I Hate Abusive Parents

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 502 People

    Parents always gotta bring up the fact

    that you're a child. Saying "because you're a child" or "because I'm your parent" is garbage. Why is there such a big difference? We have freedom of speech but they don't let us talk. They set rules and they follow it themselves.
    HumanitysAnswer HumanitysAnswer
    13-15, M
    Feb 24, 2014

    I think they're one of the biggest cowards on

    the face of this planet. Abusive parents abuse their children mostly because they normally want to find much more accessible, smaller and weaker human being(let alone, their own offspring) to bully and take their abusive anger out on. Once their children grows up, now all of the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 11, 2014

    Nothing So Affects The Life Of A Child As A Parent's Unfulfilled Life.

    She denies it all. The beatings, the cuts, the verbal and mental torment. I'm 20 years old now, and she still effects me daily. I'm pretty and intelligent and a respected member of our armed forces, and because of the things she said and did to me through out my life I still can...
    samanthakait samanthakait
    22-25
    Jul 18, 2013

    Stressed Out

    I feel like nobody in my family cares about how I feel. They treat me like a slave and think I did everything wrong. I feel like I can't get anyone to like me at school due to how my parents treat me.
    TiffanyStyles4eva TiffanyStyles4eva
    18-21
    1 Response May 1, 2013

    The Ducklings

    I saw six ducklings on the road. They were abandoned by their mother and terrifeid. I ran to go help them. My mom was so angry with me. She started just cursing me out and saying that no one loved me. The ducklings got seperated and ran into the bush because she scared them...
    maratila maratila
    13-15, F
    1 Response Nov 3, 2012

    I hate my parents.They're very abusive.

    I hope yall stay and read my whole story.They were always abusive since I was a young child.My brother was never abused.Always me.Say for example 5th grade,I lied about something and let's say it was not a fun experience.They both my mom and dad choked me to the point I could not...
    bgc162 bgc162
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 11, 2013

    This isn't my own experience it is

    both of my friends. I will call them Gabe and Sarah( they don't want me to give their real names out). The other day I was with them and I had to see their father beat them I wanted to make him stop but their mom kept threatening me so I backed down. I wish I was able to have...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Sep 17, 2014

    I don't have physically abusive parents,

    but I have emotionally abusive parents. I finally went off on them and said, "You guys don't realize how sick I get, I just suck it up and put on a pretty face because I get in trouble whenever I get sick, and it just makes me feel even more sick that my parents don't support me...
    papasshortie papasshortie
    18-21, F
    Feb 11, 2014

    I'm a victim of sexual abuse.

    I want to help in some way. my father is in prison for a very long time. I put a lot of thought into this and I think this could help victim's as well as other predators. I'd like to start something called the healing project. It's where victim's of sexual related assault can...
    agypsieschild agypsieschild
    31-35, F
    Jul 29, 2015

    Terrible!

    First off, I want to say I don't have abusive parents!The reason why I liked this group is simply because I really hate abusive parents! Abuse on your children is another way of transmitting your own frustration, failure, hate, & sorrow into them.You shape them to be someone who...
    RemnantAngel RemnantAngel
    18-21, F
    Oct 13, 2012

    Dear Dad

    Dear Dad, theres a little boy trapped inside that makes me cry when i look into his eye's. his dad would beat him black and blue with a baseball bat and a hammer too. his dad would hang him with a telephone cord choking him till he couldn't breathe no more. then...
    TicklishElmoBunny TicklishElmoBunny
    31-35, M
    1 Response Apr 16, 2012

    I have emotionally abusive parents.

    My mother thinks it's okay to put me with siblings that I dislike and will bring up stuff from the stuff to provoke my anger, she comments on my physical appearance. It nuts. I have reasons to dislike my siblings; 1) they try too hard to please a mother who will stop at nothing...
    melodicsadness melodicsadness
    18-21, F
    May 2, 2015

    I Hate My Parents

    my parents usually spanked me when i was young.and now,they want me to forgive them.i just cant forget how hard my life was,and still is.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jul 30, 2012

    The basement

    I'm gonna introduce you to a cold and dark basement son so come with me downstairs and we'll have a little fun. watch your step as you go down and don't you even make a sound, while I kick you all the way to the ground, and punch your face for being loud. If I didn't have all...
    TicklishElmoBunny TicklishElmoBunny
    31-35, M
    4 Responses Apr 16, 2012

    Looking The Other Way. . .

    Anyone hates abusive parents. We've seen adults products of wrecked homes, creating delusions to themselves to act inferior and worthless.Some would take this as far as making the scapehole for acting the worst of them. If we could just be all responsible and act as adults, then...
    ladyryan ladyryan
    41-45, F
    Apr 30, 2012

    I have this friend who I know is neglected.

    By the time I found out, she was 16, almost 17, so I figured she could make her own choices and figure it out for herself. I hated it, but I knew that if I got involved, it wouldn't do any good because her parents were too good at faking it. But they made my friend raise their...
    FayetheBrilliant FayetheBrilliant
    18-21, F
    Jul 6, 2015

    Come Here

    You hit and beat your kids, how freaking dare you lay a harmful habd in your own child you wanna mess with a reen a child or ant under age person jst stop and FREAKUN DO IT TO ME ILL STAND MORE PAIN THAN YOUR KIDS AND ILL SHOW YOU HOW MY OWN DAD LEARNED NEVER TO LAY A HAND ON ME...
    vincent100 vincent100
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Nov 14, 2013

    These Tears I Cry

    these tear's I cry dad I try to hide and the fear inside makes my mind sad and I try to find that empty line where there's no rhyme's but it's all the time I write all kind's of thing's combined to unwind my mind while i'm also cryin cuz i'm confused I don't know why...
    TicklishElmoBunny TicklishElmoBunny
    31-35, M
    1 Response Apr 16, 2012

    There's no such thing

    as an abusive parent "meaning" well. You're either hurting the person or you're not. Nothing more, nothing less.
    Calamityy Calamityy
    22-25, M
    Jan 29

    I Hate My Parents

    I am a fourteen year old kid, and my parents are both physically and verbally abusive toward me and themselves. My mother, gets drunk every night and then yells at me and occasionally hit me. My father, only aggravates her more, while justifying her actions by saying I am a...
    justaguy12345 justaguy12345
    13-15
    2 Responses May 30, 2012

    Same Here

    i hate my mom cause she's doing same things
    mjsupport mjsupport
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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