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I Hate Abusers

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    Being With An Abuser

    I have been living with an abuser for 6 years now. I have no idea why I put up with for so long, He use to love me and I use to love him back. Everything was going great. Then he starts doubting me, I tried my best to convince him that I was only his but his anger was getting...
    ekpari ekpari 22-25 1 Response Jan 21, 2011

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    Dont Like Abusive People

    my father treated me like crap i lert men yell at me and treat me like crap force themselvwes on me im afraid of men in general they scare me i actually hatre them my brother was abusive to me too and other men who beat me up in the past i did all this tooo get well i diidnt get...
    rockettette rockettette 41-45 1 Response Sep 3, 2012

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    More Than One Kind

    There are abusers who leave invisible scars. Their weapons include, but are not limited to, passive aggressiveness, unfounded accusations, empty endearments, emotional blackmail, cutting hostility. It doesn't matter how much politeness and kindness is shown these bitter souls...
    2the4winds 2the4winds 26-30, F Apr 12, 2013

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    Why Do Some People Love Abusers?

    My mom use to be physically abused by her ex husband and my 1st gf is still being emotionally abused by her current bf. My question is why do these people seem like they want to be treated right but do nothing when the chance to be treated better is in front of them? For my 1st...
    ChrisIsAwesome ChrisIsAwesome 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    Cowards

    That's all you are if you can't break the cycle. Don't effing talk to me about how hard it is, I have lived it and I have stopped the endless cycle that was in my life.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 12, 2011

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    I came to realize that im completelly alone in this world. Even online. I have noone. Noone cares for me. Ive been invinsible for all of my life. I was abused, laughed at, ignored...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35 1 Response Nov 26

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    1. People calling me babe or baby or anything like that. 2. Bully's 3. Anyone that thinks they are better than everyone else. 4. Any thing sour. 5. Animal abuser and child...
    mirajane123 mirajane123 18-21, F a week ago

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    if she thinks about me like I do her. I hate not knowing if she was as serious as she claimed to be. I hate not knowing why I continue to let these questions consume me still after...
    idleheart idleheart 31-35, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    My mother hates me. I know it. So does my sister. They don't want me to be happy. And quite honestly, I think she let me move back in with her because I had a baby. I am a single...
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I am broken, and you never even heard the pieces smash to the floor,I was once blinded, at one time you were all I seen...now I see nothing....I am dancing alone, at one point to...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 18 hrs ago

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    Dear Humans, you amazed me, you make me feel loved, you make me feel hate, you always surprised me, you make me wonder, you hurt my brain, you make me lose faith in you, you hurt...
    roxanz roxanz 22-25, M 14 hrs ago

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    I hate the fact that everything is going up (metro cards) yet we still getting paid crap and have to live pay check to Pay check. I HATE That some people who don't have degrees are...
    vnesanarti vnesanarti 22-25, F 12 hrs ago

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    When I was in 6th grade I became obsessive about a guy I had liked...he was from Pakistan... I became so obsessed that I began to bother him...he hated me for that...he wanted me...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    It just makes me feel like I said something wrong and that you hate me or are angry with me. I don't know if you are showing other people what I wrote and are laughing at it...
    MaceFaceMalone MaceFaceMalone 31-35, M 6 hrs ago

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    i think my mother hates me.. she's so mean with me and i feel like she dont want me and hates my existence ... cuz she's always happy until she see me , and nothing i do pleases...
    Rwnn Rwnn 13-15, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I HATE YOU, SUNANGEL... YOU'VE BEEN NOTHING BUT A BLIGHT AND HAVOC. YOU ARE HATED EVERYWHERE YOU GO... TODAY I SACRIFICE MY BLOOD IN THE NAME OF BEAUTY BECAUSE I AM NOT...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Feeling very suicidal and upset right now. It really is time for me to kill myself. I don't belong on earth. I'm unwanted, unloved and hated by every person on this planet. I feel...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Is it possible to hate God but love Jesus? Apparently Jesus is God but Jesus is so different from him. Jesus is a human in heaven. ( I don't understand it very much) How can it be...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I hate when that little thing pops up on my iPhone saying that you're typing and then I don't get a message from you lol
    Zac8503 Zac8503 26-30, M 5 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I hate Christmas, it just reminds me that my family disowned me, and I have no friends to spend it with.
    zoezatara zoezatara 31-35, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    As much as i hate war. I fear ww3 will be coming soon, theres a great war in every century and with russias economy the way its looking i think russia might be the one to start it...
    fAdEDNAtiVe99 fAdEDNAtiVe99 13-15, M 17 hrs ago

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    so i was this tall and skinny girl. flat chested flat butted. i kept getting told i was disgusting all my life. i kept getting made fun of. people told me i wasnt good enough and i...
    msworstlife msworstlife 18-21, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    so today is our first day of finals and i'm freaking out I HATE FINALS!
    hayhay2016 hayhay2016 16-17, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I ve never had a proper loving relationship with a man eventhough I wanted to be loved so much Due to being alone and not cared for by my parents .i had to go for a job in a hotel...
    lostsouluk lostsouluk 31-35, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    i feel like my mom is very unfair no matter how hard i try to deny it. its just the truth. i have so many evidences that she treats me unfairly compared to how she treats my sister...
    thebrokenanon thebrokenanon 13-15, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I hate Philadelphia. I've had the opportunity to meet the rudest, most uneducated, arrogant, and bitter people here in Philadelphia. Please, take into account that I have lived in...
    yuma15 yuma15 22-25, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I had this friend that I knew for 8 years! We were always together, y'know typical best friend stuff. Then on Thanksgiving day I realized maybe she wasn't a person I wanted in my...
    stef17 stef17 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    I hate that money rules everything & everyone around me ...
    DontStopBaby DontStopBaby 18-21, F 5 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Recently I've been starving myself as I'm fed up with the way I look when ever I see myself in the mirror. I just want to break down and cry every time I see a picture of myself or...
    Emptyinside111 Emptyinside111 13-15, F 10 hrs ago

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    I wish I could beat him and destroy him. I feel so much hate.
    babyle82 babyle82 31-35, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I know, I shouldn't. Everyone should love themselves. But, unfortunately, I find too many faults in myself to do so. I've been conditioned to think that being black is ugly. I...
    morekisses morekisses 13-15, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Well Hate Is A Strong Word... But I Do Dislike Them. Sometimes. Its Just That, If You Know We're Not Working, Relationship Or Friendship Wise. Then ****, Let Me Know. So That I'm...
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    time flies so fast, i hate looking at the calendar...seems there's no future, only past. Because tomorrows too quickly become yesterdays...
    Mrowenna Mrowenna 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    (Photo) Well not all Christmas lights. Just mine. I did an awesome job of putting up the usual 500 or so LED lights. I plugged them in and, wham... most of them didn't work. I mean...
    MichaelYoung MichaelYoung 41-45, M 7 hrs ago

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    I'm falling apart. I had a bad childhood which I got through. I thought I was strong. I told myself I'd never do.. it. I'm doing it... I'm so disappointed but I'm numb. I bottled...
    WeCouldBeDead WeCouldBeDead 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I have severe anemia so I get the WORST period contractions (cramps) ugh I hate you nature
    thatgirl1252001 thatgirl1252001 13-15, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I posted a very long response to a 'story' in this group, by AfroerotiK, but here I'll keep it very short. I'm all for crude expression of raw lust, even in daring to express it...
    ShirtlessPunk ShirtlessPunk 46-50, M 4 hrs ago

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    I absolutely HATE being ignored. it's so irritating! Why?! it just ruins my entire mood. Your supposed to be my best friend but when im talking to you, you wanna look the other way...
    BluntShokz21 BluntShokz21 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    And yes I think The Lord hates me. I feel like you have to be in a certain 'club' to be 'wanted' by him to fulfil something. Finished school, went to bible courses...did this did...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 hr ago

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    My hair is the WORST! It;s always frizzy and ugly. I actually wanna be another race because of they're hair. If i get a DROPLET. Yes, a DROPLET. My hair turns into an afro. I hate...
    XxDreamersxX XxDreamersxX 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 17

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    Last Year, The Beginning Of Sixth Grade, I was in my room sitting on a chair and my brother was behind me. We were just playing and pulling the chair up and down without making it...
    DarkOnTheInside13 DarkOnTheInside13 13-15, F Nov 29

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    I hate being poor... I hate it when I have to save my money for my next week allowance... I hate it when we don't have any television or dvd...I hate it when we have no money to...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    I hate how I'm not like every one I hate how I'm fat I hate how I'm not smart I hate how I don't know what to do I hate how I cut and treat people I hate how I'm not wanted...
    Alonzoisgay Alonzoisgay 13-15, M 3 Responses Dec 3

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    I hate my heart for being stubborn. I hate my mind for keeping our memories alive. I hate my eyes when they see your face. I hate my ears when they hear your name I hate my voice...
    susieibeth susieibeth 18-21, F a week ago

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    I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate myself. I hate you!!!! I hate you!!!!! I hate you!!!!
    walkinwonder walkinwonder 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    I hate it when people say: He's a nice person when u get to know him...... Haha just say he's a dickhead but but I'll get used to it I hate when people say They hate someone and...
    Arielle1justsmile Arielle1justsmile 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 19

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