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I Had An Older Lover

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 234 People

    Frau

    I was in the Army and stationed in West Germany. She was 31, blonde hair and blue eyes. I was 19. Do I really need to go any further with this?
    Moontan Moontan 56-60, M 3 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    Older Lover

    I didn't have an older lover.Back in the day, I had a best girl friend.  She had a boyfriend.  Her boyfriend had lots of problems.  She ended up spending lots of time with his dad.  One day, out of the blue, he comes over by himself to my house.  He wanted to take me out...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2011

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    Late Night Tease!!!

    So I made my way over to see my older lover. He opened the door looking fine as always, I was mad at him for taking so long but he loves it when I make a fuss! I was playing hard to get so every time he would touch me I would pull away! He lifted up my shirt and kissed the bottom...
    Juicymama22 Juicymama22 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2013

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    Married, Old And Scary

    He was older, he was married and me having never been ugly and single, wasn't in need of either. I avoided him for years. He was however related to a good friend of mine and I often was in his company. He knew where I worked, lived and my hang outs. Often the phone would ring and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    Sixteen Years My Senior

    When I was sixteen and getting into clubs in Narbonne I was with two girlfriends in a club and I was approached by a guy who's opening line was so predictable I didn't welcome his attentions at first. It was when he took my hand and pulled me onto the dance floor that I tuned...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 12, 2013

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    Interacial Relationship

    Greetings please read my story under interacial relationship
    elviekzn elviekzn 61-65, M Sep 8, 2012

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    He Is 13 Year Older Than Me!

    He is am amazing guy, I'm 30 and he is 43. Our relationship has grown from friendship to companions, there are these complications but when we together nothing else matters. Our bond is so strong we talk to each other even when we far apart, I have never felt or experience this...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 28, 2009

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    Multiple Times

    The older women I met when I was in my 20s were some of the best lovers I've had. Willing to do more than girls younger than me at the time. I was amazed at how much less inhibited they were in private than I would have expected. One of the best things to learn is that many older...
    bro4luvin bro4luvin 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 12, 2013

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    This Is Embarrassing

    My first man was 38yrs older than me.  The embarassing bit....Shocking bit.... whatever you want to call it I WAS 13 he was 52 He was a neighbour of my grandparents, and I used to play with his veery young grandchildren when i was too young to know what love was...
    ToniBee ToniBee 41-45, F 12 Responses Feb 3, 2009

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    I Was 18 At the Time

    Growing up in a small town in Texas and without to much to do. i became very friendly with this older woman, she was married to a law enforcement official and would come in to have some drinks once in a while at the only local bar. She was 43 years old and a very attractive...
    PTMAN PTMAN 51-55, M 7 Responses Jan 12, 2009

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    Welcome To Scotland

    Seems like forever in some ways and just like yesterday in others. I spent a year in Scotland when my parents were traveling nurses. They spent one year at a time in different jobs, going to places they had not been to before, working there and enjoying seeing different places...
    Katey30 Katey30 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 11, 2012

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    My Older Lover Is 37 Years Older!!!

    I met my older lover when I was 20! I found to be a handsome gentleman in his upper 50's and everything about him was sexy! From his smile to his tall stance. He began to flirt with me but I thought it was harmless jokes until one day he pulled my body close to his and he held me...
    Juicymama22 Juicymama22 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    And I'll Always Thank Him

    I was working in the State Capitol in California. I worked in the Legislative Bill Room.  One of our duties was to help people at the front desk.  The people we helped each day ranged from kids on field trips to lobbyists, all the way up to the assembly and...
    LuluV LuluV 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2009

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    Seems So Long Ago...

    I spent a lot of time at my best friends house as a kid, likely because my parents were actually being good parents and his... well... His mom was a drunk in the truest sense of the word. One night while spending the night I was sitting at their computer desk, doing some...
    StressRelief4Me StressRelief4Me 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 2, 2010

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    My Roommates Sister

    When I was 19yo I shared a place with a high school friend, one day his 40yo old sister showed up at our place and wanted to know if she could stay with us for a couple of weeks. After the second evening she came into my room and asked me if she could sleep in my bed that the...
    benmcrider benmcrider 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    Daddy'S Girl

    This relationship sadly ended a few months ago when he had to move for his job. But for 2 glorious years I was happily sleeping with a 57 year old. We'd meet three times a week and have sex. In hotels, in cars, in his house. Everywhere. I want one again! Badly!
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    Me And My Neighbor

    I was only 13 years old and young, i just started to dicover my body.My daddy was very strict andd hard with me. He spanked me every day for a good discipline but i was naughty.He use to put me over hees knees and he spanked me so hard every evneng.But still my needs was so...
    Nora22 Nora22 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    More Then One

      I can honestly say that ive had alot of affairs with women ranging from 10 to 25 to even 30 years older then me. I was always teased by my friends, and frat bros... but they didnt know what i knew about how good the sex was with these women and how many lessons i...
    siggy10 siggy10 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 12, 2009

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    Dsr

    i was 22. he was 10 years older then me. we met at work. started out as friends and progressed over a few months. nothing happened until my ex and i ended our relationship. he was there for me immediately. the best part about him was our friendship. no matter what happened...
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 28, 2009

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    My Older Woman

    It's a common theme in films and books and songs, the young man and the older woman. In fact it's become something of a cliche. Well, my first 'proper' lover was a woman in her early forties, and I was 17 at the time. Like most 17 year old virgins I was desperate to 'do it' and...
    funkyworm funkyworm 51-55, M Nov 26, 2010

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    I met my lover over a year ago.

    he was 51 and i was 20. We met during my travels in France. though he was latin american. As soon as we met there was chemistry between us. He was handsome, confident and something drew me to him. And him to me. we spent 2 days steering at each other and flirting. When finally...
    Nina543 Nina543 18-21, F Mar 15

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    I have feelings for my neighborhood who's a text driver and I have always liked older men. He has a daughter only 3 years younger than me,I know people thinks it's gross. But I...
    TinaLewis TinaLewis 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 4

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    Given a choice I would prefer an older woman. There's an element of maturity and experience that adds to the thrill of meeting a new person
    gtaonline225 gtaonline225 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    I would really like to have a sexual relationship with an older women
    goonteam goonteam 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    Ive posted before but I need help I'm obsessed with my lover.who I had for a year while in the UK he helped me move on from a messy divorce.ive been back in oz 12 weeks we chat n...
    pommygirl pommygirl 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    {Pre-amble... I was told this story was far too long... and probably should be kept to myself. Initially, I deleted it, but I've decided to post it... you be the judge.. it is my...
    lifu0427 lifu0427 56-60, M 8 Responses Jul 10

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    I'm a 17 years old boy. I have been confused about my sexuality for about 2 years, and I still am. There are two weird sides to this story. I was 15 when I first started to feel...
    WillsWill WillsWill 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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    So I had to delete my account before which sucked but I'm back!! I just celebrated my 16th birthday! :) plus I finally had my first sexual encounter with an older guy, he was 26...
    KyleenSEV KyleenSEV 16-17, F 17 Responses Jul 14

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    On 12th June 2013 I did the test, my boyfriend of 3 months sitting on my bed. We both knew before I came back in from the bathroom what my result would be. I was pregnant. On 3rd...
    littlelil1 littlelil1 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    what do u do when ur lover was your best friend to ,,and you could talk about anything and just laugh over anything,, it hurt they left you,, but you knew it would happen ,, I the...
    notlcare notlcare 56-60 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So I bet anyone who has seen my past experiences is really bored about me talking about my play, but I'm using this more as a journal than a blog. So if you don't want to hear...
    snowunderthestars snowunderthestars 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I love people older than I. If they are a kind soul of course. To me, they have so much knowledge and character. I love to hear their stories. I appreciate their guidance if given...
    OceanicXs OceanicXs 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I texted him " know that I'm ok" He texted back " thank you... I needed that" Me " I know you did.. I'm your lover.. X lover lol" He sent :-( I sent " lol" Why is my heart...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 6 Responses Jul 1

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    I have always had a fantasy about an older man who enjoys tickling feet with me. I know this stems from a fascination with the Don Turtelli character from the original Teenage...
    FootTicklingPrincess FootTicklingPrincess 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    I am in love with an older man. He's 20 years older than I am. We are both single but have dated secretly for almost a year because we work together. Recently he has talked about...
    winelover1 winelover1 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    I have always been fascinated by the way they speak, look and treat others. Personally I love how calm they look and how confident they are looking straight at a woman’s eyes...
    AlexandraWard AlexandraWard 22-25, F 12 Responses Jul 21

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    The older I get the happier I am. Even with the growing financial responsibilities and everything. I suspect that I like growing older because I like having the chances to leave my...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I've always wanted a older brother so he could protect me like older brothers do with their little sisters and beat boys up for me but I got stuck with 2 older sisters
    litzz litzz 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Personally from past relationships, the relationship ends as lovers but we are still great friends. I always go into a relationship with a great friendship because a relationship...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 17

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    A year ago I found out I was a lesbian. I had feelings for women way before but never actually thought I would be gay. No one else thinks I'm gay either because I look straight...
    irisjuuu irisjuuu 18-21, F Jul 8

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