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I Had to Bury My 18 Year Old Step-son

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    My Step-son Was Killed - My step-son was shot and killed while attending his friends 18th birthday party. I was out of town with a new job when this happened. I was not there when...
    Sorriso Sorriso 46-50, M 5 Responses Jun 7, 2007

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    This is so true bout me and this song "All I Do Is Win" (feat. Ludacris, Snoop Dogg, Rick Ross & T-Pain) [T-Pain - Chorus] All I Do is win win win no matter what got money on...
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    I was depressed all the time a mother of toe and one on the way I felt lost I had a home And husband a car a boat a family.. No reason I know now to be depressed I lost my 7 month...
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    I was depressed all the time a mother of toe and one on the way I felt lost I had a home And husband a car a boat a family.. No reason I know now to be depressed I lost my 7 month...
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    I was depressed all the time a mother of toe and one on the way I felt lost I had a home And husband a car a boat a family.. No reason I know now to be depressed I lost my 7 month...
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    I had this dream. Where I wanted the feeling of a man 'loving me and keeping me safe within his heart' .... Since no one was in that place yet, I knew daddy still felt like that...
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    Hi all, apologies for my bad English, it's been a while. So my story is a bit different than most love affairs with married men here. I am now 30 years old. About 6 months ago I...
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    How is it possible to be surrounded by people every day and yet feel so lonely? I got married 6 years ago and as scary and sad as it is, when I look honestly deep within myself, I...
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    PAIN! You want to talk about pain! I was not a perfect Mom but I did the best I could, I gave hugs and kisses every night, I helped with home work and planned birthday parties! I...
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    Many, many years ago, we were walking along the banks of the Rhine at Speyer with our son, certainly less than four years old at the time. On seeing an old couple he came out with...
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    I have one son who had just turned a year old. I found out I was pregnant a day before his first birthday. I lost that baby on my husbands birthday.
    mbcakes mbcakes 22-25, F a week ago

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    This is one of the most frustrating experiences I have ever written. There's just so many songs that I like but I'll narrow it down to 50 for ya :) 1. Bleeding Love - Leona Lewis...
    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My husband is 20 years older than me. It was an arranged marriage between him and my father. I was married to him when I turned 18. I wasn't allowed to date anyone when I was a...
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    Carmen45 Carmen45 18-21, F Mar 28

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    My first post! I'm 56 years old. Kids are all grown, moved away! I just keep thinking about that song "Is that all there is ". Just me and the wife now going through the motions.
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    When you're under pressure, gotta step it up a notch. They're coming to test ya. ..:: Song: Jump ..:: Artist: Lil Josh ..:: Album: Jump In! [Disney movie soundtrack]
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