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I Hate Abusive Parents

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    Dear Dad

    Dear Dad, theres a little boy trapped inside that makes me cry when i look into his eye's. his dad would beat him black and blue with a baseball bat and a hammer too. his dad would hang him with a telephone cord choking him till he couldn't breathe no more. then...
    TicklishElmoBunny TicklishElmoBunny 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 16, 2012

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    Parents always gotta bring up the fact

    that you're a child. Saying "because you're a child" or "because I'm your parent" is garbage. Why is there such a big difference? We have freedom of speech but they don't let us talk. They set rules and they follow it themselves.
    HumanitysAnswer HumanitysAnswer 13-15, M Feb 24, 2014

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    I hate my parents.They're very abusive.

    I hope yall stay and read my whole story.They were always abusive since I was a young child.My brother was never abused.Always me.Say for example 5th grade,I lied about something and let's say it was not a fun experience.They both my mom and dad choked me to the point I could not...
    bgc162 bgc162 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 11, 2013

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    I think they're one of the biggest cowards on

    the face of this planet. Abusive parents abuse their children mostly because they normally want to find much more accessible, smaller and weaker human being(let alone, their own offspring) to bully and take their abusive anger out on. Once their children grows up, now all of the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 11, 2014

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    Nothing So Affects The Life Of A Child As A Parent's Unfulfilled Life.

    She denies it all. The beatings, the cuts, the verbal and mental torment. I'm 20 years old now, and she still effects me daily. I'm pretty and intelligent and a respected member of our armed forces, and because of the things she said and did to me through out my life I still can...
    samanthakait samanthakait 22-25 Jul 18, 2013

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    I don't have physically abusive parents,

    but I have emotionally abusive parents. I finally went off on them and said, "You guys don't realize how sick I get, I just suck it up and put on a pretty face because I get in trouble whenever I get sick, and it just makes me feel even more sick that my parents don't support me...
    papasshortie papasshortie 18-21, F Feb 11, 2014

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    Same Here

    i hate my mom cause she's doing same things
    mjsupport mjsupport 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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    Looking The Other Way. . .

    Anyone hates abusive parents. We've seen adults products of wrecked homes, creating delusions to themselves to act inferior and worthless.Some would take this as far as making the scapehole for acting the worst of them. If we could just be all responsible and act as adults, then...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2012

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    Terrible!

    First off, I want to say I don't have abusive parents!The reason why I liked this group is simply because I really hate abusive parents! Abuse on your children is another way of transmitting your own frustration, failure, hate, & sorrow into them.You shape them to be someone who...
    RemnantAngel RemnantAngel 18-21, F Oct 13, 2012

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    I Hate My Parents

    I am a fourteen year old kid, and my parents are both physically and verbally abusive toward me and themselves. My mother, gets drunk every night and then yells at me and occasionally hit me. My father, only aggravates her more, while justifying her actions by saying I am a...
    justaguy12345 justaguy12345 13-15 2 Responses May 30, 2012

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    This isn't my own experience it is

    both of my friends. I will call them Gabe and Sarah( they don't want me to give their real names out). The other day I was with them and I had to see their father beat them I wanted to make him stop but their mom kept threatening me so I backed down. I wish I was able to have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    These Tears I Cry

    these tear's I cry dad I try to hide and the fear inside makes my mind sad and I try to find that empty line where there's no rhyme's but it's all the time I write all kind's of thing's combined to unwind my mind while i'm also cryin cuz i'm confused I don't know why...
    TicklishElmoBunny TicklishElmoBunny 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 16, 2012

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    The basement

    I'm gonna introduce you to a cold and dark basement son so come with me downstairs and we'll have a little fun. watch your step as you go down and don't you even make a sound, while I kick you all the way to the ground, and punch your face for being loud. If I didn't have all...
    TicklishElmoBunny TicklishElmoBunny 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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    The Ducklings

    I saw six ducklings on the road. They were abandoned by their mother and terrifeid. I ran to go help them. My mom was so angry with me. She started just cursing me out and saying that no one loved me. The ducklings got seperated and ran into the bush because she scared them...
    maratila maratila 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2012

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    I Hate My Parents

    my parents usually spanked me when i was young.and now,they want me to forgive them.i just cant forget how hard my life was,and still is.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 30, 2012

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    I'm a victim of sexual abuse.

    I want to help in some way. my father is in prison for a very long time. I put a lot of thought into this and I think this could help victim's as well as other predators. I'd like to start something called the healing project. It's where victim's of sexual related assault can...
    agypsieschild agypsieschild 31-35, F Jul 29

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    I have this friend who I know is neglected.

    By the time I found out, she was 16, almost 17, so I figured she could make her own choices and figure it out for herself. I hated it, but I knew that if I got involved, it wouldn't do any good because her parents were too good at faking it. But they made my friend raise their...
    FayetheBrilliant FayetheBrilliant 16-17, F Jul 6

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    Stressed Out

    I feel like nobody in my family cares about how I feel. They treat me like a slave and think I did everything wrong. I feel like I can't get anyone to like me at school due to how my parents treat me.
    TiffanyStyles4eva TiffanyStyles4eva 18-21 1 Response May 1, 2013

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    I have emotionally abusive parents.

    My mother thinks it's okay to put me with siblings that I dislike and will bring up stuff from the stuff to provoke my anger, she comments on my physical appearance. It nuts. I have reasons to dislike my siblings; 1) they try too hard to please a mother who will stop at nothing...
    melodicsadness melodicsadness 18-21, F May 2

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    Come Here

    You hit and beat your kids, how freaking dare you lay a harmful habd in your own child you wanna mess with a reen a child or ant under age person jst stop and FREAKUN DO IT TO ME ILL STAND MORE PAIN THAN YOUR KIDS AND ILL SHOW YOU HOW MY OWN DAD LEARNED NEVER TO LAY A HAND ON ME...
    vincent100 vincent100 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I love them cause they're my parents, Although they don't know whats going on with me and whatever i'm going through but i sure as hell hate their guts so ******* much.
    hayalnaimi hayalnaimi 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    My EP friend said it was difficult for me to understand sarcasm, and that I could only think in black or white which was linked to my ADD disorder. She said, it was ok because many...
    katsuobushi katsuobushi 36-40, M 1 hr ago

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    I'm Sarah I live with my parents with my two children. Spanking is the main form of punishment here. I was raised that way now my own two are being raised that way too. My parents...
    Sarahfamily Sarahfamily 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I think the only reason I'm on here right now is because I've never talked about this out loud to anyone, and being in this type of family dynamic is isolating. I only have to...
    Summer26061997 Summer26061997 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I never wanted to move to Indiana so quickly. But my husband made the decision and I was forced here. I have been here about a year and I dread it. My mother in law is a nightmare...
    Hannahmikel Hannahmikel 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    yah, so I try my best not to be one! cuz I hate bad parents! : (
    morganza504 morganza504 36-40 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    My dad has two modes **** mode: the one he is to me Nice mode:the one he is to his girlfriend and my siblings. :(
    ReeceLG ReeceLG 18-21, M 18 hrs ago

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    There is a guy on here whose profile pic looks very similar to my father. It's not him but I had to look twice at his pic to confirm. I know it's irrational but I was filled with...
    Kingshelman Kingshelman 31-35, M 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    Hello Everyone -- I came across this site when I googled "I hate my family" so I figured I'd give it a shot to hopefully find other people who can relate. I am so sad lately...
    hifuckedupworld hifuckedupworld 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    What the hell do I do? My parents are both unreliable, and are putting me in a bad position. I lived with my father up until 8 months ago, as he was abusive, pulling me around my...
    Emigirl7 Emigirl7 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So I blocked my mother on Twitter... I'm afraid something I say on there she will twist and make me sound like a horrible person. She messaged me mad that I had blocked her... I...
    Chrissiwho1989 Chrissiwho1989 26-30 3 days ago

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    When I was three years old my parents were killed in a car accident. And I was sent to live with my aunt and uncle. My aunt and uncle loved me very much although my aunt was very...
    meneme1995 meneme1995 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Five Valid Reasons: 1: I ask for help on my homework and they turn my project into theirs and when I tell them to stop they think I am rejecting them. 2: I do something wrong...
    Anonymous12393 Anonymous12393 13-15, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It is hard to talk to my family when we are going through a tough time. They do not try to understand. They think they can relate. They do not listen. They do not comfort. They...
    Yoyoko Yoyoko 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My dad controls my life, and he enjoys it. He belittles me, insults me, makes me feel insecure about myself. He gets angry over small things and I feel like i'm always walking on...
    Mayurichi Mayurichi 13-15, T 6 days ago

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    Time for more rants about how bad my parents are woohoo. So basically my actions are with the best intentions but more often than not, my parents are able to freaking find a way to...
    Sorren Sorren 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I do hate bad parents but I hate hypocritical parents more. they say one thing but do another and then they say they want what's best for you and yet sets the wrong examples and...
    Hayden23 Hayden23 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    He's my oldest brother. I haven't spoken to him in five years. I doubt I ever will again. I'm open to giving him another chance, if he got off meth and stops drinking. I have a...
    SapphicMinion SapphicMinion 26-30, F 8 Responses Aug 22

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    Today was the first time in the last 6 months since we broke up that I saw him as ugly on the inside. I am losing the loving feelings I held for him. This is a good thing. I...
    Sunshine9001 Sunshine9001 51-55, F 4 Responses Aug 22

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    I won't understand. Why am I allowed to do nothing? Why is it that all my life I've been doing nothing? Its because of my parents. They won't let me experience instead they'd just...
    ohmysomebodyactually ohmysomebodyactually 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Right now I don't even want to call him dad I don't know? I am just sick of him, he is the reason why I even signed up for this website. 'He' does not have a job. He steals money...
    aaa12093487 aaa12093487 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    i am seriously done with my mom's b.s. she has controlled my life and took care of me for too long. i want to explore the "real world" and leave her some day, when i can move in...
    randomgirl42 randomgirl42 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    My father Me and my father have an infamously poor relationship, well from my perspective anyway. To him it's...well, I'm not sure. And so begins the conundrum--I can't get a...
    snowwhitejrm snowwhitejrm 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 20