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I Hate Abusive Men

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    Heart Break

    sometimes i think tht all guys want to do is hit it and quit it y is it so hard to find a good guy now-a-days i have seen my friend suffer from heart break for a long time nd i am getting very tired of her crying over a guy i just want her to be happy nd not have to worry bout if...
    phe3000 phe3000 18-21, F Mar 2, 2012

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    I Was Abused By a Man

    For four years I was with a man that would beat on me and mentaly abuse me. People would ask me in thier "are you a total idiot!?" way why I stayed with him. The fact is I was way too young to have gotten with anyone and on top of that when you have someone threatening...
    robsangel2008 robsangel2008 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2008

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    I Hate Abuse In All Forms - Not Just From Men

    I wish it were that simple, but sadly abuse happens from both men (much of it) and women - be it emotional or physical or otherwise and this is not only reserved to people, but there are those that abuse animals as well. I cannot understand the thought process that leads to this...
    DeepForest DeepForest 46-50 Nov 3, 2010

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    Hey r. U in a abusive realasionship

    and he says ur fat well I know how u can loose a 100 Ibs dumb him and flush just like that!
    awesome101010 awesome101010 16-17, F Sep 12

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    Can't Stand Them

    To me they have no spine...no backbone...they think they better themselves by abusing women. I'm only one guy..but I'd love to go toe to toe with these jerks. See how they can handle trying to take on another man instead of hitting women!!!!  Chances are they would not be...
    weather1965 weather1965 41-45, M Aug 18, 2008

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    He Was So Wonderful At The Beginning

    Having read Unspoken, Unwritten Agreement by IronLotus and the comments to her story I knew I had to write. I need to tell all teenage girls here about what a male high-school teacher told me, a teacher who used his power to serve his best interest. I was involved with a 40...
    orangehoney orangehoney 46-50, F Mar 23, 2011

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    Bullies

    i have been in a abusive realtionship and i thought that i deserved it and that this is just the way it was but i finally learned that it doesnt have to be and i left him 18 months ago and now going through a divorce
    gypsywillow15 gypsywillow15 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2011

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    Son Of An Abused Mother!

    i am 58 years old,and it seems as if it was yesterday that my alcoholic abusive father was always beating and yelling and cursing my mom and siblings.i dont care what therapists or any one says...it will never go away,and it never stops hurting.most of myfamily members say that i...
    moffatstreetboy moffatstreetboy 56-60, M 1 Response May 16, 2011

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    The First Time He Hit Me

    i remember the first time. i was already so blinded by my innocence. he smacked me, we had been together fro six months. we were in a hotel room. he smcked me for talking to one of his friends. i told myself, "so this is it. i'm going to be that woman.":
    fallingstar7891 fallingstar7891 22-25 Aug 3, 2011

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    The Things You Take

    You don't know the depth of your damage. Not that I think you give a **** but I would love for you to know how deep the knife you wielded plunged. I have used the best glues and adhesives I know but the cracks still reappear. Just when I think your memory has gone I see it...
    awhitedot awhitedot 36-40, M 3 Responses Mar 20, 2013

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    Ms Snickers-the matriarc of our cat family.

      Her eyes, are so beautifull with their golden marble like color one has a beauty mark by it as well.  In her cat years she is 100 years old,now -meows in echos.  Only due to the fact her hearing has gone.  Her owners my sister and husband will be putting her peacefully and...
    sibyll sibyll 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 7, 2013

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    Abusive relationships arent a new thing in my

    life. However, when I found out my bestfriend was being abused, it's shocked me. At 16, this isnt something that should happen. But she told me stories of being beaten unconscious, being punched and winded, being beaten with shoes, beaten with drumsticks, and all around terrible...
    13Smiles 13Smiles 16-17, F May 27

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    "Why doesn't she just leave?

    " "Leaving an abusive relationship actually entails substantial risks for women. In fact, their risk of being killed increases by 75% when they leave." -Dr. Leelia Franck- Family Physician "Why did she get with a violent person in the first place?" "Domestic violence is...
    Bewail Bewail 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    Snug As A Bug In My Bed -behind closed doors

       At age 16,   I was sort of waking up listening to my mother yell at my dad because  had not cleaned the bathroom at ten in the morning.  With  a horrified  shock I awoke to my dad's stinging   hands slapping me and grabbing me by the throat.   I had worked till...
    sibyll sibyll 51-55, F 5 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    Not Sure What to Do

    I am scared of going to counseling with this abusive guy.  Is this something to worry about?  He has tried to discredit my friends and family already for several years.  He is depressed and sometimes angry, and only says he's getting couseling for "...
    Alpha11 Alpha11 36-40 1 Response Aug 20, 2009

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    Not Sure What to Do

    I am scared of going to counseling with this abusive guy.  Is this something to worry about?  He has tried to discredit my friends and family already for several years.  He is depressed and sometimes angry, and only says he's getting couseling for "...
    Alpha11 Alpha11 36-40 Aug 20, 2009

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    They Make Me Sick

    I can't believe how men can just hurt a women without even thinking about it. Apparently they were not brought up right. And they dont seem to understand that women do in fact have feelings. And that if we say no it probably has meaning. I also dont see how they live with...
    cidcat89 cidcat89 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2009

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    Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde

    Hi, my name is Sharon and I am 53 years old.  I married my husband 3 years ago and  we met thru aquantainces.   Seemed there was something I couldn't quite put my finger on.  His mother was rude and condescending... and jealous that her oldest son had...
    frecklefacebombshell frecklefacebombshell 51-55 4 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    Let It Go

    I met a man 6 years ago and was immediately swept off my feet.  Little did I know the nightmare that would follow.  I tried to break off the relationship several times and he kept coming back.   He left his wife (even though he told me he was divorced), we got...
    merrilar merrilar 41-45 1 Response Sep 28, 2010

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    I Hate Them!!

    abusive men are just bullies and cowards, and i have no respect for them at all!! enough said!!!
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 1 Response May 16, 2010

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    No Way Out

    Where do I begin?  5 years ago I married a man that I should have known better then to say "I do".  Thinking like most women, I thought his personalitiy "flaw" was just from his being alone.  OMG was I wrong.  The man I am with not only has character flaws...
    Sabrina56 Sabrina56 56-60, F 4 Responses May 13, 2010

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    Love Truely Is Blind...

      In 2005, I met and and fell head over heals for a blond hair, blue eyed, prince charming....or so I thought. Things moved really quickly and I ended up moving in with his family after only a few weeks of being together. You know that saying about how "love is blind"? well it's...
    honeykiss7 honeykiss7 26-30 Nov 7, 2011

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    I Think I Broke The Pattern

    when i was 14 i had a live in boyfriend, too young i know, but my mother didn't know how to raise me or my little sister. the abuse he inflicted got worse and by the time i was 16 i was depressed and suicidal and in physical pain. i have a memory of my father. he shattered her...
    moon1376 moon1376 36-40, F Apr 20, 2013

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    My Father Etc.,etc, Etc & So On

    that's all I kmew growing up. Not me I watched my father beat my mother on a regular basis. of course we rarely kept a telephone so my friday nights or whatever night he chose I was running to neighbor and or the police telephone that was on the light poll  across the...
    stilltrying77 stilltrying77 46-50, F Mar 12, 2010

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    Finally!

    It frustrates me to think about some past relationships I had where I was physically and sexually abused, and I did nothing at the time.  I kept thinking, oh, he didn't mean it, he really does love me, he's just having a bad day.  But now that i'm out and away from them...
    antisocialmuch antisocialmuch 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 26, 2009

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    I am back amongst my EP friends after another extended absence and glad to be here. I chose "I Hate The Mental Health System" as the heading of my post because I am so discouraged...
    tulsateacher tulsateacher 41-45, F Nov 29

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    My boyfriend is so insecure it's aggravating my soul. This is the same reason my last relationship ended and I don't want this one to go in the same direction.
    CR03 CR03 18-21, F Dec 3

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    My boyfriend was abusive mentally and badly physically he broke my finger and caused numerous bruises and a bashed up face. No longer with him
    Bobby2134 Bobby2134 18-21 Dec 1

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    I hate it when I receive those glaring glances from every guy and girl... I hate being mentioned frequently because of my weight, This is the way I am. I eat a lot because I was...
    meyyienne321 meyyienne321 18-21, F Dec 9

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    So I have been talking to this guy for over a year now. We were close at one point but ended up just as friends. (Never had sex, just want to put that out there) We have been...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I get really tired of ur hypocrisy I hope u will be rotten u and ur ****** goodlookin face I hope u getaway from my life, leave me and my baby go away... I dont need u u...
    snowhitelady snowhitelady 31-35, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    My dad is mentally insane and abusive. What he does is that he lies about me all the time, tells me that my dream career sucks, and tells me that I will never have that I even have...
    Kim2018 Kim2018 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    i had an uncle one,i dont really remwmber how old he was but in his 40s,he was mentally ill,hell i dont look him that way though,i loved him amd i still miss him,my cousin told.me...
    tones714677 tones714677 22-25, M 8 hrs ago

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    ~20 Years Later~ . So, that guy I dated when I was 16-17 yrs old and again when I was about 20-23 yrs old (cause I thought he might had changed during that time but didn’t...
    OlivePhire OlivePhire 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 20

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    i ******* hate my dad no one understands. i am a teenage girl. he is ******* mentally abusive. He is a clean freak, if u ever drop a piece of food or anything in the car or house...
    Lurehc Lurehc 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Before you go up and about on me for this experience posting, I am 100% Vietnamese too. Technically I'm Vietnamese-American, and yes, I'm young, about 19. What I am referring to is...
    DarkFireMoon DarkFireMoon 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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    I'm an adult female in my 30s. I moved out of my parent's house at 17. I've been married, divorced. I am a parent. I hate my parents. They are horrible people. Narcissists. My...
    h8torade h8torade 31-35, F Dec 5

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    I posted a very long response to a 'story' in this group, by AfroerotiK, but here I'll keep it very short. I'm all for crude expression of raw lust, even in daring to express it...
    ShirtlessPunk ShirtlessPunk 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    I am only afraid of angry older men. My mom's ex-boyfriend was verbally abusive and would hit things around him as he yelled. He only got physically abusive once with my mother...
    snowolf13 snowolf13 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 1

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    I've noticed his abusivness since I was 10 (which was almost eleven years ago). It's complicated though, it's on and off and I guess thats why my mother won't leave him. It's a...
    sunisburning sunisburning 18-21, F Dec 2

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    I have become quite the master at putting on a masquerade for the whole world to see. Especially those around me. I have been in a verbal and physical abusive relationship for the...
    Blackbarbie1987 Blackbarbie1987 26-30, F 37 Responses a week ago

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    It's really remarkable to find so many people who I can relate too. My mother has been emotionally, physically, and verbally abusing me since I was a small child. I don't have any...
    WeOnlyHaveNow WeOnlyHaveNow 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I need your help everyone. I know I may sound so dumb with this post but I promise you I need you guys. I've only been with this boy for 6 months. He does so much for me. When my...
    Lovelaurenx3 Lovelaurenx3 18-21, F 132 Responses Nov 23

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    I don't know why I feel like my mother never wanted me. I come from a family of 3 brothers and 1 sister. Two of my brothers and sister are from a past marriage and my mom treats...
    xolovej xolovej 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    to those of you whom this concerns, you are sheep and we are the shepherds waking you up from this daydream, we tell u that you may as well just use your life in a different way...
    kieth1994 kieth1994 18-21, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    My parents should've not let me and my nanny share the same room. I hate that I have no privacy and I have to adjust because of her. Like I cannot study or watch dramas in my room...
    Spencer024 Spencer024 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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      And I hate beach and mountains too I don't like a thing about the city, no, no And I, I, I, hate the countryside too! (definitely not my words... anyone know it? anyone...
    MrBeardtastic MrBeardtastic 31-35, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Pick Your Poison-I was born 3rd to a 20 year old mother serving in Army stationed in Germany and a university student from Tunisia father. My brother 15 months older had the same...
    Serkha Serkha 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 5

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