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I Hate Alcoholics

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 131 People

    It Was Too Late When I Realized

    I was a big time alcoholic when i was 19,even though i was not addicted. I totally took my life for granted. I lost money , friends, respect, my love ...and when i realized it was too late, i saw everything go away right in front of my eyes. and when i am back on track now. I...
    raglin raglin 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 22, 2012

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    Drinkline....

    i do not hate them completely , i have had two partners in my life who have had this problem, i do not understand it as a disease. my current partner(i will call him that to save any confusion) i still love him we are just having another break! i hate that alcoholics harm...
    psychicprayer psychicprayer 36-40 May 16, 2012

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    My Aunt Was An Alcoholic

    When I was a teenager my alcoholic aunt moved into my family home. Her drinking and her behaviour when she drank was so dreadful it made my life a misery. I lost my bedroom which I'd just had decorated to my taste, and had to share with my mum. I couldn't have friends around...
    Momamoo Momamoo 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2012

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    I Respect Alcholics, I Detest Drunks.

    I have been an alcohol free person for 15 years, before that I was a drunk, like 20% of those who frequent a bar. I resent the use of the term Alcoholic being applied to drunks. I am an alcoholic NOT a drunk so stop calling me names by inferring all alcoholics are drunks...
    artcassidy artcassidy 61-65 3 Responses Apr 14, 2012

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    I have been married to my alcoholic husband

    for 26 1/2 years. He started drinking heavy about 15 years ago. He has lost two jobs because he went to work drunk, he has driven home drunk which I find so selfish as he could kill someone. I have called the Police on him and they say he is a Professional drunk. He has...
    Sofeckintired Sofeckintired 56-60, F 1 Response Jan 19, 2014

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    I Hate Alcoholics, Like Me

    I hate alcoholics, like me , meaning I hate myself. I am 26, nearly 27 years old and have been an alcoholic for 4 years. I am not about to offer any excuses for this, there is no point, excuses are meaningless.I live with my parents. No one in my family knows about this, they all...
    lisa84uk lisa84uk 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    I Went To Visit A Friend

    And he is a raging alcoholic. Two of those giant bottles of wine in a day. Insane. When he is drunk he lies, exaggerates, and basically sounds like the guy in death of a salesman. I mean, I love him as a friend...but this is nuts. He has this super hot, smart and solid wife who...
    FilteringMachine FilteringMachine 31-35, M 6 Responses May 4, 2012

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    Can't Stand Alcoholics

    i can't stand anything about people that drink especially alcoholics. in my experience these people don't care about anything but themselves. and will not help do anything even if you begged the person to do it. they are disgusting people! but to the ones that are trying to...
    sadeyes7294 sadeyes7294 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 2, 2012

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    Sick Is As Sick Does

    Despite the prompt, "I Hate Alcoholics," I would like to offer a suggestion that may dissolve some of your anger issues. Try Al Alon. It sounds like you are the ones with the problem. If you can't accept responsibility for your own thoughts, feelings, and actions...
    writer423 writer423 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    Sick of Alcoholic Husband

    My husband of 15 years is definitely an alcoholic, he goes to work and when he gets home he has to have a drink everyday.  He will drink between 8 - 15 cans per night and if he has none he goes to his bed by 7pm.  His mood swings are like jeckyl and hyde, and that is...
    loneliness65 loneliness65 41-45, F 20 Responses Jun 28, 2009

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    Alcohol Took My Childhood

    my father was an alcoholic as a child I coudnt spent the kind of time normal childs spend with their fathers he never played with me nor help me in studies sometimes he was so much drunk that he used get violent and I had to stop him to beat my mother who is suffering from...
    hatealcohol hatealcohol 16-17, M Jun 25, 2012

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    I Dated One

    We only dated a few months; but in that time he managed to alienate all my friends, destroy my apartment (not only didn't I get back my security deposit...the damages from his drunken flopping and crashing around came to almost 4 months' rent) and say all kinds of stupid crap...
    StillMeJustDifferent StillMeJustDifferent 31-35 2 Responses May 4, 2012

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    I Drink Too...but Not Too Much!

    We all like the alcohol sent and the melting in our mouth but the thing is why wast it too much and make a habit or a bad routine!?Beer,vodka,wine,energy drink...anything! In a way it is good for celebration and getting a lil wasted!Alcoholic people should be treated in some...
    GothicFlower GothicFlower 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2011

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    Alcoholic Husband

    I cant stand my husband anymore, he drinks all our money,.then when we are broke his friends supply him. He had become abusive physical & emotional. I'm worried about money as he does not work. He wont let us leave him. My kids love him, but i fear this life isn't what i want.
    Wolfpressed Wolfpressed 31-35, F Nov 22, 2012

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    I honestly truly hate alcoholics.

    I grew up with an alcoholic dad. And all of my brothers and sisters grew up to be alcoholics. I am the black sheep who doesn't drink. Alcoholics are narcissistic, selfish, mean, rude, crude and plain stupid. They think "their" problems allow them to be complete a*****. I...
    sandogpmt sandogpmt 36-40 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My Husband Is A Abusive Alcoholic

    I have been married for almost 15 years.I knew that my husband liked to drink,but I never thought it would get this bad.He drinks to the point where he gets mean.Not only to me,but to my 13 year old son.I had him arrested once for domestic violence and I'm afraid to call the cops...
    az36zeigie az36zeigie 41-45 3 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    My sister and brother are raging alcoholics.

    My parents enable my brother who is nearly 60 and lives with them. He has depression so they are afraid to kick him out..lest he do something awful. They are elderly...80s. He has made their life a living hell. He is rude and abusive emotionally. I hate him. He has called...
    sickofselfcentereddrunks sickofselfcentereddrunks 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 25, 2014

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    So F*Cking Tired Of My Drunk-*** So-Called Wife.

    I have my responsibility to take care of my children, so I can not leave because I would fear for their safty, and it is my house. She is completely useless and impossible to have a inteligent conversation with. And a ZERO sex life. I am so SICK of her SH*T !!!
    steveub40 steveub40 51-55 3 Responses Jan 26, 2013

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    rephrase rephrase 46-50, F Mar 1, 2013

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    Living With An Alcoholic

    I cannot hate a member of my family but I hate the way alcohol has affected him. I was so upset I wrote a song about the whole experience called "Losing it" You can hear it at;  http://openmic.folkalley.com/DaveWMac Please listen and comment. Thank you
    boband boband 56-60, M 1 Response Apr 17, 2010

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    Don't Ask Me For My Pee

     A friend of my fathers got a DUI recently after wrecking into some parked vehicles late at night coming home from a bar. The guy reminds me of Bluto from Popeye and I don't like him very much, however my dad can't get enough of this guy and he's always hanging around...kinda...
    Anonymous2day Anonymous2day 36-40 7 Responses May 11, 2012

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    Can't Believe I Did It Again....

    I picked ANOTHER bad person to date...guhh how am I so good at this?? I seriously need to be on a gameshow called "How to Destroy Your Life." I've been dating my partner for 6 months now, going on 7. I moved in a month ago to help her out since her roommate left. Since I moved...
    brokenheaart brokenheaart 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 4, 2013

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    I grew up with a whole family of alcoholics

    and things got pretty nasty some nights with fights my childhood ducked and I never what my kids to experience the same things I went through :(
    sela1095 sela1095 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    My Story About This Problem

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    JanisMik JanisMik 26-30, M Mar 2, 2010

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    My Story

    My name is Crystal, I am new to this group; and to this site.My Father is an alcoholic. I am 37 now, it had taken me a long time to realize his drinking was not my fault. I don't hate anyone who drinks once in a while. As long as they don't get drunk everyday of their lives. As...
    Crystal3d Crystal3d 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I really have experienced a lot when I was young, my mom and dad never really loved me and always payed a lot of attention to my 10 year old brother. I'm 15 now and my parents...
    AlexCele1234 AlexCele1234 16-17, M 3 Responses Mar 2

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    Besides the obvious reasons why I hate being sick, I also hate how my dad gets when I get sick. Take today for example. I'm sick, so I didn't go to work today, but even when I was...
    AgentSean AgentSean 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    i hate him. He possesses me and is making me do crazy things. now in Jesus name , i command you satan to take your hands of me
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F 6 hrs ago

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    I have a deep mind, my toughts run endlessly through my mind, i see the truth, in every case, i can look into someones eyes and connect, from my perspective, i can tell you, there...
    writingforlife6 writingforlife6 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I abused as a child. I was 7 years old. It wasn't a 'one time' thing. My couisin and his friend touched me, beat me, insulted me. It lasted one and a half year. I couldn't tell...
    michaniel michaniel 16-17, T 2 hrs ago

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    I'm still new in teaching world and I hate that I can't control my own students. Today fellow colleague scolded my students because they make so much noise in front on the hall way...
    quirkysoul quirkysoul 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I hate my self I hate my self I hate my self I hate my self I hate my self I hate my self I hate my self I hate my self I hate my self I hate my self I hate my self I hate my self...
    barbish barbish 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    i hate myself i hate my body, my face,my hair i hate how i walk,how i talk i hate looking into mirror i hate how i cant talk to people like a normal person i hate that i see myself...
    yeniC yeniC 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    I HATE IT I HATE IT I HATE IT I HATE I HATE I HATE I HATE IT I HATE ME! :'( >_< Why can't i just be more fun? :
    DessyLove DessyLove 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 9

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    I keep reminding myself that if you wanted to talk you would. And with that, I understand everything now. I hate how I believed you. I hate how I trusted you. I hate how I...
    soldiergirl2 soldiergirl2 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 14

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    ust dont know how to cope, I have been married for 8years. and my step daughter i hate saying step because i have loved her as my own for years, we have bonded and grown oir own...
    lemonadestreet lemonadestreet 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 17

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    A LESSON TO ALL THE DUMMIES IN THIS GROUP! > I'm assuming the majority of people in this group are racist ignorant low lives and the rest of you people in this group obviously are...
    LostEbonyGirl LostEbonyGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    Some people just want to control others, even those they will never meet.. I've just been hearing how this friend of my mom is so hateful towards religious people and religion in...
    AaronH96 AaronH96 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    I hate it when I'm told, "Don't hate your dad" or "He's still your dad." Does it ******* look like I give a ****?! NO!!! HE'S the one who has hurt me. Why should I give him some...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F Mar 7

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    I come from a traditional chinese family. We don't live in the mainland. I guess I could say that I hate him so much that I want to get married simply to get away. I suppose a...
    Xraycraven Xraycraven 18-21 1 Response Mar 8

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    These days I have been felling so annoyed with a nurse from the early intervention in psychosis for the distress and uncomfort she made me feel . These days I thought about the way...
    Powerlesss Powerlesss 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    Yes, I hate her! I despise her! She is evil! I just found out today that my mil had handpicked a woman for my husband to marry. She said she would have preferred that he had...
    ZolaJam ZolaJam 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't consider myself a hateful person, really, I don't. But when it comes to my mom, well that's a different kind of hate & when I hate, I hate like a burning ember. My mom is...
    ChantyPrime ChantyPrime 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I honestly do. I hate how I look. I hate my stupid fat body that refuses to get thin. I hate my personality, where I'm either a pushover or constantly wanting to punch someone in...
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 3

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