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I Had An Ex Boyfriend Who Couldnt Forget Me

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    I Just Flew To North Carolina To See Him..why?

    We met whe i was 13 and he was 16..we dated for two years..I thought if i slept with him we would be together forever..but we broke up soon after that..through the years we would occasionally see one another and it was a very strong attraction..a year ago he called me.he wanted...
    nikitwo nikitwo 46-50 Jun 5, 2011

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    Crazy-Obessed Ex-Boyfriend

    Most stories i see on here that i can relate. Now you can probably see what i have to share. My first boyfriend i ever had went strong for almost 3 years. Before that, I know we've liked eachother though elementry school, and we were also very close friends since grade 3. When we...
    xluhhv xluhhv 18-21, F Oct 16, 2012

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    Stilll

    My ex still writes me letters and sends me presents and alll of that stuff. I am now in a new relationship and my ex's obsession with me is affecting my new relationship. How do I, in a nice way, get my ex to stop? Any one have any advice?
    femmefatale7 femmefatale7 18-21 1 Response Jul 20, 2011

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    A Few, Because I Have a Tenden...

    a few, because I have a tendency to be very good to them, and for the few, the best thing that could have ever happened to them, most likely.
    silvermystics silvermystics 51-55, F Jun 4, 2007

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    I was 15 and he dumped me

    for a cheerleader. Then the rest of my four years of high school he would try his hardest to break me and my boyfriend( now husband )up. Then he found me on class mates 6 yrs after high school and still was trying to get with me. Then MySpace hit and he found me there too, not...
    carebear1019 carebear1019 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    Move On Ex Boyfriend

    I was with a guy for 3yrs and we agreed to break up. A year went by and we both move on, than all of a sudden when he found out I was engaged he would call all the time. I didnt wont to change my cell number, so I finally had to tell my fiance whom handle the situation for me...
    jpaula68 jpaula68 31-35, F Dec 6, 2010

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    Love Of My Life

    My ex and I broke up 12'years ago. We have been in touch for the last 7 years. I know how he feels, and I know how I feel. Problem is...when we broke up I got married a few years later, but I always know where my heart is I'm tortured by this everyday... my heart hurts
    143pocoz 143pocoz 31-35 1 Response Sep 15, 2012

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    Guys Bug Me. ...

    guys bug me. so i tend not to get into relationships with them, as most i know only want sex
    ioke ioke 16-18, F 1 Response Apr 5, 2007

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    He Is Nothing But Annoying

           I had an ex-boyfriend and it's been almost 2 years since we broke up. I admit he was my last ex and since then I started enjoying life single. I fall in love to the idea of being an independent woman. After we broke up in 2010 I feel the happiness  of being free from...
    mariadolce mariadolce 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10, 2011

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    Ex Probs

    I have an ex and he's still in love with me but my whole family hate him. Went currently working at the same place and idk how to react to that. He's already started and I start Saturday. He asked me if I'm going to ignore him or say hi. I'm scared to start working. This is my...
    stephypoo51295 stephypoo51295 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2013

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    Three Years Knowing Each Other And Today Was Our Second Date.

    Went out with him today, dinner and a movie. Kinda scary, don't want to get my hopes up that he's pulled his head outta his butt. *BITES NAILS*
    oceaneyedgirl79 oceaneyedgirl79 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    He Won't Give Up

    He was my first love, we were together off and on for 5 years and he cheated, lied, and neglected me. I went through so much heartbreak before I finally hardened my heart towards him. Now for the past couple years he has been desperately trying to get me back. He is really laying...
    paradoxical paradoxical 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 16, 2008

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    To This Day...

    I still see him after all these years... about every two years... he gets such a hangdog look on his face... he tells me every time that he was just stupid and immature... and even tho he's been married a long time he always makes suggestions about hooking up.. tells me I was...
    txwoman2 txwoman2 36-40, F Feb 13, 2010

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    I Knew Hed Regret His Choice

    My first love and I dated throughout High school on and off.  We would break up and then get back together. We would see eachother around town , he would be with a new girlfirend,  a couple of them I knew from school.  Some of them knew how I felt about him and would give me...
    deangelo365 deangelo365 31-35 2 Responses Jan 13, 2011

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    Don't Want to Feel Like a Puppet

    This man keeps reeling me in... need to close the door for good... have tried....need to try harder
    baby56 baby56 46-50, F Apr 5, 2007

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    Puppy Love?

    I was sixteen, and had just started my very first job. It was the glamorous position of McDonald's employee. There was a community college in my town, and we had a few people who worked at McD's from college as well as high school. His name was Kyle, and he was adorable. Funny...
    onceandfutureglow onceandfutureglow 31-35, F 20 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    Thats What He Said

    hi, im a 6th grader and im worried about my ex boyfriend who is and 8th gradeheres my storyit was in the middle of summer and i didn't really fit in with summer.anyways i met my ex "juan" during that time at a public pool near my house.all the boys there were kinda cute, but they...
    ilianaleon28 ilianaleon28 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 8, 2012

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    So I'm dating this guy right now,

    and I really love him, but my ex just won't leave me alone. I dated my ex for 2 1/2 years, and now he's constantly texting me and telling me that even after all this time he still thinks about me, and misses me. Our relationship back then was by far the most unhealthy...
    Leosbaby0311 Leosbaby0311 16-17, F Jun 23

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    Yes..... ...

    yes..... but we only talked for a week or two and now five years later he still trys to get with me.
    suicidallover0406 suicidallover0406 16-18, F Dec 31, 2006

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    And I Cant Forget Him Either

    i think i will always love my ex. we had something so magical. i think i am part of the reason he still hasnt really gotten as serious as he could with someone because he still has hope for us. i pray on a miricle that my marraige would end so i could be with him. my heart is...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F Nov 10, 2008

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    Mr. Verizon Guy

    I met the guy at the bar and we started out on a great note.But after four or five months things went bad and we both started to mess around.We kinda just floated apart and there was really no break up.That was almost a year ago but every couple nights he calls in the middle of...
    blackcat blackcat 22-25, F Jun 4, 2007

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    True Love

    even though he's gone now, i know he still loves me and watches over me <3
    Bella1995 Bella1995 16-17, F Dec 10, 2011

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    It ***** Me Up the Wall

    after we broke up he kept dating girls who were just like me at the time. 17, black hair, nose piercing, could be conceived as a goth. When I got my labret pierced suddenly his girlfriends started having them. I no longer have any form of contact with him. I spoke to a mutual...
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 21-25, F 2 Responses May 30, 2007

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    We'Re Still Friends 3600 Ish Miles Apart.

    Its not that he wont give up its that he wants to get back together with me and I know right now that I dont love him anymore. I care about him yes,but im not sure if he is the right person for me. it was a long distance relationship and complicated at the time. I sometimes...
    Kissmyflaws Kissmyflaws 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 6, 2013

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    I Don't Understand It...

    It has been...let's see wow, 8 years since we broke up. And I am MARRIED now, but that still doesn't stop him! He recently contacted me on fb using a fake name. He only had nice things to say, but there's a reason when you have to use a fake name to get someone to pay attention...
    Nikster Nikster 26-30 2 Responses Jul 21, 2011

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    He Follows Me

    I'm 18 and a couple of months ago i broke up with my boyfriend of 1 year.  At first he was fine with it, he was upset but not being mean and rude about it, so we remained friends. Big mistake. a couple weeks ago when i would hang out with another guy he would call me and...
    murphym murphym 18-21, F Jun 12, 2010

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    My Only Wish Is For Him to Find Peace.

    my first love and i poured so much into our relationship that its end was a point of chaos and regret unlike any other.  i realized the need to end things due to conditions that could not change...his addictions, our religious differences.  due to our youth and various...
    candlelyte candlelyte 18-21 4 Responses May 29, 2009

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    I Had An Ex Boyfriend Who Couldn't Forget Me

    My friend and I saw him walking on the street and we kept walking after him because we both thought he was hot. Yes I guess I was stalking him but I had no idea that years later he would be the one stalking me. We invited him for a drink. He noticed that we...
    GrueneRose GrueneRose 22-25 3 Responses Jan 8, 2007

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    How Random....

    Its been a year since me and Chris broke up, 23rd December we would have been together 3 years..... We barely speak any more, till just now when I got an email from him saying he had to delete me from facebook (god i hate that thing) because everytime i did something it came up...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F Dec 13, 2008

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    We dated in 8th grade,

    juniors now. We still talk as if we are still dating. I miss him so much. But he's in a relationship, as am I...
    Katniss17 Katniss17 18-21, F Feb 21

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    HAD Is the Operant Word Here

    we dated in high school & almost got married, but he cheated on me and hurt me so badly that we eventually parted ways.  ever since then, we have kept in touch off and on, even went out a couple times--but nothing serious ever came of it.  he was and is an...
    trixi trixi 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 19, 2008

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    I Wish He Would Forget Me...

    It's over. Has been for 13 years. Just bugger off. Wish I had the effing guts to say that. Damn Facebook. August '09: I did it...he's gone and blocked...but he still tried to lure me back in by saying I was in he and his wife's (who I haven't even met) hearts. He is scum...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2009

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    I Had An Ex Who Couldnt Forget Me...

    and now i cant stop thinking about him!!dammit!!we were only together for a small while and didnt get very far, but even though i know his clinginess was a problem, we had such a good connection...
    chocolatesmile chocolatesmile 18-21, F Apr 14, 2007

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    I Still Talk To My Ex...

    It's been almost a year and I still talk to him... Yea, we attend the same church, with his Dad being the pastor, there's really no way to avoid him unless I moved away... It's been almost a year and I still get upset when he talks to someone else... Yea, she's like 20+ years his...
    CloudedHope CloudedHope 22-25 Nov 22, 2012

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    All Of Them.

    I feel sort of bad for all of my past relationships because 6 out of 6 of them, I was the one who ended it with them and 5 of them still want me back... (the 1st one met someone and got married after 4 or 5 years....but rumor has it, they're unhappy.) Should i feel sorry for them...
    Ninja89 Ninja89 22-25, F 1 Response May 15, 2012

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    My Sweet Ex Boyfriend

    I just got an email from my ex boyfriend. He wanted to know how I am doing and to say once more that he still thinks a lot about me, that he thinks I am a wonderful person and very beautiful. Of course, I feel flattered, but I also want him to move on. This guy way my last...
    thinkandfeel thinkandfeel 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 5, 2009

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    He Won't Stop

    okay so I've dated this guy for about 9 months until he turned abusive and i broke up with him. So he feels the need to call me 3 times a day and he texted me all the time so I blocked his number. But he even texted my mom and cousin trying to find out why I didn't love him...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 14, 2011

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    Almost All Of Them

    I seem to be a creep magnet and attract men who won't take "It's over," for an answer. I've had to change phone numbers because of them before....
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 15, 2011

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    Haha yep been there done that.

    .. I've had three men who don't want to let go. Basically it was a long battle going back and forth between break ups but eventually I separated my life from theirs and moved on and it's been semi peaceful since .
    jojo777333 jojo777333 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    Futile Efforts

    I saw him tonight. He won't take no for answer. He says he's not giving me up. On us. I guess he think he's Rick Astley. Been there done that. Trying to take a reminiscent trip down memory lane of the good times we shared will not entice me to give it another shot. Why won't he...
    AwesomeAngel AwesomeAngel 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    medici1014 medici1014 22-25, F Oct 14, 2010

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    Lies, Fault, Goodbye.

    I was in a relationship with this guy since March and he broke-up with me at the beginning of August because he said he wasn't happy the last two months we were together. It made me feel like I wasn't a good girlfriend, but whatever. It did hurt me, but I managed to move on...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F Sep 16

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    Well...

    Okay I have to admit it. Sometimes it's very flattering knowing that someone just couldn't get you out of their head... but if that someone is a sicko... Well, that's another story. I have a few ex boyfriends which really creeps me out. One of them almost committed suicide when I...
    amethyst91 amethyst91 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 4, 2011

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    Dana.

    i met him when i was in eight grade. he was in my spanish class. and p.e class.   me and my bestfriend used to make fun of him and say, "SORRY. i dont speak danish." i never thought he was attractive or anything. then in tenth grade he added me on myspace. we...
    asdflkjghlove asdflkjghlove 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    And So He Stalked Me and I Had...

    And so he stalked me and I had his *** locked up after he tried to kill my dog.
    happyhooker happyhooker 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2007

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    I Feel So Guilty

    We used to be bff for 2 years. We chatted all the time. He had a gf and i had a bf and we both weren't happy in our relationships at that time. We used to tell each other about it. Two months After we both ended our relationships. He asked me to be his gf and i thought why wouldn...
    Dudy2013 Dudy2013 22-25 Apr 26, 2013

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    He Can't Leave Me

    I started off this relationship with a guy because I wanted a "trophy" boyfriend until the end of my senior year and now I have him hooked on me. I never knew he liked me this much and the sad part is I cheated on him in the beginning of the relationship because I didn't think it...
    LadyToken LadyToken 16-18, F Dec 28, 2007

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    Love Of My Life

    My ex and I broke up 12'years ago. We have been in touch for the last 7 years. I know how he feels, and I know how I feel. Problem is...when we broke up I got married a few years later, but I always know where my heart is I'm tortured by this everyday... my heart hurts
    143pocoz 143pocoz 31-35 3 Responses Sep 15, 2012

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    More Like Have...

    I have an Ex boyfriend who can't forget me. he just keeps texting me all the time, and calling me. He keeps making up excuses to talk to me, when clearly I want NOTHING to do with him. I'm so glad I am ditching my cell phone number soon! FINALLY Will be free from him...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 16, 2010

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    So In Love With Me

    He wanted to make me happy, but he didn't do some things that would have made me happy. I'd have loved it if he'd allow me to be me, and at the same time talk to me and think for himself. But he loved me, and couldn't stop thinking about me, even when he got drunk, and I have no...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 7, 2008

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    Well, it's a long story. Him and I had a huge falling out. Our relationship was going downhill fast. We knew that we weren't going to last if we kept it up. The only issue is...
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