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I Hate Abusers

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    Being With An Abuser

    I have been living with an abuser for 6 years now. I have no idea why I put up with for so long, He use to love me and I use to love him back. Everything was going great. Then he starts doubting me, I tried my best to convince him that I was only his but his anger was getting...
    ekpari ekpari 22-25 1 Response Jan 21, 2011

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    Dont Like Abusive People

    my father treated me like crap i lert men yell at me and treat me like crap force themselvwes on me im afraid of men in general they scare me i actually hatre them my brother was abusive to me too and other men who beat me up in the past i did all this tooo get well i diidnt get...
    rockettette rockettette 41-45 1 Response Sep 3, 2012

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    Cowards

    That's all you are if you can't break the cycle. Don't effing talk to me about how hard it is, I have lived it and I have stopped the endless cycle that was in my life.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 12, 2011

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    More Than One Kind

    There are abusers who leave invisible scars. Their weapons include, but are not limited to, passive aggressiveness, unfounded accusations, empty endearments, emotional blackmail, cutting hostility. It doesn't matter how much politeness and kindness is shown these bitter souls...
    2the4winds 2the4winds 26-30, F Apr 12, 2013

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    Why Do Some People Love Abusers?

    My mom use to be physically abused by her ex husband and my 1st gf is still being emotionally abused by her current bf. My question is why do these people seem like they want to be treated right but do nothing when the chance to be treated better is in front of them? For my 1st...
    ChrisIsAwesome ChrisIsAwesome 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    Sometimes i just want to fight. Fight to me. Fight to people. To problems. To whole world. And prove that i can. I can evrything. I can get what i want, evrything what i need. I...
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    I want to cry Not because I feel their love Not because I am so young But maybe because I simply suck I want to cry Because I find no point in life Because I learned to hate my...
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