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I Had An Online "Affair"

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    If you are no longer in an online affair how

    did it end? Did you go back to your spouse? Did it fizzle out? Did you, or the other person, meet someone in the "real world" (for lack of a better term) and end the online affair? Did the other person just disappear one day?
    LifeinWoodinville LifeinWoodinville 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    Has anyone met their online affair?

    I'm just curious to know how it went. Did the person meet your expectations? How and where did you meet? What happened after you met, did it change things? Do you plan to meet again?
    LifeinWoodinville LifeinWoodinville 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    Does It Make Me A Bad Person?

    So i have been with my bf for over a year.  i was recently on a chat site and met this guy.  We have talked twice.  the first time we jsut got to kno eachother as well as exchanged pics, but it was pretty clear we were into eachother. btw i have never ever met anyone online...
    purple613 purple613 18-21, F 3 Responses May 17, 2011

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    After 13 Years Of Marriage Out Of The Blue My Wife Decides She Wants A Separation Later Found Out She Was Having An Affair With A 22-year-old Saudi Arabian From Idaho State After A Wild Weekend She Gets With Another 25-year-old Man The Next Day

    After 13 years of wonderful marriage things started to decline within the past couple of years that we had spent in our marriage right around the 11th year thing started decline due to her health issues. She experienced pericarditis and had to take steroids to cure the problem...
    Bruins94 Bruins94 31-35 3 Responses Sep 10, 2012

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    He is the one who wanted

    for us to talk after the holidays. Things had been going downhill for awhile. He possessed this weird jealousy of my guy friend (who is gay by the way), by giving him the introvert's stare of death one time and trying to run over him with his car in the parking lot another time...
    MyBet MyBet 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2014

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    You came into my life.

    I loved you there. It was almost like my life had a tiny slit that you just perfectly slipped through. And you fit so perfectly, so beautifully. And even though I could only communicate with you through text messages and phone calls, I felt like I had you right beside me the...
    carterv carterv 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2013

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    ...What Happens Now?

    We had met in a forum for avid readers, his nickname had caught my attention, it was funny and honest also we had most of the same books in our list. One joke lent to another, a question, a comment and soon enough we were adding each other to chat. That afternoon the conversation...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F 5 Responses May 8, 2013

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    The hardest thing about deleting your emails

    and photos isn't hitting delete,,,,it's clicking on the empty trash button.
    sHESbrOKenNow sHESbrOKenNow 51-55, F 2 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    I've had several and I miss

    that emotional attachment with a woman. wild like to find that again with someone.
    txsnowcat txsnowcat 46-50, M Nov 27, 2014

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    The Book Connection

    In the early stage of our relationship our conversations were very shy and trivial. I used to ask him, what's on your playlist? and the he would produce a detailed list of the songs and that made me smile, because his songs were my songs. One day he asked: What's on you...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F 1 Response May 5, 2013

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    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 26, 2014

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    Present Tense-i Am Having An Online Affair

    This website has brought me so much I could never have expected. I joined because I am in a failing marriage. All things have been tried and we cannot make it work. Others, both men and women, have shared similar stories to mine and I have formed many bonds with them. I am...
    someonetohold someonetohold 36-40, F 8 Responses Dec 22, 2012

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    Day After Syndrome

    Going back to our real lives proved to be hard for both of us.That day, on his birthday came a point were we had to go back, for it was noon, that was one of those rare days he didn't have to go back right away because he had the house to himself. He would pack and clean and then...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 1, 2013

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    This kind of boring and It was a long time ago,

    in the infancy of the Internet. I met Melanie in a Prodigy chat room for depression. There was instant connection, but she was 11 years older than me. We were both pretty sick people but we helped one another immensely. We both wanted more, but I was living in Hawaii at the...
    ProgressNotPerfection ProgressNotPerfection 41-45, M Mar 4, 2014

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    Online Affair With A Married Man

    The first time we actually spoke on the phone and heard each other's voice, was one day after my 18th birthday. Little did I know that a month later, it would all be over. It all started in the summer of 2010. We began chatting online and at first, it was innocent. We...
    collegenerd collegenerd 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2012

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    I Am A Married Woman Having An Online Emotional Affair...

    I am married to my best friend. We are actually really happy, he fully trusts me and really shouldn't. I feel horrible but ive been having an online affair for the past 3 years and finally getting ready to end it. My Online guy doesn't have a clue im married. My husband works a...
    ktowner ktowner 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    Is This Really An Affair

    I few months ago I met a man online. We were just friends at first. I'm in a sexless marriage and he's in a long term relationship. We talked, flirted for a while. I genuinely care for him. Then we started talking on the phone. That led to phone sex. I've not had this much sex in...
    squintycath squintycath 41-45, F 12 Responses Jul 9, 2013

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    Wanting More

    How Simple flirting in a on line game chat could turn into such an awesome experience.  One Night after a long day at work and a  huge fight with my husband, I went to my favorite on line game for some stress relief.   Seeing as how I had been playing this...
    MKsweetness MKsweetness 41-45, F 8 Responses Dec 10, 2009

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    I Don't Want It To End!

    I have been involved in an online affair for 7 months now. I was looking for someone to talk to and just having fun. I had no expectations other than making friends and having fun. In the beginning there was a lot of flirting and we saw pictures showing the better sides of each...
    MrsSwan MrsSwan 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    Cyber Affair

    I am having a cyber affair. I started it just for fun. Part immature tantrum. My husband went out of town and didn't want to sex chat over the phone so I decided to find someone who did. (He's a little uptight) Unfortunately, I am starting to really like this guy and look...
    hsweets42 hsweets42 41-45, F 26 Responses Jan 9, 2008

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    It Happened...

    I was not looking to start an affair. I was looking for someone to talk to. Someone to give me advice with my marraige. How things ended up into the most extreme emotional affair I had ever had is still beyond me. I fell in love. I wanted him in every way. I would think of...
    TessaMarie TessaMarie 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 13, 2010

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    The main this I miss about my online fling is

    the anticipation and thrill of seeing an email from him in my inbox. For a very long time after it ended I checked everyday and throughout the day hoping I'd hear from him. When I finally did over a year later, it was too late there was no going back. It was well and truly...
    emptynow emptynow 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    Online Affairs

    I'm not sure what the author of this poem intended when she wrote the poem, but it struck me as a perfect poem about how an online affair feels...Origins & History of Consciousness by Adrienne Rich "It's simple to wake from sleep with a stranger,dress, go out, drink coffee...
    autumnrocks123 autumnrocks123 26-30 2 Responses Nov 19, 2009

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    Between my very busy schedules at work

    and home, and texting with him also, I was feeling kinda overwhelmed and needed some break. I was trying to say that to him last week, but every time I tried, some other discussions came up and we never talked about that. When he texted me on Friday and said "it's over" I was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 28, 2014

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    WARNING: Using Spyware to Hack a Spouse Or Partners E-mail Could Get You Jail Time Or You Could Be Sued!

     WARNING: USING SPYWARE TO HACK A SPOUSE OR PARTNERS E-MAIL COULD GET YOU JAIL TIME OR YOU COULD BE SUED!     Before Using Spyware or Key Logging Programs to catch a spouse or partner that you suspect is having an affair: Make Sure You Know What Your Liability...
    TeslasTemptress TeslasTemptress 46-50, F 11 Responses Sep 9, 2009

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    There's Always A Catch.

    So, what happened next was that we continued chatting like we had been doing for a couple of weeks. Now he could be completely honest with me and I liked him even more... Turns out that he as a great daddy, that most days he was in charge of his 2 kids after work, bathe them...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F 2 Responses May 14, 2013

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    My Affair With A Man In The Hindu Kush Mountains Of Afghanistan

    A simple introduction to the world-wide web, the complete innocence of the possible vulnerabilities I was an accident waiting for a happening. Who could possibly have thought playing a game would or could lead to the most erotic on-line affair, heartbreak, depression, coffee and...
    fromkabulwithlust fromkabulwithlust 46-50 Apr 13, 2013

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    About a year ago I began an emotional affair

    with someone I met on line. We actually met once and confirmed our feelings were real - or so I thought at the time. As months passed, I started to question the validity of my feelings for him and his for me. I wondered if it was more about filling an emotional void in each...
    sHESbrOKenNow sHESbrOKenNow 51-55, F 3 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    Confused

    I've been having an online affair with a married man for 6 months now. It started out as talking ( I guess they all do). It has progressed to something more. We have tried to break it off several times. Twice before we got caught and they last about 2 days each. Now his wife...
    Epiclovers Epiclovers 41-45 4 Responses Dec 31, 2012

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    Butterflies

    It has been 3 years since the first time I saw him... That day was a Friday and what -in the place I live in- is called a "puente" bridge in Spanish meaning that sometimes a holiday will fall on a Thursday and then you get that Friday off. Luckily my workaholic husband did not...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F May 28, 2013

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    Long Distance Love...

    I joined a discussion forum in 2006 and met loads of great people. They were from all walks of life, but we all had similar interests. One woman especially I realised was special, and we started emailing and messaging off-forum regularly. After a few months, I realised I was...
    gabryel243 gabryel243 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 29, 2013

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    We Loved Each Other..We Love Each Other...But I Ended My Online Affair Last Night.

    ....it hurts, I won't lie. We met online two years ago and had an instant bond after the first time we spoke. We met on a game site where we could "marry"..and we did..we shared many good things, and also many hardships..we supported each other through some very tough real life...
    Erzulia Erzulia 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    adeleccaa adeleccaa 26-30, F Dec 21, 2014

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    Willing To Try An Online Affair

    So after a few years of marriage, I am looking elsewhere to chat and flirt online. I live in Australia and am certainly not a bogan etc. However I just love that thrill of chatting to someone online where you share stories and saucy details. If you are female and want to have...
    funguy1977 funguy1977 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2012

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    The Way I Am With You

    I had spilled the beans... big time. After this I did not know if I would ever talk to him again. How could I be so stupid? How could I have fallen for a married man who was just looking to fill a void? and most important ... Why did I have to tell him? Why couldn't just love him...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2013

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    Sexier Than I Could Have Imagined.....

    So.... I got an anonymous E-mail about a week ago from someone who says he used to work with me. He just said he has seen me around town lately and thinks I'm sexy. I thanked him and we got to chatting.... at first it was just small talk but within days it turned into some very...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 4, 2012

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    carry11 carry11 26-30, F Dec 22, 2014

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    So What Precisely Is Defined As An Affair.

    There is a man that my husband works with, and when we met things just clicked. Do you know what I mean? We started talking via XBOX live and over yahoo messenger. Yes, we have talked about sexual stuff, traded pictures, etc but haven't done much else with it. We talk about...
    almostenchanted almostenchanted 22-25 6 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    id like to have one!.

    although without any physical contact,i dont think it is an affair. anyway any women want to chat foick me a msg.
    anarchdote anarchdote 26-30, M Aug 18, 2014

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    I am married and started to talk to a man miles

    of miles away from me. It started off normal and things got intense.. Exchange pictures and even phone calls. It is hard since I am married at the moment. Not happy at home, and I guess trying to find a gateway, the emotional Attachment I have with this guy is amazing. I know it...
    Aureus1 Aureus1 26-30, F 14 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    Fondness and Love Through Words

    A few years ago, when I began feeling very lonely and alone within my marriage, I began looking for someone to talk to. Just someone to email back and forth on a daily basis. Someone to vent to, someone to "lean on", maybe even someone to flirt with if we got that comfortable...
    silentwriter180 silentwriter180 46-50, F 19 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    I had an online affair with someone I met

    through Craigslist. It lasted about two years. I eventually learned who she was. We met although it didn't go anywhere physically. I'm sometimes sad that she left but also grateful for that time we had together. She really helped me become a better person.
    mcCoopDiddy mcCoopDiddy 31-35, M Dec 29, 2013

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    I am still hurting, i need to get this out.

    It happened before I realized it was happening. We were both 'spoken for' and I shared some really personal things with him. He was careless and our affair was discovered on his end. I will probably always 'love' him, i think of him constantly, yet my heart truly does belong to...
    confused623 confused623 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    I've had some with girls

    before I like it alot. If you have snapchat and wanna get naughty add me. Der_stahlhelm GIRLS ONLY
    Sirplanck Sirplanck 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 26, 2014

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    Thank you friend for standing by my side

    when times get hard. Thank you for making me laugh when I didn't even want to smile. and you know who you are.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 1, 2014

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    I'm currently in the middle of an affair.... This has probably been the most painful experience of my life. I say that very aware of how painful life can been, at a young age I've...
    lit4love lit4love 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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