I Hate Abusers

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 84 People

    Cowards

    That's all you are if you can't break the cycle. Don't effing talk to me about how hard it is, I have lived it and I have stopped the endless cycle that was in my life.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 12, 2011

    There are people who might hurt you physically.

    the pain lasts not long unless it's severe. you may overcome it, forgive and even forget. But, if a person you trusted just use you in every possible way just because they find you easy to manipulate and then blame you for everything, then that's probably the worst thing you can...
    tolerantmongoose tolerantmongoose
    41-45, T
    Dec 24, 2015

    Being With An Abuser

    I have been living with an abuser for 6 years now. I have no idea why I put up with for so long, He use to love me and I use to love him back. Everything was going great. Then he starts doubting me, I tried my best to convince him that I was only his but his anger was getting...
    ekpari ekpari
    22-25
    1 Response Jan 21, 2011

    He found my new adress

    and came to my apartment yesterday. i've been in panic
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 28, 2015

    Why Do Some People Love Abusers?

    My mom use to be physically abused by her ex husband and my 1st gf is still being emotionally abused by her current bf. My question is why do these people seem like they want to be treated right but do nothing when the chance to be treated better is in front of them? For my 1st...
    ChrisIsAwesome ChrisIsAwesome
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Mar 19, 2012

    More Than One Kind

    There are abusers who leave invisible scars. Their weapons include, but are not limited to, passive aggressiveness, unfounded accusations, empty endearments, emotional blackmail, cutting hostility. It doesn't matter how much politeness and kindness is shown these bitter souls...
    2the4winds 2the4winds
    26-30, F
    Apr 12, 2013

    Dont Like Abusive People

    my father treated me like crap i lert men yell at me and treat me like crap force themselvwes on me im afraid of men in general they scare me i actually hatre them my brother was abusive to me too and other men who beat me up in the past i did all this tooo get well i diidnt get...
    rockettette rockettette
    41-45
    1 Response Sep 3, 2012

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