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I Had An Online "Affair"

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    Sammy7000 Is One Sick Man! Watch Out! - So Sammy7000 is a member on here that chooses to go in to forums where people are writing their personal stories, seeking comfort from...
    brookeP21 brookeP21 26-30, F Feb 13, 2013

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    Cyber Affair - I am having a cyber affair. I started it just for fun. Part immature tantrum. My husband went out of town and didn't want to sex chat over the phone so I decided to...
    hsweets42 hsweets42 41-45, F 27 Responses Jan 9, 2008

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    I am the one who unfriended and blocked him on Facebook. He is the one who wanted for us to talk after the holidays. Things had been going downhill for awhile. He possessed this...
    MyBet MyBet 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    My Online Affair Is Over.. Now What? - The last few months I have been having a very emotionally attached "online" affair. We have spent hours a day communicating via e-mail and...
    livingalieforyou livingalieforyou 26-30 7 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    One Of The Biggest Regrets Of My Life - I hurt two amazing women and yet they both forgave me. I had told the person it was with that I was involved and wasn't going to leave her...
    Kris99 Kris99 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 12, 2010

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    I Am Having The Most Incredible Experience With A Guy On Facebook - It started innocently enoughIn fact it's continuing innocently enough. It is the sweetest most incredible...
    koosswanepoel koosswanepoel 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    My Affair With A Man In The Hindu Kush Mountains Of Afghanistan - A simple introduction to the world-wide web, the complete innocence of the possible vulnerabilities I was an...
    fromkabulwithlust fromkabulwithlust 46-50 Apr 13, 2013

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    After 13 Years Of Marriage Out Of The Blue My Wife Decides She Wants A Separation Later Found Out She Was Having An Affair With A 22-year-old Saudi Arabian From Idaho State After A...
    Bruins94 Bruins94 31-35 3 Responses Sep 10, 2012

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    Having An Online Affair - I met this man over a month ago, not intentionally, but through an online interest group that we both share. He messaged me a short hello due to shared...
    8 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    The One That Got Away - it started out as curiosity, and the saying is right "curiosity killed that cat, but cats have 9 lives , so im down to 8 then lol. started as friends online...
    heresjohnnyalso heresjohnnyalso 56-60, M Feb 9, 2013

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    Online Affairs - I'm not sure what the author of this poem intended when she wrote the poem, but it struck me as a perfect poem about how an online affair feels...Origins & History...
    autumnrocks123 autumnrocks123 26-30 2 Responses Nov 19, 2009

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    WARNING: Using Spyware to Hack a Spouse Or Partners E-mail Could Get You Jail Time Or You Could Be Sued! -  WARNING: USING SPYWARE TO HACK A SPOUSE OR PARTNERS E-MAIL COULD...
    TeslasTemptress TeslasTemptress 46-50, F 8 Responses Sep 9, 2009

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    I thought our online affair would lead to a real life relationship. I find it hard to talk to him, now that I know I can never have him as my rl husband. I never would have met him...
    caddriss caddriss 31-35, F 6 Responses Feb 26

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    I am still hurting, i need to get this out. It happened before I realized it was happening. We were both 'spoken for' and I shared some really personal things with him. He was...
    confused623 confused623 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 23

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    There's Always A Catch. - So, what happened next was that we continued chatting like we had been doing for a couple of weeks. Now he could be completely honest with me and I liked...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F 2 Responses May 14, 2013

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    I Am A Married Woman Having An Online Emotional Affair... - I am married to my best friend. We are actually really happy, he fully trusts me and really shouldn't. I feel horrible...
    ktowner ktowner 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    The hardest thing about deleting your emails and photos isn't hitting delete,,,,it's clicking on the empty trash button.
    sHESbrOKenNow sHESbrOKenNow 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 13

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    Butterflies - It has been 3 years since the first time I saw him... That day was a Friday and what -in the place I live in- is called a "puente" bridge in Spanish meaning that...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F May 28, 2013

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    Willing To Try An Online Affair - So after a few years of marriage, I am looking elsewhere to chat and flirt online. I live in Australia and am certainly not a bogan etc. However...
    funguy1977 funguy1977 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2012

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    :( - im 17 i currently have 10+ internet relationships.... :(
    xxpearlyy xxpearlyy 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    ...What Happens Now? - We had met in a forum for avid readers, his nickname had caught my attention, it was funny and honest also we had most of the same books in our list. One...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F 4 Responses May 8, 2013

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    So What Precisely Is Defined As An Affair. - There is a man that my husband works with, and when we met things just clicked. Do you know what I mean? We started talking via XBOX...
    almostenchanted almostenchanted 22-25 6 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    This kind of boring and It was a long time ago, in the infancy of the Internet. I met Melanie in a Prodigy chat room for depression. There was instant connection, but she was 11...
    ProgressNotPerfection ProgressNotPerfection 41-45, M Mar 4

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    Long Distance Love... - I joined a discussion forum in 2006 and met loads of great people. They were from all walks of life, but we all had similar interests. One woman especially...
    gabryel243 gabryel243 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 29, 2013

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    Yahoo - this lady pmed in a chat room,she said she thought we had something in common,I was marriednlonely1 and she was ********. We went to yahoo to chat started chatting daily...
    bquick bquick 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 10, 2008

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    I Met My Future Wife Online... - right here on EP...when she finds this, she will confirm that i pursued her, wooed her, swept her off her feet, then let her decide between me and...
    headstrongheart headstrongheart 56-60, M 4 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    Does It Make Me A Bad Person? - So i have been with my bf for over a year.  i was recently on a chat site and met this guy.  We have talked twice.  the first time we jsut got to...
    purple613 purple613 18-21, F 3 Responses May 17, 2011

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    We Loved Each Other..We Love Each Other...But I Ended My Online Affair Last Night. - ....it hurts, I won't lie. We met online two years ago and had an instant bond after the first...
    Erzulia Erzulia 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    I had an online "affair" with my Ep friend many moons ago. He is no longer on Ep last time I checked, his account is deleted. He was a real close friend. I started to develop...
    Deseraye1 Deseraye1 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 24

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    Sexier Than I Could Have Imagined..... - So.... I got an anonymous E-mail about a week ago from someone who says he used to work with me. He just said he has seen me around town...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 4, 2012

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    I Am Not Going to Say That I Had One, I Am In One - I am not going to say i had an on-line affair i am in it till this day, not proud of it but am in it, i wanted to say that how i...
    decivedbyhim decivedbyhim 31-35 1 Response Jun 15, 2008

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    Why Lie About This? - Ok so I have a "friend" who I chat with (never met) - we live thousands of miles away. I am married and he is involved with someone. Our relationship has...
    livingalieforyou livingalieforyou 26-30 1 Response Mar 4, 2013

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    The Book Connection - In the early stage of our relationship our conversations were very shy and trivial. I used to ask him, what's on your playlist? and the he would produce a...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F 1 Response May 5, 2013

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    Have Any Of You Met Your Online Affair - And if so please tell us .... how was it???
    JessikaJ JessikaJ 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    Online Affair With A Married Man - The first time we actually spoke on the phone and heard each other's voice, was one day after my 18th birthday. Little did I know that a month...
    collegenerd collegenerd 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2012

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    I Don't Want It To End! - I have been involved in an online affair for 7 months now. I was looking for someone to talk to and just having fun. I had no expectations other than...
    MrsSwan MrsSwan 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    The Way I Am With You - I had spilled the beans... big time. After this I did not know if I would ever talk to him again. How could I be so stupid? How could I have fallen for a...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2013

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    Present Tense-i Am Having An Online Affair - This website has brought me so much I could never have expected. I joined because I am in a failing marriage. All things have been...
    someonetohold someonetohold 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 22, 2012

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    About a year ago I began an emotional affair with someone I met on line. We actually met once and confirmed our feelings were real - or so I thought at the time. As months passed...
    sHESbrOKenNow sHESbrOKenNow 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    Currently In An Online Affair. - I have been emailing, skyping, talking to a man almost every day for 5 months. We met in a chatroom and the connextion was almost instant - it's a...
    FaithHopeandTrick FaithHopeandTrick 41-45 2 Responses Apr 12, 2013

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    Confused - I've been having an online affair with a married man for 6 months now. It started out as talking ( I guess they all do). It has progressed to something more. We have...
    Epiclovers Epiclovers 41-45 4 Responses Dec 31, 2012

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    Wanting More - How Simple flirting in a on line game chat could turn into such an awesome experience.  One Night after a long day at work and a  huge fight with my...
    MKsweetness MKsweetness 41-45, F 8 Responses Dec 10, 2009

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    Pushing DELETE button is not the hardest thing. Hardest is to push YES when asked "do you want to empty trash?"
    dalessa dalessa 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    Fondness and Love Through Words - A few years ago, when I began feeling very lonely and alone within my marriage, I began looking for someone to talk to. Just someone to email back...
    silentwriter180 silentwriter180 41-45, F 17 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    It's Been About 6 Months Now... - I met him on EP actually. There's every chance he'll see this, but i'm not sure if i care.. I happen to be ''the other woman'' in this situation...
    DanceCommander DanceCommander 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    You came into my life. I loved you there. It was almost like my life had a tiny slit that you just perfectly slipped through. And you fit so perfectly, so beautifully. And even...
    carterv carterv 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2013

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    Day After Syndrome - Going back to our real lives proved to be hard for both of us.That day, on his birthday came a point were we had to go back, for it was noon, that was one of...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 1, 2013

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