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I Had An Online "Affair"

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    Willing To Try An Online Affair

    So after a few years of marriage, I am looking elsewhere to chat and flirt online. I live in Australia and am certainly not a bogan etc. However I just love that thrill of chatting to someone online where you share stories and saucy details. If you are female and want to have...
    funguy1977 funguy1977 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2012

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    My Online Affair Is Over.. Now What?

    The last few months I have been having a very emotionally attached "online" affair. We have spent hours a day communicating via e-mail and Skype. The affair was not intentional and it was not being sought out. It started off as a friendship due to mutual interest in an...
    livingalieforyou livingalieforyou 26-30 6 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    I had an online affair with someone I met

    through Craigslist. It lasted about two years. I eventually learned who she was. We met although it didn't go anywhere physically. I'm sometimes sad that she left but also grateful for that time we had together. She really helped me become a better person.
    mcCoopDiddy mcCoopDiddy 31-35, M Dec 29, 2013

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    Does It Make Me A Bad Person?

    So i have been with my bf for over a year.  i was recently on a chat site and met this guy.  We have talked twice.  the first time we jsut got to kno eachother as well as exchanged pics, but it was pretty clear we were into eachother. btw i have never ever met anyone online...
    purple613 purple613 18-21, F 3 Responses May 17, 2011

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    Butterflies

    It has been 3 years since the first time I saw him... That day was a Friday and what -in the place I live in- is called a "puente" bridge in Spanish meaning that sometimes a holiday will fall on a Thursday and then you get that Friday off. Luckily my workaholic husband did not...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F May 28, 2013

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    Is This Really An Affair

    I few months ago I met a man online. We were just friends at first. I'm in a sexless marriage and he's in a long term relationship. We talked, flirted for a while. I genuinely care for him. Then we started talking on the phone. That led to phone sex. I've not had this much sex in...
    squintycath squintycath 41-45, F 11 Responses Jul 9, 2013

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    Living Out Of A Suitcase

    Living Out of a Suitcase “Make no mistake, your relationships are the heaviest components in your life. All those negotiations and arguments and secrets, the compromises. The slower we move the faster we die. Make no mistake, moving is living. Some animals were meant to carry...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Mar 27, 2013

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    The Book Connection

    In the early stage of our relationship our conversations were very shy and trivial. I used to ask him, what's on your playlist? and the he would produce a detailed list of the songs and that made me smile, because his songs were my songs. One day he asked: What's on you...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F 1 Response May 5, 2013

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    After 13 Years Of Marriage Out Of The Blue My Wife Decides She Wants A Separation Later Found Out She Was Having An Affair With A 22-year-old Saudi Arabian From Idaho State After A Wild Weekend She Gets With Another 25-year-old Man The Next Day

    After 13 years of wonderful marriage things started to decline within the past couple of years that we had spent in our marriage right around the 11th year thing started decline due to her health issues. She experienced pericarditis and had to take steroids to cure the problem...
    Bruins94 Bruins94 31-35 3 Responses Sep 10, 2012

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    There's Always A Catch.

    So, what happened next was that we continued chatting like we had been doing for a couple of weeks. Now he could be completely honest with me and I liked him even more... Turns out that he as a great daddy, that most days he was in charge of his 2 kids after work, bathe them...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F 2 Responses May 14, 2013

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    Long Distance Love...

    I joined a discussion forum in 2006 and met loads of great people. They were from all walks of life, but we all had similar interests. One woman especially I realised was special, and we started emailing and messaging off-forum regularly. After a few months, I realised I was...
    gabryel243 gabryel243 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 29, 2013

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    Confused

    I've been having an online affair with a married man for 6 months now. It started out as talking ( I guess they all do). It has progressed to something more. We have tried to break it off several times. Twice before we got caught and they last about 2 days each. Now his wife...
    Epiclovers Epiclovers 41-45 4 Responses Dec 31, 2012

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    Laying on the bed with the man I'm supposed to

    love but all I can think of is you...
    LoveBytes LoveBytes 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    The One That Got Away

    it started out as curiosity, and the saying is right "curiosity killed that cat, but cats have 9 lives , so im down to 8 then lol. started as friends online for over 9 months, then out of the blue she traveled out to meet me. It was a special experience. never had that with...
    heresjohnnyalso heresjohnnyalso 56-60, M Feb 9, 2013

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    My Affair With A Man In The Hindu Kush Mountains Of Afghanistan

    A simple introduction to the world-wide web, the complete innocence of the possible vulnerabilities I was an accident waiting for a happening. Who could possibly have thought playing a game would or could lead to the most erotic on-line affair, heartbreak, depression, coffee and...
    fromkabulwithlust fromkabulwithlust 46-50 Apr 13, 2013

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    Wanting More

    How Simple flirting in a on line game chat could turn into such an awesome experience.  One Night after a long day at work and a  huge fight with my husband, I went to my favorite on line game for some stress relief.   Seeing as how I had been playing this...
    MKsweetness MKsweetness 41-45, F 8 Responses Dec 10, 2009

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    I am the one who unfriended

    and blocked him on Facebook. He is the one who wanted for us to talk after the holidays. Things had been going downhill for awhile. He possessed this weird jealousy of my guy friend (who is gay by the way), by giving him the introvert's stare of death one time and trying to run...
    MyBet MyBet 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    It's Been About 6 Months Now...

    I met him on EP actually. There's every chance he'll see this, but i'm not sure if i care.. I happen to be ''the other woman'' in this situation.. We're not really emotionally involved at all, if anything we're the online equivalent to friends-with-benefits. We basically just...
    DanceCommander DanceCommander 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    I had online affair some years ago.

    The man was married like me. It ended bad. I was scared to meet him in person and i quit with him. A year later he contact me and say that he found a woman and he divorced. I was upset why he keep saying that to me. Later i had affairs here and there onine with differnt men...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 12 Responses Jul 10

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    You came into my life.

    I loved you there. It was almost like my life had a tiny slit that you just perfectly slipped through. And you fit so perfectly, so beautifully. And even though I could only communicate with you through text messages and phone calls, I felt like I had you right beside me the...
    carterv carterv 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2013

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    About a year ago I began an emotional affair

    with someone I met on line. We actually met once and confirmed our feelings were real - or so I thought at the time. As months passed, I started to question the validity of my feelings for him and his for me. I wondered if it was more about filling an emotional void in each...
    sHESbrOKenNow sHESbrOKenNow 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 7

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    We Loved Each Other..We Love Each Other...But I Ended My Online Affair Last Night.

    ....it hurts, I won't lie. We met online two years ago and had an instant bond after the first time we spoke. We met on a game site where we could "marry"..and we did..we shared many good things, and also many hardships..we supported each other through some very tough real life...
    Erzulia Erzulia 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    A Few Years Back...

    AOL was the hot thing there for a while, seemed everyone was on it before the whole high speed internet took over. AOL chat rooms were fun, sexy and personal. I met Bill in a chatroom one evening and well, one thing lead to another slowly, IM's, emails and then eventually phone...
    pixelita pixelita 36-40, F 20 Responses Aug 8, 2009

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    Why Lie About This?

    Ok so I have a "friend" who I chat with (never met) - we live thousands of miles away. I am married and he is involved with someone. Our relationship has developed into an emotional affair. We share a pretty strong bond, however as this relationship has somewhat "grown" and...
    livingalieforyou livingalieforyou 26-30 1 Response Mar 4, 2013

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    Fondness and Love Through Words

    A few years ago, when I began feeling very lonely and alone within my marriage, I began looking for someone to talk to. Just someone to email back and forth on a daily basis. Someone to vent to, someone to "lean on", maybe even someone to flirt with if we got that comfortable...
    silentwriter180 silentwriter180 41-45, F 17 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    WARNING: Using Spyware to Hack a Spouse Or Partners E-mail Could Get You Jail Time Or You Could Be Sued!

     WARNING: USING SPYWARE TO HACK A SPOUSE OR PARTNERS E-MAIL COULD GET YOU JAIL TIME OR YOU COULD BE SUED!     Before Using Spyware or Key Logging Programs to catch a spouse or partner that you suspect is having an affair: Make Sure You Know What Your Liability...
    TeslasTemptress TeslasTemptress 46-50, F 8 Responses Sep 9, 2009

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    Currently In An Online Affair.

    I have been emailing, skyping, talking to a man almost every day for 5 months. We met in a chatroom and the connextion was almost instant - it's a very cyber- sexual thing we have but there is also an emotional bond. He is currently living with another woman, and thousands of...
    FaithHopeandTrick FaithHopeandTrick 41-45 1 Response Apr 12, 2013

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    Having An Online Affair

    I met this man over a month ago, not intentionally, but through an online interest group that we both share. He messaged me a short hello due to shared interest and immediately responded I'm married lol to which he said something funny about him having to return the ring now and...
    7 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Day After Syndrome

    Going back to our real lives proved to be hard for both of us.That day, on his birthday came a point were we had to go back, for it was noon, that was one of those rare days he didn't have to go back right away because he had the house to himself. He would pack and clean and then...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 1, 2013

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    :(

    im 17 i currently have 10+ internet relationships.... :(
    xxpearlyy xxpearlyy 16-17, F 5 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    ...What Happens Now?

    We had met in a forum for avid readers, his nickname had caught my attention, it was funny and honest also we had most of the same books in our list. One joke lent to another, a question, a comment and soon enough we were adding each other to chat. That afternoon the conversation...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F 4 Responses May 8, 2013

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    Online Affair With A Married Man

    The first time we actually spoke on the phone and heard each other's voice, was one day after my 18th birthday. Little did I know that a month later, it would all be over. It all started in the summer of 2010. We began chatting online and at first, it was innocent. We...
    collegenerd collegenerd 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2012

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    Sexier Than I Could Have Imagined.....

    So.... I got an anonymous E-mail about a week ago from someone who says he used to work with me. He just said he has seen me around town lately and thinks I'm sexy. I thanked him and we got to chatting.... at first it was just small talk but within days it turned into some very...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 4, 2012

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    So What Precisely Is Defined As An Affair.

    There is a man that my husband works with, and when we met things just clicked. Do you know what I mean? We started talking via XBOX live and over yahoo messenger. Yes, we have talked about sexual stuff, traded pictures, etc but haven't done much else with it. We talk about...
    almostenchanted almostenchanted 22-25 6 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    I am still hurting, i need to get this out.

    It happened before I realized it was happening. We were both 'spoken for' and I shared some really personal things with him. He was careless and our affair was discovered on his end. I will probably always 'love' him, i think of him constantly, yet my heart truly does belong to...
    confused623 confused623 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 23

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    I Don't Want It To End!

    I have been involved in an online affair for 7 months now. I was looking for someone to talk to and just having fun. I had no expectations other than making friends and having fun. In the beginning there was a lot of flirting and we saw pictures showing the better sides of each...
    MrsSwan MrsSwan 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    I Am A Married Woman Having An Online Emotional Affair...

    I am married to my best friend. We are actually really happy, he fully trusts me and really shouldn't. I feel horrible but ive been having an online affair for the past 3 years and finally getting ready to end it. My Online guy doesn't have a clue im married. My husband works a...
    ktowner ktowner 26-30, F 7 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    This kind of boring and It was a long time ago,

    in the infancy of the Internet. I met Melanie in a Prodigy chat room for depression. There was instant connection, but she was 11 years older than me. We were both pretty sick people but we helped one another immensely. We both wanted more, but I was living in Hawaii at the...
    ProgressNotPerfection ProgressNotPerfection 41-45, M Mar 4

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    Online Affairs

    I'm not sure what the author of this poem intended when she wrote the poem, but it struck me as a perfect poem about how an online affair feels...Origins & History of Consciousness by Adrienne Rich "It's simple to wake from sleep with a stranger,dress, go out, drink coffee...
    autumnrocks123 autumnrocks123 26-30 2 Responses Nov 19, 2009

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    Present Tense-i Am Having An Online Affair

    This website has brought me so much I could never have expected. I joined because I am in a failing marriage. All things have been tried and we cannot make it work. Others, both men and women, have shared similar stories to mine and I have formed many bonds with them. I am...
    someonetohold someonetohold 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 22, 2012

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    It Happened...

    I was not looking to start an affair. I was looking for someone to talk to. Someone to give me advice with my marraige. How things ended up into the most extreme emotional affair I had ever had is still beyond me. I fell in love. I wanted him in every way. I would think of...
    TessaMarie TessaMarie 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 13, 2010

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    Sammy7000 Is One Sick Man! Watch Out!

    So Sammy7000 is a member on here that chooses to go in to forums where people are writing their personal stories, seeking comfort from others and advice and chooses to belittle and berate them. He is a very sick and disturbed individual and if you can get past the fact that he...
    brookeP21 brookeP21 26-30, F Feb 13, 2013

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    The hardest thing about deleting your emails

    and photos isn't hitting delete,,,,it's clicking on the empty trash button.
    sHESbrOKenNow sHESbrOKenNow 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    Cyber Affair

    I am having a cyber affair. I started it just for fun. Part immature tantrum. My husband went out of town and didn't want to sex chat over the phone so I decided to find someone who did. (He's a little uptight) Unfortunately, I am starting to really like this guy and look...
    hsweets42 hsweets42 41-45, F 27 Responses Jan 9, 2008

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    The Way I Am With You

    I had spilled the beans... big time. After this I did not know if I would ever talk to him again. How could I be so stupid? How could I have fallen for a married man who was just looking to fill a void? and most important ... Why did I have to tell him? Why couldn't just love him...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Is it still considered an online affair if you know the person in real life? My affair is with my ex husband. We were just kids when we separated but we have both grown into...
    ThatCatKitteh ThatCatKitteh 31-35, F Jul 1

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    Did anyone have success re-establishing sex and not only sex, but passion back in their marriage after they had an affair? If you have re-established sex with wife/husband...
    Fmina Fmina 51-55, F 6 Responses Jul 2

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    See Dreamgirl75,,,you had the affair,,with your co-worker,,now you ask a question ,,Can to married people (MM and MW) Who having affair with one another 1, Stop the sex ,, yes you...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I am an affair success story. Due to my x-h's controlling behaviour toward me (coupled with alcohol abuse) for years, I checked out of my marriage a few years ago. I allowed fear...
    dayflight dayflight 31-35 9 Responses Jul 15

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    Denial.... I haven't accepted his decision to end things. How could he? Where the heck did he find the strength? Why would he end it when the sex was so damn amazing? I...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 6 Responses Jul 4

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    I had an affair with someone that I normally would never have even dated, let alone considered sleeping with because things were so bad at home. Why did I do it? I think that...
    Islndgirl Islndgirl 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 28

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    I had an affair with a random woman called Gill. It was excellent while it lasted but I went back to my wife. She let me come back but she does not trust me. I felt that I would...
    ericthebee ericthebee 36-40, M 5 Responses Jul 7

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