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I Hate Alcoholics

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    Sick Is As Sick Does

    Despite the prompt, "I Hate Alcoholics," I would like to offer a suggestion that may dissolve some of your anger issues. Try Al Alon. It sounds like you are the ones with the problem. If you can't accept responsibility for your own thoughts, feelings, and actions...
    writer423 writer423 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    My Story About This Problem

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    JanisMik JanisMik 26-30, M Mar 2, 2010

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    I Drink Too...but Not Too Much!

    We all like the alcohol sent and the melting in our mouth but the thing is why wast it too much and make a habit or a bad routine!?Beer,vodka,wine,energy drink...anything! In a way it is good for celebration and getting a lil wasted!Alcoholic people should be treated in some...
    GothicFlower GothicFlower 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2011

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    Can't Stand Alcoholics

    i can't stand anything about people that drink especially alcoholics. in my experience these people don't care about anything but themselves. and will not help do anything even if you begged the person to do it. they are disgusting people! but to the ones that are trying to...
    sadeyes7294 sadeyes7294 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 2, 2012

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    Drinkline....

    i do not hate them completely , i have had two partners in my life who have had this problem, i do not understand it as a disease. my current partner(i will call him that to save any confusion) i still love him we are just having another break! i hate that alcoholics harm...
    psychicprayer psychicprayer 36-40 May 16, 2012

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    I grew up with a whole family of alcoholics

    and things got pretty nasty some nights with fights my childhood ducked and I never what my kids to experience the same things I went through :(
    sela1095 sela1095 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    I Respect Alcholics, I Detest Drunks.

    I have been an alcohol free person for 15 years, before that I was a drunk, like 20% of those who frequent a bar. I resent the use of the term Alcoholic being applied to drunks. I am an alcoholic NOT a drunk so stop calling me names by inferring all alcoholics are drunks...
    artcassidy artcassidy 61-65 3 Responses Apr 14, 2012

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    Alcoholic Husband

    I cant stand my husband anymore, he drinks all our money,.then when we are broke his friends supply him. He had become abusive physical & emotional. I'm worried about money as he does not work. He wont let us leave him. My kids love him, but i fear this life isn't what i want.
    Wolfpressed Wolfpressed 31-35, F Nov 22, 2012

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    I Hate Alcoholics, Like Me

    I hate alcoholics, like me , meaning I hate myself. I am 26, nearly 27 years old and have been an alcoholic for 4 years. I am not about to offer any excuses for this, there is no point, excuses are meaningless.I live with my parents. No one in my family knows about this, they all...
    lisa84uk lisa84uk 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    Can't Believe I Did It Again....

    I picked ANOTHER bad person to date...guhh how am I so good at this?? I seriously need to be on a gameshow called "How to Destroy Your Life." I've been dating my partner for 6 months now, going on 7. I moved in a month ago to help her out since her roommate left. Since I moved...
    brokenheaart brokenheaart 22-25, F Jan 4, 2013

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    Living With An Alcoholic

    I cannot hate a member of my family but I hate the way alcohol has affected him. I was so upset I wrote a song about the whole experience called "Losing it" You can hear it at;  http://openmic.folkalley.com/DaveWMac Please listen and comment. Thank you
    boband boband 56-60, M 1 Response Apr 17, 2010

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    I have been married to my alcoholic husband

    for 26 1/2 years. He started drinking heavy about 15 years ago. He has lost two jobs because he went to work drunk, he has driven home drunk which I find so selfish as he could kill someone. I have called the Police on him and they say he is a Professional drunk. He has...
    Sofeckintired Sofeckintired 56-60, F 1 Response Jan 19, 2014

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    It Was Too Late When I Realized

    I was a big time alcoholic when i was 19,even though i was not addicted. I totally took my life for granted. I lost money , friends, respect, my love ...and when i realized it was too late, i saw everything go away right in front of my eyes. and when i am back on track now. I...
    raglin raglin 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 22, 2012

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    Don't Ask Me For My Pee

     A friend of my fathers got a DUI recently after wrecking into some parked vehicles late at night coming home from a bar. The guy reminds me of Bluto from Popeye and I don't like him very much, however my dad can't get enough of this guy and he's always hanging around...kinda...
    Anonymous2day Anonymous2day 36-40 7 Responses May 11, 2012

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    I Went To Visit A Friend

    And he is a raging alcoholic. Two of those giant bottles of wine in a day. Insane. When he is drunk he lies, exaggerates, and basically sounds like the guy in death of a salesman. I mean, I love him as a friend...but this is nuts. He has this super hot, smart and solid wife who...
    FilteringMachine FilteringMachine 31-35, M 6 Responses May 4, 2012

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    Sick of Alcoholic Husband

    My husband of 15 years is definitely an alcoholic, he goes to work and when he gets home he has to have a drink everyday.  He will drink between 8 - 15 cans per night and if he has none he goes to his bed by 7pm.  His mood swings are like jeckyl and hyde, and that is...
    loneliness65 loneliness65 41-45, F 20 Responses Jun 28, 2009

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    My Husband Is A Abusive Alcoholic

    I have been married for almost 15 years.I knew that my husband liked to drink,but I never thought it would get this bad.He drinks to the point where he gets mean.Not only to me,but to my 13 year old son.I had him arrested once for domestic violence and I'm afraid to call the cops...
    az36zeigie az36zeigie 41-45 3 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    I Dated One

    We only dated a few months; but in that time he managed to alienate all my friends, destroy my apartment (not only didn't I get back my security deposit...the damages from his drunken flopping and crashing around came to almost 4 months' rent) and say all kinds of stupid crap...
    StillMeJustDifferent StillMeJustDifferent 31-35 2 Responses May 4, 2012

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    My sister and brother are raging alcoholics.

    My parents enable my brother who is nearly 60 and lives with them. He has depression so they are afraid to kick him out..lest he do something awful. They are elderly...80s. He has made their life a living hell. He is rude and abusive emotionally. I hate him. He has called...
    sickofselfcentereddrunks sickofselfcentereddrunks 46-50, F Feb 25, 2014

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    My Aunt Was An Alcoholic

    When I was a teenager my alcoholic aunt moved into my family home. Her drinking and her behaviour when she drank was so dreadful it made my life a misery. I lost my bedroom which I'd just had decorated to my taste, and had to share with my mum. I couldn't have friends around...
    Momamoo Momamoo 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2012

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    Linkage

    Excuses alcoholics make http://www.bma-wellness.com/papers/Excuses_Alcoholics.html
    rephrase rephrase 46-50, F Mar 1, 2013

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    So F*Cking Tired Of My Drunk-*** So-Called Wife.

    I have my responsibility to take care of my children, so I can not leave because I would fear for their safty, and it is my house. She is completely useless and impossible to have a inteligent conversation with. And a ZERO sex life. I am so SICK of her SH*T !!!
    steveub40 steveub40 51-55 3 Responses Jan 26, 2013

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    Alcohol Took My Childhood

    my father was an alcoholic as a child I coudnt spent the kind of time normal childs spend with their fathers he never played with me nor help me in studies sometimes he was so much drunk that he used get violent and I had to stop him to beat my mother who is suffering from...
    hatealcohol hatealcohol 16-17, M Jun 25, 2012

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    My Story

    My name is Crystal, I am new to this group; and to this site.My Father is an alcoholic. I am 37 now, it had taken me a long time to realize his drinking was not my fault. I don't hate anyone who drinks once in a while. As long as they don't get drunk everyday of their lives. As...
    Crystal3d Crystal3d 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2012

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    Haters gonna hate hate hate Players gonna play play play Shake it off
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    raraggl raraggl 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    sace1375 sace1375 36-40, M Jan 19

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