger of at least 3 months and 4 tissues to dry my eyes. Why are fathers so heartless? I already found it a bit hard to get...
    CactusHugger CactusHugger 18-21, F Jun 29

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    My question is should I be angry? My family has never gotten a long perfectly. My older sister and I have especially had our troubles. But I have always been very close with my two...
    js110554 js110554 18-21, F Jun 29

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    So, today. I graduated from my second year of college, cool right? I know. Since, no one else in my family has ever made it to the second year, well... aside from my precious...
    SydneyDuchanne SydneyDuchanne 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    It was good in the morning. I was supposed to go for a good friend's engagement today. It's me & hubby's friend too. I was looking forward to meeting our good friends today. I was...
    enragedmisfit enragedmisfit 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    My hatred for my father is complex and still disturbs me after all this time. I wish I didn't hate the man. I can't say I ever really knew him, but that's part of the problem. My...
    AngusDuke AngusDuke 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    Wattouat Wattouat 18-21, F Jul 6

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    Crusade of the Jerks. In my earlier post, in this group, I haven't really gone into a whole lot of detail about all two of the guys I've seen my mom get into serious relationships...
    FR3DR1CKA FR3DR1CKA 16-17, F Jun 25

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    I'm so angry at my sons father he's lucky I'm far away or I would hurt him I'm so sick and tired of crying and arguing with him I'm done since he wants to be father of the year I...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Israfilon Israfilon 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 29

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    This will be my most personal story. It's not just about me, but I figured I should put everything in one place. This will be long, so anyone who actually wants to take the time to...
    lonachan lonachan 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    About two years ago, at the age of 17 I had an abortion. The father was someone who I thought I was in love with. Coming from an abusive household it was very nice to have a guy...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 25

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    It's been 4 years on and off. It's now done. I've blocked you on FB because I couldn't handle the messaging about my dog dying after we've broken up. You posted the poem about the...
    mylove77 mylove77 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I did a stupid thing and I regret it . So it was like before 5 weeks ago before I left Georgia to come to London for vacation my ex who is also my sons father and I have an...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I am 23 and my childhood wasn't great. My mum tried to give us all she could or is it just a phrase oyu say?! I think she did though. My father was a horrible man, he was beating...
    eternity7 eternity7 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Well, I don't know why exactly but I feel like I want to share my thoughts with someone other than myself. I'm Egyptian, my name is Ibrahim and I'm not happy, in fact I don't...
    ibrahim1forse ibrahim1forse 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My name is Sam, as a child, my father didn't care much about me and he still doesn't. My father had me when he was a senior and my mother was a junior. After my mother gave birth...
    96Samuel96 96Samuel96 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    brittanys13 brittanys13 22-25, F Jun 22

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    I don't think I've ever told anyone the full story of my childhood. Not even my closest friends. I know this post will be long and I know it's not as awful as some of the story's...
    caaarl caaarl 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I am afraid that my ailing Father maybe dying. I received a shocking phone call from my brother almost 2 months ago. He told me how my Dad was doing since I live so far away from...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 4 days ago

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    I realized today that I've been so angry lately at least in part because if my boyfriend of ten years had been as committed to our future as I am, then I wouldn't be living alone...
    TheBaney TheBaney 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    As I said before I was 15 when my mother,2 siblings, and I were finally liberated from my abusive bigamist(married to a woman in Ukraine while married to my mother in US)father. He...
    Eitan Eitan 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    Organicmachine Organicmachine 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    OldAbandoned10 OldAbandoned10 22-25, F Jun 30

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    Him Or Us? Thank God my mother wasn't mancrazy.Anyone who knows me knows I am true Mama's Boy. I have loved my mother intensely and possesively my entire life. Since my mother...
    Eitan Eitan 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    ADF37 ADF37 56-60 Jul 2

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    Everything started when I met him. I met the love of my life last year. We grew close and became best friends and lovers. Before I met him I volunteered for a military deployment...
    lesspain2 lesspain2 22-25 2 Responses Jul 8

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    I'm new to this experience thing. But The reason I joined is so that I could write about my feelings towards my "dad". Ever since I was little he's really been nothing more than a...
    aloflo aloflo 16-17, F a week ago