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I Hate Abusers

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    Being With An Abuser

    I have been living with an abuser for 6 years now. I have no idea why I put up with for so long, He use to love me and I use to love him back. Everything was going great. Then he starts doubting me, I tried my best to convince him that I was only his but his anger was getting...
    ekpari ekpari 22-25 1 Response Jan 21, 2011

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    Cowards

    That's all you are if you can't break the cycle. Don't effing talk to me about how hard it is, I have lived it and I have stopped the endless cycle that was in my life.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 12, 2011

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    Dont Like Abusive People

    my father treated me like crap i lert men yell at me and treat me like crap force themselvwes on me im afraid of men in general they scare me i actually hatre them my brother was abusive to me too and other men who beat me up in the past i did all this tooo get well i diidnt get...
    rockettette rockettette 41-45 1 Response Sep 3, 2012

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    Why Do Some People Love Abusers?

    My mom use to be physically abused by her ex husband and my 1st gf is still being emotionally abused by her current bf. My question is why do these people seem like they want to be treated right but do nothing when the chance to be treated better is in front of them? For my 1st...
    ChrisIsAwesome ChrisIsAwesome 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    More Than One Kind

    There are abusers who leave invisible scars. Their weapons include, but are not limited to, passive aggressiveness, unfounded accusations, empty endearments, emotional blackmail, cutting hostility. It doesn't matter how much politeness and kindness is shown these bitter souls...
    2the4winds 2the4winds 26-30, F Apr 12, 2013

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    Please read the whole text I just hate my life it has been this way all my life. I hate how people are so mean and shallow to me they treat me like as if i am crap or something...
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    Right now, as I stand so grumpily in front of my bathroom mirror, I see nothing but worthlessness. I'm unhappy. I don't like the way I am. I hate my hair. It's not long enough. I...
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    My mom hates me , my dad hates me , my brother hates me , my best friend now hates me , i guess ill hate myself too just to be a part of the circle for once.
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    If you hate haters then you're a hater too. A lot of self-hate here.
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    I dislike talking about this sort of thing. I suppose it is because it makes me feel weak, I don't know. I have not felt right since I was really little. I have been anxious...
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    I hate my brothers immature girlfriend so much that it has now caused a hole in my own family. Let explain why: My little brother ( almost 3 years younger) has this girlfriend...
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    I hate my body. I am fat and ugly. I hate my blonde dyed hair. my mis-shaped face. my wide muscular shoulders I hate it all. Allah gave me this body, but I hate it. why couldn't I...
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    I really hope people dont think im a fake on here how would a computer be writing this you know a fake profile will have nothing on it or just send you random links to you while...
    Xxchristinx18 Xxchristinx18 18-21, F Aug 15

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