I Had An Ex Boyfriend Who Couldnt Forget Me

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    I Just Flew To North Carolina To See Him..why?

    We met whe i was 13 and he was 16..we dated for two years..I thought if i slept with him we would be together forever..but we broke up soon after that..through the years we would occasionally see one another and it was a very strong attraction..a year ago he called me.he wanted...
    nikitwo nikitwo
    Jun 5, 2011
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2014

    Love Of My Life

    My ex and I broke up 12'years ago. We have been in touch for the last 7 years. I know how he feels, and I know how I feel. Problem is...when we broke up I got married a few years later, but I always know where my heart is I'm tortured by this everyday... my heart hurts
    143pocoz 143pocoz
    3 Responses Sep 15, 2012

    Almost All Of Them

    I seem to be a creep magnet and attract men who won't take "It's over," for an answer. I've had to change phone numbers because of them before....
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 15, 2011

    to this day he still won't leave me alone he is

    constantly trying to intrude on my life. I will never take him back we dated for 8 year's and all he did was cheat on me and ruined my life. even friend I had he had sex with worse part her did it with my best friend in front of my face and he took a pic of me put it on a naked...
    deniseee deniseee
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 22, 2015

    How Random....

    Its been a year since me and Chris broke up, 23rd December we would have been together 3 years..... We barely speak any more, till just now when I got an email from him saying he had to delete me from facebook (god i hate that thing) because everytime i did something it came up...
    Tesse Tesse
    18-21, F
    Dec 13, 2008

    All Of Them.

    I feel sort of bad for all of my past relationships because 6 out of 6 of them, I was the one who ended it with them and 5 of them still want me back... (the 1st one met someone and got married after 4 or 5 years....but rumor has it, they're unhappy.) Should i feel sorry for them...
    Ninja89 Ninja89
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 15, 2012

    ikr.....my ex boyfriend from high school sent !

    e a msg on Facebook out of the blue! lol over the years we have been in and out of each others lives, usually when one of is is going through something very stressful, we hang out a bit, and then part our seperate ways. so, recently he contacted me. so, i gave him my number and...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 28, 2015

    We'Re Still Friends 3600 Ish Miles Apart.

    Its not that he wont give up its that he wants to get back together with me and I know right now that I dont love him anymore. I care about him yes,but im not sure if he is the right person for me. it was a long distance relationship and complicated at the time. I sometimes...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jun 6, 2013

    And So He Stalked Me and I Had...

    And so he stalked me and I had his *** locked up after he tried to kill my dog.
    happyhooker happyhooker
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 4, 2007

    Okay so my ex boyfriend

    and I dated for only three months (from July to October 2011) and it didn't workout. He never made an efford to come visit me at all. He always made up lame excuses. I didn't push him becauae I didn't want him to think that I was controlling. I did invite him to come visit me...
    deleted deleted
    Sep 21, 2015


    i met him when i was in eight grade. he was in my spanish class. and p.e class.   me and my bestfriend used to make fun of him and say, "SORRY. i dont speak danish." i never thought he was attractive or anything. then in tenth grade he added me on myspace. we...
    asdflkjghlove asdflkjghlove
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 1, 2008

    He Won't Stop

    okay so I've dated this guy for about 9 months until he turned abusive and i broke up with him. So he feels the need to call me 3 times a day and he texted me all the time so I blocked his number. But he even texted my mom and cousin trying to find out why I didn't love him...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 14, 2011

    Haha yep been there done that.

    .. I've had three men who don't want to let go. Basically it was a long battle going back and forth between break ups but eventually I separated my life from theirs and moved on and it's been semi peaceful since .
    jojo777333 jojo777333
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 21, 2014

    I Had An Ex Boyfriend Who Couldn't Forget Me

    My friend and I saw him walking on the street and we kept walking after him because we both thought he was hot. Yes I guess I was stalking him but I had no idea that years later he would be the one stalking me. We invited him for a drink. He noticed that we...
    GrueneRose GrueneRose
    3 Responses Jan 8, 2007

    HAD Is the Operant Word Here

    we dated in high school & almost got married, but he cheated on me and hurt me so badly that we eventually parted ways.  ever since then, we have kept in touch off and on, even went out a couple times--but nothing serious ever came of it.  he was and is an...
    trixi trixi
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jan 19, 2008

    Puppy Love?

    I was sixteen, and had just started my very first job. It was the glamorous position of McDonald's employee. There was a community college in my town, and we had a few people who worked at McD's from college as well as high school. His name was Kyle, and he was adorable. Funny...
    onceandfutureglow onceandfutureglow
    31-35, F
    20 Responses Aug 25, 2009

    And I Cant Forget Him Either

    i think i will always love my ex. we had something so magical. i think i am part of the reason he still hasnt really gotten as serious as he could with someone because he still has hope for us. i pray on a miricle that my marraige would end so i could be with him. my heart is...
    goldie25 goldie25
    31-35, F
    Nov 10, 2008

    Crazy-Obessed Ex-Boyfriend

    Most stories i see on here that i can relate. Now you can probably see what i have to share. My first boyfriend i ever had went strong for almost 3 years. Before that, I know we've liked eachother though elementry school, and we were also very close friends since grade 3. When we...
    xluhhv xluhhv
    18-21, F
    Oct 16, 2012

    I Don't Understand It...

    It has been...let's see wow, 8 years since we broke up. And I am MARRIED now, but that still doesn't stop him! He recently contacted me on fb using a fake name. He only had nice things to say, but there's a reason when you have to use a fake name to get someone to pay attention...
    Nikster Nikster
    2 Responses Jul 21, 2011

    Ex Probs

    I have an ex and he's still in love with me but my whole family hate him. Went currently working at the same place and idk how to react to that. He's already started and I start Saturday. He asked me if I'm going to ignore him or say hi. I'm scared to start working. This is my...
    stephypoo51295 stephypoo51295
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 19, 2013

    True Love

    even though he's gone now, i know he still loves me and watches over me <3
    Bella1995 Bella1995
    18-21, F
    Dec 10, 2011

    I Had An Ex Who Couldnt Forget Me...

    and now i cant stop thinking about him!!dammit!!we were only together for a small while and didnt get very far, but even though i know his clinginess was a problem, we had such a good connection...
    chocolatesmile chocolatesmile
    18-21, F
    Apr 14, 2007


    My ex still writes me letters and sends me presents and alll of that stuff. I am now in a new relationship and my ex's obsession with me is affecting my new relationship. How do I, in a nice way, get my ex to stop? Any one have any advice?
    femmefatale7 femmefatale7
    Jul 20, 2011

    I Knew Hed Regret His Choice

    My first love and I dated throughout High school on and off.  We would break up and then get back together. We would see eachother around town , he would be with a new girlfirend,  a couple of them I knew from school.  Some of them knew how I felt about him and would give me...
    deangelo365 deangelo365
    2 Responses Jan 13, 2011

    I Feel So Guilty

    We used to be bff for 2 years. We chatted all the time. He had a gf and i had a bf and we both weren't happy in our relationships at that time. We used to tell each other about it. Two months After we both ended our relationships. He asked me to be his gf and i thought why wouldn...
    Dudy2013 Dudy2013
    Apr 26, 2013

    We dated in 8th grade,

    juniors now. We still talk as if we are still dating. I miss him so much. But he's in a relationship, as am I...
    Katniss17 Katniss17
    18-21, F
    Feb 21, 2014

    Love Of My Life

    My ex and I broke up 12'years ago. We have been in touch for the last 7 years. I know how he feels, and I know how I feel. Problem is...when we broke up I got married a few years later, but I always know where my heart is I'm tortured by this everyday... my heart hurts
    143pocoz 143pocoz
    1 Response Sep 15, 2012

    My ex and I dated for about 6 months

    when we were 18 and 20 respectively. It was fun, it was clingy, it was controlling and it ended badly. He left me for another girl and I told him, "no one will ever love you like I did." Words I wish I could take back. I'm now 22 and about every 6 months he contacts me, acts...
    DreamingDreamingDreaming DreamingDreamingDreaming
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2015

    Guys Bug Me. ...

    guys bug me. so i tend not to get into relationships with them, as most i know only want sex
    ioke ioke
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 5, 2007

    Thats What He Said

    hi, im a 6th grader and im worried about my ex boyfriend who is and 8th gradeheres my storyit was in the middle of summer and i didn't really fit in with summer.anyways i met my ex "juan" during that time at a public pool near my house.all the boys there were kinda cute, but they...
    ilianaleon28 ilianaleon28
    13-15, F
    1 Response Feb 8, 2012

    We had lost contact for several years.

    .. by the time our paths again crossed, he was going through a divorce. He still owned belongings of mine nearly a decade later, and a marriage later, smh. We hooked up over the summer and the sex was AMAZING!! But, things became complicated. His baggage was too heavy a burden...
    mazedartist mazedartist
    36-40, F
    Dec 20, 2014

    He Won't Give Up

    He was my first love, we were together off and on for 5 years and he cheated, lied, and neglected me. I went through so much heartbreak before I finally hardened my heart towards him. Now for the past couple years he has been desperately trying to get me back. He is really laying...
    paradoxical paradoxical
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 16, 2008

    He Follows Me

    I'm 18 and a couple of months ago i broke up with my boyfriend of 1 year.  At first he was fine with it, he was upset but not being mean and rude about it, so we remained friends. Big mistake. a couple weeks ago when i would hang out with another guy he would call me and...
    murphym murphym
    18-21, F
    Jun 12, 2010

    So I'm dating this guy right now,

    and I really love him, but my ex just won't leave me alone. I dated my ex for 2 1/2 years, and now he's constantly texting me and telling me that even after all this time he still thinks about me, and misses me. Our relationship back then was by far the most unhealthy...
    BlondeGirlBunny BlondeGirlBunny
    18-21, F
    Jun 23, 2014

    I am an ex boyfriend

    and I cheated on her once and then she left me. She was so hot and sexy and is still in contact with some of my family. I see her every once in awhile but she never talks to me. She knows it drives me crazy and winks at me and giggles. She knows I cry and miss her and she knows...
    MyWifeCheatedOnMe MyWifeCheatedOnMe
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 19, 2014


    Okay I have to admit it. Sometimes it's very flattering knowing that someone just couldn't get you out of their head... but if that someone is a sicko... Well, that's another story. I have a few ex boyfriends which really creeps me out. One of them almost committed suicide when I...
    amethyst91 amethyst91
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 4, 2011

    My Sweet Ex Boyfriend

    I just got an email from my ex boyfriend. He wanted to know how I am doing and to say once more that he still thinks a lot about me, that he thinks I am a wonderful person and very beautiful. Of course, I feel flattered, but I also want him to move on. This guy way my last...
    thinkandfeel thinkandfeel
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 5, 2009

    R and I dated for 9 months off

    and on. I found out he was planning on seeing some girl on the weekend in SA. He told me he was going to meet up with an old friend. I thought okay, she's just a friend. Until I went through his Facebook messages(horrible I know, but I was suspicious) and I found out how...
    somegirl000 somegirl000
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 2, 2015

    So In Love With Me

    He wanted to make me happy, but he didn't do some things that would have made me happy. I'd have loved it if he'd allow me to be me, and at the same time talk to me and think for himself. But he loved me, and couldn't stop thinking about me, even when he got drunk, and I have no...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 7, 2008

    Three Years Knowing Each Other And Today Was Our Second Date.

    Went out with him today, dinner and a movie. Kinda scary, don't want to get my hopes up that he's pulled his head outta his butt. *BITES NAILS*
    oceaneyedgirl79 oceaneyedgirl79
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Nov 3, 2012

    It ***** Me Up the Wall

    after we broke up he kept dating girls who were just like me at the time. 17, black hair, nose piercing, could be conceived as a goth. When I got my labret pierced suddenly his girlfriends started having them. I no longer have any form of contact with him. I spoke to a mutual...
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 30, 2007

    I Still Talk To My Ex...

    It's been almost a year and I still talk to him... Yea, we attend the same church, with his Dad being the pastor, there's really no way to avoid him unless I moved away... It's been almost a year and I still get upset when he talks to someone else... Yea, she's like 20+ years his...
    CloudedHope CloudedHope
    Nov 22, 2012

    So me and my ex go to school together.

    He broke up with me, because he said I was ugly. And now that I hang around a guy he tries to make me jealous. it's absolutely stupid. I moved on.
    deleted deleted
    May 28, 2015

    I was 15 and he dumped me

    for a cheerleader. Then the rest of my four years of high school he would try his hardest to break me and my boyfriend( now husband )up. Then he found me on class mates 6 yrs after high school and still was trying to get with me. Then MySpace hit and he found me there too, not...
    carebear1019 carebear1019
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jun 23, 2014

    Yes..... ...

    yes..... but we only talked for a week or two and now five years later he still trys to get with me.
    suicidallover0406 suicidallover0406
    18-21, F
    Dec 31, 2006

    So my ex boyfriend dumped me on Christmas Eve

    and wouldn't tell me why but asked if we could still be friends so I told him no and stopped talking to him. Now that I have an amazing boyfriend that I love and loves me back just as much my ex decided that he still loves me and can't live without me and wants me back... He's...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 1, 2015
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