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I Had An Older Lover

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    I met my lover over a year ago.

    he was 51 and i was 20. We met during my travels in France. though he was latin american. As soon as we met there was chemistry between us. He was handsome, confident and something drew me to him. And him to me. we spent 2 days steering at each other and flirting. When finally...
    Nina543 Nina543 18-21, F Mar 15

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    He Is 13 Year Older Than Me!

    He is am amazing guy, I'm 30 and he is 43. Our relationship has grown from friendship to companions, there are these complications but when we together nothing else matters. Our bond is so strong we talk to each other even when we far apart, I have never felt or experience this...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 28, 2009

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    This Is Embarrassing

    My first man was 38yrs older than me.  The embarassing bit....Shocking bit.... whatever you want to call it I WAS 13 he was 52 He was a neighbour of my grandparents, and I used to play with his veery young grandchildren when i was too young to know what love was...
    ToniBee ToniBee 41-45, F 12 Responses Feb 3, 2009

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    Me And My Neighbor

    I was only 13 years old and young, i just started to dicover my body.My daddy was very strict andd hard with me. He spanked me every day for a good discipline but i was naughty.He use to put me over hees knees and he spanked me so hard every evneng.But still my needs was so...
    Nora22 Nora22 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    Seems So Long Ago...

    I spent a lot of time at my best friends house as a kid, likely because my parents were actually being good parents and his... well... His mom was a drunk in the truest sense of the word. One night while spending the night I was sitting at their computer desk, doing some...
    StressRelief4Me StressRelief4Me 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 2, 2010

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    My Older Woman

    It's a common theme in films and books and songs, the young man and the older woman. In fact it's become something of a cliche. Well, my first 'proper' lover was a woman in her early forties, and I was 17 at the time. Like most 17 year old virgins I was desperate to 'do it' and...
    funkyworm funkyworm 51-55, M Nov 26, 2010

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    Dsr

    i was 22. he was 10 years older then me. we met at work. started out as friends and progressed over a few months. nothing happened until my ex and i ended our relationship. he was there for me immediately. the best part about him was our friendship. no matter what happened...
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 28, 2009

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    My Roommates Sister

    When I was 19yo I shared a place with a high school friend, one day his 40yo old sister showed up at our place and wanted to know if she could stay with us for a couple of weeks. After the second evening she came into my room and asked me if she could sleep in my bed that the...
    benmcrider benmcrider 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    My Older Lover Is 37 Years Older!!!

    I met my older lover when I was 20! I found to be a handsome gentleman in his upper 50's and everything about him was sexy! From his smile to his tall stance. He began to flirt with me but I thought it was harmless jokes until one day he pulled my body close to his and he held me...
    Juicymama22 Juicymama22 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    And I'll Always Thank Him

    I was working in the State Capitol in California. I worked in the Legislative Bill Room.  One of our duties was to help people at the front desk.  The people we helped each day ranged from kids on field trips to lobbyists, all the way up to the assembly and...
    LuluV LuluV 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2009

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    I Was 18 At the Time

    Growing up in a small town in Texas and without to much to do. i became very friendly with this older woman, she was married to a law enforcement official and would come in to have some drinks once in a while at the only local bar. She was 43 years old and a very attractive...
    PTMAN PTMAN 51-55, M 7 Responses Jan 12, 2009

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    Frau

    I was in the Army and stationed in West Germany. She was 31, blonde hair and blue eyes. I was 19. Do I really need to go any further with this?
    Moontan Moontan 56-60, M 3 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    Multiple Times

    The older women I met when I was in my 20s were some of the best lovers I've had. Willing to do more than girls younger than me at the time. I was amazed at how much less inhibited they were in private than I would have expected. One of the best things to learn is that many older...
    bro4luvin bro4luvin 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 12, 2013

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    Interacial Relationship

    Greetings please read my story under interacial relationship
    elviekzn elviekzn 61-65, M Sep 8, 2012

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    Married, Old And Scary

    He was older, he was married and me having never been ugly and single, wasn't in need of either. I avoided him for years. He was however related to a good friend of mine and I often was in his company. He knew where I worked, lived and my hang outs. Often the phone would ring and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    Welcome To Scotland

    Seems like forever in some ways and just like yesterday in others. I spent a year in Scotland when my parents were traveling nurses. They spent one year at a time in different jobs, going to places they had not been to before, working there and enjoying seeing different places...
    Katey30 Katey30 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 11, 2012

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    More Then One

      I can honestly say that ive had alot of affairs with women ranging from 10 to 25 to even 30 years older then me. I was always teased by my friends, and frat bros... but they didnt know what i knew about how good the sex was with these women and how many lessons i...
    siggy10 siggy10 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 12, 2009

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    Sixteen Years My Senior

    When I was sixteen and getting into clubs in Narbonne I was with two girlfriends in a club and I was approached by a guy who's opening line was so predictable I didn't welcome his attentions at first. It was when he took my hand and pulled me onto the dance floor that I tuned...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 12, 2013

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    Daddy'S Girl

    This relationship sadly ended a few months ago when he had to move for his job. But for 2 glorious years I was happily sleeping with a 57 year old. We'd meet three times a week and have sex. In hotels, in cars, in his house. Everywhere. I want one again! Badly!
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    Late Night Tease!!!

    So I made my way over to see my older lover. He opened the door looking fine as always, I was mad at him for taking so long but he loves it when I make a fuss! I was playing hard to get so every time he would touch me I would pull away! He lifted up my shirt and kissed the bottom...
    Juicymama22 Juicymama22 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2013

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    Older Lover

    I didn't have an older lover.Back in the day, I had a best girl friend.  She had a boyfriend.  Her boyfriend had lots of problems.  She ended up spending lots of time with his dad.  One day, out of the blue, he comes over by himself to my house.  He wanted to take me out...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2011

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    My older lover was sexy and the first time I went to her homr we went straight to her bed. We spent hours making love. I would have been called a gigilo if I did it for money. We...
    marshall24 marshall24 56-60 Aug 11

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    It's just something about them.... I've always be attracted to older men I love the fact that they know who they are what they want and how to get it they also really know how to...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 4 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I think I'm developing a crush for a friend (if I can call him that) even if we aren't that crush. But I get discouraged since he's older, we are both male and a female best friend...
    alchnyr alchnyr 16-17, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I lover older women? LOL I do love older women!Anyway, Jessica Lange omg there's just something about her that totally does it for me :) 
    RaceCarrington RaceCarrington 51-55, M 1 day ago

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    "You know you are only my half sister,right?" Me bitterly to my sister recently. She is 3 years and some months older than me and like our older brother was born to our mother's...
    SolomonSaul SolomonSaul 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    Two weeks ago a good friend kissed me after almost two years of skinny love. We spent the whole night together, holding hands, making out, talking, laughing and smiling. The way he...
    burgerqueen37 burgerqueen37 18-21, F 7 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    After being with him on Sunday... He has distanced himself a bit.. I know he doses this ... But I'm a little extra emotional....He knows I'm all mushy the day after were together...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 4 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Today I watched the most disturbing video that brought me to tears. A man walking his dog was videotaping police officers on a public street in his neighborhood. The police...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53 18-21, F 24 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Well older men are usually emotionally and financially secure have more life experience, are comfortable with their sexuality and can enjoy exploring fantasies with young women who...
    Teacher237 Teacher237 56-60, M 16 hrs ago

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    I'm an older man and I love young girls. The younger the better. If you're a young girl, message me.
    RimonKadi RimonKadi 18-21, M 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Everyday I think I'm old...28...and life is so boring with this routine...what happened to me? Where is the joy of life? Sometimes I think if I'm so bored by now what is the point...
    domibe domibe 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    I took the test The Liberated Lover 68% partner focus, 52% aggressiveness, 60% adventurousness based on the results of this test, it is highly likely that: You prefer your...
    txbandit70 txbandit70 41-45, M Aug 19

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    Well whadya know! *wink* Your result for The Lover Style Profile Test ... The Surprising Lover 68% partner focus, 48% aggressiveness, 55% adventurousness based on the results of...
    djtiger djtiger 46-50, M 6 Responses Aug 19

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    *what the heck do you have to do to be a CARNAL lover!!!!* lol.... i thought for shur I'd be one... but I am the: Liberated Lover 59% partner focus, 76% aggressiveness, 65...
    SKiesterly SKiesterly 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    A cappuccino lover...I need it every morning to wake up and get ready for action...I have it with chocolate, the Italian style...
    LuckyGirl14 LuckyGirl14 26-30, F 6 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    The Reasons of Older Men Younger Women Dating . Older men date younger women for many reasons. It does not depends on age most of the time as much as depend on Passion, love and...
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    I love my husband but I had an affair. I told my husband everything and he wants to forgive me but hes finding it hard. I want to do everything he says because hes a wonderful...
    vuexter vuexter 36-40, F 8 Responses Aug 23

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