I Had An Online "Affair"

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    Thank you friend for standing by my side

    when times get hard. Thank you for making me laugh when I didn't even want to smile. and you know who you are.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 1, 2014

    We Loved Each Other..We Love Each Other...But I Ended My Online Affair Last Night.

    ....it hurts, I won't lie. We met online two years ago and had an instant bond after the first time we spoke. We met on a game site where we could "marry"..and we did..we shared many good things, and also many hardships..we supported each other through some very tough real life...
    Erzulia Erzulia
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Oct 11, 2013

    I am still hurting, i need to get this out.

    It happened before I realized it was happening. We were both 'spoken for' and I shared some really personal things with him. He was careless and our affair was discovered on his end. I will probably always 'love' him, i think of him constantly, yet my heart truly does belong to...
    confused623 confused623
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Feb 23, 2014

    id like to have one!.

    although without any physical contact,i dont think it is an affair. anyway any women want to chat foick me a msg.
    anarchdote anarchdote
    26-30, M
    Aug 18, 2014

    (I'm Dutch&) I fell in love with a married

    American man with two kids. Online. So it wasn't even a physical thing, but I can't get him out of my head. It all started on Instagram. I was looking for someone I could have sexual conversations with. Little did I know it all ended up different. He was one of the men I...
    Sleepingbeauties Sleepingbeauties
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2015

    If you are no longer in an online affair how

    did it end? Did you go back to your spouse? Did it fizzle out? Did you, or the other person, meet someone in the "real world" (for lack of a better term) and end the online affair? Did the other person just disappear one day?
    LifeinWoodinville LifeinWoodinville
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

    I Am A Married Woman Having An Online Emotional Affair...

    I am married to my best friend. We are actually really happy, he fully trusts me and really shouldn't. I feel horrible but ive been having an online affair for the past 3 years and finally getting ready to end it. My Online guy doesn't have a clue im married. My husband works a...
    ktowner ktowner
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Nov 12, 2013

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    jamiacc11 jamiacc11
    26-30, F
    Jun 15, 2015

    My husband and I got pregnant early on in our

    relationship and all sex an intimacy ended. I'd cry and tell him how ugly and unwanted I felt but it never helped. I tried working on our relationship for years. But somewhere along the line I found physical comfort with another. To avoid getting attached to anyone in particular...
    lemonish lemonish
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 23, 2015

    Wanting More

    How Simple flirting in a on line game chat could turn into such an awesome experience.  One Night after a long day at work and a  huge fight with my husband, I went to my favorite on line game for some stress relief.   Seeing as how I had been playing this...
    MKsweetness MKsweetness
    46-50, F
    8 Responses Dec 10, 2009

    This kind of boring and It was a long time ago,

    in the infancy of the Internet. I met Melanie in a Prodigy chat room for depression. There was instant connection, but she was 11 years older than me. We were both pretty sick people but we helped one another immensely. We both wanted more, but I was living in Hawaii at the...
    ProgressNotPerfection ProgressNotPerfection
    46-50, M
    Mar 4, 2014

    Between my very busy schedules at work

    and home, and texting with him also, I was feeling kinda overwhelmed and needed some break. I was trying to say that to him last week, but every time I tried, some other discussions came up and we never talked about that. When he texted me on Friday and said "it's over" I was...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2014

    I am married and started to talk to a man miles

    of miles away from me. It started off normal and things got intense.. Exchange pictures and even phone calls. It is hard since I am married at the moment. Not happy at home, and I guess trying to find a gateway, the emotional Attachment I have with this guy is amazing. I know it...
    Aureus1 Aureus1
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Dec 21, 2014

    I met someone while learning language

    and we had an online affair for about a month. Where he said I love you and had kinky chat.i decided to cut it off but couldn't so agreed to start anew as only friends without the feelings. Will it work?
    oldgal70s oldgal70s
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 31, 2015

    The main this I miss about my online fling is

    the anticipation and thrill of seeing an email from him in my inbox. For a very long time after it ended I checked everyday and throughout the day hoping I'd hear from him. When I finally did over a year later, it was too late there was no going back. It was well and truly...
    emptynow emptynow
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Jan 8, 2015

    I can see looking back over my posts how much

    I've grown since I joined EP. I see many contradictions. When I first joined here I felt broken and empty after an ended online affair. I feel a lot happier now, and I don't think my user name suits me any more because I'm not feeling empty any more. I have moved on and that...
    emptynow emptynow
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Jun 15, 2015

    You came into my life.

    I loved you there. It was almost like my life had a tiny slit that you just perfectly slipped through. And you fit so perfectly, so beautifully. And even though I could only communicate with you through text messages and phone calls, I felt like I had you right beside me the...
    carterv carterv
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 9, 2013

    I Am Having The Most Incredible Experience With A Guy On Facebook

    It started innocently enoughIn fact it's continuing innocently enough. It is the sweetest most incredible experience i have had, because of the limitations.It seems it is exactly what i needed that i didn't even know i did.For many reasons I had lost complete interest in...
    koosswanepoel koosswanepoel
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Feb 11, 2011

    So What Precisely Is Defined As An Affair.

    There is a man that my husband works with, and when we met things just clicked. Do you know what I mean? We started talking via XBOX live and over yahoo messenger. Yes, we have talked about sexual stuff, traded pictures, etc but haven't done much else with it. We talk about...
    almostenchanted almostenchanted
    5 Responses Oct 3, 2008

    I Don't Want It To End!

    I have been involved in an online affair for 7 months now. I was looking for someone to talk to and just having fun. I had no expectations other than making friends and having fun. In the beginning there was a lot of flirting and we saw pictures showing the better sides of each...
    MrsSwan MrsSwan
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jan 8, 2011

    i just ended my online affair with someone i

    met via instagram last night. i known this middle eastern young man for about 3 years. two months ago we broke it off and ive been obessed with him. i stopped myself and started to work out to forget and that helped me a lot. BUT... actually my husband found out when he looked...
    jeslonely jeslonely
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 28, 2015

    Almost 5 years ago I used to chat with a guy I

    met online. Our topic of conversation were were varied but we usually kept it very light. One day I told him I was interested in BDSM but that my current boyfriend wasn't into that. I immediately freaked out and block him... A month ago he sent me a message through another...
    PendulatingThoughts PendulatingThoughts
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    Online Affairs

    I'm not sure what the author of this poem intended when she wrote the poem, but it struck me as a perfect poem about how an online affair feels...Origins & History of Consciousness by Adrienne Rich "It's simple to wake from sleep with a stranger,dress, go out, drink coffee...
    autumnrocks123 autumnrocks123
    2 Responses Nov 19, 2009


    I've been having an online affair with a married man for 6 months now. It started out as talking ( I guess they all do). It has progressed to something more. We have tried to break it off several times. Twice before we got caught and they last about 2 days each. Now his wife...
    Epiclovers Epiclovers
    4 Responses Dec 31, 2012

    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    carry11 carry11
    26-30, F
    Dec 22, 2014

    Does It Make Me A Bad Person?

    So i have been with my bf for over a year.  i was recently on a chat site and met this guy.  We have talked twice.  the first time we jsut got to kno eachother as well as exchanged pics, but it was pretty clear we were into eachother. btw i have never ever met anyone online...
    purple613 purple613
    18-21, F
    4 Responses May 17, 2011

    I want to have an online affair with woman,

    age is not a consideration.
    Snake6969 Snake6969
    70+, M
    1 Response Dec 31, 2015

    Oh God I miss him. I

    even feel the urge to call him- but I won't.
    Sleepingbeauties Sleepingbeauties
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 7, 2015
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jul 26, 2014

    I became sick and was stuck at home.

    My wife, ever the care-giver, became more of a nanny than a wife because of my constant neediness. This caused a big rift in our relationship and, having just discovered social media at the time, I let common interests become friendships and eventually into a rather sordid on...
    SSKyleRedd SSKyleRedd
    46-50, M
    1 Response Feb 4

    I'm currently devastated.

    I'm in a crummy marriage. I met this man on Craigslist. We immediately hit it off and started taking several times a day. He is also in a difficult marriage. We wee exactly what each other needed to stay married. (Both of us are trapped in out relationships for reasons that are...
    Amlaw1975 Amlaw1975
    36-40, F
    11 Responses Oct 11, 2015

    Online Affair With A Married Man

    The first time we actually spoke on the phone and heard each other's voice, was one day after my 18th birthday. Little did I know that a month later, it would all be over. It all started in the summer of 2010. We began chatting online and at first, it was innocent. We...
    collegenerd collegenerd
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 27, 2012

    I tried to end our online affair a few times

    but each it breaks my heart to see him broken so we got back together with his assurance that he is taking good care of his wife and family and so am I. He just told me his wife knows something and she checked his phone. I am so dead.
    oldgal70s oldgal70s
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 14, 2015

    Sexier Than I Could Have Imagined.....

    So.... I got an anonymous E-mail about a week ago from someone who says he used to work with me. He just said he has seen me around town lately and thinks I'm sexy. I thanked him and we got to chatting.... at first it was just small talk but within days it turned into some very...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Oct 4, 2012

    I had an online affair with someone I met

    through Craigslist. It lasted about two years. I eventually learned who she was. We met although it didn't go anywhere physically. I'm sometimes sad that she left but also grateful for that time we had together. She really helped me become a better person.
    mcCoopDiddy mcCoopDiddy
    31-35, M
    Dec 29, 2013

    Has anyone met their online affair?

    I'm just curious to know how it went. Did the person meet your expectations? How and where did you meet? What happened after you met, did it change things? Do you plan to meet again?
    LifeinWoodinville LifeinWoodinville
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Dec 26, 2014

    Cyber Affair

    I am having a cyber affair. I started it just for fun. Part immature tantrum. My husband went out of town and didn't want to sex chat over the phone so I decided to find someone who did. (He's a little uptight) Unfortunately, I am starting to really like this guy and look...
    hsweets42 hsweets42
    41-45, F
    26 Responses Jan 9, 2008

    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    adeleccaa adeleccaa
    26-30, F
    Dec 21, 2014

    When I was in my early 20's I had joined a

    voice chat program ...this was way before facebook....one night I was on there talking n joking with a bunch of people from all over the world when this guy came on and introduced himself. He spoke with the sexist accent I had ever heard. With just a few simple words he...
    bttrflies25 bttrflies25
    1 Response Nov 7, 2015

    I've had some with girls

    before I like it alot. If you have snapchat and wanna get naughty add me. Der_stahlhelm GIRLS ONLY
    Sirplanck Sirplanck
    16-17, M
    1 Response Nov 26, 2014

    Fondness and Love Through Words

    A few years ago, when I began feeling very lonely and alone within my marriage, I began looking for someone to talk to. Just someone to email back and forth on a daily basis. Someone to vent to, someone to "lean on", maybe even someone to flirt with if we got that comfortable...
    silentwriter180 silentwriter180
    46-50, F
    17 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    I thought with EP shutting down I might as well add one of my personal experiences for a change. I had an affair with a very loving and caring man for over 2 years. It was during a...
    Sweetangel2013 Sweetangel2013
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    4 Responses Apr 21
    I never thought of it as an affair..... It started here, on EP, with a reply to her story about the Status Quo. She was involved with a man on-line, but it wasn't fulfilling, it...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Apr 20
    Well had fun rping. I will only keep in touch with the good rpers and daddy's i had ;) Everyone else it was nice talking to you.
    MiaP29 MiaP29
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    Think long and hard. Most that are thinking of having an affair only think of whether they could get away with it and how exciting it could be. Most never dream of just how...
    kpitup kpitup
    56-60, F
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    I took a stroll down memory lane. I skimmed through all the messages we've exchanged over the last several months that we've shared together here. They brought a smile to my face...
    TristeMuneca87 TristeMuneca87
    26-30, F
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    RumNraisin1978 RumNraisin1978
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    I've talked With a Guy sinds january. And last Sunday was THE first time I met HIM. But let me first give you Some backgroundinformation: he's a 1class footballplayer and is verry...
    Marleyama Marleyama
    18-21, F
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    This is my final story on EP. It's also a love letter of sorts, for Him... It's not something I ever in a millions years imagined myself doing, but it happened. Three days after...
    TheGoddessB TheGoddessB
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 19
    Hello to my dear friends. It's been awhile since I have posted and I just can't wait to tell you how happy I am now. I am over all the hurt from my past experience and have taken...
    Linley242 Linley242
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    Well, the married man whom I had sex with repeatedly had the affair. I was single at the time. He even licked my toes. ******* A!
    NurseZenLiberal NurseZenLiberal
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    Apr 18
    Some could say I'm a cliche. Just another guy that fell completely in love with a woman and ended up in an affair...one that looks like it's ending with him being left behind...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Apr 18
    I am afraid that I have been ruined forever. I have never loved anyone more. I thought he felt the same, even though he proved to me over and over again just how little I rate in...
    solost17 solost17
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 17
    I have met someone online. I think I am more into him than he is me....I know I need to just leave it be but I really like him.  It hurts to think about him not being part of...
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    I'm curious to know how many people have met on ep and had a successful relationship? tell me your stories :)
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    I really like chatting online.. you can learn so much about someone with out all the drama and stress of meeting in person. I am more open online
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