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I Had And Lost My First Love

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    I Messed Up My Relationship By Being Too Cautious.

    Girlfriend broke up with me 9 months ago (as of 5/29/12). I was best friends with the girl for 4 years before we started dating. We went out for almost 4 months. She broke up with me because she "fell out of love with me". We are still good friends. I still have strong feelings...
    H3boy H3boy 18-21, M 5 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    I made some dumbass decisions

    while we were together..So, June last year we broke up for 2 months..i didn't think he'd come back to me so I slept with my best friend.. Anyway, we got back together and we moved past it. I then got diagnosed with depression and anxiety which lead to me pushing him away and...
    sophiejade92xo sophiejade92xo 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    She Was My Everything

    What a wonderful girl she was. I seen her one day hanging around my best friend Gabe early one day at school. I immediately thought to myself she was the one. She has sandy blonde hair in the sun and brown hair in the shade. Wonderful big brown eyes and the cutest little dimple...
    Daphney1001 Daphney1001 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    I Was Too Young

    I fell in love with my ex in 2007. We dated for 3 years but I feel we we're so serious at a young age that we didn't get along. There was continuous fighting everyday. I broke up with him in 2010 and started a relationship a few months shortly after, I was rebounding I soon...
    Torontoforever Torontoforever 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2013

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    He walked into the room and my heart immediately started beating quickly. I knew of him and his reputation, but it was the first time I ever seen him up close. That all sounds...
    Skinnylove29 Skinnylove29 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    The day I found out my first love died, I didn't believe it. We were both still in high school, though he wasn't attending anymore, and it just seemed so unreal to me. It took me a...
    MichiganGirl420 MichiganGirl420 18-21, F Mar 25

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    I lost my first love, it has been a crazy road for the first 2 months. Once my head finally accepts what is going on i am excited for what the future may bring, and i cannot wait...
    imlostforever313 imlostforever313 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    When i was 15 i met the love of my life, my best friend. He was 18 at the moment. typical high school experience he was the "bad" boy skater guy who was popular among the ladies...
    stepjosh stepjosh 18-21, F Mar 21

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    I learned that my first "love" really wasn't my first love at all. Our relationship was a lost cause that ended with heartbreak. I don't blame him for hurting me. I only blame...
    emmerrzz emmerrzz 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I met my first true love in my second year of university. We dated for two years. He was wonderful, kind and thoughtful. I broke up with him, breaking his heart and mine in the...
    garcia78 garcia78 31-35 Mar 20

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    I am glad I found this group because I can not tell anyone else this story. 20 years ago when we were 16 my first love and I fell deeply in love. We dated 3 years steady and...
    upsidedownandconfused upsidedownandconfused 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Strange as it might sound because I’m married with a child but I don’t think I’ve ever truly gotten over my first love. I guess I’m thinking about it more now as I’m not...
    northwestjames northwestjames 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I wrote a story earlier bout my first love but to refresh your memory or incase your too lazy to read the other one lol i went with my fam to mexico for a week and i saw him and we...
    JenniferArvayo JenniferArvayo 18-21, F Mar 31

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    I met my first love 1993 we worked together I was only 17 he was 22. We flirted around each other for a year he was a Muslim practising so I did not think I had a chance. I told...
    natty999 natty999 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    My first love was the boy across the street . We grew up together . We played together , went to school together , attend the same church , and eventually we fell for each other...
    kstu1 kstu1 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    The search I am looking for my first love! It’s been seven years and I can’t find him! I can’t find him on Facebook nor anything I was ten years old when I met him and he...
    JenniferArvayo JenniferArvayo 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Well, i had my first kiss when i was 1 or 2. I was in preschool. It was a Mary Poppins preschoolʕ·ᴥ· ʔIt was nice some days. But anyway, it was 'play outside time' and i...
    Yogurtree Yogurtree 18-21, F Apr 8

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    Yeah I remember my first love she wasn't into me, she preferred sporty dudes to arty movie nerds. Her name was Brooke she had a beautiful face and she still looks beautiful...
    AnonymousPet AnonymousPet 31-35, M Mar 21

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    It's hard for me to say this, but I thought it would be germane to the meaning of my life to this point. I named my daughter after the girl that I first loved, the white tiger as...
    warriormusician warriormusician 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    My first kiss was so much fun and with the best person. I had my first kiss when I was 22 so I was also overthinking it. I didn't know where to really put my lips. It was not his...
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I miss my first love. Even if was four years ago. January 4, 2010... The day you asked me out. I still think about you everyday. I think about our relationship we had. I think...
    Ipromiseyou Ipromiseyou 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    Okay. This is going to be a long post. I'm suffering and still grieving 2 months on. Everyone has relationship problems right? Everyone has times in their relationship where they...
    sophiejade92xo sophiejade92xo 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I was fifteen when I started dating this boy, we were together for two years and both being in high school it was rough, so many people hated us together but we never let it get...
    skindeeep skindeeep 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I had my first kiss with a really good friend, and we've talked a lot since then, but now he's kinda icing me out and I don't know what's wrong...
    sometimesquiet sometimesquiet 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    My first love was in Middle school. He was very a nice person and we started dated in 6th grade till 7th grade and we broke up after because it didn't work out that he changed a...
    AllyMai AllyMai 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    That sometimes your first love ends up being the one you didn't realise was your first love at the time and you wasted so much time and opportunity and now you know you will never...
    lilykyra lilykyra 26-30, F Mar 22

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    They always say you never stop loving your first true love. But it that really realistic? I'm not sure. But my first love and I broke up two years ago and I still occasionally...
    Jessica0906 Jessica0906 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    My first love was in year 9 at one time because it was unisex toilets we would sneek to the toilets go in one of the cubicles and make out
    challinor999 challinor999 16-17, M Mar 21

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    Am I too young to say that my first love might have been when I was in 7th grade. I'm not even sure but it's just that ever since then I can't help but compare other guys to him...
    sweetchase12 sweetchase12 16-17, F Mar 21

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    I never expect it. I've ended with my first love. I'ts been a coincidence since we met again after 15 years since my senior years at high school, i never though that we could be...
    jeanreytana jeanreytana 36-40, F Mar 24

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    From my first love. I realized you don't have to be happy with how someone makes you feel, Being in love with someone who won't compromise , is a living hell. I wish the person...
    bgupta766 bgupta766 31-35, M Mar 25

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    My first love was my boyfriend in college. He married my roommate.
    missquietriot missquietriot 26-30, F Mar 26

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    It's been 9 years and I still think about my first love, wonder if he thinks about me? I feel guilty for it, I'm married n hv kids now.
    DancingRoses DancingRoses 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I've found my first love and I'm happy because I never thought I would be able to have a relationship.
    Maxy112123235 Maxy112123235 16-17, M Apr 1

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    "I Miss My First Love" .... Because I am a dumbass ...
    Nottobeohsoblunt Nottobeohsoblunt 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I was depressed all the time a mother of toe and one on the way I felt lost I had a home And husband a car a boat a family.. No reason I know now to be depressed I lost my 7 month...
    laceykight laceykight 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I first met Brad when I was 11 & he was 13. His family came to vacation during 4th of July at the beach where I lived. After several summers & hundreds of letters (way before the...
    mermaid27 mermaid27 36-40 Apr 3

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    so after all of the horrible things that I have gone through in my life dating wise.... Rape, cheating, abuse,lies.... I have had an issue with putting up walls to keep people from...
    monstergirl1619 monstergirl1619 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    i was twelve, and was coming up to my first year in high school. i was absolutely dreading my first day at a new school, because i had never been the new girl before. the only...
    eviemay6 eviemay6 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I met a girl 2-3 years ago in mcdonalds she was beautiful, a real piece of work. The most amazing young woman i've ever seen. Snake-bite piercings jet black hair comepletely...
    Coolbeans10 Coolbeans10 16-17, M Mar 24

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    Have you ever lost someone you love and wanted one more conversation, one more chance to make up for the time when you thought they would be here forever? If so, then you know you...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I met Ben in December 2012 and we both instantly liked each other, things I think went way to fast and we jumped into a relationship to quick. A lot of my friends and family died...
    meme2183 meme2183 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    My best friends sister committed suicide about three years ago... I can still remember the day it happened. It was June 21. We had just gotten done with our play practice and I...
    sarahjade123 sarahjade123 13-15, F Mar 26

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    How do do you do to forget someone you truly loved and you still love. I joined this forum and I am truly scared I won't be able to move on... It's been a while and I cannot see...
    leakcim leakcim 26-30, M 4 Responses Apr 6

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    I was 15. He was 16. I was a freshman and he was a sophomore. We met on our bus. I had never had a boyfriend before him and was literally desperate to find someone, anyone to fill...
    DuracellAA DuracellAA 18-21, F Apr 8

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    Where do I even begin? Well, back in early high school we were and on again off again kind of couple. He cheated on me all the time, which is why we kept breaking up. Then we kind...
    92youngforever 92youngforever 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I first met her when I moved primary school we got on quite well at first I was not attracted to her but one day that all changed I don't know how it happened I just got this...
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M Apr 9

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    I got a text message from a friend telling me that one of my best friends had killed himself. I was in total denial due to him not showing any signs or symptoms of being unhappy...
    kiara95 kiara95 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    And i'm not joking. I don't know how long i was in love with him. He was my (male) "best friend" before i confessed to him. And he was the first guy who looked me in the eyes and...
    kla4 kla4 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    It was on my birthday this year (12th April 2014). I had my best friend over and also my boyfriend. I was feeling quite tired, so I put a movie on for my boyfriend and bestie to...
    imirox1999 imirox1999 16-17, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Three people now actually.... When i was 7, i lost my Grampy to suicide. He hung himself while intoxicated... November of 2011, My eldest brother, James, ended his life with me...
    TeganLynne TeganLynne 26-30, F 4 days ago

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