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I Had An Online "Affair"

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    When I was in my early 20's I had joined a

    voice chat program ...this was way before facebook....one night I was on there talking n joking with a bunch of people from all over the world when this guy came on and introduced himself. He spoke with the sexist accent I had ever heard. With just a few simple words he...
    bttrflies25 bttrflies25 36-40 3 Responses Nov 7, 2015

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    My husband and I got pregnant early on in our

    relationship and all sex an intimacy ended. I'd cry and tell him how ugly and unwanted I felt but it never helped. I tried working on our relationship for years. But somewhere along the line I found physical comfort with another. To avoid getting attached to anyone in particular...
    lemonish lemonish 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 23, 2015

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    I Don't Want It To End!

    I have been involved in an online affair for 7 months now. I was looking for someone to talk to and just having fun. I had no expectations other than making friends and having fun. In the beginning there was a lot of flirting and we saw pictures showing the better sides of each...
    MrsSwan MrsSwan 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    Between my very busy schedules at work

    and home, and texting with him also, I was feeling kinda overwhelmed and needed some break. I was trying to say that to him last week, but every time I tried, some other discussions came up and we never talked about that. When he texted me on Friday and said "it's over" I was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 28, 2014

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    I tried to end our online affair a few times

    but each it breaks my heart to see him broken so we got back together with his assurance that he is taking good care of his wife and family and so am I. He just told me his wife knows something and she checked his phone. I am so dead.
    oldgal70s oldgal70s 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 14, 2015

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    ...What Happens Now?

    We had met in a forum for avid readers, his nickname had caught my attention, it was funny and honest also we had most of the same books in our list. One joke lent to another, a question, a comment and soon enough we were adding each other to chat. That afternoon the conversation...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F 3 Responses May 8, 2013

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    jamiacc11 jamiacc11 26-30, F Jun 15, 2015

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    So What Precisely Is Defined As An Affair.

    There is a man that my husband works with, and when we met things just clicked. Do you know what I mean? We started talking via XBOX live and over yahoo messenger. Yes, we have talked about sexual stuff, traded pictures, etc but haven't done much else with it. We talk about...
    almostenchanted almostenchanted 22-25 5 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    Cyber Affair

    I am having a cyber affair. I started it just for fun. Part immature tantrum. My husband went out of town and didn't want to sex chat over the phone so I decided to find someone who did. (He's a little uptight) Unfortunately, I am starting to really like this guy and look...
    hsweets42 hsweets42 41-45, F 26 Responses Jan 9, 2008

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    If you are no longer in an online affair how

    did it end? Did you go back to your spouse? Did it fizzle out? Did you, or the other person, meet someone in the "real world" (for lack of a better term) and end the online affair? Did the other person just disappear one day?
    LifeinWoodinville LifeinWoodinville 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    I had an online affair with someone I met

    through Craigslist. It lasted about two years. I eventually learned who she was. We met although it didn't go anywhere physically. I'm sometimes sad that she left but also grateful for that time we had together. She really helped me become a better person.
    mcCoopDiddy mcCoopDiddy 31-35, M Dec 29, 2013

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    I'm currently devastated.

    I'm in a crummy marriage. I met this man on Craigslist. We immediately hit it off and started taking several times a day. He is also in a difficult marriage. We wee exactly what each other needed to stay married. (Both of us are trapped in out relationships for reasons that are...
    Amlaw1975 Amlaw1975 36-40, F 12 Responses Oct 11, 2015

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    The main this I miss about my online fling is

    the anticipation and thrill of seeing an email from him in my inbox. For a very long time after it ended I checked everyday and throughout the day hoping I'd hear from him. When I finally did over a year later, it was too late there was no going back. It was well and truly...
    emptynow emptynow 36-40, F 9 Responses Jan 8, 2015

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    I am still hurting, i need to get this out.

    It happened before I realized it was happening. We were both 'spoken for' and I shared some really personal things with him. He was careless and our affair was discovered on his end. I will probably always 'love' him, i think of him constantly, yet my heart truly does belong to...
    confused623 confused623 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 23, 2014

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    Online Affair With A Married Man

    The first time we actually spoke on the phone and heard each other's voice, was one day after my 18th birthday. Little did I know that a month later, it would all be over. It all started in the summer of 2010. We began chatting online and at first, it was innocent. We...
    collegenerd collegenerd 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2012

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    I can see looking back over my posts how much

    I've grown since I joined EP. I see many contradictions. When I first joined here I felt broken and empty after an ended online affair. I feel a lot happier now, and I don't think my user name suits me any more because I'm not feeling empty any more. I have moved on and that...
    emptynow emptynow 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 15, 2015

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    (I'm Dutch&) I fell in love with a married

    American man with two kids. Online. So it wasn't even a physical thing, but I can't get him out of my head. It all started on Instagram. I was looking for someone I could have sexual conversations with. Little did I know it all ended up different. He was one of the men I...
    Sleepingbeauties Sleepingbeauties 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 6, 2015

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    Wanting More

    How Simple flirting in a on line game chat could turn into such an awesome experience.  One Night after a long day at work and a  huge fight with my husband, I went to my favorite on line game for some stress relief.   Seeing as how I had been playing this...
    MKsweetness MKsweetness 46-50, F 8 Responses Dec 10, 2009

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    I've had some with girls

    before I like it alot. If you have snapchat and wanna get naughty add me. Der_stahlhelm GIRLS ONLY
    Sirplanck Sirplanck 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 26, 2014

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    I am married and started to talk to a man miles

    of miles away from me. It started off normal and things got intense.. Exchange pictures and even phone calls. It is hard since I am married at the moment. Not happy at home, and I guess trying to find a gateway, the emotional Attachment I have with this guy is amazing. I know it...
    Aureus1 Aureus1 26-30, F 13 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    i just ended my online affair with someone i

    met via instagram last night. i known this middle eastern young man for about 3 years. two months ago we broke it off and ive been obessed with him. i stopped myself and started to work out to forget and that helped me a lot. BUT... actually my husband found out when he looked...
    jeslonely jeslonely 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 28, 2015

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    Sexier Than I Could Have Imagined.....

    So.... I got an anonymous E-mail about a week ago from someone who says he used to work with me. He just said he has seen me around town lately and thinks I'm sexy. I thanked him and we got to chatting.... at first it was just small talk but within days it turned into some very...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 4, 2012

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    I Am A Married Woman Having An Online Emotional Affair...

    I am married to my best friend. We are actually really happy, he fully trusts me and really shouldn't. I feel horrible but ive been having an online affair for the past 3 years and finally getting ready to end it. My Online guy doesn't have a clue im married. My husband works a...
    ktowner ktowner 31-35, F 8 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    I want to have an online affair with woman,

    age is not a consideration.
    Snake6969 Snake6969 70+, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2015

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    Fondness and Love Through Words

    A few years ago, when I began feeling very lonely and alone within my marriage, I began looking for someone to talk to. Just someone to email back and forth on a daily basis. Someone to vent to, someone to "lean on", maybe even someone to flirt with if we got that comfortable...
    silentwriter180 silentwriter180 46-50, F 19 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    Does It Make Me A Bad Person?

    So i have been with my bf for over a year.  i was recently on a chat site and met this guy.  We have talked twice.  the first time we jsut got to kno eachother as well as exchanged pics, but it was pretty clear we were into eachother. btw i have never ever met anyone online...
    purple613 purple613 18-21, F 4 Responses May 17, 2011

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    Has anyone met their online affair?

    I'm just curious to know how it went. Did the person meet your expectations? How and where did you meet? What happened after you met, did it change things? Do you plan to meet again?
    LifeinWoodinville LifeinWoodinville 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    Almost 5 years ago I used to chat with a guy I

    met online. Our topic of conversation were were varied but we usually kept it very light. One day I told him I was interested in BDSM but that my current boyfriend wasn't into that. I immediately freaked out and block him... A month ago he sent me a message through another...
    PendulatingThoughts PendulatingThoughts 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 29, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 26, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    adeleccaa adeleccaa 26-30, F Dec 21, 2014

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    id like to have one!.

    although without any physical contact,i dont think it is an affair. anyway any women want to chat foick me a msg.
    anarchdote anarchdote 26-30, M Aug 18, 2014

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    I met someone while learning language

    and we had an online affair for about a month. Where he said I love you and had kinky chat.i decided to cut it off but couldn't so agreed to start anew as only friends without the feelings. Will it work?
    oldgal70s oldgal70s 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2015

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    There's Always A Catch.

    So, what happened next was that we continued chatting like we had been doing for a couple of weeks. Now he could be completely honest with me and I liked him even more... Turns out that he as a great daddy, that most days he was in charge of his 2 kids after work, bathe them...
    thehippienerd thehippienerd 31-35, F 2 Responses May 14, 2013

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    This kind of boring and It was a long time ago,

    in the infancy of the Internet. I met Melanie in a Prodigy chat room for depression. There was instant connection, but she was 11 years older than me. We were both pretty sick people but we helped one another immensely. We both wanted more, but I was living in Hawaii at the...
    ProgressNotPerfection ProgressNotPerfection 46-50, M Mar 4, 2014

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    I became sick and was stuck at home.

    My wife, ever the care-giver, became more of a nanny than a wife because of my constant neediness. This caused a big rift in our relationship and, having just discovered social media at the time, I let common interests become friendships and eventually into a rather sordid on...
    SSKyleRedd SSKyleRedd 46-50, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    You came into my life.

    I loved you there. It was almost like my life had a tiny slit that you just perfectly slipped through. And you fit so perfectly, so beautifully. And even though I could only communicate with you through text messages and phone calls, I felt like I had you right beside me the...
    carterv carterv 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2013

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    carry11 carry11 26-30, F Dec 22, 2014

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    Oh God I miss him. I

    even feel the urge to call him- but I won't.
    Sleepingbeauties Sleepingbeauties 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2015

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    Confused

    I've been having an online affair with a married man for 6 months now. It started out as talking ( I guess they all do). It has progressed to something more. We have tried to break it off several times. Twice before we got caught and they last about 2 days each. Now his wife...
    Epiclovers Epiclovers 41-45 4 Responses Dec 31, 2012

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    ardenccaa ardenccaa 26-30, F Jan 1

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    Thank you friend for standing by my side

    when times get hard. Thank you for making me laugh when I didn't even want to smile. and you know who you are.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 1, 2014

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    Related Experiences

    I am curious for those of you that are married and have ended your affair...how is your marriage doing? Have you been able to reconnect with your spouse after the affair? If so...
    StartingOver41 StartingOver41 41-45, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I am preparing to leave my husband. Not because of the affair, but for me and to spare him pain in the future. I sign my lease this week. I'm excited and scared. Wish me luck!
    Runnergirl2015 Runnergirl2015 31-35, F 6 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    It's wasn't exactly an affair I'm single he has a girlfriend it's not gone past texting I felt like he was slow fading me out so I just stopped texting so did he has been 2 weeks...
    winterusa winterusa 36-40, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    His text, "I know we belong together, and we most certainly will never get the chance. That kills me. But i wouldn't trade the time I had with you for anything. I love you more...
    idgirl84 idgirl84 31-35, F 22 Responses