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I Had Sort of a Fling

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    I was thinking about this for nights on end, lost some sleep over it. I had come up with an idea of just sending a letter to this person since all I had was his address. I composed the letter and wrote it hastily before my German class. I figured I could drop it in the mailbox on...
    cookies1970 cookies1970 36-40, F Apr 5, 2007

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