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I Hate Alcoholics

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    My sister and brother are raging alcoholics.

    My parents enable my brother who is nearly 60 and lives with them. He has depression so they are afraid to kick him out..lest he do something awful. They are elderly...80s. He has made their life a living hell. He is rude and abusive emotionally. I hate him. He has called...
    sickofselfcentereddrunks sickofselfcentereddrunks 46-50, F Feb 25

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    I grew up with a whole family of alcoholics

    and things got pretty nasty some nights with fights my childhood ducked and I never what my kids to experience the same things I went through :(
    sela1095 sela1095 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 21

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    Can't Believe I Did It Again....

    I picked ANOTHER bad person to date...guhh how am I so good at this?? I seriously need to be on a gameshow called "How to Destroy Your Life." I've been dating my partner for 6 months now, going on 7. I moved in a month ago to help her out since her roommate left. Since I moved...
    brokenheaart brokenheaart 22-25, F Jan 4, 2013

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    My Story

    My name is Crystal, I am new to this group; and to this site.My Father is an alcoholic. I am 37 now, it had taken me a long time to realize his drinking was not my fault. I don't hate anyone who drinks once in a while. As long as they don't get drunk everyday of their lives. As...
    Crystal3d Crystal3d 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2012

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    I Hate Alcoholics, Like Me

    I hate alcoholics, like me , meaning I hate myself. I am 26, nearly 27 years old and have been an alcoholic for 4 years. I am not about to offer any excuses for this, there is no point, excuses are meaningless.I live with my parents. No one in my family knows about this, they all...
    lisa84uk lisa84uk 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    My Story About This Problem

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    JanisMik JanisMik 26-30, M Mar 2, 2010

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    So F*Cking Tired Of My Drunk-*** So-Called Wife.

    I have my responsibility to take care of my children, so I can not leave because I would fear for their safty, and it is my house. She is completely useless and impossible to have a inteligent conversation with. And a ZERO sex life. I am so SICK of her SH*T !!!
    steveub40 steveub40 51-55 3 Responses Jan 26, 2013

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    I Dated One

    We only dated a few months; but in that time he managed to alienate all my friends, destroy my apartment (not only didn't I get back my security deposit...the damages from his drunken flopping and crashing around came to almost 4 months' rent) and say all kinds of stupid crap...
    StillMeJustDifferent StillMeJustDifferent 31-35 2 Responses May 4, 2012

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    I Went To Visit A Friend

    And he is a raging alcoholic. Two of those giant bottles of wine in a day. Insane. When he is drunk he lies, exaggerates, and basically sounds like the guy in death of a salesman. I mean, I love him as a friend...but this is nuts. He has this super hot, smart and solid wife who...
    FilteringMachine FilteringMachine 31-35, M 6 Responses May 4, 2012

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    Alcoholic Husband

    I cant stand my husband anymore, he drinks all our money,.then when we are broke his friends supply him. He had become abusive physical & emotional. I'm worried about money as he does not work. He wont let us leave him. My kids love him, but i fear this life isn't what i want.
    Wolfpressed Wolfpressed 31-35, F Nov 22, 2012

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    Can't Stand Alcoholics

    i can't stand anything about people that drink especially alcoholics. in my experience these people don't care about anything but themselves. and will not help do anything even if you begged the person to do it. they are disgusting people! but to the ones that are trying to...
    sadeyes7294 sadeyes7294 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 2, 2012

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    Sick Is As Sick Does

    Despite the prompt, "I Hate Alcoholics," I would like to offer a suggestion that may dissolve some of your anger issues. Try Al Alon. It sounds like you are the ones with the problem. If you can't accept responsibility for your own thoughts, feelings, and actions...
    writer423 writer423 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    I Drink Too...but Not Too Much!

    We all like the alcohol sent and the melting in our mouth but the thing is why wast it too much and make a habit or a bad routine!?Beer,vodka,wine,energy drink...anything! In a way it is good for celebration and getting a lil wasted!Alcoholic people should be treated in some...
    GothicFlower GothicFlower 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2011

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    My Aunt Was An Alcoholic

    When I was a teenager my alcoholic aunt moved into my family home. Her drinking and her behaviour when she drank was so dreadful it made my life a misery. I lost my bedroom which I'd just had decorated to my taste, and had to share with my mum. I couldn't have friends around...
    Momamoo Momamoo 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2012

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    Linkage

    Excuses alcoholics make http://www.bma-wellness.com/papers/Excuses_Alcoholics.html
    rephrase rephrase 46-50, F Mar 1, 2013

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    Alcohol Took My Childhood

    my father was an alcoholic as a child I coudnt spent the kind of time normal childs spend with their fathers he never played with me nor help me in studies sometimes he was so much drunk that he used get violent and I had to stop him to beat my mother who is suffering from...
    hatealcohol hatealcohol 16-17, M Jun 25, 2012

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    I Respect Alcholics, I Detest Drunks.

    I have been an alcohol free person for 15 years, before that I was a drunk, like 20% of those who frequent a bar. I resent the use of the term Alcoholic being applied to drunks. I am an alcoholic NOT a drunk so stop calling me names by inferring all alcoholics are drunks...
    artcassidy artcassidy 61-65 3 Responses Apr 14, 2012

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    Living With An Alcoholic

    I cannot hate a member of my family but I hate the way alcohol has affected him. I was so upset I wrote a song about the whole experience called "Losing it" You can hear it at;  http://openmic.folkalley.com/DaveWMac Please listen and comment. Thank you
    boband boband 56-60, M 1 Response Apr 17, 2010

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    My Husband Is A Abusive Alcoholic

    I have been married for almost 15 years.I knew that my husband liked to drink,but I never thought it would get this bad.He drinks to the point where he gets mean.Not only to me,but to my 13 year old son.I had him arrested once for domestic violence and I'm afraid to call the cops...
    az36zeigie az36zeigie 41-45 3 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    I have been married to my alcoholic husband

    for 26 1/2 years. He started drinking heavy about 15 years ago. He has lost two jobs because he went to work drunk, he has driven home drunk which I find so selfish as he could kill someone. I have called the Police on him and they say he is a Professional drunk. He has...
    Sofeckintired Sofeckintired 56-60, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    Don't Ask Me For My Pee

     A friend of my fathers got a DUI recently after wrecking into some parked vehicles late at night coming home from a bar. The guy reminds me of Bluto from Popeye and I don't like him very much, however my dad can't get enough of this guy and he's always hanging around...kinda...
    Anonymous2day Anonymous2day 36-40 7 Responses May 11, 2012

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    It Was Too Late When I Realized

    I was a big time alcoholic when i was 19,even though i was not addicted. I totally took my life for granted. I lost money , friends, respect, my love ...and when i realized it was too late, i saw everything go away right in front of my eyes. and when i am back on track now. I...
    raglin raglin 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 22, 2012

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    Drinkline....

    i do not hate them completely , i have had two partners in my life who have had this problem, i do not understand it as a disease. my current partner(i will call him that to save any confusion) i still love him we are just having another break! i hate that alcoholics harm...
    psychicprayer psychicprayer 36-40 May 16, 2012

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    Sick of Alcoholic Husband

    My husband of 15 years is definitely an alcoholic, he goes to work and when he gets home he has to have a drink everyday.  He will drink between 8 - 15 cans per night and if he has none he goes to his bed by 7pm.  His mood swings are like jeckyl and hyde, and that is...
    loneliness65 loneliness65 41-45, F 20 Responses Jun 28, 2009

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    Being surrounded by alcoholics is the worst thing, because they cannot be mentally, or emotionally present. I have to face this reality in my family. I have learned that...
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    my neighbors are alcoholics . the cops are always their breaking up their fights lmao . so entertaining
    oliviatt oliviatt 16-17, F Nov 23

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    I hate life. I hate myself. I just hate everything! I can't take it anymore!! I'm so sick of feeling so alone and depressed. All the pressure from my family is driving me insane...
    MissWallflower MissWallflower 18-21, F 7 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Woke up today at 1pm because I had stayed up the previous night until 3am talking with one of my best friends. I was feeling well at first, but when I got out of bed and stared at...
    losingNemo losingNemo 13-15, F 57 mins ago

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    I hate it when people raise their voices in anger or frustration. I'm sure that it all dates back to my childhood, because my Dad yelled all the time. I hated it then, and I still...
    DeviantDante DeviantDante 36-40, M 11 hrs ago

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    I hate my grandmom too she yells at everything I say and do she hates my mom too just coz we keep silent .... we dont fight back. now we both have to bear her shouting and...
    abhinavah abhinavah 16-17, M 13 hrs ago

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    I hate this holiday...I have a partner who buys expensive gifts for ungrateful kids who break or lose everything soon after. A gift for the sister-in-law who never buys him...
    sarahstepmom sarahstepmom 36-40, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    My mom is so annoying and she makes me so angry. She's always getting on to me about my weight and she's been doing it a lot for the past few months. I know I'm not hw skinniest...
    uh2behonest uh2behonest 16-17, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Way too many things to hate me!:( Ugly, fat, terribly bad habits, ugly laugh, ugly smile, disgusting hair etc.. UGHH
    imjustmex33 imjustmex33 16-17, F 11 hrs ago

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    I hate life sometimes. I can never find the right bf who will live me. And my foster family can be hard. I just wish being gay wasn't wrong in life......
    Thatrandommmm Thatrandommmm 13-15, M 11 hrs ago

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    It's not that I hate coffee but jesus why every time do I drink it twenty minutes later my stomach is cramping and I have to poop. Blah damn you coffee
    Ownedforaprice Ownedforaprice 22-25, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Hes is such a brat. he cusses at me often calling me a *****. im 15 and he is 4 years younger at me at 11. Hes always so mean. Everytime i say anything to anyone he will say under...
    janiearas janiearas 13-15, F 7 hrs ago

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    Ok guys I need to vent. Since this new movement of Pegida and Neo nazis over here in Germany I really started not to feel comfortable at all. it started to scares me and I can't...
    melodies1984 melodies1984 26-30, F 14 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I hate him, but I miss him more than I can handle.
    pointlessexistance pointlessexistance 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    Christmas is about giving, not receiving, I hate it because it's filled with ungrateful greedy children.. My parents taught me that, that it doesn't matter how expensive it was...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 2 Responses 58 mins ago

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    I hate it when you're really sick and it gets to the point where you cough way to much and it feels like there's something In your lungs :(
    savvy1998 savvy1998 16-17, F 52 mins ago

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    Just to hear your name makes me want to kill the person who mentioned it. That's how i despise and hate you!
    Thiswillbethelast Thiswillbethelast 18-21, F 1 Response 48 mins ago

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    I really don’t like living, I hate my life and I just don’t feel like if I belong in this world. My family thinks I am dumb and that I will never achieve anything in life. I...
    Miserabelle Miserabelle 16-17, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I really don’t like living, I hate my life and I just don’t feel like if I belong in this world. My family thinks I am dumb and that I will never achieve anything in life. I...
    Miserabelle Miserabelle 16-17, F 18 hrs ago

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    I hate being poor... I hate it when I have to save my money for my next week allowance... I hate it when we don't have any television or dvd...I hate it when we have no money to...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    I hate how I'm not like every one I hate how I'm fat I hate how I'm not smart I hate how I don't know what to do I hate how I cut and treat people I hate how I'm not wanted...
    Alonzoisgay Alonzoisgay 13-15, M 3 Responses Dec 3

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    I hate my heart for being stubborn. I hate my mind for keeping our memories alive. I hate my eyes when they see your face. I hate my ears when they hear your name I hate my voice...
    susieibeth susieibeth 18-21, F Dec 10

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