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I Hate Abusers

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 89 People

    More Than One Kind

    There are abusers who leave invisible scars. Their weapons include, but are not limited to, passive aggressiveness, unfounded accusations, empty endearments, emotional blackmail, cutting hostility. It doesn't matter how much politeness and kindness is shown these bitter souls...
    2the4winds 2the4winds 26-30, F Apr 12, 2013

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    Dont Like Abusive People

    my father treated me like crap i lert men yell at me and treat me like crap force themselvwes on me im afraid of men in general they scare me i actually hatre them my brother was abusive to me too and other men who beat me up in the past i did all this tooo get well i diidnt get...
    rockettette rockettette 41-45 1 Response Sep 3, 2012

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    He found my new adress

    and came to my apartment yesterday. i've been in panic
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 28, 2015

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    There are people who might hurt you physically.

    the pain lasts not long unless it's severe. you may overcome it, forgive and even forget. But, if a person you trusted just use you in every possible way just because they find you easy to manipulate and then blame you for everything, then that's probably the worst thing you can...
    tolerantmongoose tolerantmongoose 70+, M Dec 24, 2015

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    Being With An Abuser

    I have been living with an abuser for 6 years now. I have no idea why I put up with for so long, He use to love me and I use to love him back. Everything was going great. Then he starts doubting me, I tried my best to convince him that I was only his but his anger was getting...
    ekpari ekpari 22-25 1 Response Jan 21, 2011

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    Why Do Some People Love Abusers?

    My mom use to be physically abused by her ex husband and my 1st gf is still being emotionally abused by her current bf. My question is why do these people seem like they want to be treated right but do nothing when the chance to be treated better is in front of them? For my 1st...
    ChrisIsAwesome ChrisIsAwesome 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    Cowards

    That's all you are if you can't break the cycle. Don't effing talk to me about how hard it is, I have lived it and I have stopped the endless cycle that was in my life.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 12, 2011

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    I dont want to do that. I dont care what all the other ones do. I dont feel comfortable. I have a hard time saying no because I dont want to hurt feelings or lose friendship and...
    ChelseaMonroe ChelseaMonroe 22-25, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Today I have to wash my hair. Im so upset.I hate to do it.It will take like four hours to comb, detangle and wash and condition in sections.Then I have to comb the curls out again...
    ChelseaMonroe ChelseaMonroe 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    Quite often abusers flip on you when you wont be their victim and you fight back...kick and uncaged lion *************...I dare you...
    SultrySunflower7 SultrySunflower7 41-45, F 10 hrs ago

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    ChelseaMonroe ChelseaMonroe 22-25, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I feel that most people in my life are only there due to convenience. I don't feel any "bond" or connection with even my closest friends and family anymore. I know it's my fault...
    Sparklyblueunicorns Sparklyblueunicorns 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    ForcedFloridian ForcedFloridian 61-65 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Today I almost lost my girlfriend and I never hated myself more than now. They diagnosed her with carbon monoxide poisoning. She tried to kill herself and it's my fault! I hate...
    LoloRegz LoloRegz 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I deal with a lot of self-hatred and disgust. I'm disgusted with myself for feeling awful all the time. I'm disgusted with myself for feeling broken. My life is practically perfect...
    Hush92 Hush92 18-21, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm sorry, but I need to get these feelings of resentment and hatred out of me before I end up doing something very foolish. I hate my mother. I just hate her. I cant stand to be...
    aaron812 aaron812 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I hate how men are told to not complain or man up when their girlfriend/wife does stuff that upsets them, and how sexist women call them abusers if they complain... smh
    ThrBlueDragonISuckYourCock ThrBlueDragonISuckYourCock 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    My younger brother is the most self centered pile of garbage, he thinks he has the right to take whatever he wants from whomever he pleases. I pure hate hate hate him, I have never...
    c8628 c8628 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 26

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    I hate the White racist owner of #grow40 ..he is a white man and he has been very racist towards me over the last 12 years ...I have never been troubled or attacked by an African...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    I wish, I knew of a woman who was using Mirena IUD. I have only had it for three months, and I already regret it. I am not quite sure if it has caused me to feel hornier. I hate...
    anotherday19 anotherday19 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    I really have been struggling with this lately... well more like for the past 7 or so months. I ******* hate myself, I hate that I'm useless and can't bring home any income, I hate...
    GoldenHeart69 GoldenHeart69 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    Well I have seen many psychiatrists and mental health professionals and they all said the same thing that I do not suffer from schizophrenia or any psychotic disorder ...so if...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    I love my dad but hate him. This how i was feeling not to long ago. And i figured i should share this because it could help someone right now. So when i was younger i was...
    kim654 kim654 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    I have been struggling emotionally at least the last three months ..I have been getting angry and shouting and screaming over the mistreatment of some people ..one of them is my...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    Thanks for adding me to the group ...please could somebody give me some psychic insight ..I had lots of traumas in life and I have been hated and treated disrespectfully and...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    About 5/6 years ago I moved to Bournemouth in the uk to start a new life and to get away from my unsupportive and hateful mother who refused to allow me to live with her in the...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 22

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    Why do we spend so much money on hate? There is little opposition to this in America. Quite the opposite actually, there seems to be an overwhelming amount of support for the...
    CynicalHippie CynicalHippie 18-21, M Jan 21

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    Hi It is 23:35 here in the uk ...I live alone and my family do not care for me and they do not give me any support and it has been like this since I moved to the uk ... I do not...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 21

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    Nothing makes me sadder. Animals are helpless. Animal abusers deserve to be slowly tortured to death. Rip to all the poor creatures harmed by humans.
    YoureHighness YoureHighness 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 21

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    At the moment I feel painfully traumatised and I feel deeply hated and it is hurting me so much ... I hate my mother and I won't allow her to abuse me anymore ..she never liked me...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    At the moment I feel painfully traumatised and I feel deeply hated and it is hurting me so much ... I hate my mother and I won't allow her to abuse me anymore ..she never liked me...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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